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190777.

Normally when I sleep with a woman I don't cum inside. I don't want to risk getting a woman pregnant. Or catching and/or spreading a disease. Who needs those headaches.

But I recently slept with a married woman. Without even asking I cam inside her. Whoosh, I filled up her pussy with cum.

In thinking back, I slept with a different married woman about 10 years earlier. Same thing. I came inside her.

Interesting to me that when it comes to single women, I don't cum inside. But the two married women I've slept if, without asking I cum inside.

I think it is a territorial instinct on my part. I want to leave my semen in a married woman. It's a message to her husband. I want him to find it in there. I want him to know I was there before him. It's like I'm marking my territory with semen.


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190776.

These days, almost every TV commercial you see is for medicines; pharmaceuticals.  The commercials usually seem overlong, because they have to take so much time listing the side-effects.  Often, by the time the side-effects list is over, I have forgotten what the original purpose of the drug was.  I also notice that, most often, one of the side effects will be a worsening of the original malady.  It seems that almost all drugs have the potential of making an illness worse.  

They don't talk about the long-term effects of these drugs, but with all those side-effects, I can't imagine they would be too good over time.  I think that the long-term effects of some of these medicines will be horrendous and devastating for some in the future.

I went to the doctor yesterday for a skin infection.  Looking at my record, the attendant nurse could tell I had not been in for healthcare in years.  She scolded me for not having a family doctor and began listing the tests I should have the doctor schedule for me.  She even included those magic words no one had used for me before, "at your age!)  I am sixty.  I listened politely and nodded appropriately, but I have no intention of following through with her suggestions.  I will not set myself up for the doctors to start killing me with their pharmaceuticals.  That nurse was shocked when I told her that I don't take any medicines; she couldn't believe it.  But, I don't take medicines because I don't need any.  Sometimes things hurt.  Aches and pains are a part of life; I've learned to live with mine.  Everything does not need a pill!  We have turned completely into a drug and drugged culture.  And, once you start taking a lot of that stuff, you can never safely stop -- not until it finally kills you.

But, you know, we are just so managed and manipulated; have you ever thought of how utterly, utterly ridiculous it is to have prescription medicines pushed through TV commercials???  Who among us is qualified to make those decisions, yet they push it upon us like were buying candy bars!  These are prescription drugs with the power to damage and kill, yet they are in our faces all day, every day, constantly telling us, "Try this!  Try this!"  Please don't!  Think long and hard before you go down that road.  And finally, during your analysis of this, ask yourself this:  Who Benefits!  Who benefits from all this advertising and distribution of drugs?  Okay?


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190775.

I don't want to do anything except watch movies. I don't like anything about me or my life. Movies let me be somewhere else.


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190774.

My son will go nowhere in life.   I can tell already.   He's only 15 but I can just tell.   It makes me so sad.


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190773.

I don't feel that I owe my happiness to anyone. My anger is mine, just as my scars. Sometimes I glimpse light through the cracks, but as soon as I turn to catch my periphery it's changed its direction. It's nice to have something to chase, and I guess I should be grateful although I don't remember asking anyone to turn off the night.


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190772.

It's nice to end things on a good note, or see things gradually evolve into something else so that you have time to acclimate. Relationship drama leaves too many unanswered questions. I don't want to live my life like that, and I don't want to assume the worst in people. When I look back on these unresolved friendships, I can clearly see that there was no *loyalty* there. It takes courage because you want to believe that no one could be that cruel or empty inside.


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190771.

I wish I was rich enough for someone to bathe me everyday.


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190770.

I'm looking forward to getting divorced and starting over.


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190769.

When I was a kid I worried about where my next meal would come from. Contrast that with my nephew. I heard him complaining recently. This summer he dropped his iphone in the hottub while vacationing in Greece. Modern day problems. Kids today don't know how good they have it.


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190768.

My strongest childhood memories are of my dad lounging around the house on weekends, watching endless TV, drinking a case of beer, while wearing his boxers and a grubby Italian T shirt. These visions are embedded in my brain. I wish I could have them burned out of my memory cells.


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190767.

When I was a bachelor I never once cooked a meal. I'd go out to eat or get take out. I miss those days. Now my wife fancies herself to be a good cook. She makes ambitious creations, that sorry, are not nearly as good as restaurant food. Not even close. With the added negative bonus that we waste a huge amount of time shopping for food, cooking, and then cleaning. I hate washing dishes. It's a pain in the ass. I'm longing for my bachelor days.


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190766.

762 - it's called borderline personality disorder. Look it up.


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190765.

Imagine if it was a woman running for governor and she had slept with fifty guys. That would almost certainly  be a deal breaker....


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190764.

The is a story in the news about a guy running for Governmor in Ohio. He's in trouble because he once mentioned that he's slept with 50 women.

Ummmmmm, I've slept with more than that. I've never thought of this as a flaw in my character. I'm a nice guy. I like women. They like me. We sleep together. How wrong and judgmental to say a guy is a bad person because women like him and want to be with him.

As a society, we go way too far in trying to tell others what is wrong and right.


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190763.

FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL NEVER LET YOU GO TO SLEEP WONDERING IF YOU STILL MATTER.


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190762.

My wife is unstable. It's like she has an undiagnosed mental illness. She gets angry over nothing. It's like a switch flips in her head and look out world. She does this to me. She does it to total strangers. We'll be in a restaurant having a pleasant conversation over dinner when out of nowhere she calls the waitress over and starts yelling because our water glasses aren't completely full. My wife never asked to have the water filled. She just starts yelling. Everyone in the restaurant was watching. It was terribly embarrassing.

An amazing part to me is that the smallest of things set her off in the biggest of ways. If someone crashed into her car, okay, I get it if she yells at the other driver. But that's not the case with my wife. She instead explodes in rage when people do innocent innocuous things. The lady at the cash register gave my wife change as five $1 bills because she was momentarily out of $5 bills. To the rest of us, no big deal. To my wife, this is an insult worthy of starting World War III.  There must be a medical term for this where my wife's reactions aren't in synch with what's warranted for the situation. My wife doesn't seem to know the level difference between, eh, things just happen sometimes like the cashier has no more $5 bills, and a mass murderer wants to slit her throat. My wife always assumes the latter -- that everyone purposefully does things to my wife to cause great harm and torment.

This isn't sustainable. My wife needs to be medicated or she needs to be checked into a metal hospital. I can't keep tiptoeing around, afraid to interact with her for fear she will ignite a new firestorm because the point on her pencil broke.


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190761.

#760, I wish I knew if you are male or female....


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190760.

I just LOVE to masturbate! It truly is my very favorite thing to do! I'll typically masturbate 8 to 10 times every day, and I find the more I do it, the more I WANT to do it! I'd heard that masturbation is considered obsessive when it interferes with your daily life, however, I realiize I have the opposite problem; daily life intereferes with my masturbation! I used to have several hobbies - writing and performing music, woodworking, and experimenting with electronic gadgets, but now I have no interest at all in ANYthing but masturbating! Yet, as pathetic as that may sound, I realize I have NEVER been happier in my life, than I am when I masturbate! My mother used to tell me that if I didn't learn to control myself, I'd eund up in a padded cell somewhere, but honestly, I'm THRILLED with the idea! I'd just crawl in the corner and masturbate every day, masturbate every night, masturbate all day long, masturbate, masturbate all night long, masturbate, masturbate, masturbate, masturbate over & over & over & over again and again and again!!!!


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190759.

Go drinking with a couple buddies every Friday night and one is a multi-millionaire and us other two are middle class.  The other guy thinks his drinks should be paid for by the rich guy every time we go out.  He always asks if he is going to pick up the tab.

He is a tight fucker.  A couple of Fridays ago I bought the millionaire his dinner and drinks because it was his birthday.  I also bought this other guy's dinner and drinks...he had about eighty beers.  I buy the millionaire guy beers every now and then because absolutely everyone else he has contact with has their hands out for money.

Anyway, I picked up the tab.  On Sunday I showed up at the bar to watch the last half of a football game.  I had two beers.  I took out 15 bucks to cover the cost and the other cheap guy told me to put my money away, that I got it last time.  

So I bought him dinner and 8 drinks and he bought me two drinks, and that is even?  Christ people piss me off.


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190758.

I thought you were my soul sister until I realized that you're just another narcisstic bitch. Miserable AF with a hypocritical streak like nobody's business. Enjoy your shitty self because I refuse to be victims of people like you. You had such a beautiful soul until you fucked it up with the nastiness you grew like a fucking tree.
Don't trust anyone who discounts abuse. That's your first sign you are dealing with a cold heartless person devoid of human feeling. Have a nice life being angry, asshole!


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190757.

I fucking hate Christmas.


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190756.

I love living in Los Angeles. The weather is really nice and there is never a dull moment here.


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190755.

I can't seem to figure out why people make it their business who other people are fucking. Unless it's your s/o, it's really none of your business, is it? Men are going to fuck men, and women are going to fuck women. And everything in between. In this moment, I'm willing to bet that millions of people are fucking in ways you've never imagined. And guess what? It doesn't affect you one bit.


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190754.

I wish I had someone in my life that would constantly tell me nice things, like my own personal cheerleader telling me not to give up and that I look nice today. When did it become weird to pay someone a compliment?


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190753.

It must be terrible for your parents and siblings. I had a baby brother who die when I was a kid and my mother never fully recovered, she was never the same until this day we don't talk about it with her it's like he never exist it . My father is the one who make sure his grave it's well keep and when he is in town , he goes there to put flowers on his tomb.


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190752.

My wife is constantly looking for something I'm doing wrong. It's a drag being with her. She picks apart everything. I'm holding my fork wrong. I'm watching the wrong news channel on TV. I washed the dishes incorrectly. I drove our daughter to school. It took 20 minutes round trip. It only takes my wife 18 minutes. Which way am I going? She wishes I would think these things out better. She exhausts me.


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Say, wanna have some fun? Post a picture of yourself holding a sign with a secret on it. Don't want to show your face? That's okay. Feel free to be creative, show your fingers or toes or elbows. Racy is even okay. Just as long as it is a picture with a secret.

Come on give it a try. It would be fun.

See the help section for instructions on how to add a picture to a post.




190751.

If men had babies then abortion would be a sacrament.


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190750.

My sister committed suicide when she was 13. Maybe she knew what she was doing, maybe she was like f all the bs the future is going to throw at me. She would have been 30 tomorrow.


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190749.

I wanna leave my memories


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190748.

As soon as I can figure out how to leave my daughter with my father in Arizona and leave my dog in a loving home then I can shot myself in the face peacefully.


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190747.

I miss you so much. I worry about you constantly. I pray and pray that you're okay. There's no way to reach you..I'm afraid I'll always feel this way.


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190746.

I have been the victim of three sexual assault attacks.

First time, I was 17 years old, riding the subway at rush hour to the Uni. We were pressed together like sardines and the man behind me started rubbing against me. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt but when it became clear it was not just an accident I elbowed him, turned around and caught him with his junk hanging out. It was cold and rainy that day (the reason why I rode the subway instead of walking), I was wearing jeans, a sweater, a rain jacket, a hat, scarf and gloves. Hardly suggestive dress.

The second time it happened, I was in my mid-20's and walking my dog around 11pm in the middle of the city on a Friday night. Lots of foot traffic, lots of activity since I was living near the Uni still. My dog was off-leash (it is allowed where I am from) and trotting just a few paces ahead of me. The guy was coming from the other direction and simply jumped on me, pinned me against the building wall and groped my pussy and my boobs. I pushed him off and he trotted away. I became to enraged I ran after him and beat the shit out of him, screaming and kicking and punching him - to the point that people around me stopped and asked what the heck was going on. Someone called the police but by the time they came around, the man had managed to escape me. The police told me there were other reports on the books and that they were looking for that man. I was wearing sweat pants and a sweatshirt. Again, hardly provocative dress.

The third time it happened, I was living in the Caribbean and I was 32. It was 7:30am and I was walking my dog on the beach by my house. I was alone on the beach but I never thought twice about it. My dog was off leash, doing her thing (playing in the surf and chasing crabs down-beach) when three local men suddenly appeared out of nowhere and started crowding me. I tried to ignore them but they closed in on me and tried to rape me. Fighting off THREE men is no small task and I only walked away from it "safe" (besides being black and blue in the face and so tumefied I needed to be off work for 10 days) when my dog realized something was wrong because I was screaming so loudly and she came charging. She suffered a broken rib in the process but she literally saved my life. When that dog died, I was inconsolable for months. Anyhoo, that's besides the point. That morning, I was wearing shorts, a ratty tee shirt, a sun hat and sunglasses.

Besides these 3 violent instances, I have been flashed twice, have caught a man masturbating behind a bush/car twice and was the victim of sexual harassment in the workplace when I was 38 - because I blew the whistle on my aggressor, I was retaliated against and had to go to court to defend myself (I won because I am the wrong woman to mess with and I always, always, always document my interactions with management no matter what).

So please spare me with the "women ask for it". We don't ASK to be violently assaulted. What the fuck is wrong with you????


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190745.

Transgender people exist.

These are people who do not feel as if they are truly the gender they were born into.

It's what we call a mental illness.


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190744.

I used to work with a woman whose child grew up to be a serial killer. She was a nice lady.


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190743.

Let's try this from another angle-if men were capable of getting pregnant, they'd  be able to get an abortion practically anywhere and it low cost. If men were getting raped constantly by women, they would not be making comments about how women should dress more appropriately.

Frankly, most men have no idea what a woman goes through on a daily basis just to avoid predatory males.  It's really fucked up.  

M 52


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190742.

Hmmm... maybe I should let men drink my breast milk for money. Babies are expensive.


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190741.

I shamefully admit I once peed on the floor of a fitting room in a well known department store. It was an emergency. I needed to go so badly. I was in a big city. There were people everywhere on the sidewalks. It's not like I could have ducked behind a tree or anything. Seizing the moment, I ran into the store. I couldn't see a sign for bathrooms, but I did see the sign for the fitting rooms. So.... This is one of the most embarrassing things I've ever done. I can't even escape the memory. Whenever I see the movie Miracle On 34th Street.... Yep that's one.


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190740.

I want to drink from a woman's breast. Real, unfiltered, human milk. I was allowed to try 20 years ago from my wife, but she hated the feeling. There are two women I know who are nursing, but I could never ask. It would be seen as crude. But if I was given the chance, I would do it in a heartbeat.

One girl owes me. She groped me several times as a teen when she was exploring her new sexual urges, so I think it's only fair. But no, that was fine for her, but I'd be the creepy uncle for suggesting proper payback. Maybe if I hit up Craigslist I can pay for it. Maybe.


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190739.

I had to video myself today. I'm being considered for a job. They asked me questions online and I had to answer while being recorded by a webcam. I played back the video. Gosh I can't recall seeing myself on video since forever. 20 years ago in high school we did a few videos for projects, but I don't think I've seen myself since then.

I was really surprised at how I came off. I was personable, warm, and intelligent. When did that happen? When did I become a good guy? I guess 20 years changes a person.  I never realized because I never see myself. That annoying pain in the butt kid from high school turned out okay. I'm pleased.


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190738.

