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184,199 I fucked my uncle, many times. this was years ago. He was 24 years older than I was and I was just out of college. For about 5 months he call and I would come right over and hop into his bed and fuck his brains out.

People in the family started to suspect but we denied it all. Nope that was not true I fucked him good many times.



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184,198 My horoscope should have read :"You will text many people. None of them will text you back."



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184,197 I'm a male. I love women. I have a daughter, sisters, etc. I'm in full support of women. They are the more graceful, emotional, spiritual, and intuitively brilliant sex.

At the same time, there is an occasion when they are cunts. And acknowledging them as cunts and their cunty ass behavior doesn't make me abusive. It's calling a spade a spade.



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184,196 I tried to change the oil in my wife's car today. I drained the old oil. I took off the old filter. Then I realized I don't have a new filter for her. Not a problem. I would run up to the NAPA store and be back in 20 minutes. I explained all this to her and told her not to move her car.

When I came back from the store, her car was gone. This is my wife. She is as disagreeable as possible. This could spell disaster for her car. There is no oil in it. Nothing.

I called her cell. I asked why she drove off. She started yelling at me that I have no right to tell her not to drive her car. She hung up on me.

I'm beyond caring. She's still out somewhere. Her engine could seize up at any moment and that's it, her car would be trashed. It's two years old. I can't worry about these things anymore.



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184,195 It worked out where I have the youngest children of anyone in my family. At first I thought how nice, all my siblings are giving me the things their children no longer need. I was like yes, free clothes and free toys and free books.

Now I'm like stop it! They can't stand the idea of throwing their old things away, so they dump it on me. A monopoly game with half the pieces missing, oh how thoughtful! Not.

It's junk. You need to throw it out. Please stop bringing it over. All you're doing is making me bring it to the dump!



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184,194 I wish I had an actual invisibility cloak...and a dog that I could have conversations with underneath it.



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184,193 I wish my dog and I could have conversations.



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184,192 I wish men weren't threatened by feminism.



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184,191 I wish I could move to New Zealand.



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184,190 #DayWithoutAWoman = best idea ever. I'm hoping we can extend it to be a year without a woman. Or even forever without a woman. The world would be so much better off.



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184,189 What happen to the Good ole Days when the Relationship was New and Sex was 1 of the most Important things We shared.....That Emotional & Intimate Connection????  Where did it Go? Did it evaporate when We decided to get Married? Did time erode those feelings? As I grow Older and I realize that 1 day Sex wont be an Option because of Time & Age....... I'm Starting to Resent My Spouse...............Getting Old Sucks
52yo/M



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184,188 They say time heals all wounds. I don't think so.



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184,187 Today while doing some shopping at the local market, I notice this middle age guy walking kind of funny and extremely tall, so I look closer and the guy is walking around doing his groceries shopping in stilettos and very high from what I notice.  I just smile and tough to myself his wife must be giving some amazing blowjobs , for him to not care and supporting women's day .  Guy , if you are reading this , thank you for making me smile today. I like people like you , carefree and not worry about what others think.

36/f



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184,186 As I'm watching the News and the Topic of today is the Repeal & Replace of the ACA.......It's simple Everybody should have the same Healthcare as Congress.....



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184,185 I found out my car might be totaled from when that jackass hit me last Saturday. He admitted fault at the scene, was cited (initially he tried to drive off but I climbed out my passenger side door and chased him), and now apparently because he isn't cooperating with his insurance they're trying to act like they don't have to pay. This is unreal to me. I would have thought that people get thrown in jail for just ignoring their insurance company after causing a wreck. I am trying really hard not to lose my shit right now and go track him down at his house. Dishonest people suck!



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184,184 I'm a great man and this is simply another curve on the road of life. Don't mistake my expression of emotion as weakness. I'm actually healing. No rebounds, no avoiding reality, no escapism (well maybe a few weekends here and there), but bottom line... I'm going to get back to being me.



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184,183 You claim to be the "strong silent type."  The strong silent type doesn't criticize perceived flaws.  He shuts the fuck up, but puts someone in their place when they act up.  He doesn't cast judgement on things he doesn't know.



