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193,999 I'm turning into an asshole.


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193,998 Last year, I laid everything out there with my best friend. I told her how badly she’d hurt me. I told her how she let me down. I told her that our friendship has become one-sided. I needed her support (my life wasn’t going so great), but I also needed her to understand that what she was giving me wasn’t enough. She was being a shitty friend and it had been going on for a long time.

She texted me an apology. It was short, but she wanted to know what she needed to do to fix things.

I was curious as to how serious she was. I didn’t reply for a few days, wondering if she’d call or at least text again. And then I waited a week. And a week became a month. Next thing I knew, I’d started a new job. And my husband and I had bought a house, moved in, and started renovations.

I was going through my inbox today. It’s been over a year since I waited on that reply. Over a year of radio silence. I wish I could say I miss this friend, but... meh. Enjoy your life, bitch. You clearly don’t miss me. Why should I miss you?


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193,997 24% of Japanese men over the age of 30 are virgins.


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193,996 Turn off the internet. Look how it's has consumed us in only the last 10 years. Imagine 10 more years of this? No one will get anything done. You'll have screens implanted in your eyeballs. There will be webcams in your toilet bowl. (Oh wait, there already are webcams in toilet bowls if you look around on the internet.) It's sickening what has happened. Shut it all off.


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193,995 Seems unfair to complain about this, but I have a friend. She's a woman and in her 50s. She's never been married and in all the many years I've known her, I don't think she's had a boyfriend.  Maybe once for a little while, but I'm not sure, I think he was just a brief platonic friend. The thing about her is, she's so proper all the time. Every word out of her mouth is carefully chosen. Her hair is styled just right. Her clothes are perfectly tailored and pressed.  There's absolutely nothing wrong with her. But therein lies the problem. She's too perfect. She doesn't come across as warm and fuzzy human. I don't want to say mean things about her, but she's like a well programmed robot. And I can't tell, she either scares guys away with her completely controlled demeanor,  or she turns guys away because they don't tie their shoe laces just right. It's a very odd existence.  I can't imagine she's happy, not really. I'd love to force feed her alcohol and make her dance in the rain in her bare feet. She needs to break from her mold. Life is almost over and it has passed her by. So sad.


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193,994 In one PA school district, there are buckets in each classroom filled with rocks. The idea is sort of a last line of defense. If a gunman manages to get into the school and then into a classroom, the students can throw rocks to distract the gunman while trying to flee.

The internet is having a field day with this, totally mocking the idea.

But why mock it? If the gunman has the students cornered and starts shooting them one by one, wouldn't you very much like for the children to do something other than just stand there and get picked off? They could all throw rocks while heading for the door. The gunman will duck and cover his head. That's human nature. Some students will get to safety.

Saving some is better than saving none yes?

But no, the arrogant know-it-alls on the internet are crushing the idea.  People are so stupid. Doing something is better than doing nothing.


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193,993 I have no family.. I hope to one day meet a really great guy with a big family that I can be apart of. :(


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193,992 I don't understand why some people are outrage and upset over Facebook or Movie Pass . I mean how you think these companies make their money? There's no such thing as free , everything has a price and even before Facebook come along other companies are doing the same thing including your local grocery store . They offer those reward programs by signing up so you can "save" money and get exclusive coupons and offers. It's just a way to track your spending habits , and sell the information to other companies they know how often and what products you buy, how often and how much you spend. If you are the paranoid or naive don't sign to any rewards programs, don't use social meadows ( better yet quit using the internet) get rid of your smart phone and get a flip phone so companies won't track you and sell your information.


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193,991 Pussy hats were strange. But this latest idea - evil eye gloves - are even stranger. The idea is that we are watching you Congress. Except if we are watching with our evil eye, then doesn't that make us the evil ones?


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193,990 I hate mood swings before my period. I have a goddamn essay that I have to finish and I have no mood at all...... thank god I am a planner and I have some days left before my deadline. But I just want to finish and enjoy my weekend already. thank god I'm almost done with my Masters, I hate doing research and I want to start workinggg, actually doing something that I am really interested in and building up my career. First, just let me finish my essay before I start daydreaming again haha


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193,989 Some of the worst people I know do volunteer work at charity events. I think this is by design. They know they are assholes. So they make a point to help a charity so they can use it as a shield.

"See. I'm not a bad person. I help out charities. Anyone who says I'm a bad person must be mistaken."

I see right through you. Not only are you an asshole. You are a manipulative asshole who thinks the rest of us are dumb.


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193,988 The most valuable education I received, by far, was sitting with my grandfather reading the back page of the newspaper looking at the stock tables. Mostly the high and low tables.  2-3 times a week I  would walk over to his house and we would discuss the general news, the financial news, politics and how all of that would effect the price of stocks.    Through him I was aware of all those interconnections way way early in life.

I can still hear him to this day. Buy low when a stock is down,  view disasters at companies as a buying opportunity,  a loss over there for someone is a gain here for someone else, don't follow the crowd, always have money to invest, think long term, remember the tulip bubble,  broker fees will kill you if you trade too much, and most of all keep emotion out of it and view all things objectively.

Good lessons for life in general and the markets. Started small but now it is large amount of money i would have never dreamed of back then.


