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173,799 I'm done with FB and all you attention whores. I've done many wonderful things in life, but I've never been compelled to post it on the internet. I don't need to see a picture of your food, or how much in love you are, or your 1 millionth baby picture or how many fucking stupid things you "like"......I guess the cat vids are fun though lol....



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173,798 I wish there was a place that you can just turn yourself in when you WANT to die. My career ended 3 years ago, after 40 years of gainful employment, now I can't make enough, so basically I will run out of lifelong savings in a few years. I just wish I could enjoy my last few days, then turn myself in.....
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173,797 You beautiful Selphie girls..... we don't care.  you are a whore!



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173,796 And Lisa would make a damn fine Wonder Woman. Case closed.



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173,795 My life may be a study in regression, but I don't think it's terminal.

And so what if I'm crushing on the concept of coziness? It's not a crime and I probably should have started it years ago.



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173,794 Sex is a curse on women.



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173,793 God my college students are hot.



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173,792 My advice to anyone getting divorced. As soon as the topic is mentioned, MOVE OUT. Stay somewhere else and never look back. If you stay around it gives your spouse the chance to make shit up about you. She'll say you cursed at her or hit her or hit the children. Stay away and only see her again at a lawyers office. Don't make my mistake of thinking you can continue living together to save money while the proceedings are going on.



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173,791 Trump for President. The idea thrills me and at the same time scares the stuffing out of me. Could you imagine? He could ignite World War III. Yet, he could also bring America back from the brink. He'd get rid of the corrupt pretty - boy politicians. He'd shame them into getting real jobs. He's do away with the special interest groups. He'd tell poor people that if they want money, they need to get a job, not a handout. He'd stop raping the rich. He put criminals behind bars. He'd make drugs illegal AND ENFORCE IT. He'd tell men in dresses they can't get changed in the ladies locker room. He'd make sure there were no homeless Vets. He'd remind us about living a moral life. In short, he'd make America and all of us good people again.



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173,790 I love my best friend. Her husband is also a wonderful man. This would never ever happen, but if out of the blue her husband said he was leaving her and he wanted to marry me, I'd do it. This is all hypothetical. But I find it interesting that when I look into my soul, my desire to have a wonderful husband outweighs any loyalty I have towards my best friend.



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173,789 I need a cock in me. I'm about to go and do a few chores. Library, grocery shopping, Starbucks. If any man so much as smiles in my direction, it's going to be his lucky day.



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173,788 I hate how divorce laws work. If a couple gets divorced and the exhusband has to pay alimony, the alimony stops if she gets remarried. So what happens is that the wife refuses to get married again because she wants her ex to keep paying. You know who suffers through all this? Their kids. If the mother remarries the kids would once again be in a two parent household.  But instead the laws are set up so it's in the mother's best interest not to get remarried.

How strange! Laws are in place to keep divorced women single!



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173,787 I knew two read headed women. Both were exceedingly shy. Both were virgins in college. I think it's in their genes. Whatever DNA gives you red hair, also makes you shy.



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173,786 I think Mrs. Fitzgerald still bitter and angry. Why? I do not know, it's quite sad a grown a$&& woman like her behaves like a teenager , your threats , assumptions and blabber you spread it's comical . Thanks for the laugh and may I recommend a good sunblock?  Instead all wasting all your negative energy on me focus on your own family.  Like the wannabe thug daughter of yours , with daddy issues .



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173,785 So my second book is published.  That's two books - one under my own name and one under a pen name.  I'm working on my third.  My life-long dream was to be a writer.  It's what I've always wanted.  Now, I write full-time and have two books published soon to be a third.  So why doesn't it seem real?



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173,784 I, for one, would be relieved if people left due to the presence of a transgender person.  It makes the situation safer for the transgender person.

A trans person, like most people, is more interested in changing their clothes and taking a piss in the gym locker room than me.  They're there to live and ultimately leave me the fuck alone like everyone else.



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173,783 Staunch Democrat here, but I secretly cannot fucking STAND Bernie Sanders.  Yeah, yeah, free college and a pony for everybody, let's crown him King.  Anybody who says “Feel the Bern” is automatically stupid in my book.

First of all, that "free" education will not be free; what will happen is that every American NOT in college will end up picking up the tab in the form of higher taxes. (After you complete that "free" education, you too will be paying that higher tax rate as well, O sweet summer child.)

So, what's in it for me to pay for millienials' education? I've finally paid off my own student loans, because no, it was NOT possible for me to get through college with no student loans by working. I worked full time and went to community college and then a state school part time, which took 7 years. Still ended up with student loans that took me over a decade to pay. Despite that pricey education, I do not own a house, and have never earned more than $35K in a year in my entire life.  Married but don't have kids — who can afford a kid these days?