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184,182 Here's a secret--don't jump to conclusions  and write people off based on a Cave Canum post, because you have no idea who the hell wrote it. There are so many people walking around this planet going through the same things, and writing in similar styles. In fact, it's kind of freaky sometimes. Get upset about the shit they did to you face to face in REAL life, not what you read and assume about here. Just some words of wisdom... Peace, people!

--F/35



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184,181 I'm so incredibly grateful for unanswered prayers...



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184,180 This door is closed for you. Good luck. You've got a hell of a weight on you.

I'm free. I made it.



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184,179 A few months ago I found a sixteenth of an ounce of crystal meth while walking home from the store. Today I found about a gram or so of meth. Meth is not my thing so I flushed all of it down the toilet. Apparently I have some very careless tweakers in my neighborhood.



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184,178 My son bought a yogurt from the school cafeteria. He opened it up and it was moldy and foul smelling. He was smart enough to check the expiration date: June 2016.

What the hell is going on in our public schools?



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184,177 I guess you listen to to the paranoid of rush Limburger or whatever his name is. I didn't agree with everything Obama or Bush did but they were both classy guys , as far as I known Obama has a daughter who still goes to school there and he just waiting for her to finish and afterwards they are planning to relocate to California.   Don't forget Trump keep going non stop after Obama about his birth certificate.



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184,176 Heard ex-President Obama is setting himself up in DC with Holder, Loretta Lynch, Valerie Jarrett etc to "fight" the Trump administration.It is a loosing battle.Even if they gets rid of President Trump, it will still be a Republican in power .Pence and  Ryan is next in line. Accept that the Republicans will be in power for the next four years -and get on with your lives.



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184,175 I'm secretly in love with my work husband and he has no idea.



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184,173 I want my husband to die first so I can defecate on his grave.



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184,172 If something requires effort, my wife will not do it. She leaves it for me. I am so looking forward to life after the divorce. She will have to do everything herself. I can't imagine her changing a light bulb or putting gas in her car. Her behavior has kept me down for years. I'm so glad I'm almost done with it.



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184,171 I don't miss you. I'm actually very happy it's over and I don't have to be weighed down with your neediness. I thought I'd miss you at least a little, but I just....don't.



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184,170 I imagine a world where I married a supportive helpful woman.

A guy can dream can't he?



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184,169 Some people just want to believe in something, even if it's not as good as they'd hoped. I can't blame them for wanting something to be true. I hold onto my own delusions pretty tight.



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184,168 67 You should try lifting weights , I believed for women once you hit 30 or have a child it takes longer to get rid of the weight. Cardio becomes worthless unless you spend more than 1hour doing it 6 days a week and restric your diet to a low calorie .  I been there and once I snapped out of it and go back to my lifting , my body starts to change.  For your hair you should add healthy fats on your diet like avocados , olive oil, nuts and healthy protein like eggs. I rub castor oil twice a week on my scalp it's very good for loss hair , stop dying your hair or opt for a more natural way to do it. I haven't dye my hair on almost a year and my hair is so healthy now that the few grays i get , don't even bother me anymore .

36/f



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184,167 Now the scandal is that Trump claims Obama tapped his phone.

And people do not believe this?

Obama fucking tapped Angela Merkel's phone!  He listened into the conversations of our allies in Great Britain.

And yet we're supposed to believe that Obama would never tap Trump's phone?

People are fucking idiots.



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184,166 I'm so fat right now.  I'm looking up people's response to going on T4 and T3 medications for your thyroid.

Bathing suit season is approaching ... I'm so fat I could kill myself.  Maybe I'll take a nap first.

This is not how I want to live my life.  I have such heartburn lately, I can't sleep, I have this weird rash all over my back... this blows.  

When I force myself to get exercise I need a couple day's rest just to feel normal again.  It's crazy.  Who am I?  Where is my hair going?  I'm in my thirties, this is not okay.  I start getting greys in my 20s and now it's getting thinner and thinner in my mid thirties.

Thyroid disease sucks.  I want my old self back.  

