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183,899 When I suggest sex to my wife, she always answers with disdain. Even on the rare occasion she agrees to sex, it's with an asterisk, being sure to let me know she is against the idea. It's getting very tiring. Ladies, you want to know why your husbands cheat...



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183,898 I realized that he hates me too.
Doorslam like no other.
But you know what?  Life goes on.  
Realize it's good not to be with someone so callous.
Save your love and compassion for someone worthy.  They are out there waiting for you!



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183,897 He hates me. :(



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183,896 I always taught my dad was exaggerating, when he told us the airplane he was on board to get it  back to service was almost shot down . I was looking at some all comments on his fb and one guy thank him and the rest of the crew for saving his life.  Sometimes I envy my dad , his life been an adventure, he makes a living doing what he loves the most and is passionate about it (airplanes/travel the world) how awesome will be to have a job that pays you to see the world.



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183,895 891 - Lovely post and may the world be filled with such enlightened people like you



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183,894 In my daughter's high school, the girls have begun posting pictures of their prom dresses online. They do it to call dibs on a dress. Once the picture is posted, no other girl can buy the same dress. That's the rule.

I mean really? This is what they are worried about? The world is falling apart and these ditzy girls can only think about what they will be wearing to the prom, and selfishly so, saying no one else an wear that particular dress. I shake my head at young people.



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183,893 I'm at a place in life where I feel like I have to shut off the sexual and emotional parts of my nature in order to move forward. It sucks. Bad. It is very unnatural to me. It goes against everything inside of me, but you can only tame the things that you can conquer. The end is worth the means, I guess.



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183,892 876 - This is my husband and I and we have been together for 19 years.  I couldn't imagine a day of my life without him.



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183,891 The best sexual connections are spiritual, but they are hyper vulnerable and the spirit has to be embraced - otherwise it never manifests. My experience.

Both people have to let it go.



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183,890 I grew up dirt poor, lived in an unpainted shack with tar paper roof, more then once there was no food in the house.   I was the kid who lived literally on the wrong side of the tracks,  and I was Mexican in a white school.    I never got invited to any parties,   never had freinds at school.    

My mother was a reader.   We had all the clasic books in the house.  I was todler and saw her reading in the dim light.  She looked almost contetented.    I wanted that feeling so I began to read and learned I could  escape my miserable world of isolation and deprivation by reading.   By the 7th grade I had read most of the classics, and some serious history.   At 13 I was fascinated by how Tito lead the most successful resistence movement in Europe and had failed the second grade.    I was a bad student.    

But I knew I was not dumb.  Once I was lost in book I was reading in the 5th grade, the teacher called me up to embarrass me by having me solve a math problem she was teaching and I was ignoring.    I went to the blackboard,  took the chalk she gave me, looked at the numbers,  thought hard for a long moment , then began solving the problem.   I had figured it out before I started so I could write quickly giving the impression I was solving it as I wrote.    When I was done, I gave her the chalk, she looked at me in shock, the class was silent, and I walked back to my seat.    I KNEW I had aced it.  I knew no one would ever look at me again an think "dumb Mexican"  and neither would the teacher.     I had a a book at home I had read about solving math problems.     I never did the homework, didn't pay attention to class an she gave me a C.   I knew my test scores were better then that.   I never said anything.

In the 7th grade, I was secredtly reading  Kafka.    One day lost in the book,  the teacher was next to me an said, "Give it to me."    I handed her the book,   She looked at it,  she looked at me,  she said , "See me after class." in a pleasant voice.    When we met, she gave me back the book,  asked how much I had read.  I told her.    She stayed quiet a long time then told me to tell her when I finished.     From that day on, she queitly, so queitly, without any fanfare, encouraged me.     I got an A in her class, and won a writing award.  The other smart rich kids were baffled.   In private we talked about the classics, like:  The Three Musketeers, pronouncing D'Artegnan "Dee-artigan" and Dumas;  Dickens and others too.    

In high school, my social isolation continued.   Once, the baddest guy in school wanted to fight me.   I was way smaller but I had no choice.   People gathered round to watch him make  make me hamburgher.    I went into a boxing stance, began to jab an bob an weave,  an very quickly had taken command of the fight. I had him bleeding from the nose an lips,  he doubled up and I had a clear shot to his nose.    I began the punch and stopped.    A coach then stopped us, I heard someone say.."Wow,   I am imressed."   I didn't say a word and walked away.    From that day on, I still never got invited to any parties but  no one ever physically messed with me again.     What they didn't know was I boxed at a gym near my house.    I had fought an beat the golden gloves champ.    I was pretty good.     I was small but fast an coordinated.    That big bad guy?  He never had a chance against me.    

In my senior year, I aced the achievment tests, scoring  as high as the smart kids tho' I had all C's an D's.    

Flash forward.  I ran into one of the popular smart kids.  We talked.  He was teaching   high school.    He asked what I was doing.  I told him I was teaching at a  B-school (I didn't have to say Prestigious) and working as a business consultant.  He was literaly speehless for a long moment.    We went on our way.    

