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177,599 How did America forget that there are more than 2 political parties? Vote against the machine.



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177,598 When you lose practically everything one tends to find all this trivial stuff means absolutely nothing in the grand scheme.  
Now that I have it all back it's interesting to note that I still think it's a waste of time.  All this stuff people complain about has little impact on their own lives and I especially get shitty with these supposed "christians"  spread doom and gloom.  
The second I decided I was going to save myself and quit worrying about what everyone else is doing or believing in my life became easier.  
However, every lie told, every mask worn, every intention behind someones deeds I see clearly and the prognosis is not good.  People are finally figuring out that they had better fix their own shit and fighting it every step which is why there is so much chaos going on in the world.
Took me years to figure this out which is why I am passing along.
Fix your own shit and watch your world change.



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177,597 I hope the Rio Olympics are a disaster. I hate sports. I don't care who can throw a 50 pound ball the furthest. How stupid.



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177,596 I think my favorite part about visiting with people is when I take a shower I use their shampoo. It's like a vacation for my hair.



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177,595 #580: I've shot a few prayers out for you, especially to the Virgin Mother. She NEVER fails!



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177,594 People getting upset at not having a American Flag at any and all places.  Grow up and worry about something important.

i hate people more and more by the day.  Humanity sucks.



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177,593 Seems like you snapped somewhere along the way. More smoke and mirrors perhaps?  Whatever. I'm just dabbling. It's my prerogative.



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177,592 I'm too sexy for this job.



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177,591 Let everything that burdens you go.
You don't gain a single thing from misery.
Breathe.
And remember who you are.



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177,590 Here's the thing I don't understand though ...you are usually the first one to laugh at the narcissistic clowns but you've aligned yourself with a guy that is cheesier than 10 hair metal bands on a pile of cocaine. What happened to your self-respect?



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177,589 580, just want you to know that someone out there is praying and rooting for you.  I was once a single mom who lost her job in pharma and ended up on food stamps for almost a year.  I know the desperation and fear, and I pray that you don't have to experience that much longer.  Best of luck and lots of virtual hugs!



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177,588 It's kind of pathetic of me to send out some cryptic message hoping my ex will respond in kind with some minuscule hope of reconnecting. Ugh.   What an existential cluster-fuck with a side order of prolonged self abuse.  Nevermore. Stay strong man!



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177,587 -578  He is not polyamorous, he is a cheater. End of discussion. Polyamory is not something you live on the sly. It's a lifestyle choice. The fact that he never told you is a dead giveaway. He wants his cake and eat it too and you are enabling him. Kids or no kids, kick him out.



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177,586 I cheated on my husband four times. He would never think I was capable of doing something of this nature. First time was with a former boyfriend. We went out to dinner and things happened.  Second time I was at a wedding. My husband should have come but didn't. I view this as his fault. Third time I went on a weekend trip with some girlfriends. I met a man in a club. It was sleazy of me but fun. The first three time just happened. But the fourth time was different. It was very planned. A girlfriend of mine heard me complaining about my husband and my life. She said she knew a man who was recently divorced. She said we should go on a date. So we did. Very odd. I was married yet I went on a date. He took me to a very upscale  restaurant. He was well spoken and engaging. His wife sounded like a bitch. I wanted to make him happy. I had visions of leaving my husband and children and instantly marrying this divorced man. After dinner we went back to his apartment and had intercourse. By 10 o'clock I was walking in the front door of my house. My husband and children were watching TV. They were entangled on the couch and laughing. They pulled me down on top of them. My husband started tickling me. My children joined in. I suddenly felt bad. I cheated on my husband. I cheated on my family. My husband asked how my dinner went. He asked what I ordered. I told him. I skipped over the part where I was with a man and we just fucked. He never found out. I never left him. It was a few years ago. I haven't cheated again. I hope I can be content in what I have.



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177,585 Nice job DNC, having Alicia Keys sing in honor of those fallen "good kids" who attacked cops, shot each other over drug deals gone bad, and murdered each other in arguments over sneakers. And not a word for the mothers of all those cops killed in the line of duty (which includes black cops, but I guess black cops' lives don't matter to you).

That shows me where your priorities are. You're so desperate for votes that you'll sink so low as to to pander to the worst elements of 11% of the population? The black KKK? And you call the GOP racist?

Good luck with your strategy. You'll at least be sure you got 11% of the popular vote.



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177,584 I stopped watching porn and now I have so many involuntary boners.

I haven't jerked off in about 3 weeks and I'm sitting here with a painfully hard morning wood. My cock is out of control rock hard.

