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196,300 Married life sounds like Hell on Earth.




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196,299 Tonight, one of my employees shared that she and her husband have not had sex in 5 years.  He doesn't kiss her, hold her, ask her about her day.  She was starting to cry as she told me this, so I changed the direction of the  conversation.
I really wanted to tell her that I also want to just hold someone and be held.  I want a partner that wants more out of life than the plain old everyday stuff.  I want to travel, see the world, work hard and be able to put savings away for more than a rainy day. I ask my wife how her day was at work. I make sure the bills are paid, and I look after the well being of our kids.  

Back to my employee... We both married the wrong person, and for the wrong reasons.  Why in the fuck does this happen so often?


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196,298 I’m 45 and still have contact with my sugar daddy from back in the day.  He’s a good guy.


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196,297 For just one night, it would be nice if someone else saw the dishes or decided to sweep the floor. :/


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196,296 It still breaks my heart that their SO won't touch them. Qu triste


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196,295 Recently, I got a haircut and instead of a pixie cut I decided to try a fade.  It looks and feels amazing!  But now I feel like I want to keep experimenting with even short haircuts more and more.  I feel as if it’s like when a person gets a tattoo and then after the first one they need to get more.  My hair used to be 14+ inches long, but when I donated to Locks for Love, after that I kept going.  Although it might be a while until my next haircut, who knows, I might make an even more drastic change next time.


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196,294 I'm a teacher. I'll tell you a secret. I'm more lenient when grading the test of a student if his/her parent volunteers at the school. Not a whole letter grade, but a B+ can easily turn into an A-.


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196,293 I had three serious relationships before I met my wife, I just realized that each of them named one of their sons the same name as one of mine.  No duplication either.
What are the odds?


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196,292 There are no locks on the bathrooms in my house. This is a fancy upscale house with high end doors. The lock mechanism is there, but I intentionally removed the pin you push in to engage the lock. No pin means the door can't lock. My children have complained about this. They've complained a lot. I joke with them about it. I tell them they are lucky because they each have their own private bathroom in their own private bedroom and horror of horrors people in other houses actually share bathrooms. OMG!

I've never told them why I removed the pins.  

When my son was one, my wife was mad at me. I don't recall what it was about. But she gets mad at everything. She decided to show her power over me. She grabbed our son and ran with him to his bathroom. She locked the door and told me in a menacing voice how she was going to give him a bath. She turned on the water.

She then said things like "Gee I hope he doesn't drown..." and "I sure hope I didn't make the water too hot - it would be a shame if he was burned...." and "I'm putting him in the tub now. I sure am sleepy. I hope I don't doze off because he could slip under the water...."

I was pounding on the door this whole time. But she refused to unlock it. I then kicked the door open, breaking the door jamb.

A few things changed after that day.  

1) I always gave the kids their bath. Always. Never once did I let her give the kids a bath again.

2) I forced her to go into therapy, both individual and couples therapy,  and told her I'd call the police if she didn't go.

3) I removed the pins from all the bathroom locks in the house.

In hindsight I should have left with the kids. I was afraid the courts would give her custody though. I was in a tough situation. I reasoned it was better to be near the kids so I could look out for them, a role I've had to play often, although my wife never again made a death threat.

I do believe my wife realizes she went too far, but I don't know how she doesn't feel more guilty about her actions.

Anyway, the one residual from that infamous day, the bathroom locks don't work. I've never had the guts to tell my children why. The youngest is in high school now. Maybe one day when they are full grown adults I'll explain.

PS; I've included a picture of the doorknob with the pin missing to show that yes, really, my wife acted out in this way.




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196,291 I think I miss the cam chats the most, our schedules didn't allow us to meet in person often enough so we ended up face timing alot and having virtual sex.....I miss seeing you use your collection of toys and knowing that you had bought each new one specifically with my watching enjoyment in mind.


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196,289 An all too typical interaction with my wife.

It was hot yesterday. The central air conditioning stopped working last night. My wife got so angry at me. Why me? I didn't break it. But this is what she does. If things aren't exactly to her liking, I must be blamed.

She demanded I call the air conditioning guy and have him come right away.

This morning I call. He says he's very busy with the hot weather, but he can fit me in tomorrow morning. He says he has an app on his phone and I will get a confirmation email shortly. Sure enough, a minute later his email arrives. I forward it to my wife.

She calls me livid as hell. I'm paraphrasing her words but it was something like:

"You fucking idiot. I told you to get him here asap. But you can't even do that. He's coming on July 11th? I have to await over a week for air conditioning? You are worthless. You're not a good husband. You're not a good provider. You are a lazy awkward piece of shit that can't even take care of a simple thing like getting the air conditioner fixed. "

I say to her, "He's coming tomorrow morning. Not July 11th."

