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187,399 Male, 53 here.  I don't see the attraction of a girl in their 20's or 30's.  I have nothing in common with them.  Give me a real women in her 40's and 50's any day.  They've been there and most know what they want.



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187,398 Men in their 40s and beyond have been shaped by our modern overly sexualized culture to be entitled perverts. They all believe they deserve someone young enough to be their daughter or granddaughter. I guess it suits their intellectual and emotional level of maturity  pretty well to have sex with children. You all look pathetic being unable to handle a real woman. The young women who get trolled by you find you pathetic as well, but they like the attention, that is until they find something better...and less worn out and crusty.



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187,397 There's this weird thing I've noticed. Men in their 40s talking about women in their 40s in a spiteful way. If a woman looks great and has a good personality, what difference does it make that she's in her 40s? It's like when men get to that age, they're vindictive and it thrills them to speak bad of women their own age. Like, if someone says "so and so looks amazing" the guy will say "yea but she's like 42." Who cares? It's like they enjoy saying basically she will never be as hot as a 24 year old. Why do they enjoy this though? It's like when men and women are that age there's this competition or something. I've even heard men in their 50s and 60s talk like that. It's really confusing.



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187,396 386 I feel ya brother, been there. Find TAM it will help.



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187,395 394. it's a parent being a parent. It never lets go.

when I used to visit my parents my mother would ask me every morning if I was warm enough last night. "Mom, I'm 50 years old I know how to get a blanket in the middle of the night."

One day he will be gone and you will miss that.



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187,394 I'm still feeling murderous towards the titless home wrecker. That fucking cunt. I guess she has nothing left now really except her career. But maybe that'll change... LBeast and GChild, do your worst.



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187,393 I hate when my dad talks to me like I'm stupid. It doesn't make sense. I'm an intelligent woman. I'm visiting for a couple of weeks and it's driving me crazy. The other day I was washing the dogs and he came in and told me to make sure I rinse the shampoo out of their coats completely, like this was a step in the process I might not have been aware of. Really?? I thought I'd just leave it in for some extra shine. *eye roll* My dad used to do this thing where he'd say something awful to me that he knew would hurt and upset me, and when it did indeed upset me, he'd tell me to stop being "psycho" or "emotional." I love him, but sometimes I really don't like him. I'm glad I'm an adult and don't live there anymore. I feel bad for my mom having to deal with him. He doesn't respect women.



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187,392 When I have panic attack I count things as a way to distract myself. If I'm outside I'll quickly grab a handful of grass and count each piece. If I'm inside I'll grab a book and  count each letter "e" on the page. It works for me. Good luck to anyone who suffers from panic attacks. I know how awful they can be.



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187,391 I HATE when my hub turns off his phone. I can't track him. I think it's proof he's up to something.



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187,390 You want to shut down a complete narcissist in their tracks? Give them a flat, non-reactionary response. Be polite, thank them for their thoughts, and immediately disengage. Nothing pisses these people off more than losing an audience. Whatever you do, don't go back for seconds. Let them stew. Let them speculate. Let them boil over with rage. Then, once the responses and phone calls start streaming in, put your phone on silent, pop a bag of popcorn, and enjoy the fireworks. Wind 'em up and watch 'em go.

It took me over twenty years to perfect this method. I learned from dealing with my own father and, later, from dealing with the general public on a regular basis. Stop reacting, put them out of your life, and be nice. The nice part just kills them. They WANT a reaction. The minute you give it to them, it's game over.



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187,389 some secrets make me so sad. it shows how rotten some people are. it's unfair. there are good people out there too, but we get lost in all the drama.



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187,388 It's sad to see that you've committed your life to being a full-blown addict now. I guess throwing away everything you had wasn't enough. How can you call yourself a follower of God? You are disgusting.



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187,387 For the life of me I'll never understand why people put signs in their homes that say "home".



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187,386 I just love it when my girlfriend squirts all over the place when we get it on!



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187,385 I'm distraught. Complicated story. My wife was a big time corporate sales person. In that roll, every month she'd jet off for a few days to visit with clients in person. She did this before we were married as well as for a few years after we were married. Eventually she quit to have kids.

Now it is three years later. My wife decided to take a mini-vacation with her sister for a weekend, leaving me home with our daughter. To that end, she pulled out her leather overnight bag, the one she used for her business trips. It hasn't been used in years.

I helped her pack, and as part of that, I unzipped all the little side pockets of her bag, pulling out old receipts, some coins, and........... and a condom.

A condom?

My wife immediately said it was from before she met me. I pointed out that the bag was a wedding present from her sister. She couldn't have been using it before we were married.

She then tried to claim it must have been one of my condoms. Pretty dumb thing for her to claim. I don't have condoms. My wife and I have never ever used a condom. She is on birth control. We have no need for condoms. The only reason for her to use a condom would be to stop from getting an STD. That wouldn't come from me. It must have been someone else. I have never gone away with her anywhere when she used that leather bag. That was her business overnight bag. She used it solely for her business trips. Nothing of mine would ever be in that bag.

And that's where we are. It's a "mystery". That's what she says. To me it is no mystery at all. It's clear what happened and it eats me up. But she won't tell the truth about it, which I'm finding out is even worse.



