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172,599 Sometimes I wonder if I need aderall because I can't seem to do what other people do, but I think I'm comparing myself to my high achieving family. I feel lonely and depressed and I don't think fixating on how I feel is going to help me. I decided that with all the loneliness ( turning into solitude), I am just going to do what I want. It is hard and weird. I am strange. I do feel lonely and thats because I don't think anyone really accepts me or sees me. People can love you but they will either smother you or you will not be a priority in their life. It is with my own self that I am the right kind of priority and sadly no one else seems to do it better ( kind of right on point, ironically). How to love someone else and be loved when you know you love yourself the best? It is hard letting go of this. I don't know when I decided that only one person could love me ( me) maybe its because I love others more than I love me, so I fear the love I feel for others, because it takes me away from me. This is really not fun for me. Crushes, romances--all fun stuff for other people--scare the shit out of me. I am so protective of myself..esp when meeting someone is super exciting. When I meet someone exciting, I usually am able to turn it off as I go home and divulge into my autonomy, but sometimes I don't...and then I feel this sickening feeling..like..they have taken a chunk of me with them and I want it back desperately. However, today I have decided that it is not that the person has a chunk of me, but that the person is reminding me of something I like..and to get down with that, in detail...in writing and just divulge in my autonomy with writing and disappear and never need anyone again =) I know that sounds so sad, but what is a girl to do? What is a girl to do who's heart has been broken over and over again, except to assume responsibility for herself? and for this, it is too hard to love.



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172,598 I miss you in a strange way
That illusion of closure and what not

But you are the one who did me wrong
And I done found you out
In a most rudest way

it feels good to walk away like a boss
And at least I understand the concept of subtlety

You quite corny in retrospect.

Timeline on getting your last remnants out my house...
And it's up to you to contact me
I'd be happy to repurpose these items
And realign their energy



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172,597 I had the best possible situation at work back in the late 80s. I was working in Manhattan. We had a small office with just 4 people, one of them was a smoking hot data entry girl, Kim from Staten Island. She was in some on and off again relationship since high school with some mama's boy. At the time she was in her mid twenties, incredible legs and big tits. Most days we would head down to the bar in the lobby of the office building at 2 and pound down 2 or 3 drinks and then head back to finish the day.

The two others in our office was a part time lady who left at 3 and the boss who usually either left by 4 or 430. Kim would go to the restroom and take off her bra and panties as soon as we got back from the bar. She would walk around the office with her tits swaying like crazy and slide up her dress to flash me her pussy while the others were preoccupied and grab my dick thru my suitpants when she could. It was torture waiting for the others to leave.

When the coast was clear, we would get right to it. Kim loved taking my dick out thru my zipper and sucking it, keeping the belt in tact. Always on her knees, lots of eye contact and sexy talk. She loved to swallow which was not common back then, plus she was on the pill so i could cum in her pussy all i wanted, neither of which my wife would do. She loved bending over my desk and getting fucked doggy style, dress pulled up, tits out and sliding on the desk with each plunge and those perfect legs and fuck me pumps she wore. Sometimes she would get on top and ride my dick because she knew i was a tit freak and watching her big, perfect tits bounce made me insane.

But the hottest times was when she would answer the phone while sucking my dick or getting fucked from behind. She only did it about a dozen times out of a couple hundred times we screwed around, but when she would it was awesome! I would whisper in her other ear dirty things while she tried to stay on the phone without giving away what was going on. She would say things like "hold on, i think he's getting off soon" or "oh, here he comes" or if it was for her, she would say " happy hump day" if it was a Wednesday or " oh, you know, taking what they're giving cause i'm working for a living!".  

Kim talked to my wife, her boyfriend, her or my friends and even her Dad once while fucking around with me! This went on for 3 and a half years until I took a job in midtown. What an idiot i was to leave and to this day when i jerk off, its always to those times with Kim.



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172,596 Men with pee stains on their boxers. NOT ATTRACTIVE!



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172,595 I will no longer go to see any Sean Penn movies.



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172,594 A husband making less than his wife is in the same ballpark as working with people much younger than you. You know why? People younger than you are less qualified, and I guess men feel that all women are too. Of course it's sexism. Your wife is just as capable of making money as you are. Apparently that's a secret



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172,593 Disney World is magically amazing. The best place on earth. What a great company too.



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172,592 It's my birthday and I'm alone so I'm drinking and trying to think of an interesting secret to tell to people that I'll absolutely 100% never meet.

