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184,299 Well, if that wasn't harsh reality. I guess now I know. You never did love me.



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184,298 Why does it seem like I'm the one always apologizing when I'm not the one doing anything wrong? I apologize on behalf of other people.

"I'm sorry that happened. I'm sure she didn't mean it to come out so harshly. I think you are doing a fine job."

This is a major part of my job function as the boss. I get to coddle people and apologize for things I didn't do.



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184,297 So, let's start out with I'm a restaurant server.  Been one for quite a few years, so please know that I speak from experience. In my home life, I don't consider myself prejudiced, but at work ... that's a whole different ball game.

If, while  working, I saw a family of hispanics enter the restaurant, I sorta assume they're fairly easy going, like to enjoy a few drinks, not too many special requests, keep things light and airy, not the greatest tippers, but their table will be an in and out kinda customer. 10-20% tip is the norm. Easy breezy.

If a black family comes in, it's basically the same as the above hispanic example; but, if it's a party of black women. uhh, yea ... They aren't very warm/fuzzy, usually have a lot a questions about every menu item, not big drinkers, always need 3-4 refills on their sweet iced tea and aren't the greatest tippers.  You can usually expect a 10-15% tip from them.  

Recently, we've had an influx of Indian customers, and I can truly say they are the biggest pain in the asses.  I cross my fingers and say a silent prayer that they're not sat in my section. Most of them are vegetarian, so they require an explanation of every menu item, and when they finally choose an item, it is often modified to not include the usual cheese, but add beans, and leave off the fries, and add grilled vegetables, and no dairy so is the sauce made with milk, so use the tomato sauce instead.  And their drink requests:  Water with no ice.  EVERY.SINGLE.INDIAN.CUSTOMER. wants water with no ice, and when you bring it to them, they ask for straws, then when you bring the straws, they ask for extra napkins, then they want you to take away their silverware they used for their appetizer and bring new silverware for their meals. Every time you pass their table, they have a request of you.  Even while you are in the middle of taking an order at another table, they are waving to get your attention.  This goes on throughout their whole dinner. You present the bill and they tell you everything was wonderful, you bring the credit card to the back to process the check and you notice how many of their Black Visa Cards say "Dr" So and so on it.  You return to the table to collect the signed credit card slip and see they left 5% - 8%.  Sometimes if you're lucky, you'll pull 10% out of their tight asses.  It's not all of them, but it's 90% of them.

When I see a white family who looks like they don't have all that much expendable cash, I want them in my section.  Most of the time, they're chill, like to throw back a few, enjoy a little small talk and they tend not to be needy. These are the best tippers.  20-25% is the norm, and just yesterday I got a $50 tip on a $103 bill.

So the moral of my story is I guess I'm sort of a racist.



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184,296 I still desire you....



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184,295 Just looked through my sister's son-in-law's Facebook page.

Wow. Conservatives are disgusting, horrible human beings. Racist, sexist, ignorant fucks.



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184,294 Tonight I found a grey hair while trimming my bush.
I'm officially getting older.
Crap
:(
38/f



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184,293 I cannot stand obnoxious people at the movies, they ruin it for every body.  Have some respect , if you want to loud , obnoxious please consider staying home and wait until the movie comes on DVD.



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184,292 I want to jerk off a mall santa...I want to do all sorts of filthy things with vagrant hoboes and eels. I truly hope the omnipotent 'they' monitors my online activity. I'd hate to think they'd be missing out on the fun!



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184,291 You have to first learn to be complete by yourself and comfortable within your own skin before you will ever truly be any good for anyone else. It really is true. Before you learn to do that, relationships and hookups are just Band Aids, crutches, and distractions.



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184,290 Today was such a disappointment.
I don't want to complain to my family, or friends.
Telling them would make me feel weak, and whiney.
But I also can't sit silently with it all bottled up.
It makes me angry, because I do this to myself.
I let this happen.
I need to be more assertive.
Demand that my time, and work is valued.
Deep down, I'm afraid of being discarded.



