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194,399 Something I hate about my wife. She will never walk up to a family member to ask a question. Instead she screams out the question from wherever she is. She'll be in the kitchen. She'll scream to our son in his bedroom and tell him to clean his room. It's so lazy and inconsiderate. All day and evening long the rest of us are assaulted with her yelling. It's like every few minutes. I've spoken to her about it dozens of times. But she doesn't listen.


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194,398 I understand the feeling of being distracted and not paying attention while driving. I once was so distracted when getting dressed in the morning that I forgot to rinse the shampoo from my hair. I was about to go out the door when I glanced in the mirror. I had to get undressed and hop back in the shower LOL.


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194,397 I know four men in their 50s who lost their jobs solely because they were old. After a year or so of trying to find a new job, and not succeeding because of their age, all four tried to commit suicide. Two were successful. This is how our society behaves. Young people have taken over the work place. They only want to work with people their own age. The end result is that the older crowd is abandoned and tossed out like the trash. It sickens me to see what these younger people have done.


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194,396 I rarely sit on public toilet seats. I always do the hover. I never make a mess though. I always check to make sure there is no dribble on the seat after and there never is.

The trick is to do a deep squat and stick your butt back as far as you can and hold steady.


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194,395 When I was about 15, the rage among my peers was to wear an old gray overcoat, the kind men used to wear in the 1940s. I mentioned this to my mom and asked if my dad had any old coats? She said yes and pulled one out of the attic. I tried it on and it was perfect. I then reach my hand into the pocket and pulled out a small square foil wrapper. My mom quickly whisked it from my hand and took it away.  It was only later I realized it was an ancient condom package.  Still grosses me out that I wore a coat my dad used when he was out fucking my mom. Yuck.


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194,394 I live in a small town. People know your car, they know who you’re related to, they know where you’ve worked, etc.

Yesterday I was experiencing a freak out. It started with filing my taxes and then it included a guy I recently was seeing. Once I received this text about his ex combined with not finding one of my W-2s I needed to drop everything and head to the gym STAT. I usually drive a few miles per hour over the speed limit but nothing crazy.

Yesterday I had tunnel vision on the way to class, I had to work off my anxiety, I HAD to work out.

As I made a left turn to head to the gym there was a woman I know riding her bike home from work. If she were riding just a little bit faster I would have hit her.

Holy crap. My taxes. Some guy. Whatever!

Someone’s life = irreplaceable. I have apologized in person to her today and she joked around and gave me a hard time.

I’m still so shook up. I live in a tourist town, they’re arriving - this always means you leave a bit earlier. The kicker was when I arrived they had cancelled the class I was speeding to get to.

Need to practice these breathing exercises that I’m teaching others. 🤭


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194,393 My husband drinks orange soda for breakfast. He says it's like orange juice, except with bubbles.

Um, no.


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194,392 I have a male friend who prides himself on being a feminist. He took it to extremes. He worked it out with his girlfriend where he would take her birth controls pills on the 5 days they are placebos. He would also carry around tampons in his back pack. He did these things to experience what it was like to be a woman.

I say too much fella, way too much!!!!!


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194,391 I'm thinking about becoming a much better person. Forever I've walked around with a snarky judgemental attitude, making intellectual digs at anything and everything. Oh I was right all the time and I'd let people know it in a cutting and clever way. But why? In the end I alienated people. Now I'm bitter and I have to admit it, I'm lonely. All these "less than perfect" people are enjoying life so much more than "always perfect" me. I think it's time to stop being right, and start being human. I'm not sure people will have me back. But I think I'll try.


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194,390 All my family (on both sides) have huge numbers of moles on their backs. I have none. I feel inordinately lucky to have a smooth back.


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194,389 Is life one big test


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194,388 I was feeling guilty, so I was feeling suspicious and paranoid, so I checked his phone, for the first time ever. That fuckers been looking for bitches to fuck for months! I understand that pop ups happen, but if he’s getting emails and text messages, that means he’s signed up! He put his email address in that line, knowing what he was signing up for. Okay, what now? Imma ask him.