Somebody come put this guy to sleep!



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177,583 I'm glad that my friend's expensive designer IVF babies have problems and that she hates being a mom. That's what you get for fucking with Nature.



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177,582 I hate everything.  I hate you all.

Thank goodness all of you will die one day.



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177,581 What makes a guy decide who he is interested in as a potential girlfriend as opposed to the girls he just wants to fuck?  I like someone and I think we could be good together. Potentially.  He's nice, a good communicator, not volatile, sexy, funny in his own way, it seems we have similar values...but just wants to fuck. We haven't yet and I'm not sure we will.  We talked about how it can be hard to separate emotions from sex for some people. It seems that he's not sure if I can or can't and I'm glad he brought it up because I'm not sure either. We're very attracted to each other though. So we're kinda on the edge like it could happen soon or it may not happen at all.



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177,580 I was layed off in February from an aerospace company due a contract not being renewed. The CEO (I was his executive assistant) wrote me a glorious letter of recommendation.
I am going into my 7 month of unemployment.
Please God in heaven and the powers in the universe please... Please
send me a job soon. If I don't get a job soon I will lose everything and be in financial ruins.
Please join me in prayer For a job soon.

Mother of three
Dallas, tx



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177,579 I'm pretty sure I'm in love, and if this girl is as great as I think she is and We have as many similarities as I think we do - I could definitely see myself marrying her down the road. The issue is there is like 6 other girls who I had hooked up with before any of this happened and they don't know about her, and I'm pretty sure are in love with me. In this day and age with Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram I don't want them ruining what her and I have together. I just don't know what to do to get them to leave me alone so I can finally be happy for once. This girl means the entire world to me, and I don't know what I'd do if I lost her.



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177,578 Even though he's still here, I don't think I love him anymore. He broke the already shaky trust I had in him. He's polyamourous, apparently. He told me that a few days ago. Maybe bi sexual. He says he isn't but I found very compelling evidence that he is. I'm openly bi, so why can't he tell me the truth? I think it's because he already cheated on me and he's afraid to tell me. He won't tell me the truth. If I bring it up, no matter how I approach it, he'll go off on me and probably walk out again. We've been together for seven years. We have three kids together. I want to be enough for him. But he's polyamourous. I alone will never be enough. I've done so much, lost so much for him. I don't even know how I feel about him anymore. I'm not right for him. But he wants to stay together. He wants me to believe his lies and have sex at least twice a day with him. He wants to have sex with other women. And I don't know this for sure but I think he also wants free reign with any person, male or female. My depression is going to kill me, and to be honest, I want it to.



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177,577 Bernie protesters are burning an American flag right now. Holy fucking shit. I have been a lifelong Democrat but this is going WAY too far. These are the people who bemoan the lack of "safe" spaces and call everything hate speech, yet they are not above desecrating the flag, which people have been dying to honor for hundreds of years. My grandfather (who was also a lifelong Democrat, a war hero and a Diplomat) is rolling in his grave. Despicable.



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177,576 A little while back, someone made a confession here saying that they had been holding on to a document for over 20 years. This document, they said, would destroy Hillary, and they were just waiting for the right time to present it.

I want so much for that confession to be true. Please.



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177,575 I imagine it's best that she went off to live the kind of life she wanted to. Running off with a man with no attachments, no ex wife, no kids. Freedom to live without all that stuff weighing her down. Nothing to come between her and the exclusive safety of his arms. Free to dress up, dress down, stay in, go out. It is the way she wanted it. Perfection. Godspeed to her.



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177,574 Not gonna lie, some weaves look really good, but when I see your roots and those little sparsely hairs all around your forehead, that sh** looks terrible.



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177,573 Facts are "liberal"



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177,572 https://mediamatters.org/blog/2016/07/26/fox-correspondent-corrects-own-network-s-false-attack-dnc-showcases-no-american-flags/211914



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177,571 Why the fuck do people believe things that are clearly and shown not to be true?

http://www.snopes.com/flags-banned-at-dnc/

"In an attempt to further illustrate their point, the Daily Caller presented an image contrasting of Kristen Gillibrand speaking at the DNC with Donald Trump speaking at the Republican National Convention (RNC):

Of course, this image was deliberately misleading, as the staging of both the RNC and the DNC employed large digital displays as backdrops for their speakers. For instance, the U.S. flags on view behind Donald Trump in the image above were digital renditions and not physical flags, as can be seen in the transition shot below:

The digital backdrop at the RNC changed throughout the proceedings, and at times it appeared just as flagless as the DNC's supposedly did:

se web sites cherry-picked photographs in order to make it appear that no U.S. flags (in either physical or digital form) were on display at the Democratic National Convention. And the Daily Caller must not have looked very hard, as the scene at first day of the DNC exhibited a healthy share of red, white, and blue patriotism, in both digital and physical form:

It's also false to state or imply that the DNC banned the display of American flag at their event among the audience, as numerous convention-goers were photographed holding flags or wearing flag-based gear on Day 1 of the convention:

Fox News, at least, eventually admitted their error in reporting that there were “no American flags” in the convention hall:"



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177,570 I am never voting for another Democrat again.