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184,289 184249, you are not an idiot.  Your answer made me sad.....  Why do you stay?  Kids?     Finances?  keep hoping she might change?



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184,288 SO glad to be home after another dreadful visit with the in-laws.  My MIL just had to have both knees replaced, so she spent the whole time sitting on her ass even though the doctors have all urged her to get up and walk around.  She was like a gigantic baby bird, oozing into her big chair waiting for people to bring her food and keep her cocktail glass filled.

Then there were the sisters-in-law. Two of the three are hugely obese, and one of the obese ones and the third, less obese one have kids.  So they expected me to run around after their kids while they sat and gossiped and ate.

Then there were the cousins, varying degrees of obese, some with kids.  They all expected to sit and gossip and eat.

So of course I was expected to run around waiting on all of them and their kids, largely because I don't have any self-inflicted obesity-related health problems.  Oh, and I heard a lot of skinny-shaming about how I don't eat enough.

Guess what?  I'm a size 10.  That's how big all these chicks are -- I look "anorexic" to them, and my measurements are 38-29-39.  In inches, not centimeters.

I'm not visiting them anymore.  Let the porgies find a new waitress and whipping girl.



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184,287 My wife is mean, pushy, unlikable, and most of all, unlovable.



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184,286 The Bible doesn't actually say that love will not betray you, but if your love is doing all of those other things (as are you) the likelihood of that happening is far less.

Love wisely.



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184,285 I was having a conversation with a woman about colleges. I said that going to a great college is very important. I based this on my years of working at one of the best firms in the world. We would only hire from Ivy League Universities. Employees were paid huge sums and went on to become movers and shakers.

The woman disagreed. She said any college will do. It doesn't matter where. You can still get hired.

I asked where she worked........

She is a zumba instructor.

Oh.



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184,284 I'm selling all my stuff. Furniture, decorative items, kitchen gear. My goal is to get rid of absolutely everything. I want nothing but bare minimum possessions. A few pairs of pants, a few shirts , one pair of shoes and a bed. It feels great to get rid of things I've had for 30 years. Material goods, they seemed so important at the time. But in the end, they are nothing but a burden.



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184,283 feel so down today



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184,282 A funny coincidence.

My ex and his ex had matching tattoos, right? It was this little Chinese symbol, I don't remember what it meant, but it was vaguely shaped like a diamond, and it's on his right wrist. That girlfriend of his ended up OD-ing, and he was never the same.

Fast forward to 5 years later, when he meets me at a birthday party my roommate was throwing at our house. We were both interested, and he slept over. Another friend of mine slept over as well so we didn't have sex, but we both knew it would happen soon. The next day after my friend left, we started slow dancing in my room. I noticed his tattoo, almost an exact mirror of the bow and arrow tattoo on my left wrist. With our hands clasped together, they almost looked like matching tattoos, or complimentary at least. I noticed and pointed it out, but he got uncomfortable at the reminder of his ex, and the subject quickly changed.

So yeah, coincidences.



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184,281 Funny that we hear so much griping from people about Mexicans, for example, celebrating their heritage. Then the same people deny they are griping. Go figure.



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184,280 To protest on International Women's Day, my coworker stayed home on a nice day and watched movies.

Because that's a protest.  Or something.



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184,279 In order to heal, you have to first recognize how insane your insanity actually is.



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184,278 Yeah, we whites have a problem with brown people celebrating their heritage.

That's why white men passed MLK Day and Black History Month through Congress.

Ugh.



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184,277 Today I marched. I marched to work. Then I marched when I got to work because I am a soldier. I am a woman, who has marched across Iraq and Afghanistan. I have faced the Taliban and Al Qaeda. I have helped rebuild schools in Iraq and aided women and young girls in getting an education in countries where women had no rights. That my friends is marching for women's rights. These women who chose to stay home today, shirked their responsibility as Americans, as mothers, a parents and as role models for future generations.If you really want to do something to help women's right, then by all means get off your #$%$ and go do something besides embarrassing the rest of us.



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184,276 Here we go "Brown Person Victim Day"



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184,275 My wife loves to control me. It's like a mental illness with her. She needs to be in charge.

