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192,399 My wife and I aren't bad looking people,   but we were the smart, nerdy, shy kids in high school.  No girls paid attention to me back in the day.  But our two sons are 15 and 17 years old and hit the genetic lottery when it comes to their looks.  They could be models.  Being nerdy, my wife and I chuckle at how the popular, cool girls at their high school lose their composure when they talk to our boys.  Our boys don't pay much attention to them.  They're more interested in the nerdy girls.


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192,398 I didn't try to create a future for myself because I thought that I'd be dead by now... Now I have no education, no credit, no home, no job. - I've got to figure something out now. I can do this.


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192,397 I’m ashamed that I spent so much money on Starbucks last year. There is no excuse. Their coffee isn’t even that good. I buy it, because it’s there. It’s available. I have zero self-control. #millenial


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192,396 I am starting to really hate humanity. Every time I see someone with a newborn baby I want to slap him across the face. Why are you adding more to the problem?! Arrrgh sieidooccllswlw


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192,395 It’s not him having a new girlfriend that bothers me so much.
It’s the fact that he will eventually tell her that he loves her. That is going to break my heart all over again.


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192,394 When I see a man and a woman with more than three children, I automatically look at the woman like she’s a sex-slave. Sorry. Close your legs, or tell him to get a vasectomy. Nobody needs that many goddamned children!!!


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192,393 Once, on the way to a wedding, I changed out of my jeans and t-shirt into a fancy dress in a gas station bathroom off the highway. There was a mouse in the corner watching me.


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192,392 I love the curve of a woman's pussy.    It's like a sculpted work of art.

I hate the look of a man's penis. It's like an angry weapon of war.

Of course I'd rather caress a pussy with my lips. But societal norms dictate I must allow my husband's penis to penetrate and conquer my work of art.


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192,391 My prostate aches. This is what the idiom means, "a pain in the ass".

It happens when my girlfriend is a little rough thrusting her finger in there. I tell her about it the next day when the ache begins. I milk the situation for extra points. As in, "could you give me a back rub because it aches and it's all your fault..."

Some days my prostate hurts because a dick was banging around in there. This situation I don't milk. I suffer in silence because I can hardly mention to my girlfriend how a dick was in there.


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192,390 I have a coffee mug at work. It has my name on it. I hate when I see someone else using it. I hate that their lips are touching MY coffee mug.  It's mine. Don't you get it? I have it so only I can use it and I don't have to think about your mouth being where my mouth is. Gross. But I can't say any of this at work or I'll come across as an anal fuss bucket. But know that I secretly cringe when I see you drinking out of MY mug.


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192,389 I'm becoming a bad person. I can feel it happening but i keep making shitty decisions and getting drunk all the time. My alcohol problem is still way more out of hand than I've been admitting, and I'm not trying hard enough to stop it. Just another waste of space human


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192,388 At my 25yth reunion, I counted how many women I hooked up with in college who are now lesbians.  Three.


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192,387 I am watching Cranberries videos and tearing up!
Dolores O'Riordan you will be sorely missed, but never forgotten!
My daughter will one day have her daughter or son listen to your amazing voice and the tradition will continue to carry on!
RIP sweetie!


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192,386 I keep a folder of pictures of women I know on my computer.  When I get horny, I find one that suits my mood and I rub one out.  These women would probably be offended if they knew I did this.


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192,385 Of the women I chased after when I was in my 20s, at least half of them are still not married in their mid-40s.  I wonder if I have a thing for closet lesbians.


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192,384 I know right. I get the same thing from my husband's family. They are rude narrow minded people. They put me and my beliefs down all the time. They are not kind about it. But My husband tells me to be the bigger person and forgive them and move on. Why do I always have to be the bigger person? They behave poorly but it's my responsibility to make things right every time? F that S. I want nothing to do with them anymore.


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192,383 I'm tired of being treated poorly by people, and then told I need to be nice to people when I'm angry.  I'll just be a dick from now on.  I won't get any respect, but people won't walk all over me anymore.  Fuck your feelings.

