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189,999 I had a weird reunion with an old friend through FB. He asked me to help him with a property, so I met him and helped him flip this apartment. He asked me to go to an art show with him and his wife. but I basically declined saying that I would get in touch if I thought I would be free.
Things were pretty shambolic at home, so I laid low through the weekend of said event, didn't call...
He decided to shut me out after that. Maybe I should have apologized for not calling? Prior to that, he was practically offering me a high paying job in his boss's shop. What the hell? I had a bad weekend dealing with my family stuff.
It's a shame. Was FB this misleading? I'm not sure. I have questions. I had some unresolved business which I've chosen to forget about. It's just hard to understand especially when you come from a place of wanting to understand. After all, he got in touch with me in the first place.
The more I think about it, the more I'm really disappointed I didn't get that cream puff job.
I have so much actual work to do.



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189,998 I think I'm going to ask my husband for new boobs for my 40 birthday , I had a lift and a small reduction almost ten years ago but this time I wanted them smaller , they still look great even though my weight been up and down the last few years . I just think they are too big for my frame and people always assume they are fake lol, no they are real I don't have any implants . My doctor just took some volume , took the extra skin and reshape and mold my boobs using my own breast tissue .



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189,997 Back in the 5th grade, a new boy came to our school.  He tortured me.  I guess he had a crush on me, but he always did whatever he could to annoy me, even getting physical.

One day I was headed to the back of the classroom to sharpen my pencil.  As I passed his desk, he stuck out his foot and I tripped.  He laughed.  Everyone laughed.

On the way back to my desk, he put his arm out at the last minute to block me.  I ran right into it.  He laughed.  Everyone laughed.  I'd had enough.  I stabbed him in his hand with my pencil.  I didn't remember anything else about that, but I did remember that he didn't come back to our school the next year.

Flash forward 30-some years.  He finds me on Facebook.  He sends a nice message, and we friend each other.  We laugh about the pencil incident.  Let bygones be bygones, right?  We were just kids back then.

We became good friends.  We began talking on the phone.  Both of us were going through divorces, so we commiserated with each other.  At one point, my divorce proceedings were getting contentious.  My ex was being terrible and I was stressed out beyond comprehension.  My friend offered to fly me out (he lived across the country now) to spend a weekend at his cabin on a lake.  No strings, just friends.  I said I'd think about it.  He seemed nice enough, but something felt a little off about it all.

But then, after a particularly terrible week in court that had me on the verge of a breakdown, I called him and said I'd take him up on his offer.  We started figuring out dates, but didn't get very far because he'd had a few drinks and was a little drunk.  And that's when he told me more about the pencil incident.

I must have blocked it out.  It wasn't that he didn't return to our school the next year - he didn't come back to school after that incident.  Apparently we were called into the Principal's office (memories started coming back) and there was a meeting with our parents.  A couple things about my parents.  One, they weren't anyone to mess with, and two, they were major financial contributors to our school.  So even though I did something terrible and hurt him, he was the cause of my actions, and therefore was expelled.  He told me that his parents beat him pretty badly for it.  We went to a private school, and it wasn't cheap, so he'd caused them to lose money.

Suddenly I got a HUGE wave of fear.  I started shaking, and was genuinely scared.  I got the feeling that he wasn't just being a friend - for some reason I felt that he was seeking retribution.  It was only then that I Googled him.  How weird.  I learned more about him online than I did in the hours we'd talked for nearly a year.  For one, we both went into the same branch of the service right after high school.  He knew I did, but he never once mentioned that he'd served 20 years.  Why wouldn't he mention that?

I unfriended him from FB and ignored his calls after that.  Strangely, he let it go.  He only called a couple times and never tried to figure out why I ghosted him.  Odd.  I still get a creepy feeling when I think about it.  Oh, and the other weird thing - I was the only one from our school that he'd friended.



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189,996 I still have the food your mom gave us from 8 years ago, or so. I'm not sure how long it's been. Today I made the scalloped potatoes and added eggs, WI cheddar and Canadian bacon. At some point last year I made a black bean dip with 10-year-old beans. Still good. I should keep that stuff around for the apocalypse.

They were saying at the historical farm they did some such similar thing with a 10-year-old smoked ham, only they didn't tell anyone before serving it. Nobody noticed.

Virtually anything tastes good when you use fleur de sel. It shouldn't work that way, but it does.



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189,995 My Mom and I always loved to watch incest porn and recreate the sex scenes in real life!  we had a wonderful affair for around 5 years, until she got ill & finally passed away from lung cancer.  Shortly before Mom died, she told me her only regret was that she couldn't give me a daughter to take her place one day.  I suppose it's just as well, because after Mom, I could never want another lover - she truly was the love of my life and I MISS her sorely everyday!  I only pray that when I die, I'll find myself on a beautiful tropical beach with Mom, where we'll make love until the end of time!  I love you, Mom - always and forever!!!