Example #1: She'll be sitting in a room and call me in, and ask me to turn on another light for her. Like she couldn't get up out of her seat and turn on the light herself? It was a ploy to exert her control.

Example #2: My teenage sons and I go to the movies once a month. We pick a shoot-em-up action movie and afterwards we go out for burgers. It great fun for us. My wife is jealous of the bonding. We always ask her along, but she turns her nose up at these "boy things". Fine by us. But one time recently she did want to come. We got to the theater and she threw a tantrum saying she didn't want to see an action movie. She demanded we see some chick flick of her choosing. And afterwards, she demanded we not eat burgers. She wanted to go to a much fancier restaurant. In other words, she wanted to control us and spoil our fun.

This is who she is. A control freak. A spoiler. She can't allow people to do anything without her say so. She can't allow people to have fun. She's very creepy in this way. So much so that I think it really is a mental issue.



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184,274 Funny that no one ever seemed to care about things like Italian "Saints" festivals. Or Irish St. Patrick's Day parades. Or German festivals. Or Polish Festivals. Or Greek Festivals. Etc. Etc.

Why is it suddenly a problem when "brown" people want to celebrate their heritage?



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184,273 Women's Day -Men's day- Gay day-Black day - Hispanic day.
It serves one purpose- to divide and put people in boxes.
We are all Americans and all people of the world. Lets just be humans!



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184,272 I got the sweetest compliment from a person I work with the other day. He said, just off the cuff out of nowhere "You're starting to look like Barbie again." It was silly. It was cute. Made me blush. I'm sure it's not anywhere close to being accurate, but it was a very nice thing to say and it made me feel like maybe I'm on the right track.



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184,271 All of the hate spewed by men towards women, and women towards men, makes me deeply sad. It seems like the intergender vitreol has really ramped up in volume the last couple of years.

I am a woman. I also deeply respect and love men. I also deeply respect and love women.

Why is this so hard?

The whole tit for tat hate thing is immature. The whole "let's hate a whole group of people" I mean, aren't we past that? Don't we know better?

The international day of women-- my friend living in Istanbul saw a group of women physically attacked by men for publicly demonstrating their day. This is why that these days are important. Everyone needs a voice. I've never seen a group of women go and attack a group of women celebrating their right to just exist and be heard.

But also, men are being forgotten in this whole thing. So yeah why not have an international day for men? I'm game. Ill make a cake :)



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184,270 Dont forget love does not betray. But it does



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184,269 Very, very few things in the world are black and white. And gender/sexual identity/sexuality/etc certainly is not.



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184,268 Because there was never terrorism (hello The Irish Republican Army), crime, murder, rapes, etc in the "good old days".



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184,267 "Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love always wins."

We form infatuations and follow lust and we call it love. I've done it too. I've made just about every mistake you can make according to this. Our modern concept of love is so divorced from this ideal that it's ridiculous. We enter into relationships and marriages with this selfish notion that it's all about what we can get from the other person, and how they're going to heal our hurts, keep us from being lonely, or raise our self-esteem or social status, etc. If you lived this, though...honestly lived this every single day as best you could, no matter what faith you profess to be...how could you fail?  You couldn't. It's a challenge, but the thing to remember is the last part--love always wins.  The real thing will always succeed and counterfeits will always fail.--F/35



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184,266 People who did not go to a good college are quick to say that where you go to college doesn't matter.

Keep dreaming.  Classic sour grapes. Of course where you go to college matters. On so many levels. What a shame that these people are raising kids and telling them the same garbage, that where you go to college has no bearing on opportunities after you graduate. They are tainting their kids' future to make themselves feel better about their own shortcomings.



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184,265 inherit one or more extra X chromosomes--their genotype is XXY or more rarely XXXY or XY/XXY mosaic.  In severe cases, they have relatively high-pitched voices, asexual to feminine body contours as well as breast enlargement, and comparatively little facial and body hair.

What then?

And what about any other number of sex chromosome abnormalities?

