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194,499 I was upset because my car was in the shop too much. My husband then bought me a super-cute new car, with one check.  I get to keep the fixer-upper car though too, because it's also really cute, was a gift from him, and I love it.

I spent about $700 drunk-shopping on Etsy the other day. I'm not worried about it -- I'll be able to pay it off by the end of the month because I don't have any other financial obligations besides paying off whatever charges I put on my personal credit cards and funding my IRA.

I have a pretty good job, he works too, and is independently wealthy because of his family's business.  Neither one of us has ever wanted kids.  We get to spend all our money on ourselves.

This must be kept VERY quiet or everyone we know would hate us.

Oh -- I want to keep the older car because he gave it to me on our first anniversary, and it's a black BMW Z3 in pristine condition. I've kept it immaculate, it just has a lot of miles on it.


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194,498 Saw a smoke plume from vaguely my area tonight on my way home from playing hooky and feeding an affordable obsession...but fuck it I got the oil changed and the vehicle washed...anyway I digress - I was remotely hoping the smoke was from an address I do not care to go to tomorrow.  Then my mind wandered into blackness.


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194,497 Your husband is my best friend ;)


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194,496 Ok. So my husband works with this one lady and her boyfriend at a gig job that travels. I'm ok with it, I have no problem with my husband doing this work alongside other women.
Through Facebook vagueness,,and messaging about stupid work shit, this woman starts to give me a bad gut feeling.
I trust my husband but he's blind to this crap she starting.
So an important date gets booked and she sends me a fb request out of guilt because it includes my husband . Not wanting to be friends with her, I ignored the request and move on.
Two weeks go by and this woman pulls my husband aside grilling him as to why I possibly couldn't accept a friend request. Then insinuated that I might be suspicious that something could be going on and that's why I didn't accept a friend request. Where the fuck did she get that from?
I'm glad my husband told me this, but I thought this was completely inappropriate to bring up with a coworker. My husband doesn't think so and I'm pissed. Someone please reassure me I'm not crazy and this bitch crossed a line. Please.



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194,495 I'm 28 and have accomplished nothing. I try to make people believe that I have. People tend to know the truth. They know that I will always live off my parents pensions and will never leave their attic. My father use to let me rub myself against him as a child. This dirty perve knows this and treats me indifferent from the rest because of this.  I don't know why I'm still living with someone who is like this. He's so abusive.
I guess sometimes I believe I'm just invisible.


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194,494 I very much want you to pull me close by my waist and get your saliva all over my neck while I straddle your hips. Is that too much to ask??? Now get over here so we can get fucked up and get naked


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194,492 I'm nice. JUST nice. Got nothing else going for me that a man wants in a woman. Nobody wants a relationship with someone who is *only* nice and has nothing else desirable. My future is just to be alone, and that makes me feel sad and empty.


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194,491 I have a great job- good $, benefits, pension, etc. but the truth is I cannot wait until I retire! It’s not happening anytime soon but still it can’t get here quick enough for me! Funny thing is, we have former workers that ARE retired but come back constantly to say hello & hang out. I have asked a few of them and they say they are bored and wish they never retired in the first place. Umm what? I’m thankful for my job & adore some of my coworkers but when I retire I’m out! Sleeping in late and doing what I want when I want is a dream to me. What’s not to love about that?


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194,490 When you get back I plan on pinning you to your couch and fucking you for a few hours. So hurry, boy!


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194,488 Someone asked me today if I ever regret not having kids. I said no I didn’t. The truth is I really wanted to enthusiastically yell “no no way I’m so glad I don’t have kids” but that would’ve just seemed rude.


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194,486 I worry that the USA women's gymnastics team is just going to be known as "the molested team" rather than what they accomplished.  


