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183,499 The truth is you're punking out. Don't do it! Don't sell your life short that way. Take a leap. If nothing else, it will be an adventure.



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183,498 With all the pain ive been through and my opened eyes,i am seriously considering the monastic lifestyle.i have to quit cigarettes and rededicate my life to prayer and solitude.i really think this is my calling



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183,497 What happened to all the sympathy for the Haitians.  Nothing has changed in Haiti. Guess it switched to Syrian muslims.



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183,496 The Government We Got.....Is the Government We Deserve...I hope this Administration Leaves the Country in better shape than the last Administration.....Not that the last Admin did a bad Job....We should Improve Little by Little.



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183,495 You can't tame a dragon. You can only get burnt to a crisp by it, admire its beauty from afar, or embrace the part of you that is also a dragon.

Always be the dragon.



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183,494 today you really showed me true disappointment. I felt so let down by you. Im so mad at you right now because I believed in your shitty ass words. Im so so fucking stupid. of course you never had anything planned. You were never thinking about it. you sat here and told me how this was all planned out since the beginning and now the day is getting close you all of a sudden have nothing to show for all your promises. Like this feeling sucks and you made it worse by asking me to not do anything because you knew itd make you feel like a piece of shit and youd feel compelled to do something in return instead of you just doing it because YOU WANTED to.on top of that you didnt even take the initiative to send me anything... like you let me have high hopes for nothing



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183,493 My husband is so clueless as to how much of a cunt his boss is. She is endlessly screwing him over through pay, raises, & health insurance.  I only really care about the last part because she appears to take joy in switching healthcare providers on us mid-pregnancy.

Well I just discovered the law that protects me from that.

So cunt lady can go suck it!!!

I really wish my husband weren't so stupid when it comes to her. I wouldn't even care if he was fucking her or the receptionist--- just stop being so blindly dumb about how they treat you there!!!



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183,492 Whatever we had completely dissolved. I feel like I gave up trying to make you happy anymore, because suddenly I had to focus on not crying on a daily. Once that happened it only got worse, of course you noticed. At that point there was nothing I could do to fix it, my heart could hardly take knowing this was coming. Our love, always seems to be the perfect storm



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183,491 It looks like those "innocent" phone calls between NSA head Flynn and Russia were being wiretapped. Not surprised, if true. Plus with the "alternative facts", The "Bowling Greene Massacre", innaugruation crowd sizes, and all these White House leaks it's not looking too good for this administration right now. Don't get me wrong, I have no feelings for politicians, republican or democrat. To me about 85% of them are crooks and liars. I am not registered with neither party and I've voted for both republican and democrat candidates. So when Trump first got elected and my liberal/democrat friends were going crazy, I would remind them about the old saying, "Give someone enough rope and they'll hang themselves."

- From The Outside Looking In



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183,490 I've been alone for almost nine years now, and the only thing depresseing about Valentine's Day is hearing all the couples fight. Other than that, it's just another day in my book.



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183,489 If people would stay where they belong then all these bleeding heart bad things wouldn't happen to them.



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183,488 You dreamt of me just when I wrote you that message asking you if I can call you or if I should do that in your dream. Holy fucking shit, seriously... I dreamt of you four times, and you dreamt of me four times... Can't we admit to each other that we both want each other the most in the world? Give me the word, give me two words, give me those three words and I'll be with you. I can feel you... just as you can feel me. And we'll sit this one out like two schmucks, never doing anything about it, because we're both fucking pussies. I won't break my word to you that we'll always be friends, and I won't leave her because I never break up, and you won't try anything with me because you never try anything with a man in a relationship. I can do this, you know? I can spend my whole life with a woman that I don't love... just as long as I know that you're happy. Just  be happy... even if it is without me.



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183,487 I dream of a world where we all shine



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183,486 A delightful teacher in my daughter's school just died of cancer. She was 51. She had headaches. Then dizziness. She went to the doc. Brain cancer was found. More tests were done. Last week the doctor said the woman had a year to live. But the other day she died. Everyone is shocked. How could the doctor have gotten the timing so wrong? What's not being said is that teacher was overwhelmed by the news. She was told how over the next year the physical control of her muscles would fade. Her body functions would start failing. All along her mentally capacity would become more and more impaired. Ultimately she would die a vegetable pooping in her pants. After learning all this, she took her own life. It was the humane alternative. The schools are not saying it though. It's tricky. No one wants the students to know their teacher committed suicide. It remains a secret.



