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185,199 191...In this case, yes. It cannot be saved and the ruin cannot be reversed. Perhaps this is rightfully so. He hates me. Maybe that's for the best.



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185,198 People could say a lot of things about me, but, at the very least, beyond a shadow of a doubt...I am the most fun ever. :) It's unanimous. Everybody who knows me knows it's true. I consider it my best achievement, truth be told.



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185,197 And just like that. I'm burned again. I wish i wasnt such a fucking loser :(



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185,196 My husband laughs too loudly at jokes. Someone will say something slightly funny, and my husband hoots and snorts and slaps his knee. My husband is insecure. He wants people to like him. He needs people to like him. He laughs so the joke teller will like him. It backfires. My husband comes across as socially awkward and unlikable.



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185,195 I sometimes feel like I don't deserve the good things in life that I have.  I think of my past and the mistakes I've made, the people I've slept with, the actions I've taken.  I've learned from them and have become a better person, but still...



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185,194 Are you an honorable person ?

That is as my father asked of me from the age of about 17-18 onwards.

In the early days I would ask back what exactly does that mean. "You will know" he would answer, "You will know"

Took me a long time to understand him.  Yes I sleep well at night, I am an honorable person.



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185,193 I'm sorry..



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185,192 For a year my wife stumbled around in her dark walk-in closet because she was "too busy" to put in a new light bulb. Who does that? I know, a very lazy person.



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185,191 189.. how do you salvage a dying friendship? Do you think once it's ruined it can't be saved or un-ruined?



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185,190 You can't make me want to live in this world. People try to tell me that I need to make something of myself, have goals, find my interests, and that'll give me something to live for. I find small ways to kill myself a little more every day, and it's all a self-fulfilling prophecy.

The thing is, how am I supposed to want to live for 40+ more years if I don't even want to live on the week to week basis? Things have gotten easier (I've cut off/lost a lot of toxic people, and I'm not homeless anymore), but that doesn't give me an end game I'd be happy with.

I just keep living because I'm here already.



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185,189 Despite everything, I still miss our friendship. It was a deep and profound friendship to me, whether you ever felt the same way or not. I guess that's why it's so hard to let go of. I don't miss the drama. I don't miss the sex that created all the drama. I don't miss the miscommunications and intense negativity brought on by said sexually-perpetuated drama.  

I miss our talks. I miss how we could always crack each other up with our warped humor. I miss that look you would give me whenever I would come up with some bizarre and totally off the wall shit. You seemed to appreciate the weirdness, though. You appreciated a lot of things about me that most people didn't seem to get and were baffled or put off  by.

I miss sharing ideas with you.You inspired some of my best ideas. I needed that. I miss your influence more than you will probably ever know. I miss talking about spirituality and, well, really anything with you because you had such a gift with words and were such a deep and innovative thinker. It was always refreshing and surprising hearing what you had to say or finding out where it would go next. Most people, as I have found, are neither of those things.

I am perpetually underwhelmed in friendships, but that part with you never disappointed me. You were more like family than a friend. Maybe even more than family. If a friend could be a soul mate, you were probably as close as I am ever going to find, and I recognize that. Maybe that's why it still hurts as much as it does. So, for that you will always hold a special place in my heart.

Long story short: I hate that, through our combined efforts, we ruined what could have been a lifelong friendship with something that never should have been. I hate that I let my emotions take over and destroy what could have been salvaged and could have been stronger for having overcome those differences and pitfalls. Our friendship was always good. You know it too.  I will always hate the way that things turned out. I wish we could have made peace. For everything that I did wrong,  or could have done so much better, I truly am sorry. I know that I won't ever get a chance to say that in person, so this will have to do. I wish you all the best.



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185,188 You and your pathetic photoshop and fake Facebook profiles, I only befriend family and very close friends ( people that I known for years) so please quit being so pathetic and bug off, got it chow main ? Or whatever fake name you are using now days.



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185,187 185176 - Contact him. As a male who has had this happen to him, it will send a spark of good feeling through your soul to finally get it out to him. If he remembers the incident, and if he (to me) sounds like a decent guy, he will "forgive" you, if that is needed, and go on with your lives. Sadly, too many women, and men take small innocent gestures as sexual provocations and things just go to the dark side of their relationships ruining what could be life long friendships.



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185,186 Dear G... i don't know how to be your friend, at least not like before. I dont really trust anyone anymore, I don't allow myself to be close to anyone, or vulnerable and I don't expose my secrets or my heart to anyone anymore, especially not like I used to with you.I learned my lesson. I humiliated myself and it wasn't fair to you that i bared my soul to you like that. I'd rather be isolated or lonely than pathetically codependent. Besides, protecting myself also protects you.