EDIT:  She literally acts demanding all the time.  When people are in her way, instead of walking around, she violently shoulders through people and acts pissed.  I was told to be nice to her after she did it to me.  Jackass.


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192,382 My ex girlfriend punched me wildly one night in the middle of an argument. I was trying to leave to stay the night at my sister's so we could have time to cool down and talk it over later when we were both calm. I was on the ground and she punched me repeatedly while calling me a bastard.

Sometimes I want to tell everyone what happened. All of our mutual friends who think she's this wise and insightful woman. Sometimes I just want to expose her for what she actually is. A mean, insecure, bitter drunk.

But instead, I'll just leave this here.


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192,381 Is this even a secret? Guys... it's not about the size of your cock, it's about how you use it. Sure a tiny tiny penis isn't as filling...


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192,380 No one knows history.  China was under Imperial rule by the British.  India was under Imperialism.  Hong Kong.  Argentina.  The United States.  Canada.  Yet these countries thrived once out from under imperial rule.  Truth sucks big time but black countries have always been shitholes, and most likely always will be shitholes.  Zimbabwe was the breadbasket of Africa, feeding all the countries around it, until their leader took away all the white owned farms.  Now they are a shithole country.  

How can we fix a problem unless we admit the truth about it first?  It is like a body ravaged by cancer and then blaming the symptoms instead of attacking the disease.


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192,379 Virtue Signaling... I am a white liberal female and I cannot stand most other white liberal females. They are falling all over themselves to be 'intersectional' and 'inclusive' kissing the asses of black women and trans and telling these populations how amazing they are.

Its all bullshit. It is not about black women. It is not about trans its about your need to absolve yourself of whatever liberal guilt you have cooked up in your brain. Here is an idea, shut up. Stop liking and pandering to whatever your black "friends" are saying. You and I BOTH know you are full of shit. They know you are full of shit.

Just start listening. Make friends with people you like. Maybe those friends are black maybe they are trans maybe they are pumpkin spice lovers... but just fucking stop with your virtue signaling.

The world is going to flames and we are living under a mass extinction event caused by us and all you want to do is inject yourself with fake moral outrage about identity politics.

Stop wasting your time with bullshit. Start quietly making a difference in the world. quietly... white women. it is not all about YOU.


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192,378 Since some guy already asked...

What do women here in the Cave think about an 8 inch cock that's about 1-3/4 inch wide?


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192,377 I was with a stripper in a club and she was grinding on my cock and I blurted out something like, "Yeah, stroke my cock you dirty little whore!"  And I was like, fuck, did I say that?  But she liked it.


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192,376 My doctor recommended I stay away from food sprayed with pesticides due to the fact I keep getting these little tumors inside me. I get them removed, they come back. Most are benign but my doctor told me that since I grew up next to a farm, the spray is what might be causing this. Ok, great. I start reading labels, and now 85% of my food is organic. I even drink organic wine and beer. My tumors have slowed down too!
The problem now? When I go over my sister in laws house, their food is regular and the wine is cheap. I can physically taste the difference in food. It tastes like plastic. But the wine? I felt like I was poisoned. I got very ill after two glasses, I noticed it made me so agitated. Now as I sit and watch the world around me, I can't help but wonder what's in the food now? And for as popular it is to drink, the level of crap on conventional alcohol seems like an easy way to get people sick...Because tumors make many people very rich. You're all being poisoned. Wake up.


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192,375 The last 2 people I've hooked up with were other peoples' boy friends. It really is true, if you fight with your man a lot and never get to the root of the problem, he's gonna find a girl that doesn't give him any grief and fuck her as soon as she lets him.

Mind you, I'm not proud of this. I'm aware that my pussy is just an easy distraction and these men will never wife me up. But now I know 100% that a man will take affection from anyone willing when their girl's been being a bitch.


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192,374 Hey admin, I’m a smallish-sized person with thin fingers and I’m still fat-fingering the “flag post” button when I really want to comment. Time for bigger buttons?


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192,373 All the information on my Facebook is made up , I don't even post my real name, birthday, location or any personal information. I find it quite creepy when you get notifications on someone's birthday, and I only befriend family so if you are not blood related to me don't even bother .  


