secrets


archives




190,299 When I don't hear back from my husband, I tend to think the worst. Oh my god he was hit by a car and is in the ER right now dying!

No, he was stuck in traffic and got home 15 minutes late.

I kind of overact.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,298 Something weird has started happening to me. You know that sensation where you wake up and feel like your falling? I have started to get that feeling in my left arm. It usually happens when I'm overtired. But it feels like my left arm is falling or going to fall. It's very bizarre. To compensate, I tend to unconsciously  bend my arm and hold it tight against my body so it doesn't fall off. It's such a strange feeling. I have tried to google it and found nothing.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,297 I believe about 1/2 the harassment claims, or less.  It is to the point now your a nobody in Hollywood unless someone higher up the food chain there hit on you. Since no actress will want to admit they are a nobody in Hollywood, they all are claiming harassment in the past.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,296 294 Very well written! Congratulations!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,295 I need to stop cursing so much... For the most part, it happens when I'm dealing with people at work. They're fucking stupid!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,294 After an unsavory interaction with my co-worker yesterday, I've decided, abruptly, to stop avoiding so many situations and conversations and TRUTHS because I was avoiding conflict. Having that kind of personality keeps you in a cage, because you're so focused on keeping everyone on good terms with you that you don't ever say how you really feel about things. Do it for too long and you can forget what your real opinion is, and lose yourself in others' desires

I thought about it yesterday and remembered that extreme conflict avoidance is a common trait of adults that grew up in abusive households. Put plainly, since your parents were so prone to fly off the handle and beat you for reasons you didn't understand, you learned to avoid any disturbances to their mood as a defense mechanism, and as a coping mechanism to avoid future beatings. So this translates into adulthood as being a doormat.

I think it's important to remember where your traits come from, especially when it comes to trauma. That way, in a situation where you might blame yourself and hate yourself for being so pusillanimous (the word people are actually referring to when they call you a pussy), you can realize that this was a very likely outcome of circumstances outside your control. Then you can focus more on fixing these behaviors instead of beating yourself up about it.

It's pretty helpful, especially considering most children of abuse almost ALWAYS develop anxiety problems and tend to blame themselves for everything bad that happens around them



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,293 Sometimes, good things happen when you act without thinking. Not in the conventional sense where you just do what impulsively comes to you, but in the sense that when you know you need to do something, it's good to just initiate the first action before you start thinking about everything you're afraid of. I got a lot done today just by doing that



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,292 I want a guy to fuck me in the ass while my wife watches.



likes: 4
comments: 0

190,291 I have 20 days to lose 10 pounds.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,290 Highs , flying, turbulence, roller coasters, don't scare me or make me sick however I'm terrified of doctors in general especially the gynecologist, just the thought of someone sticking stuff down there makes me nauseous and anxious.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,289 I'd kill myself if it wouldn't hurt so many people I love. I have enough Xanax to die three times. Depression and anxiety FUCKING SUCK. Fuck my stupid life.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,288 I often wonder if my friend still takes the time to read this site.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,287 I wake up scared and anxious. There is a sinking feeling in my stomach. I hate this. What's wrong with me. I need help.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,286 Before going out to see people, I take a shower. Other than that, if I'm not going out, I only shower once every two days.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,285 Something a little weird.  I used to curse all the time.  Lots of fucks and shit everywhere in my language.  It was a habit I had for 25 years.  Then one day I met an evangelical minister who asked if he could do a prayer over me to bind and break the powers of satan and demons over me and cast them out blah blah blah.  I figured what the heck, this silly thing can't do me any harm.  So he did this prayer over me.  A few days later I noticed that I didn't feel compelled to curse anymore.  It just seemed excessive.  My cursing was down by 90%.  I still do from time to time, but I just didn't feel like I needed to do it.  It's been 5 years and I hardly say this crap anymore.  One of the stranger things to happen in my life...