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194,387 Why is it that a huge bowel movement gives me such a feeling of accomplishment?  Damn.


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194,386 Every guy I have ever been with always loved to perform oral sex on me and I let them do it but I never really enjoy it. I prefer if he didn’t want to all the time.  I realize I am probably in the minority on this.


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194,385 Why do people buy condiments? I get free ketchup packets from McDonalds, free soy sauce from Empire Szechuan, free bbq sauces from Burger King. I also never buy straws.


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194,384 I love to lick your pussy. It's a perfect pussy, licking softy as you moan, dragging it out. Then more vigorous. Your pussy deserves to be turned on for hours. Get wet on me, drain on me.


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194,383 You proved who you are today.  I knew all along.  You are somebody who I do not want to associate with....ever.  But we have to work together.  If only we had more choices when we hired you.....


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194,382 Recently, with no other choices in my life, I decided to pray. Me, the atheist. Amazingly, things started getting better. I wasn't sure if it was the prayer? Could it be? Then the other night I decided to watch a movie. Turns out it was a movie about God. Coincidence? I don't know. But I'm at least open minded right now.


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194,380 If you meet someone who is seperating from a long term relationship or marriage and they start to pursue you - run!

They have not gone through all the stages of heartache with their ex and are most likely still in love with that person.

They will tell you it’s over, you will go on a few dates and eventually sleep together. Then they will tell you they just want things to be causal.

They’ll tell you while you’re out on a date with them how in love with their ex they are. They are physically there in person but their heart resides with another.

This is a SHIT lesson to learn.

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194,379 My wife doesn't answer her cell phone. I think that's grounds for me turning off her cell service. Why should I pay if she isn't picking up?


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194,378 Actually, I have a lot of interest in living to 80+ years old.  I've accumulated a million dollars and want enough time to spend it all before I check out.
-- M/76




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194,377 Actually, I have no interest in living to 80+ years old. I'd rather live as I like and kick out a little earlier. I don't see anything positive about being elderly.


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194,376 Alcohol messed my up mental and physical health..  I’m glad I finally stopped drinking before it was too late. I carry so much regret and guilt.


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194,375 Wow, I was out with my boys last night and met this really nice woman. I recall the conversation was really good and she was very pretty. I wish I could remember more. I hope I didn't come off as fat, drunk and stupid like I usually do.


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194,374 I stopped at a McDonalds to use the washroom and didn’t buy anything. I would have bought something, because it’s the right thing to do, but the line up was really long.


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194,373 The warm weather does something to my body chemistry. Every spring, on the first couple of warm days, I get this rush of happiness, as if I'm in love with someone. But there's nobody I love like that, and there hasn't been for awhile, and when i remember that I feel terribly lonely

I wish i had more friends that enjoyed art. I really love art museums, and whenever I suggest going I get the pause of "that's lame but we don't want to hurt your feelings."

If it's that lame to enjoy artistic relics from the past and present, and to discuss how the little intricacies are indicative of the time period and culture they were created in, then I'm a bonafide LOSER.

*sigh* I wish I could explore my stranger interests with people who actually enjoyed them or were open to experiencing them


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194,372 I’m a nurse. I see a lot of vags and peens. I’m surprised how small most men’s peens are. They’re practically a second belly button. I’m also surprised how perfect most vags are.  White women have the most sustainable vags. They look practically new, while mine looks like an Arby’s roast beef that’s been dropped on the floor and forgotten. Wtf, how do all these 80 yr old women with herpes and hep c have better looking vags than me? Life simply isn’t fair.


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194,371 FYI: I never wanted you to leave your wife for me. What kind of fuckery is that? Bizarre. I’m happily married and so are you.

We haven’t talked for years nor have I been pining after you. I simply put two and two together one night after oodles of wine.

I only wished that you were more straight forward during our, uh, phone sex days. That’s it. Peace!


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194,370 I have a really bad memory, it's probably a coping mechanism. I just saw old messages between me and a bitch I don't even remember being friends with, but apparently we we're real close.
  


