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188,899 Guys understand this. ugly girls with good bodies that you would have sex with but they want to go out and be seen in public so it's a no-go



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188,898 Whoa..., you did hear me!



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188,897 My four year old is an asshole. But only to me. At school and activities and friend's houses he is a little angel. Even with his Dad (my husband), he is good. I'm the only one that gets the back talk and attitude and disobedience. Sometimes he is just plain mean. I don't know if this is normal or if I'm just a terrible Mom.



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188,896 Met my wife 10/31/85.  We dated and stayed together including long distance for 5 years then married 1/11/92.  

Have two beautiful aspiring kids who are much better people than I was at that age.  Seriously, the smarts came from her and both my children were blessed.

Kids are out of the house and I've encouraged my wife to sleep in any empty bedroom we have if she wants.  I don't care, we're way past beyond trivial.  She does and we both have had the best deepest sleep since.  

We're much happier with each other and having a blast.

For all you justice warriors, our bed sucks.  Our children have the sleep number beds, so suck it.    



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188,895 This new trend of high rise crotch/hip lines really bums me out because my vagina is too big and it ends up spilling out the sides. How do women pull this off without giving themselves a frontal wedgie? Are they just blessed with skinny labia? I don't get it.



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188,894 Yeah... sex is a deep primal need for everybody. Not just men.



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188,893 Bravo 874, bravo.  If I ever wind up in an LTR again, full stomach and empty balls are the order of every day!  I seriously don't remember EVER turning down sex in my last relationship.  Not for him, but for me.  :)



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188,892 I remember waking up from a dream last night moaning and panting, with with the distinct sensation of orgasm.  Holy crap I came in my sleep.  Is this a normal peri-meno symptom or is somebody front and center in my brain and loins?  Thank you, sir, I'll take another in 4 hours and 30 minutes!



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188,891 I wish we could all stop focusing on our differences. We are all so much more alike than any of us could fathom.



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188,890 Doctors unfortunately have long wait lists. Even though you often can't see it, there are people ahead of you in the ER/clinic line up - and more serious cases get prioritized. Being hurt or injured sucks but waiting just the sad reality. Now, if one is worried about an infection (redness, swelling, yellow or white discharge, increased pain) the best thing is to go to a walk-in clinic ASAP or your GP if they can see you in the next day or so, for the problem to be evaluated. Proper wound care is important so if you know you are surrounded by deadbeats, make it easy for them by prepping all the supplies first. But really there's no reason why one can't dress a finger wound on their own. Cut the dressings to size in advance and go slow. Pretend you are alone after the apocalypse. Better that than waiting for someone who's smoked a bowl to fuck it up.



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188,889 I got a really deep cut in my finger. It ended up needing nine stitches. It hurt like hell, it was disgusting and gruesome, I bled everywhere. That was a bad situation. And it happened at a terrible time. But I didn't let it depress me. I accepted that shit happens and I kept moving forward. But, people's mistakes are making this bad situation so much worse. The doctor waited two hours to stitch me up. Two whole hours I had to wait with my finger tip half off. She waited so long, I had to have her reanestesize me, twice!!!! The needle was fucking huge and painful. If you already had to reanestecise me once, why would you be so stupid to let it happen again? And then my mom was supposed to help me change the bandage twice a day. I can't do it myself, I needed her help. But she rarely does it because she's too busy smoking weed. And now I think it's become infected. Probably because my mom refuses to help me change it. It was a bad situation, but it didn't have to be this bad. I could have dealt with the necessary pain. But not the unnecessary pain. Now I'm fucking depressed. And my finger is infected.



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188,888 I've started eating kale. Thanks for the tip. LOL.



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188,887 My son's school has decided to teach "resilience", explaining the students need to learn to cope with failure. If we give everyone an A+ and a sports trophy, then it's meaningless. They will expect praise on everything and they won't be motivated to improve.

Makes sense.

The school also announced they will be getting rid of year-end academic awards given to the best and brightest. It was making the students who didn't receive an award feel bad. Can't hurt little Suzie's feelings....

Um... the idea of teaching resilience is off to a very bad start...



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188,886 I want to be surrounded by a good group of people who don't judge me. Don't we all want this? Instead I find people are always critical of my thoughts. They not only know better than me, they have to put me down for having an opinion different than theirs. I hate it. Can't we just live and let live? Who cares if I like Trump and you don't. Who cares if I like my hometown baseball team. Who cares if I like Pepsi. I don't fault you for your choices. Don't fault me for mine! Jeez!