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193,987 The government imposes a massive tax on cigarettes. A pack used to cost $0.50. Now it costs $10. Why? For our own good. Cigarettes kill. They kill painfully. And what's more, Cigarettes cost all of us money. Smoking drives up the cost of everyone's health insurance.

The government tax is a good thing though. It is helping to slow down smokers. It is saving lives.

The same should happen with the internet. There should be a massive tax to be online. The government should bill us $10 for every post we make on Facebook. The internet is strangling us. It is generating hate. It is decreasing productivity.

Tax the internet like we tax cigarettes. Or don't. And we will destroy ourselves.


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193,986 With friends like this...

"I did call you back. It was a few years later, but I did call you back."


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193,985 I've been having these daydreams recently.  In these daydreams, I never got married or had kids.  I stayed single, and the world is full of choices.  I'm physically fit again because I have time to exercise everyday, like I used to.  I downsized, sold my house, and moved into the apartments near the mall.  It's where a lot of the professional younger women live.  I go out with them but never get too close.  But I know my wife and kids are my emotional rocks.  I'd be a mess without them.  The grass is always greener on the other side...



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193,984 Here's the thing, I'm sixty, so, old school.  When I grew up things were so different.  We didn't have the "rights" children have today, like the all encompassing right to privacy.  My mother and the housekeeper routinely went through my drawers and everything else, during the course of cleaning or sometimes, just snooping.  I really didn't know any different, so it didn't make any difference to me.  What mother said went, so there was very little idea ever about changing her way of doing things.  This was common among all of my friends.  It was just the way it was.

Mother worked mostly part time as a bookkeeper and accountant.  Dad was some kind of engineer and kept long hours and had lots of business trips.  They got along well and each seemed to know and fulfill his or her duties, as far as i could tell.  Dad died eight years ago, after fifty-five years of marriage.

Things were better back then.  There was none, or very little of the senseless violence that today has become our norm.  School shootings were unheard of and virtually unfathomable.  No one was that evil!

Disagree, but this is what I think changed.  First of all, mothers left the home and went to the workplace.  Children went to daycare or others to be nurtured and cared for.  Whose going to do that like mother?  Anyway, they then took prayer out of the schools; God became and has become an insult to many, if not most today.  The very idea!  And children now have an ultimate right to privacy!

I read a story a few years ago about a mother who was cleaning her eight-year-old son's room because it smelled funny.  While cleaning, she looked under the bed to find the neighbor's dead, missing daughter!  He had killed her and hid the body there.  I don't know if it's true, but I did read the story.

Today, parent's do not "invade" their children's space because they have this right they got from somewhere to privacy.  So now, an awful lot of children seem to be holed up in the privacy of their roms stocking guns, ammunition and making bombs.  They're all pissed off (probably because of the absence of genuine love and care from home) and they're disgruntled and miserable.  They turn on the TV for entertainment, where they cannot sit for five minutes without seeing a shooting, stabbing, murder or any manner of grizzly mayhem.   They have a constant, daily diet of this garbage, yet we are all told ad nauseum that this onslaught has no negative consequences.  it doesn't matter that we can practically look out our windows or certainly at the daily news and see the exact, same mayhem played out before us in our own communities.

The government says the answer is lots and lots more guns; I won't even dignify that with discussion.

So, here's the answer, according to me:  When young people commit acts of violence, the parents should be held accountable in almost all instances.  if your child blows up a school or kills his classmates, you should go to prison right beside him and for just as long.  it is the parents' responsibility to raise the children.  Parents are responsible for their children's actions!  Parents should not be able to go on TV and say that he was such a nice kid and you don't know what happened.  It is your job to know.  If you do not know, you are a failed parent, and that by your own decisions and inaction.  Parents need to be held accountable for their own responsibilities.  

I am tired of being afraid to walk (or drive) down the street.  

Why can no one see this is the problem?

Raise your kids, or go to prison!


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193,983 Some evenings I get bored. No boyfriend. There's nothing good on TV. The new American Idol is blah. There is no good food in my fridge. I don't like the book I'm reading. I mill around my apartment thinking what to do, what to do....

Then it occurs to me... I could... umm...  touch myself.

Suddenly the evening sparkles!

Tonight was one such evening.


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193,982 Some days just suck! Today is one of those days!


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193,981 My wife is oblivious to the world around her. She'll stand in the doorway between two rooms, completely blocking it so no one can get by. People patiently wait. But eventually someone will say something and ask my wife to move. My wife then gets huffy.

Another. My wife will walk our dog along the sidewalk. The dog will be on an extendable leash.  The dog will be at the curb. My wife will be closer to the buildings. This means she is blocking the entire sidewalk with the cord of the leash. People have to step over it. Some children have tripped. My wife doesn't see the problem with this.

Another.  My wife will park in a handicap spot. She pats herself on the back for parking so close to the mall. She snickers at other people when they have to park so far away.

Another. My wife will always try to cut ahead on line. She walks right up to the counter, ignoring everyone who has been waiting. I'd say half the time she gets away with it. The other half of the time someone complains to her. She says she didn't realize there was a line. Of course she realized because it what she does every time there is a line.



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193,980 I love history, love to read about it, but I have never been able to "get into" the Civil War. I don't know what it is, I've tried reading several different histories of it, but I always just get bored. For some reason, I feel guilty about this.