Not ONE SINGLE AMERICAN FLAG anywhere at their convention the first day.  It was only until people noticed this that they added the flags for the second day.  They had a Soviet flag and a Palestinian flag in the audience, but no American flags anywhere... until now, when people took notice.

You have seriously got to be FUCKING kidding me.

Snopes, of course, said it wasn't true, but the THOUSANDS OF PICTURES showed it was true.

Of course, they had ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS give speeches.

And then the hacked emails.  The Washington Post threw a fundraiser for Clinton.  Politico was found to run its articles past the fucking Democratic National Committee before publishing them.

Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with these Democrats??  What a fucking joke they are.



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177,569 Why is it acceptable that Americans are so DARN sick?!! And when are people going to realize it has everything to do with what goes into and onto our bodies?!

I am sitting next to a nursing professor from California on the plane...she is talking to the other person in the row about how the nursing profession is the fastest growing industry as well as other hospital careers. And then how hospice sector is also growing tremendously -- and how people are dying at younger and younger ages.

And how the hospitals can't keep up with all the new patients, especially in her area: pediatric nursing.
America has the MOST expensive "health"care system in the world per capita, yet we are so darn sick?!! Ever wonder why? Medical errors and side effects from Pharma drugs are now the 3rd leading cause of death in the US.

Answer: our "health"care system is focused on keeping us SICK, not healthy. Pharma drugs, including VACCINES are all a part of this! Pharma, hospitals, etc don't make money off healthy people -- get it?!!

And pediatric hospitals are overwhelmed because kids these days receive 3x MORE vaccines than 30 years ago -- and more than any other country. And we have the sickest kids to show for it despite spending more on "health"care. NOT A COINCIDENCE!

And don't give me that "it's just the food" BS. It's not just the food in our country -- it's everything that goes into our bodies. And anything injected is FAR more potent than anything eaten. And guess what?!! Those GMOs, chemical additives and pesticides in our food...they are in vaccines too! Can't talk about one being bad yet ignore the other.



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177,568 Racism , on both sides, will always be there. In general, Blacks won't ever forgive Whites for Slavery.
And Whites will always worry about becoming a Minority



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177,567 UGH, TRIED a girlfriend for a bit. that SUCKED! now i'm FREE! free to fuck whoever I want, free to be me...free to talk to other girls (GASP!)



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177,566 Damn this world for making people think that in order for them to matter that they must bring anything other than themselves to the table.
Am I the only person left that loves people for who they ARE irregardless of what they HAVE.



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177,565 I wish I could reach out to you... I have nothing to say tho or offer u.. I'll have to work on this painting really hard.. I feel like scum and I know I am weak (in most ways) but I just want to wave my arms around at you and tell u I love u..



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177,564 If you are planning a wedding; word of advice. Get married somewhere that you and your fiancé can afford. Weddings bring out the absolute worse in people.

Or elope. Just elope.



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177,563 558 "The White House was built by American craftsmen" will be a nice way to describe it.Why must it always be about race? Is this not hate speech and divisive ? I wonder how it would have gone down if any white First Lady would have said "I wake up in the  White House every morning that was built mostly by white workers".



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177,562 Never again



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177,561 " I choose trust. I choose him.  The love of my life and I will not see another day alive on this earth without him".

Do you remember when you sent me a picture of those words while you were journaling in your computer, Paula?

It's fucking ironic that I came across them yesterday , totally by accident.

You changed me, for the better and now we live separate lives and I hate you for leaving. I can't NOT think of you. Ever. I'm still passionately in love with you.  It's only my kids that keep me alive now because I won't desert them and I love them more than life.  

Just like I loved you.  More than life.



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177,560 I have honed a skill which people of all types would be envious of; I am perfectly happy being alone.  In fact I prefer it.  
Not very many can say this nor ever want to but if suddenly the world became a very desolate place..mentally I would survive and thrive.
I know people who cannot be alone for even one night which to me is the very definition of a mental illness.



