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190,499 Knowing him, I know he chose to not acknowledge it.
Such things show you someone's true colours, when they purposely try to be hurtful.



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190,498 men: tell me PLEASE what are the signs a man is gay? like, seriously. I read these horror stories about women married, with KIDS to men who hid being gay for decades. how do you not know? how do you KNOW?
how can a gay man have sex with a woman for decades and pretend he isn't gay? how the hell does that work?



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190,497 I find it interesting that I have somehow always been attracted, innately, to males that are great in bed and have no issues with going for a long time.



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190,496 It's always the knuckle head ugly moon face jackasses that whip out their member cause it worked... until now.



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190,495 I'll be forever grateful for the authenticity you brought into my life in All Ways.



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190,494 I wish he would just get over his fear and make love to me like a real man. I think he respects me too damn much! Is there a time when a man loves and respects a woman too much to fuck her?



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190,493 I used to think it was a good idea to sacrifice the present for the future. Until my uncle died unexpectedly  in his early fifties. He was very frugal. I always thought he was kind of poor. There were a lot of things he never did. But my mother told me later that he had quite a bit saved up. They used his savings to pay for his funeral and the rest went to his mother. Don't completely sacrifice the present because sometimes there is no future.



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190,492 Was the best time of my life. Always will remember you.



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190,491 It was the darkest of times and seemingly the best of times.



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190,490 If he could stop watching porn, perhaps he could fuck me longer than 3 minutes. Absolutely pathetic. It makes me wish I was born a hundred years ago. I'll bet men in that generation were incredible lovers. They didn't have some ridiculous expectation of being able to cum in my eyes or actually think I'd enjoy tripe penetration. I'm willing to bet sex didn't resemble open heart surgery.
So many men of this generation are dull.



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190,489 I will be very disappointed if the sexual harassment/abuse allegations against Louis CK are real.



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190,488 So my friend who I've known since I was 8 and I fucked. He pursued me pretty hard this summer, um he has a girlfriend. I didn't realize at first he was laying the groundwork, since he has a girl,thought he was flirting, but he put it out there since i am now single. Ive been with the same guy for 9 years and he respected that, but I think his relationship is broken because she cheated on him. He took her back 8 months later. Seems like he had this childhood crush on me. Well we fucked, he seemed to like it, looking in my eyes, but I haven't heard from him. He went from texting me almost everyday to nothing.  I broke and texted him 4 days later with a hi, and he reponded, but I'm aware he didn't look for me. He didn't text me on his own. That was last week and there's been silence since. I feel hurt, yea whatever I know he has a girl, I'm not looking to get judged here, I would have liked a "how are u feeling?" Or "how are you?" But nothing. I would expect that from some guy but not my childhood friend. He came twice, was kissing me like crazy, we fit nice, so what happened?



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190,487 Never sacrifice the future for the present.
Use your goals for the future to guide your present.
Short term or long term.
Always sacrifice the present for the future.
Learn from Jordan Peterson on YouTube.
Millions have already.



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190,486 I asked my Facebook friends today, "If given the choice, would you put more effort into a long term goal or a short term goal? Assume that it's somehow impossible to do both at the same time."

Now, I know this depends heavily on context, but an interesting result I found was that all my friends under 30 said "short term," and all my friends above 30 said "long term."

I think it's funny, because younger people are more stereotypically short-sighted, because their lives have been relatively short and they are more concerned with the present than older folks. And I can see why older folks would go for long term, because they have the experience to know that putting effort into a long-term goal has a better payoff at the end.

I might start using Facebook to take more polls like this; I could really learn something!



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190,485 Who ends a 10 month affair, meets a guy on Craigslist and in two short weeks starts a bdsm relationship?
Someone who hates her husband, her three kids and is trying to get caught.
Hope you are happy



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190,484 I loved you at your darkest.



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190,483 i hope that space shuttle crash landed on your fucking house!



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190,482 You can order non alcoholic drinks , I believe most places even have non alcoholic beer .