I had to put an entire container of clothes up in the attic I no longer fit into because I'm too fat.  Enter depression and anxiety.

I don't trust doctors anymore.  They're con artists chasing the almighty dollar and kickbacks from the drug companies.  THE DRUGS DON'T WORK.

Ahhhhhhh I AM SO FAT!!!!!!  I'M FAT AND RASHY.  Does that sound hot to you?  Yeah, a hot fucking mess.  

Oh my God I need a do-over.  I would have gone the naturopath route in my 20s.  

Remember when we were all kids and do-overs were legit?  Why can't they still be????



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184,165 I guess pit vipers need soulmates too, huh?



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184,164 149...Good luck on your journey. I know what you mean! I am on the other side of similar turmoil as well.
Your outlook on life will never be the same.



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184,163 I really love the rockabilly/retro style. I wish I could dress up like that. I would if so many fat people weren't about it!



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184,162 My boyfriend loves anal sex. My ass feels so loose right now. I feel like I could smuggle cocaine through an airport



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184,161 I ain't scared of six feet, because I'm not scared to be free!



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184,160 If nothing else, you helped me get over him. So thank you.



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184,159 In my town, stores are being asked to put up posters someone made in support of the Woman's March and refugees. What a really bad idea. These are clearly interpreted as anti-Trump messages. If a store puts the sign in their window, I, along with many other people, will not be shopping there ever again.

Come to think of it, maybe it's a really good idea. Because stores with owners that dumb will go out of business. Then we will get better stores, and hopefully ones that are smart enough not to be political.



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184,158 You know, as annoying as Christians are with their "come to the light and be saved" crap, atheists that think they're smarter than everyone for believing in nothing are just as annoying. Like stfu, nobody's figured it out yet



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184,157 My wife has no idea I chat online everyday with a former girlfriend. Some of the conversations get racy. My wife would go bonkers if she found out. It's good to have secrets.



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184,156 I drink about 10 cans of diet soda a day. I pee a lot!



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184,155 I'm a diamond in the ruff right now. So ready to make it happen with Miss Next, but she is going to have to look so hard. I'm disguised well. So well.



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184,154 But beware of dudes who shave their dingdong. That's plain weird.



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184,153 I hate how people are instantly judged based on their political party affiliation. It's dumb. I think children of Republicans check the box for Republican party without giving much thought to it. Nor do they have to give much thought to it. It's just a place holder. I wish we could all stop judging people so harshly. Not all Republicans are evil tyrants, not all Democrats are stealing your money.



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184,152 I think bald headed dudes are hot. Not the type that are bald because they lost it, but the type that shave it. There's just something so sexy about a muscular dude with no hair.

:P



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184,151 I don't why but I have some kind of phobia towards clowns and bald headed man , and I meant the ones that shave their entire hair not the ones that are losing their hair.  There's these neighbor who lives on my block and sometimes I see him at the same gas station I frequented. Not to be rude but he gives me the creeps , i refuse to leave my car until he is gone.  I really need to do research why do I fear, bald headed dudes.



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184,150 When I was I college a woman on my hall did a photography project where she took pictures of her vagina and superimposed it on her face, her elbow, her stomach, her breasts and everything else. It was on display and all there for the entire college to see. I'm a guy, but that was even too much for me. I find the sexiest women are much more subtle.



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184,149 A student posted photos from a photography project on her facebook page. Curious, I clicked on the album not expecting much of anything and then there was a shot of her in underwear and then one with her shirt being taken off. I still feel grossly uncomfortable.



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184,148 Sometimes, people come into our lives to mirror what it is that we need to change. I was closed off to myself because I was that person seeking fulfillment and validation outside of myself as well. The only thing that has really helped me be alone this time is to face my fears, embrace the pain and yes, forgive, forgive, forgive and so on.

Every day, I thank the universe that beautiful person came into my life to turn it upside down. I had never known exhilaration and sorrow like that before, but now I am finally free from my old demons. Yes, the relationship was magical and it was hell- I'd do it all over again too.

I doubt that I will ever have the opportunity to thank her in person for the changes she brought to me, but that's what soulmates do, they help you get to the other side of yourself.



