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174,999 Most people think they are better than average looking. LOL.



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174,998 Hey Nicky please enlighten me with your stories. Like the one time you had sex in the car with a married guy parked near cornfields or how about the time where you wear a strap on to screw another married guy who liked to get ($$&& in the ax or maybe the one time where you stick your fingers in his behind and ate his poo.



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174,997 As a woman who have big boobs , Ill trade them anyway for small ones. I had always had them I develop breast at 11years old by the time I was a freshman in high school I was wearing a 34D , which is very big for a teenage girl who is under 100 pounds . Im in my late 30's and my weight its being going up and down since I become a mom but my breast they just keep getting bigger . Even a breast reduction 8 years a go didn't help that much, my boobs came back within a five year period.  I suffer from a lot of back pain ,its extremely hard to find a dress since the rest of my body is not the big, bra shopping forget it my only resource is online shopping . Most states don't carry my size 36DDD , 36 E, 36 F or 34G depending on the brand . i have given up in most high impact activities unless Im working out at home and I don't have to worry about some perved men just staring at my breast .  A woman with a small breast can always buy a push up bra to fill in certain tops and dresses , they have so may choices when it comes bra shopping or swim wear , you have to worry about catty comments from other women thinking that you have fake boobs  or man assuming you are slutty  or easy because that way your body is.  Just be happy wit what you have and if not you can always get boob job with comes with a lot of problems.



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174,996 I'm sorry, but when there's a death in a family and the first thing they do is set up a Go Fund Me account, I think they are using the death to make money. Disgusting!



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174,995 The PIN number for my ATM card shows up far too many times in life. Someone tells me their telephone number, there's my PIN. I pay my phone online. I get emailed a confirmation number, there's my PIN. I look at the random factory printings on the bottom of a yogurt container, there's my PIN.

Does this happen to everyone? Or is karma sending me some kind of message?



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174,994 National politics are certainly bad, but you haven't seen corruption until you've witnessed what goes on in small towns. The bold face lying in stealing is at absurd levels. It's brilliant though. With nation politics, there's always some reporter at a bug name newspaper who is paid to check the facts and follow the money. It's hard to get away with too much at the national level. But in small towns, no one  is watching. Money is taken with no accountability at all. It's an all you can eat buffet. Just last week, yet another small town board member hired herself to do a task. The task was never done, but sure as shit she got paid. So much corruption. We can't possibly survive as a society.



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174,993 With all that makeup it's hard to notice how greasy she is. The grease use to get on our furniture and floor. Poor thing. It's not the worst thing in of itself, except, she had an unctuous personality as well. Some things go hand in hand. Slippery as hell, too. It's not your fault that you mistook her for a lady.



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174,992 In high school band and orchestra concerts, the young ladies should all wear very long skirts, or pants. You know what I'm saying?



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174,991 Steve Jobs yelled at me once. I always felt kind of bad about it. Like damn, I did something to make a famous rich guy mad. It must have been all my fault.

I just saw the Steve Jobs movie. Now I see. He yells at everyone. That's the theme of the entire movie.

I can't believe I wasted time feeling bad about angering him. What a fucking dick he was.



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174,990 When I was younger, one of my favorite songs was Coldplay's "Warning Sign." I used to listen to it all the time. Then one day I realized that my life has become that song. It's tragic how life works that way.

I can't even think about the song without bursting into tears. My life is a nightmare and I should have listened to all of the warning signs...



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174,989 I miss her. And I miss her too. Each for different reasons. I cannot be an opponent of marriage, I am a opponent of marrying the woman you know is wrong! When every red fucking flag rises high, walk away, even if at the altar.

I miss you for giving me peace, your smell, the softest skin I've ever felt, the threesome with your friend, and really good head. Riding me the way you did, and holding me so lovingly. I'm so sorry I hurt you. I hope you're happy.

I miss you for being my constant. Being the one so close yet so far. Wanting to caress your legs that one day years ago. That kiss,your beautiful hands and intoxicating laugh. Wow, you are a gem. A diamond in a rough fucking spot. I want to hold your hand,shut the fuck up, and embrace you.

My heart aches for you, both of you!



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174,988 I secretly hate my "best friend."

She says she's going to bed at 7ᛕpm. Why lie to me? Just say you don't want to hang out. What a cunt.



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174,987 I dislike talking about myself.  No great need to have the room focused on me or any conversation.  Most people like to talk about themselves so in order to get the ball rolling I ask questions.
I do this because I actually give a shit.
It's amusing to finally realize that most people during the course of a week never ask me anything then just enjoy how much I listen.
The next time I talk to them they usually act startled when I ask them a question about their last disorientation as if they did not intend for me to retain what they said.
People are funny.  And very self absorbed.



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174,986 I don't hate people, but there are a lot of people i don't like being around for long periods of time.  And I used to think it was if they had a specific trait, like they were nasty or jerks.  But no.  Some people who talk a lot I don't want to be around because I feel trapped and exhausted.  They make me tired.  I have to listen to them nonstop.  Can they take a break?  But others who talk a lot get me talking too and I like them.  I don't know what the difference is between the two kinds.  I don't like people who make little digs.  People who ask tons of questions, although that's another one.  it depends on who it is, sometimes i don't mind.  If it feels like they're interrogating or judging me i don't like it.  people who are watching to wait to see what you do so they can criticize you or make a comment.  i don't like people like that.  there are some people i love being around all day and it's just great.



