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175,899 LOL. Parents who post online in our community looking for summer jobs for their teenage kids, while saying their kids are "highly motivated and hard working".

Yeah, except that the parents have to post online because the kids are too lazy to do it themselves....



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175,898 LOL, the restroom issue has nothing to do with republican vs liberal or whatever bs. Believe me or not there are plenty of liberals and even some of the gay community who do not want to share restroom or locker rooms with the opposite sex. So please stop putting labels on people and assuming every person who is agains of it is some kind of homophobic republican who hates thgrangernder people.



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175,897 Leave it to liberals to try to give any kind of freak rights,and to take away the rights of the normal people. Disgusting.



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175,896 894. They shouldn't have existed in the first place. They're changing their outer appearance,not their genes. If You're born a man,You stay a man no matter how You try to change it. If You're a woman You stay a woman no matter how You try to change it.



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175,895 For the last few months, a few times a week, I wear a Princess Plug to work.

F 41



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175,894 My neighbors skinny dip in their pool.  I can't see the pool, but once I saw the guy walking towards our house, readjust the towel and he was naked beneath.

I just wish they would invite me for a skinny dip!

M 43 home nudist



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175,893 Many years ago, I used my brother-in-laws computer to check something at his house.  I know I went looking and there it was.  A folder of erotic photos his wife had taken.  Damn.  Perfect man-mades, smooth skin.  Wow.  Closed it all up, felt like a shit for a while but yeah, I know what my sister-in-law looks like naked.



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175,892 Every Saturday night I fall in love with her all over again, but knowing she doesn't want me, I spend all day Sunday trying to forget her....



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175,891 Maybe you forgot what happened the week before. Someone came forward so we had to deal with that. Just so happen I took that way because I find it shorter. I had know idea I'd see that. So no I didn't wait. WTF is wrong with you? Seriously!!  To think you were going to be invited over finally for pizza. Good thing you showed your true colors once again.



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175,890 Yeah,wou were coming back from somewhere you had to go at 6ᛆ am,im sure you didnt wait to post it and it was time stamped.it was fun but definitely time to shake things up"you know how i roll" and i put her up to that pic,she was very reluctant,and i am not trolling anybody,you and i had some laughs. I did not cheat ,i waited a couple days lol



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175,889 It's the weekend and the only reason I took a shower was so I could use the shower head on my clit and cum to the thought of riding your cock.



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175,888 You thought you were being funny by having her post a pic to my timeline. Well not only did you get blocked, so did she! What troll do you have now? You know the other one won't tell you much. As I said, never, ever try to get in touch with me. You are a low life sum bag that is just a piece of trash. I let the trash pile up and it was a god send I found out the way I did. Don't forget I live that way and showed you those roads. I don't live my life for you. I was coming back from somewhere I had to go. It just so happens, I took the roads with out street lights. You know how I roll. Back roads all the way. Too bad you don't have a memory. I hope you forget my number entirely. You will never be unblocked so don't ever try. Weather it be Facebook or by phone. You'd have to try some other way. I know that unknown number I got around the same time as the pic was posted was you. Glad I didn't answer it. You will always be a piece of shit liar and cheater. I hate you all the way to my bones. I've never told you that. Well, I can honestly say I HATE YOU!! You are the biggest loser in the world and you deserve to be miserable for the rest of your life. There will never be you and I.



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175,887 On my days off, I take naps in the middle of the day because I'm just so bored.



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175,886 I find myself grateful that the hospital windows don't open. . .

   I'm tempted to jump.

Guess that's why I'm here huh?



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175,885 A few years ago my wife and I visited at her sister's house. After the kids were all in bed, the adults decided to watch a movie. Not my sister-in-law though. She said she had to get up early, so she was going to take a shower and go to bed.

I announced I was tired too, and headed off to the guest room.  

I immediately opened my bedroom window and climbed out onto the lawn.  It was a one story ranch house. The master bathroom was at the back of the house and had a large picture window overlooking the woods. No curtains.

I positioned myself behind a tree and watched my sister-in-law disrobe, pee and shower.

Totally perverted thing to do. But I don't regret a moment of it. Had I gotten caught, my wife probably would have divorced me and the family would have never spoken to me again. But worth the risk to see her beautifully manicured landing strip.



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175,884 I have a 2 year running sinus infection. Finally found out that it is Candida running rampant in my sinuses, ears, and genitals. Athletes foot too. I shoot big chunks of fungus out of my nose every waking minute. That is just gross as it gets and I've got it in full force. Fuck my life.



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175,883 "I am not a dictator." said the man who issued an edict that all public schools be modified for 0.3% of people because it suits his agenda.