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,284 I apologize to spiders when I kill them. But I still kill them.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,283 I give up. You don't care about me. I'm a joke to you.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,282 I don't even remember the last time I had sex. Years, Decades? Oh well.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,281 I had sex today. Yay me.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,280 If every man who sexually harassed a woman is forced to leave his job, there will only be women left in the workplace.



likes: 4
comments: 0

190,279 Community College is depressing.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,278 I really don't like it when people curse. It grates on my nerves. I don't think it should bother me as much as it does, but it does.



likes: 1
comments: 0

190,277 I haven't said a curse word in many years. It makes me feel like a better person. It's something I do for myself. No one realizes. People notice when you say something, not when you don't say something. But whatever, I don't curse.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,276 We have gone for long stretches in this marriage without sex. I'm talking a year at a time. I thought why should I sleep with him if he's mean to me. In turn, this made him even more mean. Which in turn justified my not sleeping with him. There, it all balanced out. My attitude was to make him suffer. Fuck him!

But then I noticed something. On that rare occasion I did sleep with him, he was nice to me afterwards. The upbeat mood would last for a few days. It felt good to have no tension between us. What a relief.

So I flipped my philosophy around. I starting sleeping with him once a week. I made a point of it. We'd have sex in some form. Then he was happy. Then he was nice most of the time. And you know what, the marriage became bearable.

Seems obvious now, if I sleep with my husband he is nicer to me. I didn't see how backwards I was doing it for about 10 years.

I'm no expert, but something for married people to consider, have sex with each other. Don't deny the sex because someone is mean. Maybe denying the sex is what causes the person to be mean.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,275 0274, your post made me smile.  Especially #9,10,11.  You go girl!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,274 He doesn't know this, but I'm swearing off him permanently. I made a list of all the ways he annoys me, and if I feel the urge to contact him, I re-read the list and find things to add to it:

1) Yet another pushily masculine type terrified of the idea that I'm probably smarter than he is.
2) Seems utterly convinced that all women are jealous shrews who are going to fight over him.
3) He seems to cultivate situations in which women will get competitive for his attention, which strikes me as trashy and drama-queeny beyond belief.
4) Cannot seem to remember that I've never displayed any jealousy, instead choosing to spend his every second in my presence bracing for some gigantic jealous shitstorm that is never going to happen.
5) Actually seems a little disappointed that it's impossible to make me jealous.
6) All this while he indulges in childish fits of jealousy his own bad self.
7) Lies like a rug over easily provable facts. (“What are you talking about?” DERP.)
8) Attention span of a goldfish yet expects my rapt attention at all times.
9) He forgets to call or answer texts, but found the time to get to umpteenth level on Pokemon Go somehow.
10) Actually — just “Got to umpteenth level on Pokemon Go” is enough on its own.
11) Actually, just “Plays Pokemon Go” is more than enough, really.
12) If I got more involved with him I'd probably be called upon to read and give impressions of his blank verse “poems” — or rather poem, singular -- and that thing was a masturbatory howlingly bad me-and-my-penis mess.
13) He put the… poem up on social media. You know, where someone might see it and find out who's responsible for it.
14) Also seems an indifferent reader who never picks up a book without expecting to be patted on the back for his grand intellectual achievement in doing so.
15) I have longer and more committed relationships with my dentist, gynecologist, and hairdresser than he seems to have ever had with anyone.
16) One-night stands with That One Chick and and This Other Chick. Just NO.
17) Propositioned That Third Insufferable Gossipy Chick over text message, which she then showed to everybody.
18) Indifferently picks his teeth with his fingernails in public.
19) He's 35 and dresses like an 18-year-old.
20) Jerk totally ignored my birthday.

Coming up on a whole month of ignoring him. Where's my 30-day Formerly Into a Jerk Anonymous chip, dammit.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,273 I read about deaths in the news, car crashes, body dumps and I immediatly hope it's my ex. Does that make me an awful person? NO! Because he's an abusive, manipulative, narcassistic sociopath who deserves every horrible thing that's coming to him! FUCK YOU CT!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,272 A guy I used to work with asked me to write a reference for him. Shesh, I hate him. I was so glad he quit. Now he wants me to help him get a new job? What a chance to screw him over. But knowing me, I'll avoid the conflict and write something fairly pleasant. I hate always being nice.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,271 I think we are going to break up with a "friend couple" in our town.  