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194,485 My ear gauges are smaller than a nickel. I have had all kinds of different jobs in some very nice companies. Yesterday I had a job interview, it went great and I was told I got the job, only to be called back that evening explaining corporate said no I can't have gauges so no job.
The real rule is no earrings larger than a quarter. Nothing said about gauges. I should sue. =P


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194,484 My son looks like Hatchet-Face' from the movie Cry baby he's not cute at all. Kicker he's a cry baby from being so darn spoiled.
He's a BRAT. He beats on kids and is a bully. He cusses just like his grand-dad does. My husbands father. If I let him continue this behavior eventually nobody is going to want him around. He's only five. My secret is. I'm part of the problem I tend to give him his way if he cries.
I do this in order to shut him up.








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194,483 I don't want a relationship right now, but I do worry that I will end up alone. Everything else seems just to be an unattainable day dream.


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194,481 Oh my god. All this bitching makes me want to run away and be a stripper or at least drink a whole bottle of wine. Ugh, I'm tired of just getting bitched at. One day he'll just drive me to it.

The last letter I write my mum. She will know he was the cause.


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194,480 I'm already worried about a plane flight I have to take next summer. This is ridiculous. The flight is 15 months away and I'm getting all anxious and dwelling on the what ifs...


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194,479 I'm 50 something. I want to be 30 again.

When I'm 70, I'll probably wish I could be 50 again. There's a lesson in there somewhere.


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194,478 My latte is like love in a cup. Warm, expensive, comforting, bitter. A slightly guilty indulgence.


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194,477 I need reading glasses but I try not to wear them in front of other people because it makes me feel old.


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194,476 468 I feel the same way. I'm constantly flooding threads about suicide on a daily. On one in particular they already consider me a troll.
I know I'l never do it.
Suicide hotlines and therapy sessions are of no big help. They'll berate me by saying "You're not suicidal, or depressed. You're just lazy and attention starved." My parents are abusive. And my boyfriend makes me believe that someone who is suicidal does and will never talk about it.
His sister never did.

I cried last night because he thinks I'm a liar because I won't go through with it. He says "I'm all talk" and have "mental issues" because I'm just a "compulsive liar."  Everyone's disrespectful to me because nobody will ever believe me or believe that I need help.
My therapist has diagnosed me with borderline personality disorder. What everyone doesn't realize is that everything they say is actually factual. I'm not suicidal. I'm just a person who loves to lie. So I'm more of a bipolar habitual liar. More than I can say I'm suicidal.
And for this I can say I need help.

Stephania 28, ;)


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194,475 I want to die but it will only make matters worse for everyone else. I can't even get relief with death


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194,474 Sometimes you can feel even more lonely when you are with someone.


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194,473 I think my boyfriend hates me. He gets mad for things i do on accident and calls me a liar constantly when I am not lying. though i have lied in the past, he over generalizes me now and thinks everything i say is a lie.I genuinely try to make sure that everything i say is right, due to how he gets on my ass so fast.He insults me, yells at me, and i cry a lot. his yelling will go on for hours and i will cry all night.  I can say something that i think is true ( i answer fast so he doesn't say i'm thinking of a lie) and when i rethink it and correct myself he calls that lying.  he says i do him so wrong and i am the worst girlfriend, has insulted me in so many ways i can't list them (mostly in my intelligence) and i feel like we'd be better off apart at times. he is my boyfriend though and i can't give up on him. I have no friends now because he said all of them are hoes and through many fights I decided to stop talking to them altogether. I just want us to be healthy. we both have our wrongs, but I don't think he sees his own.


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194,472 moving out of our first house within the next few months...been doing some updates....yesterday i put in 3 new ceiling fans..(remote controlled ones)  I didnt change any of the codes....3 remotes/3fans all on the same codes......you turn a light on in the living room, the bedroom turns on as well as the one in the kitchen.  

my little gift to the next people who live here...this house has been good to us...nice huge live oak tree lots of great memories.

I hope the next family that moves in here have the same great experiences and good fortune that we have had......sure im going to miss this place, but its time to move.





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194,471 I started thinking about dating in first grade. I had my first girlfriend back then. We kissed a few times. In looking back, it seems abnormal to me. Why was my young mind in need of a relationship at such an early age?