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177,559 Why do I feel this way? When he reminded me he had someone already...well good God my heart just kinda sank. And sank,, and sank. Why does it hurt so much to know about that NOW? It really just physically hurts. I don't know how to act normal, cause fact is, it's the most disappointing thing I could imagine now. Faaaaasck. No one will ever care about me enough to talk about that. And it hurts.



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177,558 "I wake up every morning in a house whose bricks were laid by slaves..."

now does it work for you? no, you still have a problem with it somehow?

shocker.



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177,557 Last night in her speech at the Democratic Convention Mrs. Obama use the platform again to race bait.She told the audience that she wakes up in a house built by slaves every morning.
First, the White House was not built solely — or even primarily — by slaves.Most of the labor force consisted of local White laborers and artisans (from Maryland and Virginia) and a number of immigrants from Ireland, Scotland, and other European nations.As the project neared completion — the lime-based whitewashing that gives the building its iconic appearanc,slaves were indeed added to the mix.Skilled craftsmen had to be used to finish the White House. Slaves were mostly brick layers. But once again, facts get in the way of Mrs. Obama's preachy race-baiting.



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177,556 I don't think I can do this.  This person isn't you. This person is the me that was, before everything changed and you taught me a needed life lesson.  This person is the me before I learned to respect others and though I am trying to be patient -- it's not working any better with this person than it did when you were patient with me. (Too patient - you never even squeaked!)

It doesn't matter how much I love; I can't tolerate the disrespect and I don't have your "patience of a saint" to put up with it for years. This person takes me for granted as I did you, is harsh and hard, like I was.  

It is all just not working and I am going to have to call things off. I hate it - hate being wrong - totally embarrassed at making another mistake. But proud to have tried, as you did.  You are a part of me now that I will never forget and I wish you knew how you changed me.

We can't touch, can't call, can't write, can't email. I don't know where to go from here, but I wish you were that option I could take. I'd ask for nothing - give everything. Barring that, I pray every night that you live long enough that I get to tell you how much I recognize just how wonderful you were and how much I blew it. None of us are perfect and it wasn't about you - it was my own weakness and ignorance.  

Just the same, I will always love you and wish I could repay in kind.



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177,555 I don't know why this stuff keeps happening to me.  It's like I was targeted by fate.



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177,554 Everseen "Romy and Michelle's Highschool Reunion?"  My mom and I, a baby boomer, would laugh our asses off when I was in high school, watching that movie.  They were such losers, but so cute.  The cute as a sidenote, of course they would have to be, they're women on-screen.  I had my life ahead of me.  Little did I know, my generation would wind up just like them.   Graduated 2000.



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177,553 Today, instead of being angry, self absorbed or otherwise, I was able to rise above my own stuff and help another in their need. It was a humbling experience and one that I hope to continue instead of wallowing in my own misery. I do believe recover is truly happening for me.  I am truly blessed.

I am writing it here instead of telling my friends because I don't want to seem like I am looking for their praise.



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177,552 i had her in my arms. she was young beautiful fun funny and just about as low maintenance as they come. she kissed me and her arms wrapped around me just enough to let me know she wasnt letting go. i kissed her neck and she moaned.

i opened my eyes. a great sadness overcame me. she wasnt there and my brain had made up the whole thing. i was still where i was in life; stuck with someone who loves me but hasnt been anywhere near "in" love with me for years.

sometimes dreams take you away. and sometimes they mock you.

M / 50ish



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177,551 I never told you I read this site. I can't imagine you would have heard of it otherwise but still I come here day after day and every time someone says "I miss you", "I'm thinking of you ", "I love you", "I wish I could see you"
I fool myself that you come here too.



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177,550 My wife's Ob/Gyn is a male doctor. I love the idea a man is putting his fingers up my wife's cunt.



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177,549 R: "Can you make that a little bigger? Oh, not too big - a little smaller"

N: "Is that good?"

R: "Yes perfect, thank you."



overheard on conference call # 154366



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177,548 I can't stand my boyfriend's best friend. Thank God he lives an hour away.



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177,547 When I had plenty of money, I'd take friends out all the time. I'd buy them dinner. I'd take them on vacation too. I'd rent a beach house and invite them all along. I once bought a woman a car because she really needed it.

Now I'm broke. Where are all these friends? It would be nice if one of them took me to dinner even once. But they are no where to be found.



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177,546 I can bend my dick around and push my dick head against my anus, but my dick isn't long enough to go inside. Oddly though, I can tug on my scrotum and push an inch of it up my ass.

Straight, married, male.



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177,545 I have a fwb that I visit a few times a week.  I enjoy fucking her, but the agreement is that it's only sex.  I'm good with that.  I just got out of a really messy relationship and the last thing I need is to feel infatuation over another woman.