We both have an older son and younger daughter the same age as each other.  Years ago the wife of the other couple asked if we could bring our very outgoing and popular daughter around because their daughter had a hard time making friends.  We did and they are now buddies.  

My older son, however has a hard time making friends and still does.  Their older son had been getting taunted at school and was also having issues making friends.  Their son has now turned it around and is in with the 'popular crowd'.  My son, however still has issues making friends.  All of a sudden, when we go out for joint family dinners, their son is "out with his friends" and can't come to dinner leaving my son with no one to talk to.  I mentioned to the dad that not having their son there was a deal breaker for our family dinners as I would not allow my son to keep being the only one with no one to talk to at dinners.  He agreed, but still could not (or would not) make his (under 14 year old) son come out to what had been regular family dinners.   Clearly it's more important to them that their son maintain his status with the 'in crowd' than it is to be real friends to us and our kids.  

So I say, Fuck You.  My son is just as important as your daughter and for that matter your son.  When your girl needed a friend we were there.  Also my son NEVER taunted your boy the way his new 'cool' friends used to.  So, FUCK YOU, you selfish self centered assholes.  No wonder most of the other people in town have pulled away from you and find you grating and annoying.  Selfish self centered jerks... just like your kids!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,270 Lol,  I have the same problem I can't roll my r's , and have difficulty with a lot of words that don't exist on the English language, I spend many years on speech therapy and it never got better .  I'm just glad those sounds and words don't exist on the English vocabulary, having an accent sucks as it is.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,269 My wife's 40-year old friend dressed up for Halloween as a scantily clad cartoon character.  I spent the entire night reminding myself not to ogle her because her husband and my wife were there.



likes: 1
comments: 0

190,268 Whenever I see an obituary for a young person, I always look for the cause of death.  If none is listed, I know it's suicide or a drug overdose.  That's the problem with being young, you don't have enough experience to know things will get better if you just try to make them better.  Suicide and drugs aren't the answer.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,267 I just noticed that I have a pretty persistent stutter when I speak Spanish. Nothing when I speak English though



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,266 After working on this guy's computer I am sure I will never install Windows 8.  Too complicated and disorganized.  I hate it!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,265 Never underestimate your body's ability to heal itself.



likes: 2
comments: 0

190,264 I truly believe that most marriages are happy more often than not. People just share their misery more than their happiness because it makes them feel better. Marriage is long. EVERY marriage has its ups and downs. Mine is no exception. I remember we went through a particularly rough patch in 2010 and I was seriously considering leaving because I was miserable. I came across a study that surveyed a bunch of people on how happy they were in their marriage and almost all of the respondents that said they were unhappy but stayed with their spouse claimed to be happy a few years later. Now I can honestly say I'm very happy. There are still ups and downs but whenever we go through a low, I know it will pass... and it does! Of course, this doesn't mean that all marriages are salvageable, especially if there is abuse involved. But I think if we had more realistic expectations and realized that it's okay if things aren't wonderful all the time, we would be a whole lot happier overall.



likes: 3
comments: 0

190,263 I love that women wear skirts. It's a tease. It says hey guys, I know you want to gain access to my pussy, so I'm wearing something that gives you a slight chance to see it. If the wind blows just right, or if I cross my legs, you might get a glimpse.

It makes guys look. We invest energy with the hope of seeing something. It gets us involved and keeps us interested.

Skirts are sexy. It's an opening women create. It says they are possibly interested. I love it. Ladies, thank you for wearing skirts.



likes: 1
comments: 0

190,262 I've wasted far too much of my life trying to get laid.

Advice to young people: Don't let your sex drive be in control of you. Getting laid is nice. But don't throw everything else away for 10 seconds of pleasure.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,261 I think a guy was flirting with me last night? It was cute. He's dorky but I like him.



likes: 3
comments: 0

190,260 I don't have your email address.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,259 0245, you lost me at “chronically unemployable alcoholic”...  you may adore and love her, but this is going to be nothing but disaster.    Your analysis of most marriages is spot on, I think.   Every friend I have that is married says they would not do it again....  even my mother confided to me that she would not marry my father again.  I think that is a secret to only him...