Cheers



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172,591 The theme park story made me cry too! What a wonderful story!



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172,590 My wife makes way more than I do (we've been married 12 years and for most of it she has made more). I am secure enough in my manhood to not be threatened by her making more than I do. We both love our jobs and I wouldn't change anything. When I see men upset about their girlfriends or wives making more than them I see it for what it is: just another kind of sexism.

M/40



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172,589 When I retired as an IT system administrator, I was by far the oldest member of the team.  The next two oldest team members were about fourteen years my junior.  I can't recall another instance of someone in that organisation retiring as a hands-on system administrator.  Usually, well before that age, system administrators had either moved on to other employers or had become hands-off managers.

I had a run of team managers over the years.  In my later years, some of my managers were not much older than half my age.  Did it bother me?  No.  During my later years, with one exception, my managers were on the same salary grade as myself, but not necessarily on the top of the scale where I was.  (This was public sector, where such matters are not a secret.)  The way I saw it, I got to do the job that I originally signed up for, and was mostly left in peace to set my agenda and get on with whatever I thought needed to be done.  I got to spend most of my time doing what in terms of a job could be described as "fun" stuff.  Meanwhile, my managers, some of whom were young enough to be my children, got to do the tedious stuff like staff and purchasing administration and attending lots of meetings.  I imagine that they were more stressed than me, too.



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172,588 The secret just made me cry. Thank you for sharing that.



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172,587 If I'm not constantly busy I feel like I'm crawling out of my skin. I feel worthless. I feel anxious. I feel suicidal. Fuck, I just lost my job. I have other reasons to live, but FUCK!



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172,586 So I just bawked at a job posting.

Management position at a telemarketing center.  Hours 8am-10pm Monday through Friday. Saturday's 9am-6pm.

Pay $45,000

That made me see red.  Absolute red.  Here, work to death and make a measley sum of money.

Give us your life.

I'd like to go there just to see what people like this look like.  They cannot be real.

Corporate taskmasters.  Disgusting.



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172,585 Going hand in hand with the idea of a husband making less than his wife, I have the added shame of working for a person 20 years younger than me.



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172,584 I just want to matter. Currently I don't matter to anyone.



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172,583 When I was in college I went to popular theme park with a good friend. We had very little money. We scraped together enough for a 24 hour train ride to Florida and two tickets to get in the park. There was a tiny amount of cash leftover to eat for a week. Didn't matter about the food. The fun was to be on the rides. My friend particularly loved them. He'd get us to ride over and over again. He dreamed out loud how he'd love to work at the theme park. All in all, what a blast.

On the train ride back, we were completely tapped out. No money left at all. I managed to find one small red box of raisins in my backpack. We shared it for the next 24 hours. It's all we had to eat. Every two hours we'd treat ourselves to a single raisin. Didn't matter. We laughed about it. We had such a feeling of friendship going on this trip together. Sometimes, you don't really need more than a raisin and a good friend.

Oh the crazy irresponsible things college kids do.

Time went by. I lost touch with my friend. Life happens that way. I eventually ended up getting married and now I have children of my own.

For years I wanted to take my children to the theme park, but I really couldn't afford it. I love my job and work hard, but I'm in a profession which doesn't pay very well.

Finally last winter, I thought heck, my kids need to see this theme park while they are still young. I can't wait until they are adults! So I threw caution to the wind and booked a trip on my credit card. It might take years to pay it off, but it would be worth it.

We stayed for 7 wonderful days and nights. Not only was it great fun for me and my family, the bonding with my children was immeasurable. It reminded my of the bonding I experienced with my college friend so many years earlier.  All around, the trip was perfect.

On the final day I went down to the main lobby of our hotel to check out. The clerk woman did her magic on the computer and printed out my bill. She also reached under the counter and pulled out a little gift wrapped box. She handed me the bill and the present.

I assumed the present was some parting token the theme park gives to all their guests. Then I looked at the bill.

Total for our 7 day stay, $0.

I laughed. I told the clerk I wished it was true, but she obviously made a mistake.

She say no, the bill was $0.

What? I said I didn't understand. Why would it be $0? She said she didn't know. Her manager, who had been lingering in the background the whole time, he came over and confirmed our entire stay was free.

Why?

He said I should open the present.

I unwrapped the little package and inside was a small red box of raisins. The manager said someone in senior management for the entire company personally dropped off the present earlier that morning. He said I'd understand.

I tentatively asked the name of this mystery person...

Pow.