She responded with more yelling saying, "No, you are lying to me. What a moron you are. You don't think I can tell you are lying? It's in his email. It says he'll come on July 11th. You're such a stupid fool. You can't even lie correctly."

I say, "No, his email says tomorrow July 3rd."

"Liar!"

I tell her to look on her phone and read the email. She tells me she already read the email and there's no reason to read it again.

I insist she reads the email. She finally relents.It says:

"This is to confirm an appointment on Tuesday July 3rd at 11 AM."

She's silent.

I point out she must have read the email too quickly the first time and thought it said Tuesday July 11th.

She's silent.

I tell her I wish she would treat me better. I did nothing wrong and it was her making the mistake.

She's still silent.

I ask if she feels the need to apologize.

She hangs up.

This is my wife. In my view, this is every wife. I'm so tired of women abusing men. I don't need to be treated like a king. Not at all. I'm just looking to be treated with a little bit of decency. Is that too much to ask from a wife?


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196,288 How do women enjoy sex while on their periods?!
I don’t even want him to hug me! I feel gross, I look gross, and I’m not interested in getting laid when my vagina is in the middle of murdering itself, because I don’t want a stupid baby!2’ossl


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196,287 I've notice in this past year I drool when exercising.  I don't know what this is about. A symptom of getting older???


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196,286 Haven’t seen my husband for one month. We “had” sex last night, but neither of us finished...we just laid together for a few minutes before I decided to get dressed.

We’ve been together a year and a half (married).
We’re both in our mid 20’s.


I thought I really missed him, but I didn’t feel any different when I finally saw him after the few weeks he’s been gone. I had a dream a few nights ago. I even woke up in an amazing mood, but I recollected the dream and realized I was with my ex, and not my husband.
I think that’s why my emotions are at a stand still. I’m somewhere where I don’t think I’m supposed to be, but I’m also stuck.
Life is hard.


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196,285 Is it true that attractive 25-year old women can be sexually interested in 48-year old men?  Please, somebody, tell me that this is true... and tell me what I have to look for in a young woman to know she's interested.


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196,284 I fantasize about you dying on a regular basis. I know this is horrible, but I can't help it. Deep down I wonder if that is the only way I will truly get closure.


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196,283 Honestly, I think we are taking things too fast relationship-wise, to a place I don't think I'm emotionally ready to be. I am afraid to tell you this for fear of ending everything completely. I don't think I can go back to the mediocre sex I had with every guy before you. So I will continue to go with the flow and continue to remind you that I can't be your girlfriend.


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196,282 I keep thinking about my ex-boyfriend. He was so good to me. I know I messed things up bc I wasn't ready to let him into my life. I hope he's happy. I hope he's found someone who loves him better than I did.


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196,281 I almost said it. It almost came out of my mouth.
Last night in the hot tub, the drinks were flowing, and my wife's sister and I were the last ones conscious. She got up to sit on the side, right next to me, and I rested my arm across her knee.
I was "that close" to telling her I wanted to eat her pussy. That I wanted to pinch her nipples and watch her face while I made her cum.
But no. She's made it clear she doesn't like sex with her husband, or actually, she doesn't like sex. That doesn't stop her from wearing a tiny sexy bikini or flirting with guys. Yet she makes it clear she doesn't like sex. But I almost said it. I could picture my ears pressed against her thighs, and her clit between my lips. I would do it, but I'm stopped by the way she talks shit about not liking sex.



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196,280 One day I was in a foul mood at the world. I said "Fuck you God."

Next morning I got up and a tree had fallen in my yard. It fell exactly between my car and my house. Didn't damage anything. It was like a miracle.

I think God was showing me his power.


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196,279 I had a long time crush on a gorgeous woman that started when I was very young, somewhere about the age of 13. I carried the crush for years and it only intensified over that time.  Fast forward to my early twenties, when I happen to see my crush.  We sit and talk easily for an hour.  The chat is a little sexy, and in my mind, she is attracted to me.  Nothing happens.  Fast forward a couple more years when I cross paths with this woman again. We talk, and she flat out asks me if I play women.  I didn't know how to answer, because I really had never considered myself to be the kind of guy to be a player and attract more than one woman. Years pass and finally my crush is realized.  Off and on, through good times and bad times (mostly my fault) I get to spend time with this woman.  