Alone does not mean lonely..



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,258 Send me an email.  That's where I have to leave it.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,257 I cry when I read about children being hurt. It reminds me too much of my own childhood.

52m



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,256 I'm trying to rebuild the bridges I burned. I'm so sorry everyone for my past behavior.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,255 No one can figure out where my boss pees. He NEVER goes into the bathroom. Does he use a Snapple bottle under his desk when no one is looking????? It's a mystery.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,254 As some morbid fulfillment, I read the local obits. For some reason I want and need to know how people die, especially the non-elderly people. I guess I want to feel confident the same fate won't befall me because I don't drink and drive, and I don't rock climb. Every now and then I see a "coded" obit. 45 year old man dies but no reason is listed. I've learned to piece it together though when it says he is survived by his parents and a sister. No wife? Ah, he died of AIDS. In a sick way, somehow it makes me feel better knowing it won't happen to me. Pretty self centered on my part, I'm pleased the man died of AIDS??



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,253 Why talk that way? Where is this nastiness coming from?



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,252 I can't remember the last time I was genuinely consistently happy.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,251 I am so close to giving up.... I just want to give up and not have to try anymore or do anything.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,250 It's eight o'clock in the morning and I'm drinking a couple of big cans of malt liquor while eating a turkey pot pie. Life's good! 🍻



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,249 So he came over yesterday, and eventually he starts talking to me about his ex girlfriend. He's very candid about it, which doesn't bother me because he's not that important to me yet.

He said that when he dates someone, he can be the only man in their life. They have to delete all other guys from all their social medias, and he'll do the same with women. I have to say, I started laughing at that. How insecure can you be? Also there's no way in hell a man is gonna run my life like that. There's no trust, and too much jealousy. But in his mind that's how it's supposed to work.

He hasn't mentioned his exes or other women a lot, but I think subconsciously he's trying to make me jealous of them so I'll agree to his little deletion scheme. So on it's face, it looks like I'll be going nowhere fast with this guy.

But, there's a part of him that sees the flaws in his own logic, so I think he can be taught. I'll give it a shot, because he's still very innocent in a way that's hard to explain. If he insists on being so manipulative I'm gonna have to go



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,248 I'd rather not.  Poison people no longer serve my best interests.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,247 Fact of life. We are born alone-and die alone. Don't marry for the wrong reason. She might die before you and then you are still alone!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,246 Coming back once again.  If you want to see me, find me.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,245 I was married when I was 20, had 2 kids, and my then wife left us when I was 29. I've since raised my sons by myself, and I'm pretty proud of the results. I'm now 41, and have been in an on again off again relationship with the same woman for nearly 10 years. She's amazing, and I love her to death. I've been completely faithful to her the entire time. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. But here's what's fucked up.

I never want to get married again. Not ever. And she wants to. Ending a marriage is hell, and it's something I've never gotten past. Every marriage I witness seems to come apart eventually. Combine that with the most awesome, brilliant, amazing, beautiful woman I've ever known, who just happens to be a chronically unemployable alcoholic, and an endless list of unhappy friends who are married, or are happily married only because they fuck outside their marriage, and I feel like I made the right decision every day.

I see posts all over here that just confirm it's a lot more likely to be that way than not statistically, and I'm so confused as to why people live this way. I might be resentful of my position and my unwillingness to do anything about it, but I'd rather blow my brains out than be trapped in a loveless, sexless marriage with some raving bitch I can't stand just to share all of the things I enjoy so much by myself with somebody I hate.

That being said, I miss it. I'm meant for monogamy. It's where I'm happy. I'm fit, I'm decent looking enough, I make great money, I own a home (I mean no mortgage own), I'm almost an empty nester, I fuck like a bull, I have everything going to have a pretty eventful single life. But I'm miserable because I'm not married, and I'm terrified at the thought of being so again, (simply from the exposure perspective), and have no desire to date casually. I'll probably die alone and I've come to terms with it. But man, how fucked are we as a species where 90% of relationships are either temporary or miserable.

