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183,399 There are times I want to punch my wife in the face. I'd go to jail. It'd be worth it though.



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183,398 You know what's bad? There are mice in my house. I catch them in traps. It's gross.

You know what's worse? Something has been eating the dead mice in the traps.



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183,397 I don't enjoy being in a relationship. But I do enjoy the hunt.



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183,396 The meanest woman I've ever known spends an awful lot of time telling everyone what a good person she is. Funny how that works.



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183,395 I really need to get fucked. With my legs back. So horny I need some good dick



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183,394 I do the bare minimum. Work or in a relationship, doesn't matter. I do as little as possible to make it work. I'm not sure why this is. I don't really care about anything.



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183,393 I never told her that.she wants me to hate her and i should.but i cant.last time we talked she said shed call later but never did.i dont know.good things are happening but i feel apathetic and it all seems meaningless



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183,392 Things my wife has given me as gifts:

1) A bottle of expensive wine. I don't drink. She drank it herself.

2) A box of chocolates when I was on a diet. She ate them herself.

3) A container of mint ice cream. I hate the taste of mint. She loves mint ice cream.

4) A bag of fancy coffee from Starbucks. I don't like or drink coffee. She loves coffee however.

See the pattern?



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183,391 Did you tell her not to contact you anymore?  And now you changed your mind?



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183,390 Besides if she wanted to talk shed call i still am so confused



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183,389 I would but i have a new phone and i dont know her number



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183,388 Hotel person, pick up the phone and call.  Reach across the aisle.  What is the quest that could happen?



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183,387 My wife gave me this aroma-therapy shit for Christmas.Apparently, if you roll this shit on the nerve points in your body, it's supposed to help something.  Awareness, sleep, who the fuck knows.

I'm tempted to roll it on my balls to see if it helps.  

Maybe my balls will become aware, fill up quicker.  Soon after, this lovely, exotic, dark and soft-skinned young lady will come to help drain my balls.  

I fucking hope so.



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183,386 Maybe "murderer" is about what you did to your 10 year relationship, and "abortion" was about the choice you'll make again when the guy you're fucking now knocks you up. 2 separate statements that you morphed to feed your crazy mind.



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183,385 US Security Chief Flynn called Russia. OMG OMG OMG. He called Russia! Do you know what this means??? It means he dialed the phone and called Russia!!! He spoke about some security issues because, well, he is the chief of security.  I mean, how dare he do his job! What the hell was the man thinking???

In other news, I heard a man in Detroit called Dominos and ordered a pizza!!!! OMG OMG OMG. What the hell was he thinking....

(Dems, you are out of control.)



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183,384 Im sitting here in my hotel and wanting to talk to you.even after this the sound of your voice soothes me



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183,383 For my next house, I'm going to have most of it built underground. An indoor pool. A movie theater. A library. A woodshop. Very quiet bedrooms. Maybe I'll even put the kitchen underground too. The only thing above ground would be a sunny sitting room and a greenhouse. Why would I do this? Underground space gets taxed at one tenth of above ground space. That's the rule around here. I'll have 500 square feet above ground and 5,000 below ground. In total it will be taxed like a 1,000 square foot home. The taxes will be minimal, like $800 per year. I currently pay tens of thousands a year and I'm damned well sick of it.



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183,382 My kids' dad is abusive and a terrible father figure and a bad example for my children. I asked my brother if he could take an afternoon once in a while and spend some time with my kids so they could see how a normal man behaves.  His wife wouldn't let him.



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183,381 Rich black men play golf too.



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183,380 The President of the USA does not write the immigration laws. If you want to change that- ask Congress and the Senate to amend the law.The Trump administration is only enforcing the  immigration law like any other government on this earth.Why is he called a racist? To live in a civilized society the law is written to be upheld - if not- we have chaos.Try ignoring traffic light and see how long it takes before there is total chaos. With freedom there comes a lot of responsibility.



