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170,599 Perhaps life offers only the choice of remembering the garden, or forgetting it, either/or. It takes strength to remember. It takes another kind of strength to forget. It takes a hero to do both. People who remember court madness, through the pain of the perpetually recurring death of their innocence. People who forget court another kind of madness, and the world is mostly divided between madmen who remember, and madmen who forget. -From "Another Country" by James Baldwin.



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170,598 My mom used to say that religion is greater than the people who practice it. We are all humans first. Humans with our needs, desires, hurts, etc. I keep forgetting that. I am expecting empathy from human men, for a problem that is common among human women. We are all humans
I should never have expected much from human kind



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170,597 We've become a world that's constantly butthurt and "politically correct" and that bashes the normal man to protect the freaks. Transexuals,all kind of dimwits playing on the racial card. Liberals that love to lick people's buttholes because they "love" everybody,everyone and everything lacking standards and principles is liberal. People being more and more against marriage and destroying it just because it is easier to be single and have all the sex with all kind of different people instead of fighting for what You love. This world is fucked,and Christians are the biggest hypocrites in general. It would be a lovely day when Islam destroys Christianity. At least they have real values ; they would die for what they believe in. What do Christians,atheists,most of the people that believe in the other popular beliefs do? Just preach,sit on their ass,and do nothing.



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170,596 I just spent 600 bucks over 4 hrs between 2 stores. I mostly bought cap I don't need. If I had a husband, none of this shit would be in my house, in our house.  I shop because I'm incredibly isolated, and it's a problem that I feel I need all 150 of my belts more Than I need someone to love me.  But whose problem is it, really? Idgaf,  I'd rather have a shopping addiction than some dickwad keeping tabs on me. I haven't met a man yet who is more appealing to me than that sweet ass handbag I picked up yesterday. Fuck it, I'm going to go put my new stuff away now and get lit, then masturbate until I fall asleep until god knows when. 30/f



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170,595 I haven't gotten that drunk in a while.  I've never been that drunk with people who are really my friends, who I want to share my secrets with.  Looking back, I can't figure out how I feel about it.  I want to share these things with them, I want them to know me, know things about me, my past, and I'd like to know about them too.  Maybe it was more of a step than I would've taken sober, but now I'm not sure how to feel.

Did I share too much?  Did I just embarrass myself?  Was I sharing more than them?  No, I know I was...I want to tell them everything and see what happens, but sober or not I'm afraid I'll just be disappointed again...



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170,594 I'm broke. I'm told I'm good looking. I have no boyfriend. This is the life of a grad student.

As of a few weeks ago my hot water stopped working. Each morning I put a pot of hot water on the stove. I put an inch of cold water in the tub and mix it with the pot of hot water. I sit in the tub and scrub myself best I can. Washing my hair is not fun.

I wish there was a sexual barter system available. Assuming there exists a pleasant plumber and not some homicidal maniac, I'd consider making a trade. If he fixes my hot water, I'd have sexual intercourse with him. I'd even be open to the suggestion that the plumbing work would normally cost $300 or whatever, and sex is only worth $100, so I have to do it with him three times. Okay by me.

I'm serious. I'm not even sad about it. I want my hot water back. For this I'd be willing to let a man ejaculate in my pussy. Not a problem.



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170,593 I am a survivor of multiple sexual assaults and abuse growing up and in my adulthood. Its been a long road to claim control over my body and feelings. I recently joined a group and was about to undergo something triggering when I panicked and asked for a friend to be there to help me through the process. The answer was no. I was also asked was I drunk when I was having a conversation.
I was actually just so emotionally overwhelmed and tongue tied as to how to broach the topic at night before I sleep. Sex usually ends in crying and I still have nightmares on occasion. Its not easy to talk about, especially with a guy. I kept apologizing, but it just made things worse.
So I was told to basically give up all the things I liked and to wait until I build trust with people I only see once  month. I was told to come to meetings.
The thing is, I know there will be speculation and "gossip" about why I didn't go forward. I can't bear to look into the eyes of people I hardly know and see/feel their assessing wonder
It will feel so humiliating and off putting. All I want to do is hide in shame. I couldn't make myself go back if I tried.
Its 220 in the morning. Of course I can't sleep or cry to anyone, so I am posting it right here to get all my despair off my chest, so that I can face another day at work. I don't even have the hours to call in sick, ugh. I don't know how I am making it through tomorrow



