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188,499 In Houston and my house is surrounded by water. I've put everything I can as high as possible but I think it's going to come in my house. It's less than 3 inches from the house. The whole city is flooding, there are people in their attics because their houses have already filled with water. I'm watching water rescues on my computer live streamed from the local news. I'm afraid to go to sleep.



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188,498 Thanks for making me watch that piece of shit movie with you asshole.



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188,497 I feel so completely trapped



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188,496 It's a personal choice , I prefer weights over cardio but I don't care what other people thinks about how I look. Everything from my hair to clothes is done just to please myself not please others (men/women) .  Some women just loves  doing cardio that should be fine , every person has differents goals when it comes to fitness, some want to tone others just want to be slim without muscle definition, others prefer just to watch their diet and skip exercising and some just don't care.



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188,495 Cardio. Lots of cardio.



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188,494 What kind of workouts did girls do in the 70's?  When I watch a movie from the 70's and 80's, even 90's, the women look feminine.  Until about 10 years ago, women retained their curves while working out.  Flat stomachs with no abs.  Soft but semi-toned hips and thighs.  Now I see a lot of masculine looking females, because of weightlifting.  I know a lot of people are into it, to each his own, but they either look like female-males to me or they all have the same body and that's boring. Even the heavy squats, they all have the same shape legs and ass.  The girls before were soft and shapely.  These girls aren't soft, they lose it in the gym.  And in all honesty, idk if all that weight lifting is good as you get older. So what did they do back in the day?



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188,493 Doubling down on a very bad bet, hoping for the best. Fuck me for having good intentions. In the process of staying true to her and our family I went long and lost. It was a test. I'm so very sorry that you failed so miserably to even meet  basic standards. You know I fucking loved you. I had to live that down and move on which I did in due time. People lying everywhere. Get the damm liars behind me. It will never happen.



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188,492 If a man tries to come home with you, does that mean he assumes you're easy?



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188,491 Every time I'm about to have my period I get so bloated that I actually can pass as a pregnant women , men be glad you don't have periods or get pregnant, just imagine going through the crap every month.



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188,490 I feel depressed every other day.

One day I am fine and doing what I need to do.

The next day I have an overwhelming feeling of impending doom, anxiety, fear, and loneliness for no apparent reason.



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188,489 I once dated this guy and when he was about to ejaculate, he'd pull out of me and his jizz would shoot over my head and hit the headboard of the bed. I miss those days.



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188,488 New Democrat pitch:

"Those who remain silent are complicit."

So even if I do nothing wrong... I am still doing something wrong?

Dems, you have managed to blame everything on everyone - except yourselves.



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188,487 We had to euthanise our dog today. I feel so empty inside. 16 years you have veen with us buddy. Thank you for being there when I came home sad, thank you for always taking care of us. You fought so hard when the doctor called us in. You knew. I'm sorry. I really thought you would stay with us a little longer.

You were such a big part of our family, and now it's incomplete. It's just as if the hole in my heart got a bit bigger. This is not the way how I want to grow stronger :(



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188,486 I never hated, never felt anything unequal between me and people of different skin tones.  Never advocated slavery, never wanted segregation. I grew up in a town and a school that was fairly decently integrated and knew the lessons of my grandmother who taught respect for all people.

As an adult, I am studying my family history. Most were Quakers - some even moved north to escape being around those who had slaves.  Only one I have found owned any slaves so far, and from what I read, it was basically as help on the small farm.  I would have loved to meet the descendants of even those slaves because we have a partial common history and there is much to discover.

Now, you people are teaching me to hate, because you are trying to  remove history and remake it.  What I wonder is, since it was Africans who sold negroes into slavery, why are you not asking reparations from those descendants of Africans who actually did the capturing and selling?  Further, why aren't the Jews asking for reparations from the Egyptians who enslaved them over a generation.  And as a part-irish person, can I ask for reparations from the descendants of the English who robbed us of our land a few generations ago?

One of the reasons that the Confederate soldiers were accepted as U.S. Veterans is to help erase the hatred the South felt for the North.  It was almost gone.  In one small step you are probably reviving it and driving it underground. I think  you do not realize that is exactly what the radicals wanted.

I now have a changed view of those who do not throughly study history.



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188,485 1. Marriage can be a wonderful, enriching experience, if you're willing to put in the work and put your partner before your own needs at times.
2. The love I feel for my kids, and seeing them grow is an awesome (in the true meaning of the word) experience
3. Eventual physical decay is inevitable, but with a reasonable life style and you can be strong and healthy for a long time.
4. The secret to working long term relationships is to embrace the change in your partner.          
5. Can't say anything about this.
6. Solitude can be a nice experience, but I can't imagine being alone for the rest of my life. Your results may vary.
7. This, all things considered, is true. Don't mess things up in your life, your relationship, your career, for sex.
8. Sound financial advice, but also a little sad.