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184,147 I paid my electric bill In December. When I went to pay in January, the bill was double. They hadn't processed the December payment. No big deal. There must have been some sort of delay on their end.

When I went to pay in February, the bill was triple. They clearly were not processing any payments. I called them. It got worse. They said they were going to turn off my electricity. WTF?

They said my bank refused to take the money out of my account to pay the electric bill.  I called my bank. They said it wasn't true. They said they never received a request from the electric company.

What to do? The electric company said it was the bank causing the problem. The bank said it was the electric company. Neither would take responsibility. Meanwhile, I was caught in the middle with my electricity about to go off.

I explained this to both sides. I resubmitted all my payment info. Everything seemed good. I received a payment confirmation from the electricity company. End of story right? No.

This month I went to pay the electricity bill. It was 4 times the normal size. I called them. They were once again about to turn off my power. They said the workers were in route!

What the hell was going on.  I called the bank again. They said it wasn't them. I called the electricity people again. It wasn't their problem. I said this is ridiculous. I'm trying to pay a bill. Something is not working. There is plenty of money in the account. Please take it and don't turn off my electricity!!!

I went back and forth several more times with each company........ until finally, a bank customer service rep said there was a note in the account not to pay the electricity company. Why? It didn't say why. When? It was from years ago. Why was it only kicking in now? I've been successfully paying the electricity company for years? No one knew the answer. Why was this note not to pay only discovered today as the problem? I've called half a dozen times over the last 3 months. Why didn't the bank realize this sooner?? Why did the bank tell me repeatedly the problem was not on their end?

No answers.

But finally as of lunchtime, the bill payment went through. It was too late though..........

I am currently sitting in Starbucks while typing on my laptop. My power is out at home. I have no heat. They say they will turn it on when they get a chance, sometime within the next day or so.

But what did I do wrong in this situation? Nothing. I submitted my bill payments on time. I made phone calls when things didn't look right. But the companies kept dropping the ball and telling me wrong information. The bank was wrong saying they didn't know why payment was denied. The electricity company was wrong to send me a confirmation numbers saying the payment was received. It was all BS.

It's the worst thing to be caught as the ping pong ball between two large corporations. I think I'm going to drop the online bill payment. Silly me, I like my heat to be on in winter. I'm going back to sending in checks. I hope this bogs down their employees to process my paperwork every month!



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184,146 I must have Stockholm syndrome because I feel very victimized, but I am so enjoying the story as it unfolds.  

There's smoke EVERYWHERE!!!  You just can't tell me there's NO FIRE???  Oh, baby!  There's fire ... lots and lots of fires!  

You just can't make this shit up!  When I woke up yesterday (Sunday) and turned on the news, I was glued to the set all day!  I was so entertained!  It was like watching a really, really good horror movie unfold.  It was the best Sunday I've had in recent memory!  

The horror part though, was that it was not a horror movie, but our real lives that I was watching; watching everything begin its slow swirl down the loo!  We are effected and we're going to be affected, if we're not already.  

There's a huge pot of shit on the simmer and the stove's tilting into the fan.  Soon, we'll have a very big, very nasty storm!

Wait and see friends ... just wait and see!

Hillary must be dancing on the ceiling with magnums of champagne ... and I don't blame her one little bit!!!



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184,145 Buon compleanno!  Wishing the best for you and your family , whatever you are. From your Basque mutt friend.



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184,144 The best cure for being damaged by a toxic person is time.  The people who insulted me and looked down on me years ago are now the biggest losers you'll ever meet.  Meanwhile, I've succeeded and shined.  Turns out they were toxic people because they were pathetic.



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184,143 The most important thing you can look for in a potential spouse is whether they share the same value system you do.

A spouse needs to generally believe what you do about money and physical possessions.  

A spouse needs to generally believe what you do about the importance of family.  

A spouse needs to generally believe what you do about work ethics.  

A spouse needs to generally believe what you do about the importance of education.

A spouse generally needs to believe the same thing you do about the important things in life.



