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187,699 For Thanksgiving weekend last year, my girlfriend took me to her parents' house. While her mom was in the kitchen cooking the turkey, I was is my girlfriend's childhood bedroom fucking her in the ass. Then we went downstairs and had dinner with the entire family. My jizz was still in her butt.



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187,698 He's gonna disappear again. This guy I've been talking to on and off, last time we got close to meeting he disappeared.  Then he reappeared and we were talking again and wanted to meet... Probably fuck too. I haven't heard from him...I think he's hesitating again. Why? He doesn't have a girlfriend, he likes my pics, we talk, so what's up?



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187,697 Stop calling me , I don't know you and I have zero interest in knowing you and learn some manners , people don't call at odd hours unless is an emergency.  Maybe I should writte your number on the bathrooms stalls of a man on a gay bar to give some taste of your own medicine.

PS lose my number.



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187,696 After my friend was murdered, her daughter went to live with her father and his new girlfriend. I am watching her grow up without her on social media now. I feel so sad for her. They changed her name like her mother never existed.



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187,695 Has social media jumped the shark? It's starting to seem lamer and lamer to me. I've stopped doing it entirely, and I don't miss it. Wouldn't be sad to see it go.



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187,694 I am going to ask him out tomorrow



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187,693 What's with guys posting pics of themselves with girls on dating sites?  There were some cute guys on Tinder I would have totally swiped right on, but they have pics with girls in nightclubs, in bathing suits, etc.  I don't wanna see that! They think it shows they're the man but all I see is player.



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187,692 I'm so fucking tired of cell phones that don't work.  I just want a cell phone that fucking works.



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187,691 20 years ago I had a girlfriend who would do something I thought was weird when we were fucking.  She'd rub her pussy while I pounded away on her.  I didn't know what to think of it back then, but now I think it's kind of hot when a woman does that.



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187,690 It's not the journey that scares me, it's that if my intentions aren't pure I will end up in darkness.



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187,689 As a young man, I was fairly prosaic in my approach to sex. I was easily offended.

I met a really cute girl. Venus in blue jean cut-offs.

We were really close for about three months. This one time she was like a crazy beast in bed. I was shocked.

That isn't spank material. I just found it interesting.



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187,688 I agree, young women who were adopted are more willing to have sex.  I guess they have a nagging feeling of abandonment and think sex gives them a connection.



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187,687 I fuckin did it!  I am so happy. I have begged,  pleaded and tried to convince my wife if 31 years to have a life. We graduated our last child in May, off to a top company, we hav four really successful employed kids off doing their own thing. So happy for them, I always here for any help or advice.

My wife is sexy, smart, healthy, we're 55, got money saved, house paid off etc.. I wanna take her and run off into the world and fuck her in every continent, get drunk and fool around, jump in the car and drive, just her and me, like we wer as kids, so fun and without obligations. I wanna stay up late, go to joints we aren't supposed to, see museums, take classes and throw off this fucking cement collar of modern conformity.

Months of begging didn't wrk. Over the weekend I bought a standard shift 2005 Honda Civic. 106,000 miles , 4100 bucks , I packed my shit, threw it in the trunk, told my wife I will be back after Labor Day, I zeroed the odometer, left at 10pm. I am 609 miles from New Jersey now, up the coast in the Canadian maritimes, little towns, cool people, whole world out there,  

I promised her, "warned" her I wasn't  gonna sit around and wait for  grand kids and adopt the the next wardrobe change  of conformity- 'grandpa' she wanted to sit and wait for grandkids..  

Not me .. I'm out, and extend  an open invitation for her  to join me any time

Please excuse any spelling or punctuation errors. I ain't got time for that either- I wrote reports and presentations for thirty fuckin years, ain't sweating it now...



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187,686 Some days I still crave the illusion of certainty.  I thought I had that once, you know, a "forever" person.  That was until a dream told me that was not to be.

I now have someone I'd like that to be, but I know better now. There's another person who wants that with me, but I just can't go there right now, or ever- I guess I have more to learn.

All of this is like an endless loop, playing over and over in my mind except for the days I just let go of it and simply "be".

I'd just like true equanimity and I know that it's simply up to me to fully embrace that.