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170,592 My experience as of late teaches me that
game played with empathy, safety, and a level of respect can be so much fun
I'm a free agent after all
And the perks aren't bad either

Nothing like some being seduced with travel to help get me over this heartbreak



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170,591 On most nights when my husband and I are going to bed, he kisses me goodnight on the lips. Then he pulls down my pajama bottoms enough to kiss my clitoris goodnight too. :)



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170,590 I was so horny at work I masturbated in the bathroom and came all over the toilet



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170,589 A certain kind of death is the documentary that follows coronores around. So man people die alone. I watched it.. Not a good doc to watch when Your already lonely :( man. Imagine the loneliness they must have felt thru out life. Imagine dying and literally no one looks for you. The county erases you like you never existed.



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170,588 Im addicted to multiple women



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170,587 i don't want to lose you, i am sorry i judged you, i am sorry i let my wall break before you, i am sorry you won't let me know you, i am sorry i hurt you.....you are the only person that makes me smile when i wake up and go to sleep... don't let go



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170,586 I just saw some recent pictures your family posted of you. Ackk. No wonder you cling desperately to your younger ragged alcoholic boyfriend. You should feel lucky that anyone pays attention to you. When the first relationship with an alcoholic ends in divorce it's always best to scrape the barrel and pick out another one.



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170,585 I cannot accept the possibility that it will end for us.



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170,584 i just had an all-consuming full body orgasm thinking about the alternate reality where we make love for the first time after our 5th or 6th month of dating. we are so in love.

and now i have to write you a return letter declining graciously your invite to our first date.

with love,
flannery o'connor



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170,583 170581, if you think that is sad, go to hart island.net and look at some of the thousands of people who die and nobody claimed their bodies.  They are buried on Hart Island, potters field for New York City.  Some have stories, others remain anonymous for many many years.  There are many more of the alone than we realize.......



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170,582 I can never understand why a woman would want to be tied up or handcuffed. you have to have an amazing amount of trust to let someone do that to you. what if they just leave you? what if they die and you're stuck that way? what if they really hurt you? I don't care how much I love or trust my partner I would never let them do that to me. ever.



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170,581 I watched an HBO documentary once many years ago. The topic was what happens to people when they die alone. It was completely sad. They followed police to places where people were suspected to be dead. In most cases it was a single white male, lying in bed, keeled over on the floor, dead for days, weeks, months even. They tried to find next of kin for these fellows and there was none. One guy had a sister on the other side of the country, she said, oh well, hadn't talked to him in over 30 years. And that was that. They actually found one guy sitting in a chair facing the TV, the TV was still on and he had died jerking off. He was already very badly decomposed. He had been there for months. I'll NEVER get that image out of my head. They cremated all of the bodies and put them each into what looked like a large sardine can. If no one claimed them after a certain amount of time, they took the little cans and dug a hole in a graveyard, then they dumped all of the ashes together in an unmarked spot. That, to me seemed to be the worst ending ever. You're gone, no one to say good bye. You've cancelled every relationship and you're left to die alone. Sad.



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170,579 I personally think Happy Single Guy is not happy at all. Why brag? Why flaunt your conquests? Sounds like a very shallow unfulfilled life to me. Are you seeking acceptance of your life from anonymous internet people? Get a dog if you want acceptance.



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170,578 She took the nicest, most compassionate, most intelligent, best looking guy that she will ever get, and turned him in to a monster. I wonder if she is working some of the same halloween magic on that angry, shiftless galoot of a boyfriend. Things could get nasty.