Also: Intersex describes a wide variety of combinations of what are considered male and female biology. Aside from having an ambiguous-looking external genitalia, true intersex in humans differs from pseudohermaphroditism in that the person's karyotype has both XX and XY chromosome pairs (46XX/46XY, 46XX/47XXY or 45X/XY mosaic). Some people who are intersex have both testicular and ovarian tissue. One possible pathophysiologic explanation of this rare phenomenon is a parthenogenetic division of a haploid ovum into two haploid ova. Upon fertilization of the two ova by two sperm cells (one carrying an X and the other carrying a Y chromosome), the two fertilized ova are then fused together resulting in a person having dual genitalial, gonadal (ovotestes) and genetic sex.

Another common cause of being intersex is the crossing over of the SRY from the Y chromosome to the X chromosome during meiosis. The SRY is then activated in only certain areas, causing development of testes in some areas by beginning a series of events starting with the upregulation of SOX9, and in other areas not being active (causing the growth of ovarian tissues). Thus, testicular and ovarian tissues will both be present in the same individual.[22] What then?



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184,263 Being a home stay mom this day is a luxury, I know plenty of women who would love to do it but cost of living have gotten so ridiculous expensive that a lot of times it takes two paychecks to live on a decent places , while salaries and paychecks have stayed the same. I feel bless that I can afford to stay home , knowing there are many single mother who struggle just to put food on the table .  I have a lot of respect for them.

36/f



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184,262 I find the liberal women's march very ironic.They are demanding respect while they are disrespecting the immigration laws, the constitution that gave them a legally elected president,as well as disrespecting other women who don't agree with them.I have news for you-respect must be earned.



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184,261 Ben Carson said that slaves were immigrants.  The liberals went crazy, calling him stupid and every other insult in their arsenal.

Then, of course, someone dug up a December 2015 speech of Obama saying slaves were immigrants.  yeah, nobody complained about that.

This seems to be how things are turning out.  A Republican will say something, the Social Justice Warriors will go crazy, and then we find out that Obama did the same thing.  

In all my years on this earth, the only thing that still surprises me is how stupid people can be.



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184,260 I'm so fucking high right now!



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184,258 I love how women have the option to do the career and work thing.

As a man, I wish I had option to stay home and fuck all day.



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184,257 I'm very much a feminist, and it's not my place to judge how someone else chose to honor Women's Day today. I chose to honor my gender by going to work and teaching my 8th grade English class (okay, and partly because getting a substitute teacher and the plans made is a pain in the ass!)

I was allowed to choose my own path in life. I was allowed to make the decision myself not to have children (even though our society tends to look at that in a negative light). If I end up not getting married, I'll have the means to care for myself and not become a burden to my family. I was allowed to go to college to get the education I needed to pursue a career to support myself. I'll take my birth control pill tonight and order my refill to pick up tomorrow.

A hundred years ago, I would have been pressured to get married and have children and be a wife and mother as was expected of women in those times. I respect women who choose this path because it's their choice just as I made the choice to pursue a career and not have a family. Feminism is about EVERYONE having the freedom and equal opportunity to make their own choices about their life. Wanna be a wife and stay at home mom? Go you! Wanna have a career and not necessarily go the family route? Go you! As long as we're not being assholes to each other or dregs of society, it's all good.

While our society still has work to do in regards to equality, I wanted to focus on celebrating what I CAN do regardless of my gender.



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184,256 Celebrated International Women's Day by organizing an impromptu date with my mistress.  

Since she had the day off, I booked the afternoon off and we ordered a nice cheese and wine lunch.  This was followed by some tasty twat licking.  

After some furious fucking, I left a huge load of cum dripping out of her.  The oozing twat cum dripped down to her asshole, so I had to fuck that.  I completely emptied my balls in her gaping ass and she sucked my dick clean.

I was so exhausted by the time I got home, I barely had enough energy for the wifey.  After a stiff drink or two, she forced me to lick her big old hairy twat until orgasm.   I managed to get a semi-chubby and did my husbandly duty.