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190,481 I see a lot of posts about people drowning in debt or having no hope. Spend the best $10 of your life and buy Dave Ramsay's book called "Total Money Makeover." It is a proven plan to get out of debt. It took me over 2 years, but now I'm debt-free! I just got married and found out my new wife has over $40k in debt from making bad decisions about credit cards, car loans, personal loans, etc. We just put together a household budget and are now working her debt snowball. We should have her debt-free in about 18 months. This is the first time she has ever used a budget and now she sees a light at the end of the tunnel. This has reduced her stress levels and we haven't had to argue about money for several weeks. She has started to see the progress.

The book is awesome and it forces you to look hard at your spending practices and reasons why you are broke. The best part is that there is a real plan and specific order of doing things that works. Dave's web site has a free budgeting tool and many free tutorials, but the book has the whole plan in step-by-step procedures.

I got financially wiped out by a divorce and an ex-wife that racked up huge credit card bills before she ran out on me. Becoming debt-free has taken away my depression and helped me make better decisions about my future. I have no association with Dave Ramsay other than that book gave me a plan when I was sure I was going to be in debt until I dropped dead at work. It is well worth the $10, but you have to stick to the plan. Good luck to all and may you one day be debt-free.



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190,480 When you no longer have feels for your spouse any more....
There is barely any warmth
There are no more laughs
There are no more sweet little surprises
There are no hugs or kisses
You sleep on opposite sides of the bed
If you have sex, you are reminded that you don't like each other
The only thing you talk about is children or bills.
Don't get married. This is how it turns out.



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190,479 I think that I would like to stop drinking, but me and my wife love going out to bars to chat, watch games, and people-watch. How do non-drinkers do it? I/we don't have a drinking problem, but I think I'm just mostly bored with it. If I could find a place like a sports bar where it was more like a coffee and dessert place with the same atmosphere, we would go there for sure. (There is nothing like that around us.)

I can only drink one or two O'Doul's because the taste is horrible. So what do non-drinkers do when they want to spend time in a bar with friends but don't want to waste money on alcohol or just eat non-stop so they don't look like a fish out of water?



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190,478 My grandpa died back in 1984 and I miss him every single day.  My mom was knocked up by a married guy back in the early 1960's and she kept me.  That just was not done back then.  Shortly thereafter, my mom married the guy who I always thought was my dad.  He was my dad.  I was my grandpa's favorite and I never knew why, but both of my grandparents wanted my mom to have me and they were our support system.

Being a guy, I only told him I loved him once, when he was dying.  I was crying and he asked me why I was crying, and I told him I loved him.  He told me he loved me too.  I loved him more than any other human being on earth and later that day when he died, I cried like a baby.  I am crying now.

1984 and it seems like yesterday.  I still miss him like crazy and wish he could have seen my two wonderful kids and my awesome wife.  He would be proud.

I love you grandpa.  More than I can ever tell you.



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190,477 476, you are so lucky to have known your grandparents and known that unconditional love.  I did not know my maternal GPs, and my paternal GM did not want to know us.  Have cousins I never met or knew and  I have never known the kind of love you speak of, and I often wonder if I may have been a different, better person if I had.  I have never been able to truly love another person, because i honestly did not know how - nobody ever showed me what that looked like.  And now it is too late.  I only know aloneness.  This is my great life's secret, and just typing it brings my tears.



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190,476 My grandparents on both side passed away 25 or so years ago and I still miss them so much! They gave me so much unconditional love. I wish they were still around... This thing about death is so wrong!
Im not so much afraid of my own passing, I just find having to livie without our loved ones heart wrenching....



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190,475 Is it a trick? The sirens don't sing for me. But they have. That's when I have always made bad choices. Sometimes you get a baby. Sometimes you get a faux future. It's a crazy adventure.



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190,474 My brain:  stop.
My heart:  I can't.



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190,473 Met this guy at karaoke the other night.  We instantly hit it off and I went home with him. It was super nice. And he is super interesting, I almost wanna say brilliantly so. It was so easy to be near him that I didn't even wanna part ways, but life tends to get in the way of endless snuggling and animated conversation.  I am extremely thankful for it and just hope he wants to see me again. He was just a breath of fresh air in a very stuffy world :)



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190,472 He forgot my birthday...or chose not to acknowledge it. I can't decide which is worse.