There were tears in my eyes. Actually, that's not exactly true. The tears weren't only in my eyes, they were running down my cheeks. Yes, this grown man was sobbing at the front desk of a theme park hotel.

It was undoubtedly the most powerful moment of joy and warmth and friendship and nostalgia I've ever felt.

Addendum:  On the plane ride home, once my kids and I were seated and the stewardess started to serve us lunch. I said no, no lunch for us. I then open the little red box and we ate the raisins. Yep, in life, sometimes you don't really need more than a raisin and a good friend.



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172,582 Reading these secrets make me so glad I don't have to deal with any of the shitty men here.  So very grateful I'm a lesbian, so very grateful I have someone who genuinely loves me.



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172,581 I think if men would touch, and massage, and and maybe even try to be sexy for their wives they might have more success than barking orders, trying to push their women into every new fetish that they see in porn, and trying to buy and bargain  their wives affections like they're prostitutes. Oh, and making their women completely lose trust in them by acting shady and sneaking around?

Or not.  Every women is unique in her desires and most men are pretty much just toilet plungers.

ExPlunger, 40 something



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172,580 when i was 14 i came so close to fucking my sister who was 12...we just messed around...i had hair and a hard cock which shocked the shit out of her and she had a tight, bald pussy and puffy nipples... but all we did was mess around. i so wish i fucked her. i am almost 60 and i still jerk off thinking of those times. i dont think we even knew what we were doing was wrong.



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172,579 Trying to break up with someone who seems to be dealing with a lot right now.
I am afraid this will push him over the edge.



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172,578 After I get off the phone with someone, I'll often make a snarky comment. This is just who I am. I'll be alone, but I'll shake my head and say, "Why can't this asshole figure out how to do things on his own without calling me and making it my problem!!"

But then I suddenly panic. Oh no, did I hang up the phone? What if it's still connected and he heard me say those words? I quickly get my cell phone out of my pocket and check to make sure it really is disconnected. I feel like kind of an idiot and paranoid too. Maybe it's not worth it to make snarky comments.



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172,577 I was reading the secrets here and got so horny I decided to go to the ladies room to bring myself some relief. I passed an office that had a door ajar and that I knew had been vacated last week by the last tenant. Curiosity caused me to look inside. There are about  15 offices inside. The only left behind was a captains chair. Don't ask why but I sat down, thought of the handsome boss whose chair I imagined I was sitting in,starting touching myself, pulled down my pantyhose for better access and went to town on myself.  In the middle of a most enjoyable moment, I opened my eyes to see a man who works for the building just staring at me. What to do?  He was where he should be. I wasn't. But, it was too late. I just spread wider and let him watch me finish.  Got up. Pulled up my pantyhose. Straightened my dress.  Gave him a smile and left without saying a word. Definitely my hottest secret!!



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172,576 I used to ask my wife for sex. She'd basically always say no. Not only that, she'd yell at me for asking and make the mood very unpleasant. I think she reacted this way because deep down she felt bad for not being a good wife and not doing this nice thing for her husband.

Then I changed it around. I'd tell her she had a choice. She could either have sex with me or make a nice dinner. We still rarely had sex. But I did eat plenty of nice dinners. And with no yelling on her part.

Funny how that works.



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172,575 I'm amazed how many women have taken baths together. I've polled women I've dated. I'd say one third of them have taken a bath with a female friend. Overt sex wasn't involved, but still, it's such a tantalizing thing to do. My wife is one of these women. She used to take baths with her friend Wendy. They'd be hanging out together on a Saturday. They'd decide to go out on the town. They'd take a bath together and then get all dolled up. This is why I love women. They do these things which drive me and all men wild.



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172,574 So many women wear nothing under their pantyhose. How incredibly sexy. Once I realized this is the case, I see women in pantyhose differently. I picture how their pussy is visible just under their skirt. Jeez that's so hot.



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172,573 Women should follow their instincts when it comes to men. We always know the answer but often choose to ignore it. I've heard of that too many times...



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172,572 567: Sometimes you gotta stand up for yourself because if you don't, nobody will! They may be angry at you, but I bet that nobody will fuck with you from now on!



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172,571 I wait all day to get home and talk to you, and you just brush me off because you're on your man period.

I do give a fuck about what is going on in your life.
I am here for YOU, I love YOU. Talk to me, get it off your mind. Lets pray together, let me support you, let me uplift you.
But no, I get a text with you telling me good night. Hold it all in and then just be a grumpy bitch to me for a week, and I didn't even do anything to you.



