secrets


archives




192,799 I  sometimes fantasize that people are good and they help each other and even love each other. No more cat fights, no more name calling, no more greed and jealousy.  But it's only a fantasy.


likes: 2
comments: 0

192,798 I got sober and now I have to try and create a future from scratch that I never ever planned to have.
No credit, no savings, no good job history, no health insurance, idk if I've done taxes every year I was supposed to.. No clue. I have no idea how to adult for anything. Idk how to begin


likes: 0
comments: 2
flagged

192,797 I'm beginning to think that this town really isn't big enough for the two of us.


likes: 0
comments: 2

192,796 There's an HIV+ student in my child's elementary school. It's not fair we don't know who it is. Fuck privacy. We need to know or some other innocent child is going to get infected on the playground. This is fucked up bigtime.


likes: 1
comments: 14
flagged

192,795 I'm 60k in student debt and only a bit more than halfway through university. A part of me wants to drop out for a year to pay a third of my loans and then return to school.


likes: 0
comments: 4

192,794 I used to do hard drugs, but I've been clean for nearly 4 years. I've also also held down multiple jobs (been at the current one for over a year) & made Dean's list at college, in addition to other academic / social accomplishments. But, whenever certain family members of mine (whom I'm in contact with very often) get even the slightest bit annoyed with me, they passively accuse me of using & manipulating. I'm having a very difficult time developing my identity and progressing within an environment that continues to define me by my past. I don't mean to sound like a martyr & I understand that it takes time, habit, and consistency to rebuild the bridges & relationships I've damaged but I'm unsure if some of those relationships are even worth amending -- they're fundamentally fucked up, aside from the mistakes in my past,  and "fixing" them seems to mean sacrificing my dignity, which I've for so long been rebuilding. Unfortunately, these relationships in mention are with family members.


likes: 3
comments: 2

192,793 I just got a puppy, and it makes me happy beyond belief when he meets new people. He loves everyone he meets, and so far everyone loves him. I love seeing him bring joy to people like he does me. He’s such a happy little guy. I live alone and don’t get out much since most of my friends don’t live near me anymore, and my boyfriend doesn’t do much outside of work. I struggle with depression, and he’s brought so much happiness to me in the short time I’ve had him. Best thing I’ve done for myself in a long time was bring him home with me.


likes: 12
comments: 5
flagged

192,791 I never knock alcoholics my mom is a recovering alcoholic. She just got out of the hospital.

Her operation went well. Alcoholism is an illness.
Never knock it if you've never been in her situation.



likes: 1

192,790 My mom use to hear voices in her head.

Once they took her off her anti depressants it stopped.


likes: 1

192,789 Oh great, another anti-Trump rally on TV. This time it's called the Grammys. Tune in if you want to know what Eminem thinks is wrong with the country. Yeah yeah, I really want to know what Eminem thinks! LOL!!

Thank God for Netflix.


likes: 19
comments: 7
flagged

192,787 Don't used God to spread hatred , you give Christianity a bad name.  The only people that deserve to get judge are people who harm children , rapists and killers .


likes: 0
comments: 2

192,786 All I've ever wanted is to be loved.


likes: 2
comments: 4

192,784 I can't stand people who judge other people's moralities, I can guarantee you the guy that fired you have some dirt on him.  Those with hollier and I can do no wrong attitude tend to be the most hypocrite, I had met some of them with some skeletons on their closets yet are the first ones to point fingers at others .


likes: 1
comments: 1

192,783 I got fired from my job due to my divorce. I worked at a small firm owned by a very religious conservative owner. He called me into his office when he found out of my impending divorce and told me it had better not reflect poorly on the company.
I had cheated on my husband, it came out during the divorce proceedings. I was fired. F38


likes: 2
comments: 4
flagged

192,782 My wife rushes through blowing me.  I usually make myself cum after a couple minutes just to spare her.  Every now an then, I hold off.  Then when I know her jaw is starting to ache and I hear a little whimper, I'll cum.

I just wish she'd take her time.


likes: 1
comments: 3

192,781 I cheated on my hubby once. Glad I did it. Was never caught. But I wouldnt do it again. Once is enough.


likes: 5
comments: 4

192,780    My wife has always been sexually boring. Standard intercourse only. The times I've tried to go down on her, she pulls me away. I've tried touching her anus with my finger and she batted my hand away. Our sex is scheduled. It's once a week at 9: 00 PM. It is over by 9: 30. Then she immediately takes a shower and changes the sheets. Sometimes the day varies. Sometimes it's on Saturday night, or if we're busy, then it gets moved to Sunday night. That's the big excitement, will it be Saturday or Sunday?
   She's a good woman in many ways, but when it comes to sex, I married a dudder.