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188,885 My town hosts and annual fair one day every summer. It's okay, nothing special. It's really just a ploy to promote shopping in town. The stores set up booths on the sidewalk. There are a couple of food trucks. A band comprised of high school kids play pretty bad renditions of Beetles songs.

There is a parking lot behind the stores. It holds about 200 cars. Problem is, about 500 cars show up for the fair. This has been a point of contention. The excess cars have to park about a quarter mile down the road where there is a very large parking lot. I don't really care. So what if some people have to walk a quarter mile. It's probably the only exercise they get all year.

Some well connected people in town complained they had to park so far away. The town elders were determined to solve the parking problem. Their solution, this summer for the fair they banned all parking behind the stores. Now everyone has to park a quarter mile down the road, all 500 cars.

The lot behind the stores is completely empty. The people driving to town to simply get something from the hardware store, or buy a sandwich in the deli are shit out of luck. They too have to park a quarter mile away while 200 parking spaces just feet from the stores remain roped off.

This kind of stupidity epitomizes America today. There are parking spaces, but we can't use them. Everything must be equal. Everyone must park in the same lot. It's the attitude of "If I can't have it, no one can."

Me, I refuse to reward stupidity. I've started to do all my shopping in the next town. Great way to promote shopping in the town - getting me to shop somewhere else.



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188,884 I upgraded my cable service. To do so Comcast had to send me a new cable box. But ew, the box has clearly been used before. It's filthy. It's covered in dust and gooey food stuffs, possibly spaghetti sauce. It also looks like sticky children's fingers have been pushing the buttons. Gross gross gross. For a cable bill of over $100 per month, don't I deserve a clean piece of equipment? Yuck. I'm so tired of big business and they way they treat customers.



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188,883 I feel so let down by my marriage. It's not at all what I expected. Marriage was supposed to be a safe haven. Instead, it has become a constant source of angst.



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188,882 879 i'm sensitive too.  It's good but i feel it may be mostly bad. I'm good at calming someone down and knowing what not to say, i'm good with kids and people in a tough spot. And I've learned that some sensitive people have a hard front, and act like they're insensitive but they may be the most sensitive ones. But it's hindered me, I feel a lot, even the negativity of those around me. If someone's angry in a volatile way, or overreacts with drama, it makes me uneasy and nervous, and almost mad because now I have that negative residue on me. Like I'm a sponge or something, it's not that i get angry or feel what they feel, but their anger/frantic behavior has shaken me on the inside and now i have to deal with it. The funny thing is, one person in particular that i know who gets dramatic to little shit, if she talks to me in that frantic way, she walks away feeling better and calmer and i walk away feeling on edge and worse.  Anyway, i get what you're saying.



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188,881 @ 881- maybe the employee has a crush on you :-)



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188,880 An employee comes into my office and asks if the wifi is out. I say I don't know, I haven't been online. I ask if he was having trouble connecting. He says he hasn't tried.

He hasn't tried???????????

I then try. The wifi is fine. It takes all of 5 seconds to figure this out.

I want to smack the employee. Wouldn't it have made sense for you to try the wifi yourself before coming all the way to my office to ask me about the wifi? Like who did I hire?  You come across as a moron. Noted when it comes time for me to dole out Christmas bonuses.



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188,879 Headline on CNN:

"Apple's $999 iPhone X: No home button and Face ID"

So does this mean the new phone has Face ID? Or not not? I can interpret the headline either way.

It seems trivial, but I think it's indicative of CNN. They are not intelligent reporters. They don't think about what they write and how it comes across. That's not good, seeing they are in the business of communicating information.

I'm hoping they will go out of business and a new breed of intelligent journalists will come forward.



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188,878 I've unlocked a memory through being told a story about myself from when I was 2 years old. My parents were fighting a lot at the time, so my father slept on the couch almost every day. So whenever he would wake up, my father would come into my mother's room (where my brother and I slept) and pick me up out of my crib to say good morning.

What hearing this unlocked for me was the memory of leaning over the crib, looking into the hallway (the crib was right by the door), and waiting for my father to appear. And when he did, I don't remember my movements, but I remember that it always made me very happy. Feeling all that joy in such a little body must have made some kind of imprint.