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175,882 I want you so badly. I want you to touch me and I want you to look me in the eyes adoringly and I want to wake up naked with you and have sex all day. I want to make you cum and make you breakfast and have 3456789 of your babies. this makes me feel so immature 😩 😩 😊



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175,881 I was in Fargo this past week staying at a nice hotel that was within walking distance of a bar that has a hell of a happy hour.  I go there early and was on a mission to meet and schmooze with some woman so I sat alone in the middle of the bar with plenty of seats on each side of me.

I was four or five beers into the night and had met a couple of local guys and talked with them and they were pretty funny.  After that a very good looking and tiny blonde sat down next to me and I told her I hoped she was in the mood to talk.  And so we did.  For four hours we drank and talked and laughed and once in a while I would touch her arm when making a point and once in a while she would touch mine.  We were only four years apart in age.  She was a tiny blonde with small hands and big breasts, and she had a brain, was funny as hell and I could have talked to her forever.

I then tried to get her to come to my hotel or I would go to hers and we would sit in the hot tub and drink some more.  She kept up with me on beers.  She was in town for a conference and I was in town for business.  Her hands were so small and dainty that all of a sudden I thought my cock would look like a baseball bat in them.  

I have never picked up a woman in a bar or had a one night stand.  I tried like hell.  She was married, I was married, but I would have done anything to be with her that night.  She turned down my offer and went off in her car and I went back to my hotel and sat in the hot tub.

I did post on CL missed connections and I thought she would respond because she was so much like me I was sure she would look there after she changed her mind.  Alas, nothing became of it.  I was sad.

53/m



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175,880 I'm often embarrassed to tell people what I know. I rarely speak up in public. On the internet, I'll explain things in a chatroom, like a word derivation, or I'll derive the math behind something, but I never use my real name. I have a fake ID for this purpose. I love knowledge and sharing knowledge. But I don't like to be noticed.



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175,879 People think I have brilliant ideas. Nope. I plagiarize. I don't think I've ever had an original thought. I do a lot of research and cull out other people's good ideas.



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175,878 Men who abuse women don't deserve your time. If he only slaps you once in awhile it's too much. Years ago I met a guy online who turned out to be an abuser and forgot to mention he served 5 years in prison for raping his 7 year old step daughter. While in prison he was placed in a treatment  program that allowed him to skip the whole registering as a sex offender. No trace of his horrific crimes. When I discovered this news I decided to turn his world upside down and outed him, chased him all over deciding to not rest until he was arrested and forced to register. As a sex offender. I enjoyed terrorizing him and chasing him down to every new town he moved to. I immediately contacted the school superintendents , law enforcement, the local post masters and every business  in town. Loved having detectives calling me telling me they were hot on his trail, just missing him by moments when he had the flee his latest home for new digs. Once a detective called me stating that in small towns, people believe in vigilante justice and most likely the locals would take care of this "problem" maybe there would be a hunting accident, or he would mysteriously disappear or his car would end up being run off the side of the road toppling over and over and he's be found dangling upside down, hanging himself on his seat belt. Maybe there would be a mysterious fire, maybe an overdose. He did surface one more time. He was a stupid and arrogant man who preyed on vulnerable women. He married an older woman with health issues, pretended to be a Jesus freak like her...he posted all his news on Facebook...moron. I contacted her and told her about  his evil past. She refused to believe me instead buying his bullshit about what apathetic life he had led, victimized by everyone, hurt, destroyed by his childhood... Yadayada yadayada yadayada. She told me her family was in law enforcement and they would prove me wrong. Oops! He was found out and realized he was far more dangerous than I had told them. Needless to say,he is suddenly gone. Hmmm... I wonder what his fate was. I hope it was painful, drawn out and agonizing for him...he deserved nothing less.



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175,877 I'm a guy. I've considered wearing women's clothes and entering the ladies locker room. The illegality always stopped me. But now if I can get away with it by saying it's my gender identity, I could see myself doing it. Just being honest here.



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175,876 In the course of a year, my wife will go to church 52 times. She also teaches religion, which is another hour per week for 40 weeks. She also goes on half a dozen special days, like Ash Wednesday.  All tolled, I figure she spends 100 hours a year at church.

We have sex once a year for 30 minutes. She says she can't do it more than that because she's too busy.

I think she's having an affair.... with God.



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175,875 I'm in over my head and have no clue how to get above water.



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175,874 Almost 7 weeks pregnant with a long awaited, very much wanted child, and I'm so worried that something will go wrong with the pregnancy that I can't enjoy it. :(



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175,873 This bathroom business... I see people shouting out their opinions, so I went online and did a search for stories about men being found in the women's room.

Holy shit.  Everywhere.  Thousands of incidences of where men snuck into the women's room to look at or assault women, even with people on the lookout.