likes: 0
comments: 5

192,779 About 10 years ago after my best friend died, I started drinking heavily. It got to pointt where I would drink a bottle of wine per night but I slowly started drinking more and more as my tolerance and my weight went up. I would go into work hung over and call in sick a lot, luckily I never got fired. I was in a vicious cycle of feeling good for a few hours at night while drunk, and being horribly hung over, anxious, and depressed the next day.   Walking my dog was a chore.  I always had a propensity to like my alcohol but I was heading towards trouble. About five years ago, I started having access to cannabis. Since then, I have been able to keep my drinking at a minimum and I only get high about 3 to 4 days per week. It’s seriously curbed desire to be drunk.   I have since lost all the weight I gained, and even got back my self-esteem. I believe cannabis has saved my life.  


likes: 8
comments: 2
flagged

192,778 Sometimes I hear music playing that isn't actually there. I hear it very faintly, like someone in the next room is playing it and it's just loud enough to make out. Sometimes I can't tell if there is actual music playing or if it's just in my mind. I have figured out that if I concentrate and try to start the song over, I can. Then I know it's just in my mind. If I can't, then there really is music playing faintly somewhere nearby.


likes: 4
comments: 1

192,777 Drinking is fun, but I found the next day hangovers were so sickening and painful, that I had to stop drinking.


likes: 3
comments: 0

192,776 My husband has a buddy that he used to work with. They've kept in touch and get together every few months for a beer. The guy has been married a little less than 2 years. She moved about 10 hours away from her home and family to live here with him.  My husband went out with him last night and when he came home he told me that the guy is cheating on his wife with anything that moves. Multiple women. He also said that the guy wants us all to start hanging out together and that his wife and I should become friends. I'm guessing she's having a hard time making friends in a place where she doesn't know anybody.

I don't want to because 1) It sounds like a lot of drama, which I prefer to avoid. 2) it will be really hard for me to hang out with them knowing what's going on and that he is basically scum and 3) right now I can justify to myself that it is none of my business, but if I actually get to know this girl, I would have to tell her. Otherwise the guilt would eat me alive.


likes: 3
comments: 3
flagged

192,775 Something very strange happened to me a few months ago. I was up early, so I decided to go to the grocery store when it first opened. I prefer to shop at that time because it's almost empty and I don't like grocery shopping when it's really busy. So I went around 7ᚨam. It was still dark. There were a few other customers there.

But... there were four or five men in different parts of the store and I swear all of them had the same face. It was a slightly strange face. Remember Odo in that old Star Trek: Deep space nine series? That's what it reminded me of. Like trying really hard to look human, but not quite making it. And they all gave me a total death stare. There was even one in the parking lot when I was leaving.

I don't know what to make of it.


likes: 5
comments: 3

192,774 Howard Jones song No one is to blame is playing. Tonight was wonderful. Two of the men from my past were in my realm tonight and  I am thankful for this happening. I know now what I didn’t know then and I appreciate it and grateful for that. Today will be a whole new day that I never expected it to be. Thank you Lord.


likes: 1
comments: 0

192,773 A post down below gets into the question of what is an alcoholic? My wife drinks a bottle of wine every night. By herself. I don't drink. She gets angry if I ask her not to drink for an evening. Like really angry. I think she's an alcoholic. I think she can't go a day without it. I think it changes her mood. I think it's like a demon in her head which lashes out if someone tries to interfere with the fueling process. All together, I say alcoholic. She says no, she's just a social drinker. But how can she be a social drinker if she's always drinking alone? Curious what people think. Is she an alcoholic?


likes: 0
comments: 11
flagged

192,772 I'm not a crazy person. At least I think I'm not. Strange thing in my brain though. I'll be doing something, like driving to work, and I can hear snippets of dialogue in my head. It's not menacing. It's not telling me to shoot people. But there are random outtakes of dialogue that come to the forefront of my consciousness.

"You want cheese on that?"

"The nightingales were singing."

"First you melt the marshmallow and then smear it like so."

Things like that. It puts me in mind of the Professor in X-Men who can use "cerebro" to listen in on other people's conversations elsewhere in the world. Is that what I'm doing?

I considered the possibility that these are pieces of conversation I had in the past and they are just bubbling up again. But no, it's not my voice. Sometimes the words are said in a Brooklyn accent, or German, or whatever. So they can't be my words. And some of the situations are nothing that I'd be involved with. For example, two solders talking about taking out a sniper in a tree. I've never been in that situation.

Of course, it could be as simple as my brain just making up part of a story. Could be. But weird that it makes up just a sentence of two before moving on to make up another totally different scenario. And weird that it makes up anything at all. And weird that it's doing this constantly, all day long. I imagine others don't have this issue.

Anyways, I'm kind of used to it now. But I'm still not sure what to make of it.


likes: 0
comments: 6

192,771 God designed people. One thing he included - girls get their periods starting at 12 years old. This means, in God's eyes, girls should be having sex and getting knocked up at 12 years old.

That's sick. God should be arrested.


likes: 2
comments: 11
flagged

192,770 Men and women are different.

My idea of the perfect evening is opening a bottle of wine, lighting a fire in the fireplace, and watching a romantic Jeremy Irons movie.