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183,485 My wife has gone to bed. No sex for me this valentines day. Maybe on my birthday in August.



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183,484 My call on what.i wish i knew if this was you.maybe you can give me a sign that its you.a number or saying i would recognize



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183,483 I don't understand why God allows certain people to exist. These are evil people. Why doesn't God make them go away or make them become better people. I'm thinking about helping God out



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183,482 Giving you your space and not saying Happy Valentine's Day to you is killing me.



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183,481 I've been in the situation where I canceled on my girlfriend for valentines day saying I had to work. It was a lie. There was another woman I was dating. I wanted to be with her so I invented the excuse of working as a way to ditch out on the longer term girlfriend. So beware. If your boyfriend ditches you on valentines day, look a little deeper.



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183,480 Thanks for chatting tonight. You made my Valentine's Day. I'm glad we were able to resolve our issues. You're the best.



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183,479 Valentine's Day just isn't fun for me. I've had such bad luck with men, and I've had two Valentine's days where the guy I was dating did something for me and I for them. I'm full of affection and love for the right person, but with the failures in relationships I've had, I've decided to plan my life not to expect that I'll meet someone. Whether I look or wait for it to find me as people say I should do, I can't find what I want and know I deserve. If I someone, I'll be so happy. If not, then at least I had time to accept it. There are times where I have a rough and wish for nothing more than for someone to lay with me and hold me. Sometimes the loneliness gets to me more than other times.

I'm uncharacteristically wallowing in self-pity right now because I feel like a failure in so many areas of my life. I have crippling ADHD and it makes functioning as an adult difficult even with medication and treatment. It's a curse. I'd sacrifice the creativity it gives me just to have a normally functioning brain. Adderall gives me a glimpse of what that is like. It must be lovely. It feels like the older I get, either it's getting worse, or the increasing stresses and obligations in my life that weren't there in the past are overwhelming me and I struggle to keep up.

I'm usually resilient and strong, but privately, sometimes I just have to break down and cry because I can't hold it in and don't always know who to talk to. I don't want to be judged if I tell someone I'm on an improvement plan at work and how scared I am that I won't be hired back next year. I have $2,000+ in monthly bills. Minimum wage won't cut it, and I don't have any other skills besides my skills as a teacher. What else would I do? I can't afford to go back to school AND to work at the same time. I'm too out of shape and embarrassed of my body to be a stripper, haha.

I've whined enough, ugh. I'm annoyed with myself for writing this. But there's no one who I feel should have to sit through listening to all this, so I turn to the cave to unburden myself where no one knows me. I'll make it through. Sometimes it's just harder than others to carry all this with me. I've crafted an effective mask of cheerfulness and energy to hide this all behind.



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183,478 If you can tell the difference between Westboro Baptist Church and normal, non-bigoted Christians, then you can tell the difference between radical Islam practiced by backwards people and normal, peaceful Muslims.



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183,477 For Valentines Day today my wife got me a present. That is rare. I don't recall her ever getting me a present. She's always too jaded. She uses the day to sneer at me and denounce everything I've ever done - I chose the wrong career, I bought the wrong house, my parents are jackasses etc. But today she was different, she handed me a wrapped present. I opened it. It was a bar of soap. On the box she wrote "USE IT". Guess she got tired of picking on everything I've ever done. Now she wants to tell me I smell bad. I hate her.



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183,476 I still love you. Valentine's day is such a stupid thing but I'll remember the one we had together forever.
x



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183,475 Happy Valentine's Day



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183,474 I do nice things for my wife for Valentines Day and she appreciates them.  With three kids, money can be tight but splurged and got her a big Valentines/Birthday gift.  Happy to do it.  Got a nice card and a pair of shorts.  No complaints but...

I wish she had given me coupons for blowjobs.  I mean 5 coupons would have meant a lot to me.  Considering our marriage is virtually sexless, it would have been an amazing gesture.