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193,979 What was the hardest part of growing up for me?
Realizing that the things you thought you would get away from in high school remain the same.
Someone please tell me if I’m wrong but I feel like it has only gotten worse.
I worked as a supervisor in a coffee shop for a long time and realized I wanted to do more.
I worked hard and got through school and certification, which resulted in me being hired  in an Emergency Department as a temporary job before I achieved my ultimate goal.
From this experience alone, I have learned that despite age, experience and maturity that people gossip and intentionally try to bring people down as if it were a hobby.
I hope that things change as I continue to progress, but the amount of backstabbing I’ve seen is so disheartening. The amount of negativity spewing from coworkers mouths is unfathomable. Is it my place of work or is it reality?



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193,978 There is a new movement called:

#deletefacebook

Tremendous idea. Interacting on social media is ruining lives. People can't handle it. They don't know how to play nice with others. So either we can continue down this path until everyone hates everyone. Or we could take a step back and delete our online accounts. We could go back to a better life where we speak to each other in person. We could once again be civil. We could once again be human.

Today I deleted my facebook account. I feel better already.



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193,977 Until recently, I was not a sexy woman. I am 20 years old, tall and slim. I am a white woman with somewhat "ethnic" features because I'm Italian. Last night at a bar a lot of men hit on me and I also have another guy flirting with me. What the hell? What changed? Did guys just get more mature and get into semi-hot dorky science girls? It's weird though...I never thought of myself as a sexual person or a person who could be sexually desired until recently. I don't really know what to do...I feel weird about this.

While these guys flirt with me, I get this big rush of validation (thanks Daddy issues!) but then my internal monologue says "Do they know you're secretly uncool? All the friday nights in the library and the sexual inexperience? Do they know I'm basically one of the Big Bang Theory dudes and that I talk about schoolwork and organic chemistry after a few drinks?"

I don't mean to sound like I'm bragging, but getting male attention after being completely ignored my whole life is very jarring. I don't think I like men very much.


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193,976 One of my pet peeves is when I see an article in the media or a post about such and such number of things that bother me about said movie, or the questions I have about such and such movie. I'm like bitch, did you ever sit to think, IT'S A MOVIE. And unless you're watching a documentary it doesn't have to answer ANY of your questions and so what if it bothers you that it takes place in the future and they wear tires as clothing. IT'S, A, MOVIE. Let it the fuck go. Movies are suppose to transport you to another place, let the magic of it happen and quit thinking so hard about it. Especially with Disney for hell sakes they were made for little kids who dont give a shit what time period it is and if the clothing matches that era. Let it go. Watch the movie and just enjoy it.


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193,975 I'm glad Craigslist 'Personals' are gone, even though I am in a loving relationship with a beautiful caring lady, I would look at times to see if any guy on there wanted his d*ck S*cked.
M51


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193,974 Craigslist personal ads no longer exist. Wow. The end of an era. Being honest, it seemed like mostly ads for prostitution. That's sex trafficking. That exploits women. That's bad.

What's more, new laws by Congress address the idea of decency online. We need more decency online. People are out of control with their posts. Not on here. But elsewhere on the internet. Something had to be done. Yes I'm a little uncomfortable that the government is taking charge. But people, you've brought this on yourselves by treating the internet as the new lawless wild west where you say and do whatever you want. You spoiled it for the rest of us.


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193,973 I'm in the crawl space repairing a frozen pipe. She's at the gym doing aerobics.

I'm up on a ladder replastering the ceiling because of the water damage. She's at a spin class.

I'm repainting the ceiling. She's on a bike ride with her workout group.

Tomorrow, she'll be doing laps at the gym pool while I'll be talking to a divorce lawyer.


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193,972 I cannot be the only fucking person who pushes the volume buttons on my iPhone when turning off the screen! I have googled it, spoke to others, and they don’t mention an issue. How? Why doesn’t the fingerprint scanner turn off the screen? Motorola has managed this.


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193,971 It is a great annoyance to my wife that having all the bills paid around here involves me actually living in the house.


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193,970 I have a female friend. I've known her for many years. When we are in a group setting, she's a lot of fun. But there have been times when we are alone together in a room. The vibe changes. She stands with her back to the wall. She looks nervous.She has very little to say. She looks like she can't wait to get out of the situation and back into a space with more people. It's as if she's locked in a room with a serial rapist. It really bothers me. I'm the nicest guy. We are friends otherwise. It's just when she is alone with me that she freaks out. It's so strange. Not to be a baby about it, but it hurts my feelings.


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193,969 Saw on Bing that a mega-church minister resigned.  Seems 20 years ago he rode an associate home and she gave him a BJ -- he immediately repented, apologized to her and her family left that former church, etc.  Isn't that what's required for forgiveness.  Why is that girl bringing all this up now.  Don't understand.l


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193,968 I can’t wait until the traditional, homophobic generations die out. The world will be better off without them - full of way less hate. Gen Z are much more understanding and we’ll be able to move forward with ideas and technology like they never did.


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193,967 I am sick of the politicization of EVERYTHING.  Kneelers, cut it out.  Star athletes, go to the fucking White House.  I love the NFL but found myself a bit less interested this season for this reason.