But then, my mother had enough of my father and kicked him out. I remember that I would still look around the corner for him, but I don't remember that I did this every morning for months after he was gone. And I was told that every time he didn't come, I would wail, and wail, and wail. My mother would pick me up like he did, but it wasn't the same. I still don't know why.

I remember that my father told me later in life that my mother's heart broke hearing me cry like that. I cried a lot as a child, as I was and still am very sensitive. Dad told me that she said I'd never survive in this world with such a fragile heart, something that has continuously proven to be difficult.

Now she's been dead for almost 20 years and I hate him. But it's nice, and also lonely, to remember a time when I loved my parents more than anything.



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188,877 I am holding off masturbating for a week so that when my mistress is on her knees with her mouth open and waiting, a giant load spurts into her mouth and all over her face. I love the look of disgust on her face. Lick it up, bitch, lick it all up.



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188,876 I cheated. It makes me very happy to think about it. When my husband acts like a jerk and yells at me, on the inside I'm smiling. I think about how I cheated and got away with it. Ha ha ha I cheated on you! HA HA HA!



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188,875 My wife keeps talking to me after I've left the room. We'll be having a conversation. The conversation will end. I'll leave to go to a different room. But then a minute later I can faintly hear her in the distance continuing to talk to me. She doesn't register the fact that I'm no longer there. It hints at her personality. She think the universe is all about her. If she wants to say something to me, then in her mind, all she has to do is talk. She has no obligation to make sure I am present. That burden is somehow on me.

This is who she is.  It's all about her. It plays out in so many ways. Another example, we were at a wedding. I was in the crowd talking to someone. She decided to bring me a glass of red wine. I didn't ask for it. She decided to get me the wine on her own. She brought it into the room where I was standing. She held it out to pass it off to me. But I was talking to someone else. I didn't notice her so I didn't raise my hand to take the glass from her. This didn't matter to her.  She felt she did her part - she held out the glass. So then she let go... and it fell to the floor and broke and splattered red wine on everyone, including the bride. According to my wife, this was all my fault.

My wife isn't all there. We're young. It's not like dementia. It's a personality disorder. When she wants something to happen, everyone else must accommodate. That's the first law of her private universe.



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188,874 I probably watch more porn than my husband.



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188,873 If women are worried about their husbands cheating, then make sure he doesn't have the desire to do so. 99% of the time, if his balls are empty, he will not have the craving to screw around. Time to do the needful.

My wife detests porn. Hates it with a passion. She doesn't even like for me to see sex scenes on TV, and sometimes even nudity. Well, most guys have an insane drive to have sex. It's bad. It's a primal need. After the lock went on her panties, I had two choices to keep that need in check: porn or another woman.

Porn isn't cheating. Women should celebrate porn. It keeps their men from getting a girlfriend on the side. It's what helps keep my urges in check, and it keeps me out of other women's panties.

My balls must be emptied regularly. If she doesn't want another woman to empty them, or for me to fill that sock while jerking to porn, then she had damn well better open her legs or her mouth. I'm sorry to be crude about it, but that's the truth.



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188,871 Did you want that to be me? Reach out if you want to.  I would love to hear from you.



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188,870 I was working with the airlines when 9/11 happened.  I lost friends.  I lost coworkers.  Thankfully I was off that day so I didn't get stranded away from my husband and new child, and going back to work afterwards was one of the scariest things I ever had to do.

Yes, it was terrible.  Yes, it was horrific.  And yes, this day hurts.  But goddamn.  Scores and scores of posts on social media from everyone repeating the story AGAIN of where they were and what they were doing that day.  "On this day (16, 15, 14, 13) years ago, I was getting ready for work..."  Look - change your profile picture, change your cover photo, make a little post, honor those who lost their lives and those who continue to suffer the aftereffects...but please stop with the stories!



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188,869 I love being dominated too.  That's why I love dominant guys.  Some guys prefer if you ride them more than being on top themselves, it kinda turns me off. Makes me think they're lazy. Guys are supposed to wanna take it!



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188,868 Here's an example of my wife's intelligence. For a month she was complaining there's a duck stuck in the air vent in the hallway of our house.

A duck? In the vent? How would a duck get in the vent?

I ignore her when she says such ridiculous things (which is often).

She keeps it up though. Every few days she mentions the duck. She says she hears it each morning when she gets up at 7. She figures the duck must hear her moving around and start quacking to get her attention. She wanted me to take the grill off the vent and poke around in there to free the stuck duck.

I continue to ignore her.