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187,384 I learned years ago that the only sure-fire way to attract beautiful women to me was to go out wearing a wedding ring.

I could go to a bar any night of the week, without jewelry, and I could barely get a woman to talk to me if I bought her drinks and tried to be charming. Nada, zero, zilch, no luck getting a dance, a date, or a one night stand.

Do the exact same thing with a ring on my finger and staring into my drink? BAM. Instant attention. Women bought me drinks to console me because my (imaginary) wife was cheating on me. Oh, the revenge they helped me take. It was amazing.

The only time it bothered me was once I got married. Shit. Now what do I do? Ring on or off? Who would see? I quit clubbing and never went to a bar without people my wife knew.

I researched this too. People want what they can't have. The ring said I was taken, so now it was like some women took that as a challenge. They thought I was a good enough guy to land a woman, so they had to prove they were sexy enough to make me break my vows.

I never felt so good about being such a manipulative asshat.



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187,383 I'm an online troll. I'm a shit-stirrer. I'm an agitator. I make people so mad, they stomp away from the internet and curse me.

I'm a productive member of society. I'm polite, I'm funny, I'm smart, and I contribute knowledge and art to the rest of the world.

How can I be both? It makes me laugh that I'm also paranoid about mixing up my screen names. In one web browser, I am a quiet older guy that ignores politics, current events, and social media. In the other browser, my IP address is masked to make me look to be 1000km away. I'm a younger guy that likes to poke holes in people's beliefs by using logic and science. I make them look stupid for spouting the 'religion' of their political leanings without thinking for themselves.

In the first browser, I sigh and roll my eyes. In the second browser, I chuckle at ignorance, then LOL at the rage the liberal fanatics throw at me. I preach calmness and the art of ignoring, then I preach the art of resistance and self-rule / self-reliance.

No one has ever connected those two personalities. It makes me laugh. A lot.



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187,382 7380.  Your post is heartbreaking.  I hope your wife wakes up to what she has soon....otherwise you do need to leave.....  Hugs..



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187,381 a girl from my church is coming over to my house to let me fuck her. precum is dripping  out while i wait for her. yey.



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187,380 I love cheesecake. More than anything.



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187,379 I asked my wife to get a job. That's not strong enough wording. I begged my wife to get a job. She put it off for years, but finally she caved in. She got a job returning books to the shelves in the library. She started work on a Monday. That evening she sent an email to her new boss asking if she could have Tuesday off because some of her friends were heading to the beach....

My jaw dropped when my wife told me. She couldn't even make it to the second day of work. A direct quote from my wife, "Working ruins the whole day."

Um, yes, that's how working works.

Her boss at the library, being very kind, actually gave my wife the Tuesday off.... It took two weeks, but the boss arranged to hire someone else, then my wife was fired.

I can only shake my head at the way my wife behaves and what a fool I was for marrying her.



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187,378 I just want my wife to love me and talk to me and be my friend. Instead what I get is a woman who constantly complains that her friend joined a country club, or her sister bought a new car, or our yard needs to be mowed.

I'm sorry life didn't work out as she planned and that she is not actually a Disney Princess. But she needs to either come to grips with the reality that we are just ordinary people doing the best we can, or I need to leave.



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187,377 I am sick of my friends confessing there huge problems to me, relying so heavily on me, and leaving me with no one to offload to. Their is so much unhappiness and selfishness in this world. I can't be everyone's shoulder to cry on. They r wearing me down.



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187,376 I had to stop wearing my wedding ring because it started to irritate my finger.  My wife doesn't wear her rings, either.  They're together in a small box in our bedroom.

That being said, I can tell who the older single women are by they way they act around me and look at me as I walk by them.  It's especially true if I'm standing in the checkout line at the store.



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187,375 Yes, you're very attractive.  But you're 31 years old and a single mom.  Stop acting like you're 18 and you just might find yourself doing something other than cleaning hotel rooms for a living.



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187,374 I had to get my wedding ring fixed, dropped it off the other day and went about my business for the next two days ringless...it was amazing how many women smiled at me and stopped to chat as I was out and about.
Nice to know I still have it at 50



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187,373 I read this Letter to an advice columnist where this woman claimed to be 44 years old.  She said her problem was that she was getting hit on by men constantly and didn't know how to turn them down.  Everywhere she went, men hit on her.

What a bunch of bullshit.

No 44-year old woman isn't going to know how to turn down a man.  If she's that attractive, then she's going to have extensive knowledge in how to turn down a guy.

No 44-year old woman isn't going to be flattered when a man hits on her.  I'm supposed to believe that somehow she's not being out-competed for men by women who are 20 years younger than she is?

And how does a 44-year old woman not know the simple act of wearing a ring on her left ring finger?  When I was 18 I knew single women my age who wore rings on their left ring finger to indicate they were in a relationship.  It was a strategy to keep unwanted advances away.  When I was 30, single women started moving the rings to their pinky or middle finger.  Or they moved their rings to their right hand.  They kept their left ring finger bare to specifically tell men that they were available.  And why?  Because they were older and weren't being hit on as much.

The letter writer was probably just another woman who thinks that every guy who talks to them is hitting on them.  That's probably why she's 44 years old and single, because she's crazy.