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190,471 I am horny as duck! I need physical intimacy and satisfaction! Self time isn't working! Problem is I amnit dating anyone and I don't do one night stands. What to do?



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190,470 I hated Game of Thrones.

I hated Westworld.

I really fucking hated Stranger Things.

It's not much of a secret but if I told any of my friends, people at work, or even random strangers I'd be laughed out of the room. Somehow it feels good to say it into the void.



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190,469 Today I notice the cashier at my grocery store which I frequent often got a new haircut, it look nice on her , I was about to say something but then I thought about . What about if her boss , standing next to her would take it the wrong way like "sexual harassment " even though it was just a compliment, I decided not to say anything just to be safe .  I'm sure she wouldn't mind it since I see her there quite often and the few times I interact with her she seems bubbly nice young lady who actually likes to interact with people . It sucks this day when some people cannot act friendly with the opposite sex anymore because for fear on being view as a pervert with ill intentions.



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190,468 Lol , 😂 there's was a rumored a while back , supposedly Hillary having a sex tape featuring her and a black dude , of course Hillary says it's fake but you never known.  Maybe you can take one for the team and verify the story, don't forget to report back to us and let us knows if it's her or not.



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190,467 LOL. I jacked off to the idea Hillary Clinton. I pictured her car breaking down and me stopping to help....  I wouldn't vote for her but she's human, and feminine, and pretty good looking for a 70 year old. Worked for me.



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190,466 One time I was raped by a black guy.  I was in the bathroom covered in a towel, when he came in naked.  I tried to walk past him and leave.  He blocked the door, pushed me back, and stripped off my towel.  He started grinding against me for a few minutes, then repeatedly pushed my head down next to his penis.  I kept trying to get up, and he kept pushing me back down.  After a few tries he lost interest and left.  One of my first sexual experiences.



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190,465 While talking down on a person is just plain rude is not sexual harassment, maybe a bit sexist for being treated less while being yourself (a women) vs using the male screen name.



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190,464 CostCo is my favorite store!



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190,463 My sister-in-law was texting during my dad's funeral. She's so damned clueless.



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190,462 I am a female working in online customer service. I respond to questions in real time over the internet. I've found that if I use a male screen name people are much nicer to me. When they see me as a woman they tend to talk down to me and get mean. It's an unmentioned form of sexual harassment in the digital age.



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190,461 I am the perfect husband. Except I cheated on my wife 4 times. Yeh, except for that.



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190,460 I deserve so much more in life and yet I settle for garbage. WTF is this low self esteem shit?
I work hard, cook, clean - go out of my way for this man. Do his nails, massage him, serve him.... yet I have to beg him to come see me, when he rather go hunting and drink.
Fucking alcoholic piece of shit loser.
Yeh Im done.
Need to get some cats and stay single.
38/f



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190,459 I see those around me chase their ailments with Medicine/Doctors and surgeries. I try to tell them about the brilliance of Dr. Sarno, but they just dismiss it. Im so glad i discovered him, and his groundbreaking work on how the subconscious can make you have physical pain(s).



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190,458 Every time I orgasm, I think about this man.
He would never, in a thousand years know that I still think about his hands, his voice, his hair, his chest & that special spot on his elbow that I kissed 13 years ago. Gabriel, you may be getting married. You may love her. You might have not seen my face in at least a decade or more, or heard my voice or touched my hair, but no one else has kissed your elbow. I was the last. I'm blooming and wilting over thoughts of you. Oh, how I miss you.