2018 - I am no longer in touch with this woman, but I do miss talking with her and being close with her.  I think you still read this. I'm not going to interrupt your life, but I miss you, and regret all the bad times and pain I caused you. I hope you are happy, healthy, and enjoying life on your terms.  


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196,278 I wish I didn't have so much hair on the back of thighs and my ass. It's annoying to shave/nair but it's unseemly for a woman to look that way so off it goes.


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196,277 When I first started going to my parish church (Roman Catholic), I thought it was pretty weird that the priest talked about spiritual warfare and the spiritual importance of current and coming world events. I thought he was a little kooky, because Catholic priests don't talk like that.

Now I think the guy was ahead of his time. Something big, something BIG, is afoot. Something massive is about to break. It's not just me; a lot of people are feeling it. I just pray it will end in a victory for good over evil.


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196,276 I purchase my friends baby items before they have their baby. Because I want them to know that I will be their to lean on if they need me. Being a mother is tough. It is even tougher when you are a single mother. Or worse yet, having a partner who is not 100% committed to raising the child to the best of their ability.

Young women, please don't have a child until you can raise it 100% on your own. Sometimes things happen, and life does not turn out how you envision it is going to be.





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196,275 Indiana doesn’t even believe in providing grade school children with textbooks. They make parents pay out of pocket for it. So little value for education and intelligence.

I think it’s a secret to other “Hoosiers” that almost the rest of the nation is done by this through taxes, like normal decent human beings that care about the children of their society.


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196,274 I recently started on antidepressants. Before this I was sad all the time and unmotivated. I couldn't get out of bed and didn't take good care of myself. The meds have helped but I'm afraid they'll lower my sex drive.

I have been celibate for 3 years for a number of reasons but reconnected with an old flame. We have plans to get together and I'm worried I won't be as wet as he remembers.


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196,273 I’m in love with him, and he is with me, and instead of floating around being happy, I’m crying because I’m terrified I will get hurt. Anxiety sucks.


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196,272 If my new job comes through I'm leaving my wife. Meanwhile, even though I asked her not to tell anyone I'm up for a new job, she told the world. There's more money involved and I hear her on the phone talking about all the things she's going to buy. She doesn't get it. She won't have access to any of it. I'm going to file the divorce paperwork before the new job begins.


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196,271 My first love and I ended things halfway through college but stayed friendly for the most part. I just thought he needed to grow up and it wouldn't be a sustainable relationship outside of the bubble of college. I moved out of state and ended up meeting my worst nightmare and while on a visit to my hometown, I ran into the Ex. He was engaged to another woman, but that didn't stop us from sleeping together while I was back. I returned to where I was living (with the Worst Nightmare) and we became pregnant with my oldest. The Ex called one night, intoxicated, and said he heard I was pregnant. I said that was correct. He asked if it was his. I said no, and he became rather upset about that. Keep in mind, he was still engaged. I left - more like fled - the Worst Nightmare, the Ex married his fiancee, and he and I didn't talk for awhile.

About a year later, the Worst Nightmare had yet to show any consistent or genuine interest in our child, so the child and I moved back to my home town, and the Ex and I ended up at law school together. We stayed friendly, but platonic. A few years after that, the Ex divorced his wife. He texted one night saying he was out at a bar listening to music and I should come down. It was late and I had no sitter, so I had to politely pass.

Four years later, I've since married (not entirely happily), and he's living with another woman (I assume happily, but I have no idea). My secret - I will forever regret not lying and just saying the baby was his. I will forever regret not calling a friend to stay with the baby so I could have met up with him that night. Who knows what might have happened. I think about it and regret it more than what's probably normal for a married woman. I don't know if the Ex ever thinks of me in the same way, and I think the ship sailed too long ago to ever find out.


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196,270 Dunno about Q...whether he/she/they are legit or not, it seems their followers are all blowing smoke about the usual suspects: the Freemasons, the Illuminati, the Jews are behind it all. Heard that all before, can't get worked up about it. Now if Q started saying Stephen Colbert, Rachel Maddow, and NPR are working together to destroy America, I'd buy that...


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196,269 I'm still very friendly with my high school boyfriend from 43 years ago. I love how we kept our friendship going all these years. I'm married. He's married. Doesn't matter. We have been a major constant in each other's lives. My secret, one day before I die I will sleep with him again.


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196,268 A sandwich always tastes better if you turn it into a panini.


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196,267 Don't they have ladders in Mexico? Imagine a $100 billion wall project thwarted by a $100 ladder....


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196,266 I am the aunt who wrote about my niece who was pregnant while addicted to heroin. I was asking her to come live with me because my husband's family doesn't care about this young woman. My original posting has faded away and doesn't show up in the recent comment search so I thought I'd put an update here.