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194,369 Black women with big asses look thick, curvy, good.
White women look sloppy, fat, not good.
What's up with that.


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194,368 When I was young I used to constantly chew on things, like straws or little rubber toys or whatever I found around our house.. I would put it in my mouth and chew on it. I had older sisters. I found this rubber ring in the bathroom, it was on the floor.. I started chewing on it. Chewed on it for hours. Turns out it was my sisters used nuva ring. Dog probably got into the trash and it just didn't get picked up. I chewed on my sisters birth control.
I never told anyone that and I'm less than thrilled I just remembered it. Time to bury that again.


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194,367 I’m an alcoholic.
I can’t stop.
I need help.


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194,366 Today marked my 4th day of exercise.  It's a start. Probably just 361 more days to go and I'll be fit as a fiddle...


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194,365 Some guys can't figure out why the woman that used to love sex so much, now has no interest.  Most likely you've wrecked it for her.  You got off getting her to suck your days unshowered cock or something else disgusting, one to many times.  Guess what guys.  When you get off making your wife do something she finds gross pretty soon she won't like having sex anymore.   Think of that next time your getting off disgusting her.  It will eventually cause her to be disgusted by sex with you and maybe even disgusted by you.  This shouldn't be a secret but apparently is.


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194,364 I wish someone would just ask me if I'm okay.

I'm not.


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194,363 Tomorrow, my GF goes in for surgery- specifically, a hysterectomy and we’re both nervous about the outcome.  One one hand, it’ll be great that she’ll eventually get relief from the constant pain of fibroids etc.

On the other hand, after reading several different sites about how this affects different women, there’s a lot of anxiety about what we will be like after this procedure.  

We’re both highly sexed and have an amazing intimate life together. We’re also good together when it comes to being life partners- no drama, no continual crisis- life is good.  

My fear- after the initial healing process (including no sex for 4-8 weeks), getting plenty of rest and no heavy work around the house, how will she be affected from this point on?

She’s worried that her emotional state will swing, that she’ll lose interest in sex and become a cat lady (lol).

We are in our early 50’s and aren’t ready to become “old” people just yet- there’s still too much living to do.  

So, I ask the ladies who have been through this, what is your post-operative experience?  Are you still getting it on with your partners? Did that part of you go away? Is life better for you now if constant pain was an issue?

I’m coming here to ask because I don’t want to bring my concerns to my regular circles and it’s really none of their business.

I really love her and want to be a support all along the way- I just hope that our intimate life isn’t  over now.


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194,362 I like to masturbate after slicing hot peppers and still have the juice on my hands.  That good burn!  


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194,361 I've worked with people. I've worked on my own. People can be annoying at times. But working on my own, with only myself to talk to everyday, it's killing me. I'm going back to working with people.


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194,360 Please!  More "Secrets" and less politics!


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194,359 I’ve posted before about my husband never wanting to have sex.
So, last night, in the middle of the night, he woke me up and said “take off your clothes. I’m going to fuck you.” Soooo hot! I was super tired but this was my chance so I was like “let’s do this!”  But then he mumbled something about his assistant manager. (It didn’t make any sense). Then he got up and went to the washroom. He got back into bed and mumbled something about the kids (it also didn’t make sense). Then he rolled over with his back to me.

I said “...are you still going to fuck me?”
He was like “Oh. I’m really tired. But... I guess I could.”

Pity sex. No thank you.

I said “That’s okay. You don’t have to. We can do it tomorrow.”

I know full well we’re not going to be doing it tomorrow.

The animalistic side of me is mad that I missed a chance to have some cock. The human side of me is not into guilt tripping him into sex when he obviously isn’t into it.

The worst part is that for the last couple of weeks I have been doing really well at suppressing all my sexual thoughts and urges. Now it’s like a beast has been reawakened.

Oh well.


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194,358 I hate living in the United States. If I could get permanent resident status or citizenship anywhere else, I'd just leave. This country is such a joke.


