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190,899 Last night's dinner was a package of ground beef mixed with a box of macaroni and some frozen peas and corn that were in the freezer. There was a package of gravy mix in the cupboard so I mixed that up and threw it in. My oldest son loved it and asked me what it was called. I told him it was "goulash" but what I really wanted to say was "it's called what you eat when you're poor as fuck" but of course you can't say that to a five year old. Later that evening my husband said "you know what dinner tasted like?" And I said "what?" And he said "poverty." Then we laughed, because what else can ya' do? Then we had a discussion about how we're going to fix our financial situation, but it basically consisted of "I'm going to fix this." "No. I'M going to fix this. "No I'M going to fix this." etc.

We're not in the worst financial position we've ever been in, as in we don't owe the government thousands of dollars in taxes and our credit isn't maxed out. But we're still in the position of living off of ramen noodles and $1.00 meat pies so that our kids can have the frozen peas and the canned oranges. I keep telling myself it's temporary. It's not forever. I need to be strong enough to pull us out of this.



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190,898 "I know you are but what am I?"  That's how children argue.



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190,897 I can't bring myself to be with someone who has absolutely no ambition. Most people say they have it, but they don't. I get it, I know what it feels like to struggle through a single day. But I fight against it with everything I have, because I've seen what happens when people lose their lives to complacency. In my experience, most people don't even want better for themselves, and don't have any expectations of themselves either.

If you're still at the point where you want to find someone to be with because you're not happy and you need someone to make you feel better about your life, then peace out homie. I've been down that road before, and it ends with you still being dissatisfied because you got a Sig-O and didn't change any of your life choices.  

I'm looking for a builder, somebody with a good work ethic who can be my PARTNER in achieving both of our dreams. I know you're out there.



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190,896 Different people are attracted to different traits.

Just because some people are attracted to certain traits, doesn't mean everybody else is.



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190,895 Liberals are sex offenders.



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190,894 GOP stands for Grand Old Pedophile. It's the new normal.



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190,893 Yeah, I got snippy when the dinner we were cooking was late.  I timed all of my dishes perfectly and then mine went cold waiting for yours.  If you had started when I suggested, it would have all been perfect.  My mild OCD tendencies, cold mashed potatoes, coupled with kids acting bratty made me a little short.  I am sorry.

- M 45

P.S. Sometimes I am right hon.



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190,892 Newsweek had an article that talked about the results of a few studies that showed women are still find muscles and wealth to be the more attractive features in men.  Newsweek was shocked that despite all these efforts at being more socially progressive, that we as a society have not preogressed past this.

I don't think I need to tell anybody how stupid that is.  Social progressivism can never beat evolution and genetics.  You can't tell people to find another trait in a person to be more attractive than those they already like naturally.  Attraction has one goal: to make babies.  Men will always find women to be more attractive if they look like they will be more successful at having babies who can survive to make more babies:  young women with big tits.  Women will always find men to be more attractive if they look like they can provide enough for the baby to survive: wealth that can provide what is needed for the baby to survive, confidence and muscles to fight off the threats to the baby.

Nope, social engineering cannot beat evolution.  Sorry, Newsweek,



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190,891 I wouldn't mind sleeping with my sister's husband.



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190,890 I really only watch "Intervention" for the eyebrow fails.



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190,889 You really want to do it. You do. There's no reason you can't get a job there. I don't know what your degree is in, but there are a lot of jobs nowadays that you can do remotely wherever you are, as long as you have a computer with internet. If you're too scared to commit, go volunteer there for a few months after you finish school. There are organizations that you can sign up with to do that.

If you want to do it so badly, you should.



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190,888 I hate that he's most likely tracking me over the internet and seeing this.  I wish he would stop.



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190,887 Dear future me,

I am so sorry. I am so sorry for not being strong enough to leave. I have dreamed of moving to Hawaii since I was about 10 I think. I know I need to leave but I am an insecure person. When I tell people about my hopes and aspirations, they all seem to support me until I actually want to do it. I was really into interior design, but my mother said there was no chance of getting a job in that sector. After I had gotten my bachelor and Master degree I could do whatever I wanted to, but at least I had relevant knowledge.

I am halfway my Master's now, and I am networking as much as possible in order to get a job. Will I ever do anything that truly interests me? Probably not. But hey, at least I have two papers proving that I'm 'smart'.

Every summer I have spent at my grandma's, at her farm. When I told people I could live there to which they told me I was just being a silly girl. I remember not saying anything much, but just shaking it off. I remember that my grandma was the only one who truly believed in me. My mother was the one who always wanted to protect me, always wanted to get the best for me. I am on my way now to have a so-called perfect life, I have a loving boyfriend, nice friends, a healthy lifestyle, an education, a roof above my head. This makes me feel even more ashamed of feeling so unhappy all the time. I feel like I try to be happy when I am around people, but when I am on my own, I almost always cry. I remember after people who were really close to me died, I would often cry myself to sleep for over a year. And I have lost a few people in my life who meant a lot to me.