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183,379 You told me not to contact you...U still want me to text you? Tell me something so I know it's you



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183,378 I want you to call/text/snap me :) let me know you're thinking of me..



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183,377 Sweet smelling urine can be a sign of diabetes



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183,376 For the last few days we spoke about painting the living room. It was a hard and fast plan how we would do it today.

When I got up this morning she was no where to be found. I called and texted her. No answer. I looked her up on FindMyIphone. She was at the gym. Couldn't believe it. She knew we were going to paint this morning. So typical.

I started without her. I moved all the furniture. I taped off all the edges. I began painting.  At noon she returned. I pointed out how disappointed I am that she ran out on the work and left it all for me. She started ranting and whining how she has every right to go to the gym. She doesn't get it. She never gets it.

I sighed and asked her to grab the paint brush and she can help.  Ten minutes went by. What happened to her? I looked around. She was gone again. I checked FindMyIphone. She was at a restaurant for lunch. Of course she was.

At 2 she came back. I have no words. She never listens anyway. She does no wrong. In her view it's perfectly right to go to the gym and then out to lunch so she can avoid doing any work whatsoever.

I finished painting. I started to clean up. I asked her to take the empty paint can and put it directly in trash can outside. I made a point of explaining that paint dripped down the side of the can and was now on the bottom of the can. I specifically told her not to put the can down on anything, definitely not, it will get paint everywhere. Bring it straight to the trash.

I continued cleaning up.  I removed the plastic mat from the floor. I carefully peeled off all the masking tape along the edges. It took me half an hour. When finished I passed through the dining room. There on the table was the paint can.

I'm so sad. I tried to lift the can off. It was stuck. The paint had glued the can to the lacquer tabletop finish. I had no choice but to force it. It pulled up some of the lacquer. There is a ring on our beautiful dining room table. How could she do that? I have to think she does these things on purpose. It's passive aggressive on her part. She'll show me who's boss, even if it means destroying our beautiful table.

I have never known a more dislikable person than the woman I married, the woman I want so desperately to divorce. It's why I painted the living room. I'm trying to fix up the house, sell it, then divorce her. I'm thinking my plan is a mistake. It's too painful. I should just sell the house as is. Take the loss. She would get to share half the loss that way too.  That would actually hurt her because the only thing she cares about is money she can spend on herself.

I'm feeling so defeated. She wins. I just want to be done with this marriage and get as far away from her as possible.



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183,375 Meryl Streep, please come out with another movie. I look forward to not going.



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183,374   I don't have a cell phone. I never have. Cell phones are stupid. Anything that needs to be said can wait until I get home. People talk about jack nothing on their cell phones. Really, you are in the market shopping? Thanks for telling everyone. The world has been saved. Oh wait, no it hasn't. No one cares at all if you're in the market shopping.
  I figure I save about $1,000 a year by not having a cell phone bill.  Over the last 15 years that's $15,000. I bought a new car this year. Basically it was free. I used all the money I didn't spend on a cell phone. The rest of you don't have a new car.
  I think I'll go for a drive now in my new car. The rest of you can do nothing except wait around for your cell phone to ring with news that one of your friends is shopping at the market. Yippee for you!



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183,373 Divorce isn't the end. Oh no, it keeps going. My wife cheated. She acted like a fuckface. She tormented me every chance she got. After the divorce I still wasn't free from her. We have kids. We have to overlap. She uses every encounter to come after me some more. She cheated. She still gets half of everything. She still files court motions against me for even more money. There aint nothing I or any other divorced man can do about it. I understand why some men resort to killing their wives. It's the only way to be truly rid of her.



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183,372 Modern dating sucks.
I think I missed the boat on quality people.  All that's left are asshats.
Maybe I'm one of them.



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183,371 Sometimes my pee smells so good. Sweet, like vanilla and honey. It smells good enough to drink.