Millenials keep WHIIIIIINING that they don't want to finish school in debt.  Derp, you're going to do that anyway, because CREDIT CARDS, kid.  And I'm sure you all brought the most reverential respect and discipline towards the free schooling you DID receive on my dime, kindergarten through 12th grade.

Look, kids, you are not going to make Gen X want to hemorrhage money for your college educations, because guess what?  Gen X HAS no money.  You can't get blood from a turnip.  I'm renting and having to hustle to make ends meet just like you, Millenials, and I'm 44 fucking years old.  Sanders might be an awesome dude, but I still don't want a president who will raise taxes, and seeing as how I don't have any kids, free college won't benefit me one bit.  Unless of course ol' Bernie's going to pay for me to go back to school and get my MBA, which I'm sure won't happen.

Get a Clinton back in office already — this nation prospered during the Clinton administration, and I honestly don't give a rat's ass who was sucking his cock.  Besides, even Lewinsky's gone on record saying SHE'D vote for Hillary.

ANYBODY would be better than Trump.  He's totally unqualified, and by electing him we'd strain relations with England, our greatest ally.  Although it's hilarious that Trump is doing an amazing job of attacking his own party, torpedoing any chance of any remotely electable GOP candidate getting past him.  He did such a number on Jeb Bush that any Democratic political fixer would be proud.

“Feel the Bern” indeed — but don't ask me to pay for it…!!!



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173,782 What's the difference between a transgender person using the women's locker room vs. a creepy sociopath saying he's transgender precisely so he can gain access to the women's locker room???????????

If I belonged to a gym which allowed transgender men into the women's locker room, I would instantly quit being a member.

Why do politicians bend over backwards to help transgender whack jobs?



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173,781 i'm very honest. i've never stolen anything in my life. but i swear printer ink cartridges make we want to start a life of crime. if i could shoplift them, i would. it's crazy how expensive they are. a total ripoff. i'm thinking bail money is less expensive than ink cartridges....



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173,780 Went to my favorite sandwich shop with my grandmother a few days ago. Guy in front of us looked as though he was about her age, he waits in line patiently and then gets to the desk and orders. I think nothing of it. My grandmother then gets the opportunity to order what we usually get (we go here frequently) and the guy ahead of us compliments the young lady working at the desk, and then he sings for her. It was actually kinda cool, and he had a nice voice. Reminded me of Tony Bennett, I'm not shitting you.

I decide I'll leave the line to pick a place to sit. Before I even sit down, I hear the man ask my grandmother if he could deliver my sandwich to me. I thought that was the sweetest thing ever. He also sang again for everybody. Then he got his order and left. I learn from my grandmother later that he thought I was pretty, too, and I barely ever get told that.

People like that seem like an absolute joy. Gives me hope for the world, it really does.



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173,779 >>173573. Why in the honest fuck are you eating your own shit? Pretty sure that's not good for you, man. You could  get sick from doing that.



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173,778 Maybe if everyone went blind for a century or two we could heal the body of humankind.



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173,777 I'm dating a new man. He's recently divorced like me. I let him come inside me. We've done it a dozen times at least. I'm 53 years old. I can't possibly get pregnant right? I'm really counting on my age being a good form of birth control.



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173,776 I just rubbed my fiances toothbrush into the creamy cum part of my panties, let it dry and then placed it back on our bathroom counter. Why you ask? Because I'm being a passive aggressive little bitch. He NEVER wants to have sex. I'm talking the 2 years we've been together, he's only initiated fucking a handful of times. I honest to god do not understand what his problem is. I'm a 25 year old woman who is smoking hot. I have nice Big tits, round booty, skinny, gorgeous woman with natural hair and doesn't even need to wear makeup. I have a 150,000 salary per year, college educated, super chill, laid back woman with active hobbies that keep me busy. All I want from my partner is to have fun together, live our lives how each one of us prefers, accomplish our goals, and fuck each other. I know that I can't change a person and would never want to, but is it too much to ask if I make you your favorite gourmet dinner while in heels and lingerie, that the least you could do is stick your dick inside of me? I mean, it's not as if you had to clean up after the dinner I made.. I guess I'll stick to being passive aggressive and making sure my cum ends up in your mouth via toothbrush.



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173,775 Why are people against the keystone pipeline? It brings more energy to the people. It drops energy prices. It makes us less dependent on foreign oil. It doesn't cause pollution.