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192,372 Some people are so absolutely gorgeous it is sickening


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192,371 I hate how social media has changed our lives.  I deactivated my FB page in December.  My birthday is in January.  Without the FB reminder, I only received phone calls from one brother (I have four siblings), one aunt and one cousin.  My parents and grandparents are dead.  Not even my closest friends - some of whom I've known most of my life - remembered.

My husband made a post about my birthday on his wall, mentioning that I deactivated my page.  And THAT is where people chose to wish me a Happy Birthday.  His friends, I understand, but MY family and our mutual friends, WHO HAVE MY PHONE NUMBER, basically told my husband to tell me happy birthday, instead of picking up the phone and calling or texting.  

What I also loved is the people saying they thought I'd unfriended them.  AUNTS AND UNCLES, even.  Jesus, people, learn how FB works or get off the computer.


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192,370 I like being called a slut while having sex. Is this weird?
I wonder if this is attached to any psychology theory.


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192,369 I've almost killed myself more than once in the past few months. No, I did not attempt to commit suicide in the sense that most would recognize, but I did have an attitude and behavior that reflected how little I value my life and how careless I was with taking care of myself. Now I am paying dearly for it. I was arrested for DWI a few months ago after downing a shitload of vodka. I tried to get into a fight with someone that night prior to the arrest. I usually never act like that. I was out of control. You would think I would settle down after that, but no I continued to drink and do ridiculous amounts of cocaine and pills, then ended up in the hospital with pancreatitis and kidney failure. Spent 10 days in the hospital nearly dying. I suffered muscle and nerve damage in my leg which resulted in drop foot, meaning my foot is now paralyzed. I am only 32 years old. I have a master's degree and a professional career. I have a family and friends who care about me, but somehow I let depression control my life and I just didn't care anymore. I now have to live with constant pain, medications, and difficulty standing and walking.

The only thing I have now is the fact my family is supportive, I quit all the drugs and even smoking cigarettes. I am slowly getting better. I am in love with an amazing man, but he doesn't want a relationship right now. He is struggling as I am to stay sober, and I am hopeful if I keep it up too we can be together one day. He is one of the only people in my life who has encouraged me to get better and check in on me. I am lucky enough to be starting a good job tomorrow, and I am hopeful that things are finally changing for me.


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192,368 I'm average. I don't care. My lady likes it so that's all that matters


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192,367 I think “the chive” and “KCCO” is bullshit. Absolute bullshit. A cop out.


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192,366 I don't think women go around measuring penis, like seriously do men really measure their penis ? And compare sizes while taking a leak?  


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192,365 How do women feel about a 4-1/2" long dick thats 1-1/2" thick


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192,364 I hate smartphones.  I got this iPhone that was a few years old, and phone companies online had problems letting me buy a plan, instead telling me to buy a new phone.  I don't remember how, but I eventually got a plan with one of the companies recommended in the phone packaging.  I was able to pay with my debit card automatically every month.

I had to shut down my phone plan for a few months, and now I'm wanting to pay again.  Phone company websites won't take my phone again, saying it's not compatible with my phone.  I tried contacting my original phone plan's tech support, and they told me I cannot use my debit card and I have to buy a phone plan card.  What the fuck is this shit?

I just want to pay for a phone plan, and I can't?  You fuckers keep telling me to buy a new phone and to go out and buy a physical phone plan card instead of paying it with my debit card?  Fuck the corrupt smartphone industry.  I had an easy time years ago paying my flip phone bill.  Paying a smartphone bill is a pain in the fucking ass.  This is an obvious shitty that needs to be reformed.  I didn't even get into shit like unlocking my phone to a different carrier, or being forced to pay for multiple lines.  Fuck this shit.

I remember being with a group of people, calling flip phones "dumb phones".  Smartphones are the real dumb phones with dumpy service.



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192,363 I have a job and a career. I am a "professional" type of guy. I had three jobs at once more than once. I worked from home a lot, it cut out the commute, and helped me work extra hours for no extra pay. It sucked for years, but my family needed the paychecks to pay rent and eat.