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183,370 A dear friend died of cancer the other day. She was relatively young. Her house backs up to a golf course. I'm sure it's related. They spray the grass with chemicals all the damn time to make sure the greens are perfect for the rich white men. Your golf game is more important than a woman's life? Sick mother fuckers. I hope you golfers get cancer too.



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183,369 What about my stuff



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183,368 336.  OR You could do it, catch an STD or worse, and regret it forever.  Spin the wheel. Heaven or Hell?



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183,367 If you haven't already...Loose my number...



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183,366 Typing this with my left hand, got my right hand wrapped around my pecker, shooting cum EVERYwhere!



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183,365 If there's work to be done around the house, you can be sure my wife won't be here. She'll find an excuse to leave.



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183,364 I lost her number again



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183,363 My "boyfriend" of ten fucking years just referred to me as a murderer for an abortion i had at 20. I think about it every day. But I will be thinking of anything but him from now on. Fuck him. Over. Done. Out.



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183,362 I hate everything. Eventually I Just Lose It All and everyone leaves. I'm scared all the time, never satisfied with my progress, and all I want is put this absolute let down of a life somewhere where all the worst suffering is buried and never comes back. I am a 32 year old female who is looking forward do nothing except possibly getting sick and dying.  I am too tired of hurting for things in life that has skipped me over and forgotten about me. It is just too late and anything good is too little to fix how badly I am broken. I just want to die and forget the world that forgot about me it's all I had no Humanity that anyone could acknowledge. I just want to be done. Dead.



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183,361 I've always had a hard time recovering from relationships. I've really only had what I would call 4 serious relationships that lasted for more than a few months. It takes me years to get back to a point where I feel I can date again. First real relationship I was 20. The last of the 4 I was 34. I'm now 37, and just feel like I'm never gonna find someone to really be compatible with. Doesn't help that I have a hard time verbalizing what I'm feeling. When I was a kid, I lived in an environment where all I felt was fear, anxiety, pain and rage. My grandparents lived with us off and on until I was 10. My grandfather, used to wrestle with us all the time. He was a sixth degree black belt in karate, and was a professional wrestler before it was fake. So he didn't just wrestle with us, it was more of someone who knows exactly how far he can push your body before it breaks. Constant pain from wrestling holds. Now my older brother took to this, so when my grandfather wasn't around I had a brother that was 4 years older than me trying to do the same things my grandfather would do. But with him, he would really hurt me bad. I would just explode with rage and attack with everything I had. That was the first 10 years of my life. Not a lot of room for talking about your emotions, or even understanding other people's. So most girls if they do stick around for a while have a hard time dealing with my lack of verbalization skills and leave. Or are like the last couple of relationships, sweet at first and affectionate. Then just turn into raging bitches. I just want someone to love, and can treat like me like I treat them. Since I have a hard time talking about emotions, I show the women I date how I feel for them by doing special, sweet and loving things for them. Most girls I have dated just take advantage of this. I think I'm just gonna end up alone.... 8(

M/37



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183,360 Dear "Husband of Difficult Wife," How long will you remain a walk-off mat for this difficult woman? If you're so unhappy in this marriage, then end it. Get the divorce going and free yourself from this abuse. Life is too damn short man. Get free and get on. Believe me, you'll be a lot happier after you do. Take charge and be free.



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183,359 I dated a man for six months and fell in love with him. After he broke up with me I did everything possible to stop crying, to feel better. I go to the gym, meditate, meet with friend, work, read, watch tv, etc. I don't cry anymore, I'm better. But I still cannot fuck anybody else. This has never been the case. I've been in love before, I went through break ups before and had no problem having casual sex shortly afterwards. Casual sex used to make me feel better. Apparently, not this time...I'm horny, I want to fuck, there are plenty of opportunities and I just can't. It's like he cursed me or put a spell on me.
FML.