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187,685 I recently went on three dates a woman who is a lawyer. Not a flamboyant courtroom lawyer, she reads contracts all day and makes sure the the details are correct. She's pleasant enough, but very dull. Conversation feels like she is going through a checklist of items. I had to tell her about my schooling, my work history, my dating history, what I do for exercise, how often I visit family, do I have a good credit history - she really asked about my credit history!

It's like these were all items on an agenda that must be covered in a meeting. I feel like every email she sends me to arrange a date is more like an office memo. She might as well start it with "To Whom It May Concern:".

On the third date, we had sex, but even that felt like it was scheduled:

7ᚨ Cocktails

7ᛆ Dinner

8ᛆ Car service to my apartment.

She actually did arrange for car service. We are in a city filled with cabs. But I figured out that earlier in the day she arranged for car service to pick us up at the restaurant to take us to my my apartment. Like she didn't even know if the date would go well. But she had already arranged for the car service so the next part of our "business meeting" could be conducted in my bedroom. That's what it felt like.

She of course brought a condom and laid it out on my bedside table. She instructed me when to put it on.

I guess I'm no prize. I'm 38 and never married. I'd like to think it's because I enjoy my freedom. A number of woman would have married me if I asked.

But she is 40 and never married. There is a reason. What guy would put up with marrying a robot?



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187,684 I'm so unhappy in my marriage.



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187,683 I miss that friend of mine, the one I used to run off with and drive, thinking, talking about life. They used to think there was more going on because we'd always leave together and come back, all smiles. But that was just us. We'd get real high and enjoy each other's company. Even as years go by, I still hold him close to my heart. My secret guy.

He's not really a secret, but he's never fit in with my other friend groups. There's something we have that's better when we're alone. It's a feeling of mutual respect and appreciation for each other's perspective. Just a really good friend. There are not many people I could wait years for, but he's one.



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187,682 Oh, man.  Some people I know from my church adopted a Vietnamese girl about 10 years ago.  She's now 18 and fucking incredible.  It's a fact that young women who were adopted love to fuck.  I've fucked two of them.  They use sex to feel close to men.  Every babysitter fantasy I've ever had is now coming to fruition.



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187,681 Still not answering me. If i dont hear from you soon im going to release those videos i have of you



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187,680 I don't love you.  I just want to fuck you.



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187,679 You know, hormones are crazy. Love is crazy. Some people think it's this amazing thing, some think it's just shitty, but one thing that's just crazy about it is the decisions we all make to be with the one we love.

I've been with this person on and off for 2 years. We have sex (obviously), we love one another, but we can't be together because he has a family to take care of, and I don't. Mind you, this is his disabled mother and kid brother he takes care of, so it's not like I can just tell him it's not worth it.

Actually, for a long time I did. I said, "Fuck them, you have to live your own life," because that's the decision I made. It's funny, my father and brother live without me now, though that's mostly because they try to play Alpha-male with me when I'm around. That's a whole other merry-go-round.

Since this person I love takes care of his family, he works almost non-stop. He advances his position with the goal of making things easier for all of them. And at this point, I have to respect that.

I was planning on moving in with them to solve the problem. Add my money to the equation, and everything becomes monumentally easier. Rent is easy, food is easy, I fit in with them and they love how I treat my love...except, why would I go back on all I've earned for myself for that? This person doesn't even bother to contact me most of the time, he's so busy. He's very prone to leaving me hanging. He likes to handle his problems alone. So why would I insert myself into his life and space, drop everything, and put his problems on my back?

I wonder, is this what would be seen as a normal sacrifice of love, or a desperate mind trying to make ends meet?