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187,372 I feel like cheesecake too :)



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187,371 I love my children with every ounce inside me. Almost Everything I do is for them, or with them in mind. That being said, I wonder what life would be like if I'd had chosen never to have kids. I'd have more money for sure. I believe I'd dress better and have nicer things for myself, because as of now, my kids are the ones who dress nice and have the expensive things. For instance, I took my 11 year old to the nail shop and got her a pedicure and a set of acrylics which cost over $70, just because I wanted her to have pretty nails for our beach vacation. I got nothing, because I couldn't afford for both of us to get pretty nails. That's just one example of how I put them before myself.  I wouldn't trade motherhood for anything, I just wonder sometimes what it'd be like not to have kids.



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187,370 Not good to hear :(

I hope you're okay.

Is it bad I feel like cheesecake :)



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187,369 HACKER ALERT!!! I just made good grades with the help of a ethical hacker a course mate introduced me to, He has been making use of this hacker in fixing his grades since he got into college and there hasnt been a trace from the school. And now this same hacker has proven himself to be one of the best at what he does by helping me fix my college grades at a reasonable price within just 27hours.  Isn't that amazing?, You all looking to hire a serious hacker should go ahead and reach him via his email address at spystealth.org AT gmail DOT com. Your minds will be blown by his hacking skills.



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187,368 Back to fighting about TV.



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187,367 A friend of mine was told anonymously that his wife had cheated on him not once but twice in the past year.  Which sucks for him and his kids.
But instead of blaming and holding his wife accountable his is fixated on blaming the person who told him.  Let it go and move on



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187,366 I remember hearing about an incident where a woman was kidnapped and the kidnapper made her write a letter to her family saying that she was fine, she had checked herself into rehab and they should not come looking for her. I think if that ever happened to me, I would write the letter but add a whole bunch of spelling, grammar and punctuation errors. That way anybody that knows me would know that something was very wrong.



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187,365 Somebody got butt fucked by a bitch ;)
Your girl do you over?
That's definitely a good reason to hate on people based on what's between their legs. People now a days are awful for a lot of various reasons, and I'll assure you that none of the things that truly makes these indecent humans are their genitalia, or color of skin.



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187,364 363 – Please post a follow-up of what ensues after the dinner.



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187,363 When I was 24 at my younger brother's wedding I ended up with the brides Aunt for the night.  She was 44 at the time , divorced,  and one of those skinny to the point of being malnourished liberal arts professor types.  This was long before the shave craze. She had a mass of pubic hair that amazed me and was a dynamo in bed.  She was slightly asthmatic and what I recall the most of the night is her wheezing in my ear. That was 20 years ago or so.

I still see her every now and again. She always gives me an extra hard squeeze or other type of a signal that says “I remember”



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187,362 I posted the other day about how my wife said all her friends and family hate me.

My wife received an invitation this morning for the two of us to join another few couples for dinner tonight. I told my wife I can't go seeing how she says they don't like me. I told her she should just go it alone seeing that I must be an embarrassment to her. Three couples and my wife tagging along because she says mean things about her own husband...

I went one step further. I sent an email to her friend who organized tonight's dinner. I apologized for not being able to come. I pointed out she was very kind to invite me. I then went on to explain what my wife said, that no one likes me, so it's best if I don't come.

That should certainly give them all something to talk about at dinner tonight.



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187,361 Panic attacks ruined my life. I use to perform on stage. But during a performance a panic set in and I was frozen in place. I couldn't remember my lines or what to do. The stage manager had to come out and interrupt the show to ask if I was okay. I've never tried out for a show again because what if it happens again?



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187,360 I can hear my neighbor farting in his backyard. I hate living in suburbia.



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187,359 Pro tip: Having a girlfriend is not worth it. Modern day women are total trash. Good luck dumpster diving.

Selfish cunts. All of em. Get real dudes. These bitches don't love you. Women don't understand honor, code, or principal. They are  stupid selfish bitches. We don't give them important jobs for a reason. Sexism is real and women are the fucking worst. Worst!!! Not even a fair comparison to put them on the same level of our men. OUR men. Who have died to give you everything. Ungrateful cunts.



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187,358 In looking back, as an awkward teenage boy with no father figure, the only men who showed an interest in me had an ulterior motive. They were gay and wanted me to suck their dick. I think "the village" failed me.



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187,357 Here's a bit of advice to anyone who suffers from depression. I learned this when I was a teenager and didn't know which way was up because I was so sad. It won't heal your pain, but I have found that it is an effective way to distract oneself and get some relief.

Whenever you're feeling down, pick something to read that interests you. It can be a book, a magazine, a special website, whatever you like. Let your mind be consumed with learning. It might seem pointless at first, but it will help. I know from my bouts with depression that any kind of help is beneficial. Plus, you have taken a negative and turned it into a helluva positive.

I was able to teach myself so much during these periods of depression that it turned into a career. I am now a successful and accomplished professional. I still deal with depression, and it can be crippling at times, but I have a healthy and purposeful way to cope.

I hope that advice can be put to good use by someone here!



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187,356 My wife is at a wedding without me. I'm terrified she will find a guy and fuck him in her hotel room. Nothing I can do about it except worry.



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187,355 I detest the Mets with every iota of my body, but I have to admit that Jacob deGrom is fucking hot. That Geico commercial with him sends me crawling up the walls. Those eyes! His wife is one lucky lady.