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185,185 Now when I see a deleted message, I always wonder if maybe it was you.



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185,184 I'm a fool lost at sea.
I left thinking I was on some grand adventure, determined to change my life.
I've certainly changed my life..
Though there is so much I've lost.
In going away I could never go back
And now I'm lost, unsure of what each day will bring
Scared and a bit hopeless :'(



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185,182 Moonlight is possibly the worst movie I have ever seen. The main character basically has nothing to say. He grunts and nods. It was painful to watch. This won the Academy Award for best picture? I think Hollywood has lost its mind. They saw it as ultra PC. It's about black, poor, gay people. Hollywood tripped over themselves to love it. It was PC liberal crap out of control. In the end they fucked themselves over. They chose a terrible movie as their #1. They diminished the stature of the Academy Award. Best Picture doesn't mean anything any more. It is clouded by bullshit politics. I hope Hollywood shrivels up and Netflix takes over.



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185,181 For Theresa McGillicuddy.

I don't blame you for how you reacted to me hurting you. What I did was unforgivable, and I'd give anything to change it. I know it's far too late to truly make up for what I did, how I broke your heart and ruined the experience of a lifetime while you were in France, but it would mean the world to me if you let me back into your life, even as a distant acquaintance. I want you to know that I did love you as deeply as I ever did anyone, and yes, I didn't appreciate you as I should have, but you were and are a wonderful woman, and I'm sure an even more wonderful, amazing, loving mother. I hope this gets back to you, somehow, it would mean the world to me if someone on this site showed this to you, as I'm far too terrified to say this to you directly, but I doubt anyone will notice. At the same time, because of my fear that you'll reject my offer to be in your life again, I hope it goes unnoticed as well.

This. This has always been what you've done to me. Conflicting, horrifying, beautiful emotions. Doubt, yet conviction. You were the wildest roller coaster thrill ride I've ever been on, and it's a shame it ended the way it did, because it was the most fun I've ever had.

- Chris



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185,180 I wanted to be known and loved by you. I still do. It's extremely messing up my relationship and her joy matters to me just as much. I do love her just as much. I know this is really stupid but I need to get over you. I can't beg for a life that would just hurt me the same. What I need is to be taken care of and she does but it's destroying her. I made some videos and one of them I am screaming and crying. There's no way I can take care of myself with painting. It's all I want to do. If I was in the hospital doing it they wouldn't let me they'd steal them they'd medicate me to the point I couldn't. My ability is back but the stress is too much. I honestly don't know what to do but just know I love you. And i am worth more than the mistakes I make. my being has cost her $5,000 of the money she doesn't have things like gas to see me. Coffee and I even got her smoking which means at least an additional 2000 a year. I can't even let her touch me or enjoy it I hate myself so much. I am an angry person because I know I am worth more than this. I know if I was famous my paintings would suddenly be worth what they ARE. I JUST NEED TO PAY OFF HER DEBT SO WE CAN GET LAND. Fuckin make a go fund me butthole. Thanks. *toot*



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185,179 #176 Thank you. It's such a relief to hear a woman speak to what she did. Powerful honesty. You know, I'm just a 3rd party and your words affected me. I imagine it would affect the Army guy so much more. A difficult suggestion, but what if you did contact him and explained? It might be one of the golden moments in life.



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185,178 Funny things I have read in the want ads lately:

"Must have safety glasses and steel toes."

"Bilingual required, but not necessary."

"Person must organized and attentive to detail."

Just thought we could all use a chuckle. :)



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185,177 I never been attracted to macho type of man, I'll take a "girly" , pretty guy anytime.



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185,176 This is an embarrassing secret after hearing the men talk about the young women who misread their intentions.  I was one of those women back about 1998.  I was 20, and tbh there were a lot of guys who seemed to only want to fuck me.  I wasn't super pretty, maybe somewhat attractive.  A guy in my bio class sat next to me.  He was an older student, about 28 and just out of the army.  He was in shape, not a bad looking guy, had a look of confidence about him, and was a Gulf War vet.  We got along great and teamed up as lab partners.  He was super friendly to me.  He was always asking me how I was doing in school.  Honestly, I know I loved the attention from him.  This wasn't a college frat boy, this was a man in college who was in control of his life and had a future.  Just the fact that he paid attention to me made me feel great.  I smiled and laughed with him, and we became friends.  I learned things about him.  I learned he was the younger brother with three older sisters, and that he was horrified of what he saw in the Gulf, even though he was only there a few months.  I told my girlfriends about this older man who was paying attention to me.  One day we had a study session for our finals, and he bought me a little stuffed teddy bear for good luck.  I had known him for three months by then.  I don't know what went through my head.  I thought, he's nice to me, he's giving me something, that must mean he wants to get in my pants.  I was too fucking young to think of it as, he's nice to me and gave me something, maybe he's a friend.  This ruminated through my head.  I showed my girlfriends the little bear and told him "the guy" had given it to me.  I couldn't pretend to be excited because my girlfriends never showed excitement with guys, so I pretended to be annoyed.  In a few days I convinced myself that the little bear was some cheap trick for him to get laid, not some thoughtful little gift intended to support me.  He had been nothing but a friend, and in less than a week I was telling my friends that I was convinced he was a stalker.  I sent him a message on AOL instant messenger and told him that he needed to stop stalking me.  But something weird happened, at least it was weird to me right then.  He stopped talking to me.  In fact, I could tell on campus that he was avoiding me.  I never spoke to him again.  I wondered why, if he wanted me so badly, he would suddenly stop talking to me.  I thought he'd be like the other guys and keep hitting on me.  He graduated and left the next semester.