My husband's idea of the perfect evening is sticking his dick in my ass.


likes: 9
comments: 8

192,769 She probably wouldn’t be able to handle how big I am anyway.


likes: 2
comments: 3

192,768 My wife is a psychologist in a mental hospital and I'm a researcher.  She knows the parameters for psychosis and other forms of mental illness.  I am very well acquainted with numbers, statistical probabilities and analysis, and discovering and analyzing trends.  Between us, we know what is and is not crazy, and what is and is not likely to happen.

This sounds crazy, but... I may as well say it.  Because we can't deny this anymore.

Shit is moving around our house.  It's focused around our 1-year old daughter.  Toys, medicine, sippy cups go missing, we'll search for them, and then we'll find them exactly where we had been looking.  We hear loud crashes in her room that sound like 50-pound weights being dropped on her floor, but it never wakes her up.  We've heard knocking on the windows with distinctive patterns.  We went into her room once to find her books stacked on top of each other in the middle of the floor.  About every two months, something like this happens.

Nothing happens around our older son.  He's three years old and was completely accounted for during these instances.  It's not psychosis, because as my wife says psychosis doesn't just go away, and if we were psychotic neither of us would have our act together enough to hold down the jobs we do.  The fact it's only happening around one child means it's statistically improbably that it's my wife and I simply being flighty stressed out parents.

This shit is weird.  I've heard of it happening, but it had to happen to us to believe it.


likes: 7
comments: 12
flagged

192,767 Everything is soft and gossamer when I am drunk. Feelings fade into pastel sunsets and nothing really seeps into my bones how it should. I am a 21 year old female. I have a family history of alcoholism but can secretly confirm why this may be the case. I do not consider myself on alcoholic by any means, but by God am I terrified it will happen.

I forget about my problems when I'm drunk. I don't overthink. I don't over-analyze. I don't hurt. Oh God I don't hurt.



likes: 2
comments: 3
flagged

192,766 At my job, the bathrooms in the front of the building are shut down for repair.  The bathrooms in the middle of the building are shut down for repair.  The bathrooms in the back are open.  Somebody filled the only toilet with so much toilet paper that it clogged.  Then somebody took a shit on top of it.  My workplace sucks.


likes: 2
comments: 1
flagged

192,765 There's a man I bump into sometimes at school functions. He has kids in the school, I have kids in the school. I'm always happy to see him. We exchange pleasant words. My kids and my husband are often with me. What my family doesn't know is that the man and I had a steamy affair a few years ago. Oo la la it was wonderful. It lifted my spirits and made me feel good about myself. Ultimately we ended it on very good terms, but ended it none the less because it would be complicated if any of our families found out. I saw him today. I have to admit I still get a little tingle when seeing him.


likes: 2
comments: 0

192,764 People should mind their business while cheating it's wrong think about what will happen if he found out . It can literally destroy a persons life not just her but innocent people like her kids in the process, what about if the guy it's the possessive and jealous type and ends up killing her and the kids for it ?  Even if they just divorced it can cause emotional damage to the kids .  It's different if a child life it's in danger or if they are getting abused then it's ok to get involved in other people's life otherwise just stay out of it . It doesn't affect your life on any way , don't worry about others unless someone it's getting physically hurt stay out of it.


likes: 1
comments: 3

192,763 When I'm old and bitter and grey, I'll look back and remember today as the day I just stopped fucking caring. Thanks for that. I guess.


likes: 1
comments: 0

192,762 Yikes, I was watching some amateur porn today and I saw someones wife I know. The guy she was doing wasn't her husband. Do I tell him?


likes: 2
comments: 7
flagged

192,761 I had an entire box of donuts for lunch. And a quart of milk. Milk's good for you right? So overall it wasn't too unhealthy.


likes: 2
comments: 4

192,760 If NASA was ever looking for a volunteer to go on a one way journey, propelling a spaceship and occupant to the furthest edge of the galaxy, I'd volunteer. I'd be excited to go. I wouldn't care that I'd never see people or earth again.


likes: 1
comments: 1
flagged

192,759 I think one of the greatest marketing ploys of all time was LuluLemon announcing a product recall because their tights were too sheer. After that, so many of my friends went out and bought LuluLemon tights! LOL.


likes: 1
comments: 1

192,758 I have a great job work full-time and make a very very comfortable living. I even volunteer one day per week and do meals on wheels. For some reason I just don’t feel like a productive member of society. I feel like if I died  it wouldn’t really matter. There’s always this thing I have where I always feel like wherever I’m at I’m always on the outside looking in. I wish I could be significant.


likes: 1
comments: 1

192,757 I have a life long friend who is currently cheating on her husband. She confides in me about it all the time. The thing is, her husband is a really nice person, and I feel like she’s doing it because she’s really insecure with herself. We were roommates in college and she seldom got any male attention In school or much as an adult. She’s one of those people that adapts her personality to whatever audience she think she has. I listen to her, but I secretly judge her for it and I feel bad because I don’t like to be a judgemental person.  