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194,357 I failed in giving my wife an orgasm this morning. This will bother me all day.


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194,356 A 50 year old man can tell some things about women.

Your daughter in college who's wearing the half shirt with the thin unbuttoned sweater and the ripped jeans when it's 50 degrees out?

She's going to make several guys at school happy.

Make sure you keep involved in her life.


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194,355 The Trump lawyer raid - anybody notice that we're not seeing anything about this in the mainstream media?  The MSM started backing off of the justifications for the raid the very day it started being reported.  It started being non-reported by the next day.  The MSM won't touch it now.  The only ones saying anything are opinion columnists.  It's like even the liberals know a line was crossed.

I think Trump orchestrated this.  I think he knew what the damage would be to the FBI's integrity.  Any indictment will now be tainted.  Either that, or the FBI is truly so fucked in the head that they don't realize how obvious they were.


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194,354 just read a comment about a guy that jerked off to the point of friction burn....

makes me think of the time when i was 13 and couldnt find any lotion and used some shampoo....later that day, i started itching so bad...finally got home and was dry / cracked and that i was peeling.....   the conditioner was the correct choice that day...not the shampoo i chose...




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194,353 I hjust ad sex with a black man for the first time


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194,352 My main weight loss secret and motivation is to stay thinner than my boyfriend's wife. (I'm already half her size!)


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194,351 Yeah if you decide to sit in the aisle seat while the window seat is open,  you are totally getting a bag in the face.


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194,350 A man who claims to be a feminist is a huge turn off to me. F/29


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194,348 I applied for a job. They wanted references. I know no one. I have no friends. Sucks.


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194,347 Trying to lose weight. Been going for a walk everyday. Wife comes along. Today I didn't feel like it. Wife said I had to go on the walk cause she had something to show me. Ok, went for the walk. Deep in the woods she hiked her skirt and showed me she had nothing on underneath. She then said we should do it right then and there. So we did. We're both 40 something. No one saw us, but what a sight we would have been to any other walkers. My wife is a keeper.


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194,346 The is nothing I hate more than dealing with taxes.


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194,345 Over Christmas my hubby's family had a reunion in Florida. Someone had t-shirts made for the event. My husband and his brothers and sisters (large family) were given red t-shirts. The rest of us had plain white. I asked why? I was told because the rest of us aren't really family members. We married in and that's not the same as being family.

Oh. I'm not feeling so loved. [eye roll]


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194,344 I think I was 30 days sober when I posted about it. Someone told me to post again when I was 80 days.

So I marked a reminder in my phone to post and say that I made it to 80 days today. Some days, just barely. Some days, only so I could make this post. But I made it!
I feel great.

SO thank you Lord for my sobriety today, let's do it again tomorrow!!!



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194,343 I'm ugly but just watched Mark Zuckerberg -- he ain't far behind.


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194,342 Impossible to narrow all the bad deeds of the world down to a single sex. Women abuse and rape too, we just don't usually come forth to admit it.


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194,341 I know mistakes and failures are supposed to make you stronger. But I am not sure if I'm built for it. Sometimes I wish I was stupid so I could become a model.

I'm finishing my masters and looking for a job is a pain in the ass. I have to make these assessment tests and I keep messing them up. I guess I'm smart but not their kind of smart.... But I'm going to keep practicing. I'm not telling anyone that I failed these tests. I just feel too ashamed. My way of thinking is very visual and I am great at writing, but the companies I'm interested in require these tests. Even government trainee ships...

The irony of me becoming a housewife though, I would probably shoot a bullet through my brain. Gotta stop bitchin' and start practicing until I get perfect scores.


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194,340 Men are so awful, they rape other men.


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194,339 I’m sharing this in the hope that it’ll help someone out there! I’m 33, outgoing, fun, educated. No children, reasonably attractive, plenty of friends, own my home, new-ish car, hard working. I have a pretty great life!