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174,985 I am obsessed with my boyfriend's dead ex. She killed herself by self-immolation. What the fuck?



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174,984 I have masked intentions.



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174,983 If he's haunting me, does that mean I'm haunting him too? I hope so.



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174,982 "White privilege"?

What a load of bullshit.

Shouting "white privilege" is just an excuse to be racist to whites.

Show your hate somewhere else.



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174,981 Why does Hilary get picked on for what she wears? Why aren't the men candidates' outfits critiqued? Yes, she wears pant suits.....but all professional women wear suits - either with pants or a skirt. So, why is she picked on for this? She looks professional at all times. Would wearing a skirt change her experience or her platform? NO. Let it alone. If you're going to judge her, judge her based on what she says.....not how she looks or what she wears. We don't do this to the men candidates, so we certainly shouldn't do this to the female. Let's evolve, America and stop putting women down. Our looks aren't all that we're about. There's more to us than the outside.



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174,980 My parents taught me nothing about sex.  It just wasn't discussed in a Catholic family in the ྌs.  As a result, I had no idea about women or anything.  What I learned about women was learned from romantic comedies, and it didn't help that my mom kept telling me that I had to be a nice guy if I wanted a girl.  Of course, the result was a fucking disaster.  It took me until age 27 to get it through my thick fucking head that girls don't actually like nice guys, and in fact girls hate it when the nice guys don't leave them the fuck alone.  My brother, somehow, figure this all out in his early teens.  Be a shitty guy to girls, and they'll fall all over you.  He was fucking girls through high school and college while I was writing songs and being sensitive.  What a fucking waste of time.  The only fucking I got when I was younger was what my parents did to me by feeding this bullshit into my ears.

My secret is that I intend to do the same thing to my boys.  I'm going to teach them that the nice guy gets the girl.  It'll ruin their chances of getting laid, which will keep them from getting STDs and knocking up any girls.



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174,979 So I went to my coffee place today for the first time in two weeks.  The barista there is about 35, dark hair, a piercing in her upper lip, and cute as hell.  She is just my type.  I am 52 and married.  

When I walked in the door the two people behind the counter lit up, including her!  I ordered my coffee and went to sit with my computer.  Ten minutes later she came out with a free cookie for me.  

I have not been flirted with like this in a long time.  Damn, it felt great.  I loved it.



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174,978 A female friend of mine is this cute, skinny Asian girl who's an accountant.  She barely has any tits.  Since it's tax season now, she does nothing but work 14 hours a day.  Last weekend I saw her for the first time in a month.  She had been doing nothing but eating fast food and sitting in her chair doing taxes.  She gained 10 pounds.  For the first time, I could see she had tits poking out of her chest.  It was really hot.  She looked sexy.  I went home and rubbed one out as I thought about sucking on and playing with her tits.



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174,977 Girl with large breasts has back pain all the time, but gains 5 pounds and no one bats an eye.

Girl with small breasts has no back pain, but gains 5 pounds and everyone thinks she's pregnant.



I'd rather deal with back pain than have people think I'm pregnant just because I gained a little bit of weight.





Big boon privilege is being able to gain weight without it being noticeable.



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174,976 I've been trying to keep my children naive about sex.  But what's with parents who thrill on telling their kids about the birds and the bees before they are even out of elementary school. You are gearing them up to be sluts and man whores.



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174,975 Just driving from her house to mine. Had business near by. Reminding me of the worlds apart; a mere 15 minute drive. Here, the lush verdant canopy envelops the neighborhood. Hope fills the air. There, the dirty concrete and diesel fumes swirl and descend on the living and the dead. The dead...you know, the ghosts? This ghost and that ghost, the one you will never measure up to? I'm safe in my green realm away from the smoky gray walruses puttering around in their ill fitting denim. Safe in my happy home away from the restless souls. Away from the horrifying emptiness of edifice. Home again.



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174,974 We sat around on the deck. Shared a beer. Didn't say much. What we did say meant something.I love low key women who know how to keep it real.



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174,973 There needs to be a body part trading system. Got a few I want to trade in. Fuck me.



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174,972 so tired of these fucking assholes who keep telling me small boobs are great and I should love my body. how you dare fucking tell me to love my body if I want to hate it that's my business! This goes for BOTH the men who say they prefer small as well as the bitches with the giant knockers who keep telling me how lucky I am! FUCK YOU!



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174,971 I sit and I wait.  I think I should have been called by now.  If they wanted to tell me by today, after only two days, then there's likely nobody else they're considering.  But I cannot function until I find out.



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174,970 {
   How do I work this?
   Where is that large automobile?
   This is not my beautiful house
   This is not my beautiful wife
   --
   Same as it ever was...
}

Great song, right up until I realized I have been thinking the exact same things on a daily basis and for quite some time now...



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174,969 As soon as I get a steady girlfriend, I want to fuck other women.



