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178,499 Dear John, this isn't a breakup letter at all...just a secret. Oh dear john...I think I am going to marry you one day. I'm so glad you're finally here and want me too.



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178,498 It's over, now all the know it alls, are coming out, with all their stupid theories. You don't know shit. How on earth can you comment on two people that are not you. What, are you in my head, are you in his pants? No, than fuck off already



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178,497 Sometimes I'll feel someone brushing up against my arm. But when I look, no one is there. I'm convinced it's an angel looking out for me.



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178,496 Cucumber lime vodka and Sprite Zero is always the answer.



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178,495 494: The difference for me is I like what Trump says. I'll take my chances with him, rather than that lying, racketeering, sociopath.



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178,494 There have been a few times where I wanted sex with the wifey. I knew she wouldn't do it because she was entrenched watching TV. I then went out in the yard and disconnected the cable wire to the house. No more TV reception. Nothing left for wifey to do but have sex. :)



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178,493 News flash...idiots! Doesn't matter who wins in November....you are all fucked...lol!
Stop wasting everyone's time bashing each other..if you think Trump or Clinton cares about you...
You belong in a mental assylum....lol



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178,492 Can't really express my opinions freely these days without polarizing somebody I care about, here are my secret opinions.

Religion: It is utterly stupid to put one's faith into the dogma of any man made religion. Most of them were created with good intent. To give faith to humanity for their existence and to encourage good behavior, but there is no one religion that is “correct”. Truth is, nobody knows what is going with this “Life” we have been granted. Life is a mystery, it's not our job to understand it – only to live it.

God: To rule out the existence of God (Read: a designer, creator, or higher power) is equally as stupid as believing in a religion. There are so many unknowns about our Universe, it's design, it's purpose, what larger system it is apart of…. Etc. Even the greatest minds in Science believed there was a “God” of some kind. (i.e. Einstein). The problem is semantics. Broaden the definition of what “God” means… and there lies hope

Love: To truly love another person is very difficult. It's an exercise in self-sacrifice.  Know that. If you truly love somebody, don't place rules upon them, don't label them, allow them freedom and thoughtful love. This applies to friendship, romantic love and family.

Politics: The true political system is based on the monetary system. The power of global wealth far outweighs the power of global government. Government should be used to keep society “fair”, as “fair” as possible. Currently, the wealth of the world is going to a small group of people, similar to many other societal systems in our history. We have yet to strike a balance between “fair productive” and “fair income”…. For every one… Corporations are seemingly unchecked. We must focus, as a world, on Inclusion



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178,491 All of a sudden it hits me,the only possible reason for our existence......your bully.....my bully.
Finally, problem solved.



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178,490 If Clinton wins, I'm shutting down my business. I've already made more than enough. I'll shut down and sign up for Obama care because I'll have no income. Yay, free health care and no income tax. Sucks for the rest of you tho.



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178,489 I wonder if your words were true or if they were said in an effort to protect yourself for fear of me. Do we, is there a bond? The time isn't right for us, but that doesn't mean I don't think out it. Doesn't mean I don't dream what it would be like to have you in my life. Am I ever going to see you again? Will I ever touch your lips again? Will that passion between us ever exist again? I'm so afraid the answer is no.



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178,488 regarding the election....

20bucks says....

If (GOD FORBID) Clinton wins....the republicans and everyone opposed to her will be pissed and complain left and right...there will be some small protests but nothing bad will happen....and they will rub our noses in it forever....

If  (HOPEFULLY) Trump wins....the dems and those on the left and other who oppose him, will be pissed and will take to the streets....riots and all sorts of mayhem will break out.....

see not only are the dems/libs poor winners....they will be the absolute shittiest losers ever....

If Clinton is elected we are sooooo fucked even the worst 3rd world shithole will be better than the usa....



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178,487 The democrats and the media keep making up bad stuff about Trump. It's frustrating to watch. But don't you get it? Once the Dems win with their lies, they will need a new target. That's where all you believers come in. The Dems will scam America. They will scam you and then lie to your face. So yea, laugh now at the way they treat Trump. But you're next chump.



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178,486 If it took almost two months and a big blow out of a fight to get your man to change his relationship status on Facebook, it's probably one of three things (or all of the following options):

1)He's ashamed/embarrassed of you for whatever reason
2)He doesn't want the other women that he's been fucking around with who are on his friends list to know
3)He doesn't want to impede his chances of obtaining more pussy in the future.