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172,570 I have been dating a man for the past 9 months. Fell head over heels in love with him.

Hes married (mid-divorce) and has 2 kids. She has a boyfriend and has moved on in that way. Its an odd situation, they still live together.

He drinks everyday. But I overlooked it, whats a couple of drinks for a man that works so hard. Even on off days..he drinks. It's becoming a problem to me.

I beginning to say to myself...this man does not love you. You are here to cushion the stress of his divorce. You are just being used, and once he feels stable again..good bye to you. I am starting to believe it. He is too emotional and sensitive to the things the wife says to him.

Why did she turn to another man? What was wrong with the one she had...what is wrong with him? If she loved him, she would help him with the drinking. If he loved her, he would try to fix it. What happened?

I am afraid I am either being used or sinking deeper into a relationship with a man who might be abusive. He hasn't shown any signs of it yet, but there are subtle things that has been said where this abuse can be psychological.

I can see myself getting hurt, because I am going to walk away from this train wreck. Life will go on. And maybe one day I will find a man that deserves me.

36F (self employed, can cook, clean...wth I'm Asian/Indian, typical family woman, no kids or baggage.)



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172,569 You should probably talk to the police.



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172,568 Im 24. Hes 39. When we first met I had missed my train while waiting for my toasted bagel at the Deli. He offered me a ride. I hesitated but decided what the hell. I was on probation so being late for work would result in a write up. He drove me to work. We talked. He was a little overweight but I like that. His beard was full and he had a head full of dirty blonde curls. I remember thinking to myself how atttactive this man was. He asked me for my number. I gave him the right one. And then all hell broke loose.

We hung out a few times. He took me on nature walks with his deaf dog and brought me to his fav coffee shop. I was smitten. Finally someone who I can talk to. We eventually have sex. It was horrible (he fucked like a jack rabbit) but I was willing to look past that. Then I noticed his drinking. whenever im with him I smell the stench of beer. At first I didnt mind because I figured hey maybe hes having a beer to relax from work. But then I would smell the stench at 9 am when we were going on a breakfast date. And then when the breakfast date was over I notice him pouring beer into a coffee mug for the drive. I look in his backseat and see two 12 packs in the back. One day later they are both gone. Did you have a party Josh? No I didnt. Ok so you drank all that beer? SILENCE. I tell him his drinking is out of control. Hes now drinking whenever I see him. He agrees. says he drinks everyday all day even at work. I tell him my mom was a drunk and I wont settle for that. He goes to AA. At this point I have only known him two and a half months.
AA actually works for him. He goes to all his meetings. Meets a sponsor. He tells me I saved his life. I tell him im proud of him. He shows up at my house uninvited on a monday morning. I dismiss it. Maybe hes just excited about recovery. But then he does it again and again and again. I tell him I dont like when he pops up. Can you call first josh? Sure, Ill call first im sorry. He doesnt call first. I get angry. He says fine Bitch I wont talk to you at all. He doesnt for a while. Then I notice his car parked on my street all the time. He lives in the next town over. I call him and ask him why is his car always on my street. He says his friend lives there. I know this to be a lie because his first time here he got lost and I had to direct him. I remember him saying hes never been to this part of my town. Im scared but also mad. Im not sure if I want to call the cops or kill his ass. I tell him cut the shit or im gonna get my brother to kick his ass. He backs off. I get messages from him about how I saved his life from drinking and its hard for him to let me go. I regret it. Me being a good person has caused me a stalker. His car is parked on my atreet again this morning. Im getting a gun.



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172,567 You know that gag in movies where the bullied kid turns the tables on the bully? It happened to me. Wasn't worth it. His parent lost their minds because I broke his nose, even though he beat up any number of people. The school came down hard on me despite knowing the psycho S.O.B. had terrorized me for 3 years. I was threatened with jail time, lawsuits. My family was pissed at me for bringing all of this trouble into the house despite my father constantly telling me to stand up for myself. My fellow student were angry because he was a popular jock. One of the football coaches told me that I don't know my place.



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172,566 Maybe you should make better music, instead of guilt tripping people to come to your shows.



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172,565 I hate dating someone who has plans for the future. That is so scary to me. You want to get married? We have been together for four months? You don't even like me that much. You're just looking for a wife.



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172,564 Why are you even dating me anyway? Can't you see that I'm ugly? HELLOOOO.