F/42



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183,358 I am married to a man who gets angry at things he reads in the news but can't be bothered to actually do anything with that anger. His attitude towards everything is "oh well - shit happens." He believes that being well informed is the extent of his civic duty. Then he gets huffy and annoyed when I express a desire to get politically involved, or even just volunteer at soup kitchens. He actively discourages me until I feel like I'm emotionally unhinged for wanting to do it. Then I drop the subject, stuff down any of my bad and inappropriate emotions like righteous anger or crushing loneliness and try to enjoy our weekend routine of chores, grocery shopping, working, and watching TV.

This soulless, controlling existence has to stop. For now my charitable work will be small and easy to hide. And when the divorce papers get filed the first thing I'm going to do is to channel that righteous fury I've repressed all these years to bring joy to the lives of others. He can wallow in his cool hipster detachment all he likes.



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183,357 If you want to hear from me, why don't you text me?



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183,356 I'm so fucking high on Vicodin right now. Everything is fucking wonderful right now! 😀



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183,354 The only regret that I have , is not listening to my dad. When I got pregnant he offered full support , told me I was welcome to comeback , he was going to help me and even offer to send me back to school and paid for it , so I could have a career . I chose not to do it , It wouldn't be fair for my kid to grow up without a father , I just couldn't do it. Most of the time I'm happy with my decision that I made but once in a blue moon I do feel I made a mistake .  Life is good most of the time, I have everything I could ask for but it will be nice if I was living closer to my family.



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183,353 I'm a fucking emergency candle.  That's what I am. If I could be dependent... codependent.. whatever... I would. But I CAN'T.

It would be nice, for once, to be able to free myself from my own mind and ask for help.



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183,352 Call me



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183,351 I really want to hear from



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183,350 I feel awkward all the time, even with my family... ugh



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183,349 I am a female who isn't a manipulator, and unfortunately i found that women who are manipulators get what they want, including the guy.  I've been open and honest, strung along, fucked with, etc.  That's what happens when you're not a manipulative woman :(



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183,348 Weather.com has to be the worst website out there. It takes 5 minutes for the damn page to load. Then if I want to see the weather for the next 5 days, well there's another 5 minutes wasted. Getting simple information, like I dunno, how much snow will fall, is virtually impossible. And the radar maps, forget about it,even longer to load. The ads though, I see they always manage to pop up right away. How annoying.



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183,347 What a relief to be divorced. She was such a manipulator. Why are some women like that?



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183,346 336 go for it or when you get 60 you will think "Why didn't  I?" every day.



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183,345 I am new to online dating, actually i had a profile up but wasn't ready to date anyone and deleted it.  Then I put one up on Tinder recently, and one guy I matched with recently asked to meet to go to the movies.  Thing is, it's been very light "talk" as in communicating through Tinder.  We haven't spoken on the phone yet.  Is that weird, to meet someone for a movie when you haven't spoken on the phone yet?  Or is this what it is now?  I have been in a longterm relationship for very long so idk what it is now.



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183,344 When I'm in a group of mixed company and the issue of abortion comes up, there always seems to be a few women who go berzerk on the topic. They get mean and verbally abusive when defending abortion.

I don't say it out  loud, but I instantly conclude they have had abortions and deep down they feel guilty about it. As a defense mechanism, they try to tell not only me why abortion is good, they are mostly trying to tell themselves as a way to ease their guilt.



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183,343 I am not interested in you, David. I hope you don't try and talk to me, anymore.

Meanwhile my mind is still on her. I guess I'm the David in her life. Wanting to take another stab at it and not hated but not wanted.



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183,342 The only reason I don't work it's because I don't have to. While I cannot live an extravagant life, there's plenty of money to live a comfortable life until I'm on my 90's . I never really tell anyone , I don't want to make them feel about themselves , so I just let them assume whatever they want about how I support myself .



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183,341 i've nothing  even a friend  i want maybe  iam ugly person   hate it so mch



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183,340 i am not indepented



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183,339 i hate my family



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183,338 My boyfriend, who is the closest person to me, has no idea how much I want to die. I mean I tell him sometimes, but he says I shouldn't talk that way and that it upsets him. He has no idea how much I cry, how empty I feel. He just cannot comprehend it, he is a stable guy and just can't experience any mood swings.