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187,678 My husband's definition of hard work is 4 hours of actually having to do something. That makes him so tired that he has to get 8 hours of sleep EVERY DAY, Wakes up to sit on his phone for another hour (that's his "coffee time", but never reads the news at all"... then two hours to work on his hobby. At this point he's so tired that he needs a nap. Gets depressed as to why all his colleagues are getting more gigs than him, leaves for "work" for the 4 hours at nights. He brings home 400 -500 a week doing this. We're broke and he doesn't see himself "working" any more than he has to because ya know, that's exhausting. Who needs to advance in their job at 49 anyway?
What am I doing? I silently wake up early to exercise, I manage the needs of two kids and a dog, I do dishes, clean, cook, stay up to date on current events, teach my kids manners, laundry, garden, take care of my health,  and of course my hobbies and work comes after all that is done. I had a full time job for years until I got too sick to work a 9-5 ... Sleep? I get 4 hours if I'm lucky. If they paid good wives like CEOs, I'd be a fucking millionaire. This marriage used to be awesome, now I'm seeing what his priorities are after 17 years. Himself. Do I divorce this BS?



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187,677 668- Be aware. He may be having one at this moment. :)



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187,676 I know extremely hot women who I can't masturbate to because they're so dumb.  They're so dumb that it's a turn off.



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187,675 I'm thinking that of all the men in my life, there is not one that makes me wonder if one of them was the "one that got away"
F/61



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187,674 My life is very sweet. I have much to be grateful for... Nagging irritants and I suppose we all have them. Is it normal for stepchildren from another marriage to be parasites?



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187,673 I feel so bloody alone. I manifest shit that affects my children. I'm a hypochondriac. When my kids get sick I freak out. My eldest just had a cat scan. I'm so scared of losing them, to the point of wishing I never had them. I want to hide. I feel like a complete failure. Failure as a mom, a wife, a person. In general, just a failure. I don't feel intelligent, interesting, athletic, healthy, creative, inventive, ambitious. I feel lost & hopelessly alone. And though I'm not old I feel it's too late to try. I see my children growing before my eyes.



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187,672 My dad has spend over 200 k out his own money to put my younger brother and older sister through flight school , pilots hardly make any money it takes them years and working with the right airline to make the big bucks but if you passionate about flying and it's your dream job the sacrifice is well worth it .



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187,671 Today I was at an outdoor market and wound up next to a lady in line for coffee who had been my classmate in high school 20 years ago.
We are the same age. I'm poor, I wear one pair of flip flops all summer, my hair is grey, my clothes are old. I'm struggling to pay my bills.
Her? She didn't even recognize me. Wearing 600.00 Chanel espadrilles shoes, carrying 1,000 worth of fancy shopping bags... with her probably imported French bulldog (because he looked extra expensive ) who was wearing a 328.00 collar. This lady's shoes and dog collar were worth more than what I make a month. I wonder what it's like to just have everything fixed and not falling apart and to not worry about making all the bills.  Sigh. Stay in school kids, or marry rich. Wtf. And if you're one of those rich people reading this, take that disposable income and support your local starving artist.



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187,670 After 5 years I quit taking all my medication cold turkey because none of it was helping anything anyways and I was so frustrated, I didn't care the risks.
You know what happened?
Nothing. After a short come down period, I felt the same as always. The same miserable hopeless terrified racing heart bullshit way.



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187,669 After almost 3 years of seeing him, having a one year old baby by him, cooking lunch for him every week, I feel like he isn't my sugar daddy anymore. I feel like he's the most real relationship I'll ever have.
And that hurts so bad.
If only he were a woman, I'd be okay with it.



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187,668 I'm depressed. It's not a secret.
I'm in a relationship with someone I'm not in love with while the man I do love lives 6,000+ miles away.

I know life is too short, but sometimes people really are too trapped in life to chase what will make them happiest.



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187,667 My husband is too boring to have an affair.



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187,666 Really, the US is thinking of punishing Russia for meddling in the election? When was the trial? I missed that part. Or is that how we now do business, we accuse and punish, no right to a fair trail anymore?



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187,665 Not all of the time, or even most of the time, but every once in a while... I miss being with my ex. He was shitty in the end, but that first year and a half? Amazing sex. Sweet man. Fun and funny. I liked him so much. I think about this when, on rare occasions, my partner decides to be a shit head. I know the grass is definitely NOT greener on my ex's side of the fence. I'd never go back or even think about leaving my current love. But I do get the occasional pang of longing. Even to be friends with the guy would be nice. Too bad I closed that door almost a decade ago.



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187,664 Only someone who is truly suffering would want to make another suffer.