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172,563 How do you keep hearing these songs? You don't listen to that kind of music. Maybe another girl showed it to you, and then you sent it to me.



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172,562 The parents of bullies always have a way of blaming someone else.



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172,561 When I was single, a married friend told me his marriage would only end in the lottery or death.

I understand now what he meant.



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172,560 I'd love to come across a woman I know on a porn sight. Any woman I know. That would be amazing jerk off material.



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172,559 Friend just got a divorce from his wife of 3 years and together for 8 total.  She up and left him... Then broke the news to him that she ran up 30k worth of secret cc debt and she wiped out their entire savings to pay for.  You'd think he'd be depressed about the divorce, but he's fine and dating again.  She blames him for her shopping addiction because she has to spend to keep herself happy all these years.  I have no words.  Happy to see others actually make it in their marriages.



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172,558 I could fall in love with you all over again as if no time as passed. I can feel it now. But I also feel the downside and I think that no matter how much we have in common, somehow we will never be able to connect in a healthy way. I would try again in a heartbeat though, I haven't told you. Maybe I will someday.



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172,557 will i really spend $ on powerball just to buy you something on the 50 trillion to 1 odds that i might win?



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172,556 I was bored, so I started cyber-stalking her tonight. I see why she keeps a lot of stuff on the down-low. I just like knowing I was right about these things.
I feel both reassured and pleasantly vindicated, yet,

Still bored...



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172,555 After all these years I often wonder if you still have my name inked on your side.  Does it really matter if I know or not.



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172,554 I used to have a girlfriend who had olive skin and the most beautiful pussy I've ever seen. It was a wonderful shade of brown. It was 15 years ago, and I still fantasize about her kitty.



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172,553 I have a thing for my best friend's dad. He's older, kinda grumpy, super traditional, sexist as fuck, but his music taste is amazing and I know he thinks I'm attractive. I wish he could fuck me hard, and I want it to happen...



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172,552 The area around my vagina is really brown because of my skin tone :( The skin in that area is about  10 shades darker than the rest of my body.   It looks horrid.



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172,551 If, after 60 years, you haven't learned to communicate PLANS to your companion, you never will...

The question becomes - how much of that can I put up with without becoming bitchy?  If I want to like myself, I may have no choice but to get away from you, no matter how much I may love you.



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172,550 My self-induced orgasms after getting high are mind blowing. Truly.  I've never had a guy make me orgasm, but possibly if I do it next after smoking a j, it could happen.



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172,549 Passive-aggressively showing my dad how non-unique he is might just be my favorite past time.



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172,548 I just don't have the strength to fight this depression any longer. I am not strong. F/47



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172,547 Oh, it's you again. I see you, there, friend requesting me on Facebook after I haven't seen you since we were kids. I remember what you did to me, still, after all these years. You're one of the many reasons that I'm so fucked up today. After years of you openly contributing to my torment, you were gone. I have life advice for you:

Stay gone.



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172,546 There's a mother of a boy in my son's school. She complains non-stop about how other kids are bullies.

1) She is the biggest bully of any adult I know.

2) Her son is the biggest bully in the school.

Ya gotta love how that works.



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172,545 Been Married for 7 years but together for 20.  Could not be happier.  After reading all about other people's terrible marriage and lack of sex life, it really makes me appreciate what I have.

M 34



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172,544 Boycotting the products of any large corporation isn't going to accomplish jack shit to get them to stop using child labor, polluting the environment, fucking us all.

Nothing is going to happen until you drag those useless CEOs out into the street and shoot their brains out for all to see.

Mass murderers: You're going after the wrong demographic.



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172,543 Married 11 years. I became ill. It was inconvenient for her. She filed for divorce. Nice! I've mostly recovered but I will never get married again.



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172,542 Pregnant again, I hope this one doesn't die on us. I can only handle so many miscarriages. we had two before we had our son...and honestly Its hard to feel excited about a child when I feel so unprepared, and feel so alone. I don't want to know its gender or how far along I am. I don't feel connected to it, but I'm eating healthy and everything else I need to do. I dread the OB apts with those over cheery nurses who just "Do you want a boy or a girl?" "Alive" seems a mood kill. fuck man I feel like I should be better at this

I have friends who had kids in highschool who laugh at my attempts at parenting, but still live with their family, in big nice houses, who have wonderful yards and well dressed kids.  

I am living with my husband in our own tiny place with no support network, but no real debt....and we just can't keep ahead. Maybe I fucked up waiting to have children but I was told it was better.