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189,994 Was it her tongue ring or her absolute love of my cock that made the blowjob so good



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189,993 Hey dumb ass I'm not from the Middle East or India ok , not there's anything wrong with those places . I'm of a Basque and Asturian  mostly , I got my tan from my full blooded Native American grandmother and please learn the difference between nationality and ethnicity.



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189,992 You're a dumbass for staying with your cheating hubby.



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189,991 At my church, they always have that "passing the peace" part of the service.

Now I don't object to saying "Peace be with you," but I DO NOT LIKE shaking hands with strangers. Who knows what icky things they might have been doing?

So every week I wear a splint on my hand when I go to church. That way I can just raise my hand with an apologetic look and--problem solved.



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189,990 I worked with this guy. He told the story of when he was in his 20s he lived on a commune farm down south. They grew their own food and had no contact with the outside world. The best part, they were naked the entire time. He said he went for an entire year with no clothes on. Men and women both, no one wore clothes.  Sign me up.



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189,989 My maternal grandparents live the lifestyle, my grandfather had a few acres of land right on the water , with chickens, pigs and horses. They also grew their own food . While it was peaceful and the food delicious it was hard work my grandpa used to be up by 5am and didn't go back to bed until 11pm , all the food was made from scratch so it took forever to prep a meal , when my mother become an adult she couldn't wait to moved out there , she met my father (a big city guy) married him ,moved to the big city and never look back .  We used to visit my grandfather twice a year , it was nice to have peace and quite for a while , we used to go fishing with grandpa , fed the animals , horse riding and swim on the river.  But honestly being born on a big city and living on many different big cities, I don't know if I could give up the lifestyle, maybe for a few months a year .



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189,988 My fantasty is buying a piece of land, close to a city or town but not in it. Somewhere in the north or even Canada.
Have a small house on it, full of books. Don't care about a tv. Maybe have well water or I can get lucky and find something with a spring.
I would raise chickens for eggs, goats for cheese, some bees for honey. Have a garden and a green house for herbs and veggies.
Solar panels.
Give up my stressful cubicle soul sucking job for working at a book store or a library. Sell my excess eggs/honey at a farmers market.
Read a lot, travel when I can afford it. Spend my time outdoors.

Anyway, you should go for yours.
I'm working on mine.
In few years, I think I'll be there. It keeps me moving.



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189,987 I keep fantasising about leaving the country, moving to a small village somewhere in Europe and just living simply. No TV, maybe an old computer I would use to check email sporadically and write on (let's face it, typewriters are a bitch, even if they look cool), certainly no microwave. Absolutely nothing more advanced than a flip phone for telephone purposes. Hey, I might just stick to an old school wall phone; does anyone really need to reach me right that moment?

Mostly I'd just surround myself with books, newspapers for my daily updates, perhaps a moka pot. I'd walk into town every day to do my shopping and make sure the world hadn't blown itself up yet; I don't need constant reminders that the world is fucked up and everyone is miserable.

I just want peace and quiet.



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189,986 I finally got the chance to jerk off this morning.  I found some great porn and started pounding away.  Suddenly I heard my 5 year old upstairs announce that he wanted to go into the basement, where I was.  Its the fastest I've ever pounded away, and I had to shut the browser window out at the same time I was cumming.  I still got it done.



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189,985 For years I regretted that it didn't work out between us.  

And then I grew up and realized that you were dull, unattractive, and not very bright.

To this day I'm not sure what the fuck was going through my head with you.  I'm a dumbass.



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189,984 My mother, 78, is fading. She is going to die on her chair. My deaf father, who wears earphones all day, will not notice until bedtime if I don't happen to be here.



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189,983 If you align yourself with a political party, you've just signed your brain and free self away. You're rallying for a group of rich thieving fucks who don't give a shit about you. Grown adults siding and defending rich assholes- holy shit you can be an independent thinker. You all look STUPID using words like Dem, Nazi, libtard, snowflake etc. IT MAKES YOU LOOK STUPID TO SMART PEOPLE TALKING LIKE THAT. Stop.



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189,982 ***981***

I absolutely know exactly what you're going through.



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189,981 You came to me in my dreams last night. You were only a grey figure, but I knew it was you. I felt your love. I swear to god that I heard your voice. You were there for me.  If only you knew how much I love you still and how much I regret that it will never work out between us. I'll always blame myself. When I close my eyes, I can still imagine lying in bed with you, my head on your shoulder and your strong arms around me. There is not a more perfect person for me on this earth than you. I'm sorry. I'm so fucking sorry. Whether you hate me or have feelings for me; I hope you are happy and will always, always love you.



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189,980 P.S. I hurt everyday. I hope you understand how important that makes you.