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188,484 6. If you want a quiet, peaceful life, stay by yourself....Preach on.



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188,483 476....Thank you Sir!



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188,482 I would do anything to be in my young 20s again. Now I'm turning 76 this fall... What happened?




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188,481 married +15yrs, together for 20+...and its crumbling.  at this point im not sure its worth the effort.

people change, am i without fault for the current situation. no. But at least i work on my issues. i try to meet in the middle, but she cant or wont, but yet i get all of the blame. i do the little things, flowers, a random touch, always get up when she comes home to greet with a kiss, but she turns her head....same thing in the mornings when i walk with her out as she heads off to work...everything is an argument or a fight



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188,480 So you had a shit marriage. That doesn't mean everyone will. I think one issue is that people get married too soon, when they haven't lived with the other person for very long, or they haven't matured and endured with them. I've seen people marry, have kids, and divorce quicker than my current relationship.



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188,479 I have this piece of 💩 Who won't quit harassing me on Facebook and before you say I don't need social medial . For me it's a must since I have family all over in fact the only people on my list are family members I do not befriend otherwise. This person manage someone to hack onto my account and send a friend request to  her/himself , I already block her/him but if continues I will file a report with my local police department.   What kind of loser has the time anyways ? He/she must have a very uninteresting life/job to worry about others or his/her life must be miserable.  What a piece of turd instead of wasting the time or energy on harassing other people you should be doing something more productive with your life .



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188,478 Hey 476, I've  done exactly that, and know what? You're right.
I'm 61 and happy AF!! Ha Ha Ha



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188,477 476. Your my hero.



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188,476 Secrets from the old to the young.
1. Never get married. There's no upside.
2. Children are NOT a Blessing. Again, no upside.
3. Your youth, beauty & strength will disappear much faster
   you anticipate.        
4. The person you love now will be the person you despise in
   10 years.          
5. Your miserable 'friends' will encourage you to get married.
6. If you want a quiet, peaceful life, stay by yourself.
7. Getting laid is not worth the trouble.
8. If it flies, floats or fucks: Rent it.



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188,475 Psst, people going live on fb multiple times per day just to say stupid shit into the camera..........no.one.fucking.cares.



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188,474 You weren't a nightmare, you were a fricken Category 5 Hurricane that went on for years....



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188,473 Wtf. I would do anything to be in my young 20s again. Now I'm turning 26 this fall... WTF?



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188,472 Sucks when you pour your heart into bringing up your mans self esteem only for him to use that newfound self esteem to go fuck someone else



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188,471 I ran a red light today, completely by accident. I was going through an intersection and wondering why a car was turning left in front of me. Then I looked up and noticed the light was red. How did I not notice? I've been driving for 22 years and never done anything like that before. Thank goodness nothing bad happened.



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188,470 It always makes me sad to think about my childhood. My mother died when I was 7, and my dad was an alcoholic, narcissistic, physical and emotional abuser. This led to so many negative impressions on my psyche.

Whenever I read about abuse victims, particularly emotional abuse victims, I cry. It gives me flashbacks, reading about symptoms. I feel their presence in my life as soon as I read them.

The worst part is that my father specifically targeted me to abuse, for a number of reasons i probably only know a few of. One is because he hates my mother for leaving us with him (he resented our existence), and another is because he continues the power struggle he had with my mother, with me (I am my mother's child).

It makes me extremely sad to see how warped my mind and my heart are because of someone who convinced me that he was the only one that truly loved me. He's taught me to be emotionally distant, distrustful, paranoid, angry, self-hating, doubtful, uncaring, vindictive, and so much more.

I've undone some of the damage. I study psychology so that I can learn exactly how to recognize my issues and undo them. I do this for others too, because why not share the information? It makes me happy to help undo the same kind of damage I've suffered in others, because I know how deeply it hurts. And I know how absolute it feels.

23/F



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188,469 Trump is playing the press and media like a fiddle. I love it! They are foaming at the mouth and he goes on his merry way doing the things he was elected to do!



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188,468 I'm smack dab in the middle of the Millenial generation, and I fucking detest videos and podcasts. I would much rather read an article, or at the very least a transcript. I read much faster, and I absorb way more content that way. The whole "pivot to video" thing is ridiculous. Not every younger person hates text on a page.