I'm pretty okay with people having abortions, because sometimes I really do wish I was never born. People like to act like life is amazing and a gift to be treasured, but now more than ever I'm starting to notice how shitty it is, unless you were born rich. Which, like, a veryyyy small percentage of the world is. It's not all it's chalked up to be, and we shouldn't feel obligated to bring people into this crazy world. You say all life has value, but really...does it?


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190737.

First of all I don't have anything agains gay people or cross dressers or even transgender.  I just don't get the "lesbian transgender " when I seen docomentaries or shows showing transgender, most of them date men , I also seen straight men who crossed dress but still in relationships with women and considered themselves straight.  Idk I feel like Caitlin Jenner might not be the best person to represent them , she seems like she does it just for attention and money and don't forget she is also a long time republican voter who even back up Trump 😂🤣.  So in other words she is a lesbian transgender republican.


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190736.

731, would you feel the same about those boys if it was your home they broke into and vandalized?   I don't buy into your theory...too many other kids that have been dealt bad hands but don't do things like this.


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190735.

Why stop at transgender lesbian women?
Or LGBT? Or LGBTQ?
There's an infinite number of variables...
Keep going long enough and you will loop back around to the individual. It's the only "group" we belong to anyway.
Real freedom is freedom of the individual.
Groups inherently become tyrannical.


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190734.

Transgender lesbian women exist. Transgender gay men exist. LGBT people are real. Caitlyn Jenner has undergone full surgery and does not have a penis. Decolonize your minds


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190733.

They check your credit before allowing you to open a checking account? why? It's YOUR money! They're not letting you borrow anything! I learned something new today


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190732.

I found out I can get high off gabapentin. It's prescribed for me because I have bipolar disorder but I don't need it because I have other medication that works better. I have to take 15 pills for it to work but it's worth it. The euphoria is amazing and if I take another 15 pills in about an hour after the first dose I stay high for hours. What a wonderful discovery!😏


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190731.

My son is in middle school. He told me three of his friends have being causing trouble after school lets out. There is an office building being constructed a few blocks away. The trouble-making boys wandered over there a few weeks ago. They broke a window and climbed inside. They found a set of keys, which they stole. Since then everyday after school they head to the construction site. The workers leave at 3:00. The boys arrive shortly after. They let themselves in with the keys. Then they break stuff and steal random items.

For me, the really interesting part, one of the troubled kids had a father who killed himself a few years ago. Another trouble kid had a mother who recently died of cancer. The third troubled kid's father ran off and remarried.

This can't be a coincidence. I believe all kids are good.  I believe all people are good. But some good people are given a shitty hand in life. As a result, they react out of anger, or maybe fear, or maybe loneliness. I feel for them.

The three boys were arrested yesterday. They were caught red-handed in the building. The property owners want to press charges and have the boys pay for thousands of dollars in damages. I understand. But I wish everyone could take a step back and see this for what it is - good kids with a shitty hand. Don't ruin their lives over something which isn't their fault.


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190730.

I'd kinda like to try getting fucked in the ass. Just for the experience.
M, 57 yo


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190729.

I don't like sleeping in the same bed as my husband. Nothing against him. His movements wake me up. I'm happier when he is away and I have the bed to myself.


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190728.

190707 Your story is great.


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190727.

I don't think people realize that Bruce Jenner attended High School in Newtown, CT. This is the same place where the elementary school was shot up and all those kids died. It's one messed up town.


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190726.

I have the repeating nightmare where I'm laying in bed masturbating with my eyes closed. It feels really good. Then I hear a noise. I open my eyes and a menacing looking man is hovering over me. He's been watching the whole time. A simple joy has turned into a horror. I think my subconscious is telling me this is how I view my life. Every situation turns bad.


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190725.

I said from Day 1 that Bruce Jenner was a publicity stunt for money and that's ALL it is until he cuts that dick off. He's Bruce Jenner stunting for cash.


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190724.

The truth is Caitlin Jenner is nothing but a coward until HE cuts his junk off.


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190723.

i want a boyfriend i'm so sick of being alone, weeding out the crazy fuckboys is also getting old. o'm a good sweet loyal girl who is amazing at head and the sex and yes i cook and clean without being asked and do things for a man because i want to, like buying gifts and going out to dinner why cant a man have the same qualities nowadays? ugh dating in 2017 sucks.


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190722.

I never thought I'd be the type of person to solve my problems via suicide. Yet here I am. Careful everyone, bad things have a way of sneaking up on you, and before you know it, you're surrounded.


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190721.

When I hear that someone has died, I always feel sad and disappointed that it wasn't me who died instead.


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190720.

I try not to judge people however Caitlin Jenner really confused me, he went through all the trouble , including public humiliation, strained his relationship with his kids etc.. to ended up dating a women? 😂😂😂 In other words he is a transgender lesbian? Seriously, couldn't just save all the trouble and just play dress up on private.


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190719.

I am a 54 year old father of two college aged kids, a boy and girl.  I was at the gas station this past weekend and there were two young women, I don't know, maybe seventeen years old, and they were counting their coins to see if they could afford a cup of coffee.

I offered to buy them each a coffee and they turned me down.  I think it was because of the climate we live in.  Anyway, it bummed me out a bit that I could not buy two kids a cup of coffee.


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190718.

You perverted loser, messing with kids that are younger than you! Why don't you do the world a favor.


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190717.

I went out on a limb and shared something with a friend. He offered criticism and a bit of a scolding. That's not the response I was hoping for.


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190716.

I hate rejection. I take it personally. The worst is when there's no explanation. There should be a courtesy rule that if you reject someone, whether for a job or a relationship, you have to explain why. Because without explanation, I think the worst and beat myself over it.


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190715.

It bothers me that on The Walking Dead, the women all have perfectly plucked eyebrows. You'd think that in the zombie apocalypse, that would be one of the first things to go.


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190714.

#707 made me cry. In a good way. Thank you.


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190713.

I miss you. I wish we had never met.


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190712.

I'm sorry, sweetheart... you've always been surface-of-the-sun level hot, and it's been great fun watching you grow up from a callow youth into a keenly intelligent, thoughtful, and sophisticated man. SO beautiful, and now so interesting.

But I'm just not inclined to chase the ones who run away. Especially when I've already got someone like him purring in my lap, willing to do anything for me.

Still so much fun to play this game with you though, just sometimes. I love seeing such a strong man quiver... it's exquisite.

And you'll never know any of this...


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190711.

707: Very nice, heartwarming story!


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190710.

707, great story.  You made me smile.....Happy Thanksgiving!


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190709.

I wish I'd have known they check your credit before letting you open a checking account. I thought this was going to be easy. Apparently not. I guess I'll be stuck with a prepaid visa or some stupid shit like that. Jesus fucking Christ I'm a loser.


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190708.

190707 - This is the first time in a long time that a secret on here actually made me smile.  Great story!  Thank you for sharing!


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190707.

When I was 26 I went on a blind date with a man. I am tall and thin. People have always told me I'm pretty. The blind date man was short and pudgy. He was already losing his hair. He had a bit of a Brooklyn accent.

On the date, I have to admit, he was very warm and kind. He made me laugh all evening long. But still, I couldn't have a relationship with this short pudgy man.

At the end of the evening he walked me back to the brownstone where I lived on the Upper West Side.  We said good night at the base of the stone steps. I could see he wanted to kiss me. I couldn't let that happen. He was really nice, but I didn't want to lead him on that this was going anywhere, or that there was any chance of a second date.  So I shook his hand and rushed up the steps.

As I fumbled for my keys I saw him walking down the street. He stopped and stood there for a moment. Then he turned around and headed back towards me. Oh no, I thought, is he going to start talking to me again?

He bounded up the brownstone steps and looked right in my eyes. With the warmest of smiles he said, "Give me a chance. I know what you're thinking. But give me a chance. We'd be great together. All your friends will marry guys who will one day turn pudgy and bald. You would just be a little ahead of the game."

Then he turned and left.

We've been married 32 years. I've never regretted a day of it.


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190706.

Yogurt makes me fart.


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190705.

Third World hookers and green card seekers are less expensive than bitchy, entitled American women...if you're that pathetic and don't mind catching an STD.

Signed,
An entitled, ULTRA bitchy American woman


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190704.

Men, don't waste your time on entitled and bitchy American women! Trust me, visit another Country, like Japan, or Thailand. You will be shocked.  Pleasantly.


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190703.

I just broke up with a girl, the saddest part is I won't be spending the holidays with her family. :(


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190702.

You can't argue with irrational people , don't waste your time .


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190701.

Abortion not only kills an innocent baby but also the mother's soul-Beware of this.


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190700.

A lot men that I had known personally who are against abortion are the same men who hate social programs including the free lunches at schools for lower incomes families. Personally I don't like the word abortion but I understand it's a long commitment and expensive to raised a kid properly, add lack of support both financially and emotionally and I can understand why some women chose to have one unless this people who gather at these clinics are willing to help financially and emotionally raised this babies I don't see why they are protesting .  It's easy to judge them not knowing their situations, maybe people should come with better solutions to prevent situations like this to happen on the first place like providing affordable or free birth control , sex education and more programs to help those women who are lacking the support who decided to keep the baby.


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190699.

To the dude getting the salad bowl back, have a bottle of wine open on the counter. Tell her you just poured yourself a glass and ask if she'd like one too. If she says no, you've done nada wrong. You were just being friendly. If she says yes, you are golden.


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190698.

man.....can I please have those 2 mins back?!


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190697.

Let's try this from another angle-if men were capable of getting pregnant, they'd  be able to get an abortion practically anywhere and it low cost. If men were getting raped constantly by women, they would not be making comments about how women should dress more appropriately.

Frankly, most men have no idea what a woman goes through on a daily basis just to avoid predatory males.  It's really fucked up.  

M 52


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190696.

My 84 year old grandmother was ready for bed when her 40-ish neighbor knocked on her door early one evening asking to borrow some milk. Opening the door in her nightwear? Obviously she was asking for it! Maybe if she'd been wearing something less sexy than a full length fleece nightdress and a housecoat? Or perhaps it was her sexy wiggle when she used her walking frame? It's no wonder men can't control themselves when we are all such whores.


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190695.

These abortion posts got me thinking. If your perfect 16 year old daughter came home and told you she was pregnant what would you do? What if you have ZERO desire to raise a child again?


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190694.

I'm not pro-abortion, but I am pro-choice. I don't like the idea of abortion, but I also realize it's none of my damn business what somebody chooses when they are faced with the most difficult decision they will ever have to make in their life.


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190693.

10 years ago I knew this girl from my church.  She loved to fuck, but I never made a move on her because she was too young and not my type.  She went off to college out of state and I was instant messaging her once.  She said she had gotten a job at the front desk of some company where the boss hardly ever came in, but he could check in through one of three internet-connected cameras that had IP addresses that were off the web (the IP addresses weren't on any webpage, so the search engines didn't know they existed - "deep web" is what it's called now).  She gave me the IP address of the one pointing at the front desk where she was sitting.  I started chatting with he and said I bet she could masturbate and the boss wouldn't catch her.  

So she put her hands down her pants and I could see her starting to rock back and forth while I messaged her how hot it was.  And then at one point... she took her hand out of her pants... and sucked the pussy juices off her fingers.  She put her hand back in and finished herself off.

One of the better days I've had at work.


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190692.

What always shocks me about the pro-abortion argument is that over the decades they've gone from denying that a fetus is a human being (I guess it was only too obvious at some point) to admitting that it's a human, but that we can justify killing the person for some reason or another.

Think about that for a second.  We can kill a person.  Not because the person is trying to harm us.  But just because of X, Y, or Z.

It's a frightening world we live in.


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190691.

-681, that's the truth.  20 years ago I said something nasty and short tempered to my mom as I walked out the door.  She was dying from cancer and lying in her bed.  I forgot what she did, but it was probably due to the chemo.  I came home to discover that she had to be rushed to the hospital and they put her in a coma.  For three months she was in that coma and the only thing I could think about was the nasty thing I said to her.  I felt like shit.  I wished so much I could take it back.  Thank God she woke up out of the coma long enough so I could talk to her.  The last thing I said to her was, "Goodbye.  I love you."  She died the next day.


best  
190690.

When a stripper gives you her number, and you text her, you know what she's always going to text back?

"When you coming to the club?"

They just want your money.  You'd think I would have learned that by now.


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190689.

What I wanted to say to the men I heard talking today in the store about how women should dress more appropriately to avoid sexual assault:

I was wearing a t-shirt and jeans when it happened to me. But please, tell me more about what I should have been wearing instead. He was someone I trusted and I had no idea he was a sociopath. Do you think maybe jeans and t-shirt were too racy to be wearing when we were hanging out at my place watching tv like we had numerous other times? Maybe I just wasn't thinking and let my guard down too much with my clothing choices. Guess I'll never know...

I was/am not responsible for the choice a man made to violate me in the worst way possible. Neither is any other woman. You have to be a really vile piece of shit with no common human decency to think that, much less openly discuss it at the store!


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190688.

Being in a long-distance relationship was the worst idea ever. I am grateful for the experience, and all the years of happiness you brought me, but I said from the beginning that you deserve better, and now you have better, and now I just hope my heart heals eventually.


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190687.

652....I wish I could be the person you're referring to.
I would love to be appreciated in such a way.


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190686.

I'm pro-abortion, because I know some people probably wouldn't make decent parents, and those same people are probably the people who today, don't want children. So, I think it is a given right for a woman to have control over her body, and what she brings into her life too.

Before you say "she could give the baby up for adoption if she doesn't want it". NO.
Do you realize how many unwanted babies and children are in this world?? 400,000 and counting - children in the foster case system in america alone!
Also, why have a child you don't want only to have people tell you that "you'll change your mind once you become pregnant/once you have the baby", but what if you still don't want it?


100% woman's choice. If you don't want to deal with "abortions" date someone who eventually wants children and so on. Don't waste your time on someone that doesn't want kids, because guess what? If they get pregnant, whether it's your sperm or not, chances are they still won't want it, and THATS OKAY. Life is more than just children. Not everyone should have to conform to societies stupid standards of "normal".


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190685.

683 - she knows, and you know too.

So, how's your marriage doing?  Now, and...

shit what did I do?

Those are your questions, and it's okay for you to answer them.

Much love, and, bowling.


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190684.

I love to flirt !


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190683.

My wife is going out of town this weekend. I'll be home alone. I received an email from her best friend asking if she could return a salad bowl on Saturday. Um, she knows my wife won't be here.... Now I'm left wondering. Is there some urgency to return said salad bowl? Or is the woman purposely trying to arrange alone time with me? Or am I reading too much into this? What to do, what to do.....


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190682.

Re: sexual (M>F gender) harassment - has anyone read Gene Simmons's take on it?  He's right, as usual.  When it's mutual and honest, power structures disappear.  Wait?  There's a power structure there?  When it's not, it's what's blowing up now.

Marriage is not natural.  It's biological - get the offspring to a self-sufficient age.  Seven-year itch much?

Men like titties.  Women have titties.

Women wear things that show off the titties that the mens like.  Mens buy the real estate to house the titties.  Rinse and repeat.

Gene.  Again!

F/48/Spinster.


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190681.

My advice to everyone: Never, ever end a phone call, leave the house, or let your loved ones leave without saying "I love you." Because there will come a time when you are weeping into your hands, begging God to take everything you have for just one more moment with them. Tell them you love them every chance you get.


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190680.