Get a clue, dumb ass.  You are most definitely NOT a special snowflake. Once a man whore and a user, ALWAYS a man whore and a user.



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178,485 More info which is apparently a secret because our P.R. firm, er...I mean press, will not report these things.

From my friend who went to help out in Baton Rouge.  She told me they worked in neighborhoods populated with both black and white people.  When Obama finally got done golfing, what was it, a week after the flooding?  When he was done golfing he went to Baton Rouge to see the flooding.

It turns out he did not really go into any neighborhoods.  They built a set for him, just like on a sitcom, and they shipped in 100% black people for the photo op.  It was all a fake.  How sad is that?  The President, who said he was never into photo-ops, lies again.  He could have had his limo driver travel a few miles in the city and met with real people who are really hurting, black, white, or purple, but he has to shove his agenda down our throats.  Every person in America who voted for this empty suit should be ashamed.  YOU are the reason for the downfall of this country.

Hillary is more of the same, except she is even more corrupt and unethical.  I know that is hard to believe.



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178,484 I hate my big house. I hate my fancy town. I hate being married. I hate my job.

I want to run away. I'm not a greedy man. I don't need lots of money and a big house. I could run away and live alone in a small cottage overlooking the water. I'd drink coffee on the porch and do crossword puzzles and wave as the neighbors walked by.

When does this happen? When does my life finally get to be about me and what I want? I'm tired of busting my ass for everyone else. Who dictated that I'm here to please others while they take take take?

I want so badly to be out of this place!



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178,483 There was a woman on my freshman hall in college. She told the embarrassing story that when she was in high school, she and her boyfriend were having sex in his car. They somehow thought it was a good idea if she lowered herself down on the stick shift. She slipped a little and came down hard, jamming the stick shift up her vagina. She started bleeding heavily and ended up in the emergency room. She had to explain to the doctors and her parents what happened. By a year later she thought the entire thing funny and that's why she told us on the freshman hall. She's the kind of woman I'd like to date.



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178,482 The more depraved the sex, the better. But I'm yet to find a woman who agrees with me on this.



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178,481 "Jari Litmanen."

I had to google the name.

You prove the point. The most famous person in Finland is a soccer player no normal person has ever heard of.

Finland is kind of a nothing country. But for some reason they do the best on standardized tests. You know what I'm thinking? Atlanta Georgia. It was miraculous how well the minority students did on their standardized tests ----- until it was discovered the teachers fudged the results. Yes, that's what I'm thinking.



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178,480 My 4 year old bunny died tonight. I went to work but the only thing I wanted to do was go home and cry.



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178,479 Jari Litmanen.



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178,478 Suck it the fuck up and take out the damn trash. I spent every day wiping the kitchen floor by hand because I don't have a mop and brushing, yes, brushing (don't have a vacuum either) the carpet. Then dusting… then some dinners can take a long time if they aren't crock pot meals. Then the shower, toilet, mirrors, window ledges, sink, bathroom floor, shelf surfaces…

Jesus.



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178,477 I'm sure there are anecdotes on both sides of the fence, but in general I feel married women get this free ride and they take full advantage of their situation.

I come home every night from work and get confronted with a list of all the chores I need to do. Take out the trash, mow the lawn, change a light bulb. I mean my gosh, couldn't she change a light bulb??

Married women act like they won the lottery. And I'm the guy who sold her the ticket, so I have to pay.

Okay, she does the laundry. How long does that take? A few minutes to put it in each machine. That's it. She spends maybe 10 minutes a day on laundry, but she makes it out like it's much longer because each machine runs for 45 minutes. But that's not correct. The machine runs without her having to do anything more. She's twisting the story right?

Half the nights she makes dinner. But hello, that means the other half of the night I make dinner or bring home take out. So why does she claim she's working harder than me on this topic?

After a while I've become disgusted with the way women behave. I'm sure there must be good ones out there. I wish I could meet one.



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178,476 455-that was me, for the past 12 years.  I'm on the divorce road now. I didn't want to be here, because I thought grownups worked on relationships.  But my wife just wants out.  So, we go our own ways and I have to work to kill what I feel for her-because it's too painful otherwise.  That's the weird part - being together yet alone was still preferable to a divorce in my mind.  But I can tell you, unless you address it, the loneliness will not go away and you'll wake up some day realizing you wasted 12 years for... What?