Later I ran into one of those popular gorgeous smart  girls.  For some unknown reason she was always genuinley nice to me.    We talked,  told each other what we were doing.    She looked at me and said:  I always knew you were smart.  I KNEW it.   I am not surprised you are doing well.   I remember telling other kids you were smart.  They didn't believe me.  

Sometimes I hear about some of those guys from back then.   Some are not doing well,  personally, financially,  physically.   I am.    I am very fit,   have a great income, own a very nice big home, travel all over the world,  go to exotic places, love to cook and eat great food  and drink and married to a smart fun fit gal who has a touch of class.

I  still read serious stuff.    And hardly watch any TV but I am aware of the basic history of the middle east,   Europe, Russia and other hot spots.    

Life is good for me now.    I don't hate those people from back then nor do I wish them ill.   I wish they were all doing great.   But they are not.      

My secret?  Be a reader, read everything.    Just read, especially the classics,  science, history and then..read more.     And never stop.    Never.  
Then drink some good wine an beer and eat good food.    Then travel...don't vacation..travel... to those great places where history was made,   walk Gettysburgh alone, feel the ghosts as a freind said,  go to Bokhura look into the pit where the Emir kept Stoddard an Connelly  prisoners before lopping off their heads.... got to Normandy and Kiev and look at the terrain that the American and Russian guys had to cross to defeat the Nazis, walk thru the gas chambers of some of the concentration camps... feel the  horror, oh the horror.    

Then look at a pic Trump and Bannon after reading some of the things they said.    Your reaction will be our secret.                  

    

        



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183,889 Another beloved actor has died too soon.  And once again, I wish it had been another celeb jerk instead.  

It's not healthy to think like that.  At least I know better than to joke that god - if s/he exists - must have a sense of humor, or need another angel.

It still shows how much I haven't changed since I was a kid.



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183,888 I learned some things about you recently that I hadn't known before and it gave me more perspective on who you are and why you do what you do. Understanding you helps me to forgive you. I don't feel resentment anymore, or pain for myself. I do feel pain for you, though.  For years I felt as if I had been given this very intimate glimpse into your true spirit and nature, and I loved the person that I came to know. I don't regret any of that. I believe that we could have been nothing but positive in each others' lives had sex not been part of the equation. You were honest and authentic with me in a way that I know in my heart you were never as honest or authentic with another person.  I do wonder why you chose me, but I guess it all has symmetry. We were both hurting. You recognized my ability to empathize, you saw compassion in me. I regret that I allowed jealousy and a sense of rejection to destroy what we did have, which was a soul connection, a spiritual kinship and friendship unlike any other that I had ever had before, and will likely ever have again.  I miss our talks. I miss not having to apologize for who I am, or worry that I was talking over your head.  You understood me, better than I understood myself, and I thank you.  I will always love you, kindred spirit. It isn't a romantic or sexual love, but more like that of a sister for a brother, or a daughter for her father.  I wish that I had understood then what I do now. I hope that life brings you healing and peace. You have so much to give. Don't let fear cheapen it. God knows the content of your soul. All that earthly garbage is just that...garbage.  Thank you for believing in me. Nobody else has ever given me a gift like that. I will never forget your kindness.



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183,887 The most damaged type of person is the one who takes another individual's kindness or sincerity for weakness and then turns it on them like a knife. Instead of preying on or disparaging what you perceive to be weak, examine your own heart and your own motives. Fix what is broken inside of you instead of lashing out at other people.



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183,886 I need someone to tell me that I will find love again. I left my marriage because it was sexless. Then I met at man who loved me and we had amazing sex. It was lovely. He broke up with me and now I wonder if I will ever find that again. I just need to know: do people find amazing sexual realtinship twice in a lifetime?



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183,885 My cousin just move to Brazil, i wish I have the time to go and visit him. It would be lovely walking around topless in a g string and not worry about prudes and uptight people , who act like they never seen a pair of tits.



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183,884 When my wife weighs herself in the morning, she subtracts 5 pounds from what the scale says because she is wearing slippers.

Keep dreaming honey, slippers don't weigh 5 pounds!



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183,883 I'm not so sure that (romantic) love matters anymore. Sometimes you just have to give up and stop torturing yourself over people who are doggedly determined to prove themselves not worth the effort.



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183,882 A bitter heart is a waste of love. Love your yourself, love your friends, love your family, and yes - love your enemies. For they are the ones who teach you.

Nobody grows from feeling good. It is the challenges in life that develop us as people.

You will suffer for everybody you truly love. The trick is finding the ones that are worth the pain.



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183,881 I'm glad that my words were helpful.