My sister in law is one of the complainers. She's a dimwitted housewife who has no clue about anything more cerebral than Wheel Of Fortune. She, along with others like her, just want to complain about something. They don't see how they can really harm the nation with their ranting.



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173,774 I DO care about you, and I DO love you, but you run whenever I say it. I'm nice to you because I truly care about you, and I like spending time with you. Up until now, YOU'RE the one with the on/off boyfriend. Remember?



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173,773 Maybe if everyone went blind for a century or two we could heal the body of humankind.



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173,772 Nice litgle fb posts about her..what t f e.......why were you so nice to me lately then??? Why did you act like you cared??? If you love me tell me stop talking and acting out of both sides of your mouth.....



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173,771 I love when it's a full moon. The best things happen to me...



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173,770 How in the hell did cops go from 'Officer Friendly' and approachable to nobody understands me and us versus them warrior bullshit in my lifetime? There was a news story about a pancake breakfast raising money for officers to get bulletproof vests--This is a good thing--the woman commented that there are a lot of people who do not 'respect' the police. FUCK YOU. Respect is a two way street. Don't treat me like a enemy as a default. Stop whining like teenage girls.
Stop covering for the "bad apples" no matter what because that makes you one of the bad ones also. I know, I know no one understands your life...whine whine whine.



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173,769 Beginnings and ends are man made. Nature is in an infinite loop.



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173,768 The real realization is that everything has always been and everything will always be. ~



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173,767 My view of the universe.

Before everything, there was nothing. Has to be. There couldn't be anything, or it just cycles back to the question of where did the first "stuff" come from.

But "nothing" is an interesting idea. "Nothing" is actually composed of parts.

Famous mathematical equation:

e^i*pi + 1 = 0

Hmm. "Nothing" has two components, e^i* pi and 1.

Multiply both sides by universe.  We get:

universe* e^i*pi + universe = 0

See it? There's the universe. Just sitting there in the equation.  But there's something more. There's a modified universe out there somewhere.  A universe where everything is skewed by the factor e^i*pi.

Thus, out of the original nothingness, we ended up with two universes.

Forget the Big Bang. Singularities? Not possible. Mathematics shows us how and why we exist.  



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173,766 The truth... It's too painful for you to know.



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173,765 It's interesting to see the establishment getting a bit nervous over Trump. He's already hit Jeb Bush publicly with the failure of his brother on 9-11,  that fateful day when supposedly it was a surprise attack that caught George Bush off-guard. Trump is a lifelong New Yorker, he is not part of the old guard. Chances are he knows much more about the attack then he is letting on.

As for the official 9-11 story it is a whitewash, a total fabrication. I've done the reading of the incredible research done by very high quality people- pilots, engineers, PHD's, explosive experts and many more. Truth be told: none of it adds up. It wasn't Arabs,  it wasn't hijacked planes and it was not even close to a surprise attack. It is much more sinister than that. We only saw on the news what they wanted us to see, after all they have control of the media and the audience was manipulated. It was all out deception at the highest level.

At this point in time Trump wouldn't dare say too much about his inside knowledge of 9-11, assuming he knows something, my bet is he does.  If he speaks too soon his campaign may fall off the tracks. Don't be surprised for the Republican contender Trump to at some point announce that a vote for him is a vote to expose the criminal element and the traitors of this country, that he would re-open the investigation. Trump is about the only person who could make this bold statement and survive the criticism. An announcement of this type would shake the establishment to the core. At the same time many patriotic Americans would rejoice to get to the bottom line of 9-11. Trump is a bottom line guy. He most likely would get many more votes with this approach.



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173,764 Do you think a poodle know it's a poodle? A bulldog a bulldog? Of course not. Those are man's names for a breed of dogs. Same with people who say they are Christians, Muslims, or whatever. How does anyone really know what they are? You can call yourself anything you want but it is irrelevant.  If you believe in God, then you have to defer to God. Our maker already knows what every single one of us is, after all he made us in his own image. It's like it would be hilarious if my poodle could talk and go around saying he's a German Sheppard. Silly poodle, silly people.



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173,763 Yes, I fully understand why you think I'm an asshole. Totally get it.

Here is some food for thought. Maybe, just maybe.... I'm really really trying to fix my character flaws. Maybe I've made a lot of improvement .... And maybe I need motivation to continue.

Simply telling me that I'm an asshole, giving me zero credit for changing doesn't really motivate me to press on with the grueling path of self improvement. In fact, it slightly makes me simply want to concede that I'm an asshole and say, "fuck it". Why bother? I'll just be an asshole.