I have been in a few long-term relationships, rarely single, all of which I thought would end in marriage, and I’m very grateful they didn’t. Between those relationships, I like to date. I use dating apps, and I enjoy getting to know men via texting and conversations, and if it reaches that point, meeting them out. As a moderately successful and stable person, I date pretty much the same type of person, race and religion not really being a factor.

However,  I have noticed a terrible trend. Men do not ask questions. They don’t seem to care about my life at all. In fact, I am actually shocked when a guy asks me a specific question. For instance, if I mentioned that I have a big review coming up at work on Thursday, my mind is blown if they ask me about it that night.

And I definitely ask lots and lots of questions and I am an eager listener. I note details and bring them up later, always ask about their day with something specific thrown in that I knew was coming up, you know, the sort of things I thought everyone did. They talk and talk and talk and talk.....This always leads to near-relationship territory. They get attached very quickly. They are absolutely astounded when I end it. If they ask why, I’m honest.  I’ve actually had more than one man tell me “well, when I text you and say ‘how’s it going,’ that’s your opportunity to tell me about your day.”

So I’m at the point where I’m not really sure what to do anymore. My life is wonderful, but I would like to share it with somebody. I’m not willing to be with somebody who doesn’t have an interest in others, but that seems to be almost everybody I’ve encountered. What’s a girl to do?


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194,338 They should just do the election all over again. It's obvious that Trump was put in power by Russia by their hacking.  I'm sick of explaining this to people.


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194,337 I made a deal with the devil. Now the devil is making me pay. I got what i wanted, and now my life is beyond miserable. Well played Mr. Devil.


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194,336 I've never had an abortion. I don't say this meanly, but I seem to be very rare. ALL of my friends have done it.


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194,335 I like to post on here, but rarely read the other comments, because I started to think they were about me!


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194,334 I let him go.

Now she's holding onto him.
I do hope he is happy.

I just wish it didn't hurt so goddamned much.


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194,333 I think there's a point in life where even depression seems better than where I'm at right now.


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194,332 I hate how the birds start singing at first light. Shut the fuck up. I'm trying to sleep.


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194,331 Sorry, but I have posted a few secrets about my wife. All bad. I want to see the good. I can't. She is out for herself. What's more, at first I thought it was only my marriage, that I had made a bad choice. But then I looked around at other people I knew up close. It was all marriages. Everyone of them. My wife's siblings, all divorced. My siblings, all divorced. My wife's friends are starting to get divorced. The ones still married, I'm keenly aware of the stories. The husband is sleeping on the couch etc.

I'm going to be really honest. I'm reading on here about men saying their marriage is great. Hmm. I remember back to a 20th anniversary party I attended.  The husband made a speech about how he was so in love with his wife, she was his one and only, blah blah.  But I knew the inside story. The husband and wife fought like animals behind closed doors. He was cheating. She was using him for money and social access. By a year after his "one and only" speech, he was caught cheating and they divorced.

I think people sugar coat their marriages in public.


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194,330 I'm alone in this world.. no one cares, not my "friends",family, or co-workers. I'm so angry all the time, so depressed, so sad. I don't even know how to cope any more. Fuck not even my dog wants much to do with me. Feeling more and more, that despite my belief that suicide is ticket straight to hell, that it might be my only option to make it all stop... Dear Lord help me, I don't know how much longer I can do this.


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194,329 The same people that said not to get an abortion, choose adoption, later talked shit about me for doing just that.
Never let other people bother you. Fuck'em all.


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194,328 My husband has what I tend to refer to as useless outrage. Something will go wrong at the end of the day when he’s leaving work. It can’t be resolved until the next day. Everyone has gone home. Rather than resolving to pick back up tomorrow, he rages all night. He stews in his foul mood all night, snapping at everyone, talking about whatever the issue is until he’s blue in the face. He works himself up all night, goes to sleep in a shitty mood, and then the cycle starts over the next day.