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187,354 No matter how hard it gets, I love my soul family. They try me and test me and frustrate me and anger me, but they make me learn and grow. Thank you for that, soulmates. <3



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187,353 When my wife is home she can't be bothered giving my any attention.  The minute she leaves for more than a few hours, she texts me how much she misses me...
It's almost like she knows I'm glad she travels and that I really don't miss her when she is gone



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187,352 I'm sick of an older relative of mine taking digs at my weight even though he himself is obese. I'm sick of his racism and saying awful things about people who are different, and I'm sick of everyone making excuses for the shitty things he says. It makes me resentful and not want to come around anymore. I'm sick of seeing a lifetime of insecurity written all over my mom's face despite her attempts to dismiss it and laugh it off when he makes a remark about her appearance. I can't take it anymore. I'm done being respectful. Some behavior needs to be stood up against and I'm sick of being nice for the sake of not upsetting others. You can only push people so far before they snap!

Old people just think they can say whatever they want because they're old and by that virtue alone deserve automatic respect and for everyone to kiss their ass. I'm so close to blowing up and putting him in his place. I don't give a fuck if I'm 29 and he's 76. You're a fucking adult. Use some of those manners that you complain young people don't have (probably because you've insulted and belittled us to our limit) and show some basic human decency to someone other than yourself.



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187,351 I'm one of those people who have the "discernment" gift mentioned on here earlier.  Maybe it's one of the reasons I come to this site, because I think these secrets give me some insight into what people might be "actually" be thinking when I see their faces.

Anyway, there's a young woman who works across the hall from me in another company.  She's about 22 years old, and rather attractive.  I don't talk to her and rarely make eye contact because work isn't the place for that.  But when I first looked at her, the bells went off in my head.  I could tell she's very sexually uninhibited.  It's like she's looking for guys to fuck.  I've noticed her glancing at me a few times, too, which only reinforces what I can tell by looking at her.

So today I'm sitting in my office, bored, and see her pass and kind of give that little glance that says she knows I'm here.  I get curious because I have nothing better to do, so I look up her company and find out her name.  I feel a little creepy doing this, but the feeling I get from her is intense.  I need to know if I'm right about her.  I google her name and get a few hits.

First, I check Facebook.  Yep, there she is in half shirts with her tits hanging out in places she shouldn't be dressed like that.  My discernment was right again.  

I decide to hang it up and stop being creepy, but she has a YouTube channel, too.  I probably won't find much, but I check it out.  There's a few liked videos, no biggie.  But she has one video that she herself posted where she's being videoed while she's sleeping.

I watch the video.  It's taken by her brother.  It's sibling stuff.  He's trying to do things to her face while she's sleeping, to see how much he can get away with before she wakes up.  Anybody with siblings has done this.  No big deal.

But then... he takes the tip of his finger... and inserts it into her nose a little.  Not far into it, but still.  And then he does it with his thumb a little.  She wakes up, slaps his hand, and then laughs a bit about it.

Now I feel disturbed.  There's a line that was crossed there.  This brother used a part of his body to enter a part of his sister's body, and without regard to the crud that's inside that body part.  He did it while she was sleeping.  And then they both laughed about it.  There is so much wrong there.

Is this how incestual siblings joke around with each other?



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187,350 I said "Fuck it" and called in sick from work today. I have a bottle of Vicodin and a bag of weed. I'm going to get loaded, watch movies and eat junk food all weekend long l. Sometimes, life is really good!



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187,349 I don't regret my son being born, but I do feel a sense of guilt that I brought such a beautiful, pure soul into this ugly piece of shit world.



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187,348 I'd love to think he would be capable of change. He would have to face demons and admit he had a problem. Don't think that's possible in this case. Been going on for far too long.



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187,347 Hannah L., I used to love jerking off to your pics.  You were an attractive, sexual, lusty college redhead who never shied away from taking pics with your big tits prominently there.  You would tell me about how you would fuck guys arched over backwards with your hands on the floor.  Not even porn stars do that because of the liability issues.  You even got better looking as you got older

But then you started spouting off these angry posts about white people (funny, because you're white), men, Christians, and everything else on the Leftist agenda.  It's like you got indoctrinated.  You became "angry."  

It's funny how a person's attitude can make them unsexy.



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187,346 Some guy who made a GIF of Trump's beating up another guy with the CNN logo superimposed over his face.  

It was one of the dumbest and worst-made GIFs I've ever seen.  It was something to be ignored.

But what did CNN do?  In an apparent effort to "send a message" to people, they threatened to expose who this guy was.  This, they believed, would stop people from making these GIFs that insult them.

The end result?  Well, it's the internet, so what do you think happened?

Yep, there are now HUNDREDS of these GIFs being made.  Now they're all over the internet.  CNN looks like a bully, on top of all the other integrity issues they've had for the last year.  CNN looks like idiots.

I'd be surprised if CNN lasts another 5 years.



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187,345 It may seem inconceivable, but sometimes people who've been a part of the toxic relationship equation will actually turn their lives around and become better people , looking their problems in the face, then make a conscious effort to be much more mindful for the next person.

It doesn't always happen, but it's doable.