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189,979 I am so absolutely dissatisfied with the choices I make in life. My alter ego is fighting the innocent version of me. The version that loved you no matter what. The one that never wanted to hurt you.

But alas.
I lose.
I hurt you, and because I did -

I will hurt until my last breath, because you were everything and more than I thought I ever needed to receive in this life. You banished my depression, and self hate. You gave me sight, pride, and contentness, because you were mine.

I love you for ever and ever and ever, monkey.
Your penguin.



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189,978 I'm sorry I burned down the orphanage. I can see why you are soooo mad at me.

Oh wait. I didn't burn down the orphanage. I did nothing wrong. You're the one who messed up. So why exactly am I supposed to apologize to you?



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189,977 I want to mess around with him so badly. I feel like we could have some fun. Fuck.



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189,976 There's a piece of graphite stuck in the back of my hand from 5th grade when Timmy Boyd stabbed me with a pencil. It happen about 30 years ago. I see it everyday and think the name Timmy Boyd. One day I'm going to track him down and pummel him.



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189,975 It detracts from the mood when your black lacy thong has a little white tag showing laundry instructions. Wish there was a way to remove those darned things.



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189,974 My car key doubles as a q-tip for my ears.



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189,973 Handsome and sweet - that picture took me back .



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189,972 This summer I was out with some buds. We were driving around and drinking beer. We had to take a whiz. I knew exactly where to go. A cop lives down the road from me. ha ha ha.



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189,971 CNN has a cover piece about how Harvey's Weinstein's sexual harassment of women is Trump's fault. The Donald made him do it.

Oh okay.



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189,970 If you say something that can viewed as critical of a minority person, you are a racist. That's apparently the rule.

"I don't like your hat." Racist.

"You cut ahead of me on line." Racist.

"You like Coke. I like Pepsi better." Racist.



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189,969 People who snoop around in other peoples emails are very insecure.



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189,968 I am a survival of sexual harassment and violence. All of the incidents were done to me by men, beginning when I was 15 years old. I'd love to share my "me too" story with the world, but I am too ashamed to say it publicly, because I am a man, and I don't want to be seen as less manly because of what has happened to me. I can only imagine what women go through dealing with stuff like this.

Sisters, I am here for you. My silent brothers, I'm here for you too. Even though plenty of people want to kick you when you're already down, and make you relieve your trauma while simultaneously lashing out at you for being victims, there are people out there that support you too, both men and women. Sexual harassment and assault is all about power, and there's a perceived power in trying to shame you about it. I might be personally ashamed, but no one should be made to feel that way, by anyone.

This isn't going to stop until we hold people accountable for abusing their power. Until that happens, we're stuck in this never-ending cycle. I hope to one day work up the courage to speak up publicly about what happened, but no matter what I will be here doing my best to support the people who have gone through the same horrific situation that I have. Hopefully we will all be able to regain a little bit of the things that were forcefully taken from us.



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189,967 There are people out there who think they are good and kind. They are not. But they constantly tell themselves they are good to cover up the truth they know exists deep down, that they are bad selfish people.



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189,966 I'm a guy and a father. I volunteered to help with a project at the elementary school. I was the only guy volunteering. School volunteers are always mothers. From the start I felt they resented my being there. About a month into the project, I made a suggestion which ran counter to something they wanted to do. Sorry, but what they were suggesting made little sense. There was a better way to accomplish one of the goals. I said all this very nicely to them. Well that was that. I was now the enemy. Within a few days they circulated a rumor that I was being sexually inappropriate with the students. The principal came and spoke with me. He said I wasn't allowed to be in the school or with any of the students without a teacher present. I was appalled at the way this turned out. I never volunteered again. The mothers won. Yay for them. There is one less person helping the students, but that doesn't matter. What's important is that they crushed a male figure. Because after all, school isn't about the students, it's all about the mothers and their gossiping tribe. I hear the stories in the news about women being sexually harassed. I have trouble believing the tales. I wonder if the women are making it up out of spite. They were pissed someone contradicted them, so they made up hurtful stories. I have no sympathy for the women. That ship sailed.



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189,965 It's sad, I wanted to masturbate, but then I thought about how much more I want from a person and I got sad enough to lose my drive. Damn. I just want really good sex and cuddles



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189,964 I have a drama queen "friend" at work. She's constantly looking to start a political fight. I swear, you go out to lunch with her and if you order a sandwich on white bread instead of on a bagel, she says it's an anti semetic gesture. Like holy shit girl, grow the fuck up.



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189,963 Now the dems are attacking a gold star father, Chief Of Staff John Kelly. I don't mention it to stir the mud. But think about how the dems went nuts when Trump had harsh words for a gold star father before the election. Now the dems are doing the same thing. Everyone needs to stop and think about the things they do.



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189,962 I ate a deep dish pizza and root beer for breakfast. Fuck you healthy diet!