I'll tell any woman who will listen, blowjobs save marriages.



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183,473 Good, that little twit FINALLY stopped making an idiot of herself trying to get my husband's attention.  We were at the same party a few nights ago, and she didn't pull her usual routine of all but doing cartwheels to try to keep his attention on her.  She's about as subtle as a dog humping someone's leg, no kidding.

Sure, she's 22, but she's scrawny and homely and dresses badly, and doesn't know how to modulate her voice.  She's loud, she interrupts people, and her conversation is banal.  I may be 20 years older, but when I enter a room, people are watching me, and seeking out conversations with me.

Plus that man of mine can't get enough of me -- we're a power couple and we know it.  He looks like King Stud with me on his arm and he loves that.

Besides, I look like a sexually mature adult woman, and Little Twit looks like a malnourished teenager.  It's more believable that she could be his niece than some likely contender for his affections -- plus once he figured out that she was trying to be my rival, he cut contact with her entirely.

Youth doesn't automatically trump style, beauty, graciousness, and charm, little girl, and he and I have had years and years of good times together, and a lot of VERY fun sex as well.  Just because a relationship is of long duration doesn't mean it's gone stale by any means.  Yes, I know my man is sophisticated, charming, handsome, and rich, but he's also MINE.    

A lioness isn't threatened by a little puppy no matter how loud she yaps, silly child.  Only a fool would trade a classic Mercedes for a Kia.  

I can't wait until she finds an age-appropriate boyfriend and EFFS OFF, before her antics make my poor husband look cheap.  He hates to be rude, but she's so clueless he might have to be.



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183,472 LOVELY Valentine's Day. My husband knows I hate big crowds, so he always takes me for a nice dinner around Valentine's, but not on the day proper, so that we get better service and a full menu, not some pre fixe thing with four choices.

On Valentine's Day proper, we stay in and shag each other stupid.

Happy Valentine's Day to me...!!!



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183,471 My crazy liberal friend posted another gem on Facebook today.  She wrote: "So people are literally losing appendages just to escape Trump and get into Canada."  There was a link to an article about a man, originally from Somalia, who had fled his country.  He had gone to South America, then made his way up to Mexico, and finally into the US.  He applied for asylum but was denied, and detained for two years.  Finally he was granted a work visa under the condition that he report to immigration every three months.  He was living in NY with a relative, but in December, he heard that immigration was looking for him, and he was probably going to be deported.  So he caught a bus and ended up at the ND/Canada border.

And here, in the dead of winter, with very little clothing, he crossed the border, in a blizzard.  Unfortunately, he ended up with frostbite and had to have all of his fingers except for his thumbs amputated.  Very sad story indeed, and not an isolated incident.

So my friend, and her friends, are screaming at how horrible it is that people are losing fingers and toes to "get away from Trump."  Look what he's doing to people.  Yes, it IS horrible.  But the thing is, they are still alive.  What about the people losing their LIVES trying to get into the US?  Trying to get away from the Cartels?  Dying from dehydration, starvation and murder?  Does that matter?  Are appendages more important than lives?  Apparently.  Both sets of immigrants are doing the same thing - trying to escape and make a better life for themselves.  What's the difference?

The difference is TRUMP.  Anything to blame this man.  She could give a rat's ass about people literally dying to get HERE, only the ones getting hurt trying to GET OUT of here.   I want to punch her in the fucking mouth.  This is why I'm beginning to hate liberals.  Nothing else in the world matters unless it has to do with Trump.



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183,470 If the purpose of the hell that I went through was to make me a better woman and lead me to you, I would crawl back through broken glass and fire and live it all again. Without question.



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183,469 perhaps some people are made whole by filling others up. when they cannot do so they remain empty. perhaps.



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183,468 how can a hollow heart give another joy? all i can do is work on myself and push to create every possible success and step forward.. i want her to be happy.. it actually hurts sometimes to see her smile for my sake.. i just want to be well. i want to feel whole with her in our moments.. i want her to feel whole even more than i want it for me.. it's weird.. she's honestly the most beautiful person..