Maybe I fucked up waiting till my early 20's to get married. but I was told getting married straight out fo highschool or college was stupid.

Maybe I fucked up wanting more...I bought a cell phone and we joined a plan. No big deal right lots of fuck wits a lot worse off than us who live on mommy and daddies dime have really nice cell phones...I thought maybe...we could swing it. we don't have 822 dollars for our second bill ever. Let alone the 1,600+ we got on the third one.

US cellular is trying to fuck us out of so much money I feel stupid for even wanting a cell phone after not having one for over 3 years. I can't even turn it on.

I stay home with my son and are pregnant again, and honestly I just want to lay down on the couch and cry. and scream and just make someone pay attention. I've never needed a mom more than now.

Because no one comes to see us, I don't know if my son is doing well, but he seems ok to me. My home, my wonderful little home feels more like a cage every day I feel so alone...in an apartment complex with 10 units in every building and 15 buildings...I feel alone.

My husband bless his heart he works as hard as he can and does a damn good job.  he walks to and from work for over an hour each way rain sun, snow or sleet and honestly...I'm so fucking proud of him but fuck how do we get ahead?

How do I explain I just miss my family,
even if they were abusive and evil and made me cry every day I wasn't alone. I didn't feel alone. Never alone actually.

Now I just feel lost. Clinging to what I can. In this wreak I call my life. Not a total wreak my home is clean tidy well cared for and when my husband is home it has a breath of life I can't get enough of.

I wasn't ever good at making friends, and now at almost 25, I don't have any...and I just wish someone would come and talk to me. Someone would listen and help us figure out what we are doing that is so wrong no one wants to talk to us...

or maybe its just me.

I don't know.

I'm so tired, I'm so exausted, I'm so worried about everything and I can't even talk to anyone about it.

the few family memebers I could call. I can't. Because our cell phones were cut off over a month ago.

I'm so tired and lost.

Goddess help us.

24 stay at home wife,



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172,541 I'm 30, he's 42. We've been together since i was 17. Got married 6 years ago. We're happy. Life isn't perfect but I'd rather go through it with him than anyone else.



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172,540 Out of frustration or maybe it was fear of how she behaves towards me and our children, I threw out my wife's oxycotin. You should have seen her anger. She screamed she was going to buy a gun and shoot me. But no, she doesn't have a drug problem. of course not. It's normal for a wife to scream how she's going to buy a gun and shoot her husband.



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172,539 I believe in you.  I know you got this.  You can do it.  You have the strength within you.



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172,538 I think it's over between us.  That is, me and the woman with whom I had an online affair.  It went on for over five years.  

We met in August 2010.  I don't know what it was about her that made me start chatting with her, except that she was fucking gorgeous.  Seriously, I can't overstate how hot she was.  I remember I was on vacation, it was late, and my wife was sound asleep in the hotel bed while I found myself chatting online with this woman only a few feet away.  The talk turned to sex.  I took out my dick and started stroking it, and it felt dangerous with my wife right there.  Then I got her cell number.  Within an hour from meeting her online, I'm sending her pics of me stroking my cock in the hotel bathroom while she sent me pics of her finger banging herself.  A few months later and we're having phone sex.  

This goes on for almost 2 years, until we have a falling out in 2012.  She "found Jesus," turned into a real religious nut.  We start talking again a year ago.  The pics started again.  She had gained a lot of weight, but she was still gorgeous.  The pics of her tits were even more incredible because they had gotten huge, but still maintained their perfect shape.

And then, on December 31st, she didn't show up on Facebook anymore.  I went to a different account and found her, which means she blocked me.  I think her New Year's resolution was to get me out of her life once and for all.

It's okay.  She needed to be gone.  In another year she'll be 300 pounds anyway.  It's time to put this dalliance to rest.  I'm glad it's done.



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172,537 Married almost 27 years. Together over 30. Very happy. Forgiveness and compassion have gotten us through the rough times. Wouldn't trade him in for anything!



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172,536 That little thing about "it's better to have loved and lost" is all bullshit. Almost a decade wasted on a thankless stranger and their goddamn family. A tree stump would have made a better companion. Take, take, take, connive, self obsess, good riddance

There, I feel better.



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172,535 Shit. All these happy marrieds. No one loves me!
-married f



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172,534 Married 26 years, together 28 years, and we have been happy from the very start. In our entire relationship we have had exactly three major fights. The secret? It's not a secret at all--opposites may attract but likes stay together. We're compatible in our attitudes about handling money, keeping the house neat, whether we wanted kids, where we wanted to live, the activities we like to do...we talked it all out in plain English.