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170,577 Me, lying naked and tied up on the floor while 6 men stand around rubbing their feet all over me, fucking me with their toes...

If only.



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170,576 Ever hear of the 100th monkey effect?  The more people who are aware of breast cancer, the more people will end up getting it so that big pharma can keep on rakin in the $$
People are so gullible.  Been obvious to me for years that somebody outs there likes to see us as f o o d (energy)
If ya catch my drift.



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170,575 Men get breast cancer too.



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170,574 I  have always had small breasts, and hated them. Barely able to fit an a cup. They're so tiny they cant even be considered breasts. I recently switched birth control brands, and my boobs got bigger. In now a 34 B. And I hate them! I want my mosquito bites back!,



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170,573 there are so many things wrong with that viewpoint that I can't even count them. I could write an essay. good god.



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170,572 No! Stop it! I see a trend where some high school football teams are wearing pink uniforms to support breast cancer awareness. That's crazy! Mothers, stop forcing your sons to participate. Breast cancer has nothing to do with these young men. Keep your breasts off our football fields!



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170,571 I have a strange habit.  I like numbers and statistics.  I also like masturbating.  So I combine the two.  When I post on Facebook, I count how many "likes" the post gets from women I've jerked off to over the last 30 years.  Interestingly, it's a pretty consistent 1.2 women for every 10 likes on a post.  If I get 30 likes, there'll be 3 to 4 women who liked the post who've I jerked off to.  I went through the monthly birthday list, and although there's a pretty wide range, there's on average 6.5 women I've jerked off to who have birthdays each month.  But here's what's really interesting - women I've beat the meat to are 47% more likely to "like" a Facebook post than everybody else!  47%!  That's 3 full standards deviations from the norm!  It suggests that the women I jerk off to are much more interested in me than everybody else.



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170,570 i let a strange guy jerk me off on a commuter train. i dont know how he took the risk or why i allowed it to happen. i was reading my paper and then i felt his hand  on my leg. I let it stay there. then it moved to my cock. i used the paper to disguise what  was happening. i acted like i didnt know i didnt look at him. my cock was raging hard. he worked the head out slowly. iwas embarrassed and confused but let it go on. i could tell it was leaking a great deal of precum. he wasnt violent or really active about it. he just massaged the head with his fingers and thumbs. it only took a few minutes, maybe seconds. i erupted all over myself. he kept going til i was fully done. it was really satisfying. he sighed. i never looked at him. i wouldnt know who it was if he walked in front  of mme today. i just pretended to read the paper. i could nevver tell my wife about this.



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170,569 When I first met my wife I had $X in the bank. We got married. I worked hard. She kept spending lots of money on an upscale lifestyle. I hated her for it. I divorced her. We split everything. I ended up with $X. It's like the marriage never happened. Except that my hair turned gray.



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170,568 My Dad used to say the funniest things. Oh how he'd make us laugh!

"Potato is an onomatopoeia.  No really, think about it... POOO - TAAAA - TOOO"

I miss him.



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170,567 I'm always apologizing for something. Either I:

1) Do many things wrong.

2) Do very little wrong but have low self esteem.

3) Am surrounded by people who like to blame all their errors on me. Why? Because I have low self esteem.

By majority vote, I have low self esteem.



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170,566 Heartbreaking and hustling...
I just wanted real love all along
But hells...
The most elusive score ever~
That sure didn't pan out...

Wanted to go straight
But all points in another direction

I shall definitely have more to say on the matter soon
Or nothing at all
And I say I'm not a gambler....



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170,565 His newest slut took a selfie on the toilet. Classy!



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170,564 A secret I wish I didn't know:

Rabbits never make any vocal noises.... unless you run them over with the lawnmower.



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170,563 I'm bored, lonely & depressed...

"Where are my friends when I need you most..."

Every day just a cold ride to Death.

Such joy. (Not).



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170,562 It's funny and sad that the vast majority of Americans think that their political party will fix or change anything. Like if only the other side would stop trying to mess with their agenda.  There is only one party.  The green party.  They are two sides of the same shit-stinking coin. They all work together, they all do the same dirty shit and none of them give half a flying fuck about you, yet you keep voting them in, year after year after year.  Dumbasses.