I have tried EVERYTHING. Making him a nice dinner, taking him out for drinks, fucking him the way he likes (on the rare occasions he’s into having sex at all), giving him space, getting him out for a fun night of distraction (movies, bar trivia, concerts, you name it). I have let him vent. I have tried offering advice or suggestions. I’ve had his friends over for a dude’s night, had them take him out, even scheduling regular hang outs with his group. Literally none of it makes a difference. He’s always miserable, he’s always on edge, and he always seems to want to take it out on me.

I’m not sure how much longer I can live like this.


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194,327 I often wonder, when I die, who will find the ultrasound of my aborted baby.


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194,326 I have had two abortions. The first one was a medical abortion where you drink something and then insert pills. Absolutely painful and traumatic esp for a 17 year old who has no idea what they are doing. I went without my parents even knowing and was not legally adult. They don’t ask for ID. You don’t even have to put down your correct name, number, or address. As long as you have cash they will proceed. The second time was a surgical abortion not painful but very invasive and equally terrifying. The first time was because I was afraid of my parents. I felt no other choice than to rectify the very life altering mistake I had made. The second time was because the timing was not right. Each time it was as soon as I found out they couldn’t even detect it through ultrasound. The stigma is real. The places felt less than safe. It was very traumatic and it’s sad that even today girls have to go through back alleys because birth control failed or the time wasn’t right. Parents should be aware and active with their children. Abstinence is a joke.  Discussion about sex and pregnancy should be open and direct. Not once did my parents ever sit me down and say anything to me at all what so ever. So when I see people with pro life bumper stickers I wonder do they really know their kids.  As a nation we have failed ourselves and our children. Too busy to give a shit.  Parents to wrapped up in their own hells to even bother. The kids are just wandering around looking for the next high. The amount of broken homes is staggering. Very rare you see a mom and Dad with just their kids. It’s sad.


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194,325 On the site, what is the purpose of flagging?


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194,324 I'm a lover of animals. I hunt for fresh meat, I love to go fishing, and I don't understand why vegans are so rabid about food.

But.... FUCK ANTS. I hate them with every cell in my body. If I never see an ant again I can die a happy man. I know they are important in the grand scheme of things but holy hell they anger me.


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194,323 Happily married men dont have many secrets

That is why we read about all the unhappy and cheating spouses on here .

You want the secrets of a happily married man?

That time I went away for the weeklong convention and didn't pick up the phone when my wife called...I was missing her and went for a walk to get my mind off how much I missed my family.

All those late nights at the office...I really was just working with the hopes of making a better life for us.

That pretty new girl at the office who laughed a little too much when she talked to me...she was just trying to fit in and nothing happened.

The times I seemed a little cold and distant...i was just worried about our future together and maybe a little sad that i couldnt provide everything sne wanted in life.

Those few extra pounds she put on or the occasional gray hair...made me love her more for accepting my extra weight and disappearing hair.

And now as we reach our golden years and sex isn't what it used to be...makes me realize each day how much the sight of her still makes my heart sing, and I know it's love not lust.

So i there you have it. Never cheated, never secretly hated her, never thought about leaving.  

The boring secret of a man coming up on 40 years of a happy marriage.




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194,322 Once again, she was wearing a revealing shirt. The red pattern on her black bra is cute, and I want to see a lot more of it. We each wear wedding rings, but I don't think a little bit of touching here and there will violate those vows. My wife sure didn't think so, so why should I?

Today I made sure she knew I was staring. Maybe tomorrow she will show a bit more. Small boobs are amazing, and if she is going to be a tease with her clothes there is no reason I shouldn't not look.

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EDIT: I just now saw the below comment. My wife has been horrible to me, but I still love her. I don't want to break up our marriage. But damn, if a new friend of mine (above) is going to act like half the slut my wife has been with other friends of mine, why shouldn't I be allowed to have some fun too?


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194,321 Before I started coming to this site regularly, I believed that the majority of people, both male and female, were generally decent human beings that cared about their families and friends.

This site has completely tarnished my view of men.