It's almost 20 years later and I still think about what I did.  Now that I'm older I'm horrified at what I did and sometimes am still racked with guilt.  I never stopped to think that he had never asked me out.  I now think that maybe the fact he had three sisters made him able to talk with women very easily.  He had been through a war.  He told me about seeing the bodies of the Kuwait women and children buried in the ground up to their necks, with their heads missing from where the Iraqis had put nooses around their necks, attached the other ends to cars, and then drove the cars off, decapitating them for sport.  Maybe he was a man looking for reasons to smile.  Maybe giving me that little fucking stupid bear had made him happy.

What the fuck was wrong with me that I couldn't handle an act of kindness and concern from a man?  What the fuck.  I'm almost 40 years old and still hate myself for what I did.  I did it because I wanted my friends to know I was wanted.  I wasn't even fucking wanted.  I pretty much made that up in my head.  I found him on Facebook.  46 years old now, handsome but with a few pounds on, a pretty wife who's a psychologist, and most of his pictures are him hugging and playing with his daughters.  I wish I could message him and apologize, but I'm too ashamed.



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185,175 real men mind their own business.



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185,174 Moms of the world, be good to your sons! Such delicate and fragile creatures they are. Every man is suffering today because of a mom. Douchebags, assholes, bums, pedophiles, scumbags, Johns, cheaters, etc. Be good to your son and be worthy of respect, or else precious little boy will take it out on every woman forever!



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185,173 If Siri was a person I would punch her in the tit for always thinking I'm speaking to her.  Shut up, ho. Ain't nobody asked you SHIT.



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185,172 I'm trying my best to get to where I need to be. I want to be the best. I WILL be the best. A slump doesn't equate to a lifetime.

People are so goddamn judgmental and quick to write your ass off in a heartbeat. It's bullshit.



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185,171 As a man I can say that it's very important that a woman keeps herself in shape and remains sexually pleasing. No I'm not saying she can be a total bitch but if you give me the choice between a hot wife that will fuck me silly and keeps it interesting but lacks in other areas or a wife  that lets herself go and seems bothered to have sex but is otherwise a perfect wife...I will pick the first one EVERYTIME. And so will every other man that wasn't raised by a woman and turned into a vagina, that's just how it is.



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185,170 You've got to take everything you read with a grain of salt around these parts. Never assume that it is for you, about you, or written by someone you know. I haven't been on here today until about 5 minutes ago and yet I've read multiple posts from earlier that I would swear were written by me if I didn't know better. It's bizarre, yet strangely comforting to know that so many people are going through the same things and have so much in common. We are all one, despite our differences. It does drive home the importance of direct communication to avoid misunderstanding, though.

-F/35



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185,169 I guess it wasnt you. I had a glimmer of hope briefly.at work tonight and i thought i had some hope



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185,168 I haven't worn a bra since about 2010 and I don't plan on wearing one ever again. I am not a flat chested girl either. I just refuse to be confined by underwire, elastic, social convention, or the Man. :)



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185,167 Never again.
Never again.
Learned my lesson.
Please stay a ghost



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185,166 I am frustrated within my interpersonal relationships.  I find solace in music and animals.  

People are too self-centered, egocentric and just let you down.

Music is always there for you.  A dog will always play with you, go for that walk with you and snuggle you when you need it.

All I need is a good song, a dog, and the beach.

Everyone else (for the most part) can go scratch and sniff.



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185,165 Call me then lets talk



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185,164 I hear so much unimportant and trivial and just plain wrong bullshit about Donald Trump that I've stopped listening to all criticism of him altogether.  Just as bad, I've begun believing what he says about the media being out to get him.

See how that works?  If you pace yourself and actually tell relevant and important and true criticism of Trump instead of lies and bullshit, people just stop listening to EVERYTHING you say about him.  Even the valid shit.