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190,457 Political correctness is bullshit. I can understand that sexual harassment should be against the law, and should be punished, but some aspects of this has gone way over the top. Many people who have worked together for years, and now not able to kid or joke like before. I know a lady, worked with her for 30 years. We have a great working relationship. She is just as fun, as I am.... We would say and do things like, If she brought in flowers from her garden, I'd say "oh look how pretty", then follow it with, and so are the flowers".. we'd laugh she say things to me like, " hey what are you carrying your banana in your pocket for, then shed follow up with oh thats right you dont eat bananas, raise her eyebrows and say hmmmm....we'd laugh and give each other the fuck you finger, etc.... we were having fun in the hallway, she was joking I was joking and someone new said oh isn't that harassment? She said only if you are too much of a pussy to have fun....hahahhaa shes great.... but see that kind of stuff is on its way out...Fuck political correctness



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190,456 I was in a position in my career where I could have easily taken sexual advantage of women. I did not use the power. I did not even consider using the power. I seem to be the only man who thinks this way.



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190,455 When I was about 22ish I was dating a woman. She had a college friend come for a visit. All of us went out and I ended up crashing there at my girlfriend's apartment. Next morning my girlfriend had to go to work. That left me alone with the college friend. She was hot. She went in to take a shower and I did something jackassish. I quietly opened the bathroom door and poked my head in so I could watch her in the shower. There was a shower curtain blocking my view. No problem I thought. I came completely into the bathroom and positioned myself so I could see her through the crack between the curtain and the tile wall. Bingo, I could see everything. Which doh, meant she could see me too. And did. Oh my god did she flip out. It wasn't good. She said she was going to call the cops. She didn't but she did call my girlfriend. Like shit, I fucked up. That was the end of that relationship. I still have pangs of guilt over it. I'm not that pervy. Except I guess I am.



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190,454 It's going on two years since you left.  Could you please stay out of my dreams now?



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190,453 Excuuuuuuse me if I'm not the best at Mandarin in the morning. Prick



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190,452 I so very much miss my friend. We both cheated on our spouses and that was wrong. We both love our spouses and would never leave them in that two year affair however, we became great friends. It wasn't about the sex anymore. We just enjoyed each other. We would watch Divorce Court on TV while she rested her head in my lap and I played in her hair. She's pregnant now and I am happy for her new life as a mom. Even though things between us really ended that great trip to Orlando, we have not said a word to each other in over two months.  I respect your new life and that's why I don't try to reach out. I don't want to be “that guy” that doesn't get the hint to move on already. But I know you and you know that. I miss my friend and I know my friend misses me too.  Maybe I really didn't know her at all...



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190,451 Being someone who makes bad decisions, particularly with money, and being someone who has people that are angry with me  because of it, I can understand how people grow up with flaws like this, based on their own decision making, and end up alienating the people closest to them towards the end of their life. I hope to change this habit, because I'm about to be 24 and I want my ingrained habits to be better than this.



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190,450 I'm glad I stopped drinking.  I just wish I had stopped drinking 20 years sooner.



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190,449 I used to gossip with a former coworker about our respective love lives. He'd talk about his long distance friend in Brazil and I'd talk about my long distance fiancé's recent move to California to start a new job, and my plans to join him.  

One day I told my coworker that my fiancé called me to say he had decided to buy himself his first new car the very next day, and wanted my opinion on the make and model he should get. He gave me this weird look and said “don't take this the wrong way - but why would he just buy a new car and not really give you a say beyond the car type? Is he going to buy you a new car?” I told him no, but that I already have an old car waiting for me there that I can drive.

He told me the following: “I'm not trying to offend, but if I were in his shoes I'd take the money that the new car would cost and buy two decent used cars so both of us could get around safely.”

At the time I reassured him that my fiancé and I had things figured out but that I appreciate what he had to say. I had confidence that my future husband would put me first when it counted, and after all, it's just stuff. But those words ring in my head years later.

Those words ring in my head when my husband calls me pathetic or useless. I remember those words when my clunker spun out and crashed and I was forbidden from replacing my car because I'm “not responsible enough to own a car.” They rang in my head when I had to take the bus and walk to work 2 hours each way, in a city that literally has a song about how no one walks there, while my husband had a 20 minute commute but often refused to drive me to the train station if he didn't feel like it.