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188,467 Where did it all go wrong? You remember when you were working all those odd hours sometimes til one or two o'clock in the morning for that car leasing place and you would randomly call me and tell me what city you were in and had me write it down andvthe mileage and yada blah blah you would ask me if I missed you? And I would tell you of course baby I can't wait for you to get home so we can go to sleep together. You would say you missed me too and you would be home as soon as you can and you apologized for us not getting to spend as much time together as we used to when you were working your regular job. I realized something yesteeday. I miss the man who wanted to be with me. The man who communicated with me and didn't tell me to shut up when I say something he doesn't like.  I miss the man who told me he would never hurt me and if I ever had any doubts to tell him. To talk to him about it. I miss the man who said he wanted to be my knight in shining armor my protector my guardian angel my bodyguard  my friend my confidante my boyfriend my husband. The man who told ME he was ready to settle down and come home at the end of the day to my kisses and hugs. It seems now like it was so long ago a half a lifetime ago but it was only 3 years ago. You stopped saying things like that. You never tell me how you feel about me anynore. I dont receive those sentiments from you anymore. I miss the man I thought you were. The one you portrayed yourself to be to me. Maybe he never existed in the first place because as soon as you could, you started betraying me. I guess that's what I get for trusting you so easily. For packing up and moving cross the country for me..for you .. For a better life. I dont understand how easy it is for some people to lie and cheat and use and I couldn't ever bring myself to do those things. Especially you. All I can think right now is how could you? How dare you dupe me into believing you ever wanted me for me. I want to hit you I want to punch you I want to smack you and slap the shit out of you right now. I can't believe I gave myself to a vile, indecent piece of garbage like yourself. But isn't that what you told friends I am? A piece of trash? Just because I refused to boost your already inflated ego in front of your friends? Just because I refuse to lie for you in front of friends? Is that what I would have to do to get you to favor me in place of all those other girls? The girl you talk about to your friends when you think im not listening or paying attention? I shouldn't be made to feel like I have to compete for your love. You tell your friends and family you love them but it is soooo hard to tell me you love me? Im not done venting not by a Kong shot. You'll be reading about all of his exploits and betrayals soon.I know all the red flags all the signs of cheating and one is picking a fight so you can go spend time with the other oerson. Guilt gifts of food or other things he did that with me a lot when he knew when he did or was going to do something that he knew if I found out about, I would be pretty upset about it. Picking out flaws.Turning the ringer down on his ohone. Deleting text messages and phone calls before coming home from work. A vial of red lipstick in the back floorboard of the car. Phone calls and texts at one or two o'clock in the morning. Him getting mad and throwing his phone making it fall apart slapping your legs and almost breaking your fingers wrestling the phone out of your hand cause you want to call the bitch back and ask her what she wants with your man at 2 o'clock in the morning. Cum stained underwear motel receipts but he can't take you to a hotel to spend a day in privacy with you to get away from roommates. Emotional affairs. He doesn't believe in emotional affairs so therefore emotional affairs dont exist. Even though that's what he was engaging in every time he left me alone for days at a time doing drugs ( I recently found out he had been drinking along with it) tho he would never take take a shot  or a beer with me, asshole. No I feel like an afterthought just someone he could use. Cause he didn't want to be alone.  Or whatever I dont care anymore and I know he'll be calling or coming by just to see if I do. What will i do or say when he does? Cause he always has to get his fix. He can't help it being a narcissistic asshole.



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188,466 Obama Care is messed up. I was booted out of the program six months ago because they said I never uploaded a document. But I did upload the document. It's right there on their website. I went back and forth with them on many phone calls. They said they can't read the document. But I can open it and read it. They tried and they can too. There is nothing wrong with the document. Then they said I needed to upload a different document. Okay, but I checked through their message center and they never requested this other document, so how was I supposed to know I should upload it? I said I will upload it right away, but I can't because they turned off my ability to upload. They said they will escalate my situation so it gets resolved and my account will be turned on and I can upload the document. It's been four months. Nothing has changed. I've called several more times and nothing. Today I called again and they said my situation was never escalated. So they will escalate now. What? I've been waiting all these months for nothing? It was never escalated in the first place? This is unacceptable. Bureaucracy is destroying Obama Care.



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188,465 I agree. I don't hear Trump saying hateful things. He says boastful things. He doesn't always choose his words wisely. He says lustful things, like "grabbing a woman's pussy". (Gross on him.) But I don't hear hateful things. The only hate I am hearing comes from Democrats who are behaving very badly. They are name calling anyone who disagrees with them. That's hate.