Apparently, this is why women in the early 20th Century wanted gender specific bathrooms - to keep out the men.  Gender specific bathroom mitigated the risk of perverts getting off by looking at women while they pee.  And yet there are still thousands of incidents.

This whole thing reminds me of the anti-vaxxers.  They don't see polio or measles, so they assume these diseases were never a risk and thus they don't need to be vaccinated for them.  Same things with the bathrooms.  People think that because they haven't been assaulted in the bathroom, therefore there's never been a problem.

Welcome to America.



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175,872 I am pushing middle age and I still have no idea what I really want to do with my life. I really don't have any hobbies or a passion for something specific. I don't even know how to go about finding it. Everyday I just continue to go through the motions. How sad.



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175,871 This whole bathroom thing is ridiculous. No where should kids and grown adults be using the same bathroom unsupervised.

Just because people can use the bathroom that correlates with their gender identity (you're wrong if you think a man putting a wig and dress on means he now has free access to naked vulnerable young women) assault is still assault. It's still illegal. This isn't a free pass for sexual assault to occur. Trans people like myself do anything they can to avoid anyone's focus being on their body. I will change when I get home, not in a locker room. I will use a stall so no one can see whether I'm standing or sitting. And if someone does tell me my feet were standing the 'wrong way' when I was at the toilet I have a comeback. I have a colostomy bag which means I need to stand up and empty it, I can't sit and pee.



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175,870 I'm the middle of the night, nightmares seem real. I hate insomnia



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175,869 I've been practicing my acceptance speech for the Academy Awards. I'm pretty good with it. Now I just need to make a movie.



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175,868 I just had my body tell me to take a lil off the top...only one wretch and a single upheave puke...I shall show up for job trading tomorrow and hopefully rock it...Ghah, my life is all too complicated and empty at the same time



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175,867 I haven't felt normalized in about five years. Right before I graduated high school. I wasn't even that happy or functional in high school, but at least most things felt real then.
Nothing has felt real in a long time. I think it's the mental illnesses. It seems like there's a new one every year. Bipolar, depression, acute anxiety, aspergers, dysmorphia, and whatever else my doctors might have secretly added.
I'm beginning to crumble. I want to feel real emotion again, not a byproduct of whatever sickness is most prominent that week. I want to feel the sun on my skin and have a real reaction. To sit on the couch with a cup of tea after work and actually enjoy the silence.

I crave normalcy. I need it or I will crumble.



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175,866 re 17566 I have a hard time believing you took the time to write that great wall of text over someone who is always going to make you doubt about his feelings for you.  Not to mention the abuse.
Men who abuse women, as far as I personally know from past experience, never change.  They only get worse and the less you take it the more bored they get. Men who need to have constant attention are always trouble.

Move on yesterday.
It won't be easy but you will thank yourself someday.

Raise your standards and tell him I want it this way or the highway.
He's not "the one".



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175,865 The last time the AIDS quilt was displayed in it's entirety (93' I think?) I picked up a girl from out of town who had traveled with it.  We fucked in every way possible, all 3 holes WITHOUT CONDOMS.  I struck me as weird at the time and I still think about it.  She was an AIDS educator and I blasted two loads into her ass.  Weird.



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175,864 I used to go to adult theaters A LOT when I was younger.  Never touched the guys but I was always looking for a wife or gf who accompanied their SO.  Only happened 1 out of 3 visits but it usually made up for it.  I've had so many BJs from random ladies and even fucked a few with or without condoms.  I was an idiot back then but it was damn fun.  Where I have moved to has no theaters but when I go back to my hometown, I'll stop by the old haunts and sure enough, there are a few ladies still draining every cock in the place.  Simple pleasures...



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175,863 I go to Naked Yoga some evenings without telling my wife.  I wish she would accept my nudism or join me.  Alas, planning a surreptitious weekend away to a nude resort without her while telling her I am seeing old friends.  No fucking.  Just being myself for 3 days and 2 nights.

M 42



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175,862 im at a sweet 16 party for my neice more like a wedding reception. unreal. the $$ you spent for what? cuz she turned 16? insane. I can say that 16 year olds didnt look like this when i was 16. lol



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175,860 Amber alert?  I couldn't care less ... not my problem.  Stop bothering me with these phone alerts.



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175,859 Seeing someone naked is not the same as seeing someone flash you.



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175,857 You want to cross dress, go for it. But don't make it my problem to provide you with a place to pee. You should have thought of that before putting the dress on.

How about I turn it around. I have this thing. I've felt it since birth. But I only started expressing it in 1st grade. That's when I knew I like to punch dipshits in the throat. Ya know, it's just kind of my thing. Please don't hate me for it.

So I hope you'll understand and allow me to express this innate desire of mine whenever and wherever I want. Oh, and if I can't find anyone to punch, I insist you provide someone for me. Thanks.



