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183,699 When you find people who will be completely honest about who they are, good and bad, those are the unicorns.

Everybody is faking something or hiding something about who they are. Few can admit it.

We live in a society that conditions us to believe that if you can simply hide your flaws, liabilities, and the more unsavory aspects of your identity that you are "okay". Or worse "normal".

A wise person once told me: "It's not the crazy ones you need to worry about, it's the ones that don't think they are!"

The words prove to be more relevant and more true as I get older.

Are you one of the ones that don't think they are crazy? Are you normal? Are you an innocent in a land of crazy people? If so, please stay the fuck away from me.

Ed M/36



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183,698 The Obama Government was based on politically correct choices and not on qualifications. - Give the job to people who can do the job. Mrs Clinton showed the American people how incompetent she was and she lost the election.



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183,697 As if it matters if he has more men than women in his cabinet. He gets the most qualified people that he can find, and all people could see is the gender.



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183,696 Trump Cabinet and Cabinet-level positions (some still pending):

Men: Mike Pence, Rex Tillerson, Steve Mnuchin, James Mattis, Jeff Sessions, Ryan Zinke, Sonny Purdue, Wilbur Ross, Alexander Acosta, Tom Price, Ben Carson, Rick Perry, David Shulkin, John Kelly, Reince Priebus, Robert Lighthizer, Dan Coats, Mick Mulvaney, Mike Pompeo, Scott Pruit.

Women: Elaine Chao, Betsy DeVos, Nikki Haley, Linda McMahon.

That is 20Ɉ (or 5Ʌ)

As a note, it seems the qualifications for Trump's Cabinet is to be unqualified and/or corrupt.

Obama Cabinet and Cabinet-level positions (some are double counted as they moved positions):

Men: Joe Biden, John Kerry, Tim Geithner, Jack Lew, Robert Gates, Leon Panetta, Chuck Hagal, Ashton Carter, Eric Holder, Ken Salazar, Tom Vilsack, Gary Locke, John Bryson, Thomas Perez, Shaun Donovan, Julian Castro, Ray LaHood, Anthony Fox, Steven Chu, Ernest Moniz, Arne Duncan, John Jing, Eric Shinseki, Robert McDonald, Jeh Johnson, Rahm Emanuel, William M. Daley, Jack Lew, Denis McDonough, Peter Orszag, Jack Lew, Shaun Domovan, Ron Kirk, Michael Froman, Austan Goolsbee, Alan Krueger, Jason Fruman

Women: Hillary Clinton, Loretta Lynch, Sally Jewel, Penny Pritzer, Hilda Solis, Kathleen Sebelius, Sylvia Burwell, Janet Napolitano, Sylvia Burwell, Susan Rice, Samantha Powell, Lisa Jackson, Gina McCarthy, Christina Romer, Karen Mills, Maria Conteras-Sweet

That is 36ᚸ (or 2.3Ʌ)

Facts matter.



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183,695 Civilized people don't masturbate. The trailer trash of society are quick to claim "everyone does it" as a way of easing their guilt. But it's not true. That disgusting habit is reserved for the weak-minded dregs.



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183,694 The media are getting so pathetic in their attempts to discredit Trump. Today's headline? "Trump's Circle Favors Men 2-to-1."

So I did a little research. Obama's cabinet members total 24 men, 8 women. That's 3-to-1.

I don't suppose I need to say more. The hypocrisy speaks for itself.



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183,693 My husband has hair growing out of his ears. When I was little I remember my grandfather had hair growing out of his ears. Have my husband and I really gotten that old? I guess so.



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183,692 When people mention anal sex I flash back to my first time. It was in college with my then girlfriend. She was on her hands and knees. I was behind and was thrusting into her asshole. I came pretty quick. As I pulled out, you know how the head of a cock is thicker and there is a little ridge before the start of the rest of the shaft? Her shit was cake up under the ridge. It couldn't be ignored. I could see it. I could smell it. I'm sure she could too. I didn't know the proper etiquette at that moment. Do I run from the dorm room in horror? Do we pretend it's not there? It was awkward and took away from the moment. We never did it again.



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183,691 Gay men are great. I'm a straight guy. But I was in a position where I interacted with gay men. In general, really good people. Smart. Thoughtful. Real doers. We talk about who should run the world, men or women. I'd say gay men. Give them the helm. All would be well again.



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183,690 As a gay man I hate being patronized by a political party,liberals  or a church.All I demand is that you respect me. I give nobody the right over my life.Not my parents ,my church or my government. What I do in the privacy of my bedroom is between me and God. I follow the laws of the country I live in and that is it.If you don't like me, it is no skin off my teeth -move on- but don't patronize me.I don't need your permission to live my life.