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178,475 I took my wife out to dinner. It was a warm gesture on my part. She seems so busy these days. We never get to connect as much as I would like. I'm there, usually on the computer tinkering. But she's always off doing something, mostly working out in the gym or running or yoga or tennis or swimming or pilates or biking....

We get to the restaurant and sit down. She immediately starts talking about how her foot hurts. She has gone to the doctor. There's a name for her ailment. It's called plantia something or other. She can't do anything about it. It goes away on its own after a few weeks. She explains she knew that. She just wanted to make sure with the doctor.

Then she starts going on about her arches, her arches are bad. And her achilles tendon. She needs to see the doctor again about her tendon. It's sore. I don't say anything, I only think it - she needs to see the doctor AGAIN about her achilles tendon? Is it such a broad topic that they had to break the medical conversation into two sessions?

This leads to her talking about her leg. She has sciatica(?). It means her leg hurts sometimes. And her back. She starts naming her various vertebrae and what's wrong with each. I didn't know her vertebrae had names. But they do. L5 and C2. I start drifting off. Maybe vertebrae should have more interesting names, like Bob and Sally, or Thing One and Thing Two.

When I tune back in, she's still going on about her health issues. "... I've been getting these massages from my physical therapist twice a week. But I think I have to go three times a week. It's important for a proper spine management plan..."

Her spine has a management plan? And she's been getting massages from a physical therapist twice a week? I didn't know this. I say so out loud. She scolds me for not knowing. I want to ask her how much these massages cost. But I don't. Taking her to dinner was supposed to be a warm gesture on my part. I don't want to ride her about all the money she spends on herself, about all her hypochondriac illnesses she invents in her head.

This was the entire dinner. Her and her ailments. Me nodding along.

The waitress asks if we'd like dessert. I quickly say no, just the check. I'm eager to get home, back to the computer and my tinkering.



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178,474 I'm so fucking angry.



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178,473 About half a mile from my house, there's a cantaloupe sitting on the side of the road. It's not smashed or damaged or anything. It's perfectly intact and just sitting there. It's so out of place that's it's comical.

In my life, in my marriage, at my job, I am a cantaloupe sitting on the side of the road.



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178,472 Once upon a time there was a girl that got tired of putting up with a little boys shit.

She left him and lived happily ever after.

The End



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178,471 psst. hey babe. yeah you. I love you so much. I know it's early. I know you know. please come hold me ASAP. I will be waiting just for you.



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178,470 Nationwide Insurance. They use to make these little music boxes that played the corporate theme music. I must have listened to it a thousand times.

Every now and then they will play a small segment of the theme in a commercial. I remember in an instant what it means to lose everything. That's what it's there for. It use to help farmers get through the lean years, but then it became so much more.

I have a life insurance policy. I should have sold life insurance but it's too fucking depressing.



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178,469 In the past 6 months my wife has gotten fatter. Good. Maybe it will chill her beauty queen attitude.



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178,468 I've had sex where I worked three different times with three different women. I miss those days. Now you get sued if you have sex in the office.



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178,467 I'm going on a girl's beach weekend. It's me. Then there's my friend whose husband is divorcing her. It was out of the blue. He's an asshole. Then it's a third friend whose husband passed away last year.

We are going bar hopping and dancing. My two friends are technically single. I'm not. I have a husband. But I know what's about to happen. My two friends are going to be looking for men to fuck. Total one night stands.

My secret, I'm going to do it too. I never thought I'd cheat on my husband. But why not. If they are going to have fun I want it too.



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178,466 Kid I know. In high school he was caught with pot. The police let him go. 3 years later he was caught with heroin. Police let him go. Two days ago he died of a drug overdose. He was 23. Who did it help to be so lenient on the kid?



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178,465 When an animal knows it's dying, it will stop eating and drinking water. I don't believe in forcing an animal to stay alive by tube feeding or what have you, but i don't believe in forcing an animal to die either. Call me old fashioned I believe in the natural order of life and death.



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178,464 Some people believe in assisted suicide for the terminally ill, if they are in too much pain. Ever watch Soylent Green?  The one good thing they had was assisted suicide.  People shouldn't have to suffer over long periods of time.  It may take awhile but we will get to where we allow people to die on their terms. It should always be the ill persons choice whether to keep fighting and living or die peacefully surrounded by loved one on their terms.