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175,856 When my husband is gone for a week on business, everything is pleasant around here. The kids and I have a good time and we get many things accomplished. I also find I eat healthy foods and go running.

As soon as my husband returns, he starts letting into me and the kids. Fights break out and I turn to junk food for comfort.

My husband is like a black hole for happiness.  He sucks it away and makes everyone miserable.



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175,855 When I was nine, a grown man flashed me on a public street. I stopped walking alone.

When I was eleven, a grown man cut off a piece of my hair in a movie theater, then masturbated to it. I stopped going to the movies with friends for several years.

When I was fourteen, a boy stuck a push pin in my breast to prove I was stuffing my bra. I wasn't. I started wearing baggy tops and hiding my body.

When I was fifteen, I was groped for the first time. Shoved up against a locker at my brand new school. I froze and hid in the bathroom until lunch was over. That same boy tormented me until he graduated that May.

I had my drinks spiked twice in college, had someone attempt to assault me in the street, and have been harassed more times than I could possibly count. All of those things are illegal. No one ever cared. None of them were perpetrated by the trans community. The only perverts I've dealt with have been straight, entitled, manly men. My story is not unique or special. Women have put up with this shit their whole lives. We're taught to be suspicious of men, to surround ourselves with friends, to carry our keys between our fingers as a weapon. It's not because of trans people. It's because men do vile, illegal shit to us and no one believes or cares enough to stop it.

If you want to whine about trans people taking a piss, make sure your own house is clean first.



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175,854 I'd say 75% of the time Find My iPhone doesn't work. It can't tell me where my wife is. It can't tell me where my kids and their phones are.



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175,853 I'm more concerned about the kids.  Whatever "this goes both ways" means, they're the ones who will get fucked up in the head from all this.  They should be our first priority.  This country is too busy protecting feelings and not trying to offend anyone, the ones that really matter are children.  And it's not about transgender, ones who had operations.  It's about the pervert men dressing up as women because of "gender identity" and using that as an excuse because "i feel like a girl today" to go be with girls and look at girls in the bathroom.  the men who expose themselves to girls because they find it fun. it makes it easier for them.  women do all types of things in restrooms, they shave their legs, they fix their boobs in the mirror, they get changed.   Whatever these men did before, this makes it much much easier.  our first priority should be kids though.  I care more about a little girl's mental wellbeing and feelings at possibly seeing a man's penis in the bathroom (and laws making it easier for that to happen) than I do about the discomfort of a person who made the decision to change sexes peeing next to someone of the "opposite" sex.   As for transgender kids, I don't even understand that, because kids think all types of things and say all types of things, so for a parent to allow that at such a young age...idk.  If you decide when you're older, that's a different story...But the regular boys who have hormones raging through them (as boys do in junior high and now younger)can use this and say they feel like a girl today and teachers can't do a thing to stop them.  Don't think people are so noble and moral that this won't occur to them.  Especially boys of a certain age that think about sex how many times a day?



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175,852 If a trans guy, (originally was a female) has had hormone doses and basically looks like a guy now, or vise versa, a male to female trans has breasts, and looks like a woman, do you really want them to go into their born gender bathroom? Some are complaining about how it will effect what kids will think, but doesn't it go both ways... do you really want a fierce looking man in the women's room, and do we really want to stand and pee next to a feminine looking woman?



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175,851 Really?  no one else in the world is harmed by seeing someone else naked?  Little girls who see a man's penis when they aren't supposed to aren't mentally or emotionally harmed?  That has a huge potential of happening right now.  I guess only people who have sisters or daughters or granddaughters or nieces would understand.



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175,850 Often I cannot eat the whole plate in the restaurant as well. I feel full with drinks and water. I feel full by volume not by the energy the food provides. When I get back home, my stomach is empty again as the liquid has already passed through the system. This is my time for the leftovers!



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175,849 Kids are a pain in the ass. They cry. They demand. I've learned to ignore their whining.

But this magical thing happens when they turn 12. They can start mowing the lawn.

Excellent.  Pay back for all the crap I had to put up with.



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175,848 When my wife goes out with he friends, she can't possibly finish the enormous amount of food on her plate. She must bring half of it home in a doggie bag.

Then when she gets home, she wolfs it down.  It was all a charade. She pretends she's dainty and can't eat what the restaurant served.  But sure she can. Vanity got in the way.



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175,847 One day trans people will have more rights than everyone,along with gays and lesbians. We'll go to the point where reproducing is forbidden,all thanks to the liberals.



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175,846 oh great. another avoidant lover. The ones who are all warm and then just disappear on you for a bit, on purpose. I have realized i am looking for something more secure and communicative. I am not looking to blame or to forgive ( that would imply blame) but to release this pattern in my life. woot can't wait. i can't wait to release this pattern and then in the near future find someone who wants to communicate and doesn't over identify with basically everyone, and knows who they want to make it work with.