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183,689 Liberals think only they are kind, smart and  compassionate people.Everyone else is low life garbage, racists and a bigots etc.
They are protesting an elected President and doing harm to their own country.Telling lies that the new administration is anti women, anti gay,anti immigrant  and anti black.
They portray women, Afro Americans, gays  immigrants as victims. Once you reach victims status you are lost as you blame everyone else for your problems and don't take responsibility for your own life.Democrats love losers who will vote for them.
The President does not make the laws of the country-congress does. He enforces it. Immigration laws have been ignored in this country, and it has become dangerous in this day and age to have open borders. Which other country in the world has open borders? He is enforcing the immigration law.
Has he done anything to take away the rights of women, gays, blacks and immigrants in this country?
I am a legal ,gay immigrant to the USA and America has been great to me .I followed the law ,like every good citizen should .I have been welcomed and am an American today. I did not come here illegally but legally There is a very big differences!
I think President Trump is doing what is right. I like it that he is not a politician.A breath of fresh air.
Wake up America if you want to keep America great -follow the law and play according to the rules.



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183,688 687: Try not to let it bother you too much. My best friend since childhood, spanning 46 years, cut me off because I refused to vote for Hillary. I'm more disappointed than anything else. Oh well...life goes on. Guess he never really was much of a friend.



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183,687 A friend blocked me on social media because our potiical opinions were different on an issue. I expressed that I supported separation of church and state. That's all I said. I'm a Christian. She is too. But I guess she doesn't agree. That's fine. I'm friends with all kinds of people with different beliefs (as long as they're not racist or hateful.) I've been friends with her a long time. I understand that I'm probably better off without someone who would cut me out of their life for having different opinions, but it hurts and breaks my heart nonetheless. Throwing away our friendship over a difference of opinion...? :(



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183,686 It's prudes, not prunes.



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183,685 Why Americans are such prunes? They see nudity as a sin , it's funny because growing up I used to whatch XUXA , she used to have a very popular show for kids, she used to be a model and even did some soft porn before she went kid friendly and nobody care . Every one in Brazil, Argentina, Chile, Mexico etc.... love her.  There's no way they would allow that here in the USA , I can picture the parents , going crazy over. You should google her and see the outfits she used to wear on those shows.



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183,684 My wife wears a t shirt to bed along with pajama bottoms. Normally it would be fine, but she has started to wear these shear white t shirts. They are easily see-thru. I can see her nipples with no trouble at all. The things is, we have teenage boys. What mother wears something so revealing in front of her own sons. And she does it when they have friends sleeping over too. How can they not notice. It's very disturbing to see her do this. I nicely point out the problem. She ignores me and keeps doing it. Sometimes in the news you read about a mother who is arrested for having sex with her teenage children's friends. I think my wife is a prime candidate. Sick.



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183,683 I hate seeing straight porn when I'm looking for gay smut.  It's not that I'm not into girls- I'm a Kinsey 4.  It's just that the way hetero guys treat girls is both disturbing and strangely boring. Same three or four scenarios with ladies who all hate being there.  Where's the fun in that?  Show me a dude who looks like he'll suck my dick for all he's worth.



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183,682 My town is one of those lucky places to have a Syrian refugee family. Eye roll. Many of my neighbors have posted signs on their front lawns with a message in both Syrian and English. It says, "We love you and welcome to our town!"

Oh please! You love them? Most of you have never met them. How goofy. A man loves his wife. A mother loves her children. But you love this family from Syria because why? Because they came from Syria? That's the basis for your love? What about people who came here from Mexico? You don't love them? Just people who came from Syria? How dumb.



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183,681 When I was growing up there was this one time where my dad handled my mom his sock and asked if she could mend a hole in the toe. My mom hated doing chores. She told him no. He nagged her. So okay she did it, she fixed the hole.

Next time he went to put on the sock, he couldn't put his foot in. She had also intentionally sewed the top of the sock closed. Everyone laughed, including my dad.

I really miss my mom.



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183,680 I hate you all. All 7 Billion of you.I wish i had the power to end you all, but I don't. Please die painfully. Thanks.



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183,679 Wow. Kelley, I don't even know what to say. I'm so incredibly grateful that you responded to me in the way that you did. I was so afraid that I was going to cause you this big hurt, even in the short span of time that we had known each other. Man am I relieved that you felt similarly.. I don't think I could handle anymore guilt and shame about my recent actions.

I thought it wasn't going to be a rebound, but it was. Boy was I wrong. Relationships that go on for 2+ years take time to heal... and I'm okay with that now. I want to prepare myself for my next relationship and have a solid foundation; I don't want to bounce around or anything.

- If you just got out of a long relationship, give yourself more time than you think you need. You'll be glad you did.

M/25 2 months out of a horrible mess of a breakup.



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183,678 I don't know about your school district, but when I was a kid in fifth grade they gave all the girls bananas and all the boys peach halves and we were given detailed instructions in oral sex.