BUT, I'm not going to do that. Thing is, I'm trying to improve for me and I make mistakes.

Maybe you should let people off the hook sometimes, instead of acting like the Supreme Court of human behavior?!



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173,762 I hate being empathetic.  It's a curse sometimes.  I went to take my recyclables out - always flattening my boxes, always separating my bottles and cans after washing them or running them through my dishwasher first... then tying them up neatly.  Fucking new upstairs neighbor... never flatten their boxes, so that shit takes up the whole bin so no one else can use it.  It takes but a few seconds, you selfish asshole!  Oh, don't even get me started about his parking on the curb when it snows so the plows can't get through and all our cars have to dodge snow banks because of one self entitled asshat.  I can't take it anymore... wrote a text to my landlord who ended up bitching about how lazy and dumb this fucker is who is high all the time.  Ugh... there I was finding myself justifying his shit.  He's young, he's got a kid... he's sticking with his girlfriend... he is probably smoking weed to cope with the fact that his life is pretty much over because of his dumb decisions.  His weed smoking, while helping him cope with emotional difficulties, left him completely tunnel visioned so he's not exactly thinking about how his actions are affecting other people.  (sigh)  I have no answers... I wish I know what is the right thing to do.  I don't want to enable his behaviors that affects his neighbors and community, but at the same time understanding his stresses.  Yes, he brought upon himself having a kid so early and out of wedlock.  I have no idea what his or his gf's home life was like growing up... and what kind of emotional validations they both needed.  I could easily said it's none of my business, just fucking follow protocol, you self centered assholes!  But I can't because I know how they feel with my PTSD.  Although I never made any bad life decisions... married, no kids and living a pretty good life right now because we worked hard for many years to get here.  I understand not everyone has the cognizance or the support they should have to get here... but fuck... they need to learn to get their shit together because IT AFFECTS OTHER PEOPLE!  Ughh!!!!!



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173,761 If you were so smart as you claim to be , you would it graduate from an Ivy School , you didn't not just that but look where you work.  At the local Meijer there's nothing wrong working there but for a bragger like yourself who believes to be so smart , I would think it a better place with some prestige . And please don't start with the I just graduated  blah blah .  Personally I know a very smart young woman about your age , who went to an Ivy Medical school and got a job at a prestigious place right after graduating .  In 20 years from now I will stop by at the same store and I can guarantee you will still be working there.



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173,760 In the background I've been performing social experiments on my wife. Some times I'll treat her with complete kindness to see how her mood changes. Other times I'll act cold and distant. My conclusion, she tries harder to please me when I act aloof. The kindness backfires. She reasons that as long as I'm being kind and forgiving, she can use the opportunity to take out her daily frustrations on me. Lesson learned, be nice to your wife, but not too nice.



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173,759 I once replied to a Facebook post about why geniuses have trouble getting into relationships.  I said something like it's because we have trouble finding people as smart as ourselves.  My reply got over 600 likes.  Yep, 600 people thought they could relate to what I was saying.  All it taught me was about how many people think they're brilliant.



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173,758 I have to be careful about what I post on here now.  My husband found this site opened up on my laptop.  Oh, shit... some of these secrets he'll know are mine.



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173,757 I was a substitute teacher for a few months when I was 20.  In one of the classes I covered, there was a 16-year old girl who was ugly as hell.  I even remember thinking, "Good God, that girl is ugly."  Her facial features were bad, and she even had a bit of a blonde mustache.  Her only redeeming factor was that she was athletic and in shape.  Otherwise, this girl was ugly.

18 months later, I met her through a mutual friend.  My life was in such a tailspin at that point that I felt compelled to date her.  We went out for a week... and then she dumped me.  The ugliest girl in town dumped me.

How's that for karma?



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173,756 I don't think Trump will be that bad of a president.  He's certainly not afraid to fire a person if results aren't being made.  If he can just remember to get good people in as his cabinet... if only...



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173,755 I'm tired of your fetishes.  They're fun sometimes, but there's a point where it gets too weird for me, it doesn't turn me on and it doesn't even really feel sexual anymore.  Sometimes I just want to do normal smut and have normal sex.



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173,754 I've felt your smell was "off" to me from the get and it was a huge part of making me not sexually attracted to you

I would have told you as much, in kind terms,
as time had passed a certain mark and no PIV sex yet...
The last night we saw each other you basically couched the no kitty question in a riddle, over dinner, at a restaurant, and I didn't feel like getting into it then...not to mention whatever that political twaddle I spent the whole drive trying to politely listen to was about...