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175,845 What really bothers me about the transgender bathroom law is not the "shared" policy, not that some pervs could go into the bathroom and commit crimes as it happened before. It is the fact that these pervs will not be held accountable and prosecuted for their crimes as under the new law "he" feels like a women and there is no way for the court to say otherwise. This is one giant loophole for the sex offenders to get free.



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175,844 I am a conservative guy and not bothered by this transgendered bathroom thing.  

Anyone who is a transgender is going to be private about it and not want to draw attention to themselves.  Go in, do your business, and get out.  That is as anyone who goes into a pubic bathroom does.  Who the hell would want to stay in a public bathroom for 10 seconds more than needed ?

As for the perv's. Well anyone walking into a woman's bathroom with bad intent is going to do that no matter what the law is.

I just don't see what the issue is once you think through it.



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175,843 There's definitely underhanded shit going on during this stupid controversy with bathrooms.

Distraction?  More like an obstacle.  They know that there are people who have personal stakes in this game and they must defend themselves and their friends.  While they spend all their energy on that stuff, a bunch of nastier shit gets through.

And god dammit I -hate- how liberals and conservatives snark the ever living daylights out of each other.  That's ANOTHER distraction from the nasty shit that passes through.  Grow up and realize that there are serious consequences to things at hand.  Quit wasting our time with your mudslinging.

To those who wish to find a middle ground, I commend you.  You're doing a greater job to move things forward than the people who waste time delighting in useless website forums shitting on liberals or conservatives instead of doing one god damn productive thing.



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175,842 No one in the history of the world has ever been harmed by seeing someone else naked. Ever.

Regardless of the genders involved.



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175,841 I don't care about trans people in the bathroom. It's the locker room I have an issue with. Dicks don't belong in the women's locker room, and boobs and vag don't belong in the men's locker room.



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175,840 Transgenders have been using whatever bathroom they've wanted to for years without any problems. It's just now become an issue because conservatives lost the gay marriage battle and they need someone else to focus their hate on.



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175,839 I used to be a self righteous conservative several years ago.  It's easy to point a finger and yell vitriolic talking points all day.  If you listen to enough Rush Limbaugh or Glen Beck, you can sound just as " intelligent" as they think they are. Screw the far right and the far left, just live and let live.

That being said, I tend to favor just left of center libertarian and could give two shits about the latest controversy about trans people. Conservative folks, do you have the proverbial "balls" they do to be authentic in their gender identity?  Likely not.  It's better to hang with the sheep and denigrate.  

The way I see it, what is really happening behind the scenes that can be easily distracted by the controversy du jour??



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175,838 This transgender bathroom debate is just a distraction....open your eyes....what are we being distracted from?  What is the real news?

Pay attention.



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175,837 Crazy love is the best kind.   It's never boring.  Ever.

You can keep your normal stuff.



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175,836 Everyone deserves the right to pee in peace. Guess what... You've prob been next to a trans person in the restroom without even realizing it. Public restrooms are disgusting and people just want to do their business and leave, not hang around watching strangers. Interesting fact, most victims of sexual assault know their attacker. It's not some stranger in a bathroom.

I'd rather have a trans person sharing the bathroom with my kids than Jerry Sandusky.



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175,835 I had a falling out with what had been a really close friend. There are several disadvantages to this (mutual friends, help with stuff, laughs), but I've gone 7 months without hearing about her soy allergy and for that I am very grateful.



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175,834 The older I get, the harder it is for me to understand liberals.  Obamacare made insurance premiums double, yet they still say it's great.  You tell them that it needs to be repealed and they shout incomprehensible things about people becoming uninsured.  You can tell them that raising the minimum wage to $15 will make people lose their jobs when fast food places install kiosks.  They ignore it when it happens.  The transgendered thing?  Even with bathrooms separated by gender, men have been regularly caught creeping around in the women's room all the time.  So what do liberals do when you ask them how they're going to handle it when the perverts now can walk into the women's room without scrutiny?  Of course, they ignore it and shout slogans about equality.  They call you "transphobic" and whatever other word they just heard used on some social justice warrior website.  They never respond when you ask them, "If men are caught all the time as is in women's rooms, how will removing the one barrier that identifies them prevent abuses from increasing?"

Like Obamacare and like the $15 minimum wage, you can tell liberals that the bathroom issue will increase abuses, but they won't listen.  They never listen to common sense.



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175,833 Nobody cares about your opinions. Government will decide what's best for you.



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175,832 I don't get the freak-out over transgender people in washrooms. I am genuinely confused as to why this is even a thing.

You have a private stall where you do everything. There's nothing to see going on. It's not like people are going to put stand up urinals in the women's washroom or take away the walls on stalls.