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183,677 Well, the woman I love and mother of my child officially moved on to a new person. I keep thinking about something, some aspect of what we had in our relationship that was special.... I got nothing. Pure fails from start to end.


I did get a beautiful daughter though.



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183,676 Reasons I am not interested in having sex with my husband:
He doesn't try to have sex. I've done all the initiating and now that I
havent it's been 2 months since we had sex.
If I'm not talking about him, or complimenting him, he isn't listening.
Reciprocation is important, and he doesn't reciprocate. When it comes to anything.
He flirted with a friend of mine yesterday. Fuck that.
He's jealous of my sisters boyfriend. Ridiculous.
In an effort to understand whether or not I'm just reading too much into it I recall the beginning of our relationship. He told me he needed to move some stuff from his ex's apartment because she was at the tail end of moving out of it herself and said she had some of his things. What he failed to tell me was we were clearing out the rest of her things ourselves to be "nice." He enlisted my help without giving me these details. Wtf.



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183,675 Telling other parents how to raise their children is stupid. Don't believe me, try it and tell me how it works out for you.



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183,674 I understand why we should wait until marriage to have sex.  I have an ex who gave me multiples and now he's ruined me for all other men.  No sexual encounter has ever come close.



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183,673 This isn't new...I am 30 years old, and I took sex education in the fifth, sixth and eighth grades. In fifth grade, they separated the girls from the boys and taught us about our respective reproductive parts, and we girls learned about menstruation as well (believe it or not, but it's common for girls to get their periods as early as 9 or 10; sometimes even earlier than that in some rare instances.) In the sixth grade, they did the same thing, but they also discussed sexual abuse and rape. In the eighth grade, they basically sat all of us in the gym and made us watch shock content of STD's and drug use to scare us away from having sex at all. Which, funny enough, did have an affect on me, but it didn't seem to stop the kids who were already sexually active. Yes. Kids at age 12 and 13 were having sex and using drugs, and to my knowledge they had been doing so for at least a year or more. My grandmother had my mom in her teens. IT'S NOT NEW. But pretending it'll go away if we ignore it is just stupid.



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183,672 #653 Thank you! I'm hoping to find someone better too. This break up did a number on me. I'm lucky to have awesome and supportive friends, but I'm still grieving.



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183,671 Anxiety really lowers the quality of my life, sometimes more than others. I hate it when the idea of doing a simple task is overwhelming, and then the culmination of this happening in many areas of my life results in a shit-storm. I wish I could just handle tasks as they come to me, like people are supposed to! But no, I have to procrastinate and fuck around on the internet because working stresses me out, and then when it piles up I feel even worse about it. My life is a mess



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183,670 In high end department stores, the changing rooms are a separate area complete with actual doors that close and offer ultimately privacy while getting undressed.

In the smaller boutique-y stores, the changing rooms are usually just a small closet type area with a curtain for privacy. Often the curtain doesn't close completely and it is possible for people like me to see a woman getting undressed.

When my wife wants me to come clothes shopping with her, I ask if she will be going to Macy's or a boutique.

If she says Macy's, I'm busy and can't go with her.

If she mentions a boutique, yep, my plate is suddenly clear and sure I can come.



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183,669 Don't twist my words. If you don't tell a 5th grader about blow jobs, then that's right, they won't do it. Yes, it's that simple. Pretty sick that creepy people want to explain blowjobs to a 10 year old. Those parents need mental health counseling.



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183,668 So if you never tell anyone about that thing between their legs they will never have sex! Brilliant!



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183,667 I just don't believe those sex and STD "facts". We live in an age where anyone can make up and broadcast "facts". I go with the idea that if no one knows there's a candy bar in the kitchen cabinet, then no one will eat it. But if you tell everyone about the candy bar, someone will eat it. It's that simple. You tell young kids about sex and drugs, some of them will want to try it.



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183,666 The cards keep saying that I will hear a message from someone in my fairly recent past.



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183,665 It is a proven fact that the more and the earlier that, age appropriate, sex ed is taught in the schools the lower the incidence of STD's and unwanted pregnancies.

There is nothing wrong with giving children facts.



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183,664 I am doing exactly what I need to do to become who and what I need to become. You're a smart man. You'll come around.



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183,663 Just like there's nothing wrong with being a "free spirit" and not needing anyone, there is nothing wrong with ultimately wanting to be in a relationship with someone who you love and loves you.  It doesn't make you obsessed or clingy either.  If you wanna be alone or do whatever you want or not answer to anyone, it's cool, but don't judge people who want something different and write them off as simply needy.  My grandparents died 9 months apart and were together 65 years.  Most couples in my family are still together, it can be hard definitely, but if you can find that love it's worth it.  Nothing wrong with wanting someone to love and who loves you back, as long as you're not just looking for just anyone, as long as it's truly love and not convenience.