Also, I have never really cried in these 2.5 years of our relationship. He will never see me with spit dripping out of my mouth because I can't stop crying, I think he doesn't know how bad it is. He will never know.

Just read a secret about an older person telling his 8 year old self that after 16 years, he will finally find peace with himself. I can't help but hope that my moment will come too but too much has happened to me and here I thought I had no daddy issues. If there was a God, I would be dead already, but I keep waking up. every. single. day.



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183,337 Thank you Lord
He didn't give me an STD!
I am never going to be so careless ever again!



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183,336 I'm 45 years old, and a blonde 23-year old stripper wants to fuck me.  She gave me her number and told me to stop by her house during the day so we can fuck.

I'm married.  I have two beautiful kids.  My wife is great.

And I don't know what to do!



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183,335 Minorities seem to get angry at me for being white and male. But seriously, what would you like me to do about it?



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183,334 When I ran track in high school, we used to change into our running clothes on the bus ride to a meet. We were the girls track team and our coach was male. I'm sure he got an eyeful.



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183,333 What's up with women who wear a skirt to a picnic? You know we will be sitting on the ground. You know we will be sitting Indian style at some point. Therefore you know guys will see your undies. Yet you still choose to wear a skirt to a picnic. You obviously want guys to see your undies. Very slutty.



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183,332 I won't date a man who smokes.



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183,331 My wife has nothing interesting to say. She talks about the weather. She tells me what kind of sandwich she had for lunch, she describes it in detail. She goes on and on about what she watched on tv today. I'm excruciatingly bored.



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183,330 I have taken a woman to my boat and we did the deed. My wife has no idea.



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183,329 If you want to be famous - just dump on Trump.
Every has been  celebrity or former politician is famous once again because they are so "offended" by Trump.Remember Bill Clinton screwing an intern it the White House ? Why were you not offended then? Get over yourself.We are all human.
In a few years you will thank this man who had the insight to protect America .The "majority" of citizens-legal and illegal -with their holier than thou attitude, who are so "offended" by him will be singing another tune.
How soon we forget- remember 9/11 with innocent people jumping from burning buildings and close to 3000 dead in NYC? I will rather have strict  immigration laws that to watch that again.Wonder where was the outcry from moderate  Muslims on that day.Wake up and stop badmouthing your elected President, Like it or not her is there for the next 4 years!



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183,328 I've never tried anal sex. Hemmm. Now I'm curious after reading how so many of you have done it. Problem is, how do I bring this up with my husband? Oh honey, could you please take out the trash, drop the boys at school, and when you come back, stick your penis in my rectum. lol



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183,327 As parents, we make friends with other parents. The kids overlap, so the parents overlap. But a secret. By the time your kids get to high school, many of the parents will become sworn enemies. It has to do with the kids. When some kids become teens, they stray from the path. Drugs, drinking, sex. The good kids shy away from these former friends. As a consequence, the parents of the good kids shy away from the parents of the bad kids. This angers the parents of the bad kids. They think it's a putdown of them and their kids. (It is.) I don't want my daughter hanging out with your druggie daughter. Wars ensue. I swear, there is more animosity and judgement from the parents, then there is from the kids. In short, the kids are growing up, but the parents are more immature than ever.



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183,326 I go to Starbucks 2 - 4 times a month. Before I leave to go home I go into the bathroom and steal the toilet paper. I smuggle the toilet paper out by stashing it in my computer bag. I haven't purchased toilet paper in years and I have quite a reserve.  I'm not poor and I could definitely afford to buy my own toilet paper but I get such a thrill stealing it.  Jeez, my life sucks..



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183,325 When I was 12 one of my friends died. He was goofing around and climbing on some rocks. He fell backwards and hit his head. His death greatly affected me. I mean I was talking to him one day and the next day he was gone forever. I couldn't get my head around it. The idea of death scared me terribly. I was in a dark place for weeks.