Pace yourselves, liberals.  For the sake of the country, stop the bullshit and just pace yourselves.



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185,163 I want you back



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185,162 Then why throw me away



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185,161 I still miss you.



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185,160 Dear god please make the pain go away or just take me



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185,159 I love when people say that someone else never can or never will change. Speak for yourself. It must suck to go through life being so rigid and close minded. Not to mention so "perfect'"...



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185,158 I dont wash mushrooms because I dont know how. for real.



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185,157 You showed your Inner Core,
You can't backtrack now,
Everyone knows that your smile,
Is Happiness that's been drown



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185,156 Stephen Colbert is so boring. He used to be funny, but now he's a one-trick pony with a worn-out trick. Steve, find something new to do before you become completely irrelevant.



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185,155 *beatings

I will add this to the previous thought.  Some "mental problems" are more situational than anything else.  If you judge a person by their behavior when they've just come out of a miserable breakup, or divorce, or abusive situation you probably aren't seeing the whole picture. Give them time to heal and then perhaps reach out and  try to get to know them again.  There are times when that is all that is needed--just a little time and space to pick up the pieces and get back to a normal headspace. Everybody has their low points. We all snap from time to time. Try to remember that and give them a little grace.

(I need to remember this too.)



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185,154 I'm a fucking psychic.

I hate to break it to you, most women these days (myself included) could be classified as having "mental problems" thanks to the psychological bearings we've taken all of our lives...mainly from males. Sorry, but it's true.



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185,153 153 how did you know? That already happened, and I got off the crazy train. Only psycho women or those with mental problems like me, why is that?



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185,152 151, no. You won't die alone. Just find some self-absorbed, soul-sucking, manipulative psycho who will drain the life out of you and mentally abuse you to the point where you become addicted and start believing that you can't live without her.  They're out there! Keep looking!



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185,151 Why on earth will the Russians have something to do with Trump? Hillary and Bernie - with their pro-communistic and pro socialistic  agenda -are much more to the Russian taste.If Hillary became President  they could have received  more uranium  for their bombs just by donating another few million into her "charity trust fund" as before. Unfortunately the trust fund now is null and void as nobody will  give her money as she can't do anything for them now. She is now a house wife in Westchester New York. CNN and MNSBC are really becoming the laughing stock of the country.



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185,150 146 is the inner mind of every woman I have met. I like to treat women well, always will, will not play games....and will surely die alone.



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185,149 Another year, another similar headline: Student gets accepted to all 8 Ivies.

Dig a little deeper, and it's always a minority student. Is that fair? It's reverse discrimination.



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185,148 I'm OK now.  I hope you are as well.



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185,147 I feel the same way too, sometimes I look at America and I mean the whole Continent not just the USA, Venezuela is a mess, Argentina is broke, Mexico is being run by the drug cartels so there's only a few places where you can feel safe , here in the States the economy is not doing so great , add the debt , and the intorable ignorant Trump and I feel like going back to the land of my ancestors. Most of my family immigrated from the Basque Country sometimes i think it will be nice to moved there , sure it gets cold in the Pyranes mountains but who cares it will be nice change .



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185,146 My life would be so much better (and my mind would be so much healthier) if I could accept the fact that not everything is my fault or something that I screwed up. Maybe it can be nobody's fault. Or, worse still, perhaps some people genuinely are just thoughtless, careless, reckless, selfish pricks....and, if this is possible, then I seem to have a deep affinity and attraction for those people. Nice guys fall all over themselves trying to get my attention, but no. I want the one person who will treat me like a worn out gym sock and make me hate and doubt myself completely for one of two reasons. Either a) I am so egotistical that I believe that I have found a hidden unicorn, a true prince among men, whom I can bring out the absolute best in or b)my self-esteem is so incredibly low that I believe I deserve to be treated like garbage. Not sure which.

Wonder if it's possible that it could be both?

Hm.



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185,145 185141 Run and don't look back.



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185,144 If you are suffering from depression/anxiety go to a naturopath.  I went to one due to some thyroid issues I had.  I had randomly commented that my depression and anxiety had disappeared when I was put on thyroid meds.  He said he commonly gives natural thyroid to his depression patients and most of them improve greatly.   I know it won't work for everyone, however depression seems to affect so many people, I can't help but wonder how many of them could potentially be helped with thyroid medication.   On a positive note.  My entire life I have felt I was just lazy, depressed, worthless etc.  Within the last year of being on thyroid meds anxiety, depression, 60 pounds, foggy brain, exhaustion etc have all disappeared.  



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185,143 Are you your boyfriend's subordinate? Does he pay more of the bills? Does he buy you dinner? Is he the one who introduces interesting conversations? Do you put the decision making burden on him the majority of the time?