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174,968 I can't believe any working person, anyone with a job, thinks that Hillary is the answer.  She has not driven a car in over 20 years, she cannot correctly use a subway card in five tries, she actually only rode the subway for one stop and the entire time she is surrounded by police and her toadies, and she wants you to think she understands your problems.

Most people are too young or too stupid to know who Chairman Mao was in China.  He was responsible for killing over 100,000,000 Chinese who did not believe in Communism.  Look at the suits Chairman Mao wore and look at Hillary's pant suits.  The exact same.

You want a woman who cannot even pick out something nice to wear to run the country.  My God is she an idiot.



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174,967 I know I am getting older, because I'm starting to plan my whole day around watching "The Price Is Right."



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174,966 So I live in Tooele. Small town with not so attractive people. I use the whisper app a lot cause well my life is kinda boring. Saw a post about a hot cop in Tooele I started a chat with him calling him a liar there are no hot cops in Tooele or even any attractive people here. Went over to his place. We fucked. It was great. Just had a quickie with him. I love fucking that cop. I hope we're FWB for a long time. Here 6Ə" with a 10" dick. I'm 5Ɔ" and I can take it all. Fuck I love it. The best part is that he's a cop.



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174,965 My cousin's girlfriend is pregnant.
Everyone is happy for him but all I can think about is the misery and the money loss.



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174,964 New crush! I saw him looking at me multiple times tonight. Yessss!! New fantasy material. I'm onto you, AW K.. I've got you on my mind and I'll do my damn best to get you.



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174,963 Strange days indeed...

Did you think that did it for me tonite?

I was cackling hard at you during our convo because I couldn't help it and it stopped me from saying something I might have regretted...I readily said, "hey, I have my own thoughts on the subject...but ultimately people can live to their own ideas within reason...you know, like you can't go around just murdering people!...", I laughed at what you said while I also wanted to cry...For I am so audacious as to want the next man I fall for to realize that in addition to this envelope I have a pretty kick ass personality and even a brain as well...

Thanks for that sooooo hilarious joke, that "you'd keep me around if I stay skinny"...that I could gain up to 10 lbs before you'd "trade me in"...
Ho Ho Ho!
Um, your obese ass may have a shit ton of money but you also have more rolls than the proverbial baker's dozen... Somehow that's the kind of medicine I'd still very much find the taste bitter but be able to more easily swallow from another physical specimen.
And it's not like you've ever "had me" in the first place
In many more senses than that you've never stuck your dick in me

I appreciate so much a man appreciating my envelope
But the manner in which you expressed your one-dimensional"ness"
Just rubs me the wrong way

I'm not even planning on letting myself gain over 10 lbs...
I wasn't physically attracted to you
And now I'm really not attracted to just, well, YOU

Dating at my age sucks.
But there have been some good perks along the way



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174,962 I hate you Hector! I pray for your death!



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174,961 I've had a fucked up life. I try not to think about it, but every day for me from the moment I was conceived has been a struggle. I try to pretend it hasn't affected me, but it has.

All my life I was told things would get better someday. I stuck through, stayed alive all the times I wanted to kill myself, I did my best to persevere.
But now I'm an adult, and things aren't better. They might be worse. No one cares anymore though. All the friends I've had I pushed away, and I'm no longer a darling child for a nurturing adult to save, I'm just a sick, sad adult who can't help themselves. I should go back to therapy, I should give medication yet another try, I should do the things that used to make me happy.
But we all know I won't. I'll  disappoint anyone in my life that is left that still cares about me. And one day I'll kill myself, but by then I won't have anyone left to care. Maybe I don't even have anyone now. My time is coming, and death will be the only caretaker who loves me unconditionally and accepts me with open arms.
I will be ready for it soon.



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174,959 Had not seen my folks in a few months and when I walked in the door I hear what sounds like my mother crying so I run thru the house and fling open her office door only to find her laughing hysterically.  I said "what's going on, I about had a heart attack (as they are both almost 80 yrs) -

She said "oh it's just your Dad always saying something funny, he found a pair of underwear in his sock drawer and told me I was slippin..don't let it happen again"

Married over a half century and are as smitten with each other as the day they met.  It's so adorable I had tears in my eyes thinking about it driving home.

Fairy Tales do exist.



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174,958 I was at the gym today, as I lifted two 50 pound dumbbells, I totally shit my shorts. I calmly walked to the bathroom, which was the longest walk of my life, so glad there were no hot girls nearby.



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174,957 I try to be nice. I make dinner for my wife. All she can do is complain that I made a mess in the kitchen. I showed her how I didn't make a mess at all. Every spoon I used, every bowl I used, I washed them all. I ask her where she sees a mess. She points to a stack of newspapers in the corner. I point out the newspapers have been there for weeks. She put them there. I tried to throw them out weeks ago, but she wouldn't let me.  None of this matters.  She just wanted to complain. This is what she's like. She can't ever be happy. My making dinner must be ridiculed by her. That's how she operates. Even if it means lying and complaining I made a mess. In the end she says she's not hungry. She refuses to eat the dinner. She makes herself toast. She apparently has a rule where she must be unhappy with everything I do.