I go to her house because she has kids and can't leave them, but I only drop by after they're asleep.  We fuck , get off and then I go.  Rarely do I sleep there and it's good.  No expectations , no romance, just animalistic sex and then we live our separate lives.  

I have other lady friends who fulfil the friend need in me and we're also clear about our relationships as well. While I've told a couple of them that I'd love to fuck them, there's no weirdness about it.  It's a mutual feeling and a compliment to us both. Maybe it'll happen , maybe it won't.  I don't care.  

I'm perfectly happy with my ladies now. No serious entanglements , no unrealistic expectations and I get to live my life on my own terms.  

That being said, I did love being married , especially the second time, but until I can find someone who fits me perfectly, I will stick with the arrangements I currently have.  It's all good.  

M 50



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177,544 I think the start of turning point for me was when I drove home from the bar and when I got out of my car, I was so drunk that I fell over onto the ground in the parking lot.  I just laid there, next to my car, for five minutes.  I still would drink, but I found myself not going out anymore.  I would get drunk in my basement, where I wouldn't kill myself.  Then one day about two years ago, I just stopped drinking.  Something clicked in my head.  I realized I was drinking to stop thinking about a trauma that occurred to me, and that drinking never made the trauma go away.  I've had beer ten times in those two years, but only on social occasions and only two or three at most.  I got drunk once at a very close friend's wedding.  I got tipsy at another wedding.  That was it.  I went from getting really drunk once a week, to once in over two years.  It took about six years, but of all the crazy things I did when I was dunk, falling out of my car and laying on the ground next to it is the one that makes me feel ashamed.  When I sold that car, that's the only thing I could think about.



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177,543 I was told that the more I exercise, the more I run, the more I will like it.  Well, I've been running and exercising since April and I still hate it.

I want to be fit and eat healthy, but I need to truly do it for myself.  I haven't figured out what I want or how I want to do it.  Other people's demands for me to be fit scream louder than my own thoughts.  I really wish people would stop being so pushy about calories and stop being so pushy about trying to get others to lose weight.  If you're one of those people who think that you're being helpful and encouraging, stop it.  You're probably just an obstruction.

And if you're one of those people who thinks that calling overweight people ugly will motivate them to get in shape, go find yourself a pistol and eat a bullet.  Make sure to aim for your brain.



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177,542 Women should never agree to fwb stays. Gay men are wired up better for that game. Ladies, demand more for yourselves. You are taking all the risk... Pregnancy, stds , feelings... Don't give yourselves away so easily!



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177,541 There is a guy I like and we want to have sex with each other but it seems like he is afraid I will catch feelings.  We have been talking on the phone and online and switched pics and yea I have a crush on him as someone I want to do a little more with than fuck. It's happened to him before where it started as sex then the girl wants more. That happens a lot with girls though. I wonder if a guy who just wants to hang out and fuck could end up getting feelings too? Or are they all just so good at separating emotions from the physical?



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177,540 If I ever found a baby in a dumpster, I would just leave it there and not tell anyone.



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177,539 Sometimes when I sit still, I feel like I can't catch my breath. And then I think it might be ok to stop breathing...



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177,538 I was at a fundraiser a while back and I met Ted Cruz. He is a bonafide crazy motherfucker, who earnestly told me that God speaks to him in his dreams every night.

This election is bad, and I'm definitely not voting for either major party candidate, but it could have been much, MUCH worse.

This Thanksgiving, no matter what happens (we're screwed either way really), I'm going to be thankful that we don't have a President with actual psychosis in the White House.



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177,537 After five years together including one year engaged, I called off the wedding and broke up with my fiancé. Over the course of the relationship, I felt she could not give me what was most important to me  (i.e. speak my love language). My love language is quality time and since she travels for work that sometimes requires her to be away 2 to 3 months, it's even more important to me.
Last weekend, she was scheduled to drive to a different state for a new project. I asked if she would like to have lunch with me before she left, she said she could not as she would like to get to the hotel, get some rest and get ready for the work day. However after getting to her hotel, she decides she was going to go to dinner with coworkers. I mentioned that I felt hurt that she could not make time for lunch with me after being away for three months. To this she responded that she did not understand why I was hurt and that it was no big deal. After a heated argument, I suggested that we seek counseling to work on understanding each others needs. To this she responded that she was not interested in any counseling.
I thought about it for a day and then I went to the her hotel and told her of my decision to cancel the wedding and broke up with her. I realized that I could not marry someone who was not interested in my needs. Thinking back, I realize the signs were always there. I was blinded by her beauty. Luckily I have dodged a bullet.
From now on I will pay close attention to the signs, and also I will start giving not so attractive women who can show me that my needs and wants matter.
I wish her the best of luck and feel bad for the next dude. By the way I got my $16000 ring back along with her copies of my credit cards. I will take her off my health insurance and auto insurance policies next week. I will also save over eighty thousand dollars from not getting married to her.