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183,467 Speaking of terrible gifts , I once got underwear from a very close friend , I kid you not. When I was younger 18-23 , i went through a stage where I didn't wore any panties at all , i just found them uncomfortable, so I never wore them even when I used to wear skirts and dresses . Apparently this used to bother my friend for whatever reason that she decided it would be a good idea to buy me some as a present it's not the worst though she made me open my present in front of her boyfriend, awkward .  As soon as I got home I put them on my donation bin .



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183,466 My "boyfriend" (or whatever he is) was bitching about jow annoying Valentine's day is last night and then this morning looked at me like I had 5 heads when I mentioned it.

"Today's valentines day? How was I suppose to know its not like we have a wall calendar."

Fucking kill me. I want out of this relationship.



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183,465 I got up for work as usual. My wife started hounding me about taking her on vacation. it turned out one of her friends was going on vacation. My wife was not to be outdone. She needed to brag back how she was going away too. Thus the incessant nagging on this particular morning. I told her I couldn't discuss it right now because I had to get to work.  She followed me out to my car. She stood in the way so I could not close my car door, demanding I say yes. Minutes went by with her yelling in the driveway. I finally tricked her. I drove the car forward a few feet catching her off guard, and then I was able to close the door. No luck though. She rushed behind the car so I could not back up. She had me pinned in. It was a ridiculous sight. It was a fun game for her though to be as difficult as possible. It's like she gets these things into her head and she will stop at nothing to cause a problem. Finally after another 5 minutes of her yelling and me pleading, she moved out of the way so I could get to work.

But the story wasn't over. An hour later I was at work in the sea of cubicles. There are about 30 people working in the immediate area. Suddenly across the floor I heard my name being called. It was my wife. She had come to the office. Like no way, please God, no way. She came marching over and started letting into me again about vacation. "What kind of husband refuses to take his wife on vacation? All my friends are going on vacation and you can't even talk about it! What a sad excuse of a person you are!!"

I desperately tried to calm her down. My co-workers were poking their heads up. My boss came out of his office to ask if everything was alright. I was mortified. She wouldn't stop. I finally walked out of the building. She followed me, thank god. I had no words for her, no words. Who behaves this way except the most difficult person in the world.

Do you see why I need to get out of this marriage? This women, she has a mental illness. I need to be free of her. Please god help me.



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183,464 My wife wakes up angry on V-Day. Nothing I ever do is good enough so she jumps right ahead and starts the day off being angry. It's depressing. I liked V-Day as a kid. Now I despise it.



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183,463 Im so lonely



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183,462 Well I never got a nice Valentine's Day.  Every Valentine's Day my ex would start some shit with me, never got me anything, (not even a card, i'm not hard to please), one year i had to help him break down all these boxes in his house.  Last year, he had off on Valentine's Day but switched with a guy at work because the guy wanted to be with his wife.  WTF?  Me and him were off the same day which happened to fall on Valentine's day but he switched? The thing is my ex wanted to spend more time with me, and he does that, so it was like spite.  The only years he was nice was when we were broken up and he was trying to get back with me, then he sent flowers and a cute stuffed animal. When he's trying to be with me he's Mr. Romance but when he has me he's fucking lazy with it.



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183,461 I am feeling miserable and broken today. I passed out Valentine's candy to everybody and smiled and said "Happy Valentine's Day", though. I'm trying. I always try to boost people up. Some days are so much harder than others. I need a hug. Not anything else...just a hug...to remind me that I matter to somebody.



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183,460 As a guy I hate Valentines Day. It's a day where women can whine and complain all they want and the guy is just supposed to accept it. Last year I gave my wife flowers and chocolate. She was livid, saying "No jewelry? Where's the jewelry? You want a fucking blowjob this year and you can't ever buy me jewelry. All my friends got jewelry!"

How charming. Seriously women, what's wrong with you?



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183,459 I love you, Lisa.



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183,458 Happy Valentines Day Buuuud...



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183,457 Latest Trump scandal is a misspelling on a poster.

And the liberals wonder why people don't vote Democrat anymore.



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183,456 My sister was married to a Muslim man.  We liked him.  He was a good guy, owned three businesses.  My sister was getting her master's degree in finance.

Turned out he was hitting my sister and her daughter to "discipline" her.  She sent me the pictures of the hand prints on her.