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187,663 i am afraid my partner will drag me down in terms of life/career

i dont know if i should hold onto this relationship because the person is really nice and great otherwise



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187,662 Some relationships are bridges.



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187,661 I wish my life would start going the way I think it should go.
I make all these realistic plans and something always comes along and fucks with them.



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187,660 I get no thrill out of a night on the town. Drinking is boring and it makes my head hurt. Going to the movies is annoying, I hate sitting next to strangers. Fancy dinners are expensive and I'm more of a junk food guy anyway.

But you know what does give me a thrill in the evening? Stalking my ex-girlfriend. I follow her being sure not to be seen. I hover in the background, finding the best nooks and shadows. I strategically change my position so I'm not too obvious. It's a non-stop chess game to think ahead and reason out where she is going. Every now and then I strike pure gold, she brings a guy home. Then it's onto phase two of the operation, looking in her windows and watching her get it on.

People waste their time going out socially to talk about the weather and shit. You want a real thrill, stalk an ex.



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187,659 Don't you think it's ironic how you told the whole city I was a shitbag, yet i introduced you to over half the people you know now. Social vulture.



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187,657 I'm breaking my own heart by staying with someone I'm not in love with.
I was with someone before him, (a long distance lover I spent time with once or twice a year if we were lucky) and he was my first true love.
It's been almost two years, and I still cry every. night.

I was not a good girlfriend, and I knew he deserved better.
I hope he is happy.
I see him sometimes in the posts of his friends in which I met when I visited him, and it makes my heart explode, and I almost feel like I might faint or have a heart attack.



I'm sorry, querido.
I'm so sorry for who I am, and why I ended things the way I did.
I will love you forever.



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187,656 645 I used to be just like you. It is possible to cut her off!! You won't find true peace without it.
Find a support group online for children of narcisstic mothers, and watch your strength grow. There's lots of us out here. Happy and free from wicked cult leaders like them. Do a solid for yourself and get away.



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187,655 It might sound corny but every night before I go to bed I pray  that my kid gets to have a long , healthy happy life.  Everything else like success and money is nice but it's worthless if you are not healthy or are unhappy. On the past decade I seen close people to me losing love ones to terminal diseases like cancer , some of them young . You can have all the money, success or material things you want but they won't buy time , enjoy life , family and friends.



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187,654 I grew up pretty well-off. When I was in my 20s, I broke up with a lot of really good guys I dated because I didn't think they'd do well enough in life to provide me with the kind of lifestyle to which I'd become accustomed. I didn't have the foresight to see that success requires time and work, and eventually they'd be successful. I wanted them to be successful NOW.

I've looked up most of them on Facebook. They proved me wrong. They're married with children and doing well - VERY well. Big homes, luxury cars, boats and trips with their families. Very much enjoying their lives.

I'm also married with children. My husband can't provide me with the kind of lifestyle to which I'd become accustomed growing up. I live in a small house, drive an old car and we can't afford big trips. I'm not enjoying my life :/

(And it's not just the major material things. I haven't even been able to get a haircut or buy myself clothes since last summer. We're not poor, but we live paycheck to paycheck.)



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187,653 My wife wants everything exactly to her liking. In her mind, it's everyone else's responsibility to give her what she wants. I'm tired of it.

A month ago the weather turned hot. As a mean spirited, passive aggressive act, I turned off the switch on the upstairs central air conditioning unit. And then I told my wife the device is broken.

Ha ha. It's steamy up there. My wife is pissed. Doesn't bother me. My wife sent me packing to the guest room years ago. The guest room is on the first floor. Ahh, nice and cool when I climb in bed. But my wife sweats all night.

I told her I called the repair guy and he's waiting for a new part to arrive.... I'm a great liar!

Makes me laugh every time I look at the weather forecast and see how hot it will be!



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187,652 -649   Some of the older antidepressants like Tricyclics and MOI Inhibitors can be effective without the sexual side effects.  I forget some of the specifics (I am a Psychologist, not an MD), but while there may be other side effects, like interactions with stuff in wine and cheese, hey, you might be better off avoiding those and having a good sex life.  Talk to your MD, and there are also GREAT sex therapists that can help a couple find their way back.  You sound motivated, and with a little guidance, are likely to fine your way back to fulfilling marital bliss.