Tell me something to restore my faith and make me believe they are not all self-centred mysoginists with a deep-seeded hatred for women. Say something that makes me think they notice at least some of the good things their wives do and that some of them take at least SOME responsibility for their problems. Let me know that they do care, at least a little, about their wife’s happiness and wellbeing. That some of them do appreciate interacting with a smart, funny woman once in a while, even when it is strictly platonic and there is no chance of sex.

Either I was very naive before or I am very jaded now. I like to think it’s the latter. But it’s probably a little of both.

I want to go back to giving everyone the benefit of the doubt. I was happier when I could see the good in everyone.


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194,320 Online dating sucks.
I see men that have kids and never married and I think to myself, " so you're one of those idiots who knocked up another idiot because no birth control of any kind was used."
It's so annoying. I see it more out on the East Coast at least out West they've all been married and are divorced with kids.
Bunch of uneducated wed-lockers.
I don't want to be a step-mom. I want my own damn kids.


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194,318 I can't believe the FBI raided the office of Trump's personal lawyer. I'm not a fan of Trump, but I feel like this is so far out of bounds. What ever happened to attorney client privilege? What about the sanctity of the President's position? There has always been a hands off policy when it comes to legally harassing a sitting president. Did we really want to end that and set a new precedent?  

Also, what about the fact the president has an ongoing disagreement with the FBI.  It does seem like they have been pro-Hillary in the past. He calls them out on it, and they raid his lawyer's office? No no no. That's not how our justice system should work. What a bad message it sends to everyone. Piss off law enforcement and they will come after you with what looks like a personal vendetta.

This is all wrong IMO.


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194,317 I've been catching up with old friends. These are people I haven't spoken with in years. Good to hear from them. I realize how much I miss our conversations. They were good people. I'm sad life pulled us in different directions.

What they don't realize though, I've been making contact with them to say goodbye.


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194,316 I get super horny when the weather gets warmer, anyone else?


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194,315 Recently my daughter's school sent home a monthly what's going on notice. More often then not, I look them over, roll my eyes, and move on. But company logos were on this one. Popular manufacturing and warehousing companies that are in the area. They had a meeting with our town's council and want to remove the stigma surrounding manufacturing jobs to our children.

First I laughed. Then I was more pissed. You don't go to our children to remove that stigma. You make working conditions better. You pay more.
Remove the stigma from companies that pay a dickweed 300 times more cash and feed him stocks, bonds and other options to sit in a chair and make decisions then the man picking up the 70lb piece of junk product you sell? So no my daughter won't be that kind of cog. Manufacturing jobs are hard on the body. And most companies dump broken bodies under the guise of other reasons.

There is a reason there is a stigma. It's you.


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194,314 I get so upset if I send someone a message, text or email, and they don't respond right away. Do they hate me? I think back to our last conversation - did I say something offensive? Have they been mad at me the whole time and I didn't realize?

Usually the person ends up responding a  few hours later and all is fine. They weren't mad at all. They were busy is all.

But boy, my head does a number on me when someone doesn't respond right away.


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194,313 After years of unhappiness, I joined online dating. All I’m looking for is someone who is nice to me. Doesn’t yell at me, like my husband does, and touches me gently occasionally, like my husband doesn’t. I want to see desire in someone’s eyes. If he finds out, he’ll kill me, which is why I’m just looking, and plotting my escape.


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194,312 On the old CC we could post pics. Is it allowed here now? I was curious if I was normal and wanted to post an anon pic, but i'm scared to.


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194,311 In my family of nerds, we play Scrabble backwards. Each word has to be reversed on the board. This is what happens when you make your kids too smart.


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194,310 M/37

I’m deeply concerned about the lack of balanced political perspective in modern society. Extremes are rampant. Balance is unpopular.

I’m deeply concerned by humanities lack of humility and tendency toward selfishness.

I’m deeply concerned that fairness, love, equanimity, and optimism are under attack.

I’m deeply concerned that the principles I teach my toddler are not relevant in modern society. What we teach our children in preschool hardly applies.

Profit motives consume us.  Profit for self interest, economic profit, self image profit, ego, etc.