likes: 1
comments: 0

192,756 I read the average person speaks about 15,000 words per day. Me, there are days, multiple days in a row, when I say zero words. Not a sound comes out of my mouth. I live alone. I have no friends. I don't work. I'm not even aware I've been silent. Then I'll be watching a movie or something and the pretty girl decides to go into the basement when she knows a serial killer is on the loose and I'll blurt out at the TV, "No! Don't go in the basement!" And I'll hear the words and I'll startle myself and realize I spoke out loud and it's the first time in days that I've said anything.


likes: 3
comments: 6

192,755 I get people have fetishes and kinky sides to them but I have a hard time understanding women who like to be spanked, whipped and caned....


likes: 2
comments: 4

192,754 Boyfriend and i are both under the weather. I’m suffering from a bad arthritis flare-up that’s been debilitating, and he’s sick because he doesn’t drink enough water. It’s hard for me to feel as sorry for him as he wants me to. The pain I’m in is overwhelming, but I’m trying to just sleep it off, and I’m definitely not crying about it all day to him. I’m still showing what sympathy I’m able to muster, and I feel bad that I’m so annoyed, but damn! Maybe, just maybe, if you drink some water you’d feel better...just a thought. Ridiculous.


likes: 0
comments: 1

192,753 I'm sorry about your situation, people don't understand how hard it's to get legal status in these country . I laugh when people always says such and such have so many years to get citizenship and didn't do it .  Curtsy of all no one can just be granted citizenship first of all you need to obtain permanent residency aka a green card in order to get a green card you need a sponsor like a employee or a family member (only a parent , son , daughter can claim you) if its a parent you need to under the age of 21 if a son/ daughter wants to claim you they need to be legally adults and US citizen preferably, with a green card it's possible but the process it's longer ( years) , the fastest way is to marry a USA citizen they get first priority and first on line .  There are many visas out there that can grant you temporary stay like student visas, work permits even some refugees but they need to be renew and doesn't guarantee you anything.  Also if you came from certain countries the wait line its forever ( Mexico, Philippines, China) .  It took my aunt 15 years to get legal status for her two minor kids , she is green card holder with no criminal record and doesn't own any money to the IRS , I have another family member that took him 25 years to get a green card due to a mistake his first lawyer did on his paperwork .   If I were you  I would try to get a new lawayer and ask to go in front of a judge since you been here so long and been a productive member of society even if they give you a temporary permit it's better than nothing.


likes: 1
comments: 2

192,752 This is it. After 12 years in this country, we are leaving. Let me tell you something when we were under student visa we tried everything to change our status and then we had our first born. We were still under student visa. No way for us to change our status nothing. We got pregnant with our second born, and our visas were running out. We decided to overstayed our visa and see if we would be able to change our status later. We know people who after being here illegally for 10 years were able to get a green card.
We entered into the world of illegals and no way out just trying to wait out the 10 years. With Trump as a president and rent prices going up (1 bedroom apartment for almost $3,000 it is crazy), we were stuck. Our landlord decided to put the building for sale and that was it. We were done and made our decision.
During those 12 years my husband has been working in a company paid by checks. We paid taxes, paid into all the ungrateful fuckers benefit and retirement without seeing any of it. No as illegal and even with visa you do not touch welfare. Now we are leaving and I am happy and relieved. However sometimes I wished I could stay. I have been here so long, and I feel more american than french. Oh well that is too bad.
We were not criminal, we are educated (I have a master and hubby a bachelor), we speak english and are well integrated in our community and the school system. We are truly part of this country.
Most people do not know that we are illegal and think that we are leaving because our building is being sold.
Au revoir



likes: 3
comments: 16

192,751 She wanted me to take her away. She begged me to take her to the lake county. I considered it. Was it the right thing to do?

Years later, she concocted this story that it was I who wanted to steal her away. How did it go from her begging to be entreated to me imposing myself on her?

I hate that I'm caught up in this drama. Sometimes the only thing that makes me feel better about it is imaging the trip we never took. Imagine it the way that she does. Why do motives have to matter? But they do. People slandering to make a point. I just want to love and be loved. I hate this bullshit drama.


likes: 3
comments: 0

192,750 I wish scientists would come out with a way humans would be able to breathe underwater without bulky equipment, forget about living on Mars or another planet . It would be awesome to live on the ocean , cities under water and imagine all those species that haven't been uncovered yet because they live to deep underwater.

F38


likes: 2
comments: 2
flagged

192,749 I've been a little antisocial lately.  At the end of the day people are inherently boring.  They get up, go work a job they probably hate, maybe go to the gym, then get home and watch netflix until they get up and do it all over again.  They identify themselves over completely meaningless things like what brand of phone they own or what kind of sneakers they want to buy.  On the rare occasion they do something interesting and throw a party, all people want to talk about is the stuff I just listed.  I guess at the end of the day, the main reason I haven't been much interested in dating is because no one has intrigued me even the slightest.  I'll joke around and flirt, take men home, all smiling.  The next day I realize I couldn't care less if we are ever in contact again, What's the difference? I'll meet another guy exactly like him next week if I want.  Maybe he will like a different sports team, but at the end of the day he will be the same.