The main reason I surf cavecanum is for that rare story of a happy husband telling us some disgusting, slutty thing his wife does and how much he loves it, or some wife telling how crazy she is about her husband and loves his cock and fucks him like a pornstar and surprises him with random blowjobs. It's the thrill of my life these days, and I have to enjoy it vicariously through somebody else. Fuck. And how few and far between those stories are here just speak to real life for me. They're the ones living the dream. Fuck my life.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,244 I recently moved and miss naked yoga the most.  Once a week I got to connect with myself and others in an awesome way.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,243 Naked yoga is a thing. I want to try. How fun it would be.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,242 I once walked 17 miles to get home.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,241 I work at a coffee shop. There's one customer who comes in every morning and asks for 10 pumps of vanilla. How can anyone take 10 pumps? It would be liking drinking pure syrup. My secret is I make his coffee with my back turned so I can only give him 5 pumps, then I tell him yep, I gave you all 10. I lie. But it's for his own good. :)



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,240 I still miss you, strange as that is...



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,239 I need to wear reading glasses. I usually keep them on. Except when someone else is around. Then I hide them in my pocket until needed. They make me look old and I don't want to be seen that way. Vanity rules my life.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,238 More terrorism. Now we will spend $20 million to prosecute the guy and keep him in an isolated prison cell for the next 50 years.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,237 Whenever I'm in my garden and I have to pee, I do. Why bother going back inside? I lift my skirt or drop my pants and do what needs to be done. If anyone was peering over the fence, they'd get quite a show!



likes: 3
comments: 0

190,236 So funny that your Husband was taunting me with his "I married her, and you didn't" at the restaurant.  I guess he's not aware that I've been fucking you!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,235 Had a bizarre day yesterday. I'm a 33/f, if it matters. Went to goodwill to buy clothes, and ended up with a huge number of things for trying on, enough to full an entire z rack in fact. Employee lent me an empty rack and i set about trying my things on. Try item on. If I wanted it it went folded in the cart outside the door, if not it was rehung and placed on the opposite end of the rack to reshelf. It's my system, and it works-- minimizing work for the person putting the item back and helping me take up less space while in try on 100+ items.

But, yesterday was not to be as uneventful as I planned.  There was this woman who for some reason, had a huge problem with my presence and made it her mission to upset me and make me feel like I was unwelcome. I opened the door to switch out some things, and saw her looking right at Me kinda smirking and whispering to her friend. 30 secs later, I hear someone messing with my cart,  and I open the door to her looking through the selections in my basket and trying to take a certain one. I said excuse me, those are my items I'm buying...and get a eye roll and a "oh sorry, I thought you were not here anymore by bad lol." So I throw my entire peacock over the top of the cart and as I'm continuing I heard her loudly telling every single person who passed by "now don't come over here these are HER things, don't touch them! They're hers! By now I'm down to the last 15 items on the z rack and get a knock on the door. It's a store employee that just got in for her shift. She loudly scolds me for taking a zrack to hold the items neatly, and says, "look we don't let yall do that here. You are not the only person in this whole store!" Telling her that I had been authorized to use it did nothing to lessen her tone, she just ordered me to remove the things ings left off the rack and quit being so self centered.  It was awful and embrassing. The whole time I'm being singled out and treated like I did it with no permission. The woman I've been getting picked on is watching intently, and whispering to a group of people and sharing a laugh at my expense. I hurriedly finished up and the final time I opened the door, this woman is standing right at my cart, and fishing in my own fucking coat pockets. I was pissed and I was not in a position to fight back, as I'm on probation and was one smart assed remark away from beating the shit outta her. Then another woman appeared, and wamked right up to this awful woman, and says to her "hey, your eyebrow is fucked up." The woman looks over at her and says that no it isn't,  to which the mystery woman says "well it's about to be if you don't gtfo of this store!" And the bully LEFT! I was so grateful and made myself a new friend. She ended up hanging out with me at my house last night for a while, and seems like a super decent gal who just hated seeing someone getting bullied. Thanks, lady! You are a cool chick!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,234 I'm overwhelmed with sadness because of my financial situation. Please God, I need someone to hire me.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,233 Go tell the actual person these things so you don't give all of us overly-sensitive, high-strung people in here a complex over nothing.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,232 You, my friend, have significantly underestimated me. I showed you humility out of respect. You passed.