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194,470 I'm beginning to despise technology. Tech is suppose to make things easier. But more and more I'm finding the tech is quirky and often won't run on a device. I tried to install Zelle on a desktop. Nope, my operating system is too old. (It is?) I try to install Skype. Nope. Doesn't work on a chromebook. Okay, I'll install it on the iphone. Nope. Works only sometimes. Like how hard is it to for programmers to make things work anymore? Technology has become way too frustrating.  


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194,469 I have a long time beautiful girlfriend. I also have a few ladies on the side that I have fucked for years, even decades. Last night one of them called and I picked her up and took her to my place. We went to the liquor store and picked up some booze first. The thing is that this woman is BATSHIT crazy. She is an alcoholic so she will drink TONS of alcohol all the time. She gets drunk and will start yelling in my apartment at 2am. I have no idea why I still see this woman. The kicker is that the sex isn't even that good. She will let me do whatever I want but is WAY to aggressive. She gives head like she is a attacking a snake. I am not sure what is wrong with me. Why cant I just be faithful, or at least not fuck ugly, mentally unstable pigs...


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194,468 I think about killing myself the way some people think about eating breakfast. It’s casual at this point. Minor screw up at work? Kill yourself. Stuck in traffic? Kill yourself. Bored? Kill yourself.

I’m 29, debt-free, and running a successful business with my husband (who I love). I’ve been through therapy. I’ve been through drugs. I’ve tried exercise, clean eating, meditation. Nothing makes the thoughts go away. Now I just accept them and reply, “maybe tomorrow.”


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194,467 Can't stand girls like you! You think you're better then everyone? You are not better then everyone.
This is why your life will continue to always be miserable.

Megan



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194,466 I don't understand why some people are obsessed with Florida or any other place where the weather it's hot all the time. I can only stand the kind of weather for a week max, living there would drive me insane .  Fall and Spring are my favorite season , I wish they would last longer .


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194,465 I wonder if the two Starbucks guys 'friend' ever showed up.


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194,464 There's something wrong with me.  I saw the words "oral rinse" and I didn't think "mouthwash."


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194,463 The thing I'm proudest of?

I've never forgiven anyone for anything in my life.

Tell it to Jesus because I don't give a fuck.


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194,462 I have a facebook friend who posted a zillion pictures of herself warm in Florida last week while the rest of us were up north freezing our asses off. I blocked her. Haha.


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194,460 Sometimes I dream that my wife and would come to the realization that we're what each other is looking for like the Pina Colada song.  Realistically, I know we are sooooo different from each other that we can appreciate each other but don't really complete each other.


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194,459 I've been reading the Cave for years...like 7 or 8. Once about 5 or so years ago, my wife picked up my phone and saw the Cave on it, and it just happened to be a sexual secret. She was so mad. She yelled and screamed, broke my phone against the wall, saying that I was a pervert, and many other things (and to be clear, I have never given her a reason to mistrust me). I tried to calm her down, get her to read more of it, finally she did, but she swore some of the more unsavory, wife hating posts were written by me, weirdly she didn't pick out any written by me, like being married with 2 kids and still being lonely, and frustrated with my life and several other ones to that effect. So after a lot of time she calmed down and forgave me, I said I wouldn't get back on the site. The secret is that I have never stopped, I am just a lot more careful about it. I really enjoy the secrets, and now the comments to each one (but I do despise the political rants) It also helps me to have a place to put down my heart, and to know that other people out there have some of the same issues.
Thanks Posters and commenters
and
Thanks Cavecanum
-47M

I know it's kinda long, apologies


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194,458 I'm too good of a liar. People will never know how bad and insecure I actually feel and when I do try to bring it up, they tell me it's all going to be fine, not having experienced these feelings themselves. Do I need to have a breakdown right in front of them? I can't even cry properly in front of the people who are closest to me. I just hold my breath and in that moment every single part of me is fighting the possibility of crying. I want to let go, I want to show my boyfriend how bad my breakdowns can get. But I just physically can't.