I am 22 now and I always have a really strong gut feeling, but I am not decisive enough to just pack up and go. I am sorry future self, but I think there will come a moment in my life where I would actually not be able to take it anymore and just pack my bag and go. When I tell my boyfriend that I want to move abroad he says that we would not be able to find a good and high-paying job somewhere in Hawaii. The point of living becomes less and less for me every year and I am wondering how long it will take for me to break.

I am probably depressed and I think I am oversensitive and have anxiety. But i just CANNOT open up fully to anyone. I had to had to go back and sit silently in the classroom when my dad died at the age of 9 FOR FUCKS SAKE. I often just hope that I don't wake up. Because going to Hawaii and follow my dream just feels less scary than dying.

I remember reading a postcard on PostSecret about a someone who was suicidal and just decided to leave everything behind and just traveled all around the world. After having seen the blue footed booby, she felt like life was worth living. I still think about that postcard sometimes and I just envy how brave she was. I am not even brave enough to cry in front of my loved ones. If I am imploding and just cannot hold it anymore, then I can let a tear slip, but I am just not able to fucking cry for real in front of fucking anyone. If I will get a legit chance to leave, I just might. Goodnight.



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190,886 TRYING TO REASON WITH AN ALCOHOLIC, IS LIKE TRYING TO BLOW OUT A LIGHT BULB. ANOTHER GREAT THANKSGIVING IN THE BOOKS.



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190,885 Spending thanksgiving with my in laws without my husband.. feel so lonely and out of place. I just want to go home :(



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190,884 I want to pound your fat mulatto ass so badly! Ever since you told me you love rough fucking it's all I can think about.



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190,883 My gf tells the story of going to the gynecologist. The doctor had her lay back and open her legs. He looked for a moment and then called the nurse over.  He told her to go get the other doctor in the office to come take a look.

My gf was terrified. What were they looking at? Was something wrong?

The other doctor came in and said something like, "Well, I've never seen that before!"

The doctor then explained her malady.... she had a postage stamp sticking to her vagina. LOL.

My gf explained to the docs that she keeps her stamps in the same drawer with her underwear.  Ooops.



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190,882 I'm looking forward to a drama free thanksgiving tomorrow. It'll be my second one now as well as my second sober holiday season.  

My life is a thousand times better than I could have ever imagined it.



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190,881 876- Same here! They hate his first wife... they LOVE his second wife!



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190,880 What is the point of life? We watch TV. We snap at people. We stuff our faces with bad food. We are a bunch of fakers pretending our lives have some great significance. But each of us are nothing. Then we have kids and pass along the burden of nothingness onto them and their generation. And on and on. What is the point of all this?



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190,879 My family watches the Macy's Thanksgiving Parade every year. I hate it. So much fake spirit and celebration. So much crass commercialism. And all the lip synced performances.  It is fucking unwatchable.



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190,878 I have watched every single Gilmore Girl episode at least three times. Do you watch C-Span? You explain yours, I'll explain mine.

I don't regret a minute of it! I love the way they ended the series on Netflix with Rory being pregnant.

Gilmore the merrier!!!



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190,877 876- I like how you think ;) hehehehe my pleasant demeanour around my husbands family is for similar reasons. Really I can't stand them but you'd never know.



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190,876 I'm really nice to my hubby's family so that if he ever divorces me, I will be missed and they will be mad at him for giving up on such a wonderful wife.



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190,875 I live on the fringe. It's kind of lonely.



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190,874 Baby girl thinks she got it done tonight on my work back but she doesn't know I was authorized to go Godfather.

Enjoy your last week of employment.



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190,873 I wear reading glasses. I don't need them all the time. I keep them in my pocket on the ready. Sometimes I reach in my pocket to get them and they are stuck. One of the arms gets caught in a fabric seam or something. It's infuriating. The more I tug the more stuck they get. There have been a few times where I got so mad that I grabbed the glasses and with all my might I ripped them out of my pocket, breaking the plastic arm in the process. I didn't care. It felt good to break the glasses. I then threw them on the floor and stomped the living shit out of them. Good riddance you little uncooperative fuckers!

This is why I think it best if I don't have children.



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190,872 I'm looking forward to a drama free thanksgiving tomorrow. It'll be my second one now as well as my second sober holiday season.  

My life is a thousand times better than I could have ever imagined it.