When the foundation of your life is cracked (which mine is/was), the only option you have is to keep letting the house you insist on trying to build around it disintegrate into the mud, or you start from scratch and rebuild the whole thing. It isn't easy. It's lonely work. It's frustrating work. It can be pride and ego annihilating work. You cannot cling to or be dependent on other people and repair yourself at the same time. You just can't. I've seen a lot of people who try to do that...they hop from one relationship or one bed to the next, and the vibe you always get from them is that they are unsettled, anxious, and deeply dissatisfied on a soul level. Their soul has no home because they haven't taken the time and effort to build one.  They seek out one-dimensional "intimacy" because they are off balance and can't find comfort in themselves.  I don't say this to be cruel, it's simply the truth. I used to resent people like this, but now I'm starting to have more compassion for them and their fear-based pattern of behavior. When you are constantly running from yourself you miss out on anything that amounts to everything: joy, security, solace, peace, genuine love, genuine friendship. Runners never have this. Another peculiarity that I have found is that you honestly have to slow down to accelerate in life.  You have to throw out the time table and start working from the inside out and base your sense of progress solely on yourself and not the expectations of others. Pain is the best teacher. If you want to have a rich life, you must first recognize that you are a pauper. Everything that you are running after is probably chasing someone or something else. Let the wind chasers go... Chase yourself...the self that you were born to be. Chase the truth. Chase your inner divinity. Nothing else matters.

--F/35



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183,880 #852 - what are your initials?

texting goes both ways yanno.  text me.  :)



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183,879 My grandmother once told us about the time she took her mentally disabled younger brother, whom she cared for, out to eat.  I think they went to Denny's.  When she went to pay the bill, the waitress told her it had been paid for by an older couple.  My grandmother and her brother were dressed in such old and tattered clothes that the couple felt bad for them.  They thought they were poor and wanted to pick up the tab.

What they didn't know is that my grandmother actually had a lot of money.  Her closet (as well as my great-uncle's) was filled with designer clothes, shoes and accessories, the highest quality lambskin gloves in every color, furs, and spectacular jewelry.  Her home was filled with antique furniture and tapestries, and artwork from some of the most well-known artists out there.  A lot of these things were collected from her travels around the world.  In fact, she and my great-uncle had just returned from a three-week tour of the United Kingdom.

She used to always dress very nicely, but at some point she just didn't care anymore.  She continued to buy nice things, but never wore them unless she was traveling, preferring to run about town in stained and worn-out clothes.  Weird.



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183,878 I'm an idiot. Probably be paying for that one for the rest of my life. Damn it.



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183,877 I wish I was a librarian.



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183,876 You love me for who I am. You're a "modern" man and by that, I mean you believe women should be able to do whatever they want. You don't believe in traditional gender roles. You don't expect me to be anything than I want to be and you encourage me to go after the things I want. During sex, you encourage conversation so we both get what we need and want. You're great to talk to and a big nerd just like me.
We are going to get married and any of the above reasons are enough, but the real reason I'm marrying you is that you're safe.
I love you like a love a really good friend, my best friend,  and if something goes wrong with our relationship I will be sad but it won't knock me down.
I don't think anything will happen. I can see us together for the rest of our lives and that is so very comforting to me.



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183,875 My wife works in the public library. All sorts of people come through there. All sorts of groups meet there.

Out of all of them, my wife says the loudest, most disruptive group to come in every week - is not the teenagers, is not the pre-schoolers..... it's the knitting club. LOL. She said these 20 women come in and sit around and knit.  They tell boisterous tales and never stop hooting it up. The librarians constantly try to shush them, but no luck, these old grand dames cannot be silenced.

I love it.



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183,874 I'm a guy. I dress like a low life. I'm basically a slob. Old worn down sweatshirt and ripped jeans. My shoes have paint splatter on them. I'm sure people look my way and think about giving me spare change. The funny part is, I'm probably the richest person they have ever encountered. I definitely don't look the part. It's not me. I grew up poor. I was fine back then without any luxuries. I'm fine now without luxuries. Never judge a person by their clothes. :)



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183,873 Women are raped in dresses. Women are raped in sweat pants. Women AND men of all shapes, sizes, ages, races and religions are raped. If you're the kind of person who finds a way to justify abuse, you are a sick person indeed (or just a closet rapist.)



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183,872 My soon-to-be MIL is so two-faced. I'm not sure how excited I am to join this family.



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183,871 To F/35 who wrote those two posts about positivity....THANK YOU! I needed to hear that and it really landed with me.



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183,870 I need to stop watching so much porn.  Something from a porn site got stuck in a loop on my computer, even after I closed out the page.  Now when I turn up the sound, I get moaning and, "I fucking love pussy, man," playing on a continuous loop.



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183,869 So Family Christian bookstores are shutting down. All 240 of them. Hmm. Why would God let that happen?



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183,868 Murder is the worst crime that can be committed.  Rape is the second. Both should carry the death penalty.