I text him when I'm feeling upset or when I've cried for hours and he always calls me immediately and asks why I waited so long to call. The reason is that when he is with me, or when I see his face on a screen even, that I freeze. I try my hardest not to cry and because of that I can't speak that clearly, because I'm afraid that I will burst into tears.

I think it's because a number of people have died in my life, and when I heard about it I just froze, I couldn't cry because I didn't want to make people upset. And I'm afraid that I will never be able to break that barrier and if I do that I will have the worst breakdown ever. I have never really cried out loud in front of my boyfriend and I'm scared that I will throw up or something because when I cry I sometimes gag because I'm not taking in any air, or taking up too much of it?

I just wish I had a dad.


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194,457 Husband and I are listening to the news. I may comment on a story to elicit -conversation-. Husband butts in, pontificates for 3 minutes on the story. By the end of this so-called conversation, I can’t tell if he agreed or disagreed with me, or even remember what it is I said!

It doesn’t pay to try to converse with a man who does this. He is simply not into listening. Sigh...


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194,456 Been seeing Stormy Daniels on the news again -- every time I do and look at her I wonder how many dicks have been in her mouth.  Same with Catholic priests -- I wonder how many altar boys they sodomized!


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194,455 He bought them a 5 bedroom home and are moving in this week meanwhile I go on probation this week.


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194,454 I have little family but have always been a daddy’s girl. However, he decided for good reason to divorce my stepmother 2 years ago and move away out of state. Leaving me alone with my daughter. Grew up practically raising myself and got into a lot of trouble with the law, because I had little supervision and structure. Now he’s remarried states away and spends everyday with her children and grandchildren. Apparently I wasn’t enough to stay for and he would rather be with them than us. No wonder I have so many issues, I’ve always been alone. I really don’t want to hate my father but I’m very hurt.


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194,453 I find all the Douche bags


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194,452 I sucked his dick til he came in my mouth, and then I swallowed it as he came. The least he could do is finger me.

What I really want is to cum while being railed by a hard cock. It’s never happened, if I’m lucky enough to cum it’s in the final seconds of him cumming too.


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194,451 I grew up with a messed up family and now I have nightmares about ending up with someone like my father. And now I'm getting involved with a guy who has a few strange things in common with him... only this guy gives me tons of attention in ways my dad couldn't. I'm basically the textbook definition of Daddy Issues and I feel bad about it because people think it's funny but it isn't.


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194,450 I keep saying I'm going to leave her but I never do. I'm very confused on why I can't follow through on leaving.


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194,449 So where I work bereavement means coming into work and going home early consecutive days because we are short staffed, and getting screamed at by the surgeon, and all the rest of the bullshit.


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194,448 As I get older, inspiration continues to come from strange and even stranger places.

Life is bizarre.

I’ll take it from wherever, I’m just saying, weird.


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194,447 I don't know what my problem is. Whenever I leave my house, I go back and have to check that I didn't leave my flat iron on, stove, candles burning, etc . .. even if I'm not using any of those.  Sometimes I go back 4 or 5 times and have to say out loud "THIS IS TURNED OFF" "NO CANDLES ARE BURNING".  It's very stressful for me.  


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194,446 After reading things on here, I started to reconnect with old friends. It made me feel so good. I never should have let them slip away years ago. We did manage to pick up the conversation like we had never been apart. I love friends. I've seen the light. You need friends.


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194,445 I made a vision board this year and it's really working out. I think it absolutely made a difference


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194,444 What a terrible, violent dream I had.  I’ve never had anything like it before.  All these people who had wronged me in the past were dying in these terribly violent ways.  They would act out, I would be forced to restrain them, and then I would hit them when they wanted to hit me.  Men and women both included.  I punched one particularly arrogant and narcissistic ex in the dream after she started causing trouble, and then this blood started squirting out of her face.  Her skull started to leaking and then pouring out blood.  I took her head to the toilet to save her (don’t know why, it was a dream) and her head just fell apart into the toilet and went down the drain.  Then I saw there was shit in the toilet that hadn’t been flushed out.