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189,961 I let my phone battery drain to zero sometimes so he won't know where I am and he can't call me. Ahhh. Peace!



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189,960 I'm so happy for you. You've got an amazing new girlfriend who seems perfect for you and you for her as well. You're traveling everywhere now. It brings me such joy to see you happy. You were overdue for happiness and love ❤️.  xoxo



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189,959 *935 - Why is that picture of me in ྎ killing you?



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189,958 Enough of this #MeToo- just stop! Yes it is horrific and I know; I lived it- me and millions of others. This "movement" just brought back dormant memories that I fought so hard to forget  Thanks. If you want to do a #me too- - do not forget the male victims of rape- like my nephew.



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189,957 My son saw some kids cheating on a test. He asked me if he should tell the teacher. I said no. No one likes a snitch. I'm feeling a little guilty. I'm not sure if I'm being a good role model for him.



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189,956 #955 have you tried wearing gloves when you do wash your hair. they also say baking soda, coconut oil, or apple cider vinegar is good for washing hair.  hope things get better for you.



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189,955 Every time I wash my hair I get a nasty itchy rash on my hands. I haven't been able to find a shampoo/ conditioner that doesn't cause this. It's super frustrating and all the trial and error is expensive and wasteful. I went to an allergist and he couldn't help me. As a result I don't wash my hair until I absolutely have to.

I really need to find a solution to this.



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189,954 I have an overwhelming sense of impending doom. I think something very bad is about to happen in the world.



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189,953 I stole a pair of socks today.

I went to babies r us and walked around the store with my stroller. I picked up several items, including the pair of socks from a large bin. I got to the cash register, put all my stuff on the counter and paid with my debit card. As soon as I pulled my card out of the machine after paying, I noticed the socks were sitting on the cup holder/ tray part of the stroller and that I hadn't paid for them. The right thing to do would have been to apologize and have her ring them through separately, but there was a line up behind me and I didn't want to be annoying. I kind of panicked and walked out of the store with the socks still on the stroller. Nobody noticed.

I bought about $65.00 worth of stuff. The socks were 99 cents. I don't think anybody will care.

I still feel super guilty.



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189,952 My mailbox is so far from my house that on most days I don't bother getting the mail. It's all junk anyway.



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189,951 I shouldn't have been driving today. I was too hungover but I went to get food anyway. Everything was fine until I got to my street there was no parking and I had to do a u-turn. I figured I would go into a small driveway at the end reverse and go back down the street. What I didn't realize was that there was a car parked across the street, my foot slipped and the car went all the way back way too fast to the point that I hit the brake and felt as the car touched the other one. I feel so bad but there are no dents or scratches on either so I drove away. Now I'm paranoid hoping no one saw. No one said anything....but this is a somewhat sketchy part so now I'm afraid to have anyone come up to me.



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189,950 were but for a wall
a slight angle refracting
'twixt morning glances



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189,949 I'm tired of waiting around for you to make up your mind and realize what you want. I deserve way better than this.  I'm sick of putting up with your excuses and accusations. Just tell me like it is and lets go our separate ways.



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189,948 MGTOW is not based on fear of women (lol),its an angry response to the liberated women who are unloveable.



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189,947 First of all this is not men vs women , plenty of men get sexual harassed and been rape either by other women or men . I think a lot of them keep it to themselves because they don't want to be ridiculed by both men /women worst if they were assault by another man .  Rape and sexual assault has nothing to do with sex itself it's more of a power thing and the sex thing to humiliate the victim there a reason why plenty of straight males assault other males even though they are not home sexual and don't get me started on those discussting women who take advantage of little boys , like we been hearing lately from female teachers having sex with their students and the worst part is they just get a slap on their hand while the men who do the same get thrown in jail for a very long time.

37f



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189,946 I'd love to post "me too" on my Facebook. But I can't.

I've been raped multiple times by different men, coerced into sexual favors by two different women (one a manager, one a childhood friend), and harassed more times than I can count. But many of my Facebook friends are former coworkers in an industry where reputation is everything, and I don't need them looking at it and assuming I'm some crybaby. Cuz that's what people seem to think. "Oh, well, s/he gave you a job, what are you complaining about?" Yeah, fuck you.

No one wants to admit that this code of silence and ostracizing of people who do report is why no one reports any of this. It's not just Harvey Weinstein, it's the manager at your local McDonald's, it's the president of your bank, it's your husbands and fathers and brothers. And sometimes your sisters.

And it goes beyond the workplace. You didn't like the guy your sorority president threw you into a room with alone when you were six sheets to the wind your first semester? What the fuck is wrong with you, you don't like dick or something? Somehow, it's always the woman's fault. Always. And, to be fair, I've experienced it both ways-- I've had women force me into sexual situations, too, and I've seen women be complicit in sexual assaults, serving as "wing-women," lying and helping guys to cover their tracks, and so on. Neither gender has a handle on being shitty. And I gotta add: it's usually not about sex, it's usually all about the power trip.