She brings up the duck when we are out to dinner with some other people. They look at her like she is herself one odd bird...

She brings it up at work. She talks to the maintenance guy. He offers to come to our house and dismantle the vent. When my wife tells me this, I roll my eyes and say no. She asks why. I say because there is no duck in our air vent.

She insists there is. She says she hears it every morning.  It quacks for 10 minutes. Except on weekends. It doesn't quack on weekends. Only weekdays.

Sigh. Groan. Moan. The duck only quacks on weekdays??? What, it sleeps late on weekends???

Fed up, I say okay, show me the vent where the duck is stuck.

We go to the hallway. She points to an air vent at the top of the wall..... just above a cabinet.....

Sitting on the cabinet is my son's old iPod. He plugged it in there a month ago to charge it. I turn on the screen. I go to the alarm. It's set to go off at 7 every weekday morning. The alarm sound is set to a quacking duck....

I have no words for her. She's an imbecile. This is just one example of her absurd mind. She couldn't reason out that there was an iPod on the cabinet exactly where the duck quack was coming from. No, to her, there must be a duck in our air vent.

Never marry for looks.



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188,867 I wish my boyfriend would just love dominating the shit out of me and that be enough. I love when he fucks the shit out of me. That is also part of the problem. He says I've gotten lazy. I've tried initiating things, but it doesn't get me excited like being dominated. Am I wrong for being selfish? What do i do?



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188,866 I work with all young kids in their early 20s. I mentioned that today is 16 years since 9/11 and they got that blank, glazed-over look like I was their history teacher.

I guess 9/11 is my generation's equivalent to JFK being assassinated. I'm scared to think what this generation's equivalent will be.



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188,865 Can we just stop all the sexual hangups already? Guys and girls, whatever you need to do to get off, just do it! If you masterbate, or have a side partner because your spouse has lost interest, just do it, life is short, and its the best feeling there is. Those intimate moments naked with another person are the most amazing moments we have....everything else is just shit! So to guys I say, shoot to the sky, and ladies, squirt it like a cat, and to everybody, be free of the so called rules, and swim in a sea of cum......



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188,864 sometimes I wonder when I will do something for me that really matters. I react to everything, mostly in search of the path of least resistance. It could be suicide. I admire the courage it takes to do it. I didn't ask to be here. I'm not ready for that, but it will come up sometime. I just want it to be peaceful and final. That is all. It seems like a fair trade for not having chosen to be here in the first place.



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188,863 Idk, porn could be cheating.  There are these guys who would rather watch porn and jerk off than fuck.  If that guy has a girlfriend or wife, and now he can't fuck her because he's spent, that's cheating.  Or if he can only cum through jerking off because of all the porn, it's messed up.  Also, it's all blurry now, with webcam girls, and solo amateur girl videos.  it's kinda cheating, definitely if you're in communication like with a webcam girl.  It's all fucked up.



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188,862 lets see

my mistress lets me fist her. she likes anal. shes sweet, smart, and easy to get along with.

My wife only allows me to get inside her pussy every other month, missionary, lights off

do the math!

Yes, I cheat. It's great



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188,861 I don't consider flirting as cheating, you are married not dead. Of course you find other men/ women attractive besides your significant other, it doesn't make you a bad person just human.  It will be different if you were having sex with the person (physical cheating)or send romantic test , emails to each other that's  emotional cheating for sure.



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188,860 Inside EVERY soul lay wonderment.  YOU don't realize it, but YOU are as wonderful as any other person or creature on Earth.  You!  There is a much, much greater vision that human beings CANNOT see through such tiny eyes!  

There is something inside of you, the individual person, that is more precious than all the gold and diamonds in the world ... put together!

Ridiculous, but absolutely true!  YOU!!!



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188,859 I'm getting married on Friday.  Until this week, I have never realized how scary that is.  God, let this be right!



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188,858 When I was 19, I ran away from home and thought my life was over.

Now I'm nearly 30, and I thought I'd be dead by now.  I've been depressed my entire life, and I thought I would have killed myself by now.  I stopped trying to kill myself because it hurt.  I've lived a meaningless existence for so long.  I have no motivation to do anything.  I'm a failure.



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188,857 Obviously not cheating: looking at porn or fantasizing by yourself, and by extension, masturbating/having sex with yourself.

Cheating: looking at porn or fantasizing, and/or masturbating or having sex with someone else, who is not your s.o.