I don’t know what to think.  Maybe I’m just sick of taking people’s shit.


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194,443 I once left the hot glue gun on for a week while I was on vacation.


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194,442 The man bun is the most amazing hairstyle ever! There are so many variations on the style and they all look stupid!


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194,441 I'm one of those wives that's been on this site for a very long time. I complained, confessed, crushed on so much. Finally I'm happy to report that after all this time, something recharged my marriage. It was the unwavering love and honesty from my husband who stuck by me like glue through my worst days. He never judged me or cut me down. We had some epic fights, but I think it's because it was me who wasn't honoring him the same way he honored me.
After all this time and a great therapist, we are renewed. And it was my husband being totally honest and open that allowed me to do the same.
Today we waited until the kids went to school, and took the day of work. We had prosecco and smoked a joint until we got buzzed and fucked like rabbits. We watched porn together, played with toys, everything. I actually got turned on by his honesty to the point of it making me want to fuck him all the time now.  I love this new marriage I have!!!! I wished I wasn't such an idiot all these years thinking he was this jerk. Oh and we send dirty texts and Facebook messages back and forth. The "secret conversation" mode in messenger adds to the naughtiness. Now to bring him back into the bedroom after him sleeping in his office for a year...


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194,440 I’m in my 40s (happily married with teenagers) and I still miss playing with my baby dolls, Barbie dolls & coloring books.


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194,439 I'm at a conference for work for 4 days thousands of miles away from home and all I can think about is when I can leave here. I miss my husband so much. ♥


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194,438 All the best hairstylists I have ever had have been gay men.


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194,437 Luckily for me there weren't cell phones with cameras in the 1990s. Or I'd be in big trouble. It's a blur to me now, but something about Spring Break and dancing topless on a bar in Key West comes to mind.


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194,436 I have tried on my wife's dirty thongs. It's exciting to see myself in the mirror with my hard cock bursting out from under the lacy fabric. My wife has no idea her thongs do double duty. She wears them. Then I take them out of the hamper and put them on.


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194,435 Next time I see you I will pretend I didn´t wait for your messages.I will be sooo happy to see you again.


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194,434 My retirement plan involves sleeping on someone's couch for the rest of my days.


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194,433 I don't want to do anything anymore. I just want to watch TV.


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194,432 I love my girlfriend so much. Until I met her I had sort of assumed everyone who ever said they loved anyone romantically was faking it (God knows I did). I didn't think it was a state of mind anyone really maintained over time. But it's been almost three years and I love her more every day. I was lonely for quite a while, even when I was with someone, but it was so worth the wait. I can't wait to spend my life with her.


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194,431 I have known a friend for 30 something years, since we were in college together. Never once has she had a boyfriend - or girlfriend for that matter. She's perfectly nice. She's fun. She's interesting. She's pretty. But she has shown zero interest in dating anyone. Guys have asked her out. She's accepted on a platonic basis. But never has it turned into a relationship other than friendship. I've asked her about it. She says the right person never came along. There must be more to it tho. Thirty years and not a single person has interested her? I'm convinced she has some deep issues about love type relationships. She's the greatest friend, but can't be involved with sex or love.


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194,430 Related to a secret below, but different enough that I thought I should ask separately....

I have worried about getting an erection while at the doctor's office. Has this happened to any other men?

It might be only me. I also worry about getting my blood pressure taken. This of courses raises my blood pressure. Self fulfilling. I think this is where my erection fear comes from. I tend to gravitate towards doing the wrong thing.


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194,429 I'm convinced only really bad job openings are advertised. The good jobs are scooped up right away by people in the know.


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194,428 I have two friends who are always calling me up and trying to get me to do things like go out to dinner or a movie. It's like they tag team wrestle to make me more social.  I'm kind of the opposite of paranoid. I think people are plotting to make me happy.


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194,427 Your teeth are uneven, and that one that hangs low is YELLOW! Is that really THAT hard to fix?