Thank you very much to International Woman's Day, wives and mistresses everywhere.   Without you, I would have a terrible case of Blue Balls.



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184,255 I never seem to be able to catch a break.



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184,254 Celebrated International Women's Day by working, taking care of my daughter, cleaning, and cooking dinner. Only 22 days until I get to work part time and I can be home more! Still wishing to be a stay at home wife and mother. I don't understand why women are so far removed from their natural femininity. Okay, so YOU don't want to stay home. Or dress and present yourself nicely. Or cook and clean. Or teach your children morals. I do! Why does that threaten you "ladies?" Is it because you weren't swept off your feet by a man who honors and respects you? Someone who chose you to be a part of his family and married you, rather than stringing you along for years? A lot of the modern feminist movement is rooted in insecurity and jealousy. We all see it. Have some morals and self respect. Put some make up on. Fix him breakfast tomorrow. You won't have time for vagina hats and being bitchy. 32/F



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184,253 we should be holding each other.



you know it too.



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184,252 My brother ended up with a crazy wife because she gave him road head on their first date.  I bet a few well placed blowjobs have caused a lot of men to get stuck with crazy wives.



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184,251 If I really knew the person she was, we wouldn't have had a daughter. Not sure what she was thinking. I think it was just biological like her second kid. Doesn't matter.

My parents: the same thing. If my mom really knew my dad when they met, I wouldn't be here. Sure, people change. Things change, whatever. It's not my fault I'm here. Why would God be mad if I ended it? I didn't choose to be here. If I want to go, it should be my right. (Not that I want to) I just want the right.



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184,250 Why waste your time and energy on revenge when you could be creating a life that is so much better? When people treat you like shit, be patient and let karma take care of them. Don't crawl to their level. Don't give them that power.



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184,249 I'm 5ƌ" and bald. I wear glasses. I am an asthmatic. Ask again why I'm single.



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184,248 184248 I married her because I'm an idiot.



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184,247 184239 I'm am so curious as to if your wife was like this before you married?  surely she didnt suddenly change into such a pain...what initially attracted you to her?  Ps she also sounds like a fool.  Good luck in your future, wishing you peace and happiness.



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184,246 Just sit back, put your hands behind your head, put your feet up and enjoy. It's going to be the greatest show on earth, and having a front row seat is going to be fun as shit.HAHAHA good luck suckers



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184,245 I am really proud of myself. For the past three weeks I've  done some form of exercise for at least an hour and a half every single day. Even if I'm tired I still make myself do it because I want to be the best I can be. 21 days is all it takes to create a habit. So, what are you waiting for?



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184,244 A Day Without Women, right?  I didn't even notice that the women in my office were out.  How about we have a Day Without Men?  The whole fucking country would shut down.



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184,243 My wife doesn't hear polite reminders. What she hears is harsh criticism, which from her point of view, is to be ignored.

Case in point. She turns on the stove without first checking if there is a dishtowel on top of the burner. It of course starts to burn, setting off the smoke detector. I come rushing downstairs and put out the flames.

I ask her to check in the future before turning on the stove. Honestly, I'm surprised I have to remind a grown adult of this. In fact, it scares the stuffing out of me to think she could turn on the stove without noticing she's about to set a dish towel on fire. What if she has our kids in the car and she doesn't notice she's driving the wrong way on a one way street??

But she doesn't hear me about the dish towel. She gets upset that I am criticizing her. That's the most important thing - not that she set something on fire, but that I dared to mention it.

What a great way to go through life. She does nothing wrong ever.  It's everyone else who shows concern, they are the ones doing something wrong.



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184,242 I don't know...I know people will judge me for this but it seems like even with the danger that went on, things were better when the mob ruled shit.  Yeah there was racism but let's be real, there still is.  Just saying things were more in order under control...



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184,241 This was a day without women ?
who knew ?



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184,240 I hope I made my point.



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184,239 Man...I often have suicidal thoughts thoughtout the day.   I never talk about them with anyone.    Reasons: I work in mental health and my job is to support other people with depression and other SMI's.  That is the only I am still here.