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183,662 If a teacher made my child read that book, I'd call the police. Look at it this way, if a stranger came up to your child in the park and made her read that passage, we'd all agree the guy is a perv looking to get his jollies. So why is it any different just because the guy is a classroom teacher. In fact it's worse. I count on teachers to be better people. Any teacher who gives that book to a student should be arrested.



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183,661 There is a large problem in the country today. Parents have lost common sense. They have no business being parents. They think it's important to discuss sex with their children in 5th grade. The schools actual introduce the topic that early. Like what the hell? 5th grade? That's sick. The parents, along with the schools, are also in favor of talking about drugs as early as 3rd grade. What are you doing parents? That's just dumb. Can't you let your kids be kids anymore? Parents are so twisted. They want to be their child's friend. They think they are cool to bring up these topics. Leave it alone. Grow the hell up parents!



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183,660 If you are willing to look hard enough, work through the pain, and sacrifice - you can find what you're looking for.



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183,659 I would have no problem with my kids, when they were in 9th grade, reading that.



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183,658 The book which should never be part of a public school curriculum is "The Absolutely True Diary of a Part Time Indian". But it's the rage. It's part of required reading in many schools from 6th grade on up. Here is a passage:

********

I spend hours in the bathroom with a magazine that has one thousand pictures of naked movie stars:

Naked woman + right hand = happy happy joy joy

Yep, that's right, I admit that I masturbate.
I'm proud of it.
I'm good at it.
I'm ambidextrous.

If there were a Professional Masturbators League, I'd get drafted number one and make millions of dollars.

And maybe you're thinking, "Well, you really shouldn't be talking about masturbation in public."

Well, tough, I'm going to talk about it because EVERYBODY does it. And EVERYBODY likes it.

And if God hadn't wanted us to masturbate, then God wouldn't have given us thumbs.

***************

It's way too sexual for children. It's demeaning to women. It's demeaning to God. It's porn and it should not be in a classroom. There are plenty of other good books to read.



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183,657 Seeing you upset kills me.



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183,656 Why people are obsessed with long time relationships or the "one" . I cannot picture myself with the same men for the rest of my life, maybe it's just me but I hate clingy , needy men . And yes those men do exist , I have dealt with them on the past including my own husband who I love to pieces but I'm not in love with him, we been living separate lives for almost a decate.  I have notice that needy people tend to be attractive to free spirits like myself , like it's some kind of challenge  they think there's something wrong with you so they have to fix you.  Guy below , you  don't need a women to complete you , learn how to be happy by yourself first , enjoy life , travel , move to a different city , try new things and when you less expected the right person will come out .  At 37 you still young , men can start a family anytime, you sound like a guy who is looking for a low maintenance girl which there are plenty of them but here's the thing though quit going  after high maintenance girls , which is nothing wrong I'm one myself but they are not your type . You should try a church group , women who joined those kind of groups tend to be more traditional  , the type that wants to settle , have a family , low maintenance.  Good luck dude , I hope one day you find you other half.

37/f , free spirit and high maintenance



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183,655 I was at the puppy store over the weekend.



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183,654 Am I the only one wondering, what book?



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183,653 I didn't think I'd find someone who would make me feel the way he did.
I was right.
I found someone better.  ^_^
Never give up on love.  We can't predict the future but we can be ready for it when it comes.



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183,652 Be independent first. Look out for yourself and provide for yourself. THEN you can truly bring something to the relationship table. You are not uniting with someone through fear or need of a safety net.



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183,651 I've kind of given up on finding a long term relationship. The women I have dated, all wanted to be treated like queens. At first, I was kind of okay with it. I tend to be an affectionate bf, so it kind of blended nicely at first. But I grow tired of the demanding, needy, bitchiness that it would turn into. Always having to do what they wanted to do or deal with lots of attitude. Oh and nevermind the waiting around for them to get ready to go anywhere.
I understand that all women aren't like that, but I'm just worn out. And I'm not some chauvinistic pig, I have known many women who are far more capable and better at things than I am. I believe women should have the right to do what ever they want. Women don't belong at home and in the kitchen, we aren't living in the 40's!
Maybe one day, I'll meet a laid back women. Maybe...

37/M



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183,650 Yesterday on a whim I took my mom to dinner at the pier.  There was a newlywed couple taking pix on the beach - it was interesting.

The series on the water were nice to watch, but then they headed back up to the strand...and he was walking with the photog, and she was trailing.

Love is fallacy.



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183,649 Many men would really like to be in committed relationships, we do exist. But after losing half their shit in divorce, they are not going to take shit from any woman, for it would be financial suicide. Conversely, women who are now financially independent, will never take shit from a man ever again, once they are free from the divorce. Many of us will never marry or be in relationships ever again....