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177,536 It took me several years to realize my husband has no plan. He talks big but he never does anything.



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177,535 My wife and I have had horrific arguments over money. She spends like she's a queen. I've pleaded with her to stop being so selfish. I've thought about leaving her because she spends so much on herself.

I can't stress this enough how much she has purchased. She has filled three walk-in closets floor to ceiling. My walk-in closet has two shelves for me and she has taken over the other 30 shelves. Our daughter's closet the same thing, our daughter gets hardly anything, the shelves are filled with her mother's clothes. There are clothes in bags she hasn't even opened after buying them. There are boxes in the attic of clothes with tags on them, meaning she didn't wear those either. She just buys them and forgets about them.

We had a reprieve for a few weeks. I convinced her she didn't need new clothes EVERY DAY. She could wash the boatload of clothes she already bought this year. That's what normal people do. They wash their clothes. They don't buy new clothes for each and every day.

So the other day I thought okay, she stopped spending so much. I asked if she'd like to go on vacation. See that's what happens when she stops spending on herself. We can use the money to bring all of us on vacation.

Her reaction was to go to the store and buy... you guessed it... new clothes. I mean, I was dumbfounded. She spent $2,300. She said she needed new clothes for the vacation.

I'm so sad. I canceled the vacation idea. She doesn't even care. Because now she has more new clothes.

She makes me sick. I think it's a disease. Divorce here I come.



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177,534 Another day, another Clinton scandal. Really, the democrats are mocking Bernie because he's Jewish? How dare they, and all the while looking in the camera saying they aren't biased against Bernie.  My gosh democrats, don't even you guys get tired of the blatant lies you are being told? The system is so rigged and you just look the other way.



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177,533 I think married women just miss privacy - it's not that we think our husbands are stalkers or have no right to walk into their bedrooms, etc.j

I hate when my husband just walks into the bedroom when I'm in there with the door closed.  I'm either getting dressed/undressed, relaxing, daydreaming, or doing other private woman like things that I don't need an audience for.  Maybe I just want to be alone for a little while. I know we're married but I'm still entitled to privacy (as is he)  At least knock on the door.

I also hate when he talks to me through the closed bathroom door.  Jesus leave me alone for a minute.



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177,532 There are two competing Facebook pages in my town. One is filled with crude jokes and bathroom humor. The members are lowlifes who post pictures of their half eaten sandwiches, watch endless TV, and insult everyone they don't like.

The other forum hosts discussions about interesting topics affecting the town. Many problems are debated and solutions are found, making the town a better place. The members are all intelligent and speak in a civil tone.

The crude forum has 10 times as many members as the civil forum.

People in general are gutter trash. They live to drink and fart and post pictures of their bowel movements in their toilet bowl. Yes they actually do that. Can you imagine, they post pictures of their bowel movements commenting on how long it is. I have no words to describe how foul these people are.

This is America today. No wonder why everything is in such disarray, from politics, to education, to business. People in general are like wild pigs living in the muck. And they love it. I worry about the future of mankind.



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177,531 I agree. It's a very unpopular opinion but mine is that people shouldn't talk about what they do in the bathroom. Im not even a conservative person at all, I'll listen to your sex and war stories, but please don't tell me you're going to take a shit.



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177,530 I hate how crude people are. They say all manner of coarse things. I will innocently mention to a co-worker how hot it is today and he'll respond with "No shit." I'm sorry, but why does he feel the need to bring up feces at that moment? What is that about? Does he like talking about his feces? Um, gross??

Other examples of things people have said to me:

"I've got to take a dump."

"I'm on the rag."

"That sucks balls."

"She's a cum dumpster."

"It smells like ass in here."

Why are any of these rude phrases necessary. Most people are so uncivilized. They are an embarrassment to the rest of us.



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177,529 My wife gets annoyed if I happen to walk into the bedroom as she's changing her clothes. She acts like I'm some peeping tom stranger who has come in to spy on her. It bothers me on several levels. I'm not a pervert. I'm your husband. Also, I live here. Yes sometimes I need to enter the bedroom in MY OWN HOUSE. Deal with it without making it out like I'm doing something terribly wrong.