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187,344 I'd wish you good luck with your new girlfriend but I can't. I feel bad for her because I know what she's going to have to deal with. Once that glow wears off she's going to get tired of your drunken ways, your foul mouth, and your hoarding. You're NOT boyfriend material. You are self absorbed and you are going to end up an angry old man living in a battered old shack. #sorrynotsorry

Signed,
A survivor



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187,343 You say you are plus size but in reality you are morbidly obese. You are 5' 6" and weigh around 300 pounds. If you don't lose weight now you will probably die before you are 40 years old.



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187,342 I'm already in love with you.  I can wait til you're ready to be in love with me :)  I think my friends think I'm weird for being patient, but I'm not in any rush for us to make this "a thing."  I enjoy my time on my own too :)  In fact it's really important to me right now.  Take your time, dear. I can feel our paths converging in the future like a magnetic pull, but no need for that to happen right now.



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187,341 Plz dca



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187,340 I still cant believe your still ignoring me. 7 and a half years and this. I need all the answers or i can never get out of this misery. I feel like im in prison,and in prison you can only lift weights and get angry. Im sick of being angry. Please release me. Im using old # for now. Please contact me im gonna die



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187,339 I'm 56, make a good living, have two great kids and absolutely zero friends.my wife and I stopped having sex 3 years ago because of her health issues. On Mothers Day, my kids wrote beautiful cards for my wife, one even saying that she is her favorite person in the world (ouch). I got the two store bought cards proclaiming me,The a Best a Dad Ever! Like 50 million other dads did. Not sure what is wrong with me, but it seems to be universally shared by all.



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187,338 My husbands stupidity is draining me. I love him to death but he's just dumb. Dumb to the point where it causes us to not be able to afford FOOD because he can't run his own business with smarts anymore. He expects work to come to him. And he settles for mediocrity every time. OH GOD MSKE THIS SHIT STOP. We have children. Wake up you idiot!!!!



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187,337 In a fit of anger, my wife blurted out that all her friends and her family hate me. They can't stand me. They think I'm the most unlikable person they have ever met.

Okay. Ouch. I'd be lying if I said that doesn't hurt. I'd like to think it is not true, that my wife said it to intentionally be cruel.

But whatever. The question is whether it's possible to continue on in this marriage. Sometimes the genie can't go back in the bottle. She said those words and I'm thinking I will never get past it.

One thing is for sure, I will never attend anything with her friends and family again. How can I? She says they hate me. Okay, everyone should be pleased when I never show up again at a social function.



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187,336 Today I told somebody I am bisexual. Don't laugh but it was my doctor. At least I told somebody.  It felt good yet a little scary at the same time. I've never told anyone before. I might have mentioned it to my husband jokingly but I don't think he took me seriously. I do prefer to have a relationship with a man but women have always turned me on and intrigued me. I sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with a woman. I would never cheat on my husband but if something happened to where we weren't together anymore I would be open to dating a woman if the right lady came along. I have fantasized about having a threesome with my husband and another woman. The thought turns me on immensely but I'm worried it would ruin my marriage. I don't know what to do, so I just keep these fantasies to myself.

38/f/married



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187,335 I'm a Dom, I put an ad on Craigslist a few weeks ago looking for a new sub.  Got a bunch of responses but the one that stuck with me was some poor woman who thought I was her current Dom looking to replace her.
If you don't trust someone not to look for a new sub how do you trust them enough to tie you up, spank you and do other things to you?
Catherine p, I really hope you find a more trust worthy dom



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187,334 I hate that a part of me still loves you even after you ruined our engagement by cheating. I part of me has died inside and I know I will get some of it back but it'll take a long time. I hate you for ruining me but deep down I want you to hug me and tell me it's going to be alright. Fuck me.



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187,333 The funniest thing I've heard about in quite some time: A nun is attacked in church while she's praying. Does Jesus lend a hand? Does God strike the attacker down? Nope. The nun has to flee the church, probably while realizing she wasted her life on a lie. Fortunately she was unhurt.

Religion. What a joke.



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187,332 management at my work right now not showing what team players are !!
God please shine your light on us! You know who we are .....



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187,331 Tonight I was reminded again by my wife that she is in absolute charge of everything that goes on in this house.  My opinion means shit.  I can't ask her to even consider doing something she hasn't decided on her own to do.  Anger pours out of her.



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187,330 I did find new love.  I only wish you peace, love and joy.



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187,329 What a difference a year makes.

I hope that you wrote the secret about finding someone new.  I would be happy for you.



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187,328 Nearly every girl I was friends with in college went through a lesbian phase, trumpeting their gay pride and constantly talking about being gay no matter how boy-crazy they had been in freshman year.  Most of them still ended up liking guys again by graduation, but I still believe they liked girls.  That's fine.

But now, it seems like every time I get on facebook another one has come out as trans, agender, or gender fluid.  To be honest, it's starting to piss me off.  Not because I don't believe in those things, hell no.  I'm married to a transwoman and my best friend is agender and demisexual.  I'm very familiar with those things, and I can see it manifest in a very real way within them.  These are issues they've struggled with their entire lives, things that have tortured them for years, and THAT'S why it really fucking pisses me off that so many people these days just hear about a label and decide that it applies to them.