But.......... I made lunch for my kid for school. I walked them to school with a stroller and backpack. I changed hundreds of diapers and made more baby bottles than I can count. No babysitters, just me while the bitch slept until 2pm.

My secret?
My fucking wife dared to tell me I was a bad dad because I was never home! I worked from 6am until 11pm, but she almost lived at the local diner with a crew of high school kids, and she would get home when I got up to get ready for work. Thanks babe. Such a good helper.

I love my children like crazy. I love my wife. But holy shit, she has such an inflated sense of being a perfect mom it drives me crazy. She's not that good of a person. She can't even face the reality of what she has done, but she thinks she is the ideal person every young woman should emulate. That bothers me.


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192,362 Three times in my life, I was nearly beaten up by redneck coworkers.  They assumed I was gay, and was afraid I was going to hit on them.  One of those times I was fired for fighting, even though I didn't.

At another workplace, I was sexually harassed by a woman for not wanting to dance and grind on her.  I was accused of being a virgin, then assumed to be gay, then was told that I should die of AIDS.  Everybody in the workplace thought she was awesome.

I can't go on with these stories, but abusive coworkers are always rewarded by companies.


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192,361 I think Trump just says things to get attention and see how far he can get away before they said enough is enough. I honestly think if he ever gets inmpeach , he will be relieved that he doesn't have play president anymore .  


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192,360 I had my children very young and did a pretty good job as a single Mom. Worked and eventually graduated from college. My kids are grown now and I secretly resent that they always want something from me. I did my damn job it is now YOUR turn to take of yourselves. I am over it.


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192,359 Fuck you

Fuck you. No, really, Fuck you. All you women that are posturing on social media, Fuck you.

I'm a man. I've been raped, I've been molested, and I've been used. Get the fuck over it. My wife was raped for her first experience in sex. So was I. I'm over it. She's not. I've been sexually assaulted a dozen times since I said the "I do" in front of the judge. So what? My wife rolls her eyes and said the girls were "finding themselves" or some shit, so that makes it OK? But if I accidentally touch a breast I'm an asshole. Got it. Thanks.

I think we have our priorities messed up.


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192,358 Earlier this week Donald Trump had lunch with Elvis Presley at McDonalds. I know with 100% certainty this is true for two reasons:

1. Someone who wasn't there told me he heard it was true.

2. McDonalds has NOT issued a press release saying it didn't happen.

Therefore, without a doubt, the story is true.


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192,357 After a spin class,  I don't like to get undressed in the cramped locker room. So I typically change out of my sweaty clothes while siting in my car in the parking lot.


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192,356 oh god, just heard last night.  The busy body in everyone's face, self righteous, prom queen from high school is now divorced from her 2rd husband on the grounds of an un-consummated marriage.  This after a year, and from a lawyer who would know.




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192,355 In Lukas Graham's song, 7 Years where he sings " It was a big big world, but we thought we were bigger". I always think '"We were white, white boys but we thought we were niggers".



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192,354 Nobody cares unless you're dead or beautiful.


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192,353 You think your husband will be at church tomorrow. Nope. He'll be fucking me.

#themistresswinseverytime


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192,352 I’m not ready to be done kissing you every night. As soon as this play is over you’ll be out of my life again. Forever. I don’t understand why you have this effect on me. You repulse me! You’re the antithesis of everything I look for in a man. You almost ruined my marriage and I still can’t stop thinking of you. My husband doesn’t know that every night we’ve had sex this week is because of you. I know that if I gave in, you’d break me. I’d lose my husband and you wouldn’t have me anyway. I want you. I don’t know what I’d do with you if I had you, but it doesn’t make me want you any less.


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192,350 I googled possible health benefits of stopping masturbating. Quickly realized every article was written directed towards men only. Yeah, I'm a woman. We do it also.


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192,349 When I couldn't have her, she wanted me. Now that I can have her, she shuns me and pushes me away.

Life is rarely fair. I want her so bad.