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183,648 Maybe it's a society wide type of thing?  Everyone is so into themselves and phones and social media, they don't pay attention to the people right in front of them.  That combined with the natural growing apart of friends, the ones who get married/have kids and separate off from the single ones, it's very hard to make a new social circle as you get older.  And everyone has their routines, set in their ways, etc.  Believe me, I'm trying too.  Once girls get in a relationship a lot of them cut off their friends, (probably out of jealousy, don't want their friends stealing their man) and guys just get used to being single and living alone if it's after a certain age, drama free lives.  More than one person has told me when I told them I caught my ex on a dating site and that's why I broke up with him, "if you're looking for commitment you're not gonna find it.  No one commits anymore."  It made me mad but it's kinda true.  It's all well and good when you're in your 20's and even 30's, but you know where that life leads?  To being old and alone.  Don't people realize this?  That doesn't mean be in a toxic unhealthy relationship, but give people a chance, no one is perfect, don't just stay in your drama free bubble because you don't wanna deal.  This isn't meant toward you, just people (especially guys) in general.  Sorry for the rant, but it's all related.



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183,647 I want to tell your husband so bad....so so bad. However I won't because I promised I never would. Just know what you did hurt and should have consequences but fortunately for you this time it won't.



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183,646 My life makes me sad and unhappy. It didn't used to. I used to have a million friends and a hoppin' social life. Guys were interested in me. My job was challenging, but not overwhelming like it is now.

What happened to me? How did things do a complete 180 in only 3 years?? I had my problems then too (mental health issues from ADHD and bipolar/anxiety disorders), but it didn't feel like it does now. I thought I'd be married by this point in my life. I thought I'd be tenured at my job. Instead, i don't ever have chances to meet men or people to make friends with, and my career has not been as brilliant as I wanted it to be. It makes me sad and depressed. I'm almost 30. I thought my life would be more fulfilling than this. I thought maybe if I just tried harder and put my mind to it, things would get better. I'm lost and don't have anyone to lean on or support me. I'm surrounded by all these nice things in my apartment, but I'm not surrounded by emotional warmth and social interaction anymore.

Time to go back to therapy so I can get help straightening  this shit out...



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183,645 What is wrong with being a woman? I remember when I used to get my fashion magazines on the mail and couldn't wait to open it , even though a lot of the clothes are high end with ridiculous prices , i used to used them for inspirations , whether was the color or style but now days half the magazines are ads for companies, some fashion but a lot of articles about the empowerment of women and other causes that it has nothing to do with the fashion world. Don't take me wrong , i love all kinds of information and been a subscribers of other magazines that involve politics , health , finance , etc.. ( time , fortune 100, readers digest, ) but come on , some of this women talk like we live in the 1800 or some country in the Middle East where women are treated like second class citizen. I love being a women , I get to wear pretty dresses, skirts , lipstick, scarfs etc... This is 2017 , where a women have choices when it comes to career , we are allow to vote, get an education , you don't have to have a homemaker if you don't want to. So why are there so many women complaining? I mean yes there are some men who have no respect for us and believe that women place is the kitchen but there are only the minority , the majority of men I known don't view women that way , they know we are more than housemakers and moms .



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183,644 When I was in my early twenties, I had a long term girlfriend. I was young and egotistical though. I hit on her friends. They would accept. I think I slept with three of them. It was interesting how easily they would betray my girlfriend and sleep with me. There was one though who was appalled I hit on her. She was genuinely shocked and angered I would suggest such a thing. She told me never to bring it up again or she would tell my girlfriend what a dick I was. She was harsh. But in looking back she was honest, I was a dick. And she was fair, not telling my girfriend right a away. And mostly, she had integrity. She wanted nothing to do with a cheater jerk like me. I was kind of impressed.

The really cool part though, is 30 years later. I haven't seen her in all this time. She probably has forgotten about me, the jerk who wanted to cheat with her. But interesting, she's now a big shot in the political world. She is in a position of great power on a national level. It gives me hope. She's a woman who is honest, fair, and has integrity. And she is a politician. I'm pleased to know people like her exist in politics. Not all politicians are bad. I wish her well.



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183,643 Every once in a while I think about the puppy store we used to go visit when we needed a boost and bought your puppy.



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183,642 I spent most of my working life at, and retired from, an intelligence agency.  We don't have to imagine what "extreme vetting" might be like; we know!  When I last met my (sole) cousin and her husband, they also had no idea of what I did for a living.  They were under the impression that I was still working at a job that I left in 1982.  However, my young nephew and niece were aware that their uncle was a "spy".



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183,641 I love you...whether you will ever love me back or not.  You are an amazing human being. You are loyal, determined, sensitive, passionate, noble, incredibly intelligent, and totally unique. You are like no one I have ever met before. So, even if you think I'm a nobody, that doesn't change anything. I still believe in you, and I always will. I wish that I could bring you joy. Sorry for the inconvenience.