My sister said this was what the Muslim community did to their women.  They'd beat them when they "misbehaved."

Oh, right: Muslims are allowed to do whatever they want to the infidel.  They can lie to us, break contracts, rape, murder, and steal from us, and it's okay.  God expects the Muslim to punish the nonbeliever (us).

Yes, there are good Muslims.  I work for and with a few.  But these are educated, Americanized Muslims.  People who want the riff raff in this country are insane.



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183,455 The Russian is laughing all the way to the bank. Can't get any better for them.



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183,454 Valentines day ཋ: Was in love with the woman that would end up becoming the mother of my child. The day of valentines I got back in late, but wanted to spend time with her. We were unable to hang out, but wanted to see her the next day. I bought her some very nice presents. The next day she went to a concert with another man and I threw away her gifts.

We broke up and I found out she was pregnant a few weeks later.

Valentines day ཌ: Same woman left with my three month old daughter, who I didn't see for 34 days and I almost killed myself. She accused me of being physically violent with her. They served me the papers on Valentines day.

This year I'm alone. I'm alive. I have a beautiful daughter. It almost cost me my life. I'm glad to be here.



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183,453 Islam is at the root of most of the conflicts  in  Africa ,Europe and the Middle East today. Face facts.
Americans should stop watching Fox, MNSBC, The Kardashians and Oprah and read and educate themselves about what is going on in the rest of the world.



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183,452 Islam.  The word itself does not mean "peace," it means "submission."   It means when the population in any country is a majority Muslim that they will make you submit and become a Muslim as well, or you will have to pay an outrageous tax, or you will be killed.  Their holy book tells them to lie to non-Muslims in order to cover up their real plans of takeover.  Their holy book says it is OK to rape young girls who are at least 12.  It says to kill non-Muslims.  It is filled with hate and anger and once they take over the majority of the population, the Sharia law will become the law of the land.

That is why being a Muslim and being an American cannot co-exist.



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183,451 People have very short memories .What do you think happened on 9/11? Almost 3.000 innocent Americans that went to work died that day and jumped out of building to escape the fire hell behind them.  What is happening in Europe and the middle east? This is what you want for America?
President Trump is on the right side of this issue. People who  want to come here will be CHECKED before they are allowed in. The Government are just following the immigration laws .If you don't like the law lobby congress to change it .The President does not make the laws.



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183,450 MY wife ansdI bought a fixer upper/handyman special for our first home.  I spent almost every night after work and every weekend day doing stuff around the house as my wife made excuse after excuse to not participate.  Finally I lost it and told her she needed to paint the deck railing the upcoming weekend or her stuff was going to be outside when she came back from her "important" stuff.  I heard her talking with a friend about how evil I was and how she was going to screw up so bad that I would stop her from painting.  Saturday morning comes and I set her up to paint, I go off to do my thing and sure enough, five minutes later she calls me and says "look, I sat on the paint lid and now I have left my ass print on the deck"  I look and her and say, it doesn't matter, the deck is getting replaced next weekend, keep painting. She gets all pissy and I just looked at her and walked away.
I cut out the white ass print when I removed the decking and had it framed....it has been in the living room of every home since.  It is quite the conversation piece



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183,449 On average 9 muslims per year have been arrested for terror related plots since 9/11.  337 right wing extremists are arrested on average every year for the same thing....But we are banning muslims from countries that have never killed a single American. Its like the conservatives/GOP are playing a shell game with the American public.



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183,448 This Valentine's Day I celebrate the occasion by getting my 9 year coin.


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Next year, playing with my marbles!  (That's not a dirty reference).

To thine own self be true.



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183,447 Islam is not a religion it is a ideology.It is not based on love at all like the Christian religion.It was a peaceful religion up to 100 years after Mohammed's death then it became a religion of war between the two sides of Islam.They want world domination as we can see what is happening in Europe .Islam teaches their followers to kill people that don't believe as they do . Nowhere in the Bible will you read that.



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183,446 Just because you scream it loud does not make it true. Islam, like the Christian faith, promotes love and kindness. Much like the Christian faith, some worshippers have perverted it's teachings into hateful messages. Your words tell us all who is who.