I believe in myself, my energy, any my purpose. My life is going to keep getting better. Know that.

Lessons come hard sometimes, don't let the anger get you.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,231 I didn't realize how much my bad marriage was dragging me down. It crept up on me over the years. I used to be upbeat, productive, fun, engaging. But more and more I'd hide in the basement playing on the computer - as a way to avoid my wife. I let work go (lived off savings). I let friends go. There would be times when a week would go by and I wouldn't even leave the house.

You know what finally snapped me out of it? An old friend sent me an email out of the blue. I was suddenly reminded how I used to have a life. I dusted myself off and poked my head back upstairs. I contacted former workmates about a job and started down the road of rejoining society.

So when I read on here about how someone sent an email to a friend from 30 years ago, and he wondered if it was a good idea, I say great idea. Maybe you just saved another person from living in a funk hole.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,230 My hubber is so funny. He makes to-do lists all the time. I find them lying around the house. Every now and then I'll read one and this is typical of what I find:

* Trim back front lilac bush
* Call bro about camping trip
* Put lamp on ebay
* Take shed trash to dump
* Fuck K

LOL. Glad to know I made his list! Right after a run to the dump. How romantic! :)

PS - I assume K is me. What if it's a different K? Hmmm.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,229 I think your new gf is the best thing that's ever happened to you. You deserve peace and happiness. You've been through a lot. I'm thrilled for both of you. 💕



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,228 It's rather aggravating that when I become friends with someone and I listen to their problems and give them advice, they will often develop feelings for me. It's not about being attractive, but rather the fact that I would bother to listen intently and care about their issues that makes them want to be with me. I'm also pretty good at connecting with people and being understanding of their plight, which definitely steers people in that direction.  

It's really opened my eyes to how broken and lonely so many people are. You have no clue how many people are with someone or want to be with someone purely just to have "someone that will always be there for them," regardless of whether it's a healthy relationship or not. People will put up with everything they shouldn't, just to have that person to call, text, cry on, fuck, or just run to when the tiniest thing goes wrong.

And yet, we're all so afraid of our own fragility that we play games about it and disconnect ourselves from others. I wish people knew how similar they are in this way. I feel like it would make it easier for us to connect if we were aware of how common it is to feel this way.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,227 I whack off in the morning to get it over with. My head is then clear all day so I can focus on other things.



likes: 3
comments: 0

190,226 I'd rather be wrong and know it rather than believing I'm right about everything. I have a strong intuition. It drives me nuts when evidence contradicts my gut feeling. I had you figured out all along and now I get to close the book.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,225 I have been secretly betting for the past few weeks.  A cpl of the many little bets had nice payoffs but it's the InPlay bets that have done the best.  While you are watching Game 3 of the World Series, I am making $$$.  I'm up quite a bit but I don't think I'll tell the wife.  Either I'm going to get a few massages or pay for an upcoming vacation.  If I do well this weekend, I might be able to do both!



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,224 I hope she breaks up with you. You don't deserve her.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,223 Most people live beyond their means and off their credit cards. There's a reason I pay cash for everything and keep very a little on my account ( I only use it for online shopping)  My husband manages the rest , our house is paid off , our cars are paid off(no leases or car payments) , we live on a very desirable neightborhood and we drive nice cars.  We just budget everything , sure we treat our selves to nice things once in a while ,like a fancy dinner at an upscale restaurant and take a very nice vacation every few years but we don't spend money we don't have .