And now, they ring in my head as I keep trying to get my husband to go to therapy to save our dying marriage, knowing he keeps ducking out because he can't be bothered. That time when it counts has come and gone and my husband refused to put me first, although he showers me with affection so I'll forget there's a problem.

My coworker fucking called it. And I wish I had taken him more seriously. If I ever get out, I'll likely tell him so in person.



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190,448 I'm pretty sure you forgot about me, but I'm pretty sure that eventually I will have forgotten all about you too...
I made the mistakes, so I know those feelings will stay with me longer anyway.



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190,447 I'm glad you lost the election. You don't deserve to hold office, and I hate your political party.

Sincerely,

--Your daughter



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190,446 My secret , I don't tell many people that I lived on Bali , Indonesia for a while when I was a kid , my father got a contract over there and we stayed on the island for a while waiting to get transferred to Australia.  Many people (mostly Americans)assume you must be a Muslim or a Muslim sympathizer even though the majority of the people in Bali are Hindu not just that but my family is Catholic.



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190,445 0164 - you have the life I dread having. Don't want kids, and can't understand why anyone with half a working braid would spend so much money on your children, when the purchases don't have any immediate that on their education, or manners. You're a fucking idiot, and you are basic. You're so basic. I hope your husband leaves you.



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190,444 0164 - you have the life I dread having. Don't want kids, and can't understand why anyone with half a working braid would spend so much money on your children, when the purchases don't have any immediate that on their education, or manners. You're a fucking idiot, and you are basic. You're so basic. I hope your husband leaves you.



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190,443 The final diagnostic is that I am a narcoleptic with cataplexia. It is a relief to finally know for sure. It took a long time to get here and a shit-ton of arguing with doctors that no, I am not depressed; no, I am not crazy; no, I am not on drugs; no, I do not have sleep apnea; no, no, no.
Now that I know, I don't have to put up with people guilt-tripping me because they think I am making shit up. I am not. I am hardly ever out of REM sleep (which means my brain never rests) and I  have sleep paralysis and night time terrors and auditory hallucinations upon waking and falling asleep and I nod off at the most inopportune of times and there is strictly nothing I can do to stop myself from yawning 200 times a day. I am fucking tired, all the time and by that I mean 24/7, 365 a year. I wish this shit on no one, at all, never, ever.

And fuck every single person who rolls their eyes at me and think I am making this shit up. Because there is less than 1% of the US population affected by narcolepsy does not mean it can't happen to me.

And now, if you'll excuse me, I need to go to bed, sleep for 10 hours and wake up tomorrow feeling as if I barely got any rest. Yay, me.



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190,442 There are a couple reasons I wish I was a legit vampire. Glamouring, immortality, the ablility to turn off my humanity, my empathy.



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190,441 When I was an 11 year old girl, my mother's boyfriend's adult son who was around 20 showed me porn. Looking back, I wonder what the fuck.



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190,440 I will give you until the beginning of next year to pack and get the $&@" out , if not I'm going to the local authorities and FBI and report you for hacking which is a federal crime.  Let's see how tough and smart you think you are .



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190,439 I'm working on a book... scratch that. The book is done. It's being edited and I plan on self-publishing hopefully by New Years or some point in January. The problem is the book is mostly about my work experience at a very famous space place. It's a mega company too. I've been afraid of getting sued. The funny thing is, I dont have a dime to my name. I'm several grand in medical debt. The book is a combination dealing with how I survived my workplace, mental health and living with a particular disease. I dont work, have been struggling to find a job, my health, etc.

It's so tedious going back and changing the name of titles, places, things. I hope that the book will still be the same when its done being edited. Honestly, fuck them. They put me through fucking hell and treated me like shit. If they really sent me a letter telling em to stop, I'd list the book for free so its not considered being "sold for profit"  and probably let all the raunchier details fly. Fuuuuuuuck theeeeeeeem.



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190,438 I wish the loser of my neightbor would just pack and move. He is a grown man(child) living at his grandparents basement, always sticking his nose where it doesn't belong, talks all these bologna while sitting like a coward hidden behind a computer screen, what a loser.



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190,437 God I'm so bad at handling other peoples' grief. What the fuck are you supposed to do??