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183,867 It shouldn't be a secret; clothes are a very overt form of self-expression and communication.  If I want to be taken seriously in a high-level power meeting, I wear a power suit and walk the walk.  If I want a casual day loafing off, jeans and a tee shirt.  Depending on the outcome I want, to a party I will wear something sexy to be noticed and hit on, or upscale, dark and severe for office parties.  If I wanted men to hit on me and offer cat-calls as I walk down the streets, I dress like a sex kitten, or a whore, depending on how far I want to go.  There is some kind of message in everything I wear.  I do know that depending on where I go and what time of day, the sex kitten/whore outfits could get me raped, so I am very careful when and where I wear them ... because I am not stupid.  Or delusional.



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183,866 I'm married.

I'm getting a motorcycle and a girlfriend.

I'm going to ride both of them with great enthusiasm.



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183,865 I was busy doing the dishes tonight and thought to myself- gee, I really gotta go poo.   I'd better get to the toilet soon.

I held that thought for a while.  I finished the dishes, I took out the garbage and as I was at the bins, a wave of sheer panic swept over me.  

I raced into the house at light speed, threw myself downstairs and lept into the bathroom.  

I felt the door open, barely got my pants down and  B O O M...

As my mind was recoiling from the shock of the moment, I look beside the toilet and to my dismay, there was shit ALL OVER THE FLOOR

When I got up from the seat, there was poo all over the seat.  

Just when I thought I made it.   I was so full of shit, I shit the bathroom.  

I'm so disgusted.  



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183,864 After all the bad things I've said and done to you, I will always LOVE YOU. Most likely we will never talk again. This is my secret.



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183,863 The Lost and Found Box
I don't believe that anyone is lost.  When someone says you are lost.   It's not true.

Everybody is lost and found.

There are parts of our lives that are lost forever.  Like when Mom calls to tell you that your brother has died.   Gonzo.

Parts of your life will always be found, like your heroes, your loved ones, your Mom, your Dad.

Part of your life will always be on the cusp of getting sorted out.

So there.



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183,862 I have met rape victims that were sexually assault when they were just girls.  Was the outfit provoked the assault? Of course not , they are sick man out there  and most sexual assaults victims know their rapist . I don't live my life on fear , if that was case I would never leave my house. Terrorist attacks, movie theater shooters, mall shooters, Ebola , serial killers , etc.... live it's too short to be worry about things that barely happen , I have more chances to get on a fatal car accident than the list  I post above .  Should I stop driving? Since it's very dangerous and can kill me.



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183,861 Women should not be raped because of what they wear.  Men should not rape women at all, not for any reason.

But we live in the real world.  Some men, about 3%, are rapists.  These men will rape a woman for any reason.

Feminists are free to shout about "male rape culture" all they want.  Go for it.  Please, shout it from the mountaintops. All you'll find is that in the real world, the rapists aren't following your rules of feminism.  It's common sense not to try to show up on their radar screen.



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183,860 I been watching shows on food lately. I think it's because I really need some cock.



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183,859 So call me =(



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183,858 I will never forget you.

And I will never overcome this grief.



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183,857 I was in a car wreck today that should have paralyzed or killed me. Walked away without a scratch, though. If that's not God's grace, I don't know what is. So grateful to be alive right now. I'm shaken up, but...just know this, prayer works. Faith works. God is real. Never doubt it.

--F/35



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183,856 Only in America or the Middle East , some idiot would say such things. Don't take me wrong  , I love the USA  great country , however I cannot stand the mentally and ignorance  of some people. Women on other countries tend to dress more feminine and there's even places where you can sunbathe topless , imagine that?  See on some cultures nudity is just nudity , it's not view as something sexual, here in the good old USA nudity ,short dresses, provocative clothing equals sex . What are you 12? You cannot control your pee pee, you never seen a tit or vagina before?  Women shouldn't be shame or rape just because they decided to wear certain clothing .  You should probably move to the Middle East , where women are dress from head to toe and are treated like a second class citizen.



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183,855 I believe men need to learn to control their anger and their penis'. If I want to wear a dress that makes ME feel good, I shouldn't have to worry about men not being able to control their penis' and rape women. I work hard to keep my body healthy and in shape for MYSELF. not for someone who can't control his penis. Should I chop my breasts off because they aren't flat? The might penis. NOT.



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183,854 I believe every woman should be allowed to dress however they want, get as drunk as they want, and not have to be raped.

I believe I should be able to cross the street wherever I want, however I want, and not have to be hit by a car.

Everybody has to be aware when their behavior puts them at risk for being hit by a car.

Every woman has to be aware of when their behavior puts them at risk of being raped.



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183,853 I really miss talking to my dad , we always been close but I cannot stand his 34 year old wife , I mean really dad  she is younger than me (37) and with 3 teenage kids and that's not counting the one you have with her.  My dad is in his 60's ready to retire anytime soon . What on earth he was thinking , who on their right mind has a child on their 60,s , I tried not to be judgmental but his new wife is a total witch , she cause so much drama before Christmas that I have to stop talking to my Dad and she is ugly too, inside and out , she looks like she is on her 40's and dress very homely , my 62 year old mother looks better than her. I wish she would find a new husband and leave my family alone.