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194,426 I'm feeling really shitty right now and I clicked on a random song that I didn't recognize the name of (fool's garden - lemon tree), and I realized that my dad used to listen to this song as i was a kid. He passed away when I was 9, and I haven't listened to this song ever since. I don't really believe in signs but I feel like I'm calming down and like things are going to be oke.

I just feel so weird now. The thought of someone watching over me calms me down but it's also extremely hard for me to believe. Just a few days ago I thought about the story my grandma told me that she had a friend who was a medium, or that she went to one.

I have been scared of gypsies all my life because in my country they are not the nicest folks, but something in me always thought about getting my future predicted. The first time I saw a fortune teller I was around 7 years old or something, and it's something that has always scared and excited me. I don't think about it often, maybe a few times a year, but I'm getting this urge to go see someone. Maybe it's because I'm finishing university and have to choose a career etc. and I just need some assuring words from a stranger. The thing that I'm scared of is that she tells me some horrible things, which could influence my future decisions.

I just need someone to look me in the eye and tell me that everything is going to be fine. Not my boyfriend, not my family. I don't understand why but I have a feeling that my anxiety starting again. I have not felt this way in four years, what has changed in the past weeks???


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194,425 My good friend is gay only he doesn't know it.


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194,424 I need a job, not only for the money, but for my self esteem.


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194,423 My son has become very friendly with a girl at college. I sort of introduced him in that I knew the girl's father. That was the ice breaker and now I thinking my son and the girl are dating, although my son never quite admits to it. What my son (and husband) doesn't know is that I didn't just know the girl's father in the distant past, I dated him. We were young sweethearts long before either of us got married to other people.  A bit strange that I've slept with my son's girlfriend's father.


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194,422 Those two guys at the starbucks were total plants. they set the whole thing up. 'yeah, we're meeting a friend here at starbucks' said no black person ever!
and how convenient a white girl wearing a BLM T showed up before the two gentlemen even reached the station house.

SJW's are going to be the end of this country.  


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194,421 I spend way too much time alone. I need to get out more.


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194,420 I'm having an extremely hard time getting over my ex.
Maybe he is the love of my life. Maybe I never will love anyone else.

Maybe that's ok..



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194,419 I reply no to more things in my head than I do in reality.
It's a shame.


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194,418 Might kill myself, because I'm honestly.....


just bored.


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194,417 I voted for Trump the first time. But I'll tell you a secret, I won't vote for him a second time. He is a little scary. So Democrats, please please please put up a reasonable candidate - no shadiness, no back history of corruption - and I will vote for him or her.


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194,416 I'll go on a date and at the end I'll tell a woman I'll call her but I have no intention of calling her.


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194,415 I've been up, down, and through alot in the last couple years. And it might sound silly, but when I feel the most alone, or at witts end. I always remember those of you who answered my call, was there for me, and made sure I am and will always be cared for. It's that little thing that gets me through it.

I speak not to those who are in my daily life, but to the anonymous, the random conversations in a thread somewhere. Another patron in the aisle looking for the same things.

The kind strangers. I thank you.



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194,414 Plans for weekend: you come over with my painkillers, we do a low dose and eventually start making out. Then I lay on my back and let you fuck me. I'll definitely moan your name while I have an orgasm, but mostly for your ego.


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194,413 All I ever wanted to do is be there for you, whether we were friends or lovers.  But you have to let me in first.  Why won't you let me in?


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194,411 On long road trips I day dream about being a filthy rich young boss ass bitch who walks into strip clubs and hands out $1000s to the girls for nothing sexual, but eventually I "rescue" one girl by us falling in love and blah blah 😂 it's like a movie in my head.
27/F


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194,410 I miss having a real friend.  Someone to have an emotional connection too.  I have such a desperate need and longing for this and am unable to fulfill the need.  It could be a sexual relationship with the opposite sex or just a really close friend of either sex.  Someone who's got my back no matter what.  Someone to love and who will love me.  I guess that all anyone really wants.  How is it achieved when you're no longer young enough to easily make friends?