Then you are his subordinate and maybe you need to start treating him with more respect.

I'm tired of the twisted argument where we are all equals, except the guys have to do more of the work. We see it everywhere. Both members of the marriage are equals, except the woman stays home and has lunch with her friends, while the man has to go to work and put up with all that stress. It's so prevalent that men actually live fewer years than women.

But then women complain they are not treated as equals.  Hello? Men literally die for you!



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185,142 Well, Donald Trump, it seems, has finally settled his Trump University scam claim.  In a statement, New York attorney, General Eric Schneidermman said:

"Today's final approval by a judge of our Trump University settlement will provide relief -- and hopefully much-needed closure -- to the victims of Donald Trump's fraudulent university.  Trump University's victims waited years for compensation, while President Trump refused to settle and fought us every step of the way -- until his stunning reversal last fall.  In particular, I am pleased that we were able to ensure that members of the class action settlement will receive an even higher settlement than originally anticipated."

We have a well-seasoned crook in the whitehouse.  He is not sane.  He cannot last.  I am very embarrassed and sorry that I voted for him, even though there was no other viable choice, in my opinion.  I should have stayed home, at least then I wouldn't have to share the blame for this horrendous fiasco.  Why was I so stupid and blind???  I have never, in all my 50+ years felt so guilty over a choice I made for the voting booth.  

I have a lot of distant family in Italy.  I have visited there four times and always liked it very much.  I am seriously considering moving there.  If only I weren't so close to retirement . . ..  I have been careful though; not married, no children and I have enough in savings that I can easily survive in Italy.  It's just a matter of finding work there . . . or maybe I can create my own business.

I've got a lot to think about!!!



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185,141 My boyfriend told me we're not equal and I'm his "subordinate" what should I do



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185,140 Ha ha ha. The self-righteous mom calling everyone out, saying we need to come together as a town and stop all the racial slurs..... ha ha ha.... it's her son who is online making the racial slurs.... He's one of the major instigators at the high school. I've taken screen shots. I want to send them to her. But why spoil the party? So many of us are watching this unfold and are enjoying watching her make a fool of herself.



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185,139 Logically, I know that my brain is lying to me. I know it's all an illusion. I know that depression is a chemical imbalance and a crock of shit, but it's so hard in that moment when it takes over my brain to distinguish between reality and the things that I am experiencing through this negative filter. I'm just afraid that it will win out someday and I'll end up taking my own life before I've had the chance to talk myself through it. Counseling doesn't work for me. I don't want medication, though. I tried that and it flattened my affect and made me unable to be myself. I lost interest in everything. My creativity and spark were gone. I became an unemotional zombie. Even at a lower dose, I was this boring, hollowed out, watered down version of myself. I would rather suffer than be spiritless and emotionally unresponsive. I guess there is no happy medium. It's either this, or nothing. I just hope it doesn't kill me. Some days it feels like I am just playing one really long game of Russian roulette.



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185,138 They say that "caring is sharing."

I fall asleep and dream. I am in a long-defunct factory. It's actually a launch pad. These rockets soar into the unknown.  

There isn't a signal here. I don't know where I am. It is a blessing.

    



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185,137 134 This man prefers feminine curves over the more masculine angular look.  A treasure trove of the best examples of such women has been a website that I discovered a few years ago belonging to an online business selling plus-sized dresses, from which I've saved many pictures as eye candy.  It's not masturbatory material (I need something a lot more explicit than pictures of clothed women); I just like to look at them occasionally because they're pleasing to the eye.

The models, while curvy or padded to varying degrees, do however fit within certain reasonable and attractive limits.  The same cannot be said for many of the customers who submit photos of themselves wearing the dresses that they have bought.  In most cases, those women are not appealingly curvy like the models on the website; they are just plain obese with potential curves no doubt obscured under rolls of fat.  If you have a distinctive waist that highlights your hips and bum, there's a good chance that you're curvy.  If your would-have-been waist is hidden because it's covered over with fat, then you're not "curvy" you're just plain fat.



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185,136 You never cared. I was a means to an end.



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185,135 I spend my free time helping my children get smarter. We discuss homework, books we've read, current events, puzzles.

It's very much working. They get top grades.

I look at the other mothers around here who spend their time sculpting their bodies. Yes they have hot bods. But their children don't do very well in school. I think it's because the mother isn't there to nudge them along and help them learn. The mother is too bust looking after her physique.

That's what I think of sculpted women. They are self centered. Their looks are more important than their children.



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185,134 134...As a man, i think a woman should do whatever makes her happy, her need to be in the gym and look sculpted or not should be of a personal preference not to impress a man.
I am attracted to a confident, wholesome woman who does not rely on her looks alone..