I hope things start to change soon, but taking a look around here, I don't think they will. But one thing I will say... I really believe that all this male bellyaching and resentment and MGTOW/redpill bullshit is caused by the deep-rooted fear that women will start treating men the way men have always treated women.

And, given some of the experiences I've had, they might have cause for concern. But I don't think men can say it wasn't earned.



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189,945 189925 - here is a secret - sorry to bust your bubble, but you make life, life does not make you. If you are 65ish, tired and waiting to die in a few years, then life is making you. If you get off your butt, live life, enjoy the air, walk under oak trees, see the ocean break on the shore, enjoy a glass of wine, don't eat shitty food and stick your fuck you finger at things that are trying to push you down, then you may live to be 100.... just saying...



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189,944 Blame Oprah for all these "feelings".Life is not about feelings -get over it. This  "Me Too" is part of the victimization of America by Democrats.  Stuff happens-get up, dust yourself off and keep going. We all do it!



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189,943 Once in a while when I get a late night text or an early morning one, I wonder if it will be you reaching out to me.



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189,942 Haha my husband ask me if I have a boyfriend, no but I wish sometimes I mean I let him have a girl on the side but I'm just to busy that I don't think I have the time for that .



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189,941 Now that we are talking about stalkers, I remember when I was in 3rd grade, I was attending this catholic school.  Back then, still now, parents used to hire private transportation to take the kids to school as well as to bring them back.  I think that's how I met this kid, who was in 4th grade.  He used to be really "friendly" with me, so much, his classmates started bothering him.  I think they saw something I did not realize then, but his classmates where onto something weird.  Years later I realized the same.  This kid was really friendly with me, he wanted to be with me all during recess time, and even after school.  Almost like he was obsessed with me, and I think that's what his classmates saw.  Once he told me to life for him, he asked me to tell his classmate that I was his brother.  I didn't think too much of it, so I did what his kid asked me to do, I told his classmate I was his brother. But I tell you, and I realized years later, I think this kids was fucked up.  As years went by, I did not hang out with him as much, anymore, but he would still come around me at school.  I remember one instance, I was playing with my classmates, a couple of years later, and this kid came and made a fuss trying to pick a fight with my classmates because I was playing with them, and not with him.  Same thing happened a couple of years later, he came to make my life miserable.  Like I said, I think he was obsessed, at that early age.  Eventually, I never saw him again.  Like I said, I think this guy was fucked up, and it would not surprise me if he is gay now, but not the regular gay who lives a normal life, but the gay who is fucked up in the head, and could be actually a sexual predator because he had been probably traumatized as a little kid.



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189,940 933, Check out James Joyce's letters to Nora Barnacle. Anal sex is nothing new.



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189,939 My friend has had her dog for almost a year and he is still not house trained! Ew. Get with it girl! Put in some effort for a change! Teach the dog to do his business outside!



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189,938 Guys don't get too frustrated with women and their me too stories, and them complaining about everything !there are women out there who laugh and scoff at that. there's also women in other countries who  are completely different and let the male take the role, and treat you like a king!
They think American women are terrible



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189,937 i can't masterbate if my cat is in the room. i feel like she's judging me. out she goes!



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189,936 I think scratching  my back  is as good as an orgasam



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189,935 That picture of you in ‘82...you're killing me.



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189,934 So these are the guys who are going to bring about total nuclear destruction. Not two power hungry warmongers, just two comic opera dipshits with no grasp of what they are doing.



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189,933 I wonder if people had anal sex before our current generation? Did my grandmother spread her cheeks and let grandpa spew in there? Did George Washington have anal sex with Martha? Did cavemen grunt how regular sex was getting a little boring, so they stuck it in the backdoor?

Or did everyone in the past do regular sex, and it's only in the past 20 years, thanks to the power of the internet, that people realized anal sex was possible, so they started trying it out.



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189,932 When I was a little kid, like 5 years old, my dad worked at the New York Stock Exchange. He showed me a picture of the place, with people gathered around in a circle, arms flailing while bargaining with each other. But I misunderstood what he said. I thought he worked at the New York Sock Exchange where people get together and trade their socks back and forth. I remember him coming home and me looking at his socks and thinking they were nice and he was obviously good at his job.



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189,931 Fake biased news is seemingly everywhere,

But the best media source I have found, that is well written and filled with facts, is.......... Al Jazeera.



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189,930 We both know it's over. Why are going through the motions. We have nothing in common. I already let you go. I know you let me go. One of us is has to say it. Please.



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189,929 single, white, female.
I wish my life was easier.