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184,142 I healed myself. I dug down deep, pulled out all of the chaos and scar tissue, took a good hard look at the ugliness of the past, and released it. I still have rough moments because I'm human and my heart and head get in my way, but the landscape of my soul has been altered. I don't feel bitterness or resentment anymore. They evaporated and were replaced with gratitude and a renewed sense of purpose.

All my life I had wandered around like a crazy person desperately seeking validation, truth, acceptance, and understanding in others and wasn't very successful. I was looking in the wrong place. Don't look for those things outside of yourself because you won't find them, and even if you do it won't be enough to sustain you. Give those things to other people. If you want a magic bullet for fulfillment, that's it. Give and give some more.

Pray for the ones who hurt you and really mean it. Lead by example. Become the person you needed in your life when nobody else was there. You will find parts of yourself that are stronger and more soulful than you had ever imagined. You can either buckle to pain or be motivated by it. When you can't find the light, become the light.



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184,141 So glad I left my toxic ex.
Life has been sooo much better.
I worked on myself and happened upon a beautiful relationship when I was ready.
I thought I was broken.  I'm just imperfect.  There is life on the other side.
:)



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184,140 I've gone into my daughter's Facebook page and deleted some of her friends. She doesn't realize they are gone. They are rotten kids and a bad influence. I'm doing her a favor.



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184,139 No one knows all of my secrets.



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184,138 I have a work wife and I know all her secrets.



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184,137 I wish men in general had more of a capacity for empathy and emotional support..  which is odd I feel this way since I'm almost always envying them for their linear thinking.

Sometimes I wish I could just have an objective thought with my brain only, but my heart always factors in the decision process.

In some ways I wish I thought on a more linear plane like men and in some ways I wish my male friends, even gay male friends had more of a capacity for emotional support and a listening ear. I'm not always asking to be fixed, sometimes I just need you to listen and give a hug.

What do men wish women would do more? Probably stop being so emotional! Doh! 😭



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184,136 Every time I read posts about an abusive, malignant ex, it reminds me that my life is actually better now, even though there is still a lot of pain to work through. I know I will always love her and I wish that we could have made it work, but one has to retain what little sanity they have left and rebuild.

If you are ALWAYS the problem in the relationship, get the fuck out, because the other knows how to manipulate you without you even realizing it.



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184,135 132 my previous relationship was just like this. She came from an unhealthy family dynamic where her parents yelled at each other and didn't know how to work through their feelings in a healthy way. Even after dating for 2 years, reading books, and talking about taking steps to grow... she ultimately had more of a negative influence on me.

I started reflecting her aggressive and unproductive behavior, yet I felt trapped because I had invested so much time into us, I had let her so deep into my life and we were so intertwined it felt impossible to break apart.. my feelings waned for her over time and she eventually broke it off. I found myself feeling an emptiness, but I realized that I had been pulled far away from the person I was; I used to love who I was.. and now it feels like I'm starting over.

Communication problems do not go away, and if you do not solve them in the beginning of the relationship they will become the habit -you will not break them unless she wants to and is willing to work very hard at it.

I tried so hard with my ex, but in the end she didn't want to change it bad enough.

If she doesn't want to change, get out. I know what it feels like to be trapped and scared and so terribly afraid it may be a mistake... but get out now. Run. Do whatever you need to so that you can be with someone who is your equal.

-The longer it goes on the further the knife gets embedded and the more painful it will be to remove.



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184,134 I don't think I've ever felt myself riding the fence in life more than right now. That pull between just wanting to quit and give up vs the desire to achieve my goals.. I feel like I'm starting to lean back toward my goals. I just hope I can get enough momentum going so that I can get back to that side of the fence.

I miss being happy and doing what I love. And when I really think about my life and everything, there's no reason I can't change that.

Small steps, each day. Exercise, eating healthy, reading... doing things that inspire me daily.

I can make it. I will make it. Quitting is not an option.  I'm going to make it.



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184,133 You weren't emotionally available to me after my abusive, almost fatal, relationship; or for my subsequent eating disorder wherein I was attempting to cope. So no, I'm not going to buy into your manipulative tactics where you try to make me out to be your enemy. I'm your fucking daughter.