No one really wants to interact with other people in the washroom, and there is no line of crazy perverts waiting to get into one. If they're crazy and a sex offender, they aren't stopping because of a door sign.

Literally nothing is changing. No one is talking about repealing laws against sexual assault. People who break those laws can still be charged.



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175,831 The problem isn't that "transgender people aren't the problem."  The problem is that the solution for perverts is to subjugate transgender people instead of directly dealing with the perverts.  It's throwing one group under the bus without really dealing with the other at all.

And you can read from all the posts here that most people are in it because they think transpeople are gross or something like that.  That's why liberals jump to defend the transgender group.

If we saw efforts to actually convict rapists or real efforts to educate others about sexual assault, we might be more inclined to believe you care about the perverts more than is demonstrated.  Right now, the demonstration just shows how much people hate transgender people.

Also, sexual assault occurs in greater numbers in places other than in the restroom.  Why are we dealing with the restroom scenario at all?  Somebody made it up and now we're dealing with a boogeyman.  Most sexual assault occurs in forms of date rape or with people the victim knows.  Stranger rape is less common, but still a concern.  And if it does happen in the bathroom, the man usually just enters without bothering to dress like a woman in the first place.

To think that men go through the effort to pretend to be transgender to assault women is absurd.  And to say that transgender people don't get to use the restroom of their identity in order to prevent men from raping women is just a terribly ineffectual way to address the problem.

I am genuinely thankful for the people who care for the sexual assault problem.  If you truly want to help, then please educate yourselves on the real statistics of sexual assault and leave the transgender people alone.



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175,830 My god, I can't get enough of waffles.  I probably eat too many during a week.  I personally love waffles more than pancakes.  Something about the texture.

But now and then, I love a good god damn pancake.  Especially the German recipe where you bake them in the oven instead of frying them in a pan.  Yum.

I've probably had two boxes of waffles in the past week.  It's the only real splurge I've had of that nature with them.  It's probably because I'm trying to quit sugar and it's hard to cope with.



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175,829 This job is all I have, and I'm not even good at it. I'm just making an embarrassment out of myself pretending to sound smarter and more knowledgeable than I actually am. I try to fit the mold, and I can see such a beautiful future when I do. But I can't. Even on my best days, I manage to bring myself right back here. I don't even deserve this job. I work for my dad, and I'm completely under qualified. He's just trying to help, but I know I'm a disappointment to him. I could never fill his shoes, no matter how much I try and learn, I'll always be the idiot I am today. There's been so many people who had the misfortune of ever getting to know me, and all I want to do is minimize that to nothing.

My brain wants to give up. My body wants to give up. Parts of me want to give up. But I don't. I don't ever want to give up, because I know there is an answer out there. I will never give up.



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175,828 I spent my entire life working out. I make a living out of it. And now that I have reached middle age, I don't give a flying fuck anymore. Come to Mamma, French fries and chicken wings...



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175,827 I like this so much better than the news. It's more annoying and funny. And a briefer read.



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175,826 My sister came back from getting her advanced degree from university as a complete liberal.  I couldn't discuss anything with her.  It was all "male dominated" bullshit.  I tried to discuss things with her, and she couldn't handle it.  Then she claimed she didn't say the things she said. She attempted to shout me down, and then blamed me when I got angry over how she was treating me and my wife.  She was always mentally ill.  She was committed a few times to a hospital in her youth.  Now I think she found her kindred spirits, all mentally ill and unwilling to consider anything that challenges how they want to see the world.



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175,825 Waffles.



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175,824 Well, congrats, someone will make your mom proud after all.

Will it help? I'm not sure she cares about anything real. Hell, I'm not sure you care about anything real. But, still, this ought to help, considering the truck loads of shame that you have dumped on her all of these years.



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175,823 Also, tax-hating conservative, how are you going to pay for a police officer outside of every bathroom? Please. It seems you like your highway network, fire department, social security and a dozens of other programs that back you up. So STFU already.



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175,822 I hate to use the same bathroom as men. And that's not because im afraid of what they might do to me. It's because the majority of men can't aim and they piss all over the toilet bowl. And then here i come wanting to use the toilet standing in piss drips and sometimes in a small pool of piss! Me and my husband always had separate bathrooms and i NEVER used his, and he knew better than to use mine. Also men's shit stinks sooo much worse, i often couldn't go in the bathroom for hours after my husband took a dump, it stunk soo bad. I had the same experience with other male family members. I dont care about an occasional male to female transgendered person using women's bathrooms, but sharing bathrooms with men in general, ABSOLUTELY NOT!