And then you just totally ghosted on me
Eau de Farts and Ham done ghosted on me
I never before realized the what a role natural scent plays in attraction & chemistry...there was nothing at all going on hygeine wise, you showered all the time and are so clean...it's just as if some of all the meat you ate would sweat out your pores



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173,753 At the end of the day it doesn't matter too much who wins the presidency .  That only reasons things can't get done in Washington , it's because they spend all the time bickering with each other , instead of working together like grow up . They never compromised or agree on anything and in the rare occasions when a bill pass as soon as it hits the house it gets kill.  What they need it's a full clean out and start putting terms on career politicians they stay in power too long .



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173,752 Sex with the wife tonight. First time in months. It only came about because she needs me to do something for her this weekend. I pointed out how she hasn't been very kind to me. I gave her the example that we never have sex. So she agreed to give me a hand job tonight in exchange for me helping her this weekend.

She started it off by saying she'd rather be sleeping so she'll give me five minutes to cum and then I'm on my own. This is what she's like. She has zero sexuality. Zero grace. Zero charm. She's quite awful as a wife.



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173,751 I had a remarkably strange upbringing. I kind of raised myself. I hardly saw my parents. They both worked and they were both drinkers. On the way home from work they'd go to a bar. Meanwhile I was home alone and made dinner for myself. This was the norm from I don't know, 3rd grade through high school. I'd go to bed at 10 at night. They'd get back from the bar at midnight. I leave for school at 7. They get up for work, I don't know, maybe 8. Our paths rarely crossed. Even going to college was weird.  At the end of August I loaded up a backpack with my stuff and caught a train to college. My parents weren't even there to say goodbye. I just left. I have no idea if they even questioned why I was no longer around the house. And that was it. I was gone for good. I only ever came back home once when a friend's dad died. That trip was the icing on the cake. My mom wanted to go grocery shopping. I said I'd come with her. We were in the aisle of the supermarket when we bumped into one of my mom's friends. The woman remarked she hadn't seen me in a long time. I said I was off at college. The women asked where. I was about to answer but my mom chimed in and told the woman I was at UMass and I was studying to be a doctor. I didn't say anything. I didn't want to embarrass her. But I didn't go to UMass and I wasn't studying to be a doctor. I have no idea where that came from. I just kind of laugh it off. It summed up my relationship with them. My parents weren't mean. They just had no interest in me of in being parents.



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173,750 I want sex. I don't think my first time should be with someone meaningless to me. But I'm afraid to fall in love. For the love of all that is good, someone get me out of this sick, vicious circle.



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173,749 I'd like to work for the Trump campaign.



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173,748 I miss you so much



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173,747 I'm lonely.



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173,746 I think about killing myself a lot. I think about killing other people a lot. I fantasize about this even when I'm not the slightest bit angry. I know I would never act on any of this, but I can't tell anyone. That's why it's a secret.



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173,745 Don't ever be jealous of someone else's happiness, because it's a facade. Nobody is actually happy.



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173,744 Since I've been on social media about 10 years, I've noticed something. People that shame their kids online end up with kids that get bullied in a bad way.  These parents don't seem to understand that they are training their kids to be targets of ridicule. I'd like to punch them.



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173,743 I married my plan b. It's not working out well for me. I should have accepted the failure of plan a and resigned myself to being alone.



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173,742 Pondering on if it's time to give up on the human interaction thing, again. Move back to the asteroid mine and run the robot base.

Maybe this time I'll be smart enough to create a bio-dome. I like trees. I don't want to miss the trees this time.



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173,741 I haven't seen my brother in about 30 years. We're hardly a close family.



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173,740 My wife got mad at me. She said I didn't get her enough for Valentines Day. Flowers and chocolate don't cut it anymore. Apparently Valentines Day is the new Christmas. There must be dozens of presents. I really fuck hate her. She picks on every fucking thing. Who complains about getting flowers and chocolate? She's that greedy.



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173,739 Amazing world. Trump will be the next President. I think people are fed up with politics so they are willing to throw this major wrench in the machine to muck up the works. No one really thinks Trump would be a good President. It's kind of suicide for America. But people don't care any more. Not even me. I will vote for Trump along with everyone else.



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173,738 Unbelievable! Some idiot parent responds to the PTA email saying she'd like the upcoming school play to last only 45 minutes because after that her children start running around the auditorium and she has no way to control them.

Like what the hell? The play should be made shorter because your kids in the audience are poorly behaved? The students who worked so hard on the play should just what - not do the 2nd act?

How about you learn to control your brats!!!!!! Unbelievable how you think the school play should revolved around you and your inability to be a better parent!!!!