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190,871 American Thanksgiving is better than Canadian Thanksgiving. Canadian Easter is better than American Easter.



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190,870 One chick accused a senator of indecent behavior. She was photographed  in a red white and blue halter top forcibly kissing a soldier who probably had some explaining to do to his wife.

She excepted his apology and moved on.  Then some other phony baloney story came along about an alleged ass-grab. This is just a smokescreen for the real perps.

Facts are important. One m&m tastes good. Two m&m's are an improvement. More than ten and less than twenty is a relatively decent amount when compared with one or two, but who's keeping track...

Context and nuance matter. Facts are important, but they don't mean anything without context.



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190,869 I am so fucking high right now.



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190,868 I don't see what the big deal is about Thanksgiving. Everyone's so busy stressing about it and losing their fucking minds. Obsessing about having the perfect holiday and having everything just so. Gotta impress everyone!! Please its JUST A MEAL. Throw a turkey in the oven for a few hours,put your feet up while its cooking. Then mash some damn potatoes, eat your pie you got from the store bakery and call it a day. No need for elaborate menus and 5,000 dishes. Use paper plates. Family stress you out? Don't invite them!!! Enjoy your peace and quiet. Simple.  Jesus Christ people!!!

38/f/married with kids and enjoying a stress free holiday tomorrow



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190,867 I would like to hurt a few people from my past.



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190,866 My doc wanted me to take a stool test where you have to take a dump and smear some on a piece of paper and mail it into a lab. Get real. It aint gonna happen. It's about dignity doc.



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190,865 My husband comes from a strange family. We went to the beach, by we I mean me, my husband and my sister in law. She went topless. Hello, anyone home in there? You were topless in front of your brother? Come on, that's strange.



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190,864 I wish my life was boring enough to always complain about Trump. Nah I have a life



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190,863 I think man buns are cute.



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190,862 Doug, I don't think I can do this. I feel like you will never be the person I need to see. You're all talk. You're just shockingly self centred, sexually and emotionally. You turn my words into accusations and I never know when you are being deceptive and saving up a slew of things to word in your own way and accuse me of awful things. You gave me gonorrhea once, then acted like I was the one. You are jealous, so very jealous of all people who are not YOU talking to me. You try to make me feel like I've got competition,  all the time, and like if I do anything for myself you will simply be forced to disrespect my health with your unprotected sex with who the fuck ever. The only competition I have is the nasty, ugly, and cruel person you really are. You can't hide it every second, and I see it and it's fucking bad. You're just a great pain in my ass. I don't want to help you work through your hangups and be treated badly and hear your excuses.  I just fucking hate who you are. You suck. And you refuse to be someone who I can choke down. So, fuck you.



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190,861 589 move his stuff out and change the locks. Don't walk, run.



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190,860 I don't know, call in Coincidence, or God, but I finally said "fuck it", and stopped trying to control things. I handed it over to the Lord. I prayed.
I was looking at Loans, or Debt Negotiation to cover my $20,000 in Credit Card Debt. Rejected, rejected. Too much debt on cards, maxed out, etc.

And then, a check came in the mail yesterday for $20,000 as part of an Inheritance! legit. Cashed.



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190,859 I got back in touch online with an old ex/friend of mine I dated in my early 20's. At the time everything was for the most part innocent at that time, although we were pretty heavy into partying with drinking and drugs then. We now live a few states apart, and I decided to go visit him (mind you this is 10 years later and we have only spoken and seen each other a few times since dating several years back). He showed interest in me sexually and flirted, and we ended up hooking up and spending the night together in hotels and what not. After I came back home, he calls a week later saying he wants to move where I live. Now, at this point nothing seemed too crazy, I mean yes that is a bold thing to do, but he also seemed very bored of where he was at and just down, so I figured he wanted to get away a while. Then he asked to stay at my place, saying he would start looking for jobs and a place to live. During this time, still spending most of his time with me, talking with me constantly, sleeping together, etc. Then I started noticing that he was not very motivated to do anything for himself, just seemed to be freeloading all around. So, about 2 weeks in I started saying "no" a lot, stopped sleeping with him, etc., began asking when he was leaving. As soon as that started, he began targeting other women through dating apps and spending days at a time using other people as well. He started ignoring my calls and texts more and didn't seem to care at all that it upset me. I knew right away I was dealing with a sociopath. One night I was distraught over the whole thing and downed a bunch of vodka and completely blacked out, later to find out that he had along with another woman I do not know, carried me outside to my car, then he drove me to a busy city area, and left me inside the running vehicle in a parking lot. I ended up with a DWI that night after waking up with no idea what had happened and starting to drive while still blacked out. I am even concerned that I may have been drugged. Now he has left town, and left all of his belongings he brought in my house, saying he will be back by Monday. I am really confused about what to do. I stopped communicating with him completely, but it's as if he has left me with this threat of power and that he will be back soon, and I just don't know what to do. I guess call police? I'm not even sure that what he told me about leaving town is true.