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178,463 Go ahead and let your children know to euthanize you as soon as the cancer starts to hurt.



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178,462 Kerri D - fuck you you are a CUNT



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178,461 Shhhhhhhh guess what. People are animals.



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178,460 I love my pets like family. And I'm not a nutjob who's lost perspective on the value of life. If it makes you feel better to regard other life as less than your own, fine. But some of us actually have enough love in our hearts for our little furry companions.



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178,459 Maybe in another life I'll be the beauty queen. Maybe a wife and mother. Maybe just me, again.

I've cried for the last 2 hrs about my miscarriage 2 years ago. I never grieved until I had to.
I have to work a 12 hr shift in 3 hrs snd I can't sleep.



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178,458 I LIVED in Finland.  I got the hell out.  Heck, even the Swedes & Norge look down on them.  Heh.  I know from which I speak.



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178,457 Sometimes I'll eat two dinners. Like I'll stop at a pizza place on the way home and get a meatball hero. Then once I get home, I'm still hungry so I'll go out to McDonalds.



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178,456 I'm actually sick of all these "Pet Parents" talking like an animal is equal to a human being.  I love all animals.  I really do.  But they are not the same as a person. No way. There is no equivalent.  And people who value the lives of a pet the same as a person or a child, no matter how beloved and wonderful the pet is, is sick and needs to have their head examined.

In fact, we do treat pets better than animals because allowing for some dignity in dying is the right thing to do.  You ever see anyone die of cancer or Alzheimer's?  I have.  Its barbaric and painful and needs some serious drugs to endure.



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178,455 I am still in love with Corrine K. She is my person and there isn't one day that goes by that I don't wish that I would have gotten a divorce and married her. She is my person. I was afraid that being 16 years my junior one day she would wake up and no longer want me. She is super model beuatiful and me I'm just a normal 41 year old guy that is very skilled at seducing women. I fell in love with her, that was the only time I was ever truly in love and happy. She changed me. i have no interest in other women anymore. Zero.



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178,454 How can I be both married and lonely?



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178,453 you not only bruised my heart but you damaged my soul with what transpired...

Im glad you got what you needed but as for me YOUR HUSBAND you decided i didn't matter.

You are selfish and vain.  Dont think for a moment that the kids havent noticed, because they have and questioned me about your actions.  

YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO TURN THIS AROUND. IF NOT, YOU LOSE ME, THEM AND THE REST OF THE WORLD WE HAVE, THAT YOU JUST BARELY GRACE US WITH YOUR PRESENCE.



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178,452 I am isolating myself because I know that I don't want to stick around. I did not get my prescription for antidepressants filled because I don't see the need. I don't want to do counseling anymore. I've been going for two years.  I still hate my life. Living inside of this body with this mind is hell and it never ceases.  My friends think that somehow I'm all better now and don't want to commit suicide anymore and that my attempt was isolated, but that is what I want them to believe. I am not trying to be selfish, I just know that the end is coming and nothing anybody can do or say can change my course.  God quit worrying about me a long time ago. Hell doesn't even frighten me anymore. I want this and I don't...either way I need this. It has to end.  It has to. I can't take it anymore.

F/34



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178,451 People's obsession with domesticated animals are so ridiculous. These animals recognize a human that  feeds them . That is why they pant and wag their tails Not because the "love" you or because they are "happy". Animals have no emotions they don't cry.To put any animal down that suffers is the right thing to do . How many "animal lovers" keep their suffering pets alive for selfish reasons. I see people walking their dogs in the street. They will ignore the other human dog walker but only  communicate with the animals.I love my dog but one has to keep a healthy perspective.



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178,450 I will read your blog.  :)



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178,449 Me, of all people! I am going to an open relationship.  If you can't beat 'em. join 'em.  I wish I were dead, but I am not.  An open relationship is the last thing in life I would want.  The idea sickens me, but that's what I am going to do . . . often.  I hate myself for it, and I despise him!  I couldn't beat him, and I am tired of hurting and wishing us dead, so I will just join the party.  Once I'm fucking everything, maybe I will feel okay in a relationship for once.  Once he sees I am serious, this will kill him.  But he will see; by the end of this weekend, he will have seen.  I am the victim no more.  My new philosophy of life: "yes, you may have me . . . any effing way you want, sir!"