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187,651 52blk/m I have 2 children 4 grands, both parents still living and a Wife.....And I don't have an emotional or intimate connection with any of them.....All I want is Sex because in my twisted mind that's the intimate & emotional connection We All Live for and the Wife is non compliant. I have a decent job but We have about 11 yrs left on the Mortgage. To make matters worse She treats me like a Hack.  I live a boushy life and don't want for nothing. I'd rather struggle with a Woman who Loves and Desires Me with an emotional connection than the Life I Live....FML



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187,650 The only person who was nice to me today was the cashier at the gas station .



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187,649 187649-SSRI do have terrible side effects, can you check with your doctor to see if there is another alternative.? good luck



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187,648 I never should have started on an SSRI. It completely destroyed my libido, and I can't really orgasm anymore. I am married, and I haven't had sex in well over two years. My husband is a great guy, and I make sure to give him weekly blowjobs so he can get by, but I understand that he's frustrated. I'm frustrated too. I even told him that I wouldn't mind if he has sex with someone else, as long as he makes sure they're clean and a decent person. He doesn't want to do that, as he only wants to have sex with me. I'm just getting off of the SSRI right now but I still feel like I would rather do anything in the world instead of having sex. At this point, I think that I've probably forgotten how. Damn my screwed up mind, and damn these stupid fucking meds.



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187,647 vibrate higher. don't let the negative thoughts get you. Fear is a lie. We are here to live. go live.



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187,646 I'm scared to visit my kid.



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187,645 I wonder what happened to her after rehab..



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187,644 If my mom were dead I would miss her.  But mostly I would miss the mom in my head I fantasize her to be.  The loving, nurturing and encouraging mom.  The one who listens, the best friend - the one I turn to when things get hard.

How come my mother was given that kind of mother and all I have is pure evil who hasn't been properly diagnosed.

She's the voice in my head that tells me I never deserve to be loved.  The more shrill the voice gets, the more steadfast I believe the voice.  The less I put myself out there.  The more shrouded in fat I become.  The more I accept the grays.  

The more fearful I become of what type of mother I would be if I were to ever have children.

And the seasons, they go round and round.  

Do I think I would feel relief if she were gone.  Yes.  Immense pain stemming mostly from the immense relief.  Maybe an opportunity to accept myself.  Maybe learn to like myself.  Maybe by the time I die, love myself?  

People say, "oh it's just mothers and their daughters, you know how it is."  

Yeah, you have no fucking idea how it is.  Angelina Jolie in Girl Interrupted is not even close to the mental instability that I was raised with.  I was supposed to be safe.  She was supposed to be safe.  

She's the reason DCF exists.  Only they never found out about her.

Therapy doesn't really scratch the itch.  Sure temporary relief from victim mode.  

At the end of the day, when all is said and done, nothing can replace the need to be loved by your mother.  Nothing.

Some people were not mean to reproduce, some people who were, aren't able to.  It's an unjust world.  

The less of my mother in the picture, the more beautiful I become, the more beautiful the world becomes.  The more of her in the picture, the smaller I become, the more dark the world becomes.  More fear, doubt, insecurity and suicidal thoughts creep back in.  

It's sick.  Therapy never really erased this.  Maybe it's because I still have a relationship with her?  If I were to not have one, she's too powerful, I wouldn't get away with cutting her out.  Her influence in the family is too strong.

So it's just a waiting game mixed with the fantasy of moving so far away.  My own little refugee camp far, far away from her.  

You never know, it could happen.  

Otherwise I need to formulate a way to keep her in my life, while blocking out the sound.  Muting the negativity.  Dulling the laceration in her words.  What is the formula for that?  

It's important because now my own voice in my head is sounding like hers.  Self loathing and evil.  This development shrouds the whole world in darkness and turns everything black.  

How to make the voice in your head, the thoughts more positive.  It's like conquering a ghost you can't see but exists stronger than anything else.  How do you conquer it?  I need a sword, light saber, some nukes... Prayer?  A journal?  Positive affirmations, meditation.  What do I need?

I feel unarmed and vulnerable amidst an enemy's fast approach.  You know, the usual.