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174,956 Sometimes I pretend like I have super powers. I know I don't but it sure does past the time on the way home from work. I pretend that I can move cars with just a finger and set them safely aside so I can drive through traffic or that I'm flying home



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174,955 This is embarrassing. I saw it in a movie recently and it reminded me of being an oddball teenage guy. I used to stand in front of the mirror naked. I'd take my dick and balls and pull them back through legs so from the front I could only see my pubic triangle. It looked like a pussy. Then I'd take a black flair marker and draw a slit on my pubic region so it really looked like I had a pussy opening. I'd get super excited pretending I was looking at a naked girl. I'd lick my finger and rub my "pussy". I had repressed this vision of myself all these years. Then when I saw it in the movie, I was suddenly reminded of the strange sexual things I used to do. Other actions included sucking my own dick. I couldn't get it more than an inch into my mouth, but it as enough to suck on and make myself cum in my own mouth. I'd also try to bend my dick back and push it up my asshole. I was never able to make this happen. So glad those days are long since over.



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174,954 It's become very clear that I need to make a change in my life. I'm an enabler, plain and simple. People know that if they ask me, I'll always be down to drink, party, dance, do drugs, etc. Some people love me for it.

About a year ago my best friend ended our friendship and kicked me out of her house because she wanted her space back, and because I gave her HPV. When I tried to rekindle our friendship (we were like sisters for 6 years so I had to try), she told me I was a bad influence on her and that she needed to separate herself from me in order to be successful.

A year later and she's slowly continuing to move forward, which she was doing while we were friends as well, but still it makes me feel like shit because she probably made some of that progress faster because I wasn't there. This makes me re-evaluate my habits and how that effects people around me.

I'm happy for her though, because aside from all my emotions she is one of the most talented and driven people I've met, and she knows how to get what she wants. She deserves to be recognized for her hard work, because she puts her everything into her profession. She won't stop until she's famous. People laugh at her and say that's unrealistic because everyone wants to be famous  singers nowadays, but I know the truth. She's going to make it. It's just a matter of when.

Now I need to get out of my substance abusing ways so that I can be successful and live to my full potential too. Since I dropped out of school (due to becoming homeless and being unable to afford it), I've felt like I've been falling behind my friends, slowly but surely. They're all graduating college, having kids and moving up in life. One of my classmates works for the Boston Globe. Another, this one younger than me, just started an internship as a sports analyst. Another still has been approached by a fashion company (not a big one, but still) to put her artwork on their clothes. We're in our early 20's. All these moves being made and all I can say for myself is that I've gotten a handle on my bills, I have a full time job without a degree (though it pays well enough for now it's not what I'll do forever), and that I'm about to move into my 4th apartment because I'm one of the only people in my age group that can afford to live on my own. Though I only live on my own because I was forced to, and that's not something you go back on once Daddy gets back on his feet. You get out there, you stay out there.

Different strokes for different folks. Progress happens in different ways. But I can't help but compare myself sometimes and think that I'm lesser than because I don't have a single passion to work on and hone. I have many passions, which I can't choose between. I'm getting started on some of them -- I go to a choir group that sings 16th and 17th century European opera, and I'm starting an internship/volunteership as a radio assistant in a couple weeks. Starting is never the issue though, it's the continuing, and the building.

I just feel like shit, and hope I make something of myself before it's too late. Seeing everyone else around me motivates me, but seeing my ex best friend being successful just makes me think about how much I took away from that when we were friends, and how much I might be taking away from the success of my other friends. I don't want to be that kind of influence.

It's not all bad; I am adding to the success of some of my friends, which is a good thing. I add joy to their lives, mostly when I'm sober, and I try my hardest to make people feel comfortable with themselves. There's so much seriousness and negativity in the world that I want to always be a source of happiness. The reason people smile. I love making people happy, even though I've got some bad habits. I genuinely try to be a good person, by the principles of Jesus Christ, without all the judgeyness and violence that sometimes comes with that. I try to be good to my fellow man, and to have that goodness come from my heart, because God knows, and going through the motions was never something I did well anyway.

So I guess this just turns out to be another example of me and someone else being two people who aren't good for one another. This ex bff of mine was emotionally manipulative and could be controlling about some things, and her moral compass was practically nonexistent, and selective when it decided to come into play. I was fully devoted to her as her friend, and even when she showed me how selfish, uncaring, and vindictive she could be, I valued our friendship enough to get over it. She didn't feel the same, and it's good not to waste my time and attention on someone who would leave me high and dry the first chance it was convenient for them (which is exactly what happened).

Ugh, the world is never black and white. These things happen, and it's hard to realize that going back is pointless and won't do any good. I need to remember that.



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174,953 When I was 16 a girl asked me to go to the beach with her. We laid on our towels in an isolated section far from other people. After a few hours of talking and swimming and sunning, we started kissing. She reached her hand into my bathing suit and grabbed hold of my cock. I was rock hard and instantly shot a load all over my chest. It took her a moment, but she noticed and gave out this little startled "oh". Within minutes she had packed up her stuff and got on her bicycle and left. I asked if I could / should go with her. She didn't answer. She left me sitting there covered in my own cum.