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190,436 Why are you afraid to see me? We are friends and not lovers unless you want to be lovers!



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190,435 So many women want to fuck me



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190,434 I must have dropped a couple of pounds of shit!!  My ass is hurting now.  It took me only a couple of sittings.  No wander, when I was sitting the first time, I had a pain on the left side of my abdomen.  I felt the shit getting ready to leave.  I got up the first time, after a massive shit, now less, came back to my office, sat for a couple of minutes, and felt something.  The second sitting, YIKES!!  Did I say my ass is hurting, no wander this fissure does not want to heal.



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190,433 My secret: I seem to be the only fucking person alive that is aware no one is going to come riding in on a white horse and save you from whatever bad things are in your life. You are in charge, and solely responsible for your story.



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190,432 Damn... You only came in for labs. JUST LABS. I didn't need to spend 2 hours hearing your entire life story.



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190,431 I was recording my weekly addiction show last night. While the host and guest were talking, the subject of addicts' families came up. They're both mothers of addicts and were discussing the pain of living with a child that has an addiction, having to give them tough love, or abandon them to let them make their own choices when they're adults, etc. They kept going back to how worried they always were for their addict children, so much so that they couldn't sleep sometimes.

It made me think, what about addicts whose families are unaware that they have an addiction? Does that make it better or worse? I hardly ever see my family, and a large part of that is because they don't have a clue what my life is really like. They don't know how many drugs I'm around on a regular basis, or that I smoke and drink with my roommates almost every day, or that a glass of wine in the morning (mostly on weekends) isn't a rare thing for me.

The initial separation happened a long time ago, but that's why I stay away now. And I'm certain that nobody really cares.



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190,430 428- Dude. Caffeine and food. You'll be fine.



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190,429 God, I wish I could be a fly on the wall during my ex's dating adventures. Lol, that would be hilarious. I'm not sure she knows how to be alone. There will be some good times along the way. More love-in-idleness.  I'd almost pay to see this.



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190,428 I have to take a big test today. I stayed up late studying. I woke up early with anxiety. I've only had a few hours sleep and I can't fall asleep again. My test is in a few hours. I can't think straight. I'm fucked. I'm going to masturbate now with the hope it knocks me out and I can get another little bit of sleep.



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190,427 I have peed in my own mouth. It's an acrobatic feat. I lay down in the shower. I lift my hips in the air and bend them over so they are hovering about a foot and a half above my face.  I pull my labia apart so they don't get in the way and let 'er rip. It takes a little getting used to but I can get the pee to shoot up in an arc and land in my mouth. I can also get it to land in my eyes which isnt so good. Ouhie. Pee stings the eyes.



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190,426 What kind of judge lets an ahole walk free , after fracturing an infant skull ? That's discussting , people like that should be keep in prison for life .  I hope the judge feels responsible and guilty for the deads of those innocent people.



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190,425 I've started selling off the furniture.



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190,424 The funny thing is that if you were really my friend, you still would have made contact, yesterday.
You say that I am selfish, but I keep seeing such behaviour from you.



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190,423 I'm a man who grew up with five sisters.  My dad was very gruff and unemotional.  All my positive emotional input came from my mom and sisters.  I feel a lot more comfortable around women than I do around men.  Most of my friends are women.  I am very capable of being around women without being sexually attracted to them, even if they're highly attractive.  I get along famously with women who have a lot of brothers.  It's caused some issues with women with ego problems.  I'm not unattractive and occasionally these women have thought that I'm hitting on them because I'm talking to them.  But most women have been fine, maybe even appreciative, that they can be friends with a guy without being hit on.



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190,422 18) I don't talk behind people's backs, if I have something to say I tell you to your face. If I don't like you I just avoid you completely, no reason to be phony or a hypocrite ,self defense and being independent has a lot of value , I come from a big city where kidnaping happens a lot , teaching your kids how to defend themselves , being aware of your surroundings, , and what to do on a stressful situations it's not reckless especially in today's world.  I believe all children should be taugh self defense and basic suvirvel skills , you never know when they might become useful .  