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173,737 I've got the Sunday night blues. I've been feeling sad all day. Hopefully tomorrow will be better...



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173,736 173720....Thank you..i understand your dilemma. My whole life has been about emotional unengagement ...life was beautiful.
I didnt care enough to be stressed out about anything. Suddenly now am emotional about stuff....i feel like a wimp...lol. I hate it..My friends and family like the new me though..oh the irony!



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173,735 You are just mad because you don't have your gig anymore.  You see how easy it's just to unplug everything and make you disappeared not just that but since you probraly get paid by the hour , I screw your paycheck.  Oh no I guess now you will have to go and find a real job .  While I'm home enjoying myself without being harassed by some reject like yourself , now that I think about it I should be thanking you . Since I decided to unplug , I got back to my reading  and my hobbies maybe I should send you a thank you gift or I should just leave outside on garbage day so you can come and get it your self . I was thinking a mirror and a book about ethics and manners since you don't have any.   How come you don't have any mirrors in your house? I know you don't , because if you did you wouldn't be criticizing other people based in appearance .  Secondly , what kind of mental illness you have?  I have never befriend you and saying hi once in a blue moon doesn't count as having a relationship let alone dating lol .  You know what I'll start making easy for your , instead of being a polite neighbor , I will just start being rude which is very unlike of me . Third , why are you so vulgar?  I can understand once in a while when a person is upset or angry but when you used the f word out of every sentence that come out of your mouth and called women the c word or other words to humiliate it's just plain tacky and disrespect . Do you have mommy issues?   Seriously moved on with your life , leave me and my family alone .



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173,734 Had the wife's family over the house last night to celebrate her mother's birthday. What a bunch of dysfunctional lunatics. Once a year is too frequent to be around them. I have visions of running away to a cabin in the woods...



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173,733 Dear covert narcissistic ex with a huge entitlement complex:  I see your days are numbered.  Who dangles someone for 2 months after a 2 year relationship instilling all sorts of abandonment issues until I finally break it off because I can't handle it anymore?  Then comes back months later pretending like that whole part never happened?  I know this tactic worked on your exes who would desperately seek your validation after treating them like this, but not me.  By the cavalier way you try to strut back into my life, I can tell you have gone through this routine before.  Sorry, but I have what one calls dignity.  If you are going to behave like an emotionless sociopath, I have no problem reflecting your shit back to you.  Oh, I know you rebounded with some low hanging fruit between the time of your discard and the time of your hoovering... Didn't last too long, did it?  You thought you can suck more ego supply from me.  You're wrong, bitch.  I cut you off dry.  Didn't expect that from me, did you?  I'm not like your other exes who only last 6-12 months, I was your bonefide longest 2 years relationship who studied you like a hawk while putting up with all your entitlement shit.  Yes, I deliberately spoiled you sometimes just to see whether you would reciprocate.  Nope.  Nothing.  You exploit people... Not just me, but everyone.  Imbalance relationship will never last.  I know leaving you wasn't a big lost because I wasn't given anything in the relationship.  You can only play with a woman's insecurities for so long, but it won't make a bedrock for a viable relationship.

Unlike a sociopath, all this shit does affect your emotions and ego.  It became psychosomatic... I can see how you've gained a SHIT TON of weight since we broke up. The last photo you were tagged in... I can't see where your chin ends and where your shoulders start.  What happened to you?!  Now you're with a new low hanging fruit prey... Low hanging because that's all you can get right now.  You're not happy though... Because who embarks onto a new relationship while posting on instagram how your life is going downhill and you're just going with the flow?  Someone who fucked up, then settles because your usual bag of tricks didn't work this time with a girl who has more self respect than you have ever encountered.  You better marry this low hanging physically unkempt girl because you really can't treat people like shit and expects someone with any self respect and dignity to stay around especially when you look like this now.  Your false charm is called false charm back when you were good looking.  Now it just reeks of desperation.  This new girl, with all her insecurities and inspirational quotes on her fb page might find that shit comforting and her self esteem might just be low enough to be sucked into your narcissistic lies.  It's your turn now to suck it up and put up with everything you don't want to; otherwise, you'll forever be alone... Despite all the alone time you need when your ego is fed, you can't stand to be alone when it's not.  Oh, the double edge sword.  Karma is a bitch.



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173,732 You know what they call someone who graduates at the bottom of their class from med school, right? Doctor.

Doctors are people, and like people, there are good ones and bad ones.  Ask your friends if they have a doctor they like and go to them.



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173,731 My high school reunion is coming up. I can't be bothered going. Too depressing. Everyone is old.