M/59



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178,448 I look up my ex wife on facebook. She posts pictures of her new husband. He never looks happy. He looks annoyed she's making him pose. I can almost hear her nagging the crap out of him to sit up straight and put on a different shirt and smile for the camera. Poor sucker. I feel bad for him.



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178,447 No one reads my blog. I spend countless hours writing up posts, hoping to make an impact in the world. And not a single person reads my words. It's more than depressing.



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178,446 If my mother were on her deathbed, I would take care of her til her dying breath. I would hurt for her suffering, laugh for her memories, and cry for her release. I would be there for her in her final days. So why would I not do that for my dog? I would never want him to suffer, but in reality that IS part of dying. Honestly, I know people are telling themselves, or better yet, letting the vets tell them, that the humane course of action would be to euthanize them. I'm sure it helps you to feel like you *could* do something instead of feeling helpless like we all do when our children (furry or otherwise) are sick or dying. And yes, I understand the validity in wanting ease their pain. I guess my point is that I treat my pets like family members, and I would never think to just "put down" my own dying relatives. It just seems barbaric and selfish, giving up the responsibility of actually providing hospice for your dog or cat.



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178,445 When a perfectly healthy feeling individual goes in for tests, they find questionable cancer cells and boom, a month later they are dead, it was the chemotherapy that killed them. Doctors do not admit this.



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178,444 I'm in love with someone I can't even talk to because her whole concept gives me a panic attack.

Being so tongue tied might be cute if I was fourteen.

I am SO FAR from being fourteen.



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178,443 I honestly think that cancer is more a mind thing than biological.  For example how many times have you heard a perfectly healthy feeling individual goes in for tests, they find questionable cancer cells and boom, a month later they are dead.
Also, people who have much to be guilty for, whether they care or not, tend to subconsciously know what they do is wrong and that negative energy has to go somewhere so it feeds the cells which our bodies are trying to eradicate.
I simplified this obviously but I did hear recently that many of the worlds oldest humans were smokers but they had one common trait...a positive attitude.
Food for thought.



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178,442 Finland, Sweden.... fantastic places, yes they have higher taxes, and yes they have debt, but one will NEVER go bankrupt because of medical costs, time for family is ordered, not like here where you are scared shitless to ask for time off, lower stress.....yup



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178,441 I have found that people who look down their noses at other countries have never travelled. Finland is a great place. People are happy and healthy. Yes their country has debt, but so do we. Our once great country is saddled with crippling debt, because greed has taken over business and business has taken over our government. Hundreds of thousands of Americans go bankrupt every year because of a short hospital stay costing them 10's of thousands of dollars. Meanwhile, in Finland, people ride their bikes to work for 35 hours a week and live happy relaxed lives.



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178,440 It's sad to hear stories about massage parlors. I'm sure maybe some are okay but sex trafficking is a huge issue in the US. I wish prostitution was legal. Regulate it and keep people safe. Well, safer. For as "free" as Americans supposedly are we sure are prudes...



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178,439 It is still my fault.



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178,438 I hurt someone I love. It was not intentional but I was still wrong. It wasn't my secret to spill.



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178,437 I hurt someone I love deeply. It was not intentional, and ultimately it will come out anyway.
It was the truth, but it wasn't my secret to spill.
The person is on the verge of doing something irrational,that could have far reaching implications and devastating pain. It's not reasonable, completely out of character, and ultimately a very bad decision. You can't save people from themselves, they will do whatever they want to do, even if reality is standing by ready to give them a giant slap in the face, a swift kick in the nuts, or create such havoc in their own lives it might take decades to recover from. From the outside looking in, it's abundantly clear, glaringly obvious the it's a huge mistake with hard consequences and expensive lessons to learn. We can't save people, they will have their own experiences, and sort it out when they are aching with heartache and remorse. Logic does not rule in this case.



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178,435 Don't kill yourself, life is too good - even when its bad. If you can, try and see the sunrise from a good vantage point and just be man, just be.....

Seriously, find a way back to me somehow and I will tell you some fricken hilarious jokes and stories (camping w/out t/p and had to use a sock which is forever known as the 'shit-puppet') that will make you howl with laughter!

just type "SMILE" on here soon and we can connect somehow.



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178,434 About 20 years ago I drank three cups of strong coffee and I had a seizure. That was the last time I had coffee. I can't risk it, even one cup. It worries me too much. I miss coffee.