It's been almost two months since she gave birth. The mom was in the hospital for 10 days. The baby was in the hospital for much longer. Then the baby came home for a day. I was hopeful. But there were complications and the baby was rushed back to the hospital. The baby is still in the hospital. Basically the baby has spent 59 of the first 60 days in the hospital.It breaks my heart. Do not do heroin! I'm not talking about some impoverished inner city teen with nothing else going for her. I'm talking about a white middle class girl who had everything going for her.

The hospital bill is now over $600,000. It's not over yet. The baby isn't close to coming home. I'm not sure the baby will ever come home. I tear up writing that. There is talk that the baby isn't going to make it.


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196,265 I've been texting/snapchatting a guy for about three weeks and all he talks about is himself. Never questions about me.

He lives across the country, but isn't it polite to ask about the other person? Ugh.


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196,264 Yup, it’s me. It’s official. I’m an ass because I’m me.
In the past two days, I’ve been the normal me, except for the part where I asked about why people acted awkward around me. I hate this feeling.
My daughter wanted to laugh but couldn’t, but she said if I wasn’t her dad it would have been funny.
My SIL did laugh, then left, and later said it was weird because her husband is my brother.
My wife just gave me a weird look and cursed at me.
I’m not being creepy or gross, I’m just trying to fit in.  Everyone used to think I was funny but now I’m creepy. I didn’t change. I don’t know why I’m suddenly a creeper.
Fuck everyone. I’m going to take a road trip and steal a boat. I’ll have a bottle of whiskey and ignore the hate that’s being pushed towards me.  I did nothing wrong but everyone is mad at me. I don’t get it. I’ll get drunk and float away and remove their reason for drama for whatever secret thing I did to make them upset.


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196,263 Look up the secured fence act of 2006.


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196,262 The google images search engine appears to have many photos I think are illegal. How can they get away with presenting these images to the public? Do laws not apply to companies if they are large enough?


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196,261 Think of it. “Thousands protest”. Out of MILLIONS? Kinda shows it isn’t much of an issue to the rest of us. if it was, millions would be protesting, not thousands. When more than 10 to 20 percent of the population show up to protest, then it is time to worry.

The media doesn’t know this and give the protesters more attention than they deserve.  

(from one of the 99%)


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196,260 So, now, all these companies are offering to do free identity scans to see if you have been compromised on the dark web or elsewhere.  Logically, that means that all these companies already have free and easy access to your confidential information, that is, unless you provide it for them, which means that there is yet another entity who now has your personal information.  

The truth is none of us is safe and all of our information is up for grabs by just about anyone who wants it.  And no amount of tossing out money for "protection" is going to save us.  It is just a matter of time before each of us is hacked and abused on the internet in some way.  It's inescapable; that's just the way it is today.


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196,259 I personally know a woman who had a daughter in Sandy Hook elementary school on the day of the shooting. Of course the event shook the woman up. To this day she finds it difficult to discuss. I find this to be very human of her.

Recently she was in a mid-western city for a completely unrelated conference. She didn't know anyone there. She didn't talk to anyone there. She attended a few lectures and that was it.

At lunch time she goes out on the street to find a place to grab lunch. She's waiting to cross the street. A well dressed man in a suit comes up next to her. She thinks nothing of it until he says her name. (She wasn't wearing a name tag.) He then says, "Sandy Hook wasn't what you think. We'll be in touch." Then he walked away into the crowd never to be seen again.

How spooky is that! How the hell did he know she was connected to Sandy Hook? Why did he speak to her when she was 1,000 miles from home? What did his words mean?

I really want to know what is going on.


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196,258 I want to know more about Qanon. Anyone?




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196,257 I would like to masturbate for a woman, a woman I've never met before and will never met again. No touching. I only want her to watch while I make myself cum. It would be so hot.


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196,256 I have a friend that recently got a 'happy ending' massage. His wife found out, and they are now getting a divorce. She's livid pissed off that another women rubbed his dick for two minutes, even though she won't, and it's got her mad enough to ruin their marriage. She's saying he threw away his life because he visited a whore.

Lady, we're all whores in some way. We sell our brains, bodies, and minds in some way. I build websites. A friend of mine fixes plumbing issues, and another treats high blood pressure. One more does massages to fix back strains. So what if this masseuse rubs a dick? She's filling a role others won't, such as you can't be bothered to do. I use my brain, and my friends use their strength. Another is a model, so she sells images of her body.