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177,528 My father was an alcoholic. Amazing stories of his misadventures while drunk, He once woke up on the side of a highway about 50 miles from home. No car. No clothes. He was laying in the grass completely naked. He had no memory of how that came about.

You hear enough stories like that as a kid and it's no wonder I never ever drink.



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177,527 #523- thank you for your comment. You have confirmed a decision I made a few months ago about a man I really cared for but the alcohol (and Percoset) were interfering. He made the end of the relationship all my fault - a trick most alcoholics do very well. You are truly a brave man to (1) stop drinking and (2) admit it to the world. I greatly admire you!



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177,526 I had a girlfriend in high school whose father was a doctor. It came out in conversations with her that her father would give her a yearly physical including a gyno exam. This seemed wrong to me back then and even more wrong to me now. Doctor or not, a father can't give his own daughter that kind of exam!



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177,525 Salesmen at electronic stores just lie. They outright make crap up just to get you to buy the product. Don't you assholes have any pride? When you were little and you had your whole life ahead of you did you aspire to become a liar? Is that to be your life' goal, to lie? What pieces of shit you are.



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177,524 Most people who say that they're terrible liars are really just very good at lying to themselves



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177,523 Reading these secrets about living with alcoholics takes me right back. Acutely aware of the fact that it has been 7 years 144 days since I quit doing battle with the external cancer  (AKA alcoholism ). THE BEST THING ANYONE CAN DO FOR A LOVED ONE IS WALK AWAY. The only one who can save an alcoholic is the alcoholic themselves. You cannot guilt them (just a means for self pity to justify the drinking ). You cannot love them better  (alcohol loves us more and doesn't cry,bitch,or complain ). You cannot throw money, assets, or counseling at the problem.
You can stick around, be miserable, enable them to death, have low self esteem and waste a beautiful life and help the person struggling kill themselves. I hope the best for you all,Good luck, you're going to need it. And thank you for reminding me of the hell I was in.
Sincerely,
A 7 year 144 day sober grateful alcoholic.



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177,522 I have this feeling you're closer than you've been in months and I wish I could see you.  It'd probably be the worst possible thing I could wish for too.



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177,521 Why do I feel like Pokemon Go is the newest soft target for terrorism?...



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177,520 I am not looking for support, I merely need to vent a little bit.  My mom has never liked me, she openly states that the only reason she had me was because she didnt want my brother to be an only child. I clearly remember her coddling my brother and being cold to me.  She would beat me because she was having a bad day, and follow the beatings with some fast food, which i gladly ate because I hadnt ate in days.  So its no surprise that i am now fat.  i plan on getting weight loss surgery in the near future to help stick with the healthy eating habits i have adopted in the past year, and turn them into permanent lifestyle changes.  She does not support me.  She has always been thin so she doesnt understand why i cant just magically be like her, who isnt active nor does she eat right.  Anyway, because of my journey, there are some things ive been thinking of, like how she used to poor ice cold tea on me when i least expected it.  one time she dumped a whole pitcher on my head, and she thought it was the funniest thing.  I was so mad, but looking back now all i can think is how cruel that was for her to do.  she would accuse me of stealing her weed, but i never did.  i wanted to be a good girl so i would never do drugs, but she blamed me anyway. one time she beat me really bad because she thought i took her weed and she just wanted it back.  i didnt have it, i didnt even know where she kept it. she knew my brother smoked, but she never dared accuse him.



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177,519 My life is spinning out of control and I don't know how to stop it. Everything I do seems to make it worse.



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177,518 My late wife would have been 62 yesterday. I truly miss her!
40 years and not a day goes by that I don't think about her.
I wish I had her today. Things would be a LOT different. I'd be happy!



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177,517 I think Trump must have a terrible temper. How else do you explain him being twice divorced?



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177,516 My husband has alcoholic dementia - I'm angry, as he brought this on by his abuse of alcohol! I'm also grieving, for those hopes and dreams of our retirement years - taking a vacation sometime, eating out once in awhile, arts, culture, nature adventures. No go! - but maybe I should, before it takes me first, as his caregiver, that is exhausted and depressed. God, please lead me to where I should be, while I still can.



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177,515 What an amazing dream.



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177,514 Reminiscing these last few days, about hooking up with this guy at the county fair 28 yrs. ago. I had met him through mutual friends at a local bar just days before. Oh, to go back and do it all over again! I cherish those days more than he could or would ever know. "Just me, M-----", just wanted you to know you gave me some of the best memories of my life, and I thank you.



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177,513 I'd let you have all the goddamned electricity in the world if it'd make you happy. Misers must know something about how to keep people.