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192,348 I (stupidly) drink to relieve stress and anxiety. My wife is mad that I drink at all, saying I'm an alcoholic because I drink alone. Buuut... I don't have real friends. If I only drank with friends, I would have one drink every three months. My wife only drinks wine, and rarely, so I could drink with her, right? No, she wants me to drink wine with her.

My secret?
I drink because it's the only thing in my life that I actually enjoy. My buzz is what lets me feel happy.


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192,347 I can't imagine the terror for the people of HI earlier today getting that false alarm warning! Glad it turned out to be a mistake....this time....


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192,346 I hate to have to admit this, but the truth is there are no successful, thriving areas on this planet where blacks are the majority.  There are no successful majority black countries in the world.  There are no successful majority black cities in this country.  Anywhere you gather a large number of blacks together, the whole place just falls to shit.  I hate having to admit that.  But it speaks for itself.


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192,345 just so you know... i never left. the silence was deafening and i'm not one to shout so i retreated just outside your circle universe. but the connection was not lost. that wasn't up to me. or you. we just do. but yeah, so i'm still here, just outside the borders of your awareness. i'll take my love rare, please.


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192,344 My secret is I prefer dogs to people. Sure, there are some good people, mostly not. With dogs, they're mostly good, with just a few bad ones. The bad ones were made that way by, you guessed it, bad people.

My dog travels with me around the country in my van. He never gripes or complains, everyday is a good day to him. He teaches me how to be happy living simply enjoying nature.


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192,343 I was supposed to work overtime today, but I skipped because the people there are assholes.  I can't wait until I get hired somewhere else.

I'm supposed to care about this job so much, but it doesn't pay much and the people are assholes.


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192,342 My secret is that I really can't stand dogs.

When I'm around them I try to pretend I don't mind them, because what kind of terrible person doesn't like dogs? But I secretly hope they don't come near me and that nobody expects me to pet one. Ew.


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192,341 Have people always been this stupid and gullible, but social media allows these fools to speak aloud and confirm thier idiocy. Just watched a video on Facebook of a kids soccer league which plays with an imaginary ball to prevent the negative feelings of competition and loss. It was a well produced video with clear satire, yet as expected countless people commented on the insanity of the snowflake agenda. I am no fan of snowflakes or SJWs, but I am even more disappointed how stupid many people are.


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192,340 Yes i listened to you with tears in your eyes...but i just dont fucking care, shits been done your way for years, its time for a change, dont be such a drama queen, pain in the ass because you didnt get your way.


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192,338 The gal who gets all horn dog and rubs one off on the long drive home. You would never guess that she was either this eager to Jill off or that she was doing it as she drove home. Her attempts at pleasure were fascinating and hot. She would put her hands down there and fantasize about having intercourse with random strangers as she drove down the highway.

Harmless fantasies. Whatever might attempt to gratify her deep desires, especially this; an endless supply of strange. She was petrified about becoming pregnant, but I now know she was probably infertile. That's why it was weird when she let me fuck her without a condom.

She never got pregnant. I think I probably should have tried here and there now that it seems pretty clear she couldn't easily get pregnant. I didn't want to frivolously have a baby, but the key to my heart had to do with having a family. She can have my baby. But she will flip through the years of her life like a cartoon and she will never know what we missed.








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192,337 I'm curious about the man who masterbates at his cubicle. Can't your coworkers smell that sexual activity has been going on? How do you wash up afterwards? Do walk to the bathroom with semen all over your hands? What if someone sees you and your semen covered hand?  Do you wash off your penis in the communal bathroom sink? And finally, can you tell me where you work so I can rest easy it's not where I work!


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192,336 "When you  create your own destiny you have strength." .... I will remember these words.


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192,335 My secret: I’m in front of my closet mirror, opened my legs and slowly forced 2 cue balls into my tight little hole. Just came SOOOOO HARD.


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192,332 I jacked off again at my desk at work. that's hot. All while watching a porn of a woman giving a slow blowjob.
Women, stop jerking with your hand and trying to get it over with quickly!!  Watch a slow BJ porn sometime, you may learn something.


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192,331 I hate this winter weather.  I was walking in the snow, when suddenly the snow broke away and my leg fell in several inches of mud.