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190,858 Fact checker.  13 women have accused Trump of sexual assault.


https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/fact-checker/wp/2017/11/22/president-trump-and-accusations-of-sexual-misconduct-the-complete-list/?utm_term=.bf6ec30e75ab



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190,857 I have a plan.

There's this turkey I have to bring to my friend's house--I got it free from my job so it's an easy contribution to any Thanksgiving dinner. But her house is a few towns over, that turkey is 25lbs, and I don't have a car.

So, my plan is to wrap up the turkey, put it in a sweater to shield my skin from the cold, and wrap it inside my jacket like I'm pregnant. The jacket will be tight enough that it'll keep the bird in place, and I'll be able to go on about my business.

Then, while I'm outside the train station waiting for a bus, I'm gonna light up a cigarette and see what happens xD



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190,856 I love that President Trump loves women and show it. Women who can not handle a man's man like that should stick with school boys and their gay friends. I love sex and love men making me feel desirable . I have never been harassment as I know how to handle men that step over the line in a nice but firm way . Why is every women a helpless victim, all of a sudden? You dont know what you are missing ladies! Hot blooded Female 34.



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190,855 I say "I hate people so much" way too often. This can't be normal. Every time I see someone walking down the hallway towards me, I mumble "I hate people." I don't want to be this way. I don't think I've always been this way. Being home alone without husband or kids is an absolute heavenly dream to me. I care nothing about going places and doing things. Just let me stay home and clean house. It's cathartic to me



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190,854 Six out of 10 women in America now feel they were sexually harassed.  How do they expect men to show them they are interested in them? "He touched my shoulder- he told me I am pretty-he asked me out- he touched my hand" what bull sh*t is this? Harassment it trying to rape you or touch the other person's  private parts or breasts. There is a very BIG difference.It seems if you talk or look at  a woman it is perceived as sexual harassment. Soon men will turn to porn  the internet for 100% of their sexual gratification.Don't watch your biological clocks anymore ladies -better get a turkey baster and call a sperm bank.



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190,853 I hate being asked to talk to people in Spanish because none of the white people at my job speak it. I'm black and I've grown up in the U.S., so everything I know comes from my schooling. Even so, it's irritating, because in school we're taught European Spanish, not South American Spanish. There are a lot of minor differences, and I haven't taken a Spanish class in 7 years.

So I feel like an idiot when they look at me with a blank stare because I can't even string a sentence together that makes sense. I've also forgotten a lot, so I'll get halfway through a sentence and then forget an important word...

Sometimes I'm good at explaining around it, but a lot of the time when I try that they don't even know what concept I'm talking about. It's really frustrating and embarrassing. To a degree I know I'm psyching myself out, because I used to be better than this. But part of me fucking hates it when they go, "Oh, you speak Spanish right? Can you tell him ABCXYZ?" and I'm like "Bitch, maybe!" Fuck



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190,852 848 stick to pornhub via the phone, they're a great site who is great at monitoring for viruses.

31/F



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190,851 I work often. It seems like I'm always working. It seems like I have the right to tell work to fuck off every once in a while.

Unbeknownst to me,  while I was at home when I should've been at work, a person at work happened to be recently home from a colonoscopy.   Apparently,  during a colonoscopy, they  try their best to make you feel comfortable by giving you a drug that will help you cope while they jam stuff up your ass.

I decided to lay low. I left and went back to my house thing it would be best if I wasn't there.



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190,850 There were 19 or so accusers. He admitted to regularly assaulting women, Billy Bush not exactly what you'd call "gotcha media"

The real problem is that these so called conservatives approved of and condoned this behavior when they voted for Trump.



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190,849 It's funny - when I was in my 20s the doctors were so hard core about women getting a Pap smear every year. You weren't allowed to have birth control pills unless you had your yearly exam. Then our provincial health care changed the rules and now we're only allowed to have an exam every three years because they don't want to pay for yearly exams anymore.



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190,848 I would watch more porn, but I'm worried about accidentally downloading a virus to my phone.

F/38



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190,847 Rectal exam guy, now you know how most women feel when we go to the gynecologist, at least men don't require rectal exams until they hit certain age (late40's) maybe? Us , women need to visit the gynecologist yearly since we hit puberty.



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190,846 I had a rectal exam today. The male doctor inserted his finger up my male butt. I don't know why gay men like this sort of thing. I hate the feeling.