One Alone.



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177,512 I think everyone knows at least one alcoholic and the number one quote I hear from most me included is that if they cared about others they wouldn't do it.  It is usually much harder on those who have to take care of them.
Many of us get thru life without anything to numb the pain.
Sucks but I do think it is better than going thru it hurting people.



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177,511 I'm drinking again.



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177,510 I married a miser. I'm not allowed to turn on all the lightsin the basement. Only one can be screwed in at a time. If I need to do laundry I have to unscrew the lightbulb on the stairs and screw in the one over the washing machine. It's like living with the gestapo.



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177,509 How come people throw their children at you? Especially if you're a woman in your late twenties, like I am. It seems like no matter how I object, I end up with a baby in my arms. It's happened at family functions, with friends, and even at work. I politely but firmly object, often more than once, and then I end up hold a baby. There's no way to effectively get your point across without offending everyone in the room.

I'm sorry, moms, but I don't like babies. Yes, all babies. Yes, even YOUR baby. I really don't like holding them, I don't like talking about them, and I legitimately don't care if you bring yours to work for a "visit." And, for the 200th time, no, I don't want my own. At all. Never have, probably never will.

There should be a safe word. Some random word or phrase we non-baby people can say that says "I REALLY don't want to hold you kid. Please don't make me be a dick about it. Just give them to someone else." Because the alternative is either hurt feelings or people like me secretly wanting to end our own misery. Or, better yet, if someone doesn't specifically ask to hold your kid, you don't offer. Problem solved.



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177,508 The top half of my heart sometimes beats at a different speed than the bottom half. The effect can last from seconds to hours. It's very unnerving. I can never be sure the two halves will synch up again.  Or that my heart won't suddenly spasm and stop altogether. This has ruined my life. Try interacting with people at work when suddenly your heart freaks out. I have to stop and sit still until it passes. Try having sex with a woman when your heart freaks out. It makes sex virtually impossible. I might as well go die now and be done with it.



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177,507 I'm sorry for the mistake I made. I miss you. As time passes things get harder for me and I find myself crying on a daily basis. I wish I could feel better and move on with my "new life" but I feel so broken.



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177,506 Small town government is all about people helping themselves to a larger piece of the pie, and helping their friends too. So corrupt. Problem is most people don't pay attention. If they did, they'd be appalled at what they are paying for. As a community service project my son raised about $500 for a town department. These were all town employees or officials in the department. You know what they did after my son gave them the money? They went out to dinner at an upscale restaurant. You fucking kidding me? My son raised the money hoping it would do some good in the town. Instead he helped self serving people abuse the system even more. He was so disappointed. Fuck small town government!!!!!



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177,505 I freaked out thinking my dad has been drying my jeans after washing them, and that the heat made them shrink. I didn't say anything though, because I haven't exercised for months. I stepped on a scale at someone else's house a few days ago, and was immediately very ashamed and shocked. At 160 lbs, I am the biggest I've ever been. (I'm 5ƍ" tall.) I am going to start eating way less and exercising way more until I get to 130 lbs. The only problem is that my boobs are going to shrink again. At 34B they are barely a handful for a guy. I don't know whether it's worse to be chunky or flat-chested... I'd never get plastic surgery but it seems I just can't win. :(



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177,504 My wife thought I was cheating on her constantly. She'd check my phone, quiz me non stop and assume I was always talking to other women.  I never was for personal reasons, but I do work in a profession that is 90% women , so I was always getting texts and emails in regards to my work.

I love(d) her with all my heart, mind, body and soul and it's unfortunate that she couldn't believe that someONE actually loved her enough to want to spend the rest of their life with HER.  

Granted, I'm far from a perfect human being, but the love and devotion I had for her was ironclad.  I'll never get over her.



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177,503 I had a dream that you and I lived together. You were happy and in love with me again and we were going to get married.

Before everything happened. before it ruined. we were happy.



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177,502 Watching someone you knew and loved on screen after they died is excruciating. I can't reconcile seeing him being so vibrant on the screen with the fact I will never ever see him again. All i wanted while the movie was playing was to reach into the screen and hug him. The world does not know ehat a kond hearted soul he was. 27 is way too young to die.



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177,501 Trump supporters aren't looking for a fight. You just provoke them by asking if his speech is the first one they've heard when they say it is the best speech a presidential candidate has given. Typical liberal hypocrisy. Provoke, then play the victim. Good luck voting for a liar and murderer.



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177,500 When I search through my boyfriend's phone and find nothing, it makes me feel like there really is something he's not telling me.



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