You think you're a lesbian?  Did you have to deal with awkward sleepovers where everyone asked you which boy you liked and you didn't have an answer?  Did you have to try and quell that strange curiosity about other girls' bodies when you hung out with them and slept right next to them?

You think you're trans, agender, gender fluid?  Did you always feel a pang of hurt, some disturbingly wrong feeling when someone referred to you with pronouns based on your biological sex - before you had even heard "transgender" and other LGBT terms?  Did you find yourself searching for places where that feeling could be validated, where people would call you "she" or games you could play that didn't try to put you in the box of "boy" or "girl"?

If you didn't experience these things - and I mean experience them in EARNEST, to the point where you KNEW something was wrong, not just looking back over your life and realizing that you were kinda uncomfortable or felt a little weird sometimes, when at other times it was perfectly fucking fine - then maybe you should rethink what you're calling yourself.  

Just give it a damn thought before you jump in, because if you're coming out you shouldn't ever have to take it back and change your mind about what you are.  You need to know that shit.  Why?  Because when you take these things lightly and jump around identities like a game of leap frog, you're doing a hell of a lot of damage to the people who are really struggling with these things - to the people whose families aren't as understanding as yours, who are afraid of coming out because of all the baggage you've given to these identities.  Because of all the ammunition you've given to people who don't believe in them.

We have been fighting for YEARS to convince the world that being gay or transgender isn't just some phase or label that you give yourself, it isn't a choice, it's something biologically built into you that you can't change.  So why are the same people who fought for that turning around and acting like you can just be whatever you 'feel like'?  

If you don't stop and realize what you're doing, this whole movement is going to crumble all around you, and the people who can't run away from those identities you so casually slip into and out of are the ones who are going to pay for it.



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187,327 Perviest thing I ever did... I went to a bar by myself and got blitzed out of my mind.  Across the bar from me was this big titty blonde.  I was too shy to say anything, and this other guy chatted her up during the night.  Towards the end of the night he had his hand down her pants.  The bar closed, it's 2 a.m., and I stumble out into the parking lot.  I see the blonde and the guy talking, and they get into their cars and head off in the same direction.  It obvious that they're going to fuck.

But here's the thing - I didn't try to follow them anywhere, because I was too drunk to think about how to do that.  I waited until they were out of sight, and then I hopped into my car and went down the same direction.  I was going to find them and watch them fuck.

But you have to understand - this isn't some little rural road where there's three houses.  There's hundreds of roads and side streets and at least 5,000 houses down the road in the direction they went.  Even if I drove for 10 hours, I wouldn't be able to find the house they went to.  But somehow - and I don't know how I did this - I found exactly where they went within 20 minutes of driving around drunk.  It didn't even strike me as odd that I found the house so quickly.  Both their cars were there.

Now it's 2ᛆ a.m. and I need a place to park after I found the house so my car wouldn't look suspicious on the street.  I went down a block and parked in somebody's driveway.  Then I walked to the house, walked up to a window, and heard some serious fucking going on.  Apparently both the big titty blonde and her roommate had found someone to fuck that night.  I whipped out my cock and started beating off, under the window, listening to them fuck.  Then the guys stumbled out of the front door, and I started looking into their windows.  I saw both girls sitting at their kitchen table, talking.

Then I must have made a noise, because both turned to look at the window I was peering in.  I knew the gig was up, so I bolted back to my car and made my way back home.  On the way back, I saw one of the guy's cars pass by me, like he was going back to the house in a hurry.

That's the only time I've done something like that.  I don't know what got into my head, but I could think pretty clearly even though I was drunk.



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187,326 If I worked at CNN, I'd quit and get a job somewhere else. I'd be so embarrassed to work there.



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187,325 I only masturbated for the first time when I was 22. I guess I'm a slow learner but as a teenager I didn't realize you could make yourself have an orgasm.

-female, 27, making up for lost time :)



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187,324 The world has not seen anything as anal as my husband cleaning our car. He doesn't simply vacuum the interior. He unbolts the seats and removes them from the car. Then he can get to every inch of the carpeting with soapy water and scrub brushes. The car comes out looking like new. I've never known anyone so detailed oriented.



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187,323 I'd like to meet a woman who played with my cum -- touched it with her finger, swirled it around, tasted it --  instead of immediately running into the bathroom to wash it off, like it was the deadly ebola virus.



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187,322 My wife and her mind games should be the subject of a psychology research paper.

For our entire marriage she would do this thing where she denied me sexual activity. It wasn't a 100% refusal of sex. But instead of fooling around twice a week like a normal couple, we'd do it once every six months. She enjoyed frustrating me more than she enjoyed sex. This was her pleasure, to make me suffer by refusing to have sex.

For maximum impact, she didn't have a blanket rule saying no sex. No. She wanted to make it be as damaging as possible, so she'd flirt and hint that sex would be on the menu this evening. Then as the evening came around, she'd deny the sex. She'd dangle the carrot and take it away. This gave her ultimate control.

After a number of years (YEARS!) of her games, and smaller arguments over it along the way, I finally called her out on it big time during one particular conflict. I explained her sex mind games had no effect on me anymore because we had sex so infrequently, and I was played so often, that dangling the carrot and then taking it away was meaningless. I knew she'd take it away. So I didn't put any faith in the idea that sex would happen that evening. Her manipulation had become a failure.