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170,561 I believe that reliance on one's astrological profile is like an "inshallah" for Western society.  Both excuse some degree of abdication from responsibility for one's life based on an assumption of predetermination by forces beyond one's control.



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170,560 Happy Married Girl

Its amazing to know someone deeply over time, to watch them grow older and wiser, to know another person better than anyone else, to lean into them and have them lean into you. We have been at each other's sides when loved ones have died, when we have fallen very ill, through unemployment, and uncertainty. Those of course do not compare to the loads of adventures, laughter, wine, hot sex with someone who always knows *your* buttons, silent walks and hands gently holding. We deepen with and because of one another. This deep knowledge of entwining beings is a miraculous gift,but of course it takes work.

One day I will either say goodbye to him, or he will to me. I am so deeply, so happily married and I make sure to let him now how very much I appreciate the gift of him, everyday.

Get Married with the right person, love deeply, wholly, and fully!!!

Happy Married Gal



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170,559 My boyfriend's family is crazy. Like, there is something wrong with BOTH sides of his family.
I don't know how I am going to manage this when we are married in the far far future.



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170,558 Pot or kettle?



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170,556 I am an occultist. I used to do loves spells over and over, I'd always make poppets for my spells and they would always look the same. They would also contain a specific list of qualities: must have a grad degree, be sensitive, be into new agey things, preferably in the same profession, be around my age, able to swim, have cancer prominently in their chart etc. Years went by and none of my spells ever seemed to work....

Then one day, years after giving up, and resigning myself to cat lady, into my life comes : "Mr. List". Its spooky how his looks profession, interests and everything fit my checklist to a T.
The problems: it doesn't work, he has all sorts of food/health issues and well he is a horrible slob. So of course I  repulsed.

What is the universe telling me? The goddess must be laughing



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170,555 I don't get why some people are so poor. Some of them choose it, I swear. If you don't have the money for something stupid, DON'T BUY IT. DUH.



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170,554 My spouse ignores me a lot. I'll say something and he won't even look at me or acknowledge I spoke. It feels like what I say doesn't matter and I'm not worthy of his time. It hurts deeply and has had such a negative influence on my self esteem. I've talked about it with him time & time again, but it never amounts to anything.  This is going to ruin us.



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170,553 My significant other is a workaholic. I know he is not cheating, I know he is actually at the office when he says he is, but I secretly wonder if he stays late because he doesn't want to have to spend time with me.



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170,552 My dad cheated on my mom. I don't know how to tell her.



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170,551 Very active in politics.  Write extensively, hold party office.

My Secret?
In my heart, I know it is too late.  We've destroyed the republic that the Founders created.  Lois Lerner and Huma don't get prosecuted by the DOJ?  Career bureaucrats can never be fired and protect their political cronies.  Hillary can do far worse than Scooter Libby ever did and laugh all her way to the nomination.  How can there be sanctuary cities?  How the EEOC decide that Muslim truck drivers can sue for discrimination if they won't haul alcohol but a woman is vilified by the nation for not signing gay marriage certificates?

The government is now so powerful and so invasive that we can't escape it.

I keep sign waving and organizing votes but in my heart, I think we are rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic.  Tyranny is here.



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170,550 Happy single guy here:
my secret is I am very addicted to women and sex. I met the semi hot older realtor at a festival yesterday.. I called her last night . She was nice and drunk and I met her at her condo. we had some amazing sex.
14th floor high rise condo. she has some money will be interesting!



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170,549 I sleep till noon



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170,548 That was really difficult. I wonder if it gets better? I felt you before I saw you, and my skin tingled with want. I'm glad our eyes didn't meet; I would've come undone. It's strange how much it hurts. Still. Always.