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184,132 If you had any idea how much, and to what depth, I love you then maybe you would understand why I can't give up hope.



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184,131 I made this big move to be with someone who I thought I loved.  I did not realized her aggressive and violent she was.   When we argue, I feel like I have to defend myself against her.   She says hateful words, I start saying them back.   I've never done with in any relationship that I have been in.  I want to get out but I am stuck right now.



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184,130 It's going to get harder , especially if you have children. You might want to expose them to see the world like you do and that might bring problems with him since he doesn't see the world that way that you do.  My parents were the same my father it's born and raised on a big city while my mother grew up in the middle of nowhere on a ranch. My father is educated and travel the world (his job requires it) while my mother wanted to stay on one place. Eventually she got tired of us moving constantly including other countries and ended up getting divorced by the time I was a teen.  It doesn't matter how much you live a person if you cannot compromise or agree how you are going to raised a family together you are better off breaking things out before kids are involved.



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184,129 My boyfriend and I are from two completely different cultures even though we were both born and raised in the US.  I can see there are many differences between us, such as our values, what we hold important, where we see ourselves in the future. I was raised in a bustling city, surrounded by many different races and thoughts, while he was raised in the suburbs.

Currently, I make very good money in my job, and also freelance on the side.  I see myself as owning a business, being very self-sufficient and independent. I know the value of hustling. I want to make money to live a comfortable life and provide for my loved ones; I also want to be able to see the world and take in every experience this life has to offer me.

My boyfriend, who is in his mid-20s however, doesn't really see things the same way (which is fine). He would probably stay at a $10/hour job for years and years because it's comfortable and there's no need to move up, since it's a job. (This is fine, but sometimes one needs to take risks in life.)  He does not really know what he wants to do for the future and doesn't think too far ahead in terms of career.  When I asked him, he said he wants to be a professional athlete... (but yet he doesn't train, nor is he exceptionally good at any sports, no offense.)

I understand that people hold different things valuable. However, does that make for a safe long-term relationship?  Just wondering... is this discrepancy in values and ambition a bad sign for marriage? He's a great guy in all other aspects, but I really need some advice.



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184,128 Where is he? The need to find my soulmate consumes me.



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184,127 Men and women were not created to be alike, but to complement one another. We have different strengths and weaknesses, different gifts and different blind spots. This is by design. I think we go wrong when we fail to appreciate (or at least respect) these differences and expect smooth sailing. The beauty of a male and female relationship is in its pitfalls and the way in which both join together to understand and nurture each other so they can overcome those fundamental differences. If you miss out on that, even in the realm of friendship and not romantic attachment, then you have missed out on the most beautiful connection that exists on this Earth. Just my take.

--F/35



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184,126 100 may be right.  I've seen every man (every man) turn on that asshole switch out of nowhere. I don't trust them as far as I can throw them. Even my Dad did that and he's a good man ( he's the only one I trust though because he's my father.  

Men and women will never understand each other.  It's never going to happen.  Just live your life and don't make these men the center of your universe.  Just enjoy the sex and companionship at times and keep it moving. Don't marry them either, you'll never get rid of them.



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184,125 Berkeley is a cesspool of drug addicts and stay-at-home "anarchists". Whatever image that school made for itself over the years is rapidly degrading into a pile of feces while the administration and authorities refuse to do anything about the rampant violence that's plaguing what used to be a nice town. But nothing will be done, because to go against these rabid dogs means you're going against democrats, and people are so adamant about their party being non guilty of any wrongdoing that their actually letting these parasites visicously attack and disrupt average day citizens for believing in something they don't. Berkeley has always held its nose high in the air under the guise that they were superior to everyone else. Well, maybe it's time they should tuck their little tails under their legs and accept that they've become one of the biggest joke in California and do something about it.

Liberal, democrat, it doesn't matter. If you condone what's happening in Berkeley, you're a stain on this earth.



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184,124 There are times when my husband has asked me to fuck him in the ass with a giant rubber strap on dildo. It was a gift from him. But I'm not quite sure if it was a gift to me or to himself. In any event, I accommodate him. I start off slowly. I inch it in. But then I pick up the pace and end up furiously fucking him. I do this because --- well I'm not sure --- because I love him? --- or because I hate him?