I wish it were more normal to go up to someone at a party and ask them about their relationship with their parents, or what was the happiest moment of their life, or what makes them tick.  I wish the go to topics of day-to-day conversation were more interesting and revealed more deeper truths about people.  I wish more people quoted books at me more often.  I LOVE hearing someone quote a book and being so intrigued by that one line I am absolutely COMPELLED to buy the book asap.  

The last guy I fell in love with was so interesting to me.  I could listen to him talk for hours.(This is a feat in itself, I'm a huge talker)   When we texted, we would send these looooong stories that wouldn't even fit on the screen.  He was surprising and interesting and a bold firey color in a sea of grey.  I want to meet more people like this.  I want a lover like this.  I want to BE more like this.

Maybe I'm just bored with myself and letting it bleed into how I see the world.  Maybe I just need to read more, and hang out with more artists.   I'll try that and see if that changes anything.

Signed,
The next girl who takes you home from the bar probably.
F/28

PS- Ask me about the trinkets on my bookshelf some time.


likes: 29
comments: 7

192,748 Narcissistic people have to be experienced in order to be believed.  You'll never understand what these people are truly like unless you find yourself in a position where they have authority over you, like in the workplace.  It's unbelievable what they'll do to try to destroy you.  They're in such a bubble that they'll even sabotage themselves if it makes them believe they'll make you look bad.  They'll be your best friend for the first few months, and then they'll begin to turn on you.  If you hold your ground, they become vicious and personally insulting.  You won't believe that this is a grown adult doing this to you.  And you can't tell who they are until their real side starts to come out.


likes: 4
comments: 2
flagged

192,747 All of a sudden my 56 year old wife likes me to play with her ass. Not a little bit, quite a bit. Not me asking, she is asking. At first is was playing in her ass with my fingers. Then after a while she says "If you want you can fuck me there". Then a few weeks later it wasn't asking it was "Fuck me there"  I can tell she is into this as she moves her ass back and forth, squeezes, has this dreamy look, moans.

She says be happy with a wife willing to try new things. As for me, I am just wondering where all of this is coming from.


likes: 4
comments: 13

192,746 Your boyfriend will never know. Let’s fuck...


likes: 6
comments: 1
flagged

192,744 Women should never mention their monthly biological issues to men. Unless it's on a need to know basis. Meaning if you are about to have sex with the man, then yes, tell him. But your biology should never be mentioned in casual conversation.

If you break this rule, I will stay away from you. I will avoid hanging out with you.  I can't risk ever being in the same room with you again for fear you might bring it up in conversation.

Just shut up about it.


likes: 2
comments: 16
flagged

192,742 Something tells me I'd be more comfortable in outer space then under the ocean.


likes: 1
comments: 1

192,741 Alcoholism can cause cancer. But so can smoking.
My cousin was diagnosed with ovarian cancer at such a young age. Later it actually traveled quickly to her lower back and eventually her lungs.

She died in her thirties.


likes: 0
comments: 1
flagged

192,740 I feel like I want to be drunk all the time. The reason I don’t drink is because I get a severe itchiness and terrible acid reflux. Otherwise i’d be an alcoholic.


likes: 1
comments: 0

192,738 @735 I just seen this documentary not to long ago with my mom. We both cried. The whole time they thought the daughter should have been to blame for her mother's death.

The twist and plot to this story on how the daughter got away with the murder and was left an inheritance. Later made us happy. I think they thought the daughter had mental or psychological issue's. Wasn't the case at all.

Until they find out at the end she had been abused the whole time.
Me and my mom watched it on cable not to long ago again.

Such a sad movie.


likes: 0
comments: 0

192,737 I cannot stand the sound of children.   I have never really been comfortable around small children. I think babies are cute, though not when they’re screaming and crying.


likes: 3
comments: 2

192,736 Lately, when my best friends wife gives her goodbye hugs, she drags her hand across my ass. First time I thought it was an accident, but after the last three or four times I’m left wondering what the heck?
I don’t mind it but I know I’ll never acknowledge it. It would ruin my marriage, his marriage and our friendship. She’s pretty hot for a 50 yr old, great shape, and pretty. so I’ll just think about her while i screw my wife.

M 54


likes: 6
comments: 4
flagged

192,735 My parents expect me and others to be perfect. My mother reminds me so much of Gypsy Rose.

I read and watched everything about this woman. She is the one who has ruined me my life and gave me a deadly complex.

I'm dealing with illnesses just like Dee Dee Blanchard.
My mother has been evil and manipulating me since a child. I can now see through her evil intentions after learning about this story.

I think she secretly never wants me to leave her sight just like Gypsy was with her daughter. I'm distructive because of her and screwing up my life because of her.