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170,547 My secret is I've been having a hard time in life and about six months ago, I started going to therapy & now I attend a support group regarding anxiety and depression. I was so afraid to tell everybody...I kept it a secret for a while.

but last month, I decided to be open about it. I told my S.O., friends, and family and I was expecting people to be judge-y and mean or think I"m crazy, but they were all so supportive and happy for me to be taking care of myself.

Pleasantly surprised about the people in my life.



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170,546 I should go to the library & do homework right now...but ugh.



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170,545 I love cartoons and I'm 25.



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170,544 One of my roommates is so fucking lazy, it really irritates me. Whatever, he pays the bills and isn't a serial killer....so not so bad.



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170,543 Whenever they show things about the J.F.K assassination, everybody seems so heartbroken. It seemed like the entire country truly mourned the loss of their president. Is this true? Were there people who were actually happy?


I wonder this b/c I feel like if Obama was assassinated, tons of nut jobs on-line who would say things like "PRAISE JESUS" blahblahblahblah...

did people have more respect back then? Were there less conspiracy nut jobs then thinking the whole world was out to personally prosecute them? Or were they people back in the JFK days constantly complaining about him? Were they people going "THANKS KENNEDY" after everything? There was just no internet to document such things. hmm.. i wonder.



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170,541 Sniffing and eating my mother in law's cunt stain panties



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170,540 Why does Facebook show me when my friends like random people's statuses/pictures? It is kinda creepy.

side note- what is plural for status? statuses? status'? idk



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170,539 I find people who quote themselves bother me a lot. Remember when on Facebook people would have a section for their favorite quotes?? And some people would have things like "Wisdom is infinite, looks are temporary" -ME or something weird like that. not sure why but it always pissed me off.



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170,538 Somebody once told me "video games are just as good as sex"

i laughed & have always felt sorry for this person since...

must be having some pretty lame sex....



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170,537 Bourbon is very good.



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170,536 I wish I had someone who loved me for who I truly am and who I loved just as deeply.



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170,535 I am not just a toy that you can play with and then throw away.



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170,534 I hate that I still miss you even though it seems like you don't even think about me anymore. It sucks that you gave hope to me then just crush it. I guess I should've expected that. I'm such a fool. Don't treat me like that if I don't mean anything to you!!!



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170,533 Takes many many many years to come back from a go round with a psychopath.  Some never fully trust the world again.

I am one of those.

If he was laying in the street writhing in pain I would figure he was just faking it to get attention.
I would laugh and step over him while shouting

"this man just tried to steal my purse and I kung fu'd his sorry ass"

Expose them.  It is their biggest fear.

They do not change.  They do not care if they live or die.
This makes them the most dangerous humans on earth.

And that creepy smile  

Forgive yourself for being good natured for you are their only source of food.  It was not your fault.  

Justice is only served by you moving on and being gloriously over the effing top happy without them.



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170,532 Some men just need to learn when to call, bet, or GTFO
Maybe y'all can learn when you meet your match?

I hope so
Because your dime store hustlin bores me "playa"
Thinking your cock and attention are such a score
Yawn.

Guess you can't see through that arrogance of yours...
I go for whales, not lil fishies like yourself
Hearts and diamonds, baby



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170,531 I fall asleep listening to you guys every night. It feels like we are an understanding family...that isn't fucked up and in it to hurt each other. We got this. Am I right family? Stay strong and goodnight. I love all of you.
-Lifeless



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170,530 If there was a way:

He would be tortured for months and months. He would scream for the people who helped him but are nowhere to be found now. Then, he would see me as he died, I would make sure he knew who was doing it

I have never felt a void this encompassing, it consumes me and I am not whole without what he took away from me.



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170,529 She was so beautiful.  Stunning.  She said she was 44 and her and her friend were at my bar on Friday so I started talking to her and flirting with her.  She was as open and honest with me as any person I have ever met.  I asked her what it was like to be so stunning.  I asked her questions you would never ask someone you just met.

I was drunk.  I would have talked to her anyway and asked the same questions anyway, but I was drunk so maybe she is chalking it up to that.  I remember absolutely everything about last night.  I so much want to see you again but I am not going to put it in missed connections.  