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190,845 I feel like I wont find anyone better than my ex
He's kind, sweet, but unambitious and not driven.
Can't find anyone perfect I guess...



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190,844 It's hilarious that the Pussy Grabber in Chief supports chief pedophile Roy Moore. Birds of a feather stick together.



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190,843 834 - I didn't share the happy childhood memories with my family like this.  I mean don't get me wrong, it wasn't any tragic story, just not super close with my family.  I've never really wanted kids.  I always wonder why so many people are so set on having children.  For the first time I finally understand it.  Your secret really made me smile and it makes me grateful that there are people like you in the world.  With all the crazy teen moms and crazies having kids, and all these rich people having kids and teaching them horrible values.  Your secret made me feel warm and fuzzy knowing someone wanted to make a family just cuz they love their family :) I hope you and your family have a wonderful holiday :)



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190,842 I'm off Thanksgiving, my husband is working.  I'm spending the day ALONE and I'm so happy.  lol

I haven't told anyone this though.  They will think I'm weird, lonely, depressed etc. and will invite me their houses - which is really nice don't get me wrong, but I don't wanna go.

I'll sleep in, take a shower, put on clean pj's, start the turkey (small one) sit on the couch and watch the parade, read the paper, relax.  Eat dinner with husband, then have some pie.

Make sandwiches for work the next day (with pie) and that's it.  

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!  Introverts Unite!  lol



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190,841 Somebody at work brought in huge, fresh strawberries. As I put the entire thing in my mouth, all I could think was, it was like the head of a huge cock.....I ate many.......
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190,840 Today at work I masturbated in my cubicle while I thought of you. Anyone could have walked by and seen me but they didn't. I think I have a problem.


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190,839 Last night my 14yo went on a 20-minute diatribe about everything that is wrong with my wife, her mother.  She isn't working, she's lazy around the house, yada, yada, yada.  I kept interjecting that she needs to respect her mother and that she loves her very much.

Note.  I never said a word of what she said was wrong.



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190,838 I think it's funny what's happening in the country now with sexual harassment. The media desperately tried to pin sexual harassment on Trump. They made a big deal out of it. They said sexual harassment is never to be tolerated and Trump should be fired.

Only problem, no real woman has ever come forward to say Trump sexually harassed her.

But.... it turns out so many people in the media have been sexually harassing women all along. They scolded Trump - even though he did nothing - while they themselves were guilty.

And since they made such a big deal out of sexual harassment being unforgivable, all these media people are being forced to resign.

Ha ha. Their lies and dramatics backfired and it's costing them their careers. Now that is justice!



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190,837 Weed is awesome at night, great high, then right to sleep, but DAMMIT, it makes me so bloated and gassy the next day !



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190,836 As a guy I would never sexually harass a woman. I would get no joy out of pressuring a woman to let me touch her. I would be disgusted with myself. Don't get me wrong. I enjoy being physical with women, but only if they genuinely want to take part. Those men who pressure women are sickos.



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190,835 I accidentally shit my pants today as I was farting.  Im a grown man!  How fucking embarassing.



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190,834 I think I wanted to have kids because I had such a great family life growing up. A lot of good memories and a lot of laughter. My family honestly just enjoyed each other's company. My sisters and I are all grown up and moved away now, but we're all still very close. I guess I wanted to carry that on and have that in my own home.

My kids are both very young still but they're already so smart and funny with their own unique talents and personalities. Things can be chaotic and stressful at times, but they bring me happiness and love every day. I don't regret it for a second.



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190,833 We never have a normal thanksgiving because it's more important to my husband to hunt on that day instead of spending time with family.



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190,832 I dread thanksgiven. My wife make it so tense.



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190,831 "How dare you ask if I'm feeling better today? How fucking dare you. You think I wasn't in a good mood yesterday? Well fuck you. I'm always in a good mood. I know you think I'm a bitch. Well I'm not the bitch you are. You are a man bitch who acts like a little fucking girl, always asking about my emotional state. Well let me tell you my emotional state is fine. You are the one with the fucking mood problem, always snooping into my state of mind. Fuck you asshole."

Oh, okay, I'm the one in a bad mood and you are a happy person. Thanks for clearing that up.



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190,830 I've already been to a lawyer.



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190,829 I'm seeing a lawyer after the holidays.



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190,828 I'm confused as to what happened at work. I enjoyed working at my job. Everyone got along and we did good work. Then we hired this one programmer. He talked all day about the "right" way to program. He was kind of condescending about it. He knew best. No one else did - according to him. I just ignored him.

He began to see me as his rival and a threat. He would bad mouth me to others. I didn't deserve that. I don't do harm to anyone. I just keep my nose down and do my job.