I felt ashamed. I felt like I had done something very wrong, very selfish, perverted even.

From then on out she avoided me at school. I don't think we ever spoke again.

I never understood her reaction. I came. Okay I did. It was the first time a girl had touched me. But I needed to be shamed for this?

You know, for the next 10 years I had huge pangs of guilt when I ejaculated. Didn't matter if I was with someone or alone. I'm sure it was an echo of this beach incident.

I'm much better now, but still at times I feel bad after sex.



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174,952 I hate that I like to have sex with women other than my wife.  I don't know why I do it.  I can't stop myself.  I don't want to be this way... but I like it.  I like the danger and the intensity and the touching and the roughness.  I hate that I like these things.



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174,951 You don't have it yet.  Get back to work.  Concentrate.  It'll come.



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174,950 I don't remember a time in childhood when my mom didn't have me on a diet. I don't remember ever eating food without feeling guilty. I remember stealing change to stop at the 5&10 on the way home and buy candy. And you know what? It never made any fucking difference. Fat camp? Nope. Every diet known to mankind? Prescription drugs they later found out gave you heart damage? Weight loss surgery? At my lowest weight after surgery, working out and eating next to nothing (as prescribed), I was still obese.

Fuck that shit.
I am not waiting to do things anymore. It was always, I'll be cute when I lose weight. I'll get a piercing when I lose weight. I'll dress better when I lose weight. I'll go back to riding horses when I lose weight. I'll go on roller coasters when I lose weight. I'll dye my hair cool colors when I lose weight. I'll accept love I deserve only when my body magically conforms to some external plan of what it should be.

There's too much me. I'm too big, too smart, too fast, laugh too loud and too often.

Too bad.

I'm not fat; I have fat on my body.

I can treat myself well by eating good foods that I enjoy, that are nutritious. I can treat myself well by participating in things I enjoy that keep me active. I can treat myself well by loving myself now, as I am, and not waiting for some magic number on a scale to tell me it's now ok to like myself.

I'm done waiting. I have a life to live. I have love to give and receive.



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174,949 45 you are right my son is the same way he eats a lot and is natural slim , I on the hand if I quit being active I gain weight like crazy.   Even at my lowest I had always have big thighs even though I ran track . Every person has different body types and metabolism , there's no reason for body shaming. I exercise for the health benefits alone  not to try to be a certain size or be a certain weight.



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174,948 I used to get to have so much sex and it made me want more
But you were not the one for me
And I find myself unsure if your betrayal
Has lead me to this "dry spell" right now
That I am hesitant to open myself up to finding someone to be with

Or perhaps I am just in a cocoon mode
Saving my strength up for when I find the right damn one



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174,947 I abso-fucking-lutly HATE my husband!!
He is a  narcissistic, controlling and sadistic piece of SHIT!!!!
He is a bully and tyrant to our three children.
He will get up in my 16 year old daughter's face and square up to her like she is a man.He believes in making our children fear him as opposed to respect him.

I HATE HIM!!! I am waiting for my oldest to graduate from high school so I can tell my controlling, abusve husband to go fuck himself!!!

Fuck you Hector!!



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174,946 My marriage had flaws but I didn't want to actually leave my husband. I just needed to feel wanted and important. I had an affair and the man pushed me relentlessly to leave my husband to be with him. I felt like I had to. It was the biggest mistake I ever made in my whole life. I regret my choice every single day, even all these years later. But I got what I deserved, so I am here to punish myself for my actions. My relationship with him is my penance. Maybe I'll be a better person in my next life.



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174,945 I am 6Ƈ and have, for my whole life, taken in a minimum of 3000 calories a day. I have always been around 180 pounds. I eat what I want and rarely gain weight. If I do, I skip one meal and am back to my target weight.
My whole life I have had people comment on how I'm skinny and should eat more.
I eat so much that the last half of my meal is usually cold by the time I finish.
I do believe that people have different metabolisms, it effects our caloric burn rate.



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174,944 What is this nonsense?

There is only one way to lose weight. You take in less calories than you spend.

It's really as simple as that.

Granted, some people have more trouble with that than others and are compelled to eat more. But there's no "Secret metabolism" that some people are "Naturally gifted" with. These people simply do not eat in excess.

As for fat shaming? I'm not for it, but we also shouldn't glorify "health at every size." Nope, sorry, you are NOT healthy when you're obese.

We need more people to take personal responsibility in everyday life. This would improve the world.



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174,943 People are gaining weight more rapidly than ever and "no one knows why." Well maybe it's because people keep fat-shaming anyone who isn't completely haggard and gaunt! Folks who cry bloody murder over discrimination of all kinds (race/gender/economics, etc) are totally fine with ragging on other people for their size. Look at all of the fat-shaming secrets on this site alone, forget the millions of other instances on both the internet and real life.

Anyone who is struggling with weight issues is constantly told that they're less than, every fucking day. People might be able to hide some flaws with makeup and costumes, but you can't really conceal your weight. I know for a fact that until we figure out a way to stop attacking each other because of weight, people will continue to eat their feelings and get bigger as a result. It's a biological problem, yes, but it's increasingly a psychological one too.