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189,928 This is for 897.  Many years ago there was a neighborhood hangout where my friends and I would meet to unwind.  Sometimes I'd go without them, and in doing so, widened my friend circle.  Most of them were guys, because I enjoyed playing pool, and was one of the few women who did.  While most of the women were friendly with me, I only made one real female friend there.

There was a guy who I became friendly with.  He was a really nice guy, and HOT - just my type.  But I was dating someone at the time, so I declined his request for a date.  Whenever I'd see him, he'd ask if I were still seeing someone.

Finally one day after I'd broken up with my boyfriend, I saw him and let him know I was free.  I gave him my number, and we agreed to go out for drinks that weekend.

He picked me up, and we headed to a local hot spot that was a few blocks from my house.  After a little while of pleasant conversation and getting to know each other, things turned.  He scooted his chair closer to mine, put one arm around me, and the other hand he placed on my crotch.  I was slightly stunned, moved his hand and asked him what he was doing.  "Oh come on baby, you know you like it."  I told him I DIDN'T like it, and that he was being inappropriate.  He said, "Come on.  We've been hot for each other for years.  You're single now, what's the big deal?" and proceeded to put his hand on my crotch again.  I threw some money on the bar, said, "It's been real, goodnight," and left.

Once outside, I ran to a little one-way side street and began walking home.  But next thing I know, he's pulling up next to me in his car.  I turned around and ran to another street and began walking up that, and ahead of me I could see him passing the street I was on.  Now I was scared, so I stepped into the street and crouched between two cars, trying to figure out what to do.

Suddenly, I heard a voice behind me.  "Why are you hiding?"  It was him.  How the fuck he found me, I don't know.  I stood up, told him to leave me alone, and turned to walk away.  But he grabbed me, pushed me into a car and tried to kiss me forcefully.  I struggled to get away, but he held tighter.  I remembered something from the martial arts classes I'd taken way back in high school - I scraped the outside of my foot down his inner leg from his knee down.  I ran back to the bar we'd been at (since it was right there) and called a guy friend who came and got me, and made sure I was home safely.

That wasn't the end of it, though.  He texted me all night, saying he was outside my house and to let him in.  I was scared shitless.  This nice, hot guy who I was looking forward to dating had become a fucking nightmare.  Eventually he let up, but every now and again he'd text me asking if I were single.  I still have those texts.  No matter how many times I told him to leave me alone, he continued.  I'd been pondering moving out of the city for some time, and he was a deciding factor for finally doing so.

Why didn't I call the cops that first night?  He WAS a cop.  I knew enough about the Blue Line to know that nothing would come of it (especially since his father was also a cop) and that doing so would cause me more grief that I was already going through.



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189,927 Thinking back on the times he assaulted me...age 19...21...22. 6 months of therapy for PTSD a year after the last time it happened. I carried this secret with me for 4 years. He'd come into my workplace and stare right at me as he walked by. I'll never forget his cold, dead, blue eyes and the way they fixated on me, and I'd remember when he'd say that I was his. Not someone he loved, but someone he felt he owned. In a way, after what he did to me, the PTSD was his indirect way of owning me. He didn't love me; he wanted power over someone he found pretty and attractive and wanted to have.

I'd see him in my nightmares, where he's pinned me down again and his hot breath burns down my neck. I'm begging him to let me go and fighting him, but he won't stop.

One day I was getting ready for work and straightening my hair. I looked into the mirror and saw his dead blue eyes glaring into my soul. I saw them in the fucking mirror. It terrified me to the core of my being. I screamed and started sobbing.



I started dating my first serious boyfriend when I was 17. I was smitten with him. We were both still virgins, and a few months into our relationship we started getting mor physical. He wanted a blowjob. I wasn't comfortable with the idea of it yet. He'd bitterly bring it up from time to time. One night we're making out on his bed. I was giving him a hand job, and I felt his hand push me by the back of my head down and told me to open my mouth. I was 18 and scared of his temper, so I did. He told me to put my lips around it and suck it as he pushed down on my head as I tried to pull away. He came down my throat and let me go. We had plans with friends that night and left soon after. I had a sick, sick  feeling in my stomach that entire night. I knew what happened wasn't right. I didn't even have a chance to say no. My brain repressed this memory until last year when my friends were talking about the first time they gave someone a blow job. It flooded back and I went outside and started sobbing at what i was remembering again.

I want to speak out and say “Me too” and show that I'm a survivor, but I can't let my family find out. It would hurt them if they knew anything about it.

So here I am, confessing this all to the cave because it's the only place I can anonymously. It takes a lot to start tearing me down, and these experiences almost did. I'm proud of surviving but less so that I still have to keep this whole thing a secret so my family will never find out and be hurt and anguished by it...it's a heavy burden to bear for me.  



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189,925 I drank the koolaid. Work hard and then live it up in retirement. Travel the world. Play golf. Pursue your hobbies.