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184,238 184226 and 184218. I'm the guy with the wife driving the car with no oil. You have never met a woman as stubborn as my wife. She is as difficult as can be. Some women go through life trying to be sweet. Others try to be smart. Others try to be good moms. My wife, she thrives on being difficult. She takes it to absurd heights. I'm leaving her. She wins. She can now enjoy life without me. I don't know who she will have to bully going forward. She has no friends. They have all run away after being treated to my wife's wrath. Have you ever wondered where crabby old ladies who live alone come from? My wife is setting herself up to be that person everyone hates, the old lady where the neighborhood children tell stories of her being a witch and putting pins in the Halloween candy. My divorce can't come soon enough.

Adding, the car survived. She came home and I put in the filter and new oil. So in case you are ever in this predicament in the future, you can drive for what must have been 12 miles I think, with no oil. Who knew... Not something you really want to test...



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184,237 I've lost my mind and want to die.  I can't even think straight.  Every morning I try to think positive thoughts, and ended up with completely jumbled negative thoughts that will never connect.



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184,236 So how does that work? If I'm in a bar and I pick up a transwoman and bring her home, am I still considered a hetero sexual man? What about when I try to stick my dick in her, and there is no hole there, only her penis? Should I feel weird about that, or would that be some type of prejudice on my part?



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184,235 You know, since trans* women are considered women now, I have no idea what it means to be a woman anymore. Not in a malicious way towards them, but without relying on genitalia I really can't say what makes a woman a woman without using stereotypes or cliches. Doesn't matter much though



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184,234 A day without men? That would be great! #byefelicia



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184,233 I miss the good old days, when only men were in the Men's Room. Is that too much to ask?



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184,232 The world was great in the old days when you were male, white, heterosexual and Christian. We ran the world and the world was a decent place to live. We give just an inch to appease people and look at it now...our kids are shooting each other at school and other terrorist activites slaughter the innocent. It's high time we take the workd back. And we will.



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184,231 Things were great in the "old days" so long as you were white, male, heterosexual, and Christian (not Catholic though).

The "problem" now is that white, male, heterosexual, Christians don't get to tell everyone else how to live their lives anymore. And it has them freaked out.



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184,230 When can we have the "Day without Men" protest? I would love a day off!

Oh yea, we can't cause we do just about everything.

Some women are so effed in the head. You want equality, then when you get it, you bitch about it... Keep having your protests with your vagina hats and such.



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184,229 225 Thanks for this... We need to wake up.



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184,228 As a woman and a former card carrying feminist, I feel that this whole "Day Without Women" thing is ridiculous. If you want to be a SJW, be one for groups that are truly disadvantaged, like children living in abject poverty, sex trafficking victims, or young girls growing up in countries where female genital mutilation is still common practice.



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184,227 Today is the "Day without Women" protest.  Women are staying home so we men can recognize the value they put into the workplace.

The two women in my office didn't show up today.

We, the remaining 6 men here in the office, have gotten so much done.  We don't have the distraction of constant chattering.  We've probably done more than we normally would.

I'm not sure this protest had the effect it intended to have.



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184,226 All I've ever really wanted was a loving family to be apart of and to go home to. I got so close and it was so short lived.

I'm to blame for much of the failure.

Sometimes your greatest dreams and greatest fears are very close to each other.



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184,225 If my wife did what his wife did, I would simply say "told ya so" when she arrived back home with her car literally in tow.  Then I'd tell her she's just going to have to make it through life without a car until she can buy herself another one.  I, personally, would rather die and go through hell before I would buy her another car!  I would not budge for a wife like that.  Not all the way to and through the divorce court.  I'd get rid of that B.



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184,224 Ah ... FEMINISM!

When I grew up the world was very different from the way it is today.  Fathers set out to work every morning and mothers stayed at home and ... mothered.  Mothering meant taking care of the children; from illnesses to cleaning and teaching, shopping, housework, cooking and etc., etc., etc.  

Fathers went out to hard work.  Mothers remained at home with hard work.  

Then everybody got TV.