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175,821 I'll answer your stupid question. Have you ever thought that a man could dress as a woman and use the ladies restroom and that this silly argument means nothing? Would you rather a cis-born woman who identifies and dresses as a man uses the damn women's room? He is more likely attracted to women! And do you want to stand next to a cis-born man who identifies as female at the urinal? Get over it, people! This is a manufactured worry! A man is just as likely to abuse a woman now as it would be if we were compassionate to people who identify as opposite sex! Jesus! So much hate and ignorance! Get over it! It'll never happen to you, your wife, your daughter or your son, in all reasonable likelihood! Soften your heart for people in pain. Why is it that the most vocal 'Christians' are the most hateful bunch around? I'm so over this discussion. Can we please move on to waffles vs. pancakes or any other f'n thing? Please!



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175,820 My gf doesn't like me to go down on her. And it is frustrating me a lot. I love to go down on a woman and make her cum.

I'd also like to use a vibrator and/or a dildo on her. But she doesn't like that either.

Oh well. I guess there isn't much I can do about what she does and does not find pleasurable.

Is there?



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175,819 Gender segregated bathrooms have not always been the norm.  More than a century ago, there were just bathrooms.  It was only in the 20th century that the divide began in earnest.

SECRET
It was women's groups who demanded the change.  You'll read articles now quoting this guy Kogan who says it was a "paternalistic urge to protect their women".  BS.  Women had complained of unwanted male attention during their most private of times and demanded separate bathrooms.

TAKEAWAY
We know that there are bad actors in this world.  If a male student can enter a girls locker room and no faculty can challenge his/her decision without being labeled a bigot and the school losing federal funding.

Thought trumps reality?  Oy...

M 44 - oh wait, I am a 12yo F.  Can I join the Girl Scout Troop?  Age is just a number isn't it?  If I can change my gender according to my personal beliefs, why not age? Or race?  
My heart goes out to the possibly 0.2% of the population that calls themselves transgendered.  I know that women have little to fear from a truly transgendered person in a women's room.  To deny biological women the safety they deserve is bad policy and tragic.  Use the Family restroom.



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175,818 You ever notice how the liberals are not remotely facing the question of perverts entering the women's room?

It's always, "Transgendered people aren't threats to anybody!"

We know that.  We want to know about the male perverts who are going to use this as an excuse to enter the women's room.

"Uh... transgendered people aren't threats to anybody!"

Just answer the damned question.



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175,817 Apparently people aren't reading through what I said.  There was sarcasm, it's about gender identity.  "a boy can wake up and say he feels like a girl and put a dress on" wasn't against actual transgender.  it's against the men who will use this as an excuse to be in the bathroom with girls.  Yea yea a guy can go in the bathroom and rape a girl as it is, this makes it much easier.  and i know trans have been using the bathrooms they wanted for years, it's not about them, it's what this is allowing to open up.  any guy can just put on some makeup and a dress and say "im a girl today" no one is gonna check him out



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175,816 It's nothing against transgender people.  It's about the fact that men are allowed into girls' rooms now based on "gender identity."  As in they feel like a girl, inside.  They "identify" themselves as women.  They don't have to be in the process or have an operation.  There is already a story of a man who was in the changing area of little girls and it's ok because of the "law."  It's not transgender people that are the problem, it's the men who will use this as an opportunity to go in the room with other females, and be allowed to.  And now I'm hearing that it's not just bathrooms, it's dressing rooms and showers too.  Again, this isn't all men, and this isn't about transgenders themselves.  It's the pervert men, the child molesters, the pedophiles, and just messed up in the head ones that will use this as an excuse to be in a private area with females.



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175,815 So you're finally dumbing down your life to please others. Even if I'm disappointed, I still want you to be happy & successful.

Yeah ... I must be too crazy to be your friend, indeed.



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175,814 More on my wife. She is naturally pretty and never wears makeup. She typically washes and blow dries her hair on Sundays only. She's got a little female facial hair that she bleaches only when it gets dark (she's a brunette). With me at home or out to dinner when we get a sitter, it's plain Jane, nothing special. That's fine, whatever.

Today, she had to go to motor vehicles to get a new photo taken and renew her license. She got up early to take a shower and dry her hair. She bleached her facial hair. She brought her makeup kit to work to make herself prettier before leaving to get her picture taken. All for a drivers license photo.

I guess I am glad she is comfortable not having to put all the effort in to please me, but I hope she doesn't look like a stranger in the drivers license photo.



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175,813 My wife hasn't worn a pair of panties in years. And she has a total of three bras. Two of them she wears on alternate days without ever washing them in between. The third is a miracle bra that she wears only rarely. I always wonder what is on her schedule on those days that makes her want to look sexier.



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175,812 I was once shooting the breeze with a buddy about a hookup he recently had. He said the woman was so hairy that "she had a bush coming and going!" I laughed and said something stupid while thinking to myself that he could have been talking about my wife. Yep, she's a hairy mess down there.