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173,730 After sex I won't sleep over at a woman's house because I snore. I go home and snore alone.



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173,729 I think people who wish harm  or death to children are the lowest excuse of a human being.  I don't care how much you dislike a person , there is no excuse .



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173,728 I think lazy parents pick on "helicopter parents" because the lazy parents need some way to alleviate their guilt for being so lazy when it comes to raising their own kids.



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173,727 To the doctor and sheriff who were off duty and saw me fall and stayed with me till the ambulance came, thank you so much. I wish the world was made of people just like you.



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173,726 Also...

1. When you say you're a good listener but you constantly interrupt what the other person is saying with completely unrelated topics, you're not a good listener.

2. If you say you are good at voices and accents and demonstrate your English accent and come off as Australian and deny it when pointed out to you, you are not good at voices and accents.

3. It's not a personal insult when your grammar and spelling and writing get corrected on a rough draft paper that you asked for editing on.

4. When you say you speak Japanese but insist the words are pronounced on English-type phonetics and can't even name some of the alphabets, you do not fucking speak Japanese.

Guys, I think I have a narcissist on my hands again.

I really don't need this again.

Commencing distancing.



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173,725 I really hate buying into the whole, 'everyone's trying to be a victim' complaint that goes around lately.

But there has been a tad too much self-victimizing and humble-bragging surrounding a few bisexual friends of mine.

There are the ones who are just, 'Yea, I'm bisexual.'  And they leave it at that.  Great.  I'm a lesbian.  They say great.  Nothing more to it.

But lately there have been a few people I know who try to pass it off as being better than me for it, because they are non-exclusionary and more open-minded than I am.  They are superior, because they are attracted to the mind, not the body and only inferior people fall in love based on body type.

One of them is transgender and has a superiority complex attached to that as well.  My partner is trans in the first place and we've been together for over ten years.  So it's a little tiring to be treated like 1. my problems can't possibly be as bad as theirs.  "Oh, you have hormone problems?  They can't possibly be as bad as mine."  2. Like I know nothing at all about the violence that happens to trans people.  ...Um.  I've been involved for a decade.  I'm pretty acutely aware of it.

I'm tired of encountering people like this.  They're always better and smarter than you, and their problems are always worse than yours.  The LGBT community has a terrible problem with whiners like this.

There was another friend of mine, cisgender, also bisexual, who also carried the arrogance that she was above others who were either gay or straight because she was more open than us lowly one-way-swingers.

Just... getting tired of this.  Victims form from predators, but sole focus on being the victim prevents us from seeing the people who really are trying to care and help.  It just pushes them away.



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173,724 Technically the only thing you want me to believe in is whatever you believe in, or not believe in.



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173,722 If you believe in God, then you have to believe in unicorns, goblins and fairy dust. You don't get to chose which fairy tale is "real" and which isn't. Nuh-uh.



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173,721 Just got 15 stitches today. Sometimes chocolate really does make boo-boos go away!



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173,720 I used to be too emotionally unengaged to give a shit. I'm not really sure if I like the change.



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173,719 Crazy, unattractive AND poor. Two out of three wouldn't be so bad, but I'm a triple threat.



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173,718 I had a horrible experience with a doctor once. It was around the time I was getting married. I started feeling like a zombie, I couldn't get out of bed, was exhausted all the time and was losing huge clumps of hair. I went to my doctor to see what was going on and he completely brushed me off, saying that I was just experiencing stress from the wedding and to ignore my symptoms (!). Fast forward a few months, and I'm visiting my dermatologist, who takes one look at me and decides that she's going to test me for a thyroid disorder. Lo and behold, I have a thyroid disorder and my doctor failed to catch it. In fact, he made me feel crazy for thinking that I had a problem, dismissing my concerns because of stress (sadly, this is a thing that happens all too often to women, it's an updated version of "female hysteria").

Happily, I found a group of fabulous doctors to help me out and they take great care of me. It just goes to show you that much like people in general, some doctors are raging assholes and some are decent people who actually give a damn.



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173,717 I just got out of the hospital today. All the doctors were very caring and empathetic. I think it's just the luck of the draw just like there are good people and bad people everywhere.



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173,716 I recently found out that 16 years ago, just after we were married, my wife slept with someone. What do I do with this information? Leave her? It was so long ago though. Forget about it? I'm at a loss.



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173,715 Planned date nights of any kind with my spouse have about a 50-50 chance that they'll pick a fight that will either ruin the evening completely or just cast a pall on it. But if we go on their timeline, and to their choice of location, then it's a good time. Usually.