If she sees this and knows it is her I am writing about, then I want you to show up this coming Friday.  Find me at the bar and I promise I will not be drunk.  When you come say hi to me I want you to use a word right away, 'serendipity.'  If you say that I will know you read the Cave, it truly will be serendipitous, and I will know that you would spend some time with me.

We can help each other make it through winter and we will both be so much happier for it.  I have been with beautiful women before...even though I am average, and like last Friday I will make you laugh and make you happy, at least for a while.

T.C.



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170,528 Happy Single Guy's posts could be anywhere on the spectrum between reality and fantasy, but there is no doubt that he enunciates a wise principle of dealing with women in a social climate of female entitlement.



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170,527 The only time I ever turn off my Skype is when I'm masturbating and I don't want to be interrupted.



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170,526 I dont want him when he is single. But as soon as he starts seeing someone, I want him.  I hate this!



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170,522 Here is something that seems to be a huge secret to many people.  It concerns public restroom etiquette:
1.  If there s a row of stalls and all but one are empty, for the love of God don't take the one right next to the occupied one.  That is rude.
2.  For the love of all that is holy, please flush the toilet immediately after pooping.  It helps lessen the rapidly spreading stink!  To not do so is rude and it ignorant.
3.  Please please please make sure everything gets flushed.  Flush as much as you must, but doing this wrong makes you rude, ignorant, and nasty.
4.  If you put any hygiene products in the little disposal bin, WRAP IT UP in toilet paper first.  Ladies, I am talking to you.
5.  Wash your hands every time.  To not do this is gross, rude and just plain wrong.  
The big secret?  those of you who don't practice decent bathroom etiquette, the rest of us know who you are and we want to kick you.  



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170,521 The best sex of my life happened after I turned 50.  With a younger man.  If you take care of yourself you can be just as beautiful inside and out no matter what age.



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170,520 #tay
I noticed on your other halves FB that your "kid" is at blackbelt testing. I am so excited for you, I wish much luck, success and love. I would do almost anything to have the ability to talk with you about it.
To just talk with you about anything, just to hear about your day, how your other "kid" is doing, the flipping weather. it will be 3 weeks next week since we last "texted" we didn't even have the opportunity to talk. We texted "goodbye".
Why babe, WHY did this have to happen to us???
Do you still think about me? Do you still dream about us being together? For all I know, you don't visit this site anymore...I wish I knew for certain, would you please give me a sign???



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170,519 i fucked a 63 year old lady the other day... still in good shape, great rack etc. im 42. my mother is in her 60's..... that didnt stop me.... she told me she hasnt had sex in 15 years...it was AWESOME. I cant wait to bang her out again.  the hell with the 20 somethings. they love drama and dont have the skills of older women. fellas, go find a hot 50+... thank me later



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170,518 Speaking of ugly vaginas, he told me that yours was stinky. He attributed that to your old age.



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170,517 Happy single guy here:
I woke up to the dental hygienist texting that she wants to see me but the big boobed Filipino hottie wants to see me tonight!! She said she's going to dress as Catwoman.
men...stay single!! keep them on their best behavior



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170,516 Happy birthday, mattoose. I won't ever tell you, but I always think of you today.



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170,515 My secret is that I am still thinking of killing myself if it doesn't work out. I am afraid to tell you.



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170,514 Great to hear from 36/F.... Off heroin and having amazing sex again. Life is good without the drugs.



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170,513 I haven't called you in nearly 1 month. No text, no call, no offers of beer and food, or movies and a night out.
I am mirroring your actions. I knew when I left in tears over your callous behavior that you'd never call me. I saved that 92$ receipt for the food and the 27$ receipt for the nightcaps. Its They are taped to my bedroom mirror.
They are a reminder that I lose when I am with you. They are what keeps me from ever contacting you again.
You can keep, all the love, care, gifts, time and money I spent on you, because you will get nothing more. Sit back and watch me be as cold as you.