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185,133 What do men think of sculpted-at-the-gym women? You can build your ass and hips now. Or streamline your shape. Does that take away from soft curves? I have to imagine it looks great but may not feel too great in bed. I've noticed these girls now sculpting their bodies almost obsessively lose some of the softness in the face too. They just look like plain toned girls. Like Beyonce in Dream girls vs. voluptuous Beyonce. Or the Jessa in Girls all fit now, vs. when she was softer. What do men think?



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185,132 Stacey was this pretty, peppy girl I had a crush on in the mid-ྖs.  I tried to take it to the next level, but she told me something that affected my life.

"You're too smart for me.  You'd get bored with me."

I never considered that before... but she was right.  I realized that there was an intellectual gulf between us.  That's why she thought "Friends" was funny while I thought the show was simply retarded.

Stacey made me realize that dumb people always know one thing: when people are smarter than they are.  I never had thought of most people as being dumber than me, I just thought they liked "dumb" things, like Friends.

As I've gone through life, I've learned a few things about intelligence.  I realized that dumb people usually are cool with people who are smarter than they are.  I also learned that brilliant people are usually fine being around people who are even smarter than they are.  However, I've also learned that people of above average intelligence feel really insecure when they're around smarter people.



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185,131 Taxes at this time of year always depress me. I get reminded how poor I am.



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185,130 There were so many ways in which I could honestly connect with my ex-wife. Just on a day-to-day basis she turned out to be a very good friend to me someone who understood me, somebody you really got me .
Other times such as when we were fighting, she would say stuff that just didn't even make any sense. I'd be trying to make some progress towards resolving a conflict, Other times such as when we were fighting, she would say stuff that didn't make any sense  under any circumstances. I'd be trying to make some progress towards resolving a conflict, but then she would  say something that was truly frighteningly nuts. She would rather leave reality then be wrong  or own up to something that she could do to help.
Some days she was a good gal other days it was like living in a scary neighborhood.  I am OK with a little bit of crazy.  Hopefully she toned it down for the next guy.



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185,129 I saw a video of a very pregnant woman getting ass fucked. Then the guy pulls out and sticks his dirty cock in her pussy. Not cool. It's one thing to do that to a woman and she gets an infection in her pussy. But my God there's an unborn child there now. What if the germs infect the baby in the womb? Dumb, very dumb. I hope it worked out okay.



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185,128 Love your enemy.



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185,127 When people are hurt they do and say crazy things that they would never do or say otherwise. Make a person feel fragile, vulnerable, or cornered and they will lash out like a wild animal in order to protect themselves from further harm. Perhaps pain does permanently alter someone. Lies alter people. Being used alters people. Having your good will abused repeatedly alters people. Having all of these things done to you (whether conscientiously or not) by someone you loved, trusted, and respected alters people. The line between love and hate is so very fragile. At the end of the day, though, we are all only human. We all make mistakes and hurt one another. When you throw honest communication out of the window, you get chaos, hurt feelings, damaged relationships, and discord.

At the end of the day, there are three sides to the story--your side, my side, and the truth.



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185,126 You really do find out people's true colors when things fall apart, or when crisis hits.

Always amazed at how poorly people I thought I knew behave.

You can tell the quality of a heart by how they treat those who they have disagreement with or how they treat people can no longer help them.



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185,125 Truth is I never found you attractive. I always kinda cringed when you sent me selfies. You do not make good pics. Some people just aren't photogenic. You're one of those. Plus when you smile big your crows feet are so bad they are all the viewer of the picture sees. You also don't have a nice smile. So basically I was with you for sex, money, and the fact you worshipped me.

So learn this lesson. When you post pics of you and your new fat girlfriend, you're not making me jealous. I still kinda cringe at your smile.



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185,124 #122 I'm guilty of what you say. When a woman was nice to me I took it as her being open to the idea of sex. I'd push it. Sometimes I was right. Several times I had sex with a girlfriend's friends. But other times, oh boy, was I wrong. I still shake my head in shameful embarrassment. I was dating a woman. I met her boss. The boss was nice. A few days later I contacted the boss and came on to her. Like what a crazy thing to do. I CAME ON TO MY GIRLFRIEND'S BOSS! Of course the boss didn't take kindly to the idea. Nor did my girlfriend. She dumped me. I can't blame her. I was such an ass. I now err the other way. When a woman is nice to me, I'm all smiles, but that's where it ends. I learned my lesson.



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185,123 That's the crazy thing. Guys 40 and up want a 25 year old, but guys in their 30's like women in their 30's/40's too.  Some guys in their 40's, it's because NOW they wanna settle down and want a woman to have their kids.  They played around and now they can't fuck as much or they're tired, or not getting the same feedback. Or the midlife crisis thing, youth slipping away so get a young girl. And bitterness. Younger guys, they're more open.Some of them are looking just to fuck too, but some of them are genuinely open because they haven't been screwed over too much yet.  Crazy world...