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184,123 Your mother must be so proud.



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184,122 Fat women in granny panties are hot....



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184,121 Truth be told, good women do exist but the majority of them have developed paralyzing insecurities and neuroses from years of mistreatment and abuse which make them undesirable to good men.  If you want a good woman, you're either going to have to help her work through her baggage or hang back until she does it on her own.



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184,120 This is how it played out in my dream.  A woman asked me if I wanted to fuck her.  "No," I said, "I don't want to betray my wife's trust."  Even in the dream I knew this was bullshit, because I've gotten handjobs from strippers and massage parlor girls on about 30 occasions.  But it's not like I want to do it.  I want to stop.  I want to be a better person.  But I have body image issues from decades ago that makes me crave positive attention from women.  So in this dream, I told the woman no.  I want to go home to my wife.  But then I saw sitting next to the woman was a college-age Asian woman.  Then I changed my mind and stuck around.

There it is.  I want to be loyal to my wife, but I'm willing to cheat with a college-age Asian woman.



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184,119 I went and saw Get Out.

The movie was great…but the audience was a living stereotype. Erm, never again.



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184,118 Someone, please tell me there really are good women out there.



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184,117 Mt wife constantly reminds me what a good person she is. We have these bizarre conversations. She never lifts a finger to help around the house. She's out living the good life. I take care of everything around the house and with our children. The homework, the cleaning, the cooking, the raising, it is all on me.

When I bring this up, my wife insists she's a good person and I don't know how good I have it. It's so very convenient for her - she lives it up, but then is also a "good person".

She skips over the part where she does nothing to help... and... and this is amazing... and she skips over the part where she cheated on me. Yep, I don't know how good I have it to have a wife who cheated on me.

(Yes, I'm an idiot for still being married.)

Want a funny thing. We have these conversations about how I'm so lucky to have her in my life, just as she tells me she'll be going out all day again. I complain. She reminds me she is a gift from God. And as a token, she'll make the bed before she leaves. Yes, what a gift, she'll spend one minute making the bed.  I'll then spending the rest of my day looking after our kids and everything that goes along with it. But she made the bed. She'll even bring it up later when she gets home. I'll tell about all the things I took care of while she was out. She'll interject that she made the bed. Then she'll storm off, indignant that I'm not giving her enough credit.... for spending that minute making the bed.

Some people are so selfish and twisted.



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184,116 I know of no good men who have ever gone to a prostitute. Low lifes go to prostitutes.



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184,115 Atheists being judgemental? Oh my, how surprising.



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184,114 I'm a women who considers her self a Catholic, while I don't practice my religion and haven't taken communion for a lot of years , I think is wrong to label people. For me It's a cultural thing more than a religious, I'm not closed minded or a prude , my family is not the way either . I was raised by very open minded parents . We were like the only family on the block who never went to Church on Sundays but we still believed there's a God. I have met some genuinely nice Christian , who although might be a little too conservative for my taste , are very good people .  I'm sure there are atheists out there who have the mentality that believed women belong on the kitchen and happen to be sexual predators too.  Religion or not has nothing to do with people's characters , you should get to known people personally before you labeled them.



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184,113 I don't think I quite agree with 100. If nothing else, my boyfriend is certainly more concerned about my orgasm than him even having one.



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184,112 When someone tells me that they're a practicing Catholic (really) any flavor Christian, I automatically think that if they're a woman, that they're not very bright, potentially masochistic, and very likely going to turn out to be a two-faced, backstabbing gossip.

If said fervent Christian is a man, I automatically think that he's going to be none too bright, prefer women "in their place," and will very likely turn out to be a cheap-grope sexual predator who will tell me I have no sense of humor or "I'm too sensitive" when I call him out on his wandering hands.

All that repression invariably leads to dysfunction.  I'd rather hang with honest, self-aware sex-positive atheists any time.