This one *evil* woman moved her hand up and down for a few minutes, and that heinous act made this wife want to throw away their marriage. I don't get it. Maybe she just wanted an easy way out. I have no respect for her, especially when she demanded half of the savings he had worked so hard for, when she couldn't be bothered to stroke him.


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196,255 Today I found out upskirt cameras are illegal. How can it be illegal to take a photo of something? If you break into their home and trespass, yes it should be illegal. But if I'm in a public place how can it be illegal to take a photo. I understand the right to privacy and all that, but if the woman is in public for gosh sakes and she spreads her legs so all can see, why am I at fault for snapping a picture?


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196,254 My house guests are gone. Phew. Now I can masturbate again.


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196,253 This is what I do for people.




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196,252 All I had to say was,

“Hey, do you have any plans today? Would you like to grab some lunch with me?”

I mean they were staring at me, waiting for me to say something…anything. But instead, I shook their hand and said “It was nice meeting you.” and then avoided them.

I’m trying really hard to be more social, to make friends and fight this S.A.D. head on. But I can’t. I know myself too well. Even when I take anxiety medication it doesn’t silence my thoughts, and my thoughts have always been louder than my feelings.

I could’ve made a new friend today, a real friend. But instead, in two weeks, I’ll be “celebrating” my fifth year of isolation.

I don’t know if I can keep up anymore.


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196,251 My town is obsessed with two things. 1) Kids sports. You are nothing if you don't play three sports a year. And you are nothing if you're not on the elite travel team. 2) Special Ed. We dump loads of money into Special Ed. It's going to bankrupt our schools.

Now there is a new thing. A combination. This year we have Special Ed sports teams. Not only that, we have a Special Ed travel team - for the elite Special Ed athletes.

Come on....gimme a break.


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196,250 I took the MAGA bumper sticker off my car. I was getting paranoid my car would be vandalized.


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196,249 I would really like to find somebody who thinks I'm pretty AND likes that I'm smart. I'm either a fuck buddy or a friend, never a girlfriend.


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196,248 I agree separating children from parents is bad. But what happens to all the white and minority children in the US when their parents commit crimes and get jail time.

Why all the border attention, what about the thousands of US kids. I'm a minority and feel we've been forgotten!


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196,247 Guys are only as faithful as their options. Women, you are delusional if you are dating a hot guy who has alot "of friends".


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196,246 My husband sleeps in on Saturdays. I get up early to go to yard sales. I always take his company credit card and put enough gas in my car to last the week. Then slip it back in his wallet before he gets up. No one has ever noticed.


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196,245 I wish you were dead


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196,244 I know of this gentleman who worked as a film editor. He lived in Southern California and everyday he was in a booth surrounded by electronic editing equipment. He was very good at it and won an Academy Award. At a fairly young age though he came down with a brain tumor and died.

I have a friend who was then hired to take over the first guy's work. My friend did this for a few years and then also came down with a brain tumor at a young age. My friend died.

This can't be a coincidence. I don't know what's causing the cancer. These two men were surrounded by electronics 8 hours a day. Maybe there is something given off? I don't know. But they are dead and of course their employer won't look into it or take responsibility.


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196,243 My house is for sale. I have a broker. She's pretty good. I have no problem with her. But there is another broker in town who has brought two separate clients here. The first time he came he said my kitchen is "dated" and therefore no one would ever buy the house. He said it with a sneering tone. I was like what? This house is beautiful, especially the kitchen. The cabinets are cherry wood. There are tile back splashes, granite counters, and wide-plank floors. It's the nicest kitchen I've ever seen.

The second time he came by he said there are problems with the roof. He said all the shingles need to be replaced. I was again like what? The shingles are cedar shakes. They are stunning looking. There's nothing wrong with them. They were put in place 10 years ago when the house was built. They will last 50 years. Like what the hell, why is he telling people the roof has problems?

My broker called me today. She said the nasty broker wants to bring another client by tomorrow. I told her no. He's banned. He's never allowed in my house again. I might miss out on selling my house tomorrow, but I don't care. I don't deal with nasty people who play messed up mind games.


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196,242 I'm sexually attracted to a 66 year old woman! She takes care of herself. She's petite. She's spunky. She's intelligent. She laughs a lot and says naughty things. I'd really like to fuck her. I'm male and 35 (and married).


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196,241 Sometimes I just want to be gone.  As in… “Did she ever exist, or did I just imagine her?  Who was she, anyway?  What was her name?  Was I talking about someone? What WAS I talking about?  Who wants pizza?  What’s on TV?  Anyone got some weed?”