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183,445 When we stop putting drug addicts is prison and start  treating  them with medical science is when we will get a handle on our out of control heroin epidemic.



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183,443 I'm so fucking high on Vicodin right now. Everything is fucking wonderful right now! 😀



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183,441 I love you.



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183,440 I dont know how im going to be the pillar of strength that is needed for my moms sake. If im not, then no one else is willing to step in and make sure shes okay. She will just be another forgotten sick person and maybe a ward of the state. I must not fuck this one thing up. Please let me be able to take care of her for the time she has left. Dont make it so easy to fail like everything else is.



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183,439 Happy valentines day



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183,437 I do not and cannot understand the left's suicidal love affair with Islam. OK, granted, it's cool in liberal circles to worship Islam and hate Christianity. But their willful blindness goes way beyond that. They just don't want to face reality.

So, once again, here is reality. Islam inspires terrorism, it mandates cruelty toward women, it fosters hatred and rage. It's true that not all Muslims are terrorists, but unfortunately the terrorists are Muslims.

You can put your blinders on over your rose-colored glasses and stick your heads in the sand for good measure. But I for one do not wish the USA to be the next Belgium, the next France, the next Germany. I want Trump to deal with the problem head-on, no bullshit, no coddling, just action.

If you want to believe that terrorism can be cured if we'd all just join hands and sing "All You Need Is Love," you are free to do so. If you would like to bring a flower to a gunfight, by all means go for it. As for me, I want, and support, a president who lives in and deals with the real world. Go get 'em Mr. President!



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183,436 I'm heartbroken.
My grandmother is going to hospice for final comfort.
I've been near tears all day today and I can't hold it together anymore.

I don't know if I'll be able to talk to her before she passes on.
I'll never be able to call her again.
Ever. EVER.  Not in this lifetime.

I want to see her but I can't hop on a plane and go see her so quickly.  Grandpa is right on her heels and not doing well either.  If he knew it would surely push him over the edge, they are grade school sweethearts.

So many memories will leave with her.  I don't want her to go.

Fuck cancer and fuck Flint Michigan water.  It's the cause of her ailment.  I know it.

I never had someone close to me die.  I don't know what to do.  She's in so much pain and I don't know what to do.



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183,435 For all the people who are upset that Beyoncé didn't win the Grammy and Adele did and are now crying about racism, remember one thing. Beyoncé can't fucking sing! All auto tuned garbage. She is a great entertainer, a blackish Britney type. Adele has one of the best voices of all time. Shut the fuck up!



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183,434 I'm trying not to feel discouraged or assume the worst right now. Trying so hard. Keeping a positive attitude is a battle. It's a battle I'm determined to win, though.



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183,433 It seems like every time I try to be real with someone they just turn it against me and gut me with it. I'm done. This year is going to be all about me. Fuck everybody else.



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183,432 Signs my husband is mentally vacant:

Me: "Tomorrow is Valentine's Day. I thought it would be nice if we could go out to eat."

Him: "What day is it again? Oh yeah; right...do the restaurants take reservations?"

Me: "Yes they do."

Him: "But they'll be all booked up! You shouldn't have waited  to get reservations! Guess that takes care of that then."

25 years of this...yeah, I fucked up.



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183,431 As we transition through Saturn's current position in Sagittarius (this year). You will not be the same person on the other side.

If you have people fading out of your life. Say goodbye, because they are gone for the next 13 year cycle. Don't hold on, it will only hurt.

Be brave and get ready to change.

It started on Jan 26th.



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183,430 The stupid. It hurts.



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183,429 My grandma died 3 years ago tomorrow.  Thinking about it makes me want to cry.  I miss her :(



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183,428 Justin Trudeau is hot!!!! 😍😍😍I can't believe he is 45. I would never say this on public , like who gets crushers on priministers ?



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183,427 Anti-Trumpers have turned full retard. If Trump rubbed his nose in a middle of a conversation, they'd call it a rude gesture and spend twenty minutes talking about it on the news, providing pictures of when Hitler once rubbed his nose during a conversation. These are the same people who idolize celebrities opinions, even though those same celebrities never cared or openly discussed politics until it became "cool" to bash Trump.