They forgot to mention it's all BS. Once you're over 60 you have no more energy. You just want to sleep. Everything aches. Then you get sick and in a few months you're dead. They forgot to mention any of it.



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189,924 Screw the #'metoo. It is all about how secure we are with our own selves and not about how others think about overselves.  Get over it.



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189,923 I'll be sad if Trump either passes away or goes completely senile before  he has turned out of office in disgrace as he surely will be any day now.



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189,922 My innocence was ripped from me when I was a child. I don't play the victim card. In fact, I am successful and work hard at what I do. I'm also raising two beautiful kids... two beautiful kids who will never be passive aggressive smart asses about movements such as "me, too" rather, they will respect others for the courage that it took to participate.



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189,921 Me TOO
I blame everything on everyone around me.   Even stuff that I know is my fault.

That way, I can play the victim card for the rest of my life and never have to move forward.  

I never have to acknowledge my own faults.   Never be in spiritual alignment with the great Dao, never have to feel grateful for anything in my life.



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189,920 There is a profound communal catharsis all the people on here must be feeling sharing their common horrific experiences.

That said, unless the weather changes in here, I need to stay out of the Cave for a week or so. Reading about all these experinces is making me depressed and anxious.

They say “hurt people” hurt people.

Yikes and damn.

People suck.  The sun has set.

My heart hurts.

(I'm one of the people who shared. I've never been molested, just harassed. It all sucks, deplorable behavior of warped men and women.)

Yikes, my chakras are whacked. The energy in here is bringing me down, it's like watching the news kind of depressing.



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189,919 No, what I was trying to say is there are women who wouldn't like their husbands keeping a magazine just because the person on their cove is attractive.  Sad but true , I seen how some women act when I'm at the store , I once was on line and this couple were in front of me the guy keep staring at a magazine who had a women on a bikini , his wife (I assume) smacked him on the hand and told him don't be such a pig , I just kind laugh I taught it was hilarious and felt sorry for the men who was married to such an insecure women . It was just a picture for petes sake , is not like the women was going to crawl out of it and make up with the guy.



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189,918 I don't think there's anything wrong with finding a picture on the cover of a magazine attractive. I mean, if you found a pic of the magazine cover online and made sexually degrading comments about it, that might make you a pig. But there's nothing wrong with appreciating somebody's attractiveness.



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189,917 913- I don't really get what you're trying to say. Women are as bad as men because more women liked a pic of you? Are you saying that liking a picture and making comments unrelated to your appearance is sexual harassment? I'm not trying to argue. I just don't understand what you're insinuating.



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189,916 "Donald Trump said all these terrible things to the widow of a soldier! He should be impeached.!"

Because that makes sense. Trump constantly praises our soldiers. He made the military a pillar of his campaign. But sure, he then called up a widow and sad bad things about her dead husband. Yea, okay, sure he did........



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189,915 I've been sexually harassed on the job.

The first time, I was working at an electronics shop. A guy I worked with used to proposition me for blow jobs. He did it several times. The last time he did it was the last because I took a screwdriver and threatened to stab him in the stomach. He got all defensive saying I looked like the kind of person who gives blowjobs.

The second time, I was working at a restaurant. I was a dishwasher/busser. The cook used to ask me for blowjobs. He used to tell me that he wanted to fuck me in the ass. He used to rub up against my ass with his dick while I was washing pots & pans.

So, those are my times. Thing is, I am a man. These happened when I was 16 and 17.

Men are jerks. I totally blocked this stuff out. That is, until very recently in therapy. I'm doing therapy now, because I came out as gay last year.



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189,914 Yes , it's true women are the same. My  husband always gives me his Rolling Stones magazines when he is done reading them , so I can read them too , they had this one with Justin Trudeau in their front cover and instead of discarding the magazine once I read it , I decided to keep it .  I guess if the was a man and a hot chick was on the cover and kept it most women will call the guy a pig . Double standards do exist.



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189,913 Women are just as bad as men.  They're just quieter about it and do it in a different way.  

To test this, I posted a picture of myself on Facebook that I thought looked flattering, but not sexualized in any way.  To make sure that people didn't think the picture was supposed to show me looking physically attractive, I added a caption had nothing to do with how I looked physically.  I also very rarely post pictures of myself online, good or bad, so it made for a good opportunity to do this.

I wanted to see how many men liked the picture, versus how many women liked it.  If my previous pics were any indication, the responses should be about 50-50 men and women.

In the first hour, 25 people liked the picture and 10 people commented on it.  80% of the likes came from women, and 90% of the comments came from women.  None of the comments, however, had anything to do with how I looked physically.

Just like when men click "like" on an attractive picture of a woman... women do the same thing with an attractive picture of a guy.  Women just show interest in a more subtle way.