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178,433 Next time I try to kill myself I will succeed. I won't tell anyone, I'll just do it. There won't be another hospital stay. Nobody can talk me out of it. It is going to happen.  Don't know where. Don't know when. I won't see 40. At this point even 35 is looking iffy.



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178,432 You followed him to 'The North Woods.' The middle of no-where. You tried to be the deer hunting, ice-fishing, Friday night fish fry type of woman. God love ya, but its too late. I have a happy family here in the suburbs and a a cabin on a lake which creates many memories for us.
We could have been something way back when, really we could have; but you chose a snowmobile mechanic over a loving guy getting a grad degree in Finance. I do miss you and often think of what we could have had - but please stop texting me. I am happy with my life! Miss you and miss you not. Take care of you and yours,
G



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178,431 Once Finns get out of school, all they do is drink. Waste of life, waste of time country.



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178,430 I miss you, David. I shouldn't, but I do.



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178,429 I think about you every day.



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178,428 I always needed and wanted you . you left. We weren't actually soul mates, we were Karmic lovers. Lesson learned. You still rip out my heart..............



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178,427 I thought I was needed, I guess I was mistaken.



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178,426 I was never your soulmate.  I belong to my twin flame.



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178,425 My ex-wife is 60 years old, smokes and is in terrible shape.   I am waiting for her to drop dead so I don't have to pay her anymore of the back child support I owe her.



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178,424 Is it normal for a woman to lose her sex drive? My husband has went as far as accusing me of cheating. I'm always working! I have two jobs! When I'm not working I'm cleaning house or doing laundry! He never tells me I'm pretty or makes me feel wanted or sexy, yet he expects me to be raring to spread my legs every night and constantly complains about it. I offer blow jobs and hand jobs simply because I don't feel like having full blown sex and he turns them down. I'm highly hurt that he thinks I'm "getting it somewhere else" when I don't even have time to masturbate if I wanted to!



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178,423 What about me made you not love me



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178,422 After my divorce, I was a single mom when my son was a baby and up through elementary school. I am married now, but when I was dating then, being a single mom made me more judicious about who I let myself be alone with. I never had any one night stands and for the first several months, I didn't even let them know where I lived. Why put myself in danger like that hooking up with men I barely knew? When if something happened to me, my son would grow up without his mom. I made enough money to support us both so I wasn't rushing to find him a stepfather. I could see how a lot of women might be though, if they are in a tough situation with a little one. That is a part of my life I do not miss.



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178,421 There is a ton of assistance for single moms. If I put out it's because I like you. A whole lot <3



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178,420 Husbands and wives should be able to see each other naked any time they wish . . . after all, they are married and together "as one."  How are you going to be that if you can't even see each other naked.  That should be a no-brainer for sure.  

Hey, look all you want, honey . . . and help yourself while you''re at it!  After all, it's yours!  All yours!!!



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178,419 I've always wondered about single moms. Are you more likely to put out for a guy to rope him into being a step dad? I have one experience with this. I went on a date with a "divorced" woman from Match.com. She gave me a blow job on the first date. I wasn't expecting it. She jumped right in. Afterwards I tried to give her a "happy moment". She declined saying she was still a little sore down there. "From what?" I asked. She then told me the truth. She had given birth two months earlier. Her husband couldn't handle it. He filed for divorce. She was going to be on her own with a newborn. For self preservation, she went on Match.com and lied about already being divorced. The whole thing gave me a bad vibe. I encouraged her to work it out with her husband. I felt terrible I just accepted a blow job from this married woman with a newborn. Not my style. But the question remains, do single moms put out more easily in hopes of snagging a man?



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178,418 To be honest I don't really know why it was wrong to tell your secret.. I do wish I had gone to u first and tried to tell u why I thought your secret was wrong.. it was your story..



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178,417 i am frequently impaired at work. i make a point of always using a lot of hand sanitizer so any whiff of alcohol coming off me can be attributed to that.

my life is a sad mess. kid me would be so disappointed that this is the adult I've become.



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178,416 Being a single mother has made it so that the guys who are interested in me are the guys who are ready to settle down and who don't just think of themselves. Men who are willing to be stepfathers are the cream of the crop.



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178,415 There is no logic behind sick fantasies just anger we will always miss love and believe me permanent revenge is already in place and received at a fair level. Love can find again why would u want to hurt someone ready to learn anything they don't know about how they've hurt u or what they can do to make it better and why should someone have to give to get especially something like love /care /forgiveness /understanding if it wasn't malicious?