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194,409 I don't know if I'll ever truly understand the cuckold mentality. From reading erotica where people express their fantasies through stories, and reading scientific type data on the subject, plus reading sex-related forums where men strongly wish their wives would do it, to include spying on her cheating on him, I'm still kind of confused.

Here at CC many husbands complain about their wives lose interest (and I've done it too), but also some wives complain about their husbands losing interest. You'd think that there would be more of a cuckqueen following.

Maybe it's just that people are never sexually satisfied. The guys who want to be cuckolded are usually getting lots of sex already, but they want their lady to do more and screw other guys for them. The guys who don't get sex just want to get between their lady's legs. I haven't read enough evidence to know if that's the same type of motivation for women, but I think it is.

Shouldn't it be the other way around? Shouldn't the one not giving it up in bed want their SO to be getting it from somewhere else so they don't have to be bothered? If the relationship is already strong in every other facet except sex, why not hook up the partner who wants lots of sex but isn't getting it?


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194,408 I lived in New York City for a while. Each day I would walk from my apartment to work. There was one morning I was stopped at the crosswalk and I noticed the woman in front of me had the back of her skirt tucked into her stockings. I'm thinking she must have peed before leaving her apartment and hastily stood up and pulled her stockings up, not realizing her skirt was caught in there. Anyhow,  she was giving a good view of her panties to everyone walking behind her.

Being the gentleman, I said excuse me, and pointed out the wardrobe malfunction. She turned her head towards her back, saw the problem, and freed up her skirt. But then she turned to look directly in my eyes and sneered like I was some sort of perverted creep for looking at her ass. I felt completely slighted. I was helping her from further embarrassment. I was the good guy. Who knows how many other men saw her and smirked. I was the only decent man to help her out. And I was the one getting the evil eye from her. Next time I see a woman accidentally expose herself, good luck missy, you're on your own.


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194,407 My wife has a good friend of 20 years. We've recently found out the friend's husband has been posting naked pictures of his wife online. They are not hidden video or anything. Clearly my wife's friend is a happy participant. Most of the images are of her being tied up. They used all sorts of s&m gadgets like a leather collar and a plug in the mouth. There are some pics of her tied in a bed with a metal bar strapped to her ankles so her legs stay pried apart. It very kinky stuff. I've known this woman for all this time and had no idea she and her husband were into this sort of thing. It knocks me over. You'd never know it from talking to her. She is college educated and very professional. She comes across as perfectly straight laced. My wife would never do anything like this but I take it as an encouraging sign that my wife and I have looked at the pictures together which led to woopie in the bedroom for us. It's a start. But man am I envious of the other couple.


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194,406 I started online dating about 6 years with the intention of finding a partner...Since then I haven’t found my soulmate but have slept with over 150+ women....this morning I shared this news over breakfast with a close female friend of mine and she said I was disgusting and walked away to the bathroom. I am writing this as I await her return....(it’s been about 20 minutes)...

Thoughts?

Used Protection every time, all but two of my dates slept with me on the first date.... slept with all of them at their place... no #metoo movement here...each time, looked in to their eyes and asked if they were ok with this (before entering them)....

.... why am I disgusting?

-39m


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194,405 My anxieties are out of control again. It's making me ill. This of course leads to even higher levels of anxiety. I feel like I'm in a death spiral.


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194,403 God damnit, I spent the entire day watching porn.  So much for being productive... -_- (24F)


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194,402 No wonder most women are not good at blow jobs every porno has a girl vigorously jerking a cock into her mouth. that's not how you give a good blow job


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194,401 I once did something so horrible I can never forgive myself and never tell anyone. Not even here. It haunts me.


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194,400 Every time I go to stores like Target or Walmart, where there is a big section of Yankee candles,  I have a compulsion to spend a lot of time sniffing all of them.   I particularly make a point to sniff every scent available.  It can take a while.   44/F


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