John Mayer, mothers should be good to their daughters too, not just fathers.  Sing that one.  Play that song.  Somebody write that twisted lyric.



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187,643 Dutch scientists from Duke University have found that people who overcome depression have better health, a stable psyche and longer life expectancy. They are better adapted to new realities and are able to avoid dangers.



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187,642 Im 27 and want to get married by 32 but I am afraid I wont find a man who fits the basic minimum requirements.



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187,641 When I was in highschool, I knew a girl with Crouzon Syndrome (genetic disorder where your skull fuses together when you're young and can cause many health issues). She had many surgeries as a child and teenager, but always looked weird. I was friends with her brother and every so often she would hang out with us. A few times we would be alone together and she would talk about how kids would bully her so much. That sometimes she wished she was dead. Eventually she was so depressed she went away for a while to an inpatient clinic. She was a nice girl and I felt bad for her. It seemed unfair to me that she had this generic condition and that people made fun about the way she looked. What assholes.

Fast forward 20 years and she married. I'm happy, she seems happy but Even though her condition is genetic with a high risk of passing it on to children, she had two kids who have Crouzon syndrome. They have both had several surgeries. The oldest one had one recently and the surgery went wrong. Not sure what exactly, but how he's in a wheelchair and can't talk. thw whole family is rightly torn apart bu this, bur that is a roak assocaotwd wth brain surgery.

Whenever I look at these children, I wonder what the fuck is wrong with her?? Not because I don't think these kids have a right to life or even that they cant have happy lives but because she was miserable as a child. I heard her talk several times about how she would never have kids because she wouldn't want to pass it on. The constant surgeries she had to fix her issue and then plastic surgeries to try to fix the damage caused by it. The bullying. The stares. How few people actually treated her like a person. That she would adopt. I talked to her well into her 20s and she felt the same way. Now here she is with 2 kids that have the same condition as her.

I think that is the most selfish thing you could do, to have kids when you have a condition that will effect their entire life. It's like playing Russian roulette..... fucking adopt.



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187,640 A few weeks ago I asked my husband for his fantasy, the one he has never told me. So he told me. He would like for 4-5 young men of 20 or so fuck me in a hotel room 2-3 times each over a few hours. He would be there the entire time, just wants to watch.

We are your average upper middle class family and have two kids who are almost that age in high school.  People like us do these things ???   Shit, now I not know what to do.  Since he told me that he is not pressuring me but I know he now wants to try and arrange this.

I was not expecting that and now I wished I never asked.  F/42



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187,639 I know a man who's about 30 and a woman who's 23.  He is a (very nice guy, but) an ugly fucking troll.  She's posed in bikinis for calendars.

The reason they're together is because they both have the same rare chronic health condition.

Yeah, okay, I understand that... but THAT TROLL IS FUCKING THAT GODDESS.



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187,638 If I found out I had only a few days to live - I have a fucking lot of shit I need to delete from this computer. Lots of disks to go through.  Might as well throw everything fucking thing in the trash can.  It'd just be easier.



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187,637 Something I learned in my life is that by the time a person is about 20 years old, if they're still saying they don't want kids, they mean it.  They don't want to have kids.  People that age aren't known for making the best decisions, but that seems to be something that they naturally know about.  Otherwise, if you want kids... wow, they take up a lot of time and they do change your lives for the better, but its a heck of a lot of work.



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187,636 Why did it have to wait for the reckless police killing of a white, foreign woman in Minneapolis for a head to finally roll and for the mayor not to be an apologist for such actions?  Were the deaths of local black men in similar circumstances not already sufficient?

M/W/Australian observing events from Justine Damond's homeland



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187,635 I wish I was straight.

Fuck.



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187,634 I don't want children. BUT sometimes I see a cute kid, and I think I'll eventually have six of them.
Jesus, if you're real, don't allow it, please. I will neglect them. I just know it.
Maybe it has something to do with my father leaving me, and my mother never getting her act together, but I don't think I'm meant to be a parent.


I would absolutely adore adopting a child though.
My mind is messed up.



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187,633 I think it's really pathetic that you label me as the one who is "not a real friend." You only look at other people as a dollar sign or a guaranteed free ride. You only care what others can do for you. You'll never know what real friendship is.