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,222 The thing I've found about sex with a married woman, it's more about her and the things going on in her head, than it is about the sex with me. Married women cheat to get at their husbands. Even if they don't tell the husband. A married woman cheats because she's angry with her husband. It's what she is thinking about during the affair. Me, I am just a tool she uses. The sex has always been good and fun, but I find it's emotionally tough to be sleeping with a married woman where I don't really count.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,221 She has no money. But at the same time she has a million reasons why she can't look for a job. Some people live in a fantasy world.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,220 All these married women love me.  They look at their husbands like big losers, and flirt right in front of them.  I think I'd rather be in my position than the husbands.
They think and fantasize about me, while they have to have boring sex with them.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,219 I deleted my facebook over a year ago and I couldn't be happier about it.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,218 Politics and religion has no business in the work place the best thing to do  it's to avoid talking about it . If someone ask you for your opinion or try's starting a conversation just change the subject or politely decline to answer by saying you rather don't discuss those issues at work .



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,217 I used to be a huge flirt to single women.  

Married women, however, have always been off-limits to me.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,216 Performance evaluations are a joke.  You can be a rotten employee and get a great evaluation is you're liked.  You can be a great employee and get a terrible evaluation if you're not liked.  They're just a tool to justify getting rid of a person.



likes: 4
comments: 0

190,215 I lost a job in 2000, right before the election.  I lost a job in 2016, again right before the election.

Both times I had made a comment to my boss that suggested I did not support the Democratic nominee for president.  I never suggested that I supported the Republican nominee, either, I just suggested that the Democratic nominee wasn't a good candidate.  Both were offhanded, non-offensive and pretty innocent comments.

Coincidence?  I think not, given how liberal my bosses were in both jobs.

I wish liberals would just leave their politics out of the workplace.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,214 A guy once sent my wife an email like that where he was from her past and wanted to make contact with her again. I deleted it. I happened to see it before my wife, so she never ever knew he wrote to her. No good will come of notes from the past. He was probably breaking up with his wife and was on the prowl.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,213 Ugh I swear administrative work was created with the idea in mind that a woman would be doing all the little mundane shit men don't feel like doing! I have daily reports that are actually very necessary to get done every day, and this guy wants to bother me to print out 4 pieces of paper and put them in envelopes for him? This is when half the printers aren't working and the only scanner is broken, making the rest of my job twice as tedious! But no, you have to bother me for 4 little pieces of paper...

And it's not even that I don't have time to print the damn things, or like changing the labels on them is too hard. It's just such a SIMPLE FUCKING TASK that the only reason I am involved in the process is because my boss likes to feel in charge by giving people useless orders. He could have printed them before I even got in for the day, but that's no fun is it? Nope, we want to go bother the admin because that's what she's there for, right? A nice ego stroke.

God, I can't wait to get a new job once the holidays are over.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,212 I can't stand people who speaks like a wannabe gangster rapper, you can have a degree from an Ivy School it doesn't matter you speak like a thug expect to be treated like one.

P.S. Rap and Hip pop makes my ear bleed



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,211 Professional evaluations.  Yeah, I knew my days were numbered when it became known I was voting Republican last election.  All of a sudden my ratings fell through the floor.  Nothing I could do about it and my department and customers were furious I was let go.

My new company seems a lot less like that and I couldn't be happier.  I kind of think they did me a favor.

- M 46



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,210 194- I would write back to say "hi" and "thank you" and ask how you're doing. Unfortunately, since I'm married it wouldn't be able to go any further than that.