That level of gone. If I could erase myself from this or that person’s memory, I’d do it in a fingersnap.

It’s not that I want to cease to exist, I’m not self-destructive or suicidal at all.  It’s just… I want to take whatever part of myself I gave to them back into me, and completely eliminate whatever negative influence that person had on me.  And then disappear to where I can no longer be affected by any of it.  

I don’t just want to end some relationships; I want to delete them entirely.  I want them to never have happened.


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196,240 I had a relapse last year and started smoking again. I quit 21 years ago and kept myself healthy during that time.  I’ve tried to reduce the amount I smoke,  tried gum and exercise.  Any ideas would be welcome from those who’ve struggled with the same thing. It’s idiotic and self destructive, but I just don’t want to quit bad enough.


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196,239 So glad I don’t have to do stocktake anymore!!!!  


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196,238 I'm a Queen of Spades and I need to find my Sir.


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196,237 Am I going to get back a patient or a partner?
A lot of it is up to you, dear one...
But only time will tell


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196,236 If Roe vs Wade is overturned, medical professionals will do as they have done in the past and band together to offer safe, affordable abortions to women who need them. Jane Collective will make a comeback. Unfortunately, women (mothers, wives, daughters, sisters, etc) will die from infection/perforated uterus/hemorrhage also, because they won’t be aware of collectives like Jane. Abortion is inevitable, and safe abortion is necessary.


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196,235 Within a year abortion might once again be illegal. I'm relieved. When I was much younger I went along with the idea of abortion and women's rights. Then I had children. Children are great. It changed my way of thinking. How could we ever have allowed women to kill their babies because it was inconvenient to be pregnant. It makes me cry thinking about it. I'm very glad we will have the chance to undo that mistake. I can't say this out loud to my friends yet, but hopefully by next year I won't get beaten up for saying we shouldn't be killing babies.


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196,234 When I was in my early 20s I used to drink a lot to cover my shyness.  I had zero inhibitions that way, I was also quite promiscuous.  I remember one time being at a very fancy hotel bar wearing a short tight dress and letting an older man fondle and finger me from behind. I remember waking up the next morning hung over and feeling so disgusted with myself. I’m going to be 45 years old soon and I am still so disgusted with myself. It makes me so sad that I had such lack of self worth.  


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196,233 I still masterbate to the thought of you bent over my knee that first time and how I slid up your dress and your thong down before I finished.....what happened after was great too but the idea that I was the first to give you a proper spanking makes the memory so special




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196,232 I thought you looked beautiful today.


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196,231 I'm a misogynist. I am. I admit it. I don't see the need to hide it anymore. There was a time I kept it secret, but why? Women behave badly. I grew to hate them for it. If anything the women should be ashamed. Not me.

I have an example. It was the first time I questioned if women are good people. I was about 25. As a birthday present for my then girlfriend,  I rented a beach house for a week. She invited along about 10 of her friends. A free week at the beach for everyone. Great.

We went on a Saturday. It was good fun for all. My girlfriend and I shared quite a bit of private time. We expressed our love for each other. We were clearly soulmates. I realized this is the woman I'm going to marry.

On our 6th day, the Friday, I got a call from work. An emergency. I had to go back to the city three hours away. Damn. I couldn't avoid it. I said goodbye to everyone and to my girlfriend. She was sad but I'd see her the next day when she returned to the city herself.

I got back to the city Friday afternoon. I put out the fire at work. It took a number of hours, but all fixed. Then I thought, you know what, I'm all alone with nothing to do. Why don't I travel back to the beach house. I wouldn't get there til midnight, but no matter. I'll be there to help pack up in the morning.

So that's what I did. I drove back to the house.

When I arrived I could see the light on in my girlfriend's bedroom. I bounded up the stairs, swung open the door ready to give her a big surprise smooch....

You probably know where this is going.

She was there alright. She was naked and fucking some guy I've never seen before. Twelve hours earlier she professed her love for me. And here she was fucking a random stranger.

Every woman I dated after that beach house girl was the same way. I learned to never trust a woman again. Women disgust me. Oh I need them sometimes. I'll fuck one sometimes. But a relationship? A marriage? Never happening for me.

I saw a documentary recently. It was about a guy on death row. He was a killer. An awful person. The documentary explored his background. They made the point that he started as a good person but society failed him. He kept getting beaten down by the system. Eventually he murdered some people.

So was he totally to blame for being on death row? Or should society share in that blame?

Yes, I'm a misogynist. But is this because I'm an awful person, or should women take some responsibility? Women created me.