My wife is looking for a professional job in an office environment. She's had no luck. I try to be supportive and I coach her to keep looking. Truth is, she's a fucking pain in the ass. She can't find a job because companies realize she'd be a terrible hire. She's whiny, needy and annoying. This comes to the surface during job interviews. In fact she's never made it to an in-person interview. Companies call her on the phone for a first round screening. Then my wife starts with her bitching. She complains to the person she's speaking with that she's not in a comfortable chair - hang on she's going to move. Hang on again as she switches on another light. She complains that her water bottle is empty and she tells the interviewer to wait while she gets another. She actually told one interviewer that she didn't want him to put her on speaker phone. He said he had to because there are other people in the room listening in. She said that's his problem. She insisted he talk to her on a regular phone and he can tell the other people what she was saying. I can tell the interviewers get frustrated. No company would dare hire her. I don't blame them. I wouldn't hire her.


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190679.

I hope you are all ready. WW3 ( or worse) is right around the corner.


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190678.

YES! Abortion should be a right! We should have ABSOLUTE control of EVERYTHING in our lives.


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190677.

#670: I'm a woman and I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said; I couldn't have said it better!!!   These women were using their sexuality as a bait, but didn't intend to deliver! And, yes, it's a whore move, nevertheless. Harvey Weinstein is a pig, but the women are not squeaky clean either. Honestly, the women are as much to blame, as he is!


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190676.

I hate tipping. I really do. I mean, I have no problem with paying a little extra for the server/ stylist / delivery person. But I wish it was just built into the price. Tipping is awkward.


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190675.

I started a new job a few weeks ago. Our team of eight is in a two-room office in the back of our building. It's usually just my boss and I as the other team members are in and out all day. My boss is freaking HOT. Tonight we were working late as he was showing me how to navigate some of the computer programs. A couple times I messed up and clicked on the wrong thing. Each time, my boss said, "It's okay, baby." He has younger kids so I'm sure it's just a slip-up (I do it too sometimes to other people). But damn. It made me catch my breath. I realized that I'm pretty attracted to him. Oh boy.

Married mother of four, 46


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190674.

The first 11 years I knew my wife, she was very pro-abortion.  It was a woman's right, etc. etc.  Under any circumstance, she said, a man should not be telling a woman what to do with her body.

And then after 11 years, she became pregnant.  A few months later, she could feel the baby the kicking inside her.  Our son was born.  His brother followed a few years later.

No surprise, she's now pro-life.  She's now the first to wonder why a woman would kill such a sweet, innocent creature as a baby.

Some of us learn by thought, some of us learn by experience.


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190673.

I just don't even understand how the "Harvey Weinstein" types of sexual assaults even happen these days.  I understand situations where someone is a straight up rapist and does bad bad shit to a woman.  I understand how there can be some vagueness in flirtatious situations and a line might be crossed if you're not paying attention to the signals being given.  I can even understand the brush by on the butt  when passing in close proximinty  (though I DO NOT condone any of the above by the way, I just understand it....)

I DO NOT understand someone whipping out their dick and rubbing one out whlie some woman is forced to look on in horror. I DO NOT understand having a subordinate at work or a prospective hire be brought or forced into a private situation (home, apartment, hotel room) where "oops!" your naked!!! I DO NOT understand how a man can look at a 14 year old and think that its ok to "Play Ball" on the field.

I mean what the fuck is wrong with some people.  That shit is just NEVER right.

M/50.


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190672.

Three UCLA basketball players were arrested in China for shoplifting. Trump has intervened. He is trying to get them released and returned to the US.

But isn't this exactly the kind of thing he said he'd stop? He is using his power to get special treatment for people he favors.

It is corrupt. It is cronyism. It is one set of laws for favored people, and a different set of laws for the rest of us. It is exactly what the Clintons have been doing.

Trump is now an official resident of the swamp.


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190671.

If all of these sexual predators looked like Brad Pitt -there would be no sexual harassment complaints. Heavens help you if you dont live up to these women's ideal standards -then it is sexual harassment.They go to men's bedrooms and even get naked into bed  .Remember the case against the Kennedy kid in DC They were naked in bed when she decided no -and accused him of rape. Don't cry when no man ever looks at an America  woman again! European women are far sexier in any case than the ball busting American women!


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190670.

If you want to be treated like a lady, dress and act like one. If you dress like a whore and show your body off like a street walker putting her goods on display the you will get treated as such. Yes going to the hotel room of someone in a position to promote you is a whore move. Meeting your boss after work for a "drink" is a whore move. As men we need you to separate yourselves from the droves of women that while not whores by trade, nonetheless use sex as a tool to gain an advantage. Women that separate themselves rarely suffer sexual harassment, no the "victims" (eye roll) are the fence riders that want the benefits of using sex to their advantage yet cry foul the moment it doesn't work out the way they had hoped. I wish that when a woman used the lure of sex to gain favor and then when they didn't put out men could claim harassment and the woman would lose all the favor she gained and have her reputation drug through the mud...but that would be fair and God knows we would hate to be fair. The evil white man must be subdued at all costs!!!

Let's be serious for a moment. The VAST majority of these women knew exactly what they were doing when they followed along and used the lure of sex to gain favor. The truth is they ended up in that hotel room because they knew full and well if they had said, no I am unwilling to come to your hotel room, I will meet you  in the lobby that the guy in the position of power would have told them to jump in a lake and used someone else. They knew this and went anyway hoping to gain favor with the lure of sex although most probably didn't actually intend on following through. Part of using the sex tool is exposing yourself to the harassment that comes with using it. Period. If you are a stripper you know you're gonna get your ass grabbed. If you are an aspiring anything and go to your bosses hotel room...you're gonna get some funny business. Don't play stupid years later and try to right some "wrong". You played your part in it so shut your face.


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190669.

Sexual accusations will be the left's new tool against anyone who disagrees with them.  Just watch in coming months how this will be used.

This now has become a weapon to silence those you not like, and like all weapons this will be used. innocents caught in the cross fire, well too bad.


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190668.

How can a former firefighter get five years of control community , no jail time for rape involving a child younger than 10 . That's sick , I wouldn't want to live near a vile excuse of a human being by the way this is not on a "liberal" state.  What's wrong with these so call judges?


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190667.

The latest Hollywood sex scandal: A big name actor/director walked a pretty actress to her car.

OMG what the hell was he thinking????!!!!!!???????


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190666.

I get what you're saying. I do. But difficulty with grammar, sentence structure, vocabulary and overuse of interjections like "ya know" are often a symptom of a "physiological defect" or disorder. And it can be devastating to people with these challenges when they are assumed to be less intelligent or less competent.

I'm just saying to be kind because you can't always tell.


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190665.

If you think that condemning sexual harassment means that women should dress modestly in order to be validated and respected, then you don't condemn sexual harassment at all. You condemn it for women *you* deem to be respectable, which misses the point entirely.

That attitude panders to a lack of self-control, as if a man is incapable of doing anything but being a pervert when an attractive woman is around. Just look at the language used in this conversation. "Well, what did you expect?" As if there isn't a choice involved.

Sorry not sorry, but I hate it when men think that women should "respect themselves" and cover themselves, and hold that as a condition for deserving basic decency. This is not the 50's. Women are not walking steaks waiting to be served to any hungry diner. What we do is not always for or about men. Your opinion of whether we should be deemed respectable should not depend on our gender. Get your head out of your ass


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190664.

My friend sent me a photo he secretly took of his wife getting dressed. Very fine.


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190663.

I apologized, because these are the things we hold onto until we die, and then people have regrets because death is the only thing that opens their eyes. It's about so much more than just right now


best  
190662.

I was promoted. This fellow I work with was not. I became his boss. Now he spends his day with his office door closed doing absolutely nothing. I give him a project and a week later when I ask for a progress report he says he hasn't started. I'm going to fire him. My first firing. I don't get it though. You don't always get what you want in life. It's not a reason to shut down and ruin your career.


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190661.

We hold a young woman responsible if she drinks too much, gets in a car, and kills someone.
Are we not to hold the same woman responsible if she drinks too much and has sex, then regrets it?


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190660.

629 FYI It takes 2 to make a baby.


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190659.

But Tommy doesn't know what pain is
He doesn't know who Jesus was or what praying is
How he be saved
From the eternal grave


best  
190658.

I will cover as much of my daughter's college expenses as I could. I'll do my best to cover her living expenses. But I'm sure she'll call me and visit me when I'm older.


best  
190657.

If a man ever tried to sexually assault me (I'm a sexual assault survivior), I'll kill him. I will not experience that horror ever again.


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190656.

649 Maybe she needed for you to explain what you were trying to get her to do and why. It sounds like she misunderstood your intentions. You can love someone with all of your heart and still not be able to read their mind. Life and relationships would be so much easier if we could. 🙁 Don't give up on her just yet.


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190655.

It's weird how quickly your views can change.  I fully support the anti sexual harassment wave sweeping the world but watching this one woman complaining and she has on a low cut top with a frigging cleavage window.  Seriously!?!


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190654.

I don't mean to be mean but I'm just tired of people sharing stupid links or phrases into my Facebook , I spend like 80% of the time deleting and blocking them from showing on my feed .  I'm sorry but there's a reason I only befriend family to keep with them not to read bs posting by other obnoxious, social keyboard warriors.


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190653.

At least my Dad is proud of me. He's not the best person by any means, but he actually understands me and my struggle, and doesn't shit on me for taking so long to learn life's lessons my own way. At least now, i can hear the recognition in his voice that I'm growing, and going in the right direction.

The only sad thing is, i wish our relationship was this good when i was younger. There were so many years of hatred and resentment. I want this healthier, loving relationship we have to last forever, but i know it won't. I thank God for this though. At least we get some years of happiness at all


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190652.

I am so stupidly, wildly, ridiculously in love with you that when I think, when I dream of having you beside me it makes it hard for me to breathe. I would give anything for a few moments alone with you to put my hands on either side of your face and draw you into a dark, quiet little world of our own as we search each other with our lips and our souls. No one has ever come close to you. No one else will EVER come close to you.

I need you.


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190651.

The "sloppy speech" cited previously is carelessness with grammar, tense, vocabulary, etc.  It's excessive use of crutch phrases such as YaKnow.  It was not a reference to physiological defects.


best  
190650.

"Sloppy speech" can be from stuttering, cluttering, verbal apraxia, dysarthria, aphasia, a developmental articulation or language disorder, hearing loss, cleft palate, enlarged adenoids, anomia, spasmodic dysphonia, Asperger's syndrome, anxiety and probably a bunch of other things.

Be kind.


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190649.

I wanted to say "Hey, can you try to do this thing which will vastly help our overall situation and will demonstrate to me that you care about me and us?"
She would routinely take this as a provocation. Conflict would ensue. All I wanted was some evidence that she actually cared about us. It progressed to the point where I was afraid to say anything. I stopped feeling connected because I didn't feel loved.
I have clarity about this unfortunate relationship. I like her. I like her personality, I adore our friendship, but she couldn't really love me.


best  
190648.

Me, I'd rather go back to that moment when we were driving to AZ and you seduced me in the car, and finished me off in the hotel that night.

Sometimes people don't recognize happy when it happens.


best  
190647.

My central heating stopped working. There was a lightening storm. The power went out. After that the heat no longer worked. It was clear what happened. A power surge must have blown the fuse on the giant air handler in the basement. I called a specialist. He never called back. Fuck 'em. Who needs these high school drop outs anyway. I googled for more info. I found the installation manual online. I read the specs. I figured out where the fuse was located - deep in the heart of the machine. The manufacturer does that on purpose so I'll have to hire a professional to take the unit apart. Fuck 'em again. I took the unit apart. I found the fuse. Yep blown. I replaced it. I put everything back together. Whole thing took me 4 hours. But now I have heat again. My secret, to hell with workmen. They are lazy overpaid slobs. Anyone can fix anything on their own.


best  
190646.

I can only jerk off with my right hand. I've tried using my left hand but it feels awkward. It's like having sex with a stranger.


best  
190645.

My bf doesn't know the lyrics to any songs. How do you get to be 25 years old and never ever listen to music?


best  
190644.

I've stayed my distance... but you're in college now... and you turn 18 next week.  I hope I can behave myself.


best  
190643.

Back in 1987 I worked for a book publisher as a programmer. In talking to the business people, they said they had a warehouse filled with books which never sold. I thought about and then created a computer program.  It was a database of all their books. The user could search for a title or category and then purchase the book.  There was no internet yet. Instead there were these things called electronic bulletin boards. That's where my program would run.  I showed this to the publisher. They said eh. They weren't interested.

It got me thinking though. The electronic bulletin boards were kind of awkward.  So I built a snazzy user interface where people could browse with a screen and a mouse instead of typing commands. I showed this to another company. They said eh. They weren't interested.

In looking back, I came out with Amazon and the first internet web browser.  This was 5 years before anyone else. But the people I showed it too had no vision. One of them actually said people won't access the outside world from their home computer...

These were my moments to believe in myself and pursue the ideas in spite of what others thought. I let them slip through my fingers. There has been no third opportunity.

To all, don't let this happen to you. Ignore the naysayers. Go for what you believe in!


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190642.

I love not having kids.


best  
190641.

I don't like being judged by people. It's why I stay away. I'm happy on my own. I don't need others to tell me what I'm doing wrong in life. All you critics, how about show a little support instead? Or offer words of encouragement.


best  
190640.

I am 45, a female and single. I was married for 15 months in my 30's and getting my divorce decree probably was the happiest day of my life. I don't know how to be married. I don't know how to be in a relationship. I own my house,  change the oil on my car, do my own plumbing and electric, can do masonry and carpentry, I can cook and clean and sew and I make an upper 5 figure living while working part time - and I look smashing in a dress and heels. There is no one out there who I want to pretend I don't know how to do these things for. I don't have kids, never wanted them, got pregnant twice, got an abortion every time. I just can;t/don't know how to compromise I guess. And I am not sorry in the least for it.


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190639.

36 Hang in there I stay because of my autistic child , many people think it's money but do little do they know that I don't give it a rat ax about his money, he always complains about the ex wife asking for more money every time his income increased , not just that but supposedly when this women got remarried she took half of the second ex husband too , and he met her she was dating a 70 year old guy while she was on college. I think he got punished enough , I can be many things but a money hungry, gold digger I'm not .  In fact if I would leave tomorrow I wouldn't want or expect any money from him. I can make my own , I'm not afraid of work , I was financially independent when I met him , making close to 6 figures a year .


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190638.

I hate how hotmail tries to second guess what I'm typing.  I want to enter a smiley face with the colon and parenthesis. Like this :)  But hotmail tries to replace my characters with their icon of a smiley face.  Dopes. I have an older computer. I don't have their icons installed.  So their smiley comes up as a file not found icon. Fuck you hotmail. I'm trying to type something simple and instead I get an error - as do the recipients of my email. It's so stupid. When I choose to type something, leave it the fuck alone.


best  
190637.

Sometimes I want to go back to the way I thought when I was younger.  I've noticed that when I was younger, I kind of didn't care about many things, I was sort of care free, if it happens, it fucking happens, otherwise, I did not care.  Nowadays, in my late 30s, I am much more scared of what happens if I do something.  Coincidentally, I work full time, now.  Could it be that I have something more to lose, now?  I miss the 'I don't care' phase, that phase where I did not care what other people thought, or their feelings.


best  
190636.