I secretly think my mother has a mental illness.
Instead of using illnesses against her daughter.
She does it with money, hovers life insurances and butters me with things and money.

I think the only way to rid of her would be if I do what
Blanchard did to Gypsy. I seen all those same signs in our mother and daughter relationship.

I watched the full movie Mommy Dead And Dearest. Read the book and watched it on YouTube.
First time I've realized what I really have and my diagnoses.

I started crying and now realized that I've been feeling sorry for myself all these years but really I have been a victim of her abuse.


likes: 1
comments: 0

192,734 I'm perfect my children are perfect. Nobody else is.
So not until you get on my level and are perfect like me. Then you'll be accepted.

Said The Narcissists


likes: 1
comments: 0

192,733 One of my cousin's always wished bad on others.
It's  completely out of line. Shows us how much hate she's filled with.

Her narcissism will never let her see this in herself.
If ever  we called her the hater.  It would be nearly impossible.

Dealing with narcotic narcissistic people. Is a waste of time. They will never change or can see that they are ever the problem.


Family say she's always getting into car accidents. She keeps that up. I think the next one she might not make it out of this one alive.

The last one she had she broke her leg. She ended up in the hospital severally beaten up. I do believe that Karma does have a strange way of hunting you down.

On the other hand watching her sulk in misery is enough.

Lisa


likes: 1
comments: 0

192,731 My boyfriend thinks I'm lazy because I sleep a lot when he's around. I do this so he can watch the kids and I won't have to. He's getting tired of having to reassure me that he's not cheating.

"The Ex"




likes: 1

192,730 My boyfriend's baby's momma was depressed. She dealt with narcissistic bipolar disorders. She was mean, selfish and whinny about everyone and everything.

One day she got in a car accident. She gets in them often he's told me. I think it has to do with her alcoholic drug addiction abuse that led to this.

A few years back they called us telling us she passed away. I thought she finally did it. She finally took her life. But to our amazement she had died in a car accident instead.

We wonder if she purposely drove off to her dismay on purpose.

Gathering at the hospital with my boyfriend Nick and family and cousins. We noticed that nobody was crying for her.

My boyfriend walked into a grievance room with both his mother's and said
Honestly I'm glad she's gone.

His family said. You can now have your life back and be happy. I had wondered why they had all made these comments.

Nick then says look at all the hurtful shit she's said and done to others. This is why she was so lonely and everyone had given up on her.

Nobody seemed like they had missed her.
Her children were now going to be raised by my boyfriend and his family now.

R.I.P. Skooter






likes: 0

192,729 My husband is out of town hunting. I'm fine with that. A lot of wives I know pitch a fit when their men want to go hunt, fish, golf, or whatever their hobbies are. Not me. Him being gone for a few days is freeing to me in many ways. The dog and I get the whole California King to ourselves, I have one less breakfast to cook, one less lunch to pack, etc. I do miss him eventually, and am ready for him to be home, but, some absence is good. Wake up women! Forbidding your man from partaking in hobbies makes him resent you.


likes: 5
comments: 1

192,727 Sometimes I get this hopeful flutter, some indistinguishable feeling that I'm supposed to be somewhere else.


likes: 2

192,726 My 401k is up 44 percent thanks to Trump's policy changes. I never thought I could retire, well that's all changed now. Thank God Hillary was not elected. He may be a buffoon but damn I like what my investments are doing!


likes: 17
comments: 4
flagged

192,725 I feel incredibly guilty that my 12  year old daughter is home alone until 8pm tonight when I can get home from work. Her daddy is HUNTING, her big brother has an obligation with one of his college classes, and I'm working. I feel terrible that shes there alone


likes: 0
comments: 6
flagged

192,724 I have been always been a Democrat.  I even voted for Clinton.  Since the election, I now hate what they have become.  


likes: 5
comments: 11
flagged

192,723 I hate when certain people talk crap about once you have kids you cant get divorce because the kids will grow up to be in jail or not in a stable home. So you are telling me that every human being has to be perfect and get married one time only so the kids grow up in a functional home. Well sorry susan im not perfect and my kids are just fine! Oh and news flash most marriages that last go thru cheating some even thru domestic violence but im sorry i decided to divorce move on and had another kid


likes: 0
comments: 0

192,722 I have a friend who is so fucking weird. She posts on facebook that she has an 2014 instruction manual for filing the 1040 tax form. She doesn't want to throw it out. She's asking if anyone wants it.

Oh yes. So many people want a 4 year old instruction manual that is also available online...

I think what's really happening is she's desperate for attention. She makes these dumb types of  posts hoping someone will talk to her. Or maybe even get together with her.