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183,640 Hey 603, she was a spy. She was talking Turkish and Spanish? What girl, the daughter of a Baptist Minister no less, knows how to speak Turkish? She was a spy. You caught her working someone. She had to ditch. Or the other choice was to pop a cap in your head for uncovering her secret. Consider yourself lucky to be alive dude.



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183,639 I feel so broken.



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183,638 One of the last images I have of you is you pointing at me telling me you love me.  I cry every time.



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183,637 Funny when people pretend that the people they loved are different now that the relationship ended. Perspective is everything.

I often misjudge people, but I let opinions remain fluid.



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183,636 When I'm on the potty and the uh, train is there but won't come out of the station so to speak, I pretend a cute boyboy has his thingy up my behind. Makes the wait time more pleasant! :)



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183,635 Respect is still there. Just because someone gets upset and says bad things. It doesn't destroy all the repect- unless one takes it too seriously and incapable of forgiving.

I've learned what respect was for a woman when I watched my baby give birth to our daughter. Changed perspective of women forever.



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183,634 I'm sorry, sometimes it's too much to bear and I have to say something.  I guess it's just another way of sending you some good vibes.



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183,633 I don't want to fight. At all.



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183,632 You can't convince somebody to love you.

Whatever will be will be.

Thing is: I know that once I move on and truly close this door. I'm gonna be the best version of myself. I know she's out there. I'm gonna find her.



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183,631 My plan was to kill my new officemate with kindness. I would wait for her to say something positive. Then I would agree with her and tell her how insightful she is and gush on her a while. The problem is, she NEVER says anything positive. She NEVER says anything I can latch onto. I say it's a nice day out, she says it's too hot. I say our boss is a good guy, she says he's an ass. I say it was nice for the company to provide a lunch buffet for us today, she says they ran out of chicken salad. Is there nothing this woman can ever find in the world that is uplifting? I'd really hate to be her.



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183,630 It's never too late to reclaim yourself...for yourself, but I am sorry you feel that way. I never willfully did anything to hurt or disrespect you, unlike others. Never would have, but we all have different values and thresholds for pain apparently.  Does it hurt? Yes, but...whatever.  Out of my control and I am not going to beat myself up about it either.



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183,629 In my experience, it's never too late.

F/47



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183,628 Too little...Too Late....



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183,627 Funnily enough, over the course of a week I have regained about 90% of the confidence and self-esteem that I used to have before a sociopathic piece of garbage wrecked it for me. My secret? I have made a conscientious decision not to let stupid shit get to me, not to automatically assume the worst in every situation, and not to stress over things that I have no control over. I just do my own thing and go with the flow. I haven't felt this good about myself or the direction of my life in years. If you're struggling, hang in there. It does get better with time, but you have to get out of your own head first to make it happen..

F/35



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183,626 What Men really want but will never admit it: have a woman at home, reproduce, cook and clean,while they can go out and fuck as many women as they want. ALSO, the woman at home better not touch any other man!



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183,625 I love you so much. You don't get it.



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183,624 I've been clean and sober for about four years now but today I'm going to relapse. I'm so stressed out that I can't take it anymore.  I'm going to buy a twelve-pack of beer and get completely drunk. Tomorrow when I go to my 12 step meeting I'm going to lie and still claim almost four years sobriety. It doesn't matter as all of the members of this group are morons.



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183,623 :( have mercy and please kill me



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183,622 When I go to Starbucks I steal snacks while ordering my coffee.  There are all these snacks on display right in front of the counter. It's easy to slip a few snacks into my pockets while the clerk has their back turned pouring my coffee. I can afford to buy these snacks but I get such a thrill  stealing them.  I just hope I never get caught because that would be embarrassing!!



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183,621 I would be very happy if my spouse took the time to prepare something for me. I get nothing.



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183,620 I really want to get a nose job. I avoid looking in the mirror and smiling in pictures because my nose becomes so wide and the focal point of my face.

I'm just afraid of surgery... but I really feel like it may help my self-esteem issues and make me feel beautiful for once.

26/f



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183,619 She carried a serving platter from the kitchen all the way to my home office -- which is above the garage on the other side of the house. She had to go up a flight of stairs to bring it to me. She tells me to put the serving platter away for her in the pantry. The pantry is of course right next to the kitchen. Same floor. No stairs. This is what I deal with every day. She has no common sense.



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183,618 Oh no way, liberals protesting? Man I thought I'd never see the day...

Get a job you fucking hippies.



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183,617 You see what you want to see. I see that you're too insecure, so you look for reasons to show how you truly feel. I observe from a distance as I plan an exit.



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183,616 I am the dumbest bitch alive



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183,615 614: I think it's time to dump his ass. Are you going to put up with his childish nonsense for the rest of your life? It's not worth it.