People ask why I don't get divorced. I can't tell them it's because I have no friends. Without my spouse I am nothing.


best  
190635.

A few secrets:

1. I'm really tired of talking to guys and trying to get to know them. They're so emotionally guarded, it's exhausting. You tell them one thing they don't want to hear and it's like you've whipped their hearts with a rod. Come out and play

2. As I get older, it's become much clearer to me why people don't talk to their siblings as they get older. The issues I have with my siblings are deeply rooted and longstanding, and it's made me *very* resentful of them as people.

3. I was left tongue-tied when a guy I've fucked before asked me why I stopped hitting him up. I couldn't really say in front of others that his dick game was weak and I moved on. I get bored of people really quickly

4. I think I want to date a woman. Not because things aren't working out with men, but because there's so much less to explain to a woman. They already speak my language. But I'm scared of being bad at eating pussy

5. Sometimes I don't care for anyone at all, not even myself. It's kind of nice


best  
190634.

Sloppy speech is a sign of sloppy thinking.

.


best  
190633.

I was supposed to hear back from a job interview yesterday. I didn't. I guess that's a no.


best  
190632.

Damn life is fucking painful. Wish I could get a lobotomy. I'm sorry for everything that happened to you.


best  
190631.

Please parents out there , be careful on spoiling you children and have them everything handed to them. My husband has my child so spoiled that I can no longer say no to him unless I want a serious melt down, I know he probably feels guilty because her being on the austistic spectrum , she has other 3 kids out of the house who think they are God giving gift to humanity and can't do no wrong.  He paid for their college tuitions even went as far as covering their living expenses so didn't have to work during college and concentrate while on school. Well now they all graduated debt free , have good career going for them and they don't even bother to call him or visit anymore, they are probably just waiting for him to die so they can cash on their inheritance, it's sad now I'm stuck unhappy with a spoiled brat that I can't correct or say anything because she goes crying to Dad and him being such an expert raising three more kids who are doing well , he sees himself as a know all when it comes to parenting but yet his older kids haven't spoke or visit him on over 4 years and every time I said something I'm the one who's ended being the ahole.


best  
190630.

I risk it all to give my testimony to Mueller. Dear God. No where to hide.


best  
190629.

FTI, some women don't want children.
Why? I don't want to give that gift to any man. You put a child in me, and now I'm supposed to praise you while you're still technically free to flee?
Fuck of. My body is off limits.
Never caving into the "norm". -___- 🖕🏻


best  
190628.

I hope we get to see sea turtles together again someday. I think when that happens my happiness will be eternal once more, because now it only lasts a few moments at a time..

Sdds


best  
190627.

I know we don't talk now, and we're both in relationships...but knowing you are alive and well makes things feel less painful. Especially since I feel like I can't live without you. Sometimes we make mistakes that ruin us forever.
I hope to see you again some day.


best  
190626.

The way my boyfriend talks kind of annoys me. I don't say anything because I don't want to be that girlfriend who nitpicks and criticizes. He casually refers to people and things as “motherfuckers” and overuses the word “savage.” Like, do you think you could refer to people and things by their names, maybe? Could you find other words to use in place of “savage”?

He can be super picky and snooty about things and has to say that it's disgusting. To me, “disgusting” is a pretty strong word that I reserve for things that truly gross me out, and I like to choose my words carefully. Ughhh I'm tired of hearing it. Is it really THAT bad every time something doesn't agree with you? Ugh he says it with such  snooty conviction. It reminds me of an extremely picky child who turns their nose up at anything that they don't like as though it was rancid meat being put under their nose.

It bugs me for some reason when he uses the word “pup” instead of “puppies.” I don't know why this bothers me. “Pup” just sounds stupid.

Besides these things, he's great and treats me well.

I know this probably sounds really petty...that's why I'm spilling this to the cave and not anyone else...you see, I have a degree in linguistics, and sometimes other people's use of language annoys me...and i can't help it. I feel like an asshole because of it, so I make it a point not to tell people when their usage annoys me.


best  
190625.

i wonder if knowing that you caused me pain feels good to you.


best  
190624.

Never give up. Better things (and people) are always on the horizon!


best  
190623.

I just got a Brazilian for the first time in ages :D Ah feels so good, it's like returning back to myself.  It's the feeling of taking a bra off times a hundred :D :D Can't wait to go take this smooth skin for a ride this weekend ;)

F/28/feelin' alive & sexy


best  
190622.

Too bad for you. They are going strong and steady! She's not going anywhere! 💕


best  
190621.

I know why Trump is hated so vilely.  

Trump represents America giving the middle finger to Leftism and its socialist/collectivist ideology.  

We have a generation of Democrat leaders who were weaned on the glories of socialism and communism in college.  Finally, they got one of "their own" in office, and they went rampant with pushing identity politics, universal health care, global appeasement, radical environmentalism, gun control, open borders, global warming, and every imaginable socialist policy they could think of.  America just got sick of it.

Had Ted Cruz or Mark Rubio beaten Hillary Clinton, it would have only been a sign that America was turning its back on Leftism.  But Trump?  Trump is not just America turning its back on Leftism, Trump is America's "fuck you" to the Leftists.  Trump is a signal to the globalists that America would rather have an uncouth, obnoxious loud mouth than the best that the Dems could offer.

Can you imagine how much of a shock it would be if your ideology was not just voted out of office, but got replaced with a shit-throwing orangutan?  You'd sure as hell be hating that man, too.

And this Roy Moore guy in Alabama. He's probably a pedophile - but mark my words, people would rather have a pedophile than a Leftist as their senator.


best  
190620.

I can't stop thinking of killing myself. I have for years and years but it's different this time. Gray and cold and slipping away. I finally lost all of my friends. Not that I was trying but now there's nothing left. I feel so so bad. Goddamn it. I'm so scared.


best  
190619.

602- I heard there was a study that found the happiest people are single women, followed by married men, followed by married women, then single men. Marriage can be wonderful, but it's not for everybody. I have mad respect for any woman that chooses to remain single. Maybe she just wants to live her life and not have to deal with anybody else's bullshit.


best  
190618.

I work for a friend, but I don't feel valued.  It leaves me feeling empty.  I should leave this place but i'm afraid to start over. I'm not sure what the best course of action is.


best  
190617.

Retirement sucks. I hate retirement. I was much happier going to work everyday. It gave me a purpose. I'm lost doing nothing.


best  
190616.

It was something else last night to sit at the bar then see a really good-looking 25 year old guy walk in, and make the girls melt. As a guy, it made me feel jealous seeing him borrow a smoke from a girl,  then they proceeded to go and sit together and talk he could have had any girl in the bar but one day he'll be older sitting where I am seeing the same thing


best  
190615.

I have had my crotch grabbed on numerous occasions, the most recently in Las Vegas.  Standing at the craps table, I feel a tap on my shoulder.  Turn to face a woman with three friends.  She looks me dead in the eye, smiles, says hi and grabs my crotch.  Raises one eyebrow playfully and walks away.

Did I feel violated? No.  It gave me a great story but I guess that is the point.  Men and women are different.

I would never do that to a woman and I know what would happen if I did.  She got away with it with a laugh from the table and I am OK with it.  Double standards are OK in my book.


best  
190614.

I was miserable in college. I had no money. Every day was a struggle to find enough food. I was so distracted from my studies. I started stealing food form the local supermarket. If I had gotten caught I would have been thrown out of school. The pressure drove me nuts. But I had no choice. I couldn't keep eating ketchup packets from McDonalds and pretend it was a meal. It makes me so sad to this day. I could cry.

(I'm male, successful, 61, but still crushed by what I went through.)


best  
190613.

When men are perverts, people are outraged.  When women are perverts, nobody cares.  Classic sexism.


best  
190612.

I hope she dumps him!


best  
190611.

I'm so fucking tired of it.  She always abuses people, and makes people feel sorry for herself.  Always a sob story after yelling at people.  Fuck her.


best  
190610.

I think men watch porn and think of themselves as the women a lot.


best  
190609.

The older I get the more I realize some men (most men?) would like a homo erotic experience. After 10 years of marriage my husband started asking me to kiss him while I still had his semen in my mouth. He'd stick his tongue in my mouth and play with his semen. I think it's something men do, experimenting with the idea of being with a man.


best  
190608.

You know what? I slept great and I'm having a great day! I don't let miserable fuckers pull me into their storms! 🌈


best  
190607.

I have fucked men who were married. Fucked their lives right up. Those women deserved better, or half the shit. I did them all favors.


best  
190606.

My sister in law flirts with men and uses them for money. When she doesn't put out, they flip out on her and call her names like “slut, bitch hooker...” you name it. Seriously? You were completely fine being a sucker when you knew well why she was doing anything with you & you were using her as an accessory & now that she won't fuck you, you're pissed? Be someone worth fucking or sue her  😂


best  
190605.

I love how I can make a man so excited that white goo shoots out of his penis.  It's like magic!

For my next trick, I'd like to make my kitchen sink so excited that white wine shoots out of the faucet!


best  
190604.

There's a reason the are call fantasies, it most likely not happen but it's nice to think about the possibility. I'm sure they are plants of men who fantasie about having sex with other person besides their wife but it's just that a thought. Would they be able it to do it if the opportunity present its self? Maybe , who knows, even if they did it might not turn out to be what they were expecting, since they pictured certain way and let's be honest , sex can be awkward the first time with an unknown person or the first time with the person.

P.S I fantasie to have sex with Justin Trudeau 😂😂, maybe my fantasies should be more realistic.


best  
190603.

....or end up on tv as one of the man-hating cows on "The View."


best  
190602.

I have a female friend who is 55 years old. She has never been married. It's a shame. She's delightful. She's kind, funny, and good looking.

I've often tried to analyze what goes in on in her head. Why has she never had a serious relationship? I'm not sure what to make of it, but here's something that came up recently.  She was involved with a community project for three days.  It was 14 hours each day spent running an event. Many people were involved, but she worked very closely with this new fellow she had just met. It seemed like they bonded.

A few days later he sent her a text.  He started the message with "Hey sexy, how's it going..."

If I was the recipient, I'd laugh that off. I'd be pleased he wrote.  I'd be pleased he was thinking of me.

Instead, my female friend was a bit incensed. She thought it offensive he called her sexy. Why? She is sexy. He was being honest and cutesy and fun.

But she shut him down with a hard smack. I'm sure he's out of the picture forever. He's not coming back.

But why does she do that?  Why take offense. Why interpret his opening volley as something sinister? He's a guy. He found her intriguing. Might he want to have sex with her one day? Sure, but what's wrong with that? That's what human beings do, they have sex. And saying "Hello Sexy" isn't gross. It's not like starting a text saying "Yo baby I want to fuck your pussy sideways".  He was being light hearted.

Anyway, she's single all these years and I think it's because this delightful woman has built this wall that no man can scale. If anyone has more insight, I'd love to hear it.


best  
190601.

America has become a man-hating society.It is indoctrinating young women. Don't cry when your daughter ends up alone and childless.Think before you speak.


best  
190600.

I don't believe you when you say you never had a thing for her. Why the fuck did you talk about her so much then. Stupid fucking men, you're all the same.


best  
190599.

I had a dream about a boss from 20 years ago. Jesus Christ get the fuck out of my head you cretin. What a disgusting man he was. My dreams are my dreams, go the fuck away.


best  
190598.

It's not widely understood that we are a nation of laws. The laws are indifferent to talking points. The people in government generally have a background in law. Many of them have law degrees from elite colleges. They have a finely tuned understanding of how the government should function.
That is exactly why I would never willingly board an airplane with Captain Twitter Fingers from TV land in the cockpit. It's just that simple.


best  
190597.

I wish my wife was more adventurous in the bedroom. Sometimes she'll talk sexy. In the middle of sex she'll mention how she'd like to have someone else in there with us. Usually it's a man. One man in particular. She says she wants me to watch while he does her. Then she says she wants to watch while he does me. She gets very graphic about what he should do to both me and her.

The thing is, it's all just talk on her part.  Well, I think it's all just talk. I don't think she'd ever do these things. What she doesn't get is that I'd be willing. I'd have this guy in our bedroom. I'd do all the things she has said. I'd suck him off while she watches. I have have him cum in my mouth. I'd show her. I'd swallow in front of her. I would do all that.

She just needs to show me she's sincere about wanting this to happen and I'd make it so.

I don't get wives. Why not be adventurous? Why not generate a memorable thrill? Do wives get to their death bed and say, "I'm so glad I didn't have a threesome and watch my husband do naughty things with another man. Because that would have been so boring..." No. No wife could ever say it would be boring. So why not give it a try?


best  
190596.

571 Never beg....ever.


best  
190595.

588 I think anyone could be president. For 8 years we had a guy who never had a real job before, unless community organizer is thing.
Was it a good idea? hell no.


best  
190594.

I think I'm bored of sex... so finally had sex with my super religious gf who i do Love but is a complete nutcase, the other day. It was a good night and everything was perfect except as soon as we get down to business.... I do the deed except I can't be bothered.... I get bored .... then I go soft cause she doesn't orgasm fast enough and then I'll blame it on something it isn't


best  
190593.

Time moves faster when you are older. A year used to be such a long time. Now it feels like it goes by in a month.


best  
190592.

526. You were always enough. That's just the story you told yourself.


best  
190591.

568: my soul was a little crushed, that's my favorite but at least you're honest.


best  
190590.

580: Agree, I've been wondering about this myself....


best  
190589.

571-You're not alone brother! I also feel your pain for the exact same reasons. It all started out fine, but she hasn't had any income in almost 20 years too! I'm feeling more like her father then her husband, by having to take care of her. This is not what I signed up for 34 years ago!


best  
190588.

Can an average joe with zero experience fly an airplane? Maybe. Can they be a magistrate at your local municipal court house, probably not. Would you get some guy down at the local tv station to extract a tooth? No in most cases if you know what is good for you.

Can a game show host be president? Obviously, yes, but is it a good idea? Obviously, no.

You see, just because a person believes that they are capable of doing a job doesn't mean shit in the real world. Maybe you're good at flipping hamburgers, or listening to customers bitch at a call center, but that will never mean you are God's gift to the workforce.

Some people value their own time and they value a quality job which only can be provided with years of experience. People who actually know how to do things don't brag about it. That's tacky.


best  
190587.

So, she was mindlessly begging me to fuck her and I sort of laughed it off knowing that I could if I wanted to, fully intending to follow through. She made me cum in my pants. I was just trying to do the right thing.
Then she had the nerve to say that I assaulted her. I loved her. That's why I was taking it slow.
God I'm stupid.


best  
190586.

das juden kinder starb.


best  
190585.

570 I am with you!  No call, no show?  No more invite.  I had a couple that totally ingnored my party, after i spent money and made sure enough liquor, food etc...  then saw me and said sorry, we'll make it next time.  
I told them..no next time for you.  People suck sometimes.


best  
190584.

Men don't like to put food on the table in a house where the woman treats him like shit.


best  
190583.

Women don't like to have sex with men who treat them like shit. There's no reason this should be such a big secret.


best  
190582.

Sometimes helping others can be painful. I hate getting the feels.


best  
190581.

I don't know about all these upcoming lawsuits alleging sexual harassment of women. Seems like some men get caught and others do not. It's not fair. I want all men to pay. I think there should be a tax on men. A pool of money could be created and split evenly to all women. That would be fair.


best  
190580.