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170,512 170503...I am a guy, thank God there are more people like me out there. I love my alone time, I dumped most of my exes for always  wanting to be with me & calling me several times during the day...urg! Was lucky enough to finally meet a woman 3 years ago, who is like me, things have been great.
Otherwise, I would rather be single than have somebody question  me constantly  about my where abouts, & smother me, I will run.
We are out here, be patient  you will meet him, you gotta let them know,how you are from the jump.
Glad to know there are other solitary  people  like me, out there....
Good luck :)



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170,511 As a guy I think it's really easy to think I have no value because having a penis is seen as disgusting and unwanted.



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170,510 But did you get any
Happy Single Guy?

I always do
One way way or another

F/?



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170,509 Happy single guy here:
had a pretty good night. met up for a little bit with the tall curvy dental hygienist. we made out a little more by her truck... this time she grabbed my cock, then I went on to see my friend's band play.... just nasty white trash girls smoking their cigarettes.
I did manage to have a married woman tell me to stay single because marriage sucks! haha... I said I already knew that!!!



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170,508 I lost my EBT card today and I can't get  a new one until Monday. I don't know what to do... I have no food or money so I guess I will just have to be hungry until Monday. I have no family or friends  so I'm on my own. Life sucks.



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170,507 That awkward moment when your bosses start joking about slave labor in Thailand and you're the only non-white person in the office. Ugh @ white privilege.



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170,506 I have a headache. It's probably a tumor.



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170,505 I was at a movie theater once with my friend.  I have a crazy, demanding job and as we were in the lobby buying tickets my boss started to send urgent emails.  I answered all I could and then put my phone in my purse on silent during the movie.  

During the movie my purse lit up as my phone rang (it was on silent, I only saw the light).  I noticed it was my boss.  She was sending me urgent texts and I tried to discreetly respond (took me less than 30 seconds).  A half hour later I did the same thing, just looked at my phone and answered the text.  There was no sound and I shielded the screen as much as I could with my free hand as I replied.

Suddenly a heavy hand was on my shoulder and a man's nasty breath in my ear.  "If you don't turn that off RIGHT NOW I am going to report you to the movie theater and have you REMOVED immediately. I will make a huge scene, you better trust me."

He said it with such intense anger.  It was so frightening, I was in complete shock.

I am not a shy person at all.  Normally I would have stood up for myself and completely put this person in his place -- but I was so caught off guard.  Couldn't you start with a simple "Excuse me, that light is distracting, do you mind not doing that?"

I can understand if you had already asked me once or twice and I didn't stop - but it was the first interaction.

When the lights came on after the movie I tried to get a look at him but he was clearly a coward afraid of confrontation and literally jogged out of the theater cutting people off as he went.

This sticks with me to this day.  It really, really bothers me about how aggressive and mean he was.  I had an urgent work matter and this was a stupid 8 dollar movie.  I understand that you shouldn't use your phone in a movie theater and I felt badly - but that response was so out of line.  I can't get over it for some reason!!  I want to find this guy!



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170,504 I'm so glad that after 15 yrs of being together 13 of them married, that me and my hubby can still have mind blowing, multiple orgasm sex with each other. And what makes it even better now is that I'm clean now off of heroin and super horny all the time. I didn't realize that heroin was suppressing my sexual urges. Oh well, learn something new everyday. Lol

36/F



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170,503 When I find a guy who actually likes his alone time as much as I do then the planets will align and maybe I won't be so single anymore.
Dating has shown me so many different sides to the opposite sex, most of them great but they all seem to have one thing in common.  They want me all to themselves.  Too many phone calls each day give me anxiety.  The minute they ask where I was when I didn't call them back within 1 minute I know it's time to gently tell them something weird like "I think need to go back to rehab" or "my ex and I are getting back together".  Something which puts me in a less attractive light.
Nothing worse than being stalked.  So ya gotta do what ya gotta do.



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170,501 I point out corruption and no one cares.



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170,500 170486: You may have something to really be thankful for!



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