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188,464 Last night, I met a man when I stopped for gas. Had a little chat outside and next thing I knew I had spent 30 minutes talking to him with such a smile on my face. I left, and 20 minutes later I just HAD to go back and give him my number, i mean, I just had to. Pulled up, he was outside doing side work, and saw me. He looked delighted. After another 15 min conversation I jotted my number down on a piece of paper and told him he should use it soon. He smiled so big and exclaimed he would and that it was lovely to meet me. He seems like the most obvious and natural choice for me. It was a pheromone thing.  I hope he does call me, cause it wouldn't surprise me a bit if I met my husband-to-be just last night...sure there are possible reasons why not but I feel deep down he is that guy I've dreamed of my whole life and just didn't know who he was before. Call me, Jeremy... Yours, Angie



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188,463 Someone posted below the definition of a "losers" vs "successful people": "You know the difference between successful people and losers?  Successful people blame their failures on themselves.  Losers blame their failures on other people."

Well it certainly does seem to me that Trump 100% fits the bill (by this definition and many others) of a loser as he is constantly whining and blaming others for the disaster that is his "presidency".

This goes for Trump supporters as well. Constantly playing the white-christian "victim" card.



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188,462 I just realized something yesterday.

When I'm drunk, like many others, I find people more attractive. Drunk goggles, you know?

But when I'm stoned, I think everyone is ugly. For some reason my mind picks out all peoples' imperfections when I'm fucking blasted out of my mind.

It sucks, because I ruin perfectly good prospects for myself that way. Once I get that image in my head, I can't let go of it. Or I'll start to think about their personality, or their worth as a person, and ultimately decide said person isn't worth my time.

Which is silly, because I'm a human with flaws as well, so I shouldn't be so quick to judge. But for some reason, it's always been true that if I'm really high, I'm not into you.

Of course, there was one exception....but I think I really loved that person. I never got the chance to find out.



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188,461 I love it that liberals feel they have the sole ownership of  "love", and are the only ones that can love! Conservatives are the ones that "hate" .What about liberals "hate" for conservatives and anybody that opposes their views? That is not hate? Check before you open your mouth and think! Stop this hate speech against anybody that does not agree with you.This is America we all have the right to free speech -not only liberals.



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188,460 I usually don't like to tell others how to live their lives or how they should spend their paychecks however I'm tire of people who think everyone should apologize for not living their lifestyle. If you want to  be a vegan go for it just don't hate the rest that don't , want to live in tiny house great just quit spreading your hysteria about how the rest of us are killing the environment. The funny thing is there's a lot of people who "avocade " for this causes while being the biggest hypocrites (Leonardo di caption, Al Gore, Michael Moore etc...) while flying on their private jets, living on multifollars houses and making millions by writing books on it.   And yes there are plenty of loonies on the other side who uses the same tactic to make a living( Alex Jones, O really , Rush Limburg etc. . )  my point is not everything is white and black , the world is not such a bad place most people are decent and the sky is not falling.



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188,459 Corporate greed and consumerism is killing the environment.  When we upgrade our computers or smart phones, where and how do you think the old ones are "recycled"? Yeah, they're laying in a pile in China leaching harmful toxins into their water.

Global warming is a direct result of humans not being satisfied with what they have and their desperate need for more.  Future generations are screwed. The poor animals are screwed as we've encroached onto all of their natural habitat. Our oceans are full of litter, our sea birds are full of plastic waste.

The adage that people suck is so simple, yet so true.

Am I inncocent? Nope, I upgrade just like everybody else.

But minimalists, tiny house culture - living with a green footprint; it's not to be scoffed at. Those people are living with purpose and care for the whole picture. They are part of the solution.

What are you a part of? (Write your answer down so it's there in black and white so you can own it. If you don't like the answer - change how you live.)



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188,458 I think we should ethnically cleanse the travelling community.



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188,457 All the excitement about this, and I realize that I'm lacking. You're a good person and I'm worried now if I deserve you.



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188,456 As a person of German heritage, I get incensed when Democrats refer to Republicans as Nazis. No, the Republicans are not Nazis. The NAZIs were Nazis. Don't cheapen the horror and enormity of what they did by tossing the word around like it's casual banter.

I bet there are a lot of Jewish people who would agree with me, too.



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188,455 This is my experience with apartment living:

1) It was freezing in there all the time. The neighbours had a very loud little boy that played in the hall. There were electrical problems so the lights would sometimes turn off. Somebody drove their car into one of the bedroom windows. They put a "temporary window" in that didn't fit so we had to stuff dish cloths around it to stop some of the cold air and It was months before they actually repaired it.