The other part of it? We go out of our way to say "I love you" at least several times a day. We learned how to say, "I'm sorry, I was wrong" and "You know what, this isn't as important to me as it is to you, so let's do what you want." Compromise, respect, showing love, being there for each other, those things go a long way in making a marriage happy.

53/f



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172,533 I sneeze 10 times a day. It started about a year ago. I don't mind. It feels good to sneeze.



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172,532 I worked at a company with the daughter of an organized crime legend. A movie was made of her father's life. I was always nice to her. Everyone at the company was. No one would ever say it but we were all thinking the same thing. When she quit to work elsewhere I think everyone was relieved.



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172,531 Married 24 years today.  I met her 6 years prior.  I wouldn't give up a second of that time even for the powerball.



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172,530 When my emotional stunted ex fiancÚ, ex boyfriend, told me how he had often fantasized about having a strictly sexual relationship with me and then outlined a scenario of coming over to my place, doing me and getting off, then leaving...making no mention of sexually satisfying me....I countered with being into that...for money

We can objectify each other, I reckon



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172,529 I got involved with a serial cheater.

I know his proclivities reflect more upon him than me
But I am so damn embarrassed



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172,528 Married 25 years, together 30. As bad as the bad got, Thats how good the good was. Think its bad? Wait till you find them dead. 54m



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172,527 I spent my drive into work feeling angry and having imaginary conversations with the poisonous people who have pissed me off in my life.  The latest thing was at work.  A week ago I sent two other managers a draft of a marketing flyer that had their programs listed on it.  This flyer will go to everybody in the country who wants to know about my company, and I needed to know if what I wrote about their programs was correct.  It was due up the chain on Friday.  On Friday afternoon I get a message from them telling me I should handle their parts.  The fuck?  I'm supposed to correct my own stuff on their programs?  Don't they realize that I might make a mistake?  They're either lazy, dumb, or unprofessional.

It got me thinking about the poisonous people I have known throughout my life.  There's only been about 10 of them since I struck out on my own decades ago.  Unfortunately, I'm dealing with three of them right now, and until I get another job, I have to deal with them.  But holy shit, the damage these poisonous people do is tremendous.  Unlike when you're a kid, a poisonous adult has experience behind them.  They know how to bully people.  It's amazing.



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172,525 It's been a surreal two days.  My mom has been sick for so long.  Slowly dying.  Today, her doctor has scheduled a surgery which will only fix one of the conditions that is killing her and has less than a 30% chance of survival.  So I've spent the last two days with her in the hospital, laughing, talking, playing cards, trying to imprint everything I can about her in my mind.  And all I keep thinking is these could be her last moments on this planet.  Everything is so sharp and REAL right now.  But I still feel like I've stepped into a dreamscape.  I can't even imagine what she must be feeling or thinking, laying there so quietly in her bed, staring up at the ceiling. I ask, but she just smiles and tells me she's okay.  And I think she is.  I can feel an undercurrent of fear but I think it's mostly mine.  I'm amazed at how calm she is.  How quiet she is.  I love you, momma.



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172,524 Oh, the strangeness of these nights in my free ?decade landscape...
I am so sorry I missed your call
Not only did I want to hear from you
But you are the only one I'd have sex with right now
And I so need to be fucked and made love to at the same time

Going to sleep alone with my dog now
Sure hope I hear from you soon
Because you won't get a call from me
That's part of how I play it
And it seems to work and protect me at the same time



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172,523 Fuck playing it cool. I want you in my bed. I'm dying.



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172,522 I wish more normal people would post naked pictures of themselves on here. I dislike when porn stars show themselves naked. No thrill, they are always naked. But when a normal housewife shows her daring side and posts pictures, whoa that's hot.



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172,521 Never share a personal insecurity with a loved one. It will be used against you one day.



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172,520 Married almost 14, together for 17 and it hasn't all been perfect but I couldn't imagine a day with anyone else.  F/39



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172,519 My daughter received free braces from an Obama Care orthodontist. Saved me $6,000. Yay!



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172,518 The things people post on Facebook make me cringe. There's a hypochondriac guy I know. In our local community forum he's constantly whining about a rash on his arm, or a pimple on his butt, or a pain in his toe. Non-stop paranoia where he thinks these ailments are going to kill him.