I was the chairman of my local GOP and I still had a smiling photo taken with candidate Obama.  Why not?  He's a human being.

- M 44 black


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193,966 My family and I like to play this game of sorts once in a while.  We all gather on the couch with our phones and take turns choosing a favorite music video on YouTube, which we then cast to the TV.  It's a fun way to see what everyone likes, and to discover new music.

We went to do it tonight, and we can't do it from our individual phones anymore.  One person has to sign onto the YouTube app on the TV (which isn't even a Smart TV) in order to cast.  What the heck is this?  Another way of gaining access to our stuff?  I'm pissed.


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193,965 I hate my job.  It hasn’t always been this way but for the last three years Ive worekd,for someone who has one standard for her close circle and another for those not in the circle. She lashes out at me in front of peers.  Doesn’t make time to regular 1x1s, doesn’t follow up on commitments, doesn’t live by her own stated set of,values and just basically makes it a miserable place to work. The stress is impacting my daily life, sleep etc. this is a fortune 100 company. My secret is that I’ve never told any one any of this and I plan to leave mid year to take a later in life gap,year.  I just need a break from the constant stress and aniexty


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193,964 I judge women based on their shopping. If you spend $3,000 on newborn clothing, and shoes...

You are a special kind of stupid.


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193,963 I fear I've said too much.


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193,962 Sometimes. Sometimes I forget what you felt like.


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193,961 I'm done helping people.


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193,960 $225 a night for a cabin at a lake I am not that fond of, no boat, drive to get to the water, a damn country bar near by! How is this my dream holiday? I only like a lake if there is a boat involved, I hate country music (no offense to those that do) and then there is this!  I have traveled with you before and I know how this will turn out!
I will have to put $675.00 on my credit card (3 nights) because something will come up and you won't have the money! All the people you say you know have boats at this lake will not be there or will be an hours drive by boat from where we are staying. It's a long lake with a lot of fingers! I realize you don't know this because you have no clue exactly how big the lake is! For $ 675 I can fly to an ocean and enjoy the 3 days of holiday! You don't pay for your airline ticket or parking as you say you do when you visit our friend in Cali!  I know because she called me as soon as she put you on the plane home last time! Vacationing with you is costly! You don't have the money and that's fine, but I will not pay for your "mistakes" and be in debt for nothing! Thanks, but no thanks! Think I just might steal away to what will remain an unknown city and spend it with a guy I have been seeing a little!
Ahhh...needed to get that off my chest!


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193,959 My wife hits me.


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193,958 I want to believe in some of the points the democrats make. But then they act like such dicks. So much so that I dont want anything to do with them and their ideas.


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193,957 I couldn't make this shit up if I wanted to....
My roommate agreed to be "on call" for sex for a dude that don't want to be with her in exchange for him buying her an old 10K$ car...wtf


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193,956 not sure what to make of this...

i remember watching Close Encounters of the Third Kind when i was 7 or so...it fascinated me....no not the aliens and spaceships/entities at the end...Devils Tower...i remember thinking that looks just like a stump, i wonder how big that tree was.....

40yrs later....i go on youtube journey...and i end up at a link about giant ancient tree stumps

gotta say...with an open frame of mind.  I think i saw the a glimmer of the truth that has been withheld from mankind...


oh btw...there are pyramids in Antartica arranged just like the Egyptian ones and Orion's belt...

i hated the X Files...but dammit they admitted it to us back then.....THE TRUTH IS OUT THERE


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193,955 I turned 32 last week and my life kind of went to shit


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193,954 I did a weekend long marathon of gory movies. There was way too much violence. Blood and guts everywhere. Killings everywhere. I could see how it affects the brain. It's like I'd think nothing of shooting someone in the head if they looked at me funny. I can't imagine what it does to impressionable teen minds. There should be a study of these shooting culprits and what movies and video game they have watched.


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193,953 I feel very isolated and unlovable right now.

I miss my friend.


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193,952 Are you kidding me I go get an Asian massage she does more to me in one hour than my wife has in years! I'm seriously getting a divorce lawyer tomorrow! I do not know if they do those kind of things in suburbia.  And yes I've asked my wife to do things to me. she doesn't. I pay way more supporting her then a $100 massage which was pure heaven


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193,951 Apparently this is a secret, but white guys can be terrorists! When can we finally acknowledge this. Who was surprised that the Austin bomber was a white guy?. Don't knock me, some of my best friends are white guys.


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193,950 Well how about that.

She came to America to score a find, and she found this recent divorcee that would give her all he had. Sure, she’s in her mid 30’s, and prospects are few and far.

OK fine, I’ll have that vasectomy reversed, and I’ll even work the kiddie angle with daycare while she switches careers and needs someone to change diapers. After over 10 years of pursuing career goals, she’s a busy working woman with a limited attention span for the drudgery of a homelife, while I’ve been enjoying the hell as the stay at home father for 5+ years. Heck, - let her work and bear that burden if that floats her boat.

While that vasectomy reversal solved my problem, it didn’t solve hers. So with fertility treatment and the birth of the B/G twins, it’s only a matter of time before the 2 of them realize there’s a reason they look nothing like mum. Yep, donor eggs from a gal needing money that coincidentally has the same ethnicity as this dad.