In the past month, liberals have advocated violence, belittled the holocaust, ruined parts of their own city, and threatened/attacked innocent people who simply support their party. They've disrupted people from going to their jobs, and have harassed families and their children to the point where they no longer feel safe. They've ruined companies, ruined the reputations of hardworking people, and constantly ruin the image of America.

Trump doesn't need to drain the swamp, he needs to drain the entire fucking ocean apparently. You know what kind of person hides their face, attacks innocent people, and threatens anyone who doesn't agree with what they think? Terrorists. Not rioters, not protesters, but terrorists. These keyboard warriors will run their mouths all day long online, but if you ever faced one of these cowards, the only reply you get is "you're a nazi lol LOOK THIS GUY IS A NAZI"

Yeah, why don't you go suck on your mothers tit for the next eight years you spoiled little brat. Trump isn't going anywhere, no matter how hard you cry, and when his eight years are up you really think we're going to let some nutjob braindead spineless liberal back into the office? Well we'll try our best to avoid such a catastrophe, and if we lose, guess what we will do. Riot? No. Loot? No. Attack innocent people? No. Protest? No. We'll accept the outcome of the results and do our parts to continue supporting what we believe in.

So please, keep hallucinating swastikas, kkk members, and all that other BS. All you're doing, and I mean this quite literally, is showing how infected and delusional the left is, and pushing more and more people to the RIGHT side of things.

"Fuck you, Nazi" is not an argument. It's what stupid people say when they watch too much tv and have no fucking clue what's going on.

MAGA.



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183,426 Bitch, you aren't fooling ANYONE with your "look at me and my Husband's pictures" posts on Social Media!



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183,425 I'm another 64 yo in a bad marriage. It's my problem not yours but I just want ONE thing. Can you just shut the fuck up for 5 minutes once in a while?



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183,424 My mom's been gone for 20 years.  I'm 45 years old and I still think about her everyday.  I miss her a lot.  I think she'd be proud of me.  I was always a momma's boy.

My dad... fuck him.



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183,423 I'll probably never be in love with someone who is in love with me back. I want to be love for someone but I am poor. I think of suicide often, but I'm trying to live anyway and not embrace the darkness.



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183,422 For the first time in years, I have hope! For so long I thought all was lost, but it wasn't. I was just focusing on the negative and dwelling on things that were totally out of my control. Don't know what shifted, but thank God for it.



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183,421 I'm sorry for those of you in bad marriages. I guess that's really why Im single. I'm sure there's something wrong with me. I didn't want to be or make someone else miserable.
F/60 childless.



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183,420 I'm on Obamacare. It has saved me a small fortune. Very kind of you to pay for my health insurance. But if it has to end, then it has to end. I recognize it wasn't fair to the rest of you. Thank you for helping me, but feel free to cancel it.



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183,419 When I was a kid, we lived in a tiny house. There were 10 people living there. There was no room and no privacy. I chose to sleep in a shed out back. Even in winter. It was a miserable life. I'm surprised I survived. These days when my house is 65 degrees in winter, my wife complains she's cold, as if it's the end of the world. She has no idea what being cold means.



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183,418 I'm tired of being unhappy.
So I'm just not going to.



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183,417 If you're getting beaten down repeatedly, you're dealing with the wrong people.



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183,416 I get repeatedly punched in the gut. I get myself back up. I'm in great emotional pain. And the advice is, be happy, you can if you want to.

Um, no. It's not always that simple.



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183,415 Sometimes doing the right thing hurts a great deal.



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183,414 If you want to be happy, be happy. Make a conscientious decision to stop accepting less out of yourself and others. Mostly out of yourself. Happiness is a choice. Joy isn't something that you get handed, you have to go out and find it. I don't know about you guys, but my victim-minded days are over.  The only thing holding you back is you.



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183,413 I wish I knew why my friends bail out on plans with me. It hurts. My social life isn't what it used to be and I don't know if it's something with me or something with them. I'm pleasant to be around, so i don't think it's that they can't stand me. Well make plans and get excited, then when it's the day/evening of our plans, they bail. "I'm so sorry, girl, but _____ came up/I have to work late. Let's reschedule!" But it never gets rescheduled. I feel like giving up and throwing in the towel on having a social life. What's the point anymore? I know everyone's social life slows down a little at some point in their life, I was just kinda hoping it would happen for me well after I was 29 years old :( I want to bring up the fact they always bail on plans, but I'm honestly so tired of it that I just don't see the point. In the future, I am just going to refrain from suggesting anything and taking any plans that are made with a grain of salt.