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190,421 I still ache for you and miss you.

Remember the night we spent before you took me to th airport in the morning really early? I haven't forgotten... I didn't give a damn that I missed my flight and got rescheduled for the next one. The extra time with you was worth it. I still love you and want you badly. I moved away and any chance of us being together became almost nonexistent. I'm so sorry and sometimes wonder if that's the biggest mistake I've ever made.

I miss your strong arms and the things you'd whisper in my ear. I miss everything about you. I don't know if you even want to talk to me anymore. I don't know if I'll be able to hold in how I feel because sometimes being around you steals the words from me. True isn't expressed in words. It's the way you looked at me and brushed my hair from my face and kissed me. It's the way the entire world melted away when we were alone together.

I still love you, and I want you above all others who might come my way. A part of me will always be reserved for you. Reserved for the spark of hope I carry that one day, we will finally have our heart's desires...I love you deeply, and perhaps in spite of the obstacles, I always will.



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190,420 My God he is an idiot. I get it, trust issues fucking suck, but get over yourself. Not everyone is out to get you. Some people do actually feel and understand love and how to do it. Why can't I find my guy who can trust one another and have our fun at the same time? I know I am a little crazy. I respect a little crazy and expect it in return. Let's not make this too complicated. Pretending is not fun anymore. I'd rather die alone than pretend to be someone I'm not.



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190,419 I wore a wedding ring for about the first month of my marriage. Then I put it in a drawer. I'm a guy. I don't like jewelry. Not my thing. I don't really like my wife either. I wonder if that's the real reason I took off the ring.



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190,418 Your dad taught you self defense, toughness or no sugar coating, but wouldn't that be considered reckless if it's never directly to a person you speak shit about and it's only done indirectly. Call me fickle but brings no value not if you can't be direct to a person directly. Or did pops teach you that it's o.k. to talk rubish about people behind their backs meanwhile smiling in their faces?
Good job pop's looks like you did a heck of a job raising your three girls tough like boys. Haha ;)



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190,417 I'm so excited to get married so that I can come home from work every day to someone who wants to smoke weed, watch TV, fuck, and talk about cool stuff.



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190,416 I look at my bookshelf. I see books that I have read, I see books I am planning to read.

Imagine if all that information went away or didn't exist in the first place.

If all of that never existed.

I've been to Niagra Falls. It's the kind of thing you have to see in person to fully appreciate.

I've never tried the hot wings in Buffalo. I've never been to Alaska. I've never tried Baked Alaska...actually It looks pretty good. But I won't know what to think unless I try it.









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190,415 I would like to reprogram Alexa to do as follows:

"Alexa, turn off the lights."

"Fuck no! Get up off your lazy ass and turn the lights out your own damn self!"



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190,414 I guess I'm the exception , my father always wanted boys but instead he got three girls and when my little brother was born he was over the moon . He treated me and my sister like boys , he used to take us to play basketball, taught us how to drive at a very young age (10) , taught us self defense, never sugar coated anything, he always used to tell us if someone tries to kidnap you or harm you on any way you fight back , I never grew up with the princess syndrome we were very independent at a young age , I used to take public transportation by myself including the subway .  The first time he took us to Dysneland we were more excited about the haunted mansion and space mountain over meeting princess it.  So I guess there's a reason I feel more comfortable around men ,my father treated me like a boy.

PS I'm not a lesbian and until this day I'm closer to my father than my mother.



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190,413 I can understand why some girls want labioplasty.  Porn can give people a weird sense of beauty.

With that said, I've never seen a bad vagina. :)



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190,412 I agree, I don't know why women would want to be "friends" with men... I have yet to meet a man that I'd like to be friends with. There are a few exceptions, but for the most part, I find men weak, lacking integrity and character. In addition, the large majority of them are obsessed with sex. So, in all fairness, unless you can offer something that I regard as of value to me, I don't want to talk to you either.