Finally he whined so much about a pain in his wrist that he got a doctor to operate. Wrong kind of doctor if you ask me, he needed a shrink not a surgeon.

But the cringe worthy part, after the surgery he posts online how he'd like people to bring him and his family dinner for the next month while he's recovering. Ummmm, isn't that usually reserved for when a family member dies, and not for carpel tunnel syndrome?

Anyway, not only does he request how he wants people to bring him dinner, he also then dictates what meals people should bring.  Actual quote, "Let's see, today I'm in the mood for barbecue spare ribs. Not to fatty though.  And bring more Pepsi. NO COKE!"

I'm embarrassed to be living in the same community as this momma boy whiner.



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172,517 There was no Big Bang. Scientifically speaking, a bunch of hooey. The entire universe erupted instantaneously from a single point? Boom? I've said all along it's wrong for so many reasons.

Now science is catching up with me. More and more of my colleagues are finally realizing the Big Bang never happened.

Welcome to the light.



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172,516 A few years ago I pulled up at the auto parts store and in the space next to me was a smart car, with an Obama sticker and license plate frame that said "MENSA - not just another pretty face"  It belonged to two old lesbians who were having the auto parts guy show them how to replace their wiper blades. I still remember that - so much comedy in one smart car.



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172,515 In her arms, mouths and hands everywhere, it dawned on me.  
I'm so fucking over you.



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172,514 Not sure if this was the right thing to do or not. I showed my teenage daughter her mother's illegal prescription drug stash. I was hoping it would explain a few things, like why her mother flies off the handle at me and everyone else. My wife is a drug abuser. For years I'd help hide it from our children. But I felt complicit. Now I'm changing direction and letting our daughter know. Maybe our daughter can knock some common sense into her mom.



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172,513 16 years married. She changed right after we were married. "Me me me." Those were a miserable first 10 years. But I'm not a quitter. Finally dragged her to couples therapy against her will. She fought me all the way. But it helped. She became more considerate. Still problems, but the last 6 years have been better.



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172,512 On one of my security questions it asked who was my best friend. I just broke down and cried.



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172,511 17 years married. 21 together total. Miserable as fuck.
F/44



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172,510 10 years together total, 3 years married.  Still very happy.



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172,509 I wonder how many married people are happy with their marriage?  If so, how long are you married?  If not, how long are you married?



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172,508 Other peoples' kids grow up to be our (society's) nurses, mechanics, clerks, cops, doctors, cleaners...our society.

-35 childless f



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172,507 It was obvious when you wanted me. You were delirious. Sometimes you didn't want me. That was jarring, because I always wanted you. I loved you. I guess it has always been there. I haven't seen you in years. I think about you every day. I wish you hadn't wanted me. I can't think of any other longing such as this. If I could kill it I would. I can't help that I heard the sirens singing. (it's fitting, sorry T.S.) I won't forget you. I won't forget your effortless beauty. You are my unicorn. Put it on my grave? not sure. . .



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172,506 Single people pay taxes that are used to educate and provide all sorts of perks to people who've chosen to frivolously spread their good, bad, or otherwise genes.

Single people should get an exemption from paying for other people's kids.



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172,505 Obviously a secret because I keep seeing it...

Obama did not make your health insurance cheaper.  He used the force of the law to confiscate a greater share of my property to give to you and your family.  You got dental, he got your vote and I have less in my paycheck.

Thank me.



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172,504 Every American's vote should be weighted based on IQ.



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172,503 Divorce wiped me out financially. I'm 55. What now? I was retired. Now I have to get a job again. Who will hire a 55 year old man? And no, it wasn't my fault. She ran off with someone else. You think the judge cared? She still got half of everything while getting to live in her new guy's house.



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172,502 I don't understand why we so eagerly want to help Syrian refugees. There are currently plenty of homeless people in the USA. We're going to skip over them - many of whom are veterans - and instead we'll find nice homes in the suburbs for people from an hostile nation, where we were a primary target.

You couldn't make this stuff up.



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172,501 yoga pants on the right woman is a dreamscape, on the wrong woman, a nightmare.



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172,500 English is not my native language and I wasn't referring to spelling or grammar errors . I was talking about the way a person speaks ,  for example those wannabe gangster who think is cool and hip to talk and act getto . Seriously what's wrong with them?   Do they talk like that at home ? And nobody corrects them . I'm sorry but a lot of people including myself will judge by that way you carried yourself and speak.  What happen to having some manners that way some people talk especially the elderly is disgusting .



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