2) Shared laundry facilities without enough machines to accommodate everybody. Bad neighbourhood - you couldn't go out after dark. One of our cars was broken into in the parking lot. Our Mail was stolen. If you went outside during the day and walked to the store (literally half a block away) you would inevitably be asked for money at least once. Also there was this noise EARLY every morning - it was like somebody was rolling dice on the floor over and over again, but very loud. We didn't stay there very long -less than a year.

3) It was a nice building when we moved in! But it switched management companies and everything went downhill. Shared laundry facilities again and only 2 dryers actually dried your clothes (and it was expensive!). We had to pay for a parking spot, but rarely ever got to use it because there was always somebody else parked in it. The elevators were often broken. People would walk down the hall testing the doorknobs to see if any of the doors were unlocked so they could steal stuff, our mail was stolen AGAIN including a credit card, which somebody then went on a spending spree with, somebody broke into a bunch of cars in the parking lot one night and attempted to Hotwire them (including my husband's car), we weren't allowed to have an air conditioner unless we paid $150.00 extra a month, creepy superintendent, once I came across a guy sleeping in a stairwell.

Since then we have been living in a townhouse. It's not perfect, but soooo much better than an apartment. I dream of one day owning our own house.



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188,454 I remember years ago reading about this minimalist family who brag how great their life's were without accumulating things , while this family cut on buying staff they were practically leeaching of other people, their clothes was used meaning some "materialistic " person bought before passing down, they used to shower on friends houses to cut on water waste, they had one of those tiny houses park at a family's yard.  See the irony? When I spend money I don't see it as throwing away , for me going through a drive through is a convenience saving time while helping businesses make a profit and in return they pay taxes for roads, schools, libraries etc.. while creating jobs . While I agree that people should save a little more and I wish businesses would pay more to their employees don't forget this country is one of the wealthiest due to capitalism.  Imagine if people would quit being consumers the economy would come down putting companies out of bussines meaning people lossing their jobs and unable to provide for their families.



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188,453 I'm so sick of the advice to "stop spending your money on stupid stuff." Then there's always the mention of "if you just stopped drinking Starbucks..." I'm not spending my money on f***ing starbucks! You know what else I'm not spending it on? Meat that's not on sale (and no more than once a week, if that), fresh vegetables, fabric softener, new clothes, snacks, any sort of outside activity or outside entertainment, books, electronic devices (I would love to have a tablet, or even a computer that's less than 10 years old), new glasses (which I kind of need), vacations, a new mattress that wouldn't hurt my back, medication, running shoes, cheese, a rain coat, pajamas, rubber boots, HBO (I'd really like to watch GOT), education courses, new underwear, a gym membership, spices, a dresser, heat in the winter time, and I haven't had a hair cut in over a year.

And I'm fine. I don't need your sympathy. And I really don't need your judgement, thinly veiled as bullshit "advice."



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188,452 429 - That's a thing. It's called "High Place Phenomenon"



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188,451 In the last apartment that I lived in, I lived in a huge old three story farmhouse built in the 1800's, refashioned into 3 apartment units. It was about as nice of an apartment you could get in a rural area for the rent I paid. I lived on the 2nd floor. Upstairs from me, a heavyset couple who argued often, then fucked. They made a ton of noise squeaking on their bed and whacking their headboard on the wall. Downstairs from me, an angry old man who worked long hours but still had dogs and they would bark and bark incessantly when they were left alone in the house all day and night. They drove me fucking insane. I would call animal control and they'd tell me they couldn't do anything because the dogs were inside. That's what it is to live in an apartment. Even if the building is nice, which mine was, you still have to live with strangers. People fight, they fuck, they have dogs and there's nothing wrong with that. It's just I don't want to hear any of it. At the end of the day, I just want to come home to my quiet house where the only people to live in it are myself and my family.



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188,450 Civil War? One side gets more from the federal government than they pay in taxes. The other side won the last one



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188,449 I'm coughing up blood. Hummm. Not sure if this is something to worry about.



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188,448 Not everyone that lives in an apartment building is trash. I live in NYC in a doorman, security patrolled, safe building, cameras on every floor, incredible facilities with nice, quiet tenants and well kept grounds. I have been to friends houses with obnoxious neighbors: loud music and partying in the back yards at all hours, outdoor dogs constantly barking (that would not fly in this building), they have to shovel snow, sweep leaves, etc. no thanks. It all depends where you live and who your neighbors are. Unless you live in an isolated location it's the luck of the draw.



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188,447 It's better to have very few friends , rather than being surrounded by fake and toxic people . Quality over quantity is always better when it comes to relationships.