I also feel it's worth noting that monogamy is not for everyone. You should get to know yourself a bit more before making a lifelong, legal commitment to another human.



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188,856 Ha!  Looks like you got moved out of your job, lost your entire staff, and sent to a place where you can't do anymore fucking damage.

How does that happen?  How does a guy go from directing a large staff responsible for results... to being a paper pusher?

Oh, right.  You're fucking incompetent.

HAHAHAHAHA

You suck, asshole.



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188,855 After I lent you $50, you dropped off the face of the earth. $50 isn't much, but money is money. I would like that $50 back, please.



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188,854 I wonder if it's "cheating" if I look at a woman who's not my wife, and find her attractive or sexy?  How about if I flirt with a woman?  Seems like an emotional connection there.  What about if I masturbate while thinking of a particular woman?  Definitely something emotional there.  Watching porn could be cheating, too.  It all seems pretty complicated.



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188,852 I was one of those shithead guys who lead women on. I would do it online through a popular dating website. I created a fake profile, complete with pictures. I'd make contact with women in my town. I'd act all chummy and friendly. No pressure from me. I was easy going. In the background, I'd try to figure out who she is, more than just her screen ID. It wasn't hard. In my friendly way, I'd talk about different neighborhoods. I'd ask what street she lived on. I'd ask about what else she did in town. I'd ask what sports her kids played. It didn't take long to figure out her exact name and address. Then I'd start flirting with her, a sexy kind of flirting. I'd ask when she last had sex, when she last touched herself, does she have a vibrator, what color, where does she keep it, does she swallow, does she do anal. I'd ask all sorts of intimate questions. Women would answer I think because they felt somewhat anonymous and therefore protected. Little did they know I was completely aware of who she was in real life. One was even a friend of my wife's and she's telling me how she used her vibrator last night. It was very hot. In several cases the women sent me naked selfies. Like my wife's friend. She sent a picture of her boobs reflected in the bathroom mirror. She cropped out the face. But I've been in her house. It was really her bathroom. Granted it was a shithead thing for me to do. I had no intention of ever being with these women in person. I'm married. That ain't changing. I was totally leading them on. I eventually stopped. But I think about it every time I see my wife's friend.



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188,851 Want to meet up with a couple of old friends and the trouble is I have to sort of invite this other person as she was part of the gang.
Thing is I can't stand her. She was such a bully to me growing up. Things would be fine and dandy then she'd come along and she'd start picking on me and get the others to do the same. This never changed despite growing up. She always bragged at how she looked younger than me, even though she's only 2 years older. Also I must be stupid because I went to university. She brags how if it wasn't for her I would never have got my first job, and how I've messed up my life because I've been married, divorced, an abusive relationship that led to an abortion (yet she was never there to support me) and when I turn around and told her she's never been there for me and just been a bully she gets all huffy and stops talking to me.
So I've invited her and I hope among hopes she really can't make it. The panic I get with the idea of meeting her is too horrible to think about.



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188,850 I'm probably going to be dead by 40. Whether it's cancer or suicide is anyone's guess.



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188,849 Marriage is a very strange institution. How on earth do you think one person can be the one and only in your life? It is a lot to expect from another person. Marriage started of between two families to united countries or lands .It had nothing to do with everlasting love or monogamy.If it works between two people good for them but to have this romantic idea of bliss for ever after the wedding night-sets you up for failure. Enjoy each other but stop putting demands and expectation on the marriage that can not be fulfilled. You will never be happy. We are all humans -and we fail.



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188,848 I watched Across the Universe with a friend this weekend. When we got to the scene where everybody does acid and sings "Because" in a field, my heart started hurting like it always does. When I was young, I fell in love with a guy and we used to do acid and run around like the kids in that movie. It just reminds me of the happiest time in my life, and it makes me sad that I'll never have that pure happiness again.

I feel bad though, my friend has never been in love before, and I told her that she'd understand when she fell in love the first time.

I feel bad being that asshole that says "You'll understand someday," like I'm worldly or some shit. I was merely lucky.

But I also feel bad because she'll never get to experience that pure happiness either. Because the thing about falling in love the first time is that you don't think about your fears, or the pain other people have caused you. You just fall, face-first into that other person, and nest in your happiness for however long. I don't think she could ever trust somebody that much.

I hope she does know how that feels someday.



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188,847 I'm glad I have a new book to read. I'm deeply sad with my life and I could use some time in a different world.