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185,122 Guys, just because a woman is nice to you or helpful in some way DOES NOT mean that she necessarily wants to have sex with you. Why do so many of you seem to think this way? Honestly?



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185,121 When my divorce was progressing, my wife also made the pronouncement how she would have no problem finding a new husband. She spent her time getting fit. She wasn't overweight, but she'd go to the gym everyday to get buff and meet guys I suppose. She was trying to jigger it so she could hit the ground running when the divorce was final. She'd have a bucket full of interested guys to choose from.

It didn't work. She's still single. I'm sure she slutted about for a while, but no new husband got on his knees to propose. She forgot something important. The reason I divorced her. I wasn't leaving because she wasn't perfectly sculpted. I left because she had a very bad personality. It was annoying and frustrating to be with her. She wouldn't accept it though. She thought all she had to do was bait the hook with her physical body and some naive guy would fall for it.

Older guys, and I mean guys over 40, aren't so dumb. They've seen users before. They were on to her game. Nice body, bad person. They might lead her on for a quick screw. But then they don't call back.

Dude, very shitty for your wife to dangle the threat that she could find a new husband. Hang in there. She's going to find it isn't so easy. Your wife sounds damaged. It will work against her. Also, older guys aren't interested in finding a 40 something woman. They want a 25 year old. Your wife is kidding herself if she thinks finding a new husband will be easy.



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185,120 185111- Newsflash!! she can line men up from here to the moon that wanna fuck her a few times and toss her to the curb. How many of them wanna pay her bills and put up with her shit? Not very many I assure you. Put her ass on the curb and let her learn this hard lesson herself, when she comes back she will be a little nicer.



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185,119 I had a dream about you. We hung out in NY/NY. We were just chilling going around town and meeting people. We laughed a a lot, we talked, we danced. It was a wonderful night.

I miss you, or at least who you used to be.

I hope your life is going well.



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185,118 Last night I started having hot flashes. I freaked out that maybe I was starting menopause right then and there. I realized I actually know very little about it. We didn't learn about it in school. I googled it. It turns out menopause usually happens around age 51 but hot flashes can start up to 10 years before that. I'm 38 so I'm sure it's not unheard of at my age. But when I woke up this morning, I had a stomach ache and a cough. I'm not starting menopause, I've just caught some sort of bug.

I have never been so happy to be sick!



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185,117 You were the best teacher I ever had, and the way I lied to you is something I'll never forgive myself for. I just hope you know how incredibly sorry I am, and that I still think about you and our conversations all the time. They've helped me become the person I am today.

You're the best Miss L., and I miss you so.

Thank you.



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185,116 Denise's mother told her, "Wach out for Jews, they have fast hands."  I might have had fast hands, but I had faster orgasms.



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185,115 You know, it's funny how when I was younger, my brother and father felt perfectly fine treating me like garbage, and yet now they try to depend on me for things. Not big things, but it appalls me they'd continuously ask me for favors.

An example: My father never bothered to move us out of our 2br apt, which means even during puberty and adolescence I shared a room with my brother. Nevermind that that's against the law and inappropriate. My brother was older, so when we were getting ready in the morning, he would move back and forth between our room and the bathroom getting ready regardless of me. If i tried to close the doors to get dressed or brush my teeth, he would bang on it and demand I open it, loud enough that my father would get annoyed and tell us to figure it out because he didn't want to deal with an argument. So, I had to get dressed in a corner behind the door, where it, the wall, and our bunk bed made a small triangle of space. That's where i got dressed every morning throughout elementary and high school, until i stood up for myself. If he ended up barging in anyway, he would groan and complain loudly about how disgusting my body was. That's just one situation.

Last week, my brother texted me asking me to talk to my sister about getting our home videos back. She lives out of state, and neither he nor my father has a good relationship with her, completely by their own hands. They wanted me to ask her for them, so they wouldn't have to talk to her. I said no.

I resent them heavily for treating me the way they did when I was little. It taught me that me and my needs come last, and that was the natural order. It's worse because when I've tried to talk to either of them about it, they tell me to get over it because it's in the past. Well, it's not so much in the past when it still colors my behavior to this day. And I'm allowed to be mad, because it took me so long to realize that I deserve more than the scraps people are willing to toss me, and that applies to lots of areas in my life. And it's come up many times that I was allowing myself to be mistreated, because it was natural to me even in adulthood.

So fuck y'all.



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185,114 I always wake up horny



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185,113 A wife (or husband) who makes an implied threat of replacing their spouse has already checked out emotionally from the marriage.  Why waste years staying with someone who is staying with you under sufferance?  It's time to call your wife's bluff on her threat.