Senior management called me in and wanted to know why others don't like me. What? All but the trouble maker were my friends. I've gone out to dinner with all of them numerous times. I've been to their homes. They've been to mine. But this one trouble maker created an underlying theme that I was not well-liked and I do bad work.

Christmas bonus time came. I got a reduction. A reduction? Me? I stayed late every night and got the most work done. But I got a reduction? The bosses said again it's because I'm not well liked.

How frustrating. The troubled programmer was like a cancer.  He was destroying a department that was working very well before he arrived.

I finally quit. After almost 10 years of working there I left the job I loved. There was no point in me staying. My name was smeared.

Guess what happened next? Without me churning out code, everyone slowed down. They spent their time listening to the trouble maker tell stories of how great he is. Funny thing though, for all of his self proclaimed expertise, he never actually managed to write code. He was a faker in my view. He just talked.

A year went by. The department got nothing done. The bosses finally cut a bunch of projects that were way past due. So much money wasted. In outrage the trouble maker quit. I think his leaving was a big act. He didn't want to be fingered as the reason nothing was getting done. So he stormed off in a dramatic huff while bad mouthing the company management. Just like he had bad mouthed me.  

But what was all of this? The department was good and solid. Then management allowed a good guy like me to be forced out while the trouble maker stayed and dragged down everything. I thought well dressed business types in suits were supposed to be better at reading people. I guess not. Almost everyone in a company is a faker, taking a good game and just pretending to know what they are doing.



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190,827 I have no sex drive



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190,826 Hey. Guess what? This marriage won't last either. Yeah I'm talking to you



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190,825 Out of desperation, I made a decision to overdraw my current bank account as much as possible ($500), and start a new account with my next paycheck. I was very tired of overdrawing every single payperiod and ending up in the hole as soon as I got paid. I realize that I'm getting myself in trouble with my current bank, and that eventually I'll have to pay this money back, but, as I said....desperation. I used the $500 I got as a final overdraw to buy some stuff from Amazon for Christmas, pay my electric bill, and buy some groceries. I doubt any bank will give me another account, but I'll figure it out. This is middle class my friends. This is the result of a 4 year college degree, and still not making ends meet. How depressing for my kids' futures.



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190,824 818 It won't stop until good women tell the bad ones to straighten up. Men can't be men when confronting a woman.
When a man confronts a man there is always a primal issue below the surface that "if it gets to bad a fight will determine the outcome".
Men can't approach a woman that way. So real men ignore bad women.
Good women straighten out your silly sisters!



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190,823 Some people have children for egotistical reasons.  They regard themselves as wonderful specimens and think the world will be a better place with more like them.

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190,822 I'm so happy that there's never a shortage of fuckery in my life.



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190,821 I found another article about Millenials' murderous rampage on good, traditional values today. This time, they're saying that we're killing the future generation by not having enough babies. I thought this was hilarious, and brought it up to my coworker, who happens to be a Boomer. She never had kids herself, so I thought she'd understand that some people just don't want kids.

Cue my super liberal, aggressively opinionated coworker putting her two cents in like she always does to try and tell me what I already know. Boomer says "Well tbh, most millenials don't have kids because they're lazy and they live at home with their parents and don't want to work for anything."

Super Left gets mad and they start playing the Generational Blame Game. It gets pretty contentious pretty quickly, so I walk away. What had started as a joke had turned into a conversation where everybody shouts their opinions and no one listens.

I'm so sick of people not being able to have actual dialogues on important issues. I could have politely told Boomer that she's generalizing based on her own experience (which is common for people to do), but they were too busy with each other for me to bother.

Millenials aren't having children because we're all broke as hell.

Millenials aren't having children because women aren't being told that their only option in life is to have children anymore.

Also, who says we need to maintain our global population anyway? The world is severely overpopulated, so we could actually use to lose some numbers in the coming years.

And IMO, I think it's kind of sad if your only ambition in life is to raise children. Don't get me wrong, it's an important part of life that needs to happen, but I can't help but think it's a little bit of a cop out sometimes.

People don't know what to do with their time, so they have children.

Shitty relationship? Children.

Want to give your life meaning when before there was none?

Want to martyr yourself for life and have a perfect excuse to never make anything of yourself?

Do you need a "legacy" in human form to make yourself feel like you matter in the grand scheme of things?

Then have some freaking kids.

Of course, I'm aware that my perspective is biased because I don't know anyone who has children that didn't have them by accident, or outside of the reasons I listed. Also because I don't want them, ever. I think it's kind of pointless to hold onto this idea that we need children to give our lives meaning. We can do that on our own.

But now I'm curious. There must be positive reasons why people have children. I just have no idea what they are. I'd really like to know.