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184,111 One of my friends is a nice person, and I genuinely like interacting with her, but god damn she is the biggest attention whore I've ever met. Adding all these random men on social media because she wants likes and flattering comments on her page. Then she complains about it. Like, when you post photos of you wearing tops with your tits hanging halfway out, the randos you added are going to comment sleazy things. Not that they should, but they do. Please stop bitching about it when you're the one who added them...

She's a smart girl. She damn well knows they don't want to "just be friends"! But she loves the attention. I feel bad at the same time because obviously there's some type of void in her life that she is trying fill with the attention she gets from all these desperate men.

Just needed to vent before I unfollowed her...haha.



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184,110 The only man I've ever had sex with is my foster dad. I didn't want to. I was 11  to 13 at that time.

w/38



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184,109 Holy hell. I am a woman on OK Cupid looking for other women. This is the first time in my life I am embracing this part of me. I am honest and not a gameplayer. I have it set so only women can view me. BUT FUCK. I have never been so roundly dismissed or insulted or misunderstood (without question) by women who you think would share my demographic. It is as if, because it is an online site where you can indulge all your own preferences, you will automatically get get a tailor-made partner. I have had women dismiss me after one or two exchanges, yet they never ask a question. They take for granted information on my fill-in-the-blanks profile but never ask or clarify. There is no subtlety.  It is like they are just there to jerk themselves off and get exactly what they want, which I guess is nothing. Holy hell, I pity the men and women who try to date an honest woman.



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184,108 In other news, it has been found that women who work in domestic violence shelters form an unbalanced perspective on men.



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184,107 Yesterday, thoughts of ending the pain once and for all came to me, again. I am glad today that I am not feeling that- tomorrow may be a different story.

"They" say that it gets better, but I wonder.



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184,106 Yes, 100 is right. I've seen it happen all the time to women. Has nothing to do with prostitution. She was just able to observe men over time and draw a conclusion. Most women when what she has described is happening to them, don't understand and can't even fathom what's going on. Actually, she has done a good job of putting this into words which is not easy. And by the way, men don't just do this to prostitutes. This is happening to women of all walks of life. Check out Hunter Biden, for example. Thanks 100 for sharing your experience/thoughts.



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184,105 100: Thanks for sharing your experience/thoughts. You confirmed what I've always suspected. I've observed how my mother was treated for years by my father and then by my stepfather. Exactly how you described it. It scared me for life. Of course, I've seen it in other situations too, not just with my mom.
And by the way, what 100 described, has nothing to do with being a sex worker of any kind. 100 was able to observe this over time and draw a conclusion. She saw men for what they actually are, how they are without pretense. Most women, when what she has described is happening to them, can't fathom what's actually going on. I really get what she's describing (which is not easy to express) and appreciate it. Thanks again.



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184,104 100 is right.



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184,103 Not all men associate with prostitutes. You're seeing a specific cross-section of those who do and it's not fair to judge all men by that cross-section. Not saying there's anything wrong with being a sex worker if that's your choice, but understand that your profession is prejudicing your world view.  

Hats off to all the lads out there who are wonderful and loving husbands, fathers, sons, brothers, and just plain good human beings.



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184,102 To hell with everyone who doesn't get the life of night shift workers. Here's how  to understand: just reverse the clocks, and that might help you visualize the life. For example, your noon is my midnight. I don't ask you to come over for tea at 2 a.m., so don't expect me at 2 p.m. for any social gig unless, perhaps, I am off the next day. I have a partner who loves me but hell, I don't think he gets it. I got off after a 12-hr shift at 7am, & have spent the day awake as I am packing for a move. Technically I am off tomorrow, but the nature of my work (nursing) means offers to go do an overnight shift are coming in. He tells me, oh catch a nap after you finish packing and "you'll be good to go." OK, sure, after you go to your 9-to-5 office job on 2 hours sleep I'll go do a 12 hr shift where I actually have to make real decisions and not office decisons. I love you, but fuck off. Yes, there is contempt in this post. Sorry, but I am so tired.



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184,101 People that don't have kids yet say ' oh I would do this or my kid will do this or be the this way.' Whatever you don't know and parents are annoyed by you.



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184,100 100....Always felt the same way but the exact words escaped me....until now

48F



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