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189,912 People always are under the impression they are way better human beings than they actually are.  Just accept you definitely do shitty things to other people. Try not to, but when you do: acknowledge it, apologize, and move on. Educate yourself on how to be a better person in all aspects of your life. Better yourself on all fronts. Its really not rocket science.



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189,911 909...Broke my heart. Me, too. As a child. I live with the horror every day. Me.... TOO.



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189,910 I've been sexually assaulted by a guy once, and multiple times by women. With the guy, I was too young and ignorant to make a fuss about it, but in that small town, nothing would have happened to my cousin anyway.

With the females, you're damn right I knew better about "reporting" it, but I also knew that my age and gender would make the accusations fly back in my face. Well, I did tell some people in confidence, and some others saw it happen a few times. I just got "the look" and was told to ignore it.

There's a huge double standard. Massive. I'm not traumatized by the events. I didn't need counseling. From talking with female victims of rape, I know that my response is not the same as what females encounter. I also have seen what happens when a guy is accused of doing something. His life is fucked. Guilty or not, he's toast. I know why these other women told me to get over it - it was for my own personal and professional protection.



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189,909 Me, too.

I was 3, under my skirt
you tickled my knee
i carried the burden
of your secrets and it ruined me.

Me, too.
I was 5, and your cock
came alive
into my hand too hot for a child to hold.
Me, too.
I was 11, both of you said
suck our dicks or we'll tell
you told anyway
i am a slut apparently

Me, too.
I was 19 working for my dime
You told me to pull up my shirt
saying it like you're joking
we both knew you weren't

Me, too.
I was 26 and at your party
I just wanted to sleep, no, get off of me
I blamed myself because I was there
and was worried of my boyfriend dumping me

Me, too.
This is only the highlight reel
Not to mention the casual
beeps, honks, inappropriate comments
shit-I can't even remember them all



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189,908 Well, I've reached a milestone. Today I am 59 1/2, which means I can take any of my 403b account money without paying a penalty... hmmm I wonder what I'll do with the $37 I have in the account?



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189,907 905 - Zero to orgasmi in less than 60 seconds if I need to. I've timed it.



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189,906 My two cents: I'm a woman, I was teased as a child about my weight and suffer from sever insecurites about my body, I have extremely low self esteem, body dismorphia and an eating disorder that comes and goes, and I like being catcalled and whistled at. It makes me feel confident about my body knowing men find it attractive when I dont. I like the feeling of being hit on and sexually desired. No I dont put up with ass grabs or cupping those get face slaps for sure but te other stuff I really dont mind, it gives me confidence to look at myself in the mirror which is very hard for me to do.

All you women who read this may hate me and lash out at me, go ahead that's your opinion and you have a right to your opinion but this is mine.

I like being catcalled and whisled at. I like that I can turn heads and catch a mans attention. It makes it a little easier to get up and face the world, for me.

Just my two cents.
31/F



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189,905 I was talking with my girlfriends about masturbating, and one of them said they can get off in 2 minutes if they need to. Is it me or is that weirdly short? I need at least 10-15 minutes to cum, but I like taking longer anyway. Edging really does make you cum wayyyy harder



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189,904 I think there may be some truth to the statement that less attractive guys are more likely to be accused of sexual harassment than more attractive guys.

But you really can't fault a girl for not wanting to be with a guy she doesn't find attractive. You can't. Just like guys don't want to date women they don't find attractive. It's less socially acceptable for a woman to reject a man based on looks, but it is still her right.

If an unattractive guy compliments/ flirts with/ asks somebody out, no reasonable woman is going to consider that harassment. But if she turns him down or doesn't reciprocate and he keeps it up, that's when it becomes harassment. The difference is that she is more likely to reciprocate with an attractive guy. Is it shallow and unfair? Probably. But that's life.



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189,903 I'm meeting up with a guy tonight and I'm so excited! He says he's looking for something serious but he doesn't want to jump into things, which I get. I don't either. Even if he just wants to fuck, he looks sexy as hell. At the very least, Mama's getting laid. Fuck yes



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189,902 The sad part is that Mark Faber is right.



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189,901 I was sexually harassed by my charming and very attractive boss. He was out of my league in terms of looks, and I still think he was doing it more to flex his power over me than out of attraction. I am happily married, and had no interest no matter how attractive he was, which I made very clear to him. I reported it to HR, but they did nothing about it and implied I should be flattered by his attention. It eventually stopped when my husband returned from deployment (he's a Marine) and stopped by to have a 'chat' with him after work. So no, it's not about how attractive someone is.



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189,900 841 there is a big differance between flirting and harassing. The problem is we don't agree on what the differance is. If someone flirts with you and you don't like it make sure you tell them politley and clearly that you're not interested.If it stops they were flirting. If it continues they are herassing. Sexual assult is much easier to define.



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