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188,846 There was a guy I was talking to who I never met.  He said he wanted to date me, he said he had feelings for me, we sent pics, we talked about a lot of things.  He wanted to meet, timing didn't work out, and in the end, he pulled that "but we never even met!" card too.  When you're telling a girl you like her and talking in certain ways, you can't blame her for catching feelings. How many people fall online nowadays? Sometimes guys lead you on and then play you and act like you're the crazy one.  It's fucked up.  I think it's an ego thing, "let's see if i can make this girl like me" and then reject her to boost his ego. That's the impression i got from him.



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188,845 I once had an "emotional affair" with a woman.  It wasn't emotional for me - it was just phone sex and a lot of masturbating with us.  After a few months she started thinking I was going to leave my wife for her.  I didn't even know this woman.  She lived 2,000 miles away from me.  I never actually touched her or even saw her in person, and she thought I would leave my wife for her?  I know women are emotionally attached to affairs (even though this wasn't one), but this was crazy.



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188,844 Muse is coming to Red Rocks on the 18th. My secret? I am SO EXCITED ABOUT THIS, more than I've ever been excited about anything else in my whole life. My favorite natural setting. My favorite band. Matt Bellamy is talented as Fuck, and I've been listening to them since day 1 and I've waited half my life to see them and as it goes I get to see them at fucking RED ROCKS! I have the tickets, and my date. Please please, universe...let me have this bit of joy in a time where most of my joy has been ripped away. Please don't let anything happen to keep me from going to this one show.  Please.



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188,843 I created a fake Facebook profile so I could be a different person online than I really am.  I find myself using it to post gushing, encouraging things to people.  I must be an asshole.



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188,842 The man I've loved for years told me this morning "You're ok". Wow, I'm ok. Just ok. A nice reminder of everything I'll never be, that I'm not good enough. I'm just "ok". My heart is breaking all over again.



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188,841 At least this way I won't have to wake up in ten years to you telling me you cheated on me the entire time we were together. More like 2.8 years.



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188,840 I can tell who the divorced women are.  They're the ones who stare at me while I talk to them.



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188,839 My husband used to cheat on me and you know what I did? I move to our second home and quit being intimate with him , he likes to sleep around and mess around that's fine as a long he doesn't expect me having sex with him.  We still love each other just not sexually and we have no plans on getting divorce our arrangement has work well for ten years, sex doesn't make  or define a marriage, not mine anyways.



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188,838 Cheating really is a terrible thing to do to somebody (whether you're a man or woman). Now I get that life is messy. If somebody is cheating because they are being abused or seriously neglected in their relationship, then I can have some sympathy for them. But if the spouse/partner is a good person, if they trust you, if you plan to stay in the marriage, then it is a terrible thing to do.

You made a commitment to each other to always take care of each other and have the other person's best interest at heart. Your spouse should be the one person in the world that you know you can always count on and will always have your back. They become your family and an extension of yourself.

If you cheat, you are choosing somebody else over them. You are saying that they are not worthy of your loyalty, that your marriage isn't sacred, that you're not trustworthy.

Of course it doesn't necessarily mean that you don't love them. Maybe you will have a long, happy marriage and they will never have a clue that you were unfaithful. But you will always know. It will always be in the back of your mind. When they look at you with pure love and trust, you will always know that their trust is misplaced. The relationship they believe they are part of (where both people have always been faithful) is a lie. And you know that.

Maybe they will find out. Maybe it will end your marriage and destroy the life that you were building together and the future that would have been; and destroy who they were in the process. Maybe you will stay together and try to work it out, but they will never, ever fully trust you EVER again; nor should they, really. Maybe they won't ever tell you they know. Maybe you will always wonder if they do, but never be able to ask. The secret always hanging between you. Maybe they will never know for sure, but might suspect, making them suspicious of you, but also angry at themselves for not really trusting you.

I'm sure not all cheaters are terrible people.... but it's pretty much the worst thing you could do to your spouse.



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188,837 I wish relationships were about love.  They are about money and social status.  I'll sadly stay single over being in a shallow relationship.



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188,836 #8800 - VERY funny!



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188,835 Everyone is too damaged to have real, selfless relationships beyond age ~28.



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188,834 If Trump is the only thing in your life that makes you angry.  You really have no issues in life. Get over it. He had more issues than to worry about you being angry with him.