I don't understand men who feel justified in cheating on their wives, but yet won't divorce them.


best  
190579.

Should I feel guilty about fucking other women if my wife refuses to have sex with me???  We've fucked 1 time in the last ten years, and even then she didn't want to do it.

Should I feel guilty???


best  
190578.

Given the way I'm feeling right now, I wouldn't mind not making it to 40.


best  
190577.

Dear wife:

If we don't have sex, we are just annoying roommates.

Sincerely,

Husband of 18 years


best  
190576.

I wish that God would give all of the religious folk what  they want and take them to Heaven. They're certainly not doing the rational thinking among us any good.


best  
190575.

My dog just got nailed by a skunk.  Happy Sunday!


best  
190574.

At my predominantly male work place, I am the one people go to for their technical issues.
This has been the case for at least the last 7 years.
(I am not in IT)  
30 f


best  
190573.

Men always seem to brag about how their sister-in-law is sexy and flirtatious with big tits and how they're fucking her.  It sounds dangerous and forbidden.  My sister-in-law is a bit of a troll.  Nice woman, though.


best  
190572.

This is for you if you lost a loved spouse. It is 4 1/2 years since my beautiful wife of 26 years passed. From the day she left this earth I was crushed. We were friends for 30 years, we had a strong marriage. Then one day, it is over. From bliss to misery. One day she is here, the next she is gone. Now, I am at peace. The lesson learned is the bereavement is one minute, one hour, one day at a time. If you can do that you will survive. I barely made it.


best  
190571.

My wife does nothing to help. I have to beg to get her to lift a finger. And when she does finally cave in, she makes sure to put in the least amount of effort possible.

I'll give you an example. Someone gave her a small house plant. She of course did nothing with it. She never watered it and it died. Even though I pointed out she should water it.

Once it was dead I asked if she could throw it out. No she couldn't. That would be work carrying the plant to the garbage can. Over the course of months I asked. I begged. I pleaded. Finally I yelled. That's what it always takes with her, she makes me be the bad guy and raise my voice. I can politely ask 10 times and get nowhere. She always makes me yell to get her to do anything.

She brought the plant as far as the back door and left it on the porch.

It stayed there for months. The cycle began again. I asked if she could THROW THE PLANT OUT. No she couldn't. Here we go again. I asked. I begged. I pleaded. Finally I yelled.

She then moved the plant off the porch and put it next to the garage door. It would be too much work to open the garage door and put the dead plant in the garbage can.

It sat by the garage door for months. I didn't want to yell anymore. She takes away all my mental energy. She wins. She always wins. I finally tossed the plant into the garbage can.

This entire event ordeal of the plant took a year. One year to move a small dead plant from the kitchen to the garbage can 30 feet away!!!!! Now multiply that by me asking her to put away a box she took down from the attic. Return an item of clothing she decided she didn't want. Mail a bowl back to Amazon because it came in the wrong color.

She does none of these things. The items just sit around the house for a year until I take care of them. My house is littered with things she was supposed to take care of. I trip over these things until I get so frustrated that I take care of it myself.

You might wonder why I don't take care of these things sooner? Because I have a job and I have my own chores and it's a matter of principle. I am not here to clean up her problems. She's supposed to be a responsible adult who helps in this family unit. She is not a princess who has man servants doing these things for her.

I think she is the most passive aggressive evil person I know. I think she leaves everything undone as a way to annoy me. Who runs their life that way? Purposely trying to annoy her husband. It's sort of the opposite of what we agreed to in the marriage vows.


best  
190570.

I️ host quite a few fun, large parties throughout the year. My house is kind of known as a party house, as I have no children, make good money, and I love having people over. However, I get incredibly annoyed when I invite people and they say they are coming and consult with me as to what they want to bring or what to wear, and then just don't show up without explanation.

It's not that hard to send a text to let me know that you won't be able to make it, or in the next couple of days after the fact to let me know that you were unable to come. Common courtesy. That's always fine and appreciated.

So, that's always the last invitation that person receives.  It's ruffled more than a few feathers, and I have no problem sunnily saying to a person who approaches me “oh jeez!, I just assumed you weren't interested in coming over anymore after you were a no-show the last time.”

Then it's done. I don't offer another invite or talk shit about them, I just keep it moving. I spend a lot of money based on a headcount and exert a tremendous amount of effort to ensure that my guests have a good time.


best  
190569.

559: You should really talk to a police officer or a lawyer.  They can take care of you if you choose to get a divorce.  They don't play kindly to aggressive people.  They will let you get a restraining order, or send him to jail if he gets violent or stalks anybody.


best  
190568.

Since were all confessing here, I hate Costco pizza with a passion. Everybody raves about how great Costco pizza is. It's under $10 and you get a huge pizza. You can get everything on it for the same price. That pizza is so soggy and rubbery. I'd rather pay extra and go to a fancier place


best  
190567.

I know that nobody is going to respond to this, but I'll post it anyway.

My secret?  I hate Papa John's pizza.  It's the soggiest, most gross pizza I have ever tasted.  Every single time I'm with somebody who wants pizza, they order Papa John's.  I always act grateful, but deep down I am disgusted.  I eat the pizza anyway, because I want to respect the people I am with.  The last time I've been with people who ordered pizza that wasn't Papa John's was 2009.

I feel guilty and upset with myself for admitting this, and not saying anything to anybody until now.


best  
190566.

I don't know man. I'm more computer savvy than my husband. Not because I'm smarter, but because I'm more patient and take time to figure things out and find solutions. I've learned a lot along the way.


best  
190565.

When I have technical computer questions and I go online to seek out an answer, I'm much happier when a guy answers. There is a far better chance he knows the solution. This is so sexist of me, but you all know I'm right.

F


best  
190564.

I also do my own work around the house. I've painted rooms, tiled bathrooms, laid down wood flooring, reshingled parts of the roof, fixed broken pipes. All because of what I've learned from DIY people posting the How To information online. I've saved a fortune. Another thing too, I do better work than the "professionals". It's my house. I put in the extra effort to cut a tile just right so it fits perfectly. More people should do their own work. It's satisfying and it forces the professionals to keep their prices in line.


best  
190563.

I have quit alcohol, drugs, and cigarettes.

I have not been able to quit binge eating chocolate or picking. I don't do either of those often, but when I do I go all out.

I am proud of the hard work it has taken to give up so many unhealthy, self-sabatoging behaviors, and yet I still feel like I have so far to go.

It has been years already.

God help me.  

I don't know how to turn off the compulsion in my brain once it's triggered. It is a very painful cycle. It hurts. It isn't even enjoyable in the moment.

I feel so much guilt, shame and remorse.

How much more time until I can heal from this shit?!


best  
190562.

To the young woman who (wrongly) suggested that I was sexually harassing her in the office- you don't know that LinkedIn shows you who's looking at your profile.  I can guess you're looking at my Facebook profile, too.  That's the difference between people who do that shit for attention and those of us who are actually wronged by people.  I haven't cared to look at any of your online profiles since you left this place.


best  
190561.

30 years ago I was a young office worker early in my career.  My boss would occasionally leave messages and let me know she had a personal issue and wouldn't be able to make it that day.  It wasn't a problem, of course.  Life gets in the way sometimes.

One day- one time- I had to do the same.  I had a personal issue and couldn't come in.  I left her a message.  The next day, I got a message from her.  Wow, was she pissed that I had taken a personal day for personal reasons and hadn't cleared it with her first!  You would have thought the world had come to an end.

For years I would think that that's the way it went.  The boss gets to do what he or she wants, the rest of us have rules to follow.  Now that I'm older... no.  Work rules apply to everybody in the office.  If I tell my subordinates that I have to take a personal day when something comes up, that applies to everybody, down to the office admin at the front desk.

I used to think that boss I had years ago was an okay boss, but now I'm realizing she was shitty.


best  
190560.

558: You are The Man! Talk about having your cake and eating it too....


best  
190559.

Oh my God I hate fucking being married! If I file for divorce he will kill me, or hunt down my family and shoot up their fucking church. So I'll just stay. Never have sex again, be yelled at, berated, abused. What the fuck. Death might actually be better than this, but of course he knows that. That's why he'll kill people I love.


best  
190558.

I'm fucking my wife's sister. Once every 7-10 days I drive over to her place about 90 minutes away and we spend the entire day together. I arrive and we have coffee and talk a bit, then we climb into bed relax, have sex, catch some zzzz's. Mid day we go out for a movie or lunch come back and do more, then I leave about 6 or so.

Annie is divorced and wants a man on a regular basis, but does not want a man living with her.  As she tells me she went through a mental list of every man she knew for 6 months and the pros and cons of each for an arrangement such as this, and kept coming back to me. She is the one that proposed this, and Yes she got the approval of her sister also. m59


best  
190557.

I had a dream about her. When I awoke, everything seemed right again. She had been there to help me see that there is magic in this world.

I want her to hug me and tell me that it will be alright.

She looked after the kids. The oldest kid gets to be the mom's personal assistant. She could do most of this reasonably well, but the weight of it was too much. That's how we met. In a place where time doesn't really exist. It's the twilight between who we were and oblivion.

I


best  
190556.

Sometimes I think I still miss you. But then I remember the womanizing alcoholic with no soul and no heart, totally obsessed with his own dick ( just like his father).

And I feel better.


best  
190555.

Crowded concert at a nightclub.  I am at/near the front by myself but I can feel people surging towards the stage at times.  I take it upon myself to hold back the crowd.  The women dancing just to the front and side of me thank me profusely.  Then the serious hottie of the group is getting drunkenly pawed at every 5 minutes by randos.  So I start providing cover for her.  All is well and she is extra thankful.  A VIP section stage left invites their mixed group to join randomly.  One of their group is motioning to the hottie to include me.  I see a little shake of her head.  I get left behind.  Fuck it.  It was the right thing to save them BUT

fuck if I'll do that again.

M 45 MGTOW believer


best  
190554.

Straight out of university, I was assigned a teaching post at a high school with a rather tough reputation.  During that time, while out in the school grounds one day on yard duty during a recess break, I was threatened by a kid whom I had taken to task for throwing some rubbish.  I didn't teach this kid, but when I reported the incident to the deputy principal and we identified the kid from class photographs, I learnt that he was a known troublemaker.  I taught his twin sisters, and they were no problem, and he also had an elder brother at the school who also wasn't regarded as a problem.  Just him.

I left teaching after two years for a career change.  I never regretted it, and in my retirement am now on far better retirement benefits than I would have been had I remained in teaching.  Some years ago, I discovered that the elder brother of this troublemaker kid was running a website and message board for ex-students of that high school (which closed and was demolished years ago because of the changing demographic profile of its area).  From that website I learnt that that kid that threatened me had died a few days before his eighteenth birthday as a result of a car accident.  I can't say that I regret that, either.


best  
190553.

With all the knowledge that is available for free on YT and Pinterest and alt. why wouldn't one diy around the house? I have saved so much money over the years, doing my own plumbing, electric, cement work, landscaping, upgrading around the house...all it takes is a little bit of time and a basic set of tools (but of course, the more, the better).

F/46


best  
190552.

I'll never marry him but I will love and fuck him.


best  
190551.

A MEE TOO Modest Proposal:

I totally agree with this MEE TOO STUFF - - Every word of it.

Since the NY Times (allegations - that destroy a man's finances & career) and the social (justice warrior) media everywhere has deemed themselves constitutional experts in the rule of law - I say, we put ALL MEN in concentration camps.  

WHY - because they are MEN   This is the MEE TOO age.    All men are guilty of sexual assault (on allegations - and need to be outed - -  without due process of law) or will be guilty at some point in the future.

Let's lock all the men away in a concentration camp like the Nazi's did to the Jews.  

Like the United States of America did to the Japanese CITIZENS OF AMERICA during WWII - let's intern ALL MEN until further notice - on account of being a man.

We'll call them "MEE TOO MAN PRISONS" - and we won't wait until a crime is committed.  We'll take them as soon as they are born - and put them in prison.


best  
190550.

All of the stories that people are sharing about the time(s) they were assaulted have made me feel a lot better about the times that I was assaulted. I blamed myself for years, and I had friends and family members alike tell me that I was a liar.

I'm so glad that people are being exposed for being predatory. I hope it doesn't stop. No one deserves to be harassed, assaulted, raped, or any combination thereof. Women don't deserve it, men don't deserve it, absolutely no one deserves to be victimized.

Maybe one day we will live in a world that actually punishes predatory behavior instead of being indifferent to it.

If you're shared your story with the world, you're my hero. I know how painful it is to come forward and not be believed. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.


best  
190549.

My gym teacher in elementary school was mean to me. He made me sit in dog shit. There were 28 kids in the class. He announced we had to break into 4 teams of 8. I commented that we should break into teams of 7. He took offense at me correcting him. In front of everyone he made me sit in dog shit. It was more than humiliating. If he pulled a stunt like that today he would have been arrested. But back then it was okay for a teacher to be the bully. About a month after that incident, he died. His heart stopped. He was about 40. Now it is many years later. I think about him sometimes. I'm never mean to anyone. God is watching.


best  
190548.

I miss him.

I miss his voice.
The sound of his laugh.

I miss the texting, the dreaming, the longing.

But it's gone.

Him, the dream, the wishes, the hope.

All gone.


best  
190547.

I'll always love you and be here for you no matter what...💕


best  
190546.

My wife = drug addict. My wife is a useless suburban soccer mom junkie. She refuses help. She says she doesn't need it. She thinks it's perfectly fine to forget to pick up our son after soccer practice. She justifies it by saying it all worked out in the end. Yes it worked out because I'm constantly rushing around cleaning up these messes she creates. Part of me hopes she overdoses on whatever she's sticking up her nose this week.


best  
190545.

I've been struggling with depression since childhood. I can remember as far back as 5 years old. Upon the first few seconds of waking up each morning, I am half asleep and half aware of the "reality" that I can sense in five different ways. I am in bliss because I am not fully conscious of the truth but also am somewhat aware that things in front of me are tangible. As much as I try to hold onto this in all sorts of ways, I cannot help but to gain full awareness, the heaviness starts to sink in...like morphine injected into your IV. I am slipping back in to the void I always knew. This isn't where I want to be. This is a purgatory, where I am encased. I begin to feel claustrophobic under this atmosphere; on this planet. The world where I retreat to inside holds more than three dimensions, but it is also a maze. I never know what I will run into but all I know is that I have to keep moving--much like it is here "reality". I very well know that I am giving out in exhaustion. All I want to do is sleep because I am always homesick. I don't belong here and I don't believe in peace on earth.


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190544.

Despite all the great expectations...ya just can't go back


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190543.

I have never cheated on girlfriend but i can understand how some women can drive a man to an affair. I am not condoning that behavior & it happens both ways, i am just sympathetic.
I once dated this girl that turned out to be really cold, abusive and demeaning to me, sharing the same home became unbearable...
I would stay late at work so i didnt have to deal with her once i got home. She would put me down all the time,.I thought it was perhaps some superiority complex issue, she was white i am black i couldnt understand how you can claim to love someone and want to tear them down all the time.
Anyhow, i ended the relationship, years later i found out she was a lesbian all along.
She basically hated all men, especially Latinos...lol
4 years of my life i will never get back..
Fuck that bitch!!!


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190542.