Oh Lord. It's time for me to de-friend this person. Social media makes me sad.


likes: 1
comments: 5
flagged

192,721 10 years ago I caught my wife cheating on me with a  black woman, I filed for divorce and used her behavior against her to gain primary custody....huge mistake.  Of course the details leaked out after our divorced was finalized, we had agreed to keep the details quiet as to not upset my 15 and 16 yr old kids but as someone else on here said, people love to get the juicy details and its all public record.
My two kids not only had to deal with their mom being a lesbian (10 yrs ago it was quite as accepted as its is now) and that she was with a person  of color.  We lived in white bread america and the population was 99% white.....the abuse and harassment they went thru on a daily basis was horrible.  It got so bad I had to sit down with the school administration and ask for help.Basically they told me my kids had to toughen up as most of the abuse was coming on the sly and thru social media...really not much they could do as they could only respond if they saw it occurring.
The principal did make the comment that if I felt the need to air my families dirty laundry in public that it really shouldn't be a surprise that my kids were getting teased about it.  After all most kids in HS feel pressure to conform to the social norm and any kid that goes outside that norm is going to hear about it in one shape or form.  We ended up in a yelling match, I complained to the school board but that seemed to make things worse for my kids as the school seemed less willing to help.
After two months on subtle and not very subtle harassment I pulled my kids from the school.  We homed school til I could sell the house and move as far away as my divorce decree allowed me to do so.
Today the kids have zero relationship with their mother and her wife (I went to their ceremony and it was simply beautiful) and a very strained relationship with me as they blame me for ruining their HS years and making them move by airing out in court what my wife was doing.  
If i had to do it over again I would take the high road to protect my kids, I should have realized how it would have impacted them but all I was thinking about was myself.....
I also am never ever getting married again, fool me once.......



likes: 7
comments: 1

192,720 Maybe when I lose enough weight I can deserve to have value. Until then I have none.


likes: 2
comments: 3

192,719 I'm an older adult who pervs on younger males.
I live in a nice community. Have a boyfriend and children.
Everybody knows this about me. Except my household.


likes: 0
comments: 1

192,718 Wow.  Turns out even my FRIENDS didn't really like me that much. :-|


likes: 2
flagged

192,717 Dear Jimmie Johns,
I did not order an “open”face” sub. Why the fuck do you serve me a sub that is not properly closed up. I love your subs but I have to cram everything in after you are done making it. Hint: the meat and fixins go INBETWEEN the bread!! Not hanging out on the outside. Fix the sub right or I stop eating at your establishment.
Good Day


likes: 3
comments: 2

192,716 My ex is the biggest narcassistic sociopath, abuser and just a horrible human being, that being said I'm the best man at his dads wedding in April. He's not invited.


likes: 0
comments: 2

192,715 The Guggenheim Museum  insulted our president. As is the tradition, the Museum places a piece of art in the White House to suit the taste of the first family. Trump asked for a Van Gogh. The Museum offered a golden toilet. How rude. How political.

I hope Trump cuts all the funding for the arts in the entire country. Artists are a bunch of lazy ass douche bag fakers. They can't hold a real job so they claim they are artists. What bullshit.

Now they dare to insult our president!

Cut the funding. Let them get jobs at Walmart.


likes: 5
comments: 14
flagged

192,714 Secret from 695...im in a fucked up marriage...ive tried evrything to make it work! Ive tried to explain the problem to him a thousand diffrent ways. He has a kid fron a previous marriage and i have two from a different marriage. The problem is we have two daughters together and he seems to have preference with his kid. And not only that he lets him do w.e he wants gets w.e he wants heck he still tries to sleep with him in our bedroom and take showers together. I mean everything is daddy daddy daddy. And the disrespect is out of control the kid dont even respect me. So now im furious because i feel like he is just forgets about our daughters when hes kid is around. Plus he has the never to tell me why im always carrying the baby when she is only 4 months. His kid is 8 so i think to myself you have the nerve to ask me this with our 4 month old but you baby your 8 year old ..seriously ! And now with my two oldest they are acting out they been ask where are they getting this type of behavior and they say from his kid that he does this stuff and he is allow to so why cant he. I mean theres no discipline and no boundaries. The kid wont even flush the toilet when i say he is lazy he is super lazy even to get hin to brush his teeth is a fight in the morning he disrespect my husband and of course he lets him! One thing i cant stand its a disrespectful child and for a parent to allow it. I believe he has guilty father syndrome.  And ive veen dealing with this for years now i thought maybe when i meet him things will get better you know since the kid was smaller but no it just got worse . Now he gets all defensive when i try talking to him about it he says comments like oh you dont like him or you want me to pick between you and him ... i just want him to set some boundaries and for him to respect thats all. Super embarrassed when i got a phone call from scholl saying my son wanted to kill himself his 8 also . So they star t d asking some questions and it all came down to well my moms stepson says it and he doesnt get in trouble whem his mad etc etc sl of course they start asking who is this kid. My point now is i want to leave but at the moment i have nothing! No family around to help evreybody is in a different state. So no support. I just cant take it anymore i feel like im going crazy. And lets not talk about the timeshe has gotten aggressive because he wants to defend his kid. Im so tired! Tired tired tired!!!!!


likes: 1
comments: 7

192,713 Ever since I turned off my social media a couple months ago, there have been rumors of my death. That's pathetic.


likes: 4
comments: 1

192,712 I have an aquaintence that is like 4 months knocked up. OK. Whatever. My issue with this is, she will not SHUT UP about it. At work, every conversation we are having has to turn into something about her being knocked up. Every picture she posts on social media has to contain a caption about it. She even somehow turned the fact that her shit was a weird color having something to do with pregnancy. News flash! You ate something with blue food coloring. Your shit is green because of that.