But it's very likely your e-mail went into her junk mail folder and she didn't even see it. You'd probably have more luck on Facebook.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,209 I've come to the conclusion that I'm invisble.  As a typical guy it's obvious that women don't see guys as having any sexual value so I can finally quit pretending. What a joke and a giant waste of time it's been with all this meaningless "confidence" thats supposed to be attractive. That's just a ruse to make guys feel empowered but it ends up making no difference since the male sexual value is always seen by women as zero or more likely negative.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,208 And my mom who threw me to become injected in neck by a doctor i know her name but u know. Thank u for helping me die. This is the last part of this just thank you for providing a lawyer on a list of no faces to judge. At many times. One of them was a cousin of my dad who said I will not say his words of good that could be used by another site of how to get a woman to fuck you. "She never said "do not talk to me" she only posted "lesbian dumbass and such" she never said "I can call you if you're not mad" I AM MAD CUZ YOU LIAR. A call and a hello no answer a lot from the beginning where I told her if you don't delete these u do whatever the fuck and they do whatever the fuck SHE DON'T GET WE ARE ALL WATCHED she is dumb. That's ok. But ....me fuckin too cuz at this point I need a lawyer for assisted suicide cuz I can document vans vans that are white where they were and the fact that I DIE FOR THE RAPIST CUZ HE DID NOT RAPE ANYONE. Pre rape and post rape equals suicide. Because men say they'd die for you or something no one said that to me I don't think maybe I doubt it but thank you imaginairy friend. So now I am giving up on trying to cry for imaginary meme cuz now I can think in my head. Be happy I'm not talking. And just know I cried cuz I missed can't say a name here you know who you are and do not contact me it isn't anyone name M. He gets to play drums with other people who may or may not have said a lot of threats veiled by an innocent nervous voice. My dad would post things about his own self pity here and don't believe shit no one will ever know about or see. Cuz.. whatever. If you could just not delete emails at .. ok no email for anyone on any computer where Twitter confirms it can block likes and follows and it's ok Twitter they'll kill you if you dont. I actually already funded my assisted suicide I am talking to a doctor and they don't do shit. One made sure I would not have my disability check where I am paid to be a guinea pig instead of paid to paint. That's ok. He claimed I was lying by leaving a shit credit card I knew I would never use on my bed. He thought it was post-i won't get a payday loan when I already do not have that credit card kept it for a joke meme maybe. U know? Thank you doctor. You helped me die. Because this is what I need. I guess any painting file of mine means do not post my painting cuz it's infected with that no one can post or share a good fucking shit I made in prayer for mankind and earth to coexist. I hope  other than a doctor can give me a month with my voice recorder. Privacy policies only protect the doctors who think they invented a mind numbing pill when Tibetans should be hired and would probably work for free and should get more just for 5minute nonsmokebrainjerks convo with a person who is now homeless cuz their family likes to make sure there is none.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,207 Ah, work "performance evaluations."  Here's a secret about them: your final score is nothing more than an expression of how much your boss likes you personally.  Performance evaluations are great tools for the boss giving you positive feedback.  But if the boss doesn't like you, you get a bad eval.  If the boss likes you, you get a good eval.  Find another job if you get a bad performance evaluation.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,206 She never said do not talk to me but a lot of hiding behind bullshit and lesbian dumbass so know that girl lies and likes her little shit like a lot of things could be seen like "she compares me to everyone she fucks" sorry but u know she perpetuated it purposely for drama when the things I WOULD SAY are thank God for those who talked to me helped me and I know what I need a lawyer for.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,205 I'm being evaluated at work. I'm scared. My last one was perfect. They couldn't find anything I needed to improve on. . Last year, my first year on the job, was not good. I was ecstatic about the perfect eval.

But now this eval has to live up to the last one, and I feel so much pressure. What if it falls apart? What if they observe me during a class who has behavior issues instead of one of my well-behaved classes? I swear to god if they observe me during the monster class I have and some kid ruins it, I will end them. End. Them.

Calling any deity out there, lord baby Jesus, God, Allah, Buddha, Krishna, Flying Spaghetti Monster, whoever...please help me rock this eval too. Pleeeeeeease 😭



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,204 I miss having real friends were we can simply talk and say anything and no one's feelings got hurt. That's what being friends means. These days everyone gets so easily offended by everything. It makes my head hurt. These new types of "friends" are really a burden, not an asset.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,203 I'll bet my doctor gets a little turned on seeing me naked. Of course he can never admit it, he has to be professional. But I know he must like seeing my beautiful pussy and tatas.



likes: 3
comments: 0

190,202 I hate flying. Oddly the worst part isn't being in the air. It's the week before the flight when I brood about the possibility the pane will crash. Once I'm up in the sky, it's not so bad because I know the anxiety will be over in a few hours.Funny how the human mind torments itself.



likes: 4
comments: 0

190,201 I'm a little more at ease when dealing with people who are a little chubby like me. Super fit people make me nervous. I feel like they are silently judging me.



likes: 0
comments: 0

190,200 Pimples are gross but I enjoy popping blackheads.



likes: 0
comments: 0




(c) 2018
home search archives help donate