It’s not a matter of ‘if’, but rather when the twins find out through a cheap DNA test that their genealogy is ‘all wrong’. And in the end, they may understand why being a mother was just another to-do to cross off a list.

For being a stooge that did her bidding, then why am I the real winner in all of this?


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193,949 Younger girls are actually looking more appealing now, because most of them don't make sex such a big deal.  they can fuck, and not make it a big deal.  


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193,948 I was looking at the real state in California ( Los Angeles) the old neighborhood where I went to school . I just can't believe how ridiculous expensive has gotten , it was never cheap or affordable but the prices have really sky rocket the average price was 389,000 for a shitty 2 bedroom bungalow. Did I mention this neighborhood has high crime (burglary, drive shooting, assault, car jacking) and the schools are overcrowded with some unruly bad behaved kids .  I'm glad I moved out there 7 years was enough for me , the weather might not be the best but at least I live in a very nice area, affordable and don't have to worry about high crime .  Why do people want to move there ? Idk unless you make over 400,00 k a year will make sense but otherwise you'll be poor and broke all the time .


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193,947 Everything was going so well and almost perfect, then poof, gone.
What happened?
Did I do or say something to freak you out?
Are you hurt?
I wish you would just contact me and let me know what the actual fuck.
This is so not ok.

This new generational "acceptance" of ghosting is a fucking joke! It's not ok to date someone for months then just disappear without any explanation as to why.

It's making me want to give up on men. #nofaithleft


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193,946 I just need to get this *ahem* off my chest: my gawd those boobs are fucking beautiful. Big "d" cup Italiano boobs that completely pass the pencil test (no sag, completely perky) Damn it, not mine, but an absolute dream come true. It's shocking when she skips the bra. There's nothing like it. Okay, got that out there. Feeling better.


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193,945 Here is a secret, that if you grasp it, will make the whole world a better place, and rightfully so:

On Earth, there is only one race, and it it called Human.


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193,944 Webmaster: I'm able to read comments, and able to key in a comment, but then what?  I see no "Submit" button or equivalent.  My comment never gets posted.  Please advise.

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193,943 I last had sex on Thanksgiving morning. That was the last time my wife needed something from me. She wanted to go to Thanksgiving dinner at her sister's house. I wasn't a fan of the idea. But my wife suddenly acted all lovey and interested in me. We had sex. I went to her sister's house. We haven't had sex since because my wife hasn't needed anything from me since.


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193,942 I hate the smell of crayons. They should make  em smell better.


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193,941 Every morning I go to the deli for my coffee and egg sandwich. When I'm feeling like a rebel, when I'm looking for trouble and seeking out danger, I add a splash of caf into my standard self serve decaf. Oh yeah, I can be such a bad ass.


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193,940 I think the world is beginning to understand that Facebook is a terrible place to say anything. You don't know who is reading what you write. You don't know who they are sharing it with. You don't know what judgements are being made about you. But understand this, judgements are being made. Whether it's people you know snickering and privately mocking you, or its big biz developing a consumer / political profile on you, you are exposed and conclusions are being made.

If ever you are going to share your opinion about anything, anonymous forums are a much better option.


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193,939 I have this theory about time. I don't think time is discreet. I don't think there is an exact instance of time, like 11 : 00 AM. I think time is more along the lines of a bell curve.

Think of an electron. We used to think it was a discreet ball of electricity circling an atom. But we've since realized it is more of a mathematical haze, a probability distribution around the atom.  It's not located in an exact place at an exact moment. It doesn't work that way.

I think time is the same. There is no 11 : 00 AM. It is mostly at 11 : 00 AM, but it has these tails on the curve which stretch out to both negative and positive infinity. It's very slight, but it's there.  11 : 00 stretches out for all of time.

What this means is that you can sense 11 : 00 AM even when it's only, say, 10  : 59 AM. You can see it coming.  You can know what will happen. Not all the time. The probabilities don't allow for that. But if you are keenly aware and thinking, there are instances you can see what's about to come.


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193,938 Please forgive this long post, but there is no other way to adequately describe what it's like living with my wife. I've written before. But here is the latest incident.

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It's impossible to have a conversation with my wife. She says random nonsense fragments and truly believes everyone should understand.

Case in point. She comes in the door and says:

"I'm going to take you to - where's your father - it's pouring inside - don't forget your pen."

I drill down on this sentence because we've discuss her bizarre conversations before. I wanted her to see what she does and how she makes communication difficult.  First, I asked her to repeat the sentence.  

Her response, "Well on Friday - it was from - no it was from Thursday -"

"Stop stop stop. I asked you to repeat your sentence. Why are you bringing up Friday and Thursday? Just repeat your original sentence. Let's start there."

Her response, "I never said." Silence.

I have no idea what that means. I move on, "Okay, I'm going to help you. Your original sentence was - I'm going to take you to - where's your father - it's pouring inside - don't forget your pen."

I ask her if she sees how that string of words is confusing. I first bring up "it's pouring inside."

"Did you mean to say that? It's snowing outside. Is that what you meant to say?"

Her response, "Yes sometimes."

"Okay, I'm not sure why you added 'sometimes'. But anyway, it's snowing outside and you said it's pouring inside. Could you please stop and think about that. You need to put in more effort to say what  you mean. Now the next part - I'm going to take you to - "

She says, "I'm going to take you to the high school."