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188,446 Forgiveness is a gift, for the forgiver. Holding on to things only hurts the person holding on.



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188,445 I haven't had any friends in close to ten years.  Never been in a relationship either.  I mean I hate people and can't stand being around them for very long

BUT

I'm getting lonely.



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188,444 I never really forgive anyone. Fights are cumulative in a relationship with me. People become "tainted" over time and then I just move on. I don't know how to change this. It has always been this way.



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188,443 Civil war? One side has 300 million guns and a trillion rounds of ammo. The other side can't figure out which bathroom to use....



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188,442 Here in the 2017's this pimp just told you if I ain't puttin my dick in them...why do I have them around?!?! You do realize the only reason women survived primal days was because they had pussy. Shit that's the only reason they surviving now. That fact alone proves intelligent design. God gave men all the physical strength to dominate women...he had to give them an equalizer. Now you understand why sex means so much for the man.Chew on that for awhile. Good day fuckers ;)



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188,441 You know, what I hate most of all is that you're just another bitch that wanted to be my friend for the convenience of it, and I fell for that shit. Then it got hard so you didn't want to do it anymore and replaced me.

And your new friend doesn't give a shit about you either, she told me so. She said as soon as you pull that shit you pulled with me that she's done. Isn't it funny how neither of you really cares about the other?

Still, I hate that I'm the only one left on the side because I don't want to apologize for something that's not my fault. Have fun with your fake friend, both of you.



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188,440 My company just got a new life insurance policy that insures all our lives for 50k. Today, upon being forced into the same space with a coworker I can't stand, especially after hearing about the woman from MA that won the Powerball, I know what I'd like to do. :)



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188,439 Personally, for myself, as a person of color, I wouldn't even consider a relationship with a man who wasn't white.  It is my preference and has been for a very, very long time.  I'm old too.  And a man.  There are Jews, Asians, Blacks, Browns, and others in my personal sphere, and those with whom I maintain relationships, I love.  I am not a bigot; I like or dislike people (persons) for who they are and how they present themselves and interact with me.  

I love the look of white (or soft yellowy pink)skin.  I love soft, silky hair and blue eyes.  So, when I can have all of that in my man, I am happy.  (and I do!)

I feel no particular allegiance to any race, but I am concerned with the issues that affect me and people who look like me.  Even though it is now very cliche, I have to seriously wonder, 'why can't we all just get along???'

Why not broaden your perspective by learning someone who is nothing like you?  You might find viewpoints and happiness in areas you never knew existed.



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188,438 Depends. With a house you have neighbors you see all the time so yea it can happen. But what a mess. Everyone on the block knows each other and going into someone's house is so much more obvious than apartment. People know your business so if you're fucking... Forget it.  Plus it can get stupid at the end if it's just a fling. I've seen it happen twice, didn't end well.  I always figured that's TOO close to home, go to the next block for ass if anything. Lol



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188,437 I love when a woman begs me to cum inside her.



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188,436 The president (small P) is so jealous and enamoured of his predecessor, that he just will not be happy until he has those balls slapping hard against his chin!  He wants that more than his money and it's so obvious!  I feel sorry for the poor wanna-be slurper!!!



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188,435 Cool. I figured if it's a better neighborhood or slightly more expensive you weed out certain types.  Or slightly more isolated.



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188,434 The upside of living in an apartment - the sex. In every building I lived in when I was in my twenties, I ended up sleeping with a few of the female residents. It's the circumstance. You see the same faces in the elevator. It's a bond. You get friendly. People get drunk and lonely some nights. And sex happens. You don't get that with a house.



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188,433 I love living in my apartment. I am on the top floor (3 floors) so no walking around noise, but if fact it doesnt matter because the floors are poured concrete. NO NOISE. The apartments are located in a wooded area, off the main drag, so no car noise and are just expensive enough to keep out the dregs. I wake up on Saturdays and say no lawn to cut, I wake up during a snow storm and say no snow to shovel, if my dishwasher, refrigerator, washer and dryer go bad...call the maintenance guy and get a new one. I have 2 dogs and they are loving it, a dog park, pool, tennis courts, and less then what my mortgage payment was. Ok so I may not get some tax breaks, but what I save in BS repairs, I save in tax breaks. Do your search before jumping into any apartment. Go to the place several times during the day and night to see and hear of stupid shit.



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188,432 I live in a house with my family.  I've contemplated moving out when I have the money, because of privacy.  But yea it's true if someone else has roaches they'll go to your apartment.  The thing about ex cons and people with mental problems... That sucks. Is it worth it?  What if it's a better neighborhood?  A smaller building?