For anyone reading this who is struggling with weight issues, the haters may crawl out from under their rocks and try their hardest to make you feel bad, but you are LOVED. You are a valuable member of society and what you do MATTERS. You might not feel this way at all but you really are AWESOME as fuck. Don't despair if you have a hard time, if you keep trying over and over you can make life better for yourself, whether that involves losing weight or getting healthy or whatever else will give you satisfaction in life.

I believe in you, I love you and I support you!



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174,942 919.....maybe she used it



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174,941 9/11 happened all right OSAMA DIDNT BLOW UP THR PROJECTS IT WAS YOU NIGGA TELL THE TRUTH NIGGA BOB KNOCKED DOWN THE TOWERS



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174,940 Being big or slim has nothing to do with being fit. I know plenty of slim people who will qualify as "skinny fat" , they tend to be natural slim and don't exercise since they have high metabolism they tend to eat not the healthy but they tend to lack muscle and can't do pull ups or push ups.  I'm in the bigger side however I'm try to be active and do both cardio and strength exercises not because I want to or desired being skinny . I do it because I like to be fit and be able to lift heavy items without the help of a man .  I also happen to have a flat stomach even though I don't work that much on my abs sure once in awhile I get bloated if I eat salty foods or it's the time of the month.  I'm sure I would drop a lot of weight if I would eat healthier but quite honestly I'm not dicipline enough to give on foods that I like .



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174,939 I first noticed I was fat in 4th grade. I remember the exact moment. We were in gym class. Each of us had to climb the rope. A few boys did it no problem. For some reason I couldn't get up the rope. I remember feeling embarrassed. Everyone was watching and I failed. When we were back in the locker room I looked at the boys who did climb the rope. Then I looked down at me. I noticed a difference. I had much thicker flesh around my stomach. I remember grabbing it with my hand. Oh, I'm fat. I instantly felt awkward and flawed. It's been 40 years and I've never gotten past that feeling. I'm still fat. I'm still awkward. I'm still flawed.



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174,938 I can't tell the people around me what I really think of them. Honesty is never appreciated.



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174,937 I think 9/11 happened. But I think we are being told falsehoods. I don't think it was done by Muslims. I think it was done by America. We needed oil. 9/11 and the Muslim story gave us reason to invade the Middle East and take the oil.



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174,936 9/11 never happened



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174,935 I did everything "wrong," and it looks like I'm winning anyway.

Fuck the rules- there are none.



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174,934 If I as a man turn down a woman for sex it means I'm not interested.  Man sometimes aren't in the mood...



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174,933 931, back at ya



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174,932 I can find fault with everything I've ever done in life.

1) I look back at how I screwed up in high school

2) I could have made a better choice when choosing a  college

3) I could have made more of my career.

These mistakes piss me off.

Then my wife reminds me

1) I was Valedictorian of my high school.

2) I went to an Ivy League college on scholarship

3) At work I became President of the company.

Maybe I'm just hard on myself. Ya think?



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174,931 I think about you every day.  There is just no getting over you :(



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174,930 I agree. If a man turns you down for sex it's because he just did it with someone else.

Corollary, if a woman turns you down for sex it's because she doesn't need anything at the moment.



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174,929 923:  I worked with a woman just like that.  She had a public bathroom phobia due to being attacked in one years ago.  She would go only if she was ready to burst.  I don't know how she didn't suffer from UTI's/bladder infections.  I felt bad for her.  :(



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174,928 i am becoming more and more convinced that since we've been apart, a piece of your soul split off and came back to me as my dog.



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174,927 You're right, I don't want to have sex with you. No one wants to fuck a dirty slob.



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174,926 Oh, the things I want to say to my husband's cousin:

"Um, you know you're a bit of a heifer when you've got to mercilessly skinny-shame a SIZE 10...?  Look, it's not my fault that you're only in your 50s and have to walk with a cane.  You don't even have the excuse of it being baby weight because you've never had a boyfriend, let alone had kids. Can you even remember the last time you saw your own jawline, or feet?  Oh, and there's a reason I didn't join the family trip to Disney World -- because I will not be seen in public with a sloppy fat Scooter Person who's only 'handicap' is being too out of shape to spend a day walking on level terrain.  Oh, and by the way, I'm sorry that even suffering a hernia where your abdominal wall actually split due to the strain of holding back your giant gut could induce you to lose a few pounds."

But I don't dare say anything to her, because my husband's family are all some of the heaviest, slowest, most unhealthy people I know, and hell hath no fury like a fatty who has to face the fact that weighing 300 pounds when you're 5Ɗ" just isn't good for you.  Nope, you're a size-ist!

My measurements are 38-29-40 and these people call me a "stick figure!"



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174,925 I put in great effort to make sure I have my facts right before I speak. The people I'm talking to... eh... not so much. They make things up. I don't understand how people think it's okay to blatantly lie to get their way.



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174,924 I had a friend once who would make "joke insults" to me.  I thought that since we were both guys and pretty close, that that's all they were - jokes.