These people cheat and wonder why their spouse hates them. Smh


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190541.

I've become what i disdain the most...an individual operating my life with a victim mentality. I've allowed you to issue too much hurt and pain and manipulation and deceit upon me...allowed it. i could have walked away at anytime. it is not as though we have a "future". that.... for many reasons, has always been impossible. so remaining in this pain and emotional sickness with you has simply been self indulgence. i am no longer capable of even holding up the mask of trying to be an appropriate adult person under the weight of the pain we have forged together. i need to disengage. i need to retreat and insulate. i need that to be my decision...or at a minimum come to a place of serenity as you level disengagement upon me as a punishment for my "transgressions" of my emotional melt down of last night when i feared you were lying and feared your abandonment.  somehow...writing it here for strangers to possibly read...holds me to the reality of my culpability for what it is. hopeless disfunction that needs to stop.  and it's up to me


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190540.

Just divorce me, you fucking pussy twat. What the fuck are you waiting for? Maybe she's nice to you now...like I used to be...because she doesn't yet realize who you really are. A piece of shit worthless, brainless idiot...who can't make me prgasm and never could.


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190539.

Can you spot the difference?

I go to my girlfriend's apartment yesterday a bit before noon and she's got my favorite sandwich ready for my lunch. We take a nice long shower, teasing, not fucking, just touching and light kissing. We dry each other off, get in bed, have a nice slow fuck and nap. Wake up, have a nice conversation about interesting topics. I leave, go home.

Wife starts in on me before I make it inside the house. I've got my car keys in one hand, grocery bag in the other and she is bitching me out because I bought the wrong percent milk. It just goes on from there, another shitty Friday night. She alternates between ignoring me and criticizing me. I can't remember the last time we had sex.

So don't wonder why I'm having an affair.


best  
190538.

I feel like I want to be out of the dating game forever. Everyone I've met just doesn't fit. I have no hope.

27/F/NYC


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190537.

It sounds like the men on your family didn't have many ambitions or goals on life, I had both type on my family strong males (ambitions and goal horiente) but I also have very strong females , my grandfmother was a great sales person she even had a company car ( they were only given to top sales people on her company) my mother is the same she runs and own a small business and my father doesn't believe in gender roles he believes women are as capable as men the problem with my parents it was both wanted to be on top of their careers and it was impossible because my fathers job required constantly moving around , so my mother had no choice but to become a home stay mom and ended up divorcing when I was a teen .  Sometimes it's impossible to have all , it's all about balance and priorities.


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190536.

I'm beginning to think that men are just fancy apes... It's unfortunate. I really don't want to have to think this about a particular sex, but I feel I'd be denying reality.

For example, men will succumb to anger, competition, sexual advances, and generally be opportunistic if the situation calls for it. (Of course there are women who do this, but I feel it is less common.)

All throughout my life, it's always the women who have been strong and 'wore the pants in the family'.  Looked over the finances, made more money, were more engaged in life itself ... and then there were the men who were along for the ride.   My mother made 2x as much as my father while they were working.  Along with income, she was generally much more ambitious - wanting start businesses, interested in real estate, etc.

Even my therapist I've been seeing... she hasn't said it explicitly, but from the advice she gives me it seems like men need to be 'reigned in', taught, pushed, and treated like children at some points. Is this really true??? Would I need to act like a mother to my future partner?  Would I need to really 'keep an eye out' so he's not cheating or doing something stupid?

Perhaps men are just creatures who want to keep to themselves. Not sure. I'm not trying to be offensive, just trying to figure this all out.


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190535.

My son [he is 22] is my closest friend. I really enjoy his company. We talk about so many interesting things. I'm not sure this is healthy though. I should probably back away and allow him more time with people his own age.


best  
190534.

It news to me to read about husbands who don't have sex with their wives because these men have lost their sex drive. Me, I'm almost 60 (male) and my libido is the same as when I was 20.


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190533.

i remember.
best for last.


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190532.

People at work treat me like I'm from another planet because I can actually answer a question intelligently. "How do you know all this??" You do realise the internet can also be used for learning, right?


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190531.

My hot water stopped working. This is problem one. I have to take frigid showers. Problem two. I can't jerk off in a frigid shower. It was the only private spot in the house. So now I can't jerk off at all. This can't go on. Mr. Plumber, get here quick. It's an emergency.


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190530.

My town has a $100 million budget. This money is raised through property taxes.  $85 million of that goes to the schools. That's insane. We are spending far too much money teaching kids. You know how much it costs for a child to sit down and read a book? Zero. You know how much it costs for a child to practice math problems on a piece of paper? Zero.

Kids can learn for free if they are motivated.  But instead, we spend boatloads of money thinking it will enhance their learning. We give them sports fields, and computers, and auditoriums. No. Stop it. Tell these children and their parents to go read a book for free. They don't need the rest of these perks.

Public school Education has to be the mostly costly scam ever thrust upon the world.

GO READ A BOOK!


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190529.

I cant imagine to marry someone for just money or sex. Both are fleeting/momentary... if you marry someone you don't like and/or respect, you're really fucked in the long run... Once, a very wealthy man offered to marry me (his first wife received a couple millions in divorce settlement). He said, he knew instantly that he wanted to marry me. I have the feeling, that in a weird way, it could have worked. However, I didn't really like him. I guess, there went a financially carefree lifestyle of not ever having to work a real job. And free time and travel. I couldn't do it, because my heart wasn't in it. My current partner is well off, we both work and know that we'll be together until the day we die...


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190528.

494...Yesss, I am mostly great and into scandalous primal fucking sessions with a woman until i fall in love with the woman, then somehow i respect her too much to do those things with & to her.
It always confuses me...the brain is funny that way sometimes. I call it the "Rental car Effect"...Lol
I gently make love to a woman i love and care about but if i dont love or care for you in that sense besides the primal physical attraction to each other, we are definitely "FUCKING"...in the car, Garage,packing lot, Bathroom, living room, Bedroom, finger up your ass, anal, tying you up...lol
I once drove to a womans place of work in the middle of the day finger fucked & went down on her in the packing lot...when we were done i took off her panties & kept them...she went back to work commando style.
So yes some men such as myself act diffently in loving committed relationships than while casually dating.
I love my current girlfriend, she is a very classy lady...
She has no idea i can be that kind of low down freak.
LOL!!
I wonder if there are others out there with such split sexual personalities ?

BM36


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190527.

I hate her. She constantly drains my strength. Everything is a battle with her. I say good morning, she demands to know what I mean by that.  What do I mean? I mean good morning. But this is what life is like with her. Every interaction with her is a burden. She is my wife.


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190526.

I still don't know why I wasn't good enough?


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190525.

Family and children should be left alone , regardless of what kind administrations are run .  They were many people who saw Obama and Bush as bad presidents with horrible policies and went on and attack their wife and children, it's unfair they didn't ask for they have no control over what their husbands do and don't do on the White House . I'm pretty sure there are many spouses who don't believe or agree on everything, should their spouses and children expect to be insulted and not like based on the husband/father.   And before you start saying , oh but Michel and her daughter were bullied and insulted too doesn't mean people should lower a themselves and do the same ( by the way , I never bad mouth them either ) now I believe that Ivanka and her husband have no business whatsoever to be so involved and part of the administration however what makes me more upset that nobody confronted Trump and told him no you cannot do that but doesn't mean I'm going to act childish less and a bully and start calling Ivanka names like they do with Melania .   I might laugh at a comedy sketch but I refused to jump on the wagon and insult his family for the exception of Mr. Trump himself and the worst name I have call him is an orange chetto .


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190524.

Melania may or may not be "elegant". This is irrelevant. What is relevant is that her husband is running the most corrupt, incompetent, traitorous regime in American history.


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190523.

If you blindly accept everything a doctor tells you, be prepared to be a constant patient for LIFE. I look back at all the things I refused like depression medications, knee replacements, ovary removal, etc... and I'm glad I was smart enough to refuse. I see everyone around me young and needing constant surgeries, taking pills you don't need, and listening to doctors- who are now basically instruments of the pharmaceutical companies. WAKE UP PEOPLE, you are being drugged and experimented on!!!!


best  
190522.

She sleeps the beautiful sleep of a woman well loved...  my new muse.


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190521.

I married my wife for a few reasons.

1) She had about $100,000 in the bank.

2) I wanted regular sex.

Notice none of this has anything to do with love. Because I don't love her. I have never loved her.

In the end it wasn't worth it. I've had to put up with such crap from her. She's an annoying hateful person. The $100,000 was quickly spent (by her) and then she started living off my money. And the sex hardly happened.

Serves me right I guess. I messed up.


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190520.

Internet security is downright dumb. In the last few years many companies will not allow their in-house computers to connect to http sites, only https sites. They view this as being much more secure. Because https site are all reputable and none have a virus...... oh wait, any unscrupulous webmaster can change their site to work under https. So the only thing a company accomplishes by forcing the https issue to to block many perfectly valid websites. But the malicious ones still get through. It's just dumb.


best  
190519.

I can't afford to turn on the heat.


best  
190518.

There was porn 100 years ago. Google "Victorian porn" and prepare to be amazed.


best  
190517.

i shouldn't have to give you a rundown of my sexual history to "prove" my bisexuality to you


best  
190516.

-498, in my 55 years I've come across 3 types of gay men.  

Type 1 - The obviously gay man.  Most gay men are this type.  They have voices that are more feminine than masculine.  They're emotional.  They dress very, very well and are immaculately groomed all the time.  If they don't dress well, then they at least aren't dressed like slobs.

Type 2 - These guys look like any other guy, except for one thing - they are in amazing physical shape.  These guys could be models for Greek statues.  These men worship the male body, and they spend hours in the gym.

Type 3 - These guys look just like the rest of us straight men.  You just can't tell them apart.  Maybe 10% of gay men are like this.  At least one of my male friends is this type.  I never knew for years.


best  
190515.

I hate hearing, "yeah, to be honest, at the party, she looked like she was really into him."
gee, thanx.


best  
190514.

Didn't Mussolini,sided with The Nazis and was a good friend of Hitler's? Hahah, I'm don't even consider my self all white and I see myself as a mix raced.  However, every person regardless of race , can be racist.  Didn't the Japanese saw themselves as a superior race too, during WW2 ?


best  
190513.

Sometimes ignorance can truly surprise me. Not always, but sometimes.


best  
190512.

I don't know if it's the seed of Satan or by popular demand. Hitler's lineage.
But "The White Man" all Caucasians, I can't not stand. Don't know if it's all European decent. But all of those who have some type of bloodline are all bound to be the same bout. This is why Nobody seriously likes Donald Trump. Why I didn't vote for him, nor can't stand him. This is the very reason why the vast majority can't stand him neither. Every white man/woman have all these traits in common and it's sickening and annoying. I don't even think they can see this in themselves because they are all blinded by the truth and all have their own heads stuck up their ass's. Every white man I have seen or been in contact with my whole life, all have these traits in common it's seriously nerve recking annoying! They're all pompous, all judgemental, thinking that they're above all and better than everybody. They think everyone owes them something. Always so critical of others. Very jealous to the point of competition with those whom they are very jealous of. Very phony! I don't know if it has to do with their ancestoral history line or what? On how the Europeans, were jealous of the Jews, wanted to take over everything they owned. They did it when they settled in America as well
with the Indians. To the point of wanting them dead. They are all filled with some type of hate towards humanity. Some display it while others try to hide it. And honestly believe everyone is oblivious to their characteristics.  They are the most immorally disgraceful race known to man. I think that's why majority of them have a reprobate mind, perverted. Majority of their people raped other races. They raped the Jews and Indians. Yet they all walk around pretending as though glitter is gold. They are the most judgmental and critical people out of all other races. What will derive them is utter rural jealousy and insecurities, believing everything has to belong to them. Just like their ancestors. That's where selfishness comes in. They are the race who created "Keep up with the Jone's" for better words I would like to introduce to you instead to "Keeping up with the Kelly's. I kid you not. Perfect example. If you're neighbor is a white Caucasian or has an ounce of seed in them of it. This is exactly how they will behave I kid you not. Here's a perfect example: Mark just found out you purchased a jet ski, give it a week and you'll see him with a boat. You just bought a car, they'll go purchase a truck. You want a house? Well...don't snicker about it to the Kelly's because I assure you they'll buy a mansion. It's all about "popularity" or "status quo" for them. Do you see where I'm getting at with this? They are utterly disgusting. They are very, very highly contradictory as well. Thinking and believing they are better then everyone else, yet do the very same thing they just got done criticizing someone about, yet can do worst! See what I'm getting at here! It's very seldom you meet any of them who have broken "That Hitler's" generational evil seed. The Curse! Sad part is, none of them believe this to be true of them or can't see this in themselves at all. The biggest one that urkes me is; they all put up a phony facade. Here's the kicker I'm half white, and I'm utterly ashamed. This is why I never claim it and I will act more Italian my other race beforehand. They are the biggest disgrace to the human race.

46 Male Italian


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190511.

My problem with the "small" "isolated incidents"  is that they add up to the bigger picture: it's never OK. Not in a big way. Not in a small way. I don't know what your intentions were. I'm not a mind reader. I only know what you said or did. People standing up and saying this isn't OK - it was never OK. You've just been getting away with it. To those who tell us to "suck it up" should probably take some of their own advice.


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190510.

I've been spending more time alone, and my energy has been replenishing, I think. Either way, I enjoy it more than spending time with people right now. As an empath I feel too imposed upon when I'm around people for too long. It feels good to just be in my own element, with nobody's feelings in the room but my own. It's the only time I'm ever truly myself


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190509.

I truely feel like every man has in one way or another sexually harassed a woman at some point in their life span, whether it was on purpose or not. That being said, yes there are different degrees of harassment and the high levels of that are definitely not ok, but come on, a small comment her or there most the time not thinking that it is harassment, let it the fuck go. I'm a woman and I'm pretty sure I have been harassed once or twice but thought nothing of it becuase it wasnt extreme and it didn't offend me. I probably have been the harasser to men and didn't realize it. Everyone harasses everyone, we're human. Humans are sexual beings, kinda in the DNA. So if you weren't offended by it and it didn't do you mental/physical harm LET. IT. GO.


best  
190508.

You do exist. My dream is real.

What a cruel and breathtakingly beautiful irony.


best  
190507.

It sucks that we love each other and that that's not enough. We were so good together, and of course we fought sometimes, but we shared a genuine connection that is so hard to find in this world. I just wish I'd realized when I had it all the little signs that you loved me. We could have made it all the way.

See, he wants to be stable, settle down, take care of his family, be the breadwinner, yada yada...make things better for himself and his loved ones. To go the family route. A simple but fulfilling life, to some.

Me, I want to travel the world. I don't really want or need nice things, I want to experience all that life has to offer. I want to focus on *our* happiness. He doesn't see himself doing these things, but I do. I could take his hand and we could do it all together. And it's him that I'd want with me.

But we have different visions for our lives. Still, it's funny how the day you looked me up again was after the night I dreamed that we were in love and living together, and I woke up missing you more than I had in months. It's like that old myth about people leaving their bodies and connecting in dreams. I hope you dream about me.


best  
190506.

i fucking hate my girlfriend


best  
190505.