When I was 18 a girl I know died. Freak accident. She pushed a button for the elevator. The doors opened. She walked in without looking. But the elevator wasn't there. She fell down the shaft. I brooded for days.

When I was 30 a friend died of AIDS. He was one of my closest buddies in high school. I went to his funeral of course and thought about him for the rest of the day.

In a dark place for WEEKS... brooded for DAYS... thought about him for the rest of the DAY.

Death was getting easier. I was getting used to it.

These days, I'm at an age where people died all the time. A few months ago a poker friend died. A few weeks ago a teenager I know died. Yesterday a woman I've worked with for years died. I don't even go to the funerals anymore. What's the point? It doesn't change anything.

Death is there. It won't ever stop. It's unfair. It's sad if you let it be. It's unexpected though it shouldn't be, not really. It happens. I nod knowingly, like yep death, you are winning this game. I then ignore it knowing that one day it will come for me and then it won't matter anymore anyway.



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183,324 There's actually a show called Revenge body. hey you fat wives why don't you stay in shape and your husband won't leave you!



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183,323 MRSA survivor here. Holistic medicinal ways and not an antibiotic over user. Per research and from my doctors, MRSA happens every day yes, I was blessed with the battle of hospital and community MRSA at the same time. It was colonized in my nose from working on the hospitals. You, yourself may be a carrier but do not react to it. Get check yourself to see. But there are those who are more susuptible to it than others. If you are not one of those who have a low immunity to MRSA and cannot understand this, then you are an arrogant person whom I hope I never have at bedside if I have to battle it again. 7 drugs that will kill the strain, 5 in which I am allergic too, 2 drugs will only save me from the strain that I am reactive too. I hope and pray that if anybody in your family gets this, that your tune may change. Stop with the negativity, every person will react differently. Your immune system may be stronger and more tolerant but others may not be.



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183,322 Wow it is true to not spend money you don't have yet. I have been expecting a check for week now. I spent money I didn't have in anticipation of this check arriving. Here it is Friday, and the check still hasn't come! I have two rather large checks that I've written still floating out there somewhere and I'm nervous as hell. Lesson learned. Don't spend it until you have it in your hand.



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183,321 Either God is really testing my strength, teaching me boundless patience,  and preparing me for the right man...or He's telling me that I should give up on men altogether and date women.  Not sure which.



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183,320 Every time I come here and read this secrets from men or women , complaining about how unhappy they really are. It makes me grateful and happy that even though I'm married me and my husband lives separate lives , don't get me wrong I love my husband dearly and would take a bullet from him but we just like having our spaced and we are not attractive sexually to each other anymore . So why continue to live in the same roof miserable , when he can be out having fun with his friends and boning whoever he please it . While I do the same , my marriage might not be picture perfect or cookie cutter like the movies but we are happy that it works for us.
F/38 "happily married"



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183,319 You're two seconds away from being taken off of my snapchat contacts. Here's a flash for ya.

NOBODY BUT YOU WANTS TO SEE PICTURES OF YOUR FUCKING CAT 20 TIMES A DAY!



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183,318 And with that, remember boys, never stick your dick in crazy.



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183,317 All men are untrustworthy. A previous poster is mistaken... I have a guy like she described...you know, the "socially awkward" one who swears and isn't pretentious? Well let me tell you, I thought he was safe too ...until I caught him hiding porn, making accounts on dating/hook up websites and planning to meet up with other women in other cities when he was out working. Sorry to burst your bubble. We are still together, he swore he wouldn't do it again but i still caught him on numerous occasions. Supposedly he is "clean" from it now but I have zero trust. Why am I still with him? Honestly because I have no other options. We have kids, I'm a stay at home mom with no work skills. I made the mistake of devoting my life to being a homemaker and stay at home parent of special needs children. I am overweight and trapped. I do love him, besides the shadiness with porn and other women he treats me well. Is a hard worker, supports his family, you know the typical "good guy". We have a normal functoning relationship, even sex but the trust is gone.