Then one day I caught my friend's 35-year old friend trying to sleep with a 16-year old teenage girl.  It was within the state's legal age of consent, but I told the parents.  What a mess that was.  But the big surprise was my friend immediately started saying evil, nasty things about me behind my back.  It came as a total shock.  He didn't even listen to what I had to say.  He just went nasty on me.

And then I realized something.  All those times he was making "joke insults" at me?  No, those weren't jokes.  That's what he really thought about me.



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174,923 I have a co-worker who tries her very best to avoid using the office restroom all day.  To take a shit or even just to pee. The restroom is in the far corner of the building near to the noisy elevator.  A perfect location to block any sounds and to limit any smells in our offices.  And if the stalls are occupied (just 1 of each gender) you can always pretend you were going to take the elevator.  

Anyway, what kind of grown woman doesn't even want to pee at work?  You're in there by yourself. No one can hear you tinkling or anything.  No one knows if you're going to/coming from the elevator.  What gives?  It doesn't help that when she is about to bust and absolutely must pee at work, she makes a big deal about someone just giving pooped before her.  Lady, that's what toilets are for!



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174,922 I'm content with less than the dole. Well, maybe not content. I don't have to think about money. But, then again...

I do have to think about money.

Eventually I will have a home for you to come to. Sometime in the next 30 years. Maybe.



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174,921 I'm content being on the dole.
I have enough money to live off and can do whatever I want all day.



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174,920 It's a waiting game now, who is going to apologize first. Oh it's not a game, but you have to apologize, I'll probably die first. Just another chapter in my life, that was good now it's fucked up



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174,919 I don't know what to make of this. I've been married 6 years and my wife and I have never used condoms. She's on birth control, so no worries about pregnancy. Disease might have been a concern in the first few months of knowing her. But after this long, obviously disease isn't an issue for us.

I read a secret on here a few months ago about condoms. It got me thinking. I went and bought a 2-pack. Hold that thought.

Every year my wife goes away with her female friend to a beach house for week. This has been a bone of contention between us. What it comes down to is I don't trust her. I've heard stories of them clubbing it and dancing and drinking with men they met that night. I was told it was innocent. But to me it didn't seem appropriate for married women.

So a few weeks ago after buying the condoms, I put one in the side pocket of my wife's suitcase, the suitcase she uses for her week-long beach trip.

Over Easter we were going to her mother's house for the weekend. I knew my wife would use that suitcase.

Sure enough, she loads it up with her stuff. When she's done packing, I look in the side pocket. She's added some of her things, and low and behold, the condom is gone. She obviously found it.

So this is the interesting part. She found it and didn't say anything to me. Why is that? I'd expect her to tell me that oddly enough she found a condom in a suitcase. But she didn't. She must have secretly thrown it away. Why cover that up? I can only imagine it's because she feared it was leftover from her beach trip. That's the only explanation I can think of. To me it's a smoking gun that my wife has been doing more than just dancing with strangers. This sucks.



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174,918 Real men ignore the cupcakes and keep walking, because they have more productive career-oriented things to do at university, things that will help them earn a higher salary later on out in the real world.



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174,917 I need feminism in 2016 because a local college wage-gap bake sale led to hundreds of death and rape threats against women. All of the MRAs out there serve to remind me why we all still have so much to fight for.

Surprise, surprise the cavecanum MRAs are out in full force, implying that women deserve to earn less than men for buying cupcakes. Douchecanoes like them not only prove my point, they drive it home.

By the way, I'm a man! I love my mother, my sisters and all women who have to put up with this shit each and every day. They deserve better. I will continue to fight alongside them and I will NOT be silenced by people who are so insecure all they can manage to do is try and break other people down.



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174,916 Every time I run into you, I fall all mushy crushy on you. You're always so kind and sophisticated with your words. It's like running into a friend I've known years.....I wish you the best. I really really do. There's a small part of me that hopes I continue to see you and we do end up becoming Friends for years to come but the only thing that scares me with that is that I'd fall in love with you and eventually resent you for not loving me back. Unrequited love has gotten me once before and I barely made it out. But really it really is a treat every time I run into you. 1.6 million people in this city and I always end up running into you. Thank you for every thing you've done for me. :)



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174,915 I think I spotted you online today
Yet another ad...
Shall I answer it to fuck with you and confirm what I think,
That is is indeed you
Or shall I just NOT

Kind of a setback
To be thinking about you at all in this manner
After so long

But the stubborn side of myself gets my hackles raised and knows some folks just need a good hard fucking with after what they've put forth

May I remember that "revenge is a dish best served cold"
That the "best revenge is living well"

But Ghah, that language...
Totally one sided
Age...check.
Height...well, it sounds actual this time at least
Seeking "low emotional maintenance" female...
Your health "challenges"...
You...you...you...all about you
The poster sounds like you so much or perhaps you have a fellow emotionally stunted  doppleganger that I can only hope isn't as much of a stone cold asshole
I often wondered while we were involved if perhaps your over one half century old ass had Aspergers to some degree

Really, I wish you'd quit rolling around in the dumpster and torturing ladies with your acquaintance and dirty assed curved dick if it can even raise to the occasion these days

yeah, health challenges
I had one of those too, in a totally different context in the case of a "not so mysterious" curable STI brought by you  Mr. I Am Proud of my Identity and my Curved Member

Yeah, you should be fucked with...let the chips fall where they may...And my pussy now smells and tastes better on a regular basis now that you have no part up in it...Go figure
I am going to try and resist "catfishing"



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174,914 I imagine a world where women want sex.