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190,820 Please dont be afaid to catch feelings for me



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190,819 My wife cheated on me and I stayed. This is the biggest wrong decision I've ever made. If your spouse cheats, you should leave. If not, you are setting yourself up for years of concern and lingering suspicions. In my case, when my wife is out I am in constant worry she is off cheating again. It's not worth the angst. There can be no balanced relationship. There can be no true happiness. You need to move on. If only I had listened to my own advice.



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190,818 UGGGGG damn, just stop with this sexual aggression and sexual misconduct. men, stop your bullshit with women. Its not the correct thing to do, so just fucking stop. Women, you stop too. You know you are doing it too. This whole Frankin thing... he's a dick for what he did, but the woman is just as much of a dick, because she grabbed the ass of someone else at the same USO show, and SHE bitches?..... this all needs to stop



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190,817 No man has ever hurt me so profoundly and unapologetically as my father has. He. Does. Not. Care.  He has never apologized for any of the numerous awful things he has said and done. Here's his logic: It's my problem I'm offended by it, not his. Feelings are weak and useless bullshit, you see. My mom is the opposite. She is kind and loving. She acknowledges her faults and tried to make things right. She's apologized to me for things she did that might have been hurtful that I had completely forgotten about. My parents are night and day.

I have a lot of anger to release...

I asked my father to stop smoking because I wanted him to be around when I got my masters degree and graduated and for when my siblings have children and to dance at our weddings. I thought this would get him. He looked up from his book and told me “Well, I lost my father when I was 10, so you'll just have to deal with it.”

I had some internal struggles with religion as a teenager. 9/11 killed my belief in God. I was 17 when I finally told my parents. My mother cried and asked what would become of my soul. My father took me downstairs and tore into me about how atheists are bottom-of-the-barrel pieces of shit as human beings and that I was just being a stupid mindless sheep and copying my friends. I lost religion before they ever did. He told me had no respect for me. I screamed and cried because his words felt like hot knives slicing into me. When he left to go back upstairs, I went into the storage room because I was choking from how hard I was crying. I found a razor blade from a box cutter and was a millisecond away from ending my pain right there, but I thought of how hurt my mother would be. I dropped the razor and passed out in the floor for a couple hours from exhaustion.

My parents divorced briefly when I was young, between the ages of 9 and 11. My father started dating this horrible women when I was 10 who used to be a friend of my mom's until my mom realized what the friend was going after. I absolutely defeated this vile woman, and she didn't like me either. When she was moving into my dad's house, we had a huge blowout. I told my dad that he had to choose either her or me, but he could not have us both.

He chose her. Things have never been the same with us since, even thought my parents eventually got back together and remarried.

My father tore our family apart with his alcoholism and cheating on my mom. My siblings hurt from it, but they bounced back and were fine afterward. I was not so resilient and developed anxiety and depression. Worst of all, when I was 10, I developed trichotillomania. I've had control over it for about the half the years I've had it (I'm 30 now.) As a type this, I currently have not been able to wear my hair down for 4 years now because the top of my head is a huge thin patch where I've plucked myself almost bald. I will have this curse the rest of my life. This type of disorder is partially due to a stressful event and generally emerges between age 10 and the early teens. Hmm, I wonder what could have happened to cause it?

Things with my dad and I have gotten better since I moved 3 states away 4 years ago. My mom and sister have been despairing to me as of late because he's been increasingly callous to the awful way he treats people, including his own family. They almost can't stand to be around him anymore. My mom has had to put up with more of his stupid bullshit than she should ever have had to. But they don't want to tear the family apart again despite the fact we kids are all adults now...and she can't afford to leave him.

I've been walking around with all these old wounds becoming aggravated again since hearing about increasingly terrible way he's treating them. Every time my mom asks if this is how she'll be treated the rest of her life, that old anger rises within me again. Most of the time, the pain my dad has caused my mother and me is muted. But there are times like this where it seethes within me and consumes me. Tonight it spilled over, and I had to get everything out. I'm not looking for pity from writing this. Only a release from the emotions that I'm so tired of carrying with me for 20 years now...



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190,816 I have a case of the squirts. This sucks!



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190,815 Bitch u really tried to come for me when you look like Count Olaf. Where your lips at tho. That turkey neck. Those warts??? Try again sweaty



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190,814 It never occurred to me...I just assumed she was the best in bed. It had nothing to do with anything. Yes, I was attracted to her. I loved her soul. I'll never love like that again.
She would brag about all the crazy shit she had tried in bed, but she was really a perfect little angel when it came to sex. Others tried to say she was a total whore, but I knew better.
I don't know if slut-posing is a real thing, but that is basically what she tried to confide in me about, saying there was nothing she wouldn't try or enjoy.
I appreciate her free spirit. She's like a machine, though. I know exactly how to push her buttons. The price of having gained this info is terribly high, but is what defines us.
The last time we were together was pretty weird. I thought about her slut stories which made me sad on one level. I didn't really believe it though. She tried so hard to be different.  I could definitely relate to her aimless desire to be different.
She let me inside of her without a condom for about a couple of seconds. she claims afterwards that she carried my child before an unfortunate miscarriage.
Maybe. We would have made beautiful children together.