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183,852 I really wish you would text me...i miss talking to you.  I really did like you.  And I love your voice and how you talk.  Ugh!  You sound so sexy, the way u talk is so bay ridge.  I know you like my voice too...we could have so much fun imagine how we'd sound fucking?  I just played with myself this morning to you...



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183,851 When I was younger, me and my ex used to go out with a group of friends and all split the bill at the end.  At the time my ex wasn't working, so I paid for myself.  I would get like a salad and water, I don't drink soda and I wouldn't drink alcohol.  Everything split would be $20 - $25 a piece.  Around 2002 or so.  A $25 salad back then?  Yea so that shit sucks, u don't wanna look cheap but why the hell should you pay so much for a little bullshit food?  People get weird when you order together, even from home.  Like if you get the door, you give the tip.  or all of a sudden and this is a good one, i live with family and my aunt will ask if i wanna order with them, and i'll say yea.  Then she'll say "i don't have cash on me" wtf?  How were u gonna order...were u gonna use credit card?  bec guess what, u still can, ill just pay u my portion.  People always trying to sneak a dollar.  ugh



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183,850 I recently went out to dinner with a large group. It was an Italian restaurant. I ordered a slice of pizza. Everyone else went to town with bottles of wine and fancy veal dishes and antipasta appetizers and desserts. What a feast.... for them. When the bill came, they joyfully suggested we all split it equally.  My share, $43. For a slice of pizza. Sometimes I hate people.



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183,849 Don't recall asking to be forgiven.



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183,848 Dammit. My mother in law fell down and banged her wrist.  There was a small cut, which rapidly got infected.  She got worse and worse until they admitted her to the hospital.  Surgery, intravenous antibiotics.  She was getting worse...

And now, she's taken a turn for the better.  Antibiotics are working.  She's going to be admitted from the hospital and go home in a few days.

DAMN.  Just when I thought I'd finally be free of the old tyrant once and for all. :-(



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183,847 Having men cum in your ass and mouth while you have a wife at home is fucked up.  I'm not even talking about the emotional consequences of you cheating on her, I mean you're putting her at risk.  Obviously cum in your mouth or in your ass means no condom.  Do you have no conscience that you may catch something and give it to your loving wife?  What the hell is wrong with people?  People cheat but such blatant disrespect for your spouse by putting them at risk for std's because you wanna have some fun is horrible.



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183,846 I feel my wife knows so little about me. She has no interest in me. Everything is about her. I'm an accessory in her life.

I have examples. She buys me a sweater saying it's blue, because that's my favorite color. It is? Ask our kids. I don't really care, but my favorite color is red.

I don't like chocolate. My children know this very well too. They tease me about it in good fun. More chocolate for them! What does my wife buy me for my birthday, a box of chocolate. Even our children were baffled by the gift. My wife said she didn't realize I don't eat chocolate. After 16 years of marriage where I've never once eaten chocolate?

My wife once gave me a photo of an antique Harley Davidson motorcycle. She said she had it framed special for me because she knows how much I love old motorcycles. I had to very politely explain that was her former boyfriend. I reminded her how she broke up with him and then dated and married me. I have nothing to do with motorcycles. Her response was to say old motorcycles are neat and I should take an interest. How strange, so I should be like your old boyfriend?

I have an affliction with my right eye. I was in an accident as a teenager. My right eye was damaged. I can hardly see out of it. You wouldn't know it though from appearances. Our children know about it though. They make a point of holding things in front of my left eye when they want me to look at something. When it came up in conversation recently, my wife was shocked. "You can't see out of your right eye? Did this just happen? You should go see an eye doctor!" Like where has she been for our entire marriage? We have of course spoken about my eye problem in the past. She doesn't listen in these conversations. I imagine because she doesn't care.

Our daughter is looking at colleges. My daughter said she'd liked to go see my alma mater. My wife explained that I didn't go to college. I had no interest in such things. WTF? I went to a great college and loved it. She's confusing me again with some old boyfriend.

She knows so little about me. She has paid no attention to me. I don't exist in her world. It's like we are strangers meeting for the first time. It's hardly love.



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183,845 I can't see myself ever actually being in a relationship with a woman, but having a beautiful blonde cum all over my face and almost rip my hair out in a fit of ecstasy is pretty fucking hot. I have to say that a big dick from behind would have been a welcome edition, though.



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183,844 I'm fairly anti-social. I don't go out much. I don't "hang with the homies." I stay home and write, read or do a crossword puzzle. I'm happy with my life. Every now and then though I can't avoid a social situation. My presence is requested somewhere. Like next week I have to attend a lunch. (I'm freelance. It is work related. I can't say no.) Truth be told, I dread it. It will weigh on my thoughts from now until it happens. It bogs me down. Why can't people leave me alone and not insist I go out with them. I don't force my life choices on them. I don't insist they stay home and do a crossword puzzle. So what gives them the right to insist I have to live their kind of social life?