My imagination is running wild.

My penis knows the truth



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174,913 I've tried anal sex twice in my life time and it was excruciating painful!
Afterwards my ass hole was sore for days.
How the hell to people find anal sex pleasurable?! It was awful for me'
41/F



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174,912 I hear so many people throwing around cunt as an insult (although abroad it isn't really derogatory). I never understood this usage. Cunts are totally fucking awesome! They are warm and snuggly and wonderful.

We need a new word to replace the negative use of cunt. I propose that we start using smegma. Smegma is rank, nasty and unpleasant. No one wants smegma around and if it is, you get the fuck out. I'm telling all of my friends to start using it. For example, "my mother in law is a festering smegma." It has a much better ring to it!



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174,911 My boyfriend used to slap me from time to time.  He was also verbally abusive.  We stayed away from each other for over a year. then I went back to him because he promised he changed and i love him.  We've been back for a year now, and i think his abusive ways may be coming back.  He hasn't laid a hand on me, but his anger is there, if he's stressed it turns to anger, if he isn't feeling good it turns to anger, if he's sad it eventually turns to anger.  it turns into "fuckin this fucking that."  The other day he was sick, he says "i have a fuckin headache and im fuckin sweating and this house is a fuckin mess and i couldnt do anything today because im in bed all fuckin day."  When i am not with him he feels alone.  It seems like if im there with him more, or if i move in, he'll be happier and therefore not angry.  That's the simplistic version though.  is it true?  he makes it sound like things are bad because we're not together more.  is it too simple to believe that if i was with him more he wouldn't be like this?  or would he just be like this more but in person and not on the phone? would me being with him more solve this?  or would it get worse?



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174,910 Twice I've tried anal, both times it didn't work. He couldn't get his cock in me. Either I only date men with huge cocks (not likely lol). Or my bum hole is too small to fit even an average cock. ps - I'm told my pussie is very tight, so maybe my bum hole is too.



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174,909 The most absurd lie I was ever told was that by my then boyfriend. I found a small little sample of lube in a bag he carried around with him it was unopened and sealed. Upon questions him he said it was for the trucks he worked on at work. He was a trailer mechanic you see. I must be really dumb and just wanted him to be telling the truth. I suppose he got it from the strip club .



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174,908 I work with the man who is so insecure that he always always always talks with his hand over his mouth. It's completely strange. It's like he doesn't want anyone to see his teeth, or smell his breath. Or he thinks he might have spinach caught in his teeth. So he covers his mouth while talking. Can you say weirdo??



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174,907 892, that is me in my marriage. 35 f



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174,906 Haha, if you are gonna open your discreet email accounts at work, make sure it's logged out when you leave!  I was on a computer that still had a coworker's Yahoo account logged on.  
Of course I clicked on his mail!
He's married, but MANY MANY daily emails to craiglist ads about dirty massages, and meeting girls discreetly after he gets off work...pics of him, etc.

Now I have a nice little file saved if he ever tries to cross me!



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174,905 I'm not sure if my sex life is profoundly erotic by pushing the boundaries to such extremes, or just plain old sick.

I will give an example. When I first married my husband, we had missionary intercourse.

We progressed.

Now a typical encounter might involved him sticking his finger up my anus. With his finger in there, he talks to me about how he is playing with my poop. He pulls his finger out to show me the poop on it. Then he sticks that same finger up his anus. He says he wants our poop to mingle.

He asks me to do the same in reverse. I get his poop on my finger, then I stick my finger up my anus.

Then we lick each other's finger.

Somehow I don't think this is the typical sex going on in suburban bedrooms.

Erotic masterpiece? Or sick and we need counseling?



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174,904 i sure do love you but i can never be with you again



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174,903 wow you lie and lie and i believe you even going as far as to swear of your daughters life. until i have proof and you still lie and then until saying sorry or something normal you say oh well you shouldn't have done such and such....okay loser



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174,902 If your husband turns you down for sex it's because his nuts are empty. he either just jacked off, or he just bonked with another woman. Men never turn down sex when their nuts are full.



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174,901 Secret: Girl Scout cookies are made by two different bakeries. And depending on exactly where you live, you might get different cookie options. While one bakery cooks up Caramel Delights and Peanut Butter Patties, the other offers Samoas and Tagalongs.

The one thing the two bakeries have in common - the one true icon of the Girl Scout cookie empire - Thin Mints.



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174,900 I had enough and politely but sternly told a "friend" so stop insulting me. I am no longer to be used as the butt of any of her jokes.

Her response still baffles me. She said she doesn't remember any of the insults. She admits she made many insults. But since the exact words are a blur to her, then the insults don't count and she can't be held responsible.

How easy for the bullies of the world. If they forget what they said, then they don't have to apologize.

Bullies have mental issues.



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