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175,811 Twenty years ago I worked at a trading firm. We were all big swinging dicks. We were smart and successful.

There was a secretary for our division. She was nothing to us. Some dimwitted 25 year old. Just a piece of ass to look at when we were bored. She eventually quit. Off to have babies or something.

I recently saw an article about her. She's a big time lawyer. She made partner at her firm. She's making more than any of us ever did at the trading firm.

Now I feel like a jackass.



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175,810 @783 - Me too!



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175,809 My partner is transgendered.  Male to female.  I love her very dearly, and I have learned a lot about transgenderism throughout the years.  I've been with her for over a decade.  She has been my best friend, my rescuer on a few occasions.  She treats me right.  We have some fights, but they are usually over each other's wellbeing.

Transgenderism isn't common knowledge.  There are a lot of little details about it that I didn't know about at all until I got to know her.  Most of the time when people comment on transgenderism are acting like they know something about it.  They usually don't and are selecting bits and pieces of science to use to hide behind.  It isn't much different from when Christians cherry picked the bible to justify their hatred.

Science backs transgenderism.  And if you don't believe me, well, that's okay.  But you should really do some research before you make yourself look like a fool in front of someone who knows more than you and can call you out on it.  Trans people pass a lot better than you think.

She's been very scared for her safety ever since this unnecessary debacle started in NC.  I've even thought about getting concealed carry because that one person said she'll bring her gun into the restroom to shoot transpeople if they came in.  (Come on, we know she wasn't at all worried about rapists.)

I will protect my partner.  If someone tries to threaten her at all during this shitstorm, I will end that person.  The jail time will be worth it.  If I have a gun and someone tries to hurt her?  You can fill in the blank.

Bathrooms are there for shitting, pissing, and washing your hands.  Don't make it into the non-existent threat that NC wants to build it up to be.  Don't be fooled.



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175,808 What about people born with XXY chromosomes? What about people born with both sets of genitalia and are "assigned" at birth?



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175,807 Wait what? Now that Sanders has been winning all the Democratic primaries, the Clinton people want him to drop out?

I was thinking the opposite - how about Clinton drops out.



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175,806 I'm not sure what people really think is going on in women's bathrooms..? Single use bathrooms are a solution to all of this. How stupid that people would rather make a problem where one doesn't exist. It's not as if bathrooms are some safe sacred space where you let your guard down or something. No you just go in, walk in a stall, lock yourself in, and pee. You poop at home. I'm not sure where a man posing as a transgender woman would have the opportunity to spring themselves on me and rape me. Jesus people.



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175,805 most of the "been gay since birth" friends I have had over the years never seem to get the transgender thing any more than I do.  I think it is someone who doesn't want to accept who they are.  
When Caitlin Jenner came on the scene I was really floored.
I think Mr. Jenner has some deep seated problems which he thinks this will cure.
For a time.  If you think about it, transgenders never seem all that happy.  
Which is where I think the term "drama queen" must of originated.



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175,804 I know many gay and lesbian people, and one transsexual female to male.  None of these people are a threat in the bathrooms.  When you talk to them, you can see that they are truly the people they believe themselves to be.

That having been said, despite my longtime support for gay marriage and gay rights, I'm now being accused of being a homophobe because I'm trying to warn people that you simply cannot give the entire population of males the broad based option of using the women's room.  It's not the transgendered people who are the issue, it's the perverts saying they're transgendered who are the issue.  Do they seriously think there will not be problems?  Do they believe there will not be serious cases of abuse?  These are the same people who drill into our heads about our "male dominated society" promoting "rape and sexual abuse"... yet now that apparently is not an issue.

Yeah, so apparently I'm "pro-gay," as long as I don't stray from their ideology.  The moment I have a valid concern, I'm a homophobe.



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175,803 Rapists might dress up as women and rape women in restrooms.  Therefore, we have to convict transgender people of using the wrong restrooms instead of convicting rapists for raping women.  It's the only logical conclusion.



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175,802 I make sure my wife knows everything about all my female friends and my interactions with them.  It's best to keep it all out in the open.

On the other hand, I make sure I don't say a word about the non-"friends" women.



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175,801 I agree with Dr. McHugh, transgender people have a mental disorder. XX can not change to XY, and vice versa. Bruce Jenner will always be a male, That young kid Jazz will always be a male. Even if they get hormones and have their penises cut off, it does not change the genes and chromosomes. Time to come to scientific reality.



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175,800 Trans people were using their gender's restroom long before NC did anything about it.  You just never noticed before.

If you didn't notice before, you aren't going to notice now.  You won't notice it in the future either.  You'll probably just end up accusing a butch lesbian of being a guy because you're an idiot.



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