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196,230 I was thinking about the women I was 'in love' with back in younger days. You know, the ones I pined over and made a fool of myself over. Stupid.

I was never in love. I wanted to fuck 'em and they preferred to get naked with someone else and that pissed me off.

A lot of wasted time there.


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196,229 I had a job interview today. I'm filled with self doubt. I'm replaying everything I said and wish I had said it differently. Who knew I was so insecure?


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196,228 You're dealing with a lot and I'm not being very inderstanding. I'm being very selfish in wanting your time. At the same time, you offered it. And it was hurtful for you to lie to her and say you were alone while I was sitting next to you.

I wish you wouldn't pick girlfriends/dates/whatever who are upset by the fact that we are friends. I'm not a threat to her. We are just friends.

It makes me think that she can't handle my being around. It makes me dislike her for being so weak to be that insecure and it makes me angry with you for letting it continue.

I think I'm gonna lay low for a while. See if you really want to be friends.


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196,227 How do I know I love you and it is not just nostalgia? Because if I win the lottery, I would send you a whole pile of money (maybe even anonymously) just to make your life easier, even though you are married to someone else now.  For all that you did for me. <3


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196,226 A lot of these "secrets" are planted by Russians and others who work to sway public opinion.  Don't believe it, but it's very, very true anyway.  So ...  there's your secret.


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196,225 I don't understand it when people go on vitriolic rants about "the left." Insults flying everywhere, no real criticisms. Political parties are inherently flawed and each side has actual, real problems with their policies and culture....but when it comes to discussion, words like "stupid" "entitled" "whiny" and other personal attacks show up. Same thing for when people rant about "the right." No real criticisms, all personal attacks.

I have never actually met one of the "stereotypical" right or left wing caricatures. Want to know why? They don't exist. Extremists from both parties made up these stereotypes in order to invalidate the other side. What young teenagers post on their social media doesn't constitute the entire alignment of a political party, and if anything we should encourage young people to take an interest in politics.

I pretend (around coworkers, friends, family) to nod along when political discussions come up. Doesn't matter what side they're on. Opinions about the literal "Game of Thrones" being held by the political elite is not going to be the catalyst that ruins my relationships with people I care about. I cast my vote come election time and keep my mouth shut otherwise.


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196,224 I walked into the lounge at work and saw a person sitting in a  chair.  It took me a moment to realize that it was one of the attractive young women in the office, and that she was looking back at me.  We were both looking at each other directly in the eyes for probably 2 to 3 seconds before we calmly shifted our glances away from each other.  It was weird for two people who never talk to each other.  I guess we caught ourselves staring at each other.


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196,223 Some people are obsessed with sizes , which I find silly since different brands use different measurements on their size charts . I buy a lot of U.K. designed clothes and people get shock when I tell them I wear anywhere between a 16UK to 10 UK which in the US is equivalent of 12 to an 8 size wise and the only reason I go up in clothing size it's because the biggest part of my measurements is my chest which are very not because I'm obese but genetically I'm build the way even in my skinny days I have always have big boobs. I used to weight between 112 to 130 and was wearing a size 34 DDD on bras now after nursing, gaining some weight and hormones problems my weight it's been up and down but I'm still build the same , big boobs almost flat stomach but just thicker .


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196,222 I'm not sure if he likes my body or if he just tolerates it because he likes my sex. Wet pussy and good head can overcome a lot of things.


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196,221 I know a woman who wont stop talking about herself. She says everything and anything that comes to mind. What a damned annoying chatterbox. Whenever anyone mentions anything, the chatterbox cuts them off and rambles on for the next 10 minutes about her own views on the topic. It's endless. It's painful. I'm forced to sneak away to another room so we won't get interrupted by the chatterbox. Like holy shit how can the woman be so blind to what she is doing? People amaze me in how self centered they are.



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196,220 I cannot decide if I should relocate with my lover to fight a worthy fight or stay with my husband and adventure to warmer climes. Which we can finally afford to do. I am not in love with my husband, but madly so with my lover. I find myself struggling less with the relationship choices than the chasm between stand and fight or run and play.


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196,219 I made eye contact with somebody today and quickly looked away.  When I glanced back she was staring at me.  I always wonder, when people are looking at me, if it’s because they find me ugly or attractive?


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196,218 I'm trying to find sympathy for the newspaper and staff in today's shooting, but I have none. What did they expect? The media has put forth ugliness for the past two years. Lies and more lies. Someone got mad and killed them. I am not surprised by this. Cause and effect.

Oh yes yes we don't need loony gunmen running around.

But maybe the media industry can look at themselves to see if they share in some of the blame.