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188,833 I went on a diet for about an hour - right up until dinner was ready. Maybe tomorrow I'll have more willpower.



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188,832 Two things.  The bike story was the hottest thing I ever read and my secret is now I am going to scope out Facebook to see if any of my friends were in a bike race that required them to stay overnight.  I would love every single detail.

The EPA under Obama became one of the most corrupt political entities in the world.  They would go to big companies like Coke or Pepsi and tell them they violated some made up law.  They then told these CEO's that they could either give $100,000 to BLM or they would be fined millions of dollars.  The CEO's said it felt like they were being shaken down by the mob.  Don't believe me?  The main stream "media" failed to cover a lot of this.  And when a government agency has that much power then we will become like every other third-world shithole.  Thank God Trump is President and I hope to hell he shuts it down.  Shut down the IRS as well.



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188,831 Trump makes me so angry. Why would you repeal the EPA?!?!

Oh good, so that chemical plant explodes and the EPA isn't properly funded anymore because apparently the condition of our environment is a bag of BS to King Dingleberry. Excellent, chemicals, flesh eating virus, E. Coli among other atrocities floating around in that water and Trump's all, "Life's tough wear a helmet America."

God he's a loser.
Can we repeal him?!



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188,830 Catholic school made my daughter a devout atheist. I think it's hilarious.



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188,829 Reality shows are like sex with a spouse. So fucking predictable and contrived. Mundane. Really tv has done so much damage to our society and culture.  A generation has grown up with it. It's all they know.

Que the high hats. Momma Chrisley knocked over a lamp. The dog looks vexed. Someone bleets out thoughtless oaths in some barbaric southern dialect...and scene. Go to commercial.



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188,828 It seems like no matter what I do, I'm always just spinning my wheels.



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188,827 This Korean MILF just moved in next door.  My kids are playing with her kids, and she's always chatting me up.  I know she's probably just being neighborly, but she does seem to like to talk with me.



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188,826 I'm tired of people telling me I should pray when bad things happen. I don't want to fucking pray anymore. That doesn't do shit. If it's going to happen, it's going to happen. My prayers are not going to change that. I don't fancy myself as being so great as to sway the course of events through prayers. Prayers aren't going to help victims of natural disasters, but donations of money and time certainly can. Prayers for a family member with cancer aren't going to help her, but spending time with her while she is still here means the world to her. Other people can pray if they want, but I'm done with it. I want to DO something to help.



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188,825 The difference between men and women cheating is , most men do it because of sex and nothing more , sure they will sweet talk the other women making them think there's more than sex while women cheat when they feel neglected at home and it's more emotional than sex while there's a few of women that do it just for sex most don't and given that chance the women will be willing to leave everything (family,kids) for the guy.

Also most women that have affairs with married men , expect the guy to leave his family for her and would do everything to make that happen , especially if she is single with no kids.  So most of the time society looks at the other women and place the whole blame on her if the guys marriage ends on divorce.



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188,824 At a party this weekend, a group of husbands were talking about their wives and sex. A question was asked that made us all feel awkward.

"She is lying on the table, wearing a bikini, headphones, and a sleeping mask, her wrists and ankles tied to the table legs. Who would you, as her husband, trust to leave completely alone with her for five minutes? For an hour? Is it because you trust him to be a gentleman, or because you know he won't?"

I saw three guys sneaking peeks at me. I'm not sure if they were thinking about their wives or mine, but either way it weirded me out.

My secret is that I could see some of them acting on it.

My secret is that I don't know if I could handle being chosen.

My secret is that I wouldn't do that to my wife because of how little she likes sex, and that would embarrass me.

My secret is that the fantasy of it excites me, but my rational mind tells me it would probably suck in real life. Damn those sour grapes.



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188,823 I've noticed on this website that nobody bats and eye when men cheat, which is frequently, but when the occasional woman posts about cheating, she'll get a multitude of condemnations. Hmmm



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188,822 Is it crazy that I'm 39 years old and I like and can actually relate to XXXTentacion? He's a 19-year old rapper from Florida for the uniformed.

- "Fuck with me!"



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188,821 Cheaters are horrible, horrible people.



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188,820 I can't imagine anything sweeter than approaching the end of my days and being able to look into my spouse's eyes and saying with all honesty that I was always faithful to her and never once broke my marriage vow.  Knowing I'd be giving that up that is more than enough to keep me from straying.