Mainly, I’m deeply concerned that my deep concern is transitioning to apathy. It’s easier to not care. Sad. Where are the leaders of optimism? Hope? Fairness? Love? Progress as Humans?

“We’re the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War’s a spiritual war… our Great Depression is our lives. We’ve all been raised on television to believe that one day we’d all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won’t. And we’re slowly learning that fact. And we’re very, very pissed off.”


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194,309 So I was watching Jeopardy the other day and what category do I see? "A Liberal Library."

Agh! Libbywood strikes again! Anything to push their agenda on the people!

Will we ever see "A Conservative Library" category? Hmm...nope.

Will the libs ever understand that by shoving their attitudes down people's throats, they just turn them off?

Hmm...nope.

Oh well, straight ticket Republican from now on.


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194,308 I got my eyeliner tattooed on and all I can think of is if I go to jail, this will be so convenient to have. and also, I wish I had this before I went to rehab, because of the no make up rule.. the other girls would've been so jealous.

lol so silly but those are my thoughts. Side note, I'm living a good life so I don't plan to go to jail for anything lol


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194,306 I had a crazy dream about my professor.

My prof for this one class is a tall, severe looking woman who smirks like she owns the room and speaks with a deep, throaty voice you don't hear on a lot of women. She's on the curvier side of thin. Doesnt  wear makeup. Lives in jeans and sweaters. Has graceful hands like a piano player. Crops her hair just below her ears and parts it no-nonsense style down the middle. She has a sarcastic kind of charisma, is well-liked by students. Despite the fact that I very much admire her, I don't think she's a pretty woman. I'm not exactly a lesbian, but even if I was she wouldn't be my type.

I had a wild dream last night of this woman completely, utterly dominating me right on the desk in her cluttered little office. I woke up panting like I'd run a mile and could have sworn I could still feel her hand around my neck as she taunted me, making me beg to cum. Even now I blush scarlet like some virgin schoolgirl thinking about her dark eyes looking up at me from between my thighs.

I sit in the front row. Class this afternoon was miserable. Before this bullshit dream I never thought about her this way (or any female, really) but now she has me throbbing every time she quirks her eyebrow or playfully taunts one of my classmates or even just goes over lecture material in a particularly passionate way.

I'm not sure my boyfriend would appreciate my newfound crush :(


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194,305 Some people should learn to let go and forgive.  Stop with the digs.  You know you love me.


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194,304 Some people can be so jealous of others to the point they start making stories and spreading rumors (slander) .  I just laughed, must suck to be them , I'm sorry that I don't live to your stereotype.  


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194,303 Met a guy last month while i was pretty GD drunk. I said some sassy shit because he was harshing my mellow and i don't like that when I'm out drinking with friends. He calmed down, but his personality is aggressive and boastful in a way that i hate.

So tell me why the last time I saw him, i literally let him fuck me into the dirt. He came inside me and I still couldn't get enough of that dick. Maybe it's because i told him to slap me, and his response was "if i slap you, we're fucking." Point blank period.

Yeah, i can see the appeal of an alpha


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194,302 I fucked a hot Asian prostitute with no condom and she told me to cum inside her.  When I came, she started the keggle thing with her pussy.  She was milking my cock to get all the cum in her.  It was incredibly hot.

I almost asked for her number for a follow up, but for some reason I decided not to.

Now I know what she was doing.  She was trying to get pregnant.  She wanted that anchor baby so she could stay in the US.  Thank god I didn’t go back to her.  I don’t need to be paying child support to a woman I don’t know.


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194,301 I am extremely attracted to Alpha men.


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194,300 I thought I'd share a nice secret today. I had to take a cardio stress test a few weeks ago. I kinda liked it, so I adapted it to my cardio workout. It goes like this:
One minute warmup 1.7 mph, no incline.
Three minutes at 1.7 mph, 10 degree incline.
Three minutes at 2.5 mph, 12 degree incline.
Three minutes at 3.4 mph. 14 degree incline
Repeat once.
I lost 12 pounds & I feel great. Give it a try.


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