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192,330 Read the news stories closely. Really do your homework on this. Trump never said those words. There is no one who was in the room at the time corroborating that Trump said those words. One Senator made a blanket statement that Trump is a racist, but he stopped short of saying Trump said the words.

This fake news business has to stop. Americans in foreign nations could be at risk because of this fake news. The media needs to be taken to task on this. They should be forced to pay huge fines when they publish such irresponsible fake stories.


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192,329 I’m perpetually the pal. The confidant. The buddy.  And people wonder why I want to drink myself to death!


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192,328 I'm so excited - now that the statute of limitations has run out, I can finally tell all my friends I had incest with my sister!


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192,327 Well we all know Democrats are “for the people”.  Wait, how many voted to reduce taxes for working slaves? That’s right, none.

Hey Nancy, my secret?  I’ll gladly take that $2000.00 “crumb” my company is now giving me!




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192,326 This secret is really obvious but it's almost impossible to state without being labeled.There is no successful black nation. Let that sink in for a moment and ask yourself why there is no successful black nation. Ask yourself that if tomorrow there were to exist a successful (first world) black nation how powerful and truly trans-formative it could be. Using racism as an excuse as to why the black community can't succeed will yield no change in creating a successful black nation. The only way a successful black nation could exist is the same manner in which all successful nations exist and that is when the best and the brightest come together to create innovation, production and thus wealth. Africa is rich in resources, why is it that the continent is full of third world countries? If a country is too daunting, could we agree that even one successful black city would be a beacon of hope. Yet every predominately black city are all the worst cities in our nation. Imagine how trans formative it could be if the very best and brightest black people chose one predominately black city to make this beacon of hope...yet they all give lip service yet no real service. It's very sad the way black people are treated worldwide but what is even sadder is the fact that they are destined to have many more generations of oppression because rather than coming together to forge their own destiny they are reliant upon the sympathy of others. Realize the race card is played to garner the sympathy of others. Being reliant upon  the sympathy of others is always a position of weakness. When you  create your own destiny you have strength.


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192,325 My secret? I've been to Detroit, Baltimore, St Louis Hartford, Springfield, Newark and the list goes on and on and they are ALL SHITHOLES. Just saying...


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192,324 Today everybody in the US is upset that Trump called 3rd World countries "shitholes."

You know, because the rest of us Americans have never said crap like that.

It's getting harder to take people seriously with all this hypocrisy.


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192,323 Im ashamed of the US for electing this fool :-(


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192,322 Special Education services are toppling public school education. My district is firing main stream teachers so they can use the money to hire more special ed teachers. Where's the logic? We'll spend all the money teaching special ed kids how to get jobs pushing shopping carts in the parking lot. Meanwhile, we'll let regular education turn to crap. O.K., but then where will the next generation of doctors come from?


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192,321 I have a family friend. She was actually of my parents’ generation but I have connected with her and have known her my whole life. She’s handicapped, in a wheelchair. I love her, but I’ve been kind of pissed off for a bit because it took a few years of interaction to realize how judge mental she is. She judges the way I’m raising my kids. She always offers these alternatives which I saw as a good thing-some constructive criticism. Meanwhile my husband just hated it. His eyes would glaze over when she spoke and he’s just walk away. The tipping point for me was when she spoke with me in private about my husband. She told me he was insecure & controlling. This was too far for me. I’ve written her off since then and am pleasant but not open or receptive to her. I don’t make the effort anymore. She also tells everyone with young children to make their lives easier by having them do more around the house. She states she had no choice in this matter because she was in a wheelchair and her kids had to do stuff. I remember her house. It was a mess! I want to tell her that but I can’t. I just wish she could see how being judge mental of a family that loves you pushes them away.


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192,320 Your wedding is coming up next weekend, yet you continue to talk to me. You make small talk on facebook messenger, with the front that you're being friendly, but I know better. You're only talking to me to keep me in your life in some shape form or fashion. I get it. You're not over me. She's your second choice. You basically told me as much. I just wonder if it's a good idea to marry someone when you want someone else. Good luck with that


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192,319 Fake news in action. All this controversy over haiti. Pay attention to how this unfolded. The Washington Post reported that trump called haiti a shithole. Later they said their story is corroborated by - now this is important - corroborated by other media outlets.