The picture gradually started to change.  Mothers started getting jobs.  Families started sending the children off to expensive daycare to be formed.  And the family unit weakened.  

The fact is, nobody is going to love and rear your children better than you can.  When mothers went out of the home to work, a lot of valuable parenting and bonding went out the door too.  Children used to be disciplined and taught right from wrong at home.  Now, everyone expects care workers and teachers to do the work.  But they can't and won't.  

But that was all a long time ago.  Today, it's mouch, much worse.  

Today's family unity is almost non-existent.  We've added WIFI and social media.  Nowadays, people do not even know how to date.  People sit across from tables in restaurants while they communicate with distant others on their devices.  We have almost lost the art of communicating in person.  Now, mothers and fathers do not even know their children really.  Teenagers put together horrendous plans for heinous public acts and carry them out on a far too regular bases these  days.  They do all of that in the PRIVACY of their own homes. because parents have now knuckled under to media hype that says children should have privacy.  Children, privacy ... for what!  When I grew up, the idea of a child having privacy for anything other than the bathroom was ludicrous.  

We've reared a nation of out-of-control monsters.  The things we hear in the news today are almost unbelievable!  And really, think about it; what do monsters in movies always do to their makers?  Exactly!

Women wanting to be equal to men has caused all the problem.  Not from the beginning of time have men and women been equal and they never will be.  Men are men and women are women, no matter what clothes we put on, nor how much or little makeup.  Women are not men and Men are not women.  Neither is better, we just are (as God made us, some, like myself, might say) people.  The work men do outside of the home has always been extremely important.  The work that women do in the home is every little bit just as important as the work men have traditionally done.  Each are vital, different and necessary.

Turn on the news and see daily, the result of our melding of men and women into each other.  The downhill slide is obvious, if you look.  I believe what women should be striving for, and men as well, is to go back to the way things have always been; Mothers and fathers with well defined, desperately needed roles.  

Life was so much better then!!!

Now, that's a secret from which you can all benefit.



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184,223 Some people push and push, intentionally trying to rile me. Sometimes they succeed and I yell. Then I feel enormous guilt. I'm terrible at being a bad person.



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184,222 I like 221



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184,221 This international women's day is great, but many of the women on my social media seem to use it as an excuse to insult men. I don't think that really hits the mark.



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184,220 The most important step to being able to love and accept yourself and others is purging your soul of negativity. This is more intense and difficult than it sounds. You may not even think of yourself as a negative person, but when you start doing real spiritual work you find all these nooks and crannies of false belief, shame, anger, sadness, rage, pain, neediness, pride, confusion...all of this turmoil that you had squirreled away for years without knowing it; it all comes tumbling out, and you have to let it do its thing.

It is like performing an exorcism on yourself. One minute you're relaxed and feeling fine, the next minute you're writhing in a corner praying to God that the pain would just stop. You find yourself reacting in the old ways, snapping back at your demons with habitual patterns, but only briefly. This is a necessary part of your evolution. No matter how intense it gets, you have to ride it out. You have to relive those moments of insanity and blinding misery in order to let them go.

A word of caution, though--be careful not to project past wounds and hurts onto others as you go through this. It's a trap. When you open yourself up completely, you become hyper vulnerable to this sort of acting out because it is easy to perceive threats where there are none. I had never done anything like this before, so I wasn't aware of how manic and scary it would get. You have to allow yourself to be acutely aware of your negative habits and thought patterns so you can confront them when you feel yourself getting wound up and reacting. It's tough, probably the toughest part, and I fell into that pit a few times. I wouldn't suggest trying to have other people intervene during this time because it won't work. This is something you have to do completely on your own.

We as a culture promote repression and escapism, but you cannot be a fully functioning spirit in this world until you have acknowledged the darkest parts of your own nature and cast them out. It isn't for the faint of heart. You can't half-ass enlightenment. You have to give yourself fully to the course.  At the end, though, it will be all worth it. You will be free.



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184,219 I've been so blinded by my desire to make things work with you that I haven't stopped to realize that you haven't treated me well in years...

I guess I was just chasing the good days for the last few years.