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173,714 I'm not sure doctors are good people. They are an unkind, uncaring lot. I don't go to the doctor often. I'm not some hypochondriac. But when I do go, and I speak to the doctor respectfully, I would think I'd get the same treatment in return. No. The doctor acts like this is a real burden to him that I broke my wrist. For all the money we spend on health care, I expect a better attitude from the doctors.



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173,713 I'm tired of companies selling crap that doesn't work. I like China's approach. If a company messes up and sells a junky product, the CEO is taken out to the square and shot in the head.



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173,712 You can't trust James and Edith. They are a conniving couple. He is the technical brains and she is the deceptive one. He cracked the code to release my medical records and she told him where to send them. She seems like a lovely lady but she is the devil incarnate. James has no idea how evil Edith is. He just goes along with her ideas thinking how he is the smart one.



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173,711 One never knows how damaged a person really is until you try and love them.  I now know why they name hurricanes after people.



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173,709 He lied again, but isn't that what liars do? I know he lied because he thought the truth would cause a fight. Like another lie wouldn't? I'm too tired to start over again. I guess I'll sleep in the bed I made...for now. If it wouldn't hurt the ones I love, I would say fuck it and put a bullet in my head. But I care too much. Maybe one day soon I will feel enough life left in my spirit to walk away. Tonight I'll just lay here numb.



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173,708 Dumb people become criminals. Smarter people become cops. I think most cops become cops so they can steal money from the criminals during a raid. Don't tell me they haven't thought about it.



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173,707 That line from Breaking Bad so resonates - "the heart wants what the heart wants."  Why, universe - why - do you continue to put him in front of me, all smoking hot delicious, Einstein brilliant, funny, clean (as in smells as good as he looks), courteous, respectful, absolute human perfection???

The night I blew his birthday candle I motioned to him where to park and he followed me around the corner and parked with me...so he could escort me to my flat - it took weeks for me to figure out what he was doing.

The man's a living prince, truly regal.  And I love him.

But of course he's married to his wife and married to his career so where can this go?  I'd surely get WAY more face time with him at work than potentially ever "at home"...

Or would I?  The man needs some serious snuggling and spooning...

Sarah Connor said it best:  "God, a person could go crazy thinking about this". !!!



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173,706 I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her.

I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.

Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.

As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Every day, for five years, I chose her a little less.

I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.

Choosing her would have meant focusing every day on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more.

Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her.

I was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.

Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years.

She fought hard to make me choose her. That's a fool's task. You can't make someone choose you, even when they might love you.
To be fair, she didn't fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn't feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her every day, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.

Actually, I did abandon her.

By not fully choosing her every day for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her.

Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.

I'll never not choose another woman I love again.

It's torture for everyone.

If you're in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
“Why am I choosing my partner today?”

If you can't find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart's truth, “I just do.”

If you can't find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.

But if too many days go by and you just can't connect with why you're choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them every day.

Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Every day.
You do, too.

Choose wisely.



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173,705 695 - as a fellow designer I reckon you should let them know you've been paid above what was promised. It will show your integrity and loyalty and that is a character not many employers can recognise in their employees. And then there's karma.

Unless you really need the damn money. Then fuck it.



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173,704 All the bullies at work are now being nice to me. Not just courteous, but actually nice. They ask how my weekend was. They ask how my parents are doing. They ask how my relationship is going. I'm just wondering why people who were so mean to me, and other people, are being soooo nice to me. It is annoying. I just needed you to stop making people miserable, NOT ask about my mom. I don't want to talk to you. They are also being nice to others they have bullied in the past. Another thing I don't understand is why they are being nice to me when I have yelled at them.



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173,703 If an assailant holding a knife is approaching the police, and the police ask him to drop the weapon and he doesn't, why not shoot him in the leg? Wouldn't that get him to stop? Wouldn't that solve the problem?

No, the police shoot the man in the chest.

I think the police like killing people.



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173,702 I'm usually not one to give a damn about celebrities but what is happening to Kesha is messed up. She shouldn't be forced to stay with her producer if he drugged and sexually abused her. The judge who ruled that is a sexist asshole. This is just the latest example of the ongoing war on women. It's sad that we live in a world like this.



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173,701 I cry sometimes the weekends my son goes with his dad because I miss him. We have been divorced 5 years now, you think I would be used to this by now.



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173,700 I find it hysterical  when people think they can step all over you and if you defend yourself and fight back then you are called names . No bitch you started you been screwing myself and my family  for a awhile now . I have warn you many times to fuck off and leave us alone but no you think you are above and smarter . So fuck you bitch , get a taste of your own medicine.



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