What?? The press is citing the press as their source? That's not a source. That's one journal plagiarizing another journal, then they all give a satisfying nod that the story is corroborated. What bull shit.

Then a news outlet has a headline saying a senator corroborates the shithole comment. But if you bother to read through the details, the senator made a statement saying trump is a racist. He doesn't at all corroborate that trump called haiti a shithole at yesterday's meeting. To intentionally spin that in a headline to make it look like a senator confirms the shithole comment is an outright fabrication.

This is what the media is all about these days. They make things up.

In this particular case I wouldn't be surprised if angry haitians take out their revenge and kill some americans. In which case I think the media outlets should be tried for murder.


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192,318 I was on a cruise ship that stopped in Haiti for the afternoon. The cruise people told me not to leave the well guarded dock area. I'm a big guy. I thought no one would mess with me. Ha. I walked out of the gated area and was immediately surrounded by Haitians who wanted to sell me things, including a few cab drivers who were offering to give me rides. One of the drivers grabbed me and started pulling me towards his car. I broke free and told him not to touch me again. He then told me to get in his cab or he "will stick me with a knife." All this happened within 30 seconds of leaving the gated area. I turned around and walked back the 10 feet to the area inside the gates. I will never go to Haiti again. You think tourists should go to Haiti? I think that's an irresponsible and dangerous thing to suggest.


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192,317 I want to leave this world because I feel like I've lived long enough. It has been an interesting, and at times challenging experience. I'm glad to have had the chance to see what kind of person I am. I think I turned out pretty well.

But I'm older now. I'm on the cusp where my health is starting to fade. I'm definitely slowing down, both physically and mentally. The future only holds a further decline. I don't want to live through that.  I don't want to become someone's burden. Ending life now makes sense. Leave the party at its peak.


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192,316 I'm terrified I'm going to end up another mentally ill person living on the streets.


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192,315 I’m not much of a pretender. I have a secret facebook group of friends I trust where I can complain about my intermittently verbal abuser husband. I’ve also stopped crying now when he is nasty to me because I don’t expect any better from him anymore and I know he is doing it to try to keep control. I am thinking of starting a secret online journal under an alias to detail the abusive conversations.

I’ve noticed it happens about every three weeks and he gets triggered by the mildest of things or even nothing at all. I am starting to be able to anticipate when he will get mean and contemptuous. The rest of the time he is mostly so sweet and that is the only reason I stay...

I just don’t sleep with him any night he has been nasty. I know he’s past the nasty point when he starts doing nice stuff for me again - but he never apologizes.


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192,314 Who would go to Haiti or El Salvador for a vacation ?  I'm thinking if you took a poll of 10,000 people maybe 1 to 3 people would say sure, I'll pay money and go on vacation there.

I live in a college town full of progressives and not one person I know, not one, took vacation in either place or in any place remotely like that. Did some researches and medical people go? Yes that is so and it was Haiti.  Did they take their families with them, no.  

Once again Trump states the obvious and those who hate Trump can't stand that he does just that.


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192,313 Haiti is such a wonderful and beautiful destination island.  Simply stunning.  Book your next vacation there, you will not be disappointed!


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192,312 I like Oprah, but I can't rule out the possibility that she killed her son when she was 14. She admits to trying to kill him with bleach when she was pregnant, which is sad, poor girl should have had access to safe abortion services.  She glosses over the details of his death before she explains that she decided to never have a baby again and pursue a successful life. Hmm ....


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192,311 The only thing that makes insomnia ok is when I get to lie in this bed under big heavy covers and listen to the sounds outside from the open window. The best


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192,310 Choices have consequences. Games are games. Someone who was born here doesn't want to be deported to a "shithole" country they've never been to because someone else wanted to stroke the egos of a bunch of people who who think this is just a game and don't know the meaning of live and let live.

This isn't about how you eat your Oreos. This isn't tiddlywinks.