He is a master liar and manipulator. Before I had stone cold proof of what he was doing behind my back, he would lie to my face indignantly and act offended getting so angry. He made me feel like *I* was the crazy one and made me doubt my instincts. So yes, even the seemingly down to earth, real guys hide secrets. They want to have their cake and eat it too so they pretend. My husband wanted to have me at home and the perfect family life while he secretly got his jollies off on the side with some bimbos. Of course all without me knowing. He would lie til he was blue in the face.

I often think of when/if I will leave him and how will I do it. If I do, it will be without warning after the kids are grown. Little does he know the distrust inside me is a ticking timebomb. I love him (guess I am twisted, damaged and dysfunctional) but without trust deep down I know I'm fooling myself. I'm essentially living in denial. Sometimes its easier to cope with life that way....I have tried to forgive him and put it behind us many times but its hard to forgive when a person keeps doing the same thing to you over and over...

Be cautious ladies.

One day I will be truly happy and free.



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183,316 I voted for Trump. Considering his muslim ban I didn't think of anything that has happened to the US, rather what has happened to Europe these 2 years. Attack after attack after attack, terrorism to no end. I don't want that to happen to my country.



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183,315 I love making my husband wait for me. It makes him so mad. Shithead.



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183,314 When you walk around naked in front of me you think all I see is your penis. Honestly I see your big gut. That's what I focus on. Do you really think I don't see it? You seem so proud of your body because you have some muscle tone in your arms and legs, but I look past those things and zero in on the parts you need to improve. When you eat garbage all I think is "Yep, add more flab to that gut why don't ya?" Lay off the ice cream and get on the treadmill once in a while



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183,313 I love full moons! Add a comet and an eclipse and it's heaven!😍



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183,312 If things don't change soon I'm leaving



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183,311 My GOD I want to end things with you. I don't have the heart to do it though.



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183,310 287 - AMEN!!
     Sincerely,
     Loving respectful feminine wife of 17 years (age 38) who still believes in traditional values and gender roles.



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183,309 #183308 - Does that sound like a certain current US President we know?



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183,308 Not all men are untrustworthy. You can always tell the ones who are though because they constantly say things like "Trust me" and "Believe me when I say..." and "I would never lie to you.", or "Why would I lie to you?".  Another tip off is if they always try to make you believe that you are being crazy and irrational or that you are "making stuff up" when you call them on their bullshit.



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183,307 50% of people who voted for Trump use the non existent bowling Green massacre as a justification for his travel ban.

Damn we have become a nation of sheep



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183,306 Ha ha. I would never waste my time thinking back. There's a good reason as to why you're not in my life...move ahead, never look back



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183,305 Can i please just die in my sleep tonight.i cant take this shit anymore.im hurt to the bottom of my soul.even though everything is coming together itll never be the same.



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183,304 Men can never be completely trusted. Their true colors always bleed through.



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183,303 I think not. Lesson learned.



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183,302 300-MRSA is everywhere. On the shopping carts at the grocery store, On the handrails of every staircase you use, on the handles of the spoons used at a buffet.... everywhere. It's simply a strain of bacteria that is resistant to many antibiotics. No big deal.



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183,301 This morning when the fed ex came , to drop a package the require my signature I forgot that I wasn't wearing a bra . Thank goodness the driver was a female , aftwards i felt embarrassed. I'm just hoping the lady doesn't think I'm some kind of perved or something like that. I'm pretty sure all the drivers have some crazy stories about people answering the doors.



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183,300 I was out of the country for a week. This Monday I noticed a red lump on my foot. It kept getting bigger so I'm going to the doctor today. I'm scared it might be MRSA or some weird parasite.

The secret: Whatever it is, I will use it to try to cadge a few days off from work.



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