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183,614 I hate my S.O.'s anger.  When he's angry all he does is mope in silence & if you try to speak to him, he is crazy rude. It happens all the time and I have no idea what it instigates it. He will never say what made him angry. He will just act like a complete child.

This happens way too often. The other day we were out to dinner on a date, and all of the sudden, he was angry. No idea what caused it. He wouldn't look at me and if I tried to talk to him, he says the rudest things to me. He is super condescending and makes me feel like the worst person in the world for existing. If I ask him whats wrong or why he's being an ass, he acts as if I'm crazy & imagining things. It seriously ruined the entire rest of the night.

Its becoming so obnoxious. Sometimes I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him, just trying not to make him upset and ruin the whole day.



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183,613 I am banned from my local library. I can't believe it. I went there to print something. It was a large poster. I sent the whole thing to their printer and it comes out in 12 separate pages which I then paste down on a foam board. I've done it once before and it works pretty well. But this time the library people complained saying I was using up all their ink. I was extremely polite about it. I pointed out that they charge 50 cents per page for me to print. I printed 12 pages and paid them 6 dollars. Doesn't it cover the cost of the ink? They got snippy and said it does not. I said that's not really my doing, I don't set the printing prices. They do, so why don't they charge more? I really was trying to be nice and helpful with my suggestion. They said because they are a public library and they don't want to charge more. They want people to be able to print at a lower cost. I said, well, then why are you complaining that I'm printing? They then yelled. LOL, the librarians were yelling in the library! They insisted I leave the library and never come back. Some people have a screw loose. The irony? You know what I was printing by the way? It was a poster the principal of the elementary school asked me to create, promoting kindness.  You can't make this stuff up.



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183,612 Adults behave so badly online. Disagree with them on an issue and they go nuts and throw a fit.They do it publicly so everyone can see how childish they are. It amazes me that they don't see how they come across. It's embarrassing.



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183,611 You spent your teen years doing drugs and breaking the law. I spent my teen years refraining from drugs and working. I have a comfortable profession in which I am well paid and well respected. You are a menial laborer. Yet,you deserve more respect because you "work harder." Fuck, man, this must be what divorce is all about: agreeing to disagree, separately.



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183,610 I grew up outside Washington, DC.  Most of my friends had parents who, like me, worked in intelligence agencies.  It was weird in that when we were kids, we all had this unspoken understanding that we were not to ask any of our parents specifically what they did.  We could tell our friends where our parents worked, but that was it.  Nothing specific, but without trying we picked up enough information about how things were done to learn when somebody's story wasn't checking out.

Years later, I once dated a woman who had this female cousin who was a little older than she was.  I first met the cousin at a large cultural fair in Washington, DC.  She was working in a tent with a lot of small arts and crafts from countries in central Asia.  I asked what she did.  She said she worked for a nonprofit.  She said the nonprofit sent her to central Asian countries, many of which were former Soviet territories, with cash so that she could buy art from local artisans and bring them back to the US to sell.

I took a look around the tent and realized that the value of the items in the tent wouldn't even pay for this woman's transportation costs to these central Asian countries.  Then the countries she was going to - they were all political dictatorships.  And then many of these places were active war zones, and this nonprofit was sending a young woman with suitcases of cash into these countries?  You can't get an insurance policy to cover what she does, and even if you could, this nonprofit couldn't afford it.  Then, of course, I found out she spoke four languages and got her master's at the American University's foreign service school - what we all here know as "spy school."

"You know your cousin is a spy, right?" I would tell the woman I was dating.  She would never believe it.  No, according to this woman and her family, the cousin was just socially aware and was trying to make a difference in an impoverished area of the world!

But everybody around here to whom I've told this story says the same thing - "She's a spook."



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183,609 America isn't the most powerful country in the world because we're filled with monstrous capitalists who are always sucking the blood of the poor of the rest of the world.  No, it's because we're politically stable and embrace the free market system.  We allow power to transition to opposing political parties.  We reward people who work hard.  We give everybody the chance to succeed if they want to the risk.  That's what made us wealthy.

This should be obvious enough.  There are many, many societies that are older than the US and that still can't get their act together.  Every country that has done what the US did has become wealthy.  Most countries in Europe moved from peasant-filled monarchies to democratic societies and free markets after seeing the US succeed - now, wow, they're powerful, too.  And this is after being levelled into poverty by World War 2.  Same with Japan.  The countries that clamp down on their citizens and redistribute wealth for political means are the ones that repeatedly go broke.

Seriously, people, read some history.