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185,112 Uppity people like my peers love to mock so called trailer trash fat people from middle america. But I tell you, those people have the rest of us beat. They have sex all the time. Not just sex, but group sex, wife sharing, sodomy, bestiality, exhibitionism. They're salt of the earth. They know how to enjoy life to the max. Wish I knew some people like that. No pretense. They work hard, they play hard. I get tired of all the pretense around here. Everyone trying to outspend everyone else, while being so uptight all the time. Get me out of here. I'd rather be with the good people from middle america.

- A guy living in a wealthy town, but wishes he wasn't



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185,111 My wife tells me I better watch myself because she could easily find a new husband.

Who says something like that to a spouse? How rotten.



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185,110 30 years ago today I made the biggest mistake of my life...



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185,109 This is how f'ed up my workplace is. Last Thursday I got sick about an hour and a half after starting my shift. And when I say sick I don't mean I had the sniffles--I was vomiting and having chills. So my boss and my boss's boss told me to go home.

I ended up in the ER that night because I couldn't stop throwing up. Turns out I had a 100 degree fever and a kidney infection. They pumped me full of antibiotics and fluids and antinausea medication. Once I stopped vomiting they said they wouldn't need to have me stay there that night, and sent me home.

Needless to say I was not in any shape to go to work on Friday, so I called in and told my boss what had happened. He said to stay home and we would sort it out later.

Over the weekend I started feeling better, and today (Monday) I was well enough to go in.

First thing when I get there, my boss hands me a piece of paper and says, "This is your notice that you've been docked one attendance point for missing work."

OK, what?? I was SICK, YOU sent me home, and now you're docking me for it? It wasn't like I was foofing off work, I was THROWING UP!! Do you think I gave myself a kidney infection just to get some time off??

What a fucked up cesspool of idiocy this place is. I'm out of here the second I get a decent offer somewhere else.



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185,108 A "disgustingly fat" person can always lose the weight, but a cold heart and a hideous personality never go away. In fact, the older you get the more your true nature begins to show in your face. You can't hide ugly forever.



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185,107 I'm sorry, darling, but you are not plus size. You are fat. Disgustingly fat.



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185,106 Facebook, fix your fucking bugs.



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185,105 You told your girlfriend the reason you had a baby with me was "to make me a better man." ?? Not only is that flat out stupid and a lie, it's makes you look like a delusional co-dependent control freak.



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185,104 I'm not going to post any pictures of myself online until I've reached my goal, but at the rate I'm going I should be there by early summer. I made a lot of excuses for a long time, but in truth I was just too unmotivated, sad, and lazy to lose weight. Most people don't have thyroid problems. "Big bones" are a myth. What you have are emotional issues that you try to suppress with food and/or booze, and you end up wearing them instead. You have to get fed up, and even if you have a bad day where you relapse into bad habits, you have to keep going. I look at old pictures and I know that girl is still in there, maybe even a better version. You are worth saving, and the only one who can do it is you. Very, very few people were born to be heavy. Some of us just have to try harder,  but don't give up trying. Reach your goals. You know who you are inside. If what you see in the mirror doesn't match up, keep going until it does.



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185,103 There are many types of cakes, but a cookie is not a cake. A brownie is not a cake.
There are many different types of oak trees. On some level, they are all trees.
There are people who are hired to do the wrong job. Hiring a tree trimmer to do your mom's taxes doesn't make him an accountant.
It shouldn't be a secret, but you should hire an accountant or tax professional to do your taxes.
Don't be shocked when the smart siblings are outraged that a tree trimmer was errantly hired to do your mom's taxes.



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185,102 Trump donated his first presidential paycheck to the National Parks Service, and the liberals are complaining, saying it is a publicity stint.

You think that's what happened? You think Trump needs to give away money to get more publicity? Trump could sneeze and there would be a story about it.

I think liberals are dishonest and ungrateful people. Trump just gave them almost $100 grand and they are unhappy.



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185,101 I got married on a Saturday morning. At 5ᛆ pm the evening before, I stopped by Macy's to buy a cheap suit. It shows how little I cared about getting married. The suit didn't even fit right, but there was no time to do any alterations. No matter. When I proposed a year earlier I was into the idea. But in the year long lead up to the wedding, my fiancee was so unkind to me that I lost interest. By the time I realize what a shrew she was, it was too late to back out. I had paid for the wedding and couldn't cancel without losing $20,000. I got married and hated every second of it. Within a year it was over. I've heard women change when they get married. I'll modify that idea. Women change when they get engaged. They figure they no longer have to behave nicely if they have the ring.



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185,100 I return the sentiments to you. On top of that, you are greatly missed, but that is reality now.



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