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188,819 People are always complaining to me but never asking ho I am



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188,818 I placed second in my age group in the bike race! It gave me some new found energy. So yes, I think it was worth it! :) :) :)

Now I'm about to check out of the hotel and return home to my husband. My paranoid mind wonders if he'll be able to tell what I did. But of course he can't. It's my guilty mind playing tricks on me.



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188,817 813 - was it worth it?



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188,816 There's this guy that that always parks his car on the library, I notice he is always sitting on his car , I saw him the other day changing his shirt on it.  Maybe he is homeless , unemployed and waits until the shelters are open , I'm tempted to walk up there and ask if he needs help (warm meal, clothes, gas money etc...) idk it's hard to trust people this days .



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188,815 Now go to the doctor to be treated, before you take that shit home to your husband



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188,814 I've thought a lot about parallel lives lately. You'll always be a part of me.



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188,813 I'd be absolutely lost without my baby girl. 5 years old yet she's my rock. I love her more than I ever imagined I could love anything.



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188,812 I did it. I slept with him. Now what?



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188,811 I used to have this huge crush on this guy name Jonathan he had the most beautiful blue eyes I ever seen , sometimes I wonder what's he is up to since I haven't seen him on a long time , oh well I'm married anyways is not  like I'm available and who knows maybe he is married too.



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188,810 I had a cell phone for exactly one year. In that time, I received not a single phone call. None. I'm pathetic. I have no friends. So of course no one called me. What a waste of money. I turned the cell plan off. I don't need to be reminded everyday that I have no friends.



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188,809 My life by the numbers: 444, 222, 111, 333 and 555. These numbers symbolize my life currently.



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188,808 Previous poster about St. Michael -- we're doing the same thing in our parish.  Vatican II said the Mass is complete in itself, doesn't need anything added or taken away and here we are after the final dismissal adding something!  Shouldn't be doing it.  About praying to God himself -- that's what the Moslems do -- not to Mohammed or anyone but the Creator of the Universe Himself.  That's the way it should be.  Attendance in Catholic Churches in the Pittsburgh Diocese is down 40% from last year.  Wonder Why?



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188,807 The parish in my town has started this practice of saying a prayer to St. Michael (the archangel) after mass, asking him to save us from the attacks and snares of Satan.

I don't like it one bit. Not only is it an accretion --  which we've had two Vatican Councils warn us against -- it's quite frankly superstitious. I'm sure Michael the archangel is a powerful being in heaven, but I'm even more sure that God himself is more powerful, and certainly capable of saving us from the attacks and snares of Satan. If we're going to pray to anyone, why wouldn't we max it out and pray directly to God?

So I stand there with my arms at my sides, quietly. I try to be respectful of those who are praying it. But lately I've been thinking of sitting. I would rather respect God than worry about what Michael the archangel is up to.



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188,806 This lonilness is starting to over take me... Trying hard to overcome it. It is becoming too much for me to handle.



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188,805 It really annoys me when people say to me "I'd never live in California, too many earthquakes!" Are you fucking kidding me?! There are places in the country that get tornados, hurricanes, blizzards, and severe thunderstorms EVERY YEAR, and they're taking a dig at my state for events that happen once in a generation? Some people are such idiots.



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188,804 I saw you in my dream last night. It hurt so much when I woke up. No one could soothe and reassure me like you could. No one made me laugh as much as you did. For what's it's worth, I loved you. A part of me always will and a part of me will always wish that it could have worked out for us. When you dropped off the face off the earth and dropped me too just out of the blue, it left a hole that no one's ever really been able to fill. I miss you, and I hope you're doing well even though sometimes I think I hate you...I don't really mean it.



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188,803 A LOT of men grab each others nipples and think nothing of it. What's up with that? It has almost become a greeting among white men. I noticed Latinos do it as well. I'm am sure these are all straight guys but that is just fucking weird. I wonder what is going through a straight guys head when he is reaching out to another man to grab his boob or any other weird place. It puts me in a odd place where I have to say, "Hey can you please not touch me like that?" I sound like a woman. I guess that must be part of the "thrill". Not sure but talk about creepy/homo-erotic..



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188,802 I don't have any hobbies. I used to. But now I have kids. And two jobs. So I no longer have time for hobbies. Some day though.



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188,801 Where people go to the doctor? I have never been ask the kind of questions, hobbies ? Really, when I go to the doctors I gave them as little information as I can in fact I don't even write down my full name.



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188,800 My soul loves his soul.



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