This bothered her. Denying me sex is only fun for her if it hurts me. If it wasn't hurting me, well then she needed a different plan.  She came up with one. A few weeks later she decreed that we will be having sex every Friday night.

It was kind of a brilliant salvage of her manipulation. If she denied me sex on a vague time scheduled, then there wasn't much disappointment for me when it didn't happen. But if instead sex was on the calendar, if it was to be expected at a certain day and time, then it would come across as much more concrete that I missed out on something.

So that was the plan, sex every Friday. But of course the unspoken plan was for her to get mad at me over something trivial exactly so she could cancel sex every Friday.  And that's what happened. For the first half dozen Friday sex romps, there was no sex of course.

We had another argument on the topic. I explained I saw through her plan.

Hemmm, what to do on her part?

She modified her plan. On the very next Friday, she did have sex with me. It was her way of saying, "See! There! I did have sex with you!"

She did this for three Fridays in a row. We had never had sex that often in all the years we were married. She was on a mission to prove to me that I was wrong, that she wasn't playing psych games and manipulating our sex activity so she could be cruel.

And then after she cemented the Friday sex idea in place, she went back to getting mad at me and turning off the sex again. LOL. Just like I knew she would.

She needs to be studied by Psychologists. The research paper: The twisted machinations of the female mind and the need to be angry and deny sex as a way to control the male of the species.



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187,321 I wish some lactating woman would offer me some tit - I would suck that shit down until her nipples bled.



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187,320 God's blessing - when someone new comes along and makes you forget all the pain



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187,319 My sister (the stupid one) had a baby recently. Her 3rd child. Her other two are 6 and 9 years old. While she was pregnant, she had this idea that maybe her older two would like to return to breast feeding after the baby is born and she is nursing. She floats this by me over coffee as casual as can be and I nearly spit my drink out when she said it. "That's fucked up," I told her at the time. But I guess she went ahead and offered her tit to her 6 and 9 year old anyway. They both refused...thankfully. But what the hell kind of thing is that to do to a kid?

My sister is not right in the head and she should not be having kids.



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187,318 #313  At nudist resorts, nobody gives a crap what you look like.  I go a few times a year for a week or more at a time.  Some of the most genuine people I know, clothed or unclothed.

- M 40s 6Ɖ" #380, very average below



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187,317 My new girlfriend...the true love of life...



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187,316 I'm not usually a perverted sort. That said, I was once chilling on my back porch at about midnight. I saw the lights go on in the house behind me. The house is on the next block, but our backyards touch. I could see a woman getting undressed. Of course I looked. She laid down naked on the bed. This was where I got pervy. I moved in closer. I went to the very back of my yard, which was a better view, but not perfect. So I hopped the little fence and inched right up to the bedroom window. It was one of those french double door type windows that went from floor to ceiling with a little metal grill balcony, which was good because even though the balcony only extended a few inches out from the house, it gave some coverage so she wouldn't see me so easily. A man appeared in the bedroom with a towel around his waist. He climbed onto the bed and started going at it with the woman. Hot damn. I was watching them having sex. They did a bunch of shit. He was eating her out. She was blowing him. He did her doggie. She stood on the floor and leaned over the bed while he stood behind her. All great viewing.

Then things turned very bad.

Before I even realized what was happening, he pulled her towards the window right where I was lurking. My brain didn't function. I should have run like hell but didn't put it together fast enough. He pulled the double window doors open and I had no choice but to drop to the ground. I didn't know what else to do. She then leaned on the balcony railing while he pumped her from behind. There I was laying in the dirt, pushed up tight against the house foundation, with the balcony only a foot or so above me. If she had looked down, she would have seen me. Can you imagine the horror for her to discover a stranger just below her while she was getting fucked? Can you imagine my fear of being discovered? And could you imagine what the husband would have done? This is Florida. I think he legally could have shot me at that point. It would have made the news and I would be known as the pervert who died while peeping in a window. Fucking terrifying.

But I lived. They eventually finished and moved away from the window. I got out of there as fast as I could. I've never peeped in their window again or any window for that matter. Lesson learned.



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187,315 I'm the opposite. My husband barters with me over sex. I'll need his help with something - can he drive an hour away and pick something up for me. I'm just asking. I'm not equating it with sex. He makes it a sex thing. He says he'll do it in exchange for something sexually "odd". One of his favorites is he'll want to have sex without either of us taking a shower first. He'll lick my less than clean kitty and backdoor. Hmm. He's an odd one. But okay, he then helps me out and drives the hour. But again, he makes it into a sex thing, not me.



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187,314 You wanted space and I give it to you but you still seems me text messages every other day flirting.   The sex and chemistry is incredible.  We hit on all cylinders.  A game? Perhaps.



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187,313 If my wife offers to have sex, there is always a string attach. It depresses me how she is only ever interested in being physical with me in order to get something in return.



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187,312 I would like to go to a nudist camp, but with my small dick everybody would think I was a fat old lady.   shit shit shit



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187,311 Watching Serena win today was beautiful.  She really has come a long ways since we first started watching her play tennis.  Not only as an athlete, but as a human being.  Watching her talk about her opponent with charm, grace and humility really made me emotional.  