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192,309 I've been scouting out places to end my life. First and foremost I don't want to be a public spectacle. I don't want to jump off a building so I'll hold up rush hour traffic and everyone will be mad at the crazy jumper. I don't want that to be my last mark on the world.

I also don't want to die deep in the wilderness where animals will eat my body. The idea is not appealing to me.

I don't want to hang myself in my bedroom and be found by a family member. I don't want them to be haunted by the image.

What I need is to disappear, but I don't want to make a mystery out of it where a friend spends the rest of his days trying to find me. I don't want to do that to anyone.

This world needs a real soylent green option where I can go into a chamber and poof, I'm gone. No fuss, no mess.  Could someone implement that real quick? By this weekend would be good.

Thanks.



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192,308 I have a get rich quick idea. Here it is:

Google docs, but with the catch that it actually works.

Like when you hit a key, it shows up right away on the screen, not 5 seconds later.

When you make a format change, it actually stays that way next time you load the document.

And when you save a file, it doesn't suddenly vanish into oblivion so you have to do all the work over again.

I could get very rich off this idea!


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192,307 Haiti is a shit-hole country.  That's why my ancestors left.  Africa, not as much choice.

- M 45 Black, Haitian immigrant grandparent


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192,306 Kevin is mean. He knows when to ignore me and chooses to do so only when he wants to keep me abreast of the fact that I am not to expect one thing from him. He does This shut down when I need him the very most. He doesn’t fuck me anytime I want it it’s always When he wants to rarely. He makes a point of emphasizing that his child comes
First, as if I would think otherwise and as if I actively try to interfere. I think he is the one who is a problem here. He’s a dick and negs me anytime I ask him for any type of effort. I just wish I didn’t want him and could lose the love I have for him. He doesn’t deserve my warmth and I don’t deserve his baggage.


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192,305 Please just love me.


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192,304 Why is life so confrontational? Can't people simply live and let live?

Let someone vote for Trump. Let them like Pepsi over Coke. Let them like the Yankees instead of the Redsox. Why are humans so hell bent on changing another person's opinion to make it like their own? Why? Just let the things go! My God people waste their entire life confronting others. LET IT GO!


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192,303 I'm so tired of dealing with her. Every waking moment is her driving me crazy. In the morning I come into the kitchen and say hello. She snaps back, "What do you mean by that? Why did you say hello? Who says hello in the morning? No one says hello. They say good morning. Was that some kind of dig at me? Are you toying with me? Do you not want me to have a good morning? Is that your game? Christ what idiot says hello in the morning."

This is anytime I say anything, she turns it into a major problem.

She's not only extremely hard to talk to, she's obviously paranoid too and thinks everything is a slight against her. What a combination!

It's to the point where I just want to pack a bag and leave, and never to see her again. I don't care if she gets everything. She can have it. But she can't have me anymore. I need to be away from her and get my life back.


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192,302 My son rocked his math & second grade homework tonight and I’m so happy it made me cry! Yep, it’s no biggie to other parents- I mean who cares right? My son is 18 years old & autistic. This time, my tears were happy instead of worry, stress & anguish (just a small burst of happiness for now anyway) the little things really do count.


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192,301 Politics is poisoned by the trolls of the world. This isn't some game like God of War or something like that. History isn't something that is easily understood by way of google searches. This isn't some computer lan lab experiment at the local community college. This is the real world. Your choices have consequences.

Lincoln bears absolutely no resemblance to Trump. Trump bears more of a resemblance to a stump. He just wants people to like him. He'll say whatever to make people like him, but he's like a guy without a parachute furiously flapping his arms. Proof that I am right; Some people don't like me. That doesn't mean I'm like Lincoln.

I love the Republican party, but shit-fuck, look at what it's become? Jivanka and Trump, faux Republicans. Even Ann Coulter, Rush and others of their ilk have said as much.

The unhappy people on the ends of the political spectrum will never come together. The happy moderates in the middle will form a majority and sweep this bullshit aside.

Then, the people in the middle, you know, the people who are too busy to play games and are hard at work living their lives will do what is right.


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192,300 I'm constantly stressing that the trap door will give out beneath me and I'll finally be fired.


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