"Ok, first, you need to finish sentences. Second, why would you be taking me to the high school?"

Her response, "So you won't be late for class."

"Okay, I graduated high school 30 years ago. I don't take classes. So why would you say that to me."

Her response, "Because I thought you were somebody else."

"You thought I was somebody else sitting at our kitchen counter at 7 in the morning? Who did you think I was?"

Her response, "I thought you were George."

"Okay, who is George?"

Her response, "He's Anne's son."

"Okay, who is Anne?"

Her response, "She's a friend of mine from - you met her once. It was on a Tuesday - no wait, it was on a Thursday - no no no wait, it was a Tuesday."

"Okay, please stop. It doesn't matter what day I met her a year ago. But okay, I did meet her and her son. I thought her son's name is Mark."

Her response, "Yes, that's right."

"Okay, so why are you calling him George?"

Her response, "I didn't. I called him Mark."

"Okay, you are not correct but I'm going to move on. Why did you see me sitting in the kitchen and think I was Anne' son and you had to drive me to high school?"

Her response, "You are not Anne's son. Don't be silly. I though I had to drive you to high school so you wouldn't be late."

"Okay, I don't even know where to begin. But isn't her son in elementary school?"

Her response, "Whose son?"

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It's not Alzheimers. It's not dementia. It's mental laziness. She can have a rational conversation if she tries. But there are many times she doesn't try. She can't be bothered to think out what she wants to say. She puts in no effort. Random sentence fragments come out. Her brain doesn't hear that it comes across as nonsense. She knows what's she's trying to say. But it's not important to her that no one else can understand.

This is my wife. I'd say 5 times a day I'm left scratching my head trying to figure out what she means. It drags me down and zaps my energy. I have no patience left. Why should I have to work so hard to understand the simplest things she is trying to convey. I hate it.


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193,937 I told my friends not to kill themselves because I care about them and theres always hope. The next day my friend walked into traffic.

(he's alive)


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193,936 Men, watch out for Asian women! Crazy!
they all marry a guy for financial security, then go out with their friends to find side boyfriends!
I was a side guy, then she disappeared, and moved onto another side guy.


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193,935 Everyone laughs at me when I tell them but it won't change how I feel about it. I am a 22 year old girl. Almost graduated. You would describe me as a girly girl.

I imagine the future where my husband (now still boyfriend) will go away on a boys weekend or something, and I can secretly smoke a really nice cigar. I bought 11 cigars in Cuba, and I feel so powerful and confident when I smoke them. However, my boyfriend has an education in medicine so he is against it and he doesn't want me to smoke (he is not complaining about weed though haha). He said that after these 11 cigars are smoked up that he doesn't want me buying new ones. But I still get this little happy feeling inside that this will be my little secret.

I will go to the spa during the day, go to a nice restaurant with friends or family, and when I will come home, this lovely thing will be waiting for me.

You know, everyone keeps telling me how bad smoking is for you. I understand it. But what truly annoys me is that people want to have a say in this, but not in the times where I want to kill myself. Then all of a sudden everyone brushes it off, tells me to stop saying such things. Before I smoked that cigar I had such a crappy day. I cried all day long and could not get anything done for my deadlines. However, when I smoked this cigar I got such a boost, it was like something in me switched. I remember that I got so inspired that I was typing like crazy at 12 o'clock and that I went to sleep super happy.

So remember that sometimes, there are far worse things killing you from the inside then the stuff that we see. I am saving these cigars, not that I don't want them, but because I try to test my discipline.

The moral of my story, don't try to please people your whole life. No one cares after you die. But in those seconds before it all ends, I am sure that we will all see the things we wished we had done and not the mistakes that we made.




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193,934 Don’t worry. I’m the world champion at ignoring when I need to be.


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193,933 Thoughtful solution to the accidental flagging issue. Makes a great site exponentially better....Thanks Mods!!🙂


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193,932 Every time the IT guy comes to the office to fiddle with the system he gives me a sideways dirty look.  I think he knows it's me thats been surfing and downloading all that porn.  


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193,931 I think I’m OK with being single. Finally. Relationships Require so much obligation and time. More so than I am willing to put forth. I guess it’s not for me.


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193,930 I do not associate marriage with love. I associate marriage with hate.


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193,929 As a whole. the best group of people I've encountered are teachers. Sure a few can be pesky at times, but of all the professionals I know, teachers always rise to the top.


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193,928 I hate when adults use their children's facebook account to jab people. These adults don't want to use their own name when "liking" a mean spirited post, so they login with their children's account to like the post. Passive aggressive to the max.


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193,927 I am fond of children and animals. Both seem so innocent, not always, but way more pure than adult.

I’m getting pretty weird as I age. I talk to crows. I sound convincing in my “caw.”

My being single may take a permanent status. As long as I get hugs from the kids and snuggles from the random animals I watch ... I think I’ll be okay.

I think when I was a little girl I had always assumed I would be a mom some day, never really knowing how that thought made me feel.  Whereas some friends, even when we were really little, always were so resolute in being a mom some day. Even in high school would talk about the big families they were going to have. I would still have that question mark.

I’m certainly open to a family but not on my own. I’ve seen how exhausting single parenting is and how much is sacrificed.