It's not just men who are hiding the fact they are gay. My wife was a lesbian before I met her. She was heavily involved with one particular women for 10 years. They broke up. My wife decided it was time to give men a try, so she turned on the sweetness and charm and roped me in. My life's been hell ever since. My wife keeps testing her hetero life, vacillating between wanting me and not wanting me. She keeps pushing the buttons to try to destroy us, so she can go back to being lesbian I suppose, but then feels guilty and starts believing in us again. She doesn't know what to do, but her swinging back and forth is killing me, killing us. It sucks.


best  
190504.

If Hillary became President we would have been living in white pant suit heaven!


best  
190503.

502 Good point. America refusing to be great again. Some up and coming designer should step up and make a name for themself. I supose they risk being blacklisted.


best  
190502.

First Lady Melania Trump must be the most elegant first lady ever.She is relaxing more and looking great on this Asian trip with the President. Arrogant -holier than thou-American designers refused to dress her so now she is sensational in European designer clothes.It could have been a great time for American fashion to have such an elegant First Lady wearing American made clothes.Way to go America!


best  
190501.

The only way a woman can be sure that a man is gay of he tells you. Some men are 100% straight and some men are 100% gay  and every degree in between. Some men enjoy woman 80% and men 20% or the other way around.Bisexual men are 50% straight and 50% gay.Humans are sexual beings-accept that.


best  
190500.

Use to act like I might be gay to my partner.  Holy shit that was funny as hell.  Just seeing her buttons get pressed over that was just the funniest shit ever.

Kevin Spacey decided that this is a good time to announce that he was gay since he has been facing public allegations of sexual misconduct. (Since all good Christian folks know that these behaviors are intertwined, lol for sarcasm )  I just always assumed he was gay. It's pretty obvious. That is an example of a good intuition about someone, aka "gaydar"

The weird thing about mairage; people will do almost anything to undermine their vows. Your partner drives you crazy and you say and do things you would NEVER do under normal circumstances.

It reminds me of the story I once heard  about a man who met a woman in a bar. Man goes home with a woman. The woman says I want you to tie me up and do whatever you want to me,  after which I will tie you up and do the same.

He proceeds to tie her up and then he engages in some relatively bland fetish sex,  after which she proceeds to tie him up ,  and who should appear but her boyfriend  dressed in a superman outfit.  The lady leaves the room to make herself a sandwich while the boyfriend  painfully sodomizes the guy from the bar off and on for the next eight hours.

A deal is a deal


best  
190499.

Knowing him, I know he chose to not acknowledge it.
Such things show you someone's true colours, when they purposely try to be hurtful.


best  
190498.

men: tell me PLEASE what are the signs a man is gay? like, seriously. I read these horror stories about women married, with KIDS to men who hid being gay for decades. how do you not know? how do you KNOW?
how can a gay man have sex with a woman for decades and pretend he isn't gay? how the hell does that work?


best  
190497.

I find it interesting that I have somehow always been attracted, innately, to males that are great in bed and have no issues with going for a long time.


best  
190496.

It's always the knuckle head ugly moon face jackasses that whip out their member cause it worked... until now.


best  
190495.

I'll be forever grateful for the authenticity you brought into my life in All Ways.


best  
190494.

I wish he would just get over his fear and make love to me like a real man. I think he respects me too damn much! Is there a time when a man loves and respects a woman too much to fuck her?


best  
190493.

I used to think it was a good idea to sacrifice the present for the future. Until my uncle died unexpectedly  in his early fifties. He was very frugal. I always thought he was kind of poor. There were a lot of things he never did. But my mother told me later that he had quite a bit saved up. They used his savings to pay for his funeral and the rest went to his mother. Don't completely sacrifice the present because sometimes there is no future.


best  
190492.

Was the best time of my life. Always will remember you.


best  
190491.

It was the darkest of times and seemingly the best of times.


best  
190490.

If he could stop watching porn, perhaps he could fuck me longer than 3 minutes. Absolutely pathetic. It makes me wish I was born a hundred years ago. I'll bet men in that generation were incredible lovers. They didn't have some ridiculous expectation of being able to cum in my eyes or actually think I'd enjoy tripe penetration. I'm willing to bet sex didn't resemble open heart surgery.
So many men of this generation are dull.


best  
190489.

I will be very disappointed if the sexual harassment/abuse allegations against Louis CK are real.


best  
190488.

So my friend who I've known since I was 8 and I fucked. He pursued me pretty hard this summer, um he has a girlfriend. I didn't realize at first he was laying the groundwork, since he has a girl,thought he was flirting, but he put it out there since i am now single. Ive been with the same guy for 9 years and he respected that, but I think his relationship is broken because she cheated on him. He took her back 8 months later. Seems like he had this childhood crush on me. Well we fucked, he seemed to like it, looking in my eyes, but I haven't heard from him. He went from texting me almost everyday to nothing.  I broke and texted him 4 days later with a hi, and he reponded, but I'm aware he didn't look for me. He didn't text me on his own. That was last week and there's been silence since. I feel hurt, yea whatever I know he has a girl, I'm not looking to get judged here, I would have liked a "how are u feeling?" Or "how are you?" But nothing. I would expect that from some guy but not my childhood friend. He came twice, was kissing me like crazy, we fit nice, so what happened?


best  
190487.

Never sacrifice the future for the present.
Use your goals for the future to guide your present.
Short term or long term.
Always sacrifice the present for the future.
Learn from Jordan Peterson on YouTube.
Millions have already.


best  
190486.

I asked my Facebook friends today, "If given the choice, would you put more effort into a long term goal or a short term goal? Assume that it's somehow impossible to do both at the same time."

Now, I know this depends heavily on context, but an interesting result I found was that all my friends under 30 said "short term," and all my friends above 30 said "long term."

I think it's funny, because younger people are more stereotypically short-sighted, because their lives have been relatively short and they are more concerned with the present than older folks. And I can see why older folks would go for long term, because they have the experience to know that putting effort into a long-term goal has a better payoff at the end.

I might start using Facebook to take more polls like this; I could really learn something!


best  
190485.

Who ends a 10 month affair, meets a guy on Craigslist and in two short weeks starts a bdsm relationship?
Someone who hates her husband, her three kids and is trying to get caught.
Hope you are happy


best  
190484.

I loved you at your darkest.


best  
190483.

i hope that space shuttle crash landed on your fucking house!


best  
190482.

You can order non alcoholic drinks , I believe most places even have non alcoholic beer .


best  
190481.

I see a lot of posts about people drowning in debt or having no hope. Spend the best $10 of your life and buy Dave Ramsay's book called "Total Money Makeover." It is a proven plan to get out of debt. It took me over 2 years, but now I'm debt-free! I just got married and found out my new wife has over $40k in debt from making bad decisions about credit cards, car loans, personal loans, etc. We just put together a household budget and are now working her debt snowball. We should have her debt-free in about 18 months. This is the first time she has ever used a budget and now she sees a light at the end of the tunnel. This has reduced her stress levels and we haven't had to argue about money for several weeks. She has started to see the progress.

The book is awesome and it forces you to look hard at your spending practices and reasons why you are broke. The best part is that there is a real plan and specific order of doing things that works. Dave's web site has a free budgeting tool and many free tutorials, but the book has the whole plan in step-by-step procedures.

I got financially wiped out by a divorce and an ex-wife that racked up huge credit card bills before she ran out on me. Becoming debt-free has taken away my depression and helped me make better decisions about my future. I have no association with Dave Ramsay other than that book gave me a plan when I was sure I was going to be in debt until I dropped dead at work. It is well worth the $10, but you have to stick to the plan. Good luck to all and may you one day be debt-free.


best  
190480.

When you no longer have feels for your spouse any more....
There is barely any warmth
There are no more laughs
There are no more sweet little surprises
There are no hugs or kisses
You sleep on opposite sides of the bed
If you have sex, you are reminded that you don't like each other
The only thing you talk about is children or bills.
Don't get married. This is how it turns out.


best  
190479.

I think that I would like to stop drinking, but me and my wife love going out to bars to chat, watch games, and people-watch. How do non-drinkers do it? I/we don't have a drinking problem, but I think I'm just mostly bored with it. If I could find a place like a sports bar where it was more like a coffee and dessert place with the same atmosphere, we would go there for sure. (There is nothing like that around us.)

I can only drink one or two O'Doul's because the taste is horrible. So what do non-drinkers do when they want to spend time in a bar with friends but don't want to waste money on alcohol or just eat non-stop so they don't look like a fish out of water?


best  
190478.

My grandpa died back in 1984 and I miss him every single day.  My mom was knocked up by a married guy back in the early 1960's and she kept me.  That just was not done back then.  Shortly thereafter, my mom married the guy who I always thought was my dad.  He was my dad.  I was my grandpa's favorite and I never knew why, but both of my grandparents wanted my mom to have me and they were our support system.

Being a guy, I only told him I loved him once, when he was dying.  I was crying and he asked me why I was crying, and I told him I loved him.  He told me he loved me too.  I loved him more than any other human being on earth and later that day when he died, I cried like a baby.  I am crying now.

1984 and it seems like yesterday.  I still miss him like crazy and wish he could have seen my two wonderful kids and my awesome wife.  He would be proud.

I love you grandpa.  More than I can ever tell you.


best  
190477.

476, you are so lucky to have known your grandparents and known that unconditional love.  I did not know my maternal GPs, and my paternal GM did not want to know us.  Have cousins I never met or knew and  I have never known the kind of love you speak of, and I often wonder if I may have been a different, better person if I had.  I have never been able to truly love another person, because i honestly did not know how - nobody ever showed me what that looked like.  And now it is too late.  I only know aloneness.  This is my great life's secret, and just typing it brings my tears.


best  
190476.

My grandparents on both side passed away 25 or so years ago and I still miss them so much! They gave me so much unconditional love. I wish they were still around... This thing about death is so wrong!
Im not so much afraid of my own passing, I just find having to livie without our loved ones heart wrenching....


best  
190475.

Is it a trick? The sirens don't sing for me. But they have. That's when I have always made bad choices. Sometimes you get a baby. Sometimes you get a faux future. It's a crazy adventure.


best  
190474.

My brain:  stop.
My heart:  I can't.


best  
190473.

Met this guy at karaoke the other night.  We instantly hit it off and I went home with him. It was super nice. And he is super interesting, I almost wanna say brilliantly so. It was so easy to be near him that I didn't even wanna part ways, but life tends to get in the way of endless snuggling and animated conversation.  I am extremely thankful for it and just hope he wants to see me again. He was just a breath of fresh air in a very stuffy world :)


best  
190472.

He forgot my birthday...or chose not to acknowledge it. I can't decide which is worse.


best  
190471.

I am horny as duck! I need physical intimacy and satisfaction! Self time isn't working! Problem is I amnit dating anyone and I don't do one night stands. What to do?


best  
190470.

I hated Game of Thrones.

I hated Westworld.

I really fucking hated Stranger Things.

It's not much of a secret but if I told any of my friends, people at work, or even random strangers I'd be laughed out of the room. Somehow it feels good to say it into the void.


best  
190469.

Today I notice the cashier at my grocery store which I frequent often got a new haircut, it look nice on her , I was about to say something but then I thought about . What about if her boss , standing next to her would take it the wrong way like "sexual harassment " even though it was just a compliment, I decided not to say anything just to be safe .  I'm sure she wouldn't mind it since I see her there quite often and the few times I interact with her she seems bubbly nice young lady who actually likes to interact with people . It sucks this day when some people cannot act friendly with the opposite sex anymore because for fear on being view as a pervert with ill intentions.


best  
190468.

Lol , 😂 there's was a rumored a while back , supposedly Hillary having a sex tape featuring her and a black dude , of course Hillary says it's fake but you never known.  Maybe you can take one for the team and verify the story, don't forget to report back to us and let us knows if it's her or not.


best  
190467.

LOL. I jacked off to the idea Hillary Clinton. I pictured her car breaking down and me stopping to help....  I wouldn't vote for her but she's human, and feminine, and pretty good looking for a 70 year old. Worked for me.


best  
190466.

One time I was raped by a black guy.  I was in the bathroom covered in a towel, when he came in naked.  I tried to walk past him and leave.  He blocked the door, pushed me back, and stripped off my towel.  He started grinding against me for a few minutes, then repeatedly pushed my head down next to his penis.  I kept trying to get up, and he kept pushing me back down.  After a few tries he lost interest and left.  One of my first sexual experiences.


best  
190465.

While talking down on a person is just plain rude is not sexual harassment, maybe a bit sexist for being treated less while being yourself (a women) vs using the male screen name.


best  
190464.

CostCo is my favorite store!


best  
190463.

My sister-in-law was texting during my dad's funeral. She's so damned clueless.


best  
190462.

I am a female working in online customer service. I respond to questions in real time over the internet. I've found that if I use a male screen name people are much nicer to me. When they see me as a woman they tend to talk down to me and get mean. It's an unmentioned form of sexual harassment in the digital age.


best  
190461.

I am the perfect husband. Except I cheated on my wife 4 times. Yeh, except for that.


best  
190460.

I deserve so much more in life and yet I settle for garbage. WTF is this low self esteem shit?
I work hard, cook, clean - go out of my way for this man. Do his nails, massage him, serve him.... yet I have to beg him to come see me, when he rather go hunting and drink.
Fucking alcoholic piece of shit loser.
Yeh Im done.
Need to get some cats and stay single.
38/f


best  
190459.

I see those around me chase their ailments with Medicine/Doctors and surgeries. I try to tell them about the brilliance of Dr. Sarno, but they just dismiss it. Im so glad i discovered him, and his groundbreaking work on how the subconscious can make you have physical pain(s).


best  
190458.

Every time I orgasm, I think about this man.
He would never, in a thousand years know that I still think about his hands, his voice, his hair, his chest & that special spot on his elbow that I kissed 13 years ago. Gabriel, you may be getting married. You may love her. You might have not seen my face in at least a decade or more, or heard my voice or touched my hair, but no one else has kissed your elbow. I was the last. I'm blooming and wilting over thoughts of you. Oh, how I miss you.


best  
190457.

Political correctness is bullshit. I can understand that sexual harassment should be against the law, and should be punished, but some aspects of this has gone way over the top. Many people who have worked together for years, and now not able to kid or joke like before. I know a lady, worked with her for 30 years. We have a great working relationship. She is just as fun, as I am.... We would say and do things like, If she brought in flowers from her garden, I'd say "oh look how pretty", then follow it with, and so are the flowers".. we'd laugh she say things to me like, " hey what are you carrying your banana in your pocket for, then shed follow up with oh thats right you dont eat bananas, raise her eyebrows and say hmmmm....we'd laugh and give each other the fuck you finger, etc.... we were having fun in the hallway, she was joking I was joking and someone new said oh isn't that harassment? She said only if you are too much of a pussy to have fun....hahahhaa shes great.... but see that kind of stuff is on its way out...Fuck political correctness


best  
190456.

I was in a position in my career where I could have easily taken sexual advantage of women. I did not use the power. I did not even consider using the power. I seem to be the only man who thinks this way.


best  
190455.