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187,632 Hey R.
We dated for nearly four years.
It's been almost two years since I decided you deserved better after I broke your heart the worst way possible. I've been with someone else for most of the past year and a half, but I'm not in love. Not even a little.
I'm afraid I can't love anyone again.

You own that part of me.
And you know what?


...I want you to have it.
I think you are who it was meant for.
Yours, even if not in this life.

C



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187,631 After 8 years, I asked him if he loved me.  He said 'uh huh' like I'd asked him if he wanted a bag of chips.



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187,630 You named your black and white cat "Oreo". You are so creative!

Not.



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187,629 When I look in people's windows at night I wear a gardener's hat with built in mesh hanging down over my face and neck. Great for keeping the mosquitoes from biting. A must have for a hard core voyeur.



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187,628 At OLP. The dumb band is playing your song. Ha! Good times...



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187,627 My parents ran a small business while I was growing up from around 1970 - 2001. Their philosophy was that people who did not pay their bills were absolute scum. That people who took bankruptcy to avoid paying them for their very hard, physical work were flimflam men. That people who use rough language were not anyone they wanted to hang around with. That women who posed nude were whores. Liars should be thrown in jail. That Bill Clinton was a coward for attending Cambridge instead of signing up for the  draft. That Mohammad Ali was a traitor to America for refusing to serve in Vietnam. Russia is our enemy that reagan should have dropped an atomic bomb on. These two people overlooked every principle they ever had to vote for Donald Trump. I hope they both die before they ever get another chance to vote.



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187,626 I have never had a problem getting laid, not since I was 16. I never stressed about it, I have no problem talking to women and I'm upfront about what I want. Still, I've never had a relationship last more than a few months, usually a few weeks. Is that a fair trade-off?
57yo WM



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187,625 R.I.P. Jason. we were best friends growing up, and then of course a girl made us enemies. Haven't talked to you since your scathing letter to me at age 20.  
I'm sorry we never repaired our friendship.



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187,624 Age is all in the mind .Don't think old -it is only a number.  I go to the gym three times a week .Don't retire of you can help it.I eat healthy,don't drink or smoke and have the same energy as I had 50 years ago.Stay away from doctors .They will push drugs on you and all the side effects will make you ill. When you get Medicare it does not mean you need to be at the doctor's office every week .Stay away and take an aspirin! I get the idea that many of my friends run to the doctor every week now that they get Medicare for free. Exercise and a healthy diet will help you more than a visit to the doctor-he will find something wrong so that you will be back every week!
70 year old male.



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187,623 I'm having pretty consistent sex dreams. Like, at least twice a week where I'm trying to bang the shit out of someone in my dream. I don't really feel that horny when I'm awake but when I'm asleep, the appetite is ravenous.

Okay, maybe it's safe to say I'm sexually frustrated.



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187,622 I didn't feel old until I was 55. Before that I would bound up the stairs and lift heavy furniture and chase after a baseball. But once I turned 55 something changed. I got out of breath so easily. My back ached. I started to forget things. The death decline has begun. M57.



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187,621 If I was hoping that on day on his way home my husband was raped and gutted in the woods and left dead, I don't think I'd be married to him. That's what integrity is about...



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187,620 An acquaintance died of colorectal cancer a little more than a week ago. She was 52. She left behind her husband and two teenagers. She wasn't ready to go... she wanted to grow old with her husband and see her kids become adults. I think, "getting wrinkled" was the least of her concerns.



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187,619 I've noticed that some people age a lot worse than others.  Smoking, drinking hard liquor, and staying out in the sun will age a person 20 years.  It's all fun and cool when you're young, but crap, you'll pay for it later.