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183,608 There's a lot of suffering in the world.  Most of it is brought on by poverty, as most of the people in the world are quite poor, at least by our American standards.  So, I wonder, how can people sit comfortably upon personal riches in the billions (not to mention millions) of dollars and lavish themselves in every conceivable luxury, while most of the world passes needy before them?  We worship those profoundly rich people.  We give them credit for great wisdom and intelligence, regardless of how they came about their wealth.  We think they are better, smarter and more worthy of things good, because of their wealth.  Why?  

To my way of thinking, people who can sit upon outrageous wealth while people starve around them are monsters; egregious, far less than human MONSTERS.  How could a human with a warm, beating heart be so bereft of compassion and caring that they are immune to the suffering of their fellow man?  They postulate and bluster lies of how everyone has the same opportunities and they just happened to figure out plans yielding enormous wealth for themselves.  Bullshit!!

Most of them either inherited wealth from their fore-monsters, or schemed, connived and or stole their way to riches.  

If a person loses a billion dollars in a year, are they brilliant for having had the billion dollars, or are they a moron for having lost it?  Are they particularly ingenious for engaging a system that passes their "loss" on to the rest of us as tax debt?  

Is everything that comes out of their mouths precious pearls of wisdom, or just filthy trickle?



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183,607 #603: I dare to bet that your neighbor was a high priced international call girl.



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183,606 Just a couple days ago I was texting my sister to check out Justin Trudeau, because he's absolutely gorgeous! And he's straight! Beautiful men like him are usually gay. 99% of straight man are unattractive or average looking at best. So, yes, Mrs. Trudeau got very lucky!



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183,605 I'm just wondering if the rice diet is over now or is the rice diet person gonna continue to eat rice? I sure wish I could loose 30 lbs in 7 weeks, but aren't we supposed to eat a balanced diet with vegetables etc? If the rice diet is over, what are they going to eat to make the switch effectively so that they don't gain the weight back?



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183,604 Since I can't sleep , I'm just going to fantasize about Justin Trudeau , he is so hot, I mean they should clone him .  I don't blame Ivanka for drooling over him, if I was sitting next to him , I would be doing exactly the same. He is gorgeous, fit , tall(I love tall man) , he has a beautiful smile and his eyes oh my.... his wife is one lucky women .



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183,603 Very strange thing happened to me once. I lived in an apartment on the Upper East side of New York. I had a smoking hot female neighbor living next door. I'd bump into her every now and then. We made small talk over the years. She told me how she was born and raised in Iowa. Her father was a Baptist minister. She worked as the bookkeeper for a little company that did custodial work for small offices on the Jersey side of the river, like they'd clean a dentist office after hours. It sounds like the world's dullest job. I always felt bad for her. Even she poked fun at it saying the only "excitement" was that most of the cleaning work was done at night, and when there was a problem, like a guy didn't show up for work, she'd have to stay late to help sort it out and the company would then let her stay in a Holiday Inn by the airport, which is why she didn't always come home every night. She didn't have a boyfriend, or any friends over for that matter. You get to know these things about your neighbors when you live in an apartment building.

Me, I worked for a financial trading company. It was/is an exciting profession. I was always tied into world events and making big money decisions. It also meant I had to travel sometimes to Europe to meet with clients. It was on one such trip to Madrid that I took a client out to a restaurant. I arrived half an hour early and sat at the bar. Down a few seats were a man and a woman talking in what I think was Turkish. I could see the face of the man, but the woman had her back to me. I paid little attention to them, except to note that it seemed like a business encounter, they had that kind of formal tone to their voices. After a few minutes the fellow got up I assume to use the restroom. That's when the woman turned around a little more and asked the bartender in Spanish for another round of drinks for her and her acquaintance. It took me a moment, but I couldn't believe it. It was my neighbor! My neighbor?? I called out her name. She turned and looked at me. She stood their frozen for a few seconds, then suddenly got up and left. Walked right out of the restaurant. Her acquaintance came back to his seat. The guy seemed to wait impatiently for my neighbor to reappear. It never happened. He eventually got up and left himself.

A few days later I was back in New York. I was hoping to run into the neighbor, but that also never happened. Soon after, I noticed a new couple had moved into the apartment. My neighbor was just gone, vanished. I never saw her again. I still have no idea what that was about. But I'm thinking she was not a bookkeeper for a custodial company in Jersey.



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183,602 Really pisses me off when these holier than thou bloggers lose the battle of wits then ban you.



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183,601 My boss imposed mandatory overtime on Saturdays. Instead of working a half day, we now work a full day. Every single Saturday. That's taking us away from our spouses, our kids, our other obligations; plus we're now waking up four hours early. Why? We're in sales. Boss wants us to get a jump on the competition.

I get in today at nine. Start reaching out to prospects. Turns out, people don't appreciate being contacted much before noon on Saturdays. Color me shocked... I think next Saturday I'll bring a book.



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183,600 I smell delicious...like sweet vanilla cupcakes with coconut frosting. I would do me. It would be amazing.



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