So if the guy never comes to fruition then I’ll just continue being “weird, but nice.”  Cawing to crows and playing with pets.

Weird (different) kids and pets are somehow my favorite. Or when I breakthrough to that skeptical child or skittish animal. Earning their trust is sacred. Keeping it is gold. The ultimate measure of success.


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193,926 Our world is falling apart. Corruption, lies, shootings,political manipulations, it never stops. It's time for every reasonable person to put their foot down and demand all this crap stops.


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193,925 Who would have thought of using Facebook to data mine information for political gain ?
Oh wait...................Obama did just that in his elections. Apparently that is a big secret now the Dems just as soon you not know.


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193,924 My father committed suicide on St. Patrick's day about 18 years ago. Every year on that day he makes sure that he lets me know he is around. Background: he was a horribly abusive alcoholic and when he died I celebrated because my tormentor was finally gone. Of course though he was still my Dad so I have all these weird conflicting emotions.

On St. Patrick's Day this year I was playing an RPG (role playing game) with some friends. In the game (it was a western) I stepped around the town drunk who had collapsed in front of the saloon. This character's name, Roger, was the same name as my own Dad. Another player said, "Oh I hate Roger, he is the worst alcoholic Dad ever!" then another player said, "Yeah, Roger is such an asshole!" Then the first player said, "Weird. I don't know why I said that."

At the time, my partner put his hand on my back cause he knows everything. Afterwards I asked him, "Did you see that?!" He says, "Yeah. I caught it. It's crazy how Roger finds a way to let you know he is around."

I mean, what are the odds that on the day that my dad killed himself I would play a game wherein I encounter a drunk with the same name as my Dad who then another player randomly talks about him being a Dad in a way that did not make any sense?

Spirit communication? Time space wormhole? Am I somehow able to manipulate what people say because of what's on my mind? Mind blowing coincidence?

There are other many strange stories like this one about him. But this was the first time someone beside myself was able to witness it.




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193,923 I keep a pair of tweezers in my glove compartment in case I spot a stray chin hair. They are easier to see in the rear view mirror in the natural light than in my bathroom mirror. I just have to make sure nobody can see me before I pluck it.


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193,922 I find it really annoying when friends post articles to Facebook and they don't add any thoughts of their own. They just post the article. I think my friends are mentally lazy. I think they want to appear smart, so they post something from an intellectual magazine. But they have nothing to add because they aren't smart and don't have any thoughts.


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193,921 I know who the love of my life is, and even if we never get to hold each other or touch in that way I still feel blessed to know that love is real after all.


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193,920 I’m studying for my hospitality management degree. It’s oretty much all bullshit.

Today I had a group presentation. I didn’t give a shit about it. Class was in session for almost 30 minutes, and I was STILL in the library trying to get my part together.

It wouldn’t save at the last minute, so I just took my three small notecards in with the few notes I had taken about my particlular piece in the group project, read it last, didn’t give anyone eye contact, and once I was finished I walked to the back of the dim-lit room, tore up my notes, grabbed my bag, and walked out.

College is bullshit. I have more fun trying to figure out where my next road trip is. Money comes and goes.

Fuck it and whatever.


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193,919 To the men on this site:

Just because you have a dick does not mean a human being with a vagina is OBLIGATED to sit on it.
You wonder why girls give you the finger? Ignore your requests? Ignore your persuasive flirting?
Because all you fucking think about is getting your dick wet. NO woman wants dick 24/7, yet all you men think about it getting it on. Half of you look like decaying dragons in the face, with plastic doll hair all over your body, and somehow women are supposed to give you the gift of their baby station? Fucking creeps.

I give every man I pass a dirty look. I don’t care. It’s obvious what even 15-year-olds are thinking about.
No, I’m not having a good day. Look somewhere else, pervert.

I understand lesbians, and all the feminists dealing with sexism.
Men think women are some kind of trophy. You have us on display, and take us down once in a while to “bask” in your own pleasure.

Gtfoh.
I will never have kids. I’ll never give a man that much control over my body.


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193,918 I am personally against the student walkouts but for the following reason.

Did you know the 3-14 walkout was organized and funded by the same left-wing groups behind the Women’s March, including Planned Parenthood and George Soros' MoveOn.org.  Looks like Astroturf to me.

A legit student protest, I would at least sympathize with.  The shameless manipulation of real tragedy is pathetic.

- M 44 teacher


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193,917 My coworkers and I were having a conversation about the funniest sitcoms ever and I said my favorites were, “All in the Family”, “The Golden Girls” and “Roseanne” (I’m in my early 40s and grew up watching these) the backlash, rude & disgusting comments I received were shocking re: AITF. I was accused of being a racist and “woman hater”- what!!! I am neither and I am a woman! AITF was a funny, ground breaking show that covered every untouchable (at the time) topic.  Funnily enough others said The Jefferson’s were there favorite (I loved that show too) and they were praised. Wow! Now I know why I shut my mouth about politics, religion, etc. I’m never engaging again with these people about anything. You are not even allowed an opinion or a taste that doesn’t suit the masses nowadays.