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178,414 When I smoke weed I'm more confident in changing who I am. I want to be different. Why can't I be different? I simply don't know how. I feel alone in this. Talking with someone makes me feel worse but, I want to feel better. Living like this is torture. Anxiety and guilt. Anger, so much anger. Saddness and crying.Frustration. I'm so tired of days like this. Why can't I deal with life? Why does it feel like I'm always annoyed? How do I change this?



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178,413 So.. Revenge eh? All I can say is a mother told her daughter if her hair was pulled to pull back lighter.. Revenge only serves the lower nature.



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178,412 It's funny to see the students show up on the first day of school. It's obvious who the 9th graders are. They don't know the unofficial dress code. You don't wear pretty dresses. That's so Middle School. You wear grunge.  

It will take them a few weeks, but they'll learn. Get ready mom and dad.

- Teacher



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178,411 I hate my life only because I hate myself



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178,410 My grandpa live to 104 , his secret . Stay busy , he live in a ranch his whole life has plenty of animals  pigs, chickens, cows , horses etc.. . He used to get up every day at 6am had his coffe (plain black , no sugar ) with sweet bread every morning , he also was a smoker and used to drink  he did ate healthy sice he used to grow his own vegetables and fruits but never denied himself a treat , my grand mother(his wife) on the hand died of breast cancer before I was born . I never met her so I guess some people can live a healthy lifestyle and still get cancer while other don't .



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178,409 You can eat healthy and workout three times a week. And instead of dying 67 from a heart attack, you will live to be 77.

Big whoop. All that effort to get an extra 10 years? It's not worth it. 10 years ins't very long. It's not much of a bonus. I remember turning 30 and then suddenly I was 40.

Eating salad for 67 years so you can get another 10 years - of eating salad? Nope. Not for me. I think it's a wasted lifetime



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178,408 Oddly, school parents often point to Finland as the role model for good education. They say Finland has the best scores in the world on standardized test. At the same time, Finland encourages more recess and less homework. Blah blah blah.

But have you ever noticed.... Name one famous person from Finland. Name one invention from Finland. One movie star. One business leader. One musical genius... There's nothing. Finland has never achieved anything ever. But we should use the country as a role model?



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178,407 Too often my husband manages to walk into our bedroom as I'm getting undressed. This must be by design on his part. I think he's constantly watching me and figuring out when I'm about to get changed. He must hover by the door and time his entrance perfectly. If you ask me, it's a little perverted and obsessive on his part.



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178,406 You're right. This is the longest that we've been apart since we met and I still love YOU very much as well. Also, I have a feeling that YOU will never change so I have to try and let YOU go. It's been hell, but it's getting better.



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178,405 George Clooney was here.



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178,404 I did something a little famous. Kinda everyone knows about a thing I created - random strangers, celebrities have mentioned it in interviews, I see it sometimes in the background on a tv show or movie. I get embarrassed when someone finds out that it was actually me who created it. I don't know why. It was a good thing I did. It should be a proud moment.

When I was very little, my mom threw me a birthday party. Everyone started singing happy birthday. I couldn't stand the attention. I hid under the  table.

When I was in my earlier 20s. I pulled off this great feat at work. Next day I walked into the office and everyone applauded. I turned around and left the building.

I don't like attention.

Some people, like me, will never be comfortable in the lime light.



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178,403 Have I truly had such different experiences with guys, or are others so unlucky.

Most of my first encounters and subsequent encounters have involved a lot of mutual oral sex, either prior or inbetween sex.



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178,402 I fuck my room mate's girlfriend when he isn't around.



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178,401 We have been broken up 6 months the longest we have ever been apart since we met. I still love you very much and want to give in and be with you every time you ask for me back. But I know we won't be happy together. I wish you were different but you will never change and I have to let you go because it's what's best for both of us.



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178,400 In the end, it really no longer matters what went down when we were together. I learned so much about myself after the breakup that I needed to learn a long time ago; better late than never.

Since you skated away,more and more positive things are happening here in my life now. And the idea of going back to you or the life we had is now unappealing. I still wish you well, but I do NOT want to hear from you ever again. Please stay a stranger and a mystery to me. Please be a beautiful and tortured memory, please forever remain my "dream girl", my living fantasy,my muse and my soul mate. It was beautiful, it was hell. Thank you and fuck off :-)



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