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183,843 Twice in the last 10 years I have found a cell phone. Once in the bathroom of a restaurant. Once on the floor of a movie theater. Both times I did the right thing. I located the owner and returned the phone.

But not without first going through all the pictures to see if there were any with nudity. I'm 0 for 2. Damn. Karma, how bout you help me out here. I did the right thing and returned the phones. How bout giving me a few shots of snatch for my efforts?



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183,842 I'm a straight male. I have let men ejaculate in my mouth and ass. It is not a lifestyle choice for me. But I dabble with it and enjoy it. There is something intensely wonderful knowing that I excited a man enough where he ejaculated. To see him get erect, to feel him urgently fumbling to push his cock in me, to hear him start to breath heavy, until boom, he moans and shivers as his cums shoots into me. It's a rush for both him and me. Was I gay and then came back to women. I suppose it is true. Will I do it again. I suppose I will. But I am also happy with my wife and our sex life. Dabbling is the icing on the cake.



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183,841 A non-liberal should not assume what a true liberal feels. A TRUE LIBERAL.... not a so called liberal



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183,840 The liberals don't really believe in Syrian refugees and transgender bathrooms and marching on Washington. No, not really. They are just trying to annoying the more thoughtful conservatives. The Syrians at al are being used.

And why do the liberals do this? I think it is petty jealousy. They were never successful in life. So they try to knock down the other half that is successful. It's nothing more than the immaturity you would expect to see on the elementary school playground.



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183,839 I won't say this to your face as I never plan on speaking to you again, but here is the truth-

You are beautiful. The problem isn't your looks. The problem is that you are so fucking intense that you scare people.

Nobody can just slack off with you. They have to be 200% all day, every day. You think you aren't difficult, and I know you try not to be, but you are. Nothing gets by you. Everything is full-on with you, 24/7.

You are like a hummingbird - beautiful, shiny, and I love to watch you because it's fun, but if I were to catch you and keep you, what would I do with you? I wouldn't be enough. You would be bored out of your mind. I don't know what to tell you.  

You are amazing. I don't even think this is a flaw with you. maybe it's everybody else. I don't know. Despite everything, you still make me smile.

Be well, hummingbird. I never meant to hurt you. I know you will never believe that.



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183,838 The best advice I've ever gotten was from a homeless man after my girlfriend kicked me out of our apartment and I found a church bench to sleep on. He also asked me if I had any pills, but that's not the point. To be honest, I don't know what the point is. I gave him some weed and then broke back into my apartment and slept in the bathtub.

Good times...don't miss 'em at all...



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183,837 Random menage a toi last night with two totally random hot girls that were friends. I guess this is moving on.



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183,836 I love you, but I will never say it again unless you say it first.



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183,835 I normally don't pay attention to politics. I can't avoid it this year though. I don't get though why some people are so interested in allowing foreigners into our country. They are like militant about it. Wouldn't it make more sense to help the people already here?



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183,834 When people show me their baby and say something like, "isn't he/she gorgeous?" I learned to say, "He is as cute as he can be."  
That way they take it as a compliment, but I know better.



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183,833 I know a guy on Facebook who has finally helped me articulate my position on transsexual people.

Nearly every day, this woman who decides to live as a man posts about "assholes" who are constantly screwing up the fact that she is now a man.  

You know what, Kevin?  Shut the fuck up.  YOU decided to make a change based on YOUR life, and you do not get to force the rest of the world to bend over backwards to you.  This is the expectation, right?  The rest of the world has to change for YOU, because YOU decided you're the wrong gender?  No.  It's doesn't work that way.  YOU get to play dress up and do whatever the fuck YOU want to do with YOUR day.  But fuck you when you try to tell ME what to do based on YOUR subjective version of the world.

I'm bigoted?  No, YOU are the bigot.  YOU are bigoted against "cis-gender," or whatever the fuck you call us now.  YOU hate ME because YOU changed the rules and I'm not playing by them.  YOU don't get to tell the rest of the world to change the rules.

Thanks, Kevin.  You helped me out.  Have a great day!



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183,832 If it was me I love you too, abs think about you eveveryday. You never message me so will slowly start to mine on ..:(



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183,831 1. I'm very cynical. I find it hard to be happy for people, and most of the time I'm finding reasons why I shouldn't be.

2. I hate when people say their kid is the cutest kid in the world, like come on, they're billions of people in the world and yours is the cutest? Maybe to you but, I've seen some ugly ass babies so this theory doesn't hold truth. And even having children myself,I would never say that. I literally want to punch them in their fucking self centered faces.

3. I secretly feel satisfied when something doesn't go someone's way especially if I've dealt with the same and it didn't go my way, I feel like, fuck you, you don't get it either.


I'm an asshole.