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190,813 It's okay for a Grand Dad to ask for a hug, but if the grandchild doesn't want to, he/she shouldn't be forced. A child doesn't owe anybody physical affection.



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190,812 People really can't handle it when you tell them that you do not partake in the Thanksgiving and/or Holidays extravaganza. For many years, I would lie about what I do on Tday, pretending to celebrate with family and/or friends. Not anymore. When people ask me, I just tell the truth: I don't celebrate any of it and I spend it alone. By choice yes, but also by circumstances. People literally freak out.



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190,811 You promised to handle the situation. I gave you the time you asked for. Now you would rather do something else than take care of your family. 2018 is going to suck.



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190,810 Most white guys are raised to believe that women are their equals.  Most white women are raised to believe that everything that's wrong in their life is due to white men.  Most Asian women are raised to believe they're second class children compared to their brothers.

Is it any wonder why the white male/Asian female combination makes up 40% of all interracial couples?  That's 3 times higher than what a straight average should be.  

Emotionally, the white man gets a woman who doesn't beat him down with bullshit, and the Asian woman gets a man who treats her as an equal.  Pretty obvious.



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190,809 07 That's hilarious and you are absolutely right, I have met three men who married foreigners (two Asian and one Brazilian) with the illusion they were going to do what they were told 😅😅😅 joke was on them they all ended up divorcing these women . The two Asians turn out to be obsessed with status and material things (very expensive) the Brazilian one , once she got her green card drop the guy immediately and moved on very quickly.   Some men are just idiots , with unrealistic expectations of marriage, maybe they should move to the Middle East , where women get treated like possessions and can't do anything without their husbands permission.

A foreigner that doesn't fit my cultural stereotype.



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190,808 There is an article out today saying it's wrong for an adult relative to tell a young girl, "You owe me a hug."  It sets a precedent that girls feel like they owe physical contact to adults.

What bullshit.

Now it's wrong for your grandad to want a hug?

This world we are creating for ourselves is insane.

What's next? It's wrong for me to hold the door open for a women because there's an implied expectation that the woman owes me?

It's wrong to ask a woman out to dinner? It's wrong to buy a woman a present?

Fucking trolls in the media will print any garbage to get people to read their article and they don't care if it messes everyone up. Journalists should be licensed and those licenses should and can be revoked.



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190,807 God help all those Asian women who are descended upon by western creeps looking for a servant. You know, I used to live in Asia (WF) and it was hilarious. The guy would hook up with an Asian lady and at first she is sooo cute and sooo sweet he totally falls.

But once that ring is on that finger, watch the tiger emerge from behind the silk curtain. Asian women who were born on a diet of manipulation (as all women are when their rights are denied them) totally wrap said western creep around her little finger. The men don't know what hit them. All they know is that they cannot escape.



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190,806 If I self sabotage my way out of this job I will actually kill myself.



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190,805 Abusive childhoods make us feel bad about ourselves.  We should fix it.



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190,804 Men, American Women are not the way to go. If you look at them wrong, they get high and mighty, and threaten to sue! Believe me, try an Asian woman.  And no, not a hooker. Just a beautiful woman.  American Women will try to tell you they are diseased, but that is not the case.
They will serve you, as a Man, and as terrible as that sounds, they love doing it. They let you be the Man.
It's wonderful. Don't worry, all women are NOT like American Women.



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190,803 I guess I'm angry all the time because I'm still coping with years of child abuse and domestic violence. Sorry for not being happy. I'll be sure to try harder.



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190,802 Your son was arrested in 6th grade for breaking and entering. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. You must be so proud!



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190,801 When I had my breast reduction the day before my surgery, my doctor ask me what kind of pain killers I wanted, i just laughed and told him whichever since I have never taken any .  He ended giving me vacodim which I only took for one day ,I couldn't stand the drowsiness the next day I just took over the counter pain killers  until I recovered . I just don't get how can people function or get addicted to the staff it's the same for weed , coke , or any other drugs .  I can't even stand alcohol just the smell of it makes puke.



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190,800 I drank my own vomit once, while i was on shrooms. Didn't want to lose the high, bc i hadn't started feeling it yet. It was disgusting. Even thinking of it makes me gag a little.



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