I wish I didn't have social anxiety. I work full time too, so neither of those things are very helpful when it comes to meeting new people. It was a lot easier to meet new people in college than it is now :( This is the only place I can vent where I'm not told "You just have to put yourself out there." That isn't how social anxiety works... If I *could* just put myself out there, I would.



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183,412 I don't like that you think I want you. all I wanted was to leave behind an infatuation and be understood friends who let it pass maybe kept in touch. I leaned on you hard and it was perceived by me as safe and comforting I blocked out that it was just ego and coming of age. It tainted my world and I let it create a lot of bad patterns. If you think I'm "looking for you" in others I don't even know who "you" are.. i don't remember and I wish u knew that even back then in denial that it wasn't deeper I sought another type. I know how pathetic this is to even care that you knew how insignificant you are to me. There's a little angst that comes back but you're boring to me. Along with disregarding me in my need to be heard it's personal and I don't like you. I valued those feelings and the time u showed support so I would try and nurture what once felt nice or tried to leave u with some heart. I wouldn't be able to feel that again even if pigs flew and you returned the effort. even the things I know I liked you for are not what I'm looking for.



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183,411 If you take a "shitload of sleeping pills" you will more than likely just end up in the ER with an IV stuck in your arm getting pumped up with fluids, then transported to a psychiatric hospital for a few days. Nothing like having to call your employer from a psych ward where you can't even wear shoes to say you won't be coming in. The bill sucks too. Don't do it. No man is worth it. Trust me. Succeeding wouldn't make it worth it either because then the bastard would just gloat and have all the evidence he could ever hope for to prove that you were "crazy" and he was justified.  Thank God I didn't succeed. You can always make a comeback. Never give up. Never. You have a backbone, use it.



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183,410 Wrong girl I was hoping you were someone else. I'm so sorry for u tho. "My" guy told me never to contact him again:(



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183,409 When did I say that? Please just tell me you are OK. I saw the sleeping pills comment. I'm truly horrified.



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183,408 You told me not to contact you...



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183,407 It's always OK to contact me



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183,406 Well first you can text me...Let me know it's OK to contact you...



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183,405 I kept myself away from this place because reading your posts breaks my heart. After we last spoke, I felt even more like human garbage than I did before. I don't know how to do this. I want to make your hurt go away, but I don't know how. I don't know if it's better to talk to you or to let you be, let you heal. I want to be there for you but I'm terrified of making things worse. I already feel immense guilt and shame. The last thing I want is to hurt you deeper. Tell me how to help. Please, just let me do this one thing for you.



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183,404 We've spent so much time and money going to all these people's weddings, birthdays, etc. Yet it's looking like a slim turnout for my S.O.'s birthday. I think I might rethink the wedding guest list after this. We tallied up "close" friends but I think I'll go the extra petty mile and invite the actual close friends. Not like anyone will give a shit anyway. But at least we can book a smaller, less expensive venue.



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183,403 I wonder how a man would feel about having a hot girl really really into them to the point where she comes off clingy?  What if she's just really sweet and doesn't know any better?



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183,402 I have radically differing opinions than some of my friends. I don't go out of my way to correct them, even though I know they're wrong sometimes, because we're all human. I honestly try to see why they feel a certain way before I shrug it off altogether. But they can't give me the same courtesy? Honestly I know I shouldn't care, but I always care. I always have to wonder what I did wrong, or why I'm not worth an overlooking of opinion. These are grown men who are infuriated by a woman who refuses to adhere to gender roles, and yet they won't "man up" and get over it. Gotta love hypocrites.



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183,401 I miss my parents. 23 yrs gone mother. 9 years gone father. Wish I still had them here.



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183,400 I guess it doesnt matter.about to take a shitload of sleeping pills and never feel again.better to die than sleep than never wake and sleep.and linger on and dare to live when the souls life is gone



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