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188,431 I spend so much more time communicating with strangers online than I do communicating with people in real life.



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188,430 I am recently divorced, so its back to apartment living. I live in a mostly orthodox Jewish community. Its awesome! My neighbors are all young families who are decent and kind but have to live within walking distance to the yeshiva. It's been a great experience for me plus someone else can repair, shovel snow, and all that mess. Its great!



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188,429 When I was about 10 my mother took me to New York City for the day. We went on a tour of Rockefeller Center. At one point we were in a giant theater on the highest balcony. I was right by the edge. It must have been 50 feet down to the orchestra seats. I had this overwhelming desire to jump. I don't know why. My mother sensed something. She reached out and grabbed me and stopped me.

About 20 years later I was working out in a gym. It was on the 4th floor of an old building. The windows were open for fresh air. At one point I was standing by a window. Out of nowhere I started to climb out the window onto a little ledge. I don't know why. The gym trainer raced over and pulled me back inside. He yelled at me and wanted to know what the hell I was doing. I had no answer for him.

I don't know what this is about. It seems like a natural instinct for me to leap to my death. I'm not otherwise suicidal. I was lucky people were around to stop me. Ever since those two incidents I avoid being near the edge of any high up place.



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188,428 Unless you're lower class trash, living in an apartment in an area of normal income does stink.  All the people in it are trash, or retirees who should be in an old age home.  I lived in an apartment for two years.  My neighbor across the hall was a crackhead who always looked stoned.  He was stoned once and told me how uppity I looked as I left for work in my suit.  My neighbor next door was mentally slow and smelled.  My apartment was clean but I STILL got cockroaches because someone on another floor was filthy.  I managed to leave right as the cockroaches were migrating to my bedroom from the kitchen.  I left and never looked back.



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188,427 Owning a house is too much work. I want to move back to an apartment. The thing about apartments though, your neighbors are ex-cons, or drug dealers, or mentally ill people. They cook curry dishes and fish and the entire building reeks. I can't win.



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188,426 I have never asked God to take anybody unless is there time to do so.  Today, seeing my father in the shape he is in and how he has no dignity left to him.  I cannot help but ask for him to be taken.  This man was a legacy of his own and to see him in the shape he is in. Greatly hurts me... God please either take him or help guide him to find his strength...  I love him dearly but damn this is brutal seeing him in this shape.



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188,425 Ok so I haven't had a obsession in a while. I used to go through spurts of obsession when I was growing up. I'm 27 darnit and I have something this to this extent since night school.
My boyfriend convinced me to watch Game of Thrones. I watched all of it in about 3 weeks, and now I'm rather obsessed with Sandor "the Hound" Clegane.
I am a little ashamed of it, honestly. I am also irritated I cannot find any good fanfiction *caugh*porn*cough*.
Le sigh
27 F



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188,424 Here is a secret or maybe its not a secret. Not every democrat is a "libtard", and not every republican is a right winged racist. It just so happens that many are just people who want this country, its citizens and its former way of life to be in the picture. We want a healthy, safe place to raise our educated kids, be able to afford to live comfortable, and maybe retire with a little dignity. For those who are out there calling these believers right wing racists, left wing hacks, etc, I am sorry you can't see this way of life. You know you will never achieve this. You will never have money to retire, your low paying job barely allows you to make ends meet, your kids are most likely on the streets, or 12 and pregnant, they may be into drugs, drinking and just don't care about anything. You need to change, you need to be able to look further down the road and seek to change your way of life. If you are in a shitty job, train for a new job, if your kids are running over you, step up and become a real parent, not just a punching bag. Stop spending all your money on stupid shit, save some, start a retirement account and try saving 20 a month, that's 1 week of starbucks coffee (1 per day). Stop following leaders that are not out to help you, if its Trump or Pelosi, they are there for themselves. Try to volunteer in a shelter or kids hospital, change your life for the better, but if you feel thats not you, if you feel you are perfect the way you are, then good luck.



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188,423 188417 - everyone needs a friend. I don't know you, but Ill be your friend. Now you can say I have someone as a friend.



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188,422 I fixed myself up for the concert. I tried hard to look good. I was told I am too fat. Why do I try? Why does every good moment get ruined? Why can't I just be wanted



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188,421 The new rule says if I don't agree with a democrat, then I'm a racist. The democrats made that rule.



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188,420 Crazy person sees me at IKEA store , now she acts like she knows my taste 😂 I was there browsing because my sister wanted to go.  My furniture taste is nothing like that store (nothing wrong with it, just not my taste) most of my furniture was bought at Thomasville which was ridiculously expensive but last a lifetime.