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183,830 Can you please try to pretend to be him , first of all he doesn't use the kind of vocabulary, his political beliefs are quite conservative, and he will never say things like " donate your money to the poor" , not that he is not a charitable person but he likes to enjoy his money ( there's nothing wrong with it) , he doesn't listen to the garbage you consider music and lastly he is happily married to his wife of almost ten years.  What me and him had it was a short fling when I was barely an adult , I had no desire or want him in anyway so please don't waste your time thinking I'm going to befriend you on social media with your fake profile pretending to be him.   When I'm physically attractive to a man , I let them known that by being flirting back on person I don't play hard to get .  In other words I'm not into you , I have never have a conversation with you , I have no plans on it .



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183,829 Every morning I get up before my wife and enjoy a moment of peace. Than she comes into the room and starts talking and it feels like someone jabbed an ice pick in my ear.



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183,828 This is something else that can help you create a better life, pretty much instantly:  Talk about ideas with people instead of gossiping or complaining about others. Talk about your goals and what makes you happy. Find out what makes the people in your life happy and show interest. LISTEN. Let everybody be themselves, and recognize that you DO NOT have to be the center of attention.  You will not die, in fact, more often than not, you become this person that everyone naturally turns to because they know that you have something good to say.  They know that you won't shoot them down, but will build them up.  It isn't rocket science.  

Be positive and attract positivity. Be negative and attract misery. What you reflect is what you attract. You can turn things around any time, and that is the best news of all.

--F/35



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183,827 I've been a rock star at every job I have every had.  Offered promotions, put out in front as the star, etc...  After 10 years at my current job, my manager has finally figured out a way to force me out.  They just never seemed to like me.  Always assuming the worst in every situation.  Finding crazy faults that were frankly, SOP at the firm.

Customers and co-workers can't believe I'm leaving.  Already offered other positions in the same industry but I can't help but feel resentful towards the company, especially the manager.

- M 45 soon to be fired



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183,826 One of the best things that keeps me alive is that everyone who pisses you off will get what they deserve.  

I still get disappointed that it takes too long for karma to strike some of those fuckers.  Maybe it makes the gratitude better for me?



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183,825 Sadly, there are people who enjoy the thrill of knowing someone is interested in them, but that's the end of it. They just want to know that somebody cares. To them its a form of flattery.

Loneliness is a bitch. Just knowing that somebody out there cares is what helps some people get through the night, sin problema muchacha...

I was actually stalked by a psychopath and it was the worst. They too crave validation and reassurance. That is the whole point behind their abhorrent antisocial behavior.

Let me tell you, being pursued by an actual stalker doesn't feel like flattery.



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183,823 821, who is that for?  An initial, please...I had a misunderstanding with someone and I really hope it's not for me.



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183,822 *screams* "There's a loose dog!!!"

It's a fucking poodle, calm your tits.



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183,821 I think you are seriously ill. You are obsessed with me. Go stalk someone else. I get a notification every time you search for me.



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183,820 A zombie running from the cold sun under the shade of wires. I look at my hands and look up at the crisscross sky. Aimlessly stumble, step after step in time. Look up again and wonder who will take care of the birds.

Too much weight. I want to come home.



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183,819 I hate jealous people, you know that kind that like to spread rumors and create havoc.  There's this $&&$& who won't let go until I'm destroyed, she started rumors around my neighborhood that I was a high end prostitute , 😂, first of all even though I'm separated from my husband he still takes care of me financially and will until he dies, we still very good friends and care very much for each other , there's no hard feelings between us. Then the same person started saying that I have an std and maybe aids, seriously stupid )$&@ , she contacted a few of my friends and told them I had a warrant against me like wtf , sometimes I feel like walking up to her and punch her on the face .  While I don't wish harm to anyone if something bad happens to her I won't be sorry.



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183,818 I read posts filled with heartache, longing, pain, and rejection, and it's startling because they sound like words that I would have said or written not too long ago. Here is a real secret, though--the only peace and strength you will ever find will not come from another human being. It can't. They can love you to the bottom of their soul and still not be equipped to give you that.  You have to find your own way. You have to carve out your own path and force yourself to work through the fear and cynicism.  Do it day by day, minute by minute. If you have to say to yourself out loud "Stop being negative!" "Stop thinking this, brain!" DO IT. Do whatever it takes to retrain your mind and your heart. It's the only way to reset your spirit to a place of equilibrium and acceptance.  If you cannot be accepting and loving with yourself, no one else can be.  This is the truth. You cannot be a dark, brooding, negative, pessimistic energy and attract positivity and something as beautiful and vibrant as love. You cannot. I don't care what you have been through, you have to let the shit go. Let ALL the shit go, and focus on this day...this minute...this breath... Remold your mind. Awaken yourself to the beauty around you. Love and beauty are all around, you have to train your eye to see it. You have to clear your soul to embrace it.  Sounds New Age and hokey, but I promise you....the key to a life with fewer (and potentially no) regrets is right at your fingertips. Stop fighting against yourself and start fighting for yourself.  Please. Trust the truth. The light is in YOU, not outside of you.  Fight for it. Break free. <3

-F/35



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183,817 oh yes you have stopped drinking, but there is a catch to your dementia,
creating a deception on facebook that your family does not know about .
you think that you will not get found out?
I know but I will make it possible for all to find out .
ha,ha. you are nothing but a joke """"



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183,816 I experimented with it. A guy gave me a massage, then finger banged my ass, which I enjoyed, then he blew me. Not sure I'll do it again or take it further, just like women too much....the thought I had driving home was, a mouth is a mouth...meh....