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193,916 File this under not a secret but something I can't say out loud: I am so sick of people acting like martyrs or cancer patients because they have kids. Everyone should feel sorry for them because they work so hard, harder than you'll ever know. They are so tired, more tired than you'll ever know, you have no idea because you don't have kids. Well I do know, I babysat and helped take care of my cousins and I said who in their right mind would do this to themselves? Not you guys, you had them and complain like life is so unfair because you are sacrificing your life, your body to bless the world with your kids. It's not a sacrifice if you complain about it every chance you get.  But god forbid you hate on the mommies and daddies.

Thanks for letting that off my chest. I can go back to telling you how adorable your kids are while rolling my eyes on the inside. We do like you and your kids, just stop complaining like your a cancer victim.


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193,915 I think bad things happen to me because I do bad things.



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193,914 Today on a NY newspaper website and also propagated to other news sources wa a video of a woman in a London train station eating a meal of raw chop meat. The videographers were aghast in disbelief and disgusted. I’m also fucking disgusted. What the fuck gives anyone the right to record a person minding their own business and not even remotely near anyone doing nothing truly dangerous or offensive and post it for the world to see and judge her. What a violation of personal rights. I think people who do that should be subject to massive civil fines as the least of their punishments.



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193,913 Last night I was sitting on the back porch relaxing and having a beer after work. A light came on from the house across the way, probably 50 yards away from me, and about two seconds later I saw a naked woman walk by. Made my day!

I wasn't peeping, I wasn't being a stalker, I was just sitting. But yeah, after that quarter second of seeing boobs, I was staring. It turns out she was bathing her baby, and I know some women like to take their shirts off so the baby doesn't get them all wet, but I'd never seen it happen.

A few minutes later her hubby came by and closed the blinds, which made me sad, because she walked by a few more times, and it was enough for me to see her shape. Thanks neighbor lady I never talk to, your little accident made me happy.


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193,912 When my boyfriend is being a jerk, I don't want to kill him. That would make me a bad person. I don't want to be a bad person. Instead I have this fantasy about wounding him a little, like cutting a tendon in his leg so he can't run. Then I'd make a lot of noise so the zombies come and bite him.


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193,911 I shave the hair around my nipples. Middle aged man problems lol


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193,910 If your last name is 23 letters long, no offense meant, but it's time for a new last name.


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193,909 Once you've had a man's cock down your throat and your tongue as far up his asshole as you can get it, you don't worry too much about a morning kiss.  Smooches, darling!  I love you!

M/60  (He's 35!)


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193,908 When I wake up in the morning, the first thing I do is kiss my husband, or he kisses me.  It never fails.  Yes, we probably have bad breath, but I do not at all mind my husband's bad breath in the morning, and he seems not to mind mine.  Believe me, over the years, we have done a lot (A LOT) of things that are far, far worse than a morning kiss :-)


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193,907 When I look for porn online I try to find videos featuring women who kinda look like someone I know.


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193,906 My first time I waned to kill myself, I was 8 years old.. I wish i did it God would have had mercy on a childs  soul..  i have suffered with depression the last 40 years.  No husband no children, no social life at all..  all i have is my job.. I live like a  Ghost..  So there really is no reason why God kept me alive all these years.. .I'm afraid to kill myself i fear hell from my Catholic backround...


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193,905 I have zero feelings for my wife.  We never fight yet only coexist as friends and roommates.  I only stay so I can be involved totally in my kids lives.  The minute the youngest is safely off at college I will walk away and leave her everything.


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193,904 I have no emotions. I feel nothing for anyone. People have said they love me, I shrug it off. At the other end of the spectrum, people have said extremely rude things about me, I also shrug it off. It's like a pebble in the yard is expressing emotion towards me. I don't really care what a pebble thinks.


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193,903 He pulls out and does it on my abs. I then try to wipe it off. But I'm worried when I take a shower how some of his microscopic goo sticking to my skin will run down my bod and make it's way into my puss anyway. It only takes one.


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193,902 I bought the wife some KY as a semi-joke. We haven't had sex in a while and I got her the KY as a wink wink. She pretended not to get the hint.

A few days later when she was out I tried to use the KY on myself. Under the plastic cap though there was an inner seal you have to peal off first. I couldn't do it. If she noticed the seal was gone, she'd know I used the KY. So I didn't use it at all.

A few weeks later I was in the same situation. I was home alone and she was out. I reasoned that she was sexually oblivious to everything. She would never notice if I removed the inner the seal on the KY. So I took out the bottle, unscrewed the plastic cap, and.......... there was no longer an inner seal there. SHE HAD TAKEN IT OFF. Which means she has used it on herself. She has no sex with me, but she takes care of herself, even using the product I gave her which was meant for US. SMH. Marriage sucks.


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193,901 The way my kooky house is arranged, the door leading to the basement is in the hallway by the glass front door. Sometimes I'm not thinking and I'll wake up and go to the basement, which is where the computer is, and I'll check what's going on in the world. Then I'll hear the doorbell ring. Typically the UPS guy delivering something.  I have to go back up to the main floor to answer, but seeing I just woke up, I'm hardly wearing clothes, usually just panties. But there is no way to come up from the basement without passing by the front door. I'm forced to make a mad dash to the bedroom for my robe and hope he is looking the other way.


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193,900 Paperwork complete, legal standing established. Those who have betrayed me and my family are going to get a good dose of their own medicine.


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