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188,419 I don't think anyone misses me. Dont know if that's a good thing or a bad thing.



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188,418 i miss your playlists



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188,417 I'm so alone. I need a friend. I used to have friends. I don't know where they went.



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188,416 I miss you too. You should have communicated with me When we were together



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188,415 Back in the 70's a Pimp told Me......
The Best Way to keep a Woman's respect is too

Keep Your Dick out of them!!!



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188,414 My new dildo and vibrator will arrive on Friday. Friday is going to be a good day.



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188,413 The more that I expected and/or sought to have my wife become more responsible and attached to reality, the further away she drifted from being either of those things.



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188,412 Some nations get beaten in war. But most nations fail by committing suicide. I believe this will be the fate of America.



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188,411 You are great. I miss you. I wish we would have communicated. I don't like the small window you operate in,where one step out, and you go nuclear.



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188,410 I work myself into a frenzy all too often. I eat a salad. There's a grain of sand in it. Ohhh Noooo! I'm going to get appendicitis. I can feel it starting. I have to lay in bed the entire next day waiting for the symptoms to worsen. I'll probably die on the operating table. I'm distraught with anxiety.

By a few days later, when nothing bad happens, I feel elation that I survived this terrible ordeal. Elation......... until I see a mushroom in my yard. Maybe it's poisonous. Maybe I breathed in a spore.  It will grow inside me. I'm going to die...

I hate being me.



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188,409 I'm desperate for a thick, hard cock up inside me, but going out and getting it would land me in a world of trouble I do NOT need.  Men would get laid a lot more if they didn't start to act like they owned me just because I let them get their dicks wet.



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188,408 Ughhh Alex baby. When I see you next week, please fall hopelessly in love with me!!



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188,407 It would surprise many to know I'm thinking of suicide. People view me as the rock. They know nothing of my well hidden demons. I'm hurting so bad on the inside.



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188,406 Insurance companies are such bullshit. I work with people with disabilities which require years of intensive therapy and basically every moment of their lives to be assisted, but one insurance plan decides to change the training requirements for covered staff with 1 month notice, leaving a countless number of clients with no services. A few weeks later, the same provider decides that services may only be conducted at home and will not cover services conducted in community locations outside of the home. WTF??? There are laws about least restrictive environments being accessible to persons with disabilities. I do not understand how this is allowed.



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188,405 So what I'm lonely?  I still like you though, it's not about being lonely.  I know you like me. If we met, you would like me more than you even think. But you don't give a chance... So I guess I gotta move on.



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188,404 Here's a secret I've been using since my teens. Want to cover up a red spot/blemish on your face? Use light green eyeshadow. Take the applicator and dot the eyeshadow on the red spot, then lightly blend it in. Green, being opposite red on the color wheel, will cancel out the red and no one will be any the wiser!



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188,403 About a month back, we had an electrician come to the house to install a couple of ceiling fans.  Nice enough guy and seemed competent, but I couldn't help but notice how he kept making eye contact with my wife.  A few weeks later my wife tells me that an outlet in the bathroom is not working and she's calling the electrician.  I didn't think anything of it.  Today the guy next door mentioned that he saw an electricians truck in our driveway today, and asks if the guy is any good, because he needs some work done.  I didn't know that the electrician was supposed to be here.  I asked my wife if the electrician had been by today, she at first looked shocked that I asked, then said, "Oh yea, one of the ceiling fans was wobbling and he came by to do an adjustment."  I'm pretty certain somethings going on now.  Also, there's no invoice, credit card charge or anything for the "broken outlet" that was repaired.  I highly suspect something is going on.  While she is ultimately at fault, how do I teach this guy a little lesson as well?  Bad reviews on Yelp?  Other ideas?



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188,402 I work for one of those style companies. Where you fill out a questionnaire and we select clothing for you. My secret, really shouldn't be a secret, but I wish people realized there were real people behind it. Real people with real feelings. Some of the things they say are so hurtful. I mean, come on. It's just clothes. Don't be so rude! We all do the best we can with the prices you set for us! Any perhaps, it's your body you're unhappy with. Not the clothes or the person behind the selection.



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188,401 I matter less to my husband than his money and image.



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188,400 Yesterday I noticed a few flies in my house. Annoying, but not a big deal. When I woke up this morning, there were flies everywhere! At least five or six in each room. Gross! Where did they come from? I admit my house isn't IKEA-catalogue clean, but it's not DIRTY by any means. Weird.



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