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190,411 I think that's why stupid girls get cheated on. Nobody likes a spoiled rotten, negative, hypocritical know it all. May I add two faced liars. Ya, you know those that smile in your face, but really like to talk shit about you right before that. Makes me wonder now if all my husbands side of the family are all alike? Nosybodies in peoples affairs. Lie, dramatize everything, gossip about others while they smile in their faces. Literally like snakes. So sad that they are all miserable. Some are alcoholics or have some type of addiction. It all makes sense now. Wondering how at least one will step up to brake the chain or change the cycle. Oh ya forgot my husbands has. Yet, I'm sure they find him "strange" for being the only one to do so.



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190,410 Selfish or greedy is someone that never worked a lick in their life but depend on society's taxes and moms and pops income to live a means. Not only is it a stupid lazy mentality but if one can only keep a job longer then a year? More then likely they are or wouldn't be found or looked at as incompetent and would be able to have/ held a job. The kicker is, they keep fooling themselves believing a higher education will do the trick. Ha, so little do they know...so little do they know. There are several people out there who have an IQ of a genius, yet are still stupid. Hope that makes sense. We know several out there. For starters, thinking a higher education will do it. Wow goes to show the nuttyness of some. They should just stick to their day job, do what they do best. Pick lint balls from nut-jobs.
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190,409 Don't be such a fool use your brain. If you only were homeless and were given  two options which one would you choose? 1) $100 bill 2) A person offer you a job that pays enough to support and your family with benefits.  Which one you will think will benefit you on the long run ? People like you and stupid mentality it's what keeps some people on the poverty cycle, it takes money to build business and job opportunities, it takes money to fund education it's not about being selfish or greedy it's just how the world works .



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190,408 FUCK IT. It's a selfish world. A selfish society. No one cares about anything other than pics of themselves! I'll play along.



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190,407 im really sad that libs and dems dont get along better than they potentially could. :/



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190,406 It's hilarious to me that someone would argue that one sex is "made" to be more intelligent. As if that's science.
But it is positioned as a "scientific" fact.
You can't find common ground with those people.



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190,405 There's this guy that always post the same thing on everything, if someone on Facebook post about let's say an overprice (house, car, clothes, jewelry etc..) it will be followed by him " oh the money could go to some homeless or picture how many people could be fed "  I get it the world can be a depressing place and there's people who are suffering but does it means people should stop living their lives and enjoying them selves . I don't know what he thinks he is achieving by always posting the same thing , maybe he is the one who should donate all his money , clothes and materials possessions to the poor instead of trying to make everyone think like him .  By the way the best way ito make a difference on someone else life and get them out poverty is through education and creating opportunities so they can fend for themselves.  My husband helps his former school raise money for scholarships given to kids who cannot afford it otherwise he has even pick  someone's kids tuition  through the four years before .



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190,404 Colin Kapernick was in the process of being signed by Baltimore at the beginning of the season.  Then his girlfriend sent out a tweet that implied the owner was a racist and Ray Lewis, his biggest supporter in the program, a loyal house-slave.

A good woman will walk with you as you attain the highest heights.

A crazy woman will drag you down.

M 46 married 17 years to a prety good one.



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190,403 Hey slut married women, stop! Got hit on by 3 married women this weekend. No, I don't want to fuck you. Many men do. Go get them.



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190,402 Dear upstairs neighbor, you suck at playing the piano.  Stop.  Please.



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190,401 As a woman, I've imagined getting it on with every guy I know, as well. But it doesn't mean I can't be friends with the guys. Sometimes a little sexual tension in a friendship isn't a bad thing.



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190,400 I wouldn't say wearing a wedding ring makes a marriage. Or it possibly can. I remember on my wedding day I had to barrow my daughter's flower girl dress to wear. Because I did gain to much weight and got huge I got so fat that I couldn't fit into that darn wedding dress. Secret is, nobody told me how pathetic I looked in a little girls dress as a woman. Because more than likely I would have took it as though people were just being jealous. Life sucks I know. Because nobody will ever tell me the truth. Truth is not sometging I take well. Maybe they were being fake with me as they do on facebook by creating fake profiles with several personalities. I don't know fml.



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