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187,618 I was friends with this woman, probably chatted with her too much as we are both married but it seemed harmless.
Recently she got caught cheating on her husband and pointed to me as the guy... husband is pissed, starts stalking me and my wife...says he has verified proof I had been having an affair with his wife.  I'm nop. She is so not my type.  
The fact that she lives 3 hours away doesn't seem to change this guy's mind...which is weird as she got busted for having sex daily on her lunch break and on her way home....
So I went to the police, filed a restraining order and am charging him with violating our states anti stalking/harrasment laws.  I feel bad for the guy but if you think your wife is fucking someone on a daily basis who lives so far away then you are obviously a special type of stupid.
I have a job that requires me to be at my desk pretty much all day every day...derp



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187,617 Do not regret getting old.
It is a privilege denied to many.
- M/70+




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187,615 I knew this girl when we were both 10. We were best friends. She moved away. Just through coincidence, our paths crossed again a few weeks ago. We are now both 56. I haven't seen her in 46 years. She looks so old. Like elderly. Like retirement home material. Funny, I still think of myself as young. It's what I want and need to see in the mirror everyday. I don't see the wrinkles. For vanity reasons, my brain only sees the parts which are not wrinkled. But it hit home seeing my elderly friend. That's how I must look to her, like an old lady. Getting older is depressing.



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187,614 Hey Joe. I was in the Village the other day, walking the streets that we knew so well when we were teenagers, and I thought of you. Things may not have worked out between us, but you're a good guy, and you deserve someone who makes you happy. I hope that you've found her, and that you're doing well for yourself. I deeply appreciate everything that you did for me, and for what your family did as well. You folks were there for me at an important time in my life, and I am thankful for that. I know a blast from the past probably doesn't matter much in the scope of things, but I just to say thank you for everything you did back in the day.



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187,613 So blue had kittens and your roommate is saying hes a grandpa. I guess you guys are together. I really believe he was the one you cheated on me with. Or more feasible he was one as well as the other guy i know about.And you still havent contacted me in over 3 months. If i cant know the truth there is no point in remaining on this earth. Goodbye thx for ruining me



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187,612 My wife is "interviewing" candidates for her next husband. She'll pick a guy and chat him up at a party, or soccer game, or school function. The guy doesn't know he is being interviewed. Nor does the guy's wife. But I know.



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187,611 I've come to the realization that I am just not a trustworthy person. I lie, I have had affairs (although I'm not having one now, I've had many) and I steal. I was once the church treasurer, and stole money from the church to pay my own bills. I got caught and paid the church back, but other than being embarrassed, it really didn't change anything. I was put in charge of fund raising for my son's soccer team. We sold candles. After figuring up the profit for each child and putting that money towards each child's account (for uniforms, equipment, etc) I was supposed to pay the candle
Company their portion. I kept the money and the candle company is after me now. Recently I was asked to take up money for end of the year coach gift for my older son's basketball team. I've collected $350 and so far have kept $200 of it. What is wrong with me? Why do I do this? I don't want to be this way. At least I do have the forthright thought not to accept a job as a treasurer or be put in charge of any money from. Is own. As much as I say I will not steal,I always do. I feel so alone like I'm the only piece of shit who does this



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187,610 A 1900 SAT is not very impressive. That speaks more to the quality of high school you went to.

Also, if you're not white it's way easier to get into any college. You're welcome; I'm sorry you weren't good enough to use the advantages you were given based on the color of your skin rather than your actual self merit.



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187,609 I didn't get into my dream college because I'm the first generation to be born here and my mom couldn't afford it. Join the club white boy. Graduated high school with a 4.34 GPA, ranked 63/650 students, 1900 SAT, did extra clubs and activities. Couldn't afford my second choice school either (which was a public university - but unfortunately I live in the state with the highest tuition.) Had to drop out, work, and now I'm enrolled in community college. Welcome to the land of opportunity. Sometimes life ain't fair whitey!



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187,608 Sarah, that was directed at you...



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187,607 I didn't get into my dream college because I'm white.



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187,606 I wonder if my wife has any regrets about our divorce. I left her. I was a good conscientious husband. She cheated on me.  She was smug about it, like she had every right to cheat and who am I to question her actions. Uhm, I was her husband. Anyway it's been a few years. I wonder if she ever looks back and regrets how she treated me.



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187,605 I want to hear it



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187,604 So say it



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187,603 There is so much I want to say to you right now. ..



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187,602 Donald Trump and business man in one sentence????



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187,601 The only reason you got into Yale is because your dad went there. It annoys me how that works.



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187,600 I find it hysterical the way women pose in pictures...because it's the same pose every damn time.



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