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183,815 I've read tons of stories online about straight people experimenting with being gay, only to go back to being straight.

In my personal experience, I've seen many straight married men do gay things behind their wive's backs.  Have a straight relationship while cheating with gay men, some who are doing the same thing.

There is a thing called the Kinsey Scale, which measures homosexuality.  People aren't always completely heterosexual or homosexual.  They are some degree in the middle as a bisexual.



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183,814 Do gay people ever swing back to being heterosexual again? I think gayness is sometimes a fad with our youth. They think it's cool and chichi to be gay. It gives them a certain mystique. But in the end, their hetero urges win out and they want to have sex with the opposite sex again. At least, I think that must happen. But does it? Does anyone know about gay 20 year olds who end up as straight 40 year old parents living with their teenagers in suburbia?



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183,813 I was invited to be on a local arts council. I was excited to be part of this wonderful program.

Filled with energy and enthusiasm, I convinced the arts council to host a fundraiser. I put on a musical variety show. I also arranged for a silent auction and we raffled off a few goodie baskets. It was a tremendous amount of work for me to pull everything together. But I didn't mind. It was for a great cause. The evening raised about five thousand dollars.

One high school girl in attendance really wanted to win one of the goodie baskets - the one with all the chocolate bars. She bought $40 of raffle tickets. But unfortunately, she still did not win.

Over the next week she complained bitterly about losing. She demanded to get her $40 back.

At our next board meetings, the topic was raised, should we return her money. I said no. I felt bad for her, but it was a raffle. It was fair and square.

We held a vote. It was 4 to 1. I was in the minority. The other board members wanted to return the girl's money.

I thought that very strange. I became suspicious. I quietly asked the name of the girl. It was the Board Chair's daughter.

Oh. I see. Even the arts are corrupt. Sigh. I quit the board. This of course meant the board had terrible things to say about me. Say what? I just raised $5 grand for them. I didn't do anything unfair or cheat the system to get money back. I was the moral one. But they said bad things about me. I've never volunteered for a board again.



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183,812 I wish you would have said something



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183,811 I wish I could really tell you how I feel about you.



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183,810 My girlfriends always look to me for beauty tips. I tell them the correct way to put on their eye cream and which finger to use so as to not pull too hard on the delicate skin. I tell them to make sure they put their face cream on their neck and chest as well. I tell them about dry brushing, face yoga and in which direction to apply their body cream for optimal circulation.

They eat this up, because they believe that I learned all of this during the year I lived in Paris.

Actually, everything I've learned is from Cosmopolitan magazine and YouTube. C'est mon secret!



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183,809 Hurting me just to be hurting me. What is that about? I never intentionally said or did anything hateful or hurtful to you. Why go that route? You are better than that.



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183,808 All it takes is seeing her naked...... and all is forgiven.



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183,807 You are a hateful human being. Thanks for making a believer out of me.



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183,806 "NEVER" is a long time that comes very quickly.



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183,805 I have all these amazing people around me and they love me to pieces. They love and accept me for who I am, yet I waste my thoughts on the one person who doesn't give a damn about me.

What the hell is my problem?



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183,804 I have never said a curse would in front of my children. Not once. More and more, even when I'm alone and just mumbling to myself, I find myself saying "Oh drats" instead of cursing alternatives. You know what, it feels good to not curse.



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183,803 I buy PS4 games and never play them.



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183,802 What if you don't love your girlfriend



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183,801 I remember being in 7th grade in 1984, and one of the girls hearing something she didn't like and responding, "That sucks my left tit."

Even at 12 years old, I was amazed at how trashy that was coming out of that girl's mouth.  Sure, we all said awful things, but I remember hearing her say that and thinking that there must be a whole parallel world going on where this trash was normal.  An entire world I just wasn't a part of.  Something about what she said caused me to lose a tiny bit of my innocence.  

Now that I'm older, I say something like that once in a while, to my friends, when I'm trying to be trashy.

That girl?  She got pregnant in high school and had to leave school.



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183,800 Right now I am in Punta Cana at a Riu and for the past three days I have seen this stunning creature.  I talked to her yesterday.  She is from London.  I have one chance to fuck her.  Today at 1ᛆ.  The problem is I never see her except after 2ᚨ in the pool bar.

Find me on the beach today or at lunch around 12ᛆ and come tell me you want to fuck.  I leave tomorrow.



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