I don't think we will ever have those again. Instead of being full of regret, depressed, and full of loss I'm going to try and remember the good times.

I'm tired of beating myself up about the past. Life is too short for this.

I loved you lady. I did. God Bless us both!



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184,218 Just watched one of my coworkers get fired because she was told she couldn't have today off. She didn't even have a full shift today, just the morning shift. She proceeded to have a mental breakdown where she said she was being "oppressed" and that she wasn't being treated equally. My boss, a woman, was speechless while this SJW continued arguing with her about how no women should have to work today.

Yeah, welcome to the real world, retard. Enjoy looking for a new job without a liable reference considering you just told her "fuck you".



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184,217 I once had to tell my wife not to drive the car because there was no oil in it.  She told me, "Okay."  When I got back home, the car was still exactly where it was.  I cannot imagine having to deal with a spouse who would purposefully ignore me on something so important.  How do men end up with those types of women?



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184,216 You can give a pet elephant to a kindergartner, but that doesn't mean he can train it. Same is true for men and giant penises.



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184,215 Instead of offering smoke breaks, I think places of employment should offer hand to hand combat breaks throughout the day.  It would be good exercise, would keep your reflexes and your mind sharp, and would make the day go by hells a lot faster.



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184,214 I kind of regret selling my old Jag, she was beautiful and a head turner. I had her for five years , I took care of her and not once she gave any trouble .  Sure maintance was a little pricey but she was worth it ,  I wish Jaguar should let her alone the new XJ are kind of flugy they shouldn't mess with a classic.



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184,213 I would like to be part of an operation that murders 1000 Chinese every time a Rhinoceros is poached.



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184,211 Denver, Colorado. I moved here a couple years ago. I am deeply unhappy here, and I think about taking my own life sometimes. The people here define the word "sucks." Inconsiderate, wildly disrespectful men who still want all the shit respectful men earn rightfully. Seems like every fucking body here either hates all non natives and think they should be very verbal about it... or does way too much heroin...or will lie and be shitty to people and of course avoid any Confrontation like the plague.  The cab drivers here are unapologetic crooks who should be in prison mostly. The girls here are all so insecure they feel the need to be mean to other women. The store clerks here are snippy and treat any late evening shoppers like they're in there to steal things.  The cops will book someone for a crime based on a name they were told...but if that person needs a new ID...SURPRISE SURPRISE.  They refuse to accept a booking record from the jail for it. What is wrong with the people here that nothing nice can be seen from most? Why do people here go out on a limb to be assholes? Denver...fuck all of yall. Yall need to learn how to not be totally sour and unhelpful to others. Yall should be so ashamed of yourselves and realize that the behaviour I've seen is unacceptable and disgraceful. But really I just wanna go. Fuck all yall.



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184,210 It's not exactly a secret, but with reading 200, I realised just how easy it is to put our own assumptions on things.

Somehow, I read it as a male writing the secret, but my friend who also read it, assumed it was a female.

While this is of no consequence, I guess I can see how differences in perception can get us in trouble in our interpretations of communication.



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184,208 I'd really like to get  my last lover out of my head. It was easier when I didn't give a shit about her.



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184,207 I feel fantastic. 👍 Totally rad.



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184,206 Yesterday was the best day I've had in a very long time. Everything went my way and I even made a little extra money. Too bad today everything  just went to shit. *sigh*😞



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184,205 They say time heals all wounds. I don't think so.



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184,204 If you don't wax nostolgic over lovers. You never lived.



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184,203 My exes are mostly cool. I'm friends with all the ones that mattered, except, there is one...a person who inspires feelings normally associated with hostage situations. No, I don't wish for that. No, I'm not waxing nostalgic for those failures. I'm not fantasizing in any way about the good times we had. There was a time I would try, but the final result killed everything once and for all. It's hard not to think about it, but I try my best. I get triggered. Just have to stay mindful. I'll be a better person in the long run.



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184,201 I can't believe that the wife drove off without oil in her car... unbelievable...



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184,200 My fav part of the day is pooping.



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