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196,217 My parents never took us to Toys R Us so I don't care that it's closing.


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196,216 My neighbor resembles Popeye.  He’s annoying like him too.


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196,215 Should never have to ask your partner if they love you, if you look good, or where your relationship is going. You should already know the answers because they should always make that known to you. If you don't know, if you have doubts, run.


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196,214 There’s always that weird unspoken thing that women use the bathroom quietly that I never understood.  Because I don’t do that.  I don’t care if anyone hears me peeing or shitting or whatever noises gross them out.  If I am in the ladies’ room, I am going to get as much waste as I can out of my body as quckly as I can no matter what.


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196,213 I come to the realization you just an angry troll , you blame your problems on everyone but yourself and you think you are tough guy but carrying a gun looking for a comfrotantion as an excuse to use it . Please get professional help for your mental problems and before you call me names . I'm married to a long time Republican and while I don't agree with my husband on everything, you are the reason why a lot people think bad of them , my husband it's not a racist, doesn't hate the poor or immigrant s like you . You are probably one of those Republican s who are uneducated, low class that hates everything.


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196,212 My secret. I really want a nutty liberal to attack me for wearing a tee shirt or hat that supports my country. I know I should just turn the other cheek and walk away, however the fire that burns inside of me may come out in a violent way.

This scares me. I'm afraid of what I will do. I have built a good life and become wealthy and that would be taken from me.

But that fantasy of finishing someone off persists. Am I alone in this?


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196,210 What are the reasons a husband wouldn’t want to touch his wife? Why is it I always must initiate sex? I keep myself clean, fit and I’m always willing and able. I have dressed up sexy for him when we go out on dates. I massage his shoulders and scratch his back. I rub my butt against him at night, I wear few clothes to bed. He sleeps with his back to me. He doesn’t hold me. He doesn’t kiss me unless I kiss him. At night, I’ll lean over and give him a few kisses and he will kiss back but then turns his head away and acts like he just wants to go to sleep. What the hell? I’m attractive. I’m still young. I have a sex drive and I love him to boot, so I just don’t get the problem, and my addressing the issue is always met with something along the lines of me not feeling happy enough or I always want more or I’m being selfish or the many other number of excuses that always exist that prevent a married couple from having alone time. It’s true, I’m not happy because I don’t feel wanted by the person I married. I don’t want to leave a marriage and family but I don’t know how long I can feel this way. It’s painful.


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196,209 Sometimes people looks down us but I don't care at the end , we have what many ( haters) wish they had. So at the end , me and my family win , you can hate on us all you want you still going to be living paycheck by paycheck, while we might have problems but money it's not one of them .


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196,208 Parents of children with Downs Syndrome think it's not fair their kids don't go to college. They have put pressure on universities and their demands have been met. Young adults with intellectual disabilities will now be able to enroll in any of 270 different schools. They have an IQ of 70. There is no way they can comprehend the course material. Yet they will be students at schools for higher learning. This is ridiculous. Just stop it!

link:

https://www.disabilityscoop.com/2018/06/27/more-colleges-intellectual/

(This is a secret because in our current environment, I'm not allowed to publicly point out how ridiculous this is.)


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196,207 I work with a guy [I am a guy] who can't help but curse every minute. "Fuck" this, "shithead" that, you "suck cock". He's the filthiest speaker I've ever encountered. Like what am I supposed to do though? I can't tell the guy to stop. It's part of the culture here. Many of the guys curse now and then, just not as much as this one guy. It's a trading room, an all boys industry. It would be the kiss of death for my career to act sensitive about it. I basically have to tolerate the language or quit. Not fair.


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196,206 When I get a little down, I watch election night 2016 videos.  I get a renewed sense of purpose.
- M 45, married to a pussy hat wearing Hillary supporter whom I can NEVER talk politics with


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196,205 All I want right now is his cum all over my face and deep in my pussy.


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196,204 I dreamt of my ex last night. He took my hands, and looked into my eyes. Smirked, and said, “how I’ve missed you.”

I woke up immediately and had to catch my breath, because my gasp for a breath collided into my tears, and I almost fainted.
Maybe your first love lasts much longer than everyone says..maybe it’s not really your first true love if it doesn’t haunt you forever.

Either way...I don’t mind loving you forever, R.


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196,203 The Prime Minister of Canada looks to be a teenager. Is he taking time off from high school to run the country?




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196,201 Working in retail for so long has made me hate people. Majority are terrible with no morals. I don’t know how some people sleep at night. When someone is actually nice it catches me off guard and I thank them. Time for a new line of work..


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