I love how both athletes are not only oposing players but lifelong friends.

Isn't there a greater lesson here?

If Serena were to ever serve a ball to me on the other side of the court I think I would poop my tennis skirt.  How fast are those balls?  120 mph?!!! Yup, I would crap my skirt.



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187,310 Two years ago this weekend my youngest sister died. Drug Overdose.

When she was young great fun to be with. Witty, the gif of gab, a sense of humor and always on athletic teams which she was good at. She could keep the family, all of us, in laughter till our sides hurt. Those were the fun days.

Then about 13 or 14 that slowly turned into meanness, and the gift to say absolute cruel things to anyone in the family when she didn't want to do something, which was most of the time.  The family turned from us all having fun and being a family to nightmares of arguments and fights. All of it centered about Annie.

My older sister and I left after high school for nearby college, but not Annie. She stayed home and made life miserable for my parents. Walking into the house was like walking on egg shells. You could feel the tension  and the need to be careful about what to say so you would not set Annie off. I knew my mother was physically afraid of her.

And then she was gone.  All of us are sorry she passed on, but the truth is no one misses her.



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187,309 You want unwrinkled skin? I'm 60 and I have no wrinkles, no turkey neck. My secret? I was a nerd who stayed inside while other kids were playing. When you went to the beach, I was home programming. In my adult life, I would program through the night and sleep during the day. In the winters, I could go for months without seeing the sun.  Now here I am with no wrinkles because my exposure to the sun was 5% of everyone else's.



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187,308 I love you so much. Just let us repent, forgive, and get on with life. Our time here is short love.



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187,307 Several years ago I was sitting cross-legged on a chair when my little boy asked what was wrong with my leg.  Um....cellulite.

Today, my husband saw me from across the darkened room in my shorts and asked what that bruise on my leg was.  Yeah...still cellulite.

Deadlifts and squats, starting tomorrow.

But for those with turkey neck?  Look up face yoga videos on YouTube and look into the Facia Blaster.  You're welcome.



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187,306 You want your kid to get into an ivy college? Forget studying hard. Play field hockey. Man has the ivy league changed!



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187,305 Deadlifts and squads are killers of cellulite and give you a nice behind regardless of age , you want beautiful long hair ? Try taking biotin, and rub castor oil with vitamin E on your scalp twice a week and watch your hair grow long and thick.



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187,304 I'm trapped in an abusive marriage and am trying so hard to get out. But the mind games try to trip me up so that I fear leaving. Even mundane events are opportunities to be reminded that I'm worthless and pathetic, and that I'm lucky my spouse can stand me.

Tomorrow for instance, he will neglect me all day to work and I'm not allowed to show any emotion about it except enthusiastic compliance without incurring his wrath. Just like every year before, I will spend the 4th of July alone and isolated, until evening comes and he'll show up to see fireworks with coworkers so we can pretend to be the perfect, cuddly, well adjusted upwardly mobile Stepford couple. Image is everything apparently - because he didn't want to do anything at all until they extended the invitation.

I'll have to go alone to the waterfront and see if I can comfort myself on a kayak. While I'm on the water I will contemplate my future - without him. I will be penniless but I will be free, and no longer living a lie.



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187,303 I see these girls on the beach with not one stretch mark, not one speck of cellulite on them.

You kidding me?!!!  If that was me I would be at the nude beach daily.  

I'd lay on my back with my nipples out and proud, all, "How you like me now?!!"

Because at 36, with the turkey neck, stretch marks and cellulite... man what I would give to have that body of theirs!!!  Plus that long beautiful hair too.  

Damn.  Damn.  Damn.  

Back when I had it for 2.2 seconds I was too shy to flaunt it.  Now I would streak waving the American flag up and down my road while everyone was having their 4th of July barbeque if I had that body.

Damn.  Damn.  Damn.  

I think I'm starting to sound kinda pervy - but man, as long as you kids have it... Show it.  I mean the beach is your perfect chance.  If you have long legs with no cellulite, rock those short shorts.  Do it now before it's too late.  And don't apologize for your body.  Own that shit.  Strut.  Cause in a blink you'll be in your thirties with stretch marks and cellulite fighting to get that body back.  Not all of you, but some of you will.  It's a hell of a fight once you start.



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187,302 Talked to the neighbor girl the other day, and by girl I just mean someone younger than me (I am mid fifties).  Our dogs are buds and she came to the door and outside, and she went to pet my dog.  She was wearing a tight t-shirt but when she bent over it was loose and I got to see damn near everything.  When she stood back up, her nipples were rock hard.  She has the biggest natural breasts of any woman I have ever met.

It is the little things in life that make it worth living!



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187,301 I basically won the body jackpot in this lifetime but I have chronic acne on my face. You win some, you lose some.



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187,300 A sense of lonilness overcomes me. I sit here by the harbor, looking at all the families. Laughing, walking, taking pictures and even though they at times don't look all happy go lucky, they are lucky. Lucky to have somebody to cioint on. Somebody to have conversations with. Somebody who worries about them. Somebody to come home too. I choose my life and now I am at a point I think it is time to  go back. Cultivate the relationships and cultivate new relationships. I sit here just in awe looking at everybody. I have a great life but it is time to change gears now. It's time.



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