Jesus woman, you aren't the first female to ever have unprotected sex and get pregnant.  You also wont be the last. You're quickly becoming impossible to want to be around. We understand you're excited, but GOD ALMIGHTY can we talk about something else now and then????


likes: 2
comments: 7

192,711 I am managing to hide it from them, but I am dialing it in with my parents. I feel nothing but pity for them, and angst around them. Sean Hannity owns my father and my mother is barely there.


likes: 0
comments: 0

192,710 I dont enjoy sex anymore 😦 im just so depressed and dont want to live anymore. It doesnt help that my husband is angry that ee arent having as much sex anymore..


likes: 1
comments: 4
flagged

192,709 My life is much better now since the toxic people who once inhabited it are no longer present.  

Good riddance you pieces of shit.


likes: 8
comments: 1

192,708 Best sex I ever had was jerking off in front of a woman. We were on a cruise ship. I was 18 and there with my parents. This 50 something year old widow who was assigned to our dinner table took a liking to me. She asked if I would be her partner at a ballroom dance competition later in the week. If you've ever been on a cruise, this is the stuff they do. I didn't know anything about ballroom dancing. She said she would teach me. My mom accepted on my behalf. Gee thanks mom. Anyhow, the woman and I got together for an hour each day to practice. We did the competition and placed third. Which sounds impressive except we were on a cruise ship with geriatric patients. Later that evening the woman asked me to come back to her cabin so she could show me something. Once there, she said she wanted to have sex with me but couldn't because her husband hadn't been dead long enough. She then asked if I would jerk off for her. She got naked. I got naked. She rubbed one out. I jerked off. I came on her 50 something year old titties. It was exceptional.


likes: 19
comments: 4
flagged

192,707 My boyfriend and I have been living together/"dating" for the past 8 years. I moved with him when I was 19 at his parent's house, then moved into our own place on the beach. We've been through so much. Incurable diseases, alcoholism, etc.

God, I hope he proposes to me when we graduate school or when he or I get new jobs through the school program. Everyone else has gotten engaged/married. I know it's wrong to compare, even idiotic and has no bearing... plus some of those people are already having marriage issues because they didn't live together before they married, or only dated for 3 years.

But, yeah. Please marry me when we're done with school.


likes: 0
comments: 1
flagged

192,705 When my daughter was in high school there was one boy she hated. He was a jerk. He said dumb awkward things. He wouldn't look her in the eye when he spoke. On the bus ride home she'd notice him looking her way. What a creep, she'd tell me, what a creep!

Here we are 8 years later and my daughter just announced that the boy, now also 8 years older, got down on a knee and proposed.

She joyfully accepted after dating him for the last three years.

My how things change.  :)


likes: 9
comments: 2

192,704 If you are still grossed out by periods, you need to grow the fuck up! That should be the least of your concerns. The shit that comes out of people's mouths is far more disconcerting.


likes: 10
comments: 3

192,703 Who takes a selfie at a wake and posts it to Facebook? You're fucking sick.


likes: 3
comments: 2
flagged

192,702 You can spot nice cars, know the newest video games, buy expensive weed.... but you can't see how sad your woman is right in front of you, sitting on the couch next to you, laying next to you in the bed.


likes: 2
comments: 0

192,701 You know what pisses me off more and more. I live in a beautiful house. The kitchen is crazy nice with cherry woodwork. Even the fridge has a special made wood paneled door. On top of which I  have a some very nice cars. But the woodwork, the finish on the cars, it has all been damaged by my wife's wedding ring. She has a large clunky diamond. She insisted on it.  It pokes out from her hand. So when she reaches for the car door, and she's not careful, which she never is, the diamond makes contact with the paint and a scratch forms.  After a few years now, there are scratches all over the car doors and all over the kitchen woodwork. She doesn't care. But how annoying to me. Everything used to be so nice. Now everything is marred. I think there is symbolism here - a wedding ring once again does damage,  creating un-repairable scars.


likes: 1
comments: 10
flagged

192,700 My wife's spending is out of control. It makes me so sad. In the end I feel that divorcing her will be my only solution.

Example: She bought a device to stir her coffee. I'm not kidding. Why use a simple spoon when you can spend $30 on a mechanical device with a battery. Stick it in your mug, push a button, and it saves you from the exhausting manual labor of stirring the coffee yourself.



likes: 3
comments: 3




(c) 2018
home search archives help donate