When I was about 22ish I was dating a woman. She had a college friend come for a visit. All of us went out and I ended up crashing there at my girlfriend's apartment. Next morning my girlfriend had to go to work. That left me alone with the college friend. She was hot. She went in to take a shower and I did something jackassish. I quietly opened the bathroom door and poked my head in so I could watch her in the shower. There was a shower curtain blocking my view. No problem I thought. I came completely into the bathroom and positioned myself so I could see her through the crack between the curtain and the tile wall. Bingo, I could see everything. Which doh, meant she could see me too. And did. Oh my god did she flip out. It wasn't good. She said she was going to call the cops. She didn't but she did call my girlfriend. Like shit, I fucked up. That was the end of that relationship. I still have pangs of guilt over it. I'm not that pervy. Except I guess I am.


best  
190454.

It's going on two years since you left.  Could you please stay out of my dreams now?


best  
190453.

Excuuuuuuse me if I'm not the best at Mandarin in the morning. Prick


best  
190452.

I so very much miss my friend. We both cheated on our spouses and that was wrong. We both love our spouses and would never leave them in that two year affair however, we became great friends. It wasn't about the sex anymore. We just enjoyed each other. We would watch Divorce Court on TV while she rested her head in my lap and I played in her hair. She's pregnant now and I am happy for her new life as a mom. Even though things between us really ended that great trip to Orlando, we have not said a word to each other in over two months.  I respect your new life and that's why I don't try to reach out. I don't want to be “that guy” that doesn't get the hint to move on already. But I know you and you know that. I miss my friend and I know my friend misses me too.  Maybe I really didn't know her at all...


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190451.

Being someone who makes bad decisions, particularly with money, and being someone who has people that are angry with me  because of it, I can understand how people grow up with flaws like this, based on their own decision making, and end up alienating the people closest to them towards the end of their life. I hope to change this habit, because I'm about to be 24 and I want my ingrained habits to be better than this.


best  
190450.

I'm glad I stopped drinking.  I just wish I had stopped drinking 20 years sooner.


best  
190449.

I used to gossip with a former coworker about our respective love lives. He'd talk about his long distance friend in Brazil and I'd talk about my long distance fiancé's recent move to California to start a new job, and my plans to join him.  

One day I told my coworker that my fiancé called me to say he had decided to buy himself his first new car the very next day, and wanted my opinion on the make and model he should get. He gave me this weird look and said “don't take this the wrong way - but why would he just buy a new car and not really give you a say beyond the car type? Is he going to buy you a new car?” I told him no, but that I already have an old car waiting for me there that I can drive.

He told me the following: “I'm not trying to offend, but if I were in his shoes I'd take the money that the new car would cost and buy two decent used cars so both of us could get around safely.”

At the time I reassured him that my fiancé and I had things figured out but that I appreciate what he had to say. I had confidence that my future husband would put me first when it counted, and after all, it's just stuff. But those words ring in my head years later.

Those words ring in my head when my husband calls me pathetic or useless. I remember those words when my clunker spun out and crashed and I was forbidden from replacing my car because I'm “not responsible enough to own a car.” They rang in my head when I had to take the bus and walk to work 2 hours each way, in a city that literally has a song about how no one walks there, while my husband had a 20 minute commute but often refused to drive me to the train station if he didn't feel like it.

And now, they ring in my head as I keep trying to get my husband to go to therapy to save our dying marriage, knowing he keeps ducking out because he can't be bothered. That time when it counts has come and gone and my husband refused to put me first, although he showers me with affection so I'll forget there's a problem.

My coworker fucking called it. And I wish I had taken him more seriously. If I ever get out, I'll likely tell him so in person.


best  
190448.

I'm pretty sure you forgot about me, but I'm pretty sure that eventually I will have forgotten all about you too...
I made the mistakes, so I know those feelings will stay with me longer anyway.


best  
190447.

I'm glad you lost the election. You don't deserve to hold office, and I hate your political party.

Sincerely,

--Your daughter


best  
190446.

My secret , I don't tell many people that I lived on Bali , Indonesia for a while when I was a kid , my father got a contract over there and we stayed on the island for a while waiting to get transferred to Australia.  Many people (mostly Americans)assume you must be a Muslim or a Muslim sympathizer even though the majority of the people in Bali are Hindu not just that but my family is Catholic.


best  
190445.

0164 - you have the life I dread having. Don't want kids, and can't understand why anyone with half a working braid would spend so much money on your children, when the purchases don't have any immediate that on their education, or manners. You're a fucking idiot, and you are basic. You're so basic. I hope your husband leaves you.


best  
190444.

0164 - you have the life I dread having. Don't want kids, and can't understand why anyone with half a working braid would spend so much money on your children, when the purchases don't have any immediate that on their education, or manners. You're a fucking idiot, and you are basic. You're so basic. I hope your husband leaves you.


best  
190443.

The final diagnostic is that I am a narcoleptic with cataplexia. It is a relief to finally know for sure. It took a long time to get here and a shit-ton of arguing with doctors that no, I am not depressed; no, I am not crazy; no, I am not on drugs; no, I do not have sleep apnea; no, no, no.
Now that I know, I don't have to put up with people guilt-tripping me because they think I am making shit up. I am not. I am hardly ever out of REM sleep (which means my brain never rests) and I  have sleep paralysis and night time terrors and auditory hallucinations upon waking and falling asleep and I nod off at the most inopportune of times and there is strictly nothing I can do to stop myself from yawning 200 times a day. I am fucking tired, all the time and by that I mean 24/7, 365 a year. I wish this shit on no one, at all, never, ever.

And fuck every single person who rolls their eyes at me and think I am making this shit up. Because there is less than 1% of the US population affected by narcolepsy does not mean it can't happen to me.

And now, if you'll excuse me, I need to go to bed, sleep for 10 hours and wake up tomorrow feeling as if I barely got any rest. Yay, me.


best  
190442.

There are a couple reasons I wish I was a legit vampire. Glamouring, immortality, the ablility to turn off my humanity, my empathy.


best  
190441.

When I was an 11 year old girl, my mother's boyfriend's adult son who was around 20 showed me porn. Looking back, I wonder what the fuck.


best  
190440.

I will give you until the beginning of next year to pack and get the $&@" out , if not I'm going to the local authorities and FBI and report you for hacking which is a federal crime.  Let's see how tough and smart you think you are .


best  
190439.

I'm working on a book... scratch that. The book is done. It's being edited and I plan on self-publishing hopefully by New Years or some point in January. The problem is the book is mostly about my work experience at a very famous space place. It's a mega company too. I've been afraid of getting sued. The funny thing is, I dont have a dime to my name. I'm several grand in medical debt. The book is a combination dealing with how I survived my workplace, mental health and living with a particular disease. I dont work, have been struggling to find a job, my health, etc.

It's so tedious going back and changing the name of titles, places, things. I hope that the book will still be the same when its done being edited. Honestly, fuck them. They put me through fucking hell and treated me like shit. If they really sent me a letter telling em to stop, I'd list the book for free so its not considered being "sold for profit"  and probably let all the raunchier details fly. Fuuuuuuuck theeeeeeeem.


best  
190438.

I wish the loser of my neightbor would just pack and move. He is a grown man(child) living at his grandparents basement, always sticking his nose where it doesn't belong, talks all these bologna while sitting like a coward hidden behind a computer screen, what a loser.


best  
190437.

God I'm so bad at handling other peoples' grief. What the fuck are you supposed to do??


best  
190436.

Why are you afraid to see me? We are friends and not lovers unless you want to be lovers!


best  
190435.

So many women want to fuck me


best  
190434.

I must have dropped a couple of pounds of shit!!  My ass is hurting now.  It took me only a couple of sittings.  No wander, when I was sitting the first time, I had a pain on the left side of my abdomen.  I felt the shit getting ready to leave.  I got up the first time, after a massive shit, now less, came back to my office, sat for a couple of minutes, and felt something.  The second sitting, YIKES!!  Did I say my ass is hurting, no wander this fissure does not want to heal.


best  
190433.

My secret: I seem to be the only fucking person alive that is aware no one is going to come riding in on a white horse and save you from whatever bad things are in your life. You are in charge, and solely responsible for your story.


best  
190432.

Damn... You only came in for labs. JUST LABS. I didn't need to spend 2 hours hearing your entire life story.


best  
190431.

I was recording my weekly addiction show last night. While the host and guest were talking, the subject of addicts' families came up. They're both mothers of addicts and were discussing the pain of living with a child that has an addiction, having to give them tough love, or abandon them to let them make their own choices when they're adults, etc. They kept going back to how worried they always were for their addict children, so much so that they couldn't sleep sometimes.

It made me think, what about addicts whose families are unaware that they have an addiction? Does that make it better or worse? I hardly ever see my family, and a large part of that is because they don't have a clue what my life is really like. They don't know how many drugs I'm around on a regular basis, or that I smoke and drink with my roommates almost every day, or that a glass of wine in the morning (mostly on weekends) isn't a rare thing for me.

The initial separation happened a long time ago, but that's why I stay away now. And I'm certain that nobody really cares.


best  
190430.

428- Dude. Caffeine and food. You'll be fine.


best  
190429.

God, I wish I could be a fly on the wall during my ex's dating adventures. Lol, that would be hilarious. I'm not sure she knows how to be alone. There will be some good times along the way. More love-in-idleness.  I'd almost pay to see this.


best  
190428.

I have to take a big test today. I stayed up late studying. I woke up early with anxiety. I've only had a few hours sleep and I can't fall asleep again. My test is in a few hours. I can't think straight. I'm fucked. I'm going to masturbate now with the hope it knocks me out and I can get another little bit of sleep.


best  
190427.

I have peed in my own mouth. It's an acrobatic feat. I lay down in the shower. I lift my hips in the air and bend them over so they are hovering about a foot and a half above my face.  I pull my labia apart so they don't get in the way and let 'er rip. It takes a little getting used to but I can get the pee to shoot up in an arc and land in my mouth. I can also get it to land in my eyes which isnt so good. Ouhie. Pee stings the eyes.


best  
190426.

What kind of judge lets an ahole walk free , after fracturing an infant skull ? That's discussting , people like that should be keep in prison for life .  I hope the judge feels responsible and guilty for the deads of those innocent people.


best  
190425.

I've started selling off the furniture.


best  
190424.

The funny thing is that if you were really my friend, you still would have made contact, yesterday.
You say that I am selfish, but I keep seeing such behaviour from you.


best  
190423.

I'm a man who grew up with five sisters.  My dad was very gruff and unemotional.  All my positive emotional input came from my mom and sisters.  I feel a lot more comfortable around women than I do around men.  Most of my friends are women.  I am very capable of being around women without being sexually attracted to them, even if they're highly attractive.  I get along famously with women who have a lot of brothers.  It's caused some issues with women with ego problems.  I'm not unattractive and occasionally these women have thought that I'm hitting on them because I'm talking to them.  But most women have been fine, maybe even appreciative, that they can be friends with a guy without being hit on.


best  
190422.

18) I don't talk behind people's backs, if I have something to say I tell you to your face. If I don't like you I just avoid you completely, no reason to be phony or a hypocrite ,self defense and being independent has a lot of value , I come from a big city where kidnaping happens a lot , teaching your kids how to defend themselves , being aware of your surroundings, , and what to do on a stressful situations it's not reckless especially in today's world.  I believe all children should be taugh self defense and basic suvirvel skills , you never know when they might become useful .  


best  
190421.

I still ache for you and miss you.

Remember the night we spent before you took me to th airport in the morning really early? I haven't forgotten... I didn't give a damn that I missed my flight and got rescheduled for the next one. The extra time with you was worth it. I still love you and want you badly. I moved away and any chance of us being together became almost nonexistent. I'm so sorry and sometimes wonder if that's the biggest mistake I've ever made.

I miss your strong arms and the things you'd whisper in my ear. I miss everything about you. I don't know if you even want to talk to me anymore. I don't know if I'll be able to hold in how I feel because sometimes being around you steals the words from me. True isn't expressed in words. It's the way you looked at me and brushed my hair from my face and kissed me. It's the way the entire world melted away when we were alone together.

I still love you, and I want you above all others who might come my way. A part of me will always be reserved for you. Reserved for the spark of hope I carry that one day, we will finally have our heart's desires...I love you deeply, and perhaps in spite of the obstacles, I always will.


best  
190420.

My God he is an idiot. I get it, trust issues fucking suck, but get over yourself. Not everyone is out to get you. Some people do actually feel and understand love and how to do it. Why can't I find my guy who can trust one another and have our fun at the same time? I know I am a little crazy. I respect a little crazy and expect it in return. Let's not make this too complicated. Pretending is not fun anymore. I'd rather die alone than pretend to be someone I'm not.


best  
190419.

I wore a wedding ring for about the first month of my marriage. Then I put it in a drawer. I'm a guy. I don't like jewelry. Not my thing. I don't really like my wife either. I wonder if that's the real reason I took off the ring.


best  
190418.

Your dad taught you self defense, toughness or no sugar coating, but wouldn't that be considered reckless if it's never directly to a person you speak shit about and it's only done indirectly. Call me fickle but brings no value not if you can't be direct to a person directly. Or did pops teach you that it's o.k. to talk rubish about people behind their backs meanwhile smiling in their faces?
Good job pop's looks like you did a heck of a job raising your three girls tough like boys. Haha ;)


best  
190417.

I'm so excited to get married so that I can come home from work every day to someone who wants to smoke weed, watch TV, fuck, and talk about cool stuff.


best  
190416.

I look at my bookshelf. I see books that I have read, I see books I am planning to read.

Imagine if all that information went away or didn't exist in the first place.

If all of that never existed.

I've been to Niagra Falls. It's the kind of thing you have to see in person to fully appreciate.

I've never tried the hot wings in Buffalo. I've never been to Alaska. I've never tried Baked Alaska...actually It looks pretty good. But I won't know what to think unless I try it.






best  
190415.

I would like to reprogram Alexa to do as follows:

"Alexa, turn off the lights."

"Fuck no! Get up off your lazy ass and turn the lights out your own damn self!"


best  
190414.

I guess I'm the exception , my father always wanted boys but instead he got three girls and when my little brother was born he was over the moon . He treated me and my sister like boys , he used to take us to play basketball, taught us how to drive at a very young age (10) , taught us self defense, never sugar coated anything, he always used to tell us if someone tries to kidnap you or harm you on any way you fight back , I never grew up with the princess syndrome we were very independent at a young age , I used to take public transportation by myself including the subway .  The first time he took us to Dysneland we were more excited about the haunted mansion and space mountain over meeting princess it.  So I guess there's a reason I feel more comfortable around men ,my father treated me like a boy.

PS I'm not a lesbian and until this day I'm closer to my father than my mother.


best  
190413.

I can understand why some girls want labioplasty.  Porn can give people a weird sense of beauty.

With that said, I've never seen a bad vagina. :)


best  
190412.

I agree, I don't know why women would want to be "friends" with men... I have yet to meet a man that I'd like to be friends with. There are a few exceptions, but for the most part, I find men weak, lacking integrity and character. In addition, the large majority of them are obsessed with sex. So, in all fairness, unless you can offer something that I regard as of value to me, I don't want to talk to you either.


best  
190411.

I think that's why stupid girls get cheated on. Nobody likes a spoiled rotten, negative, hypocritical know it all. May I add two faced liars. Ya, you know those that smile in your face, but really like to talk shit about you right before that. Makes me wonder now if all my husbands side of the family are all alike? Nosybodies in peoples affairs. Lie, dramatize everything, gossip about others while they smile in their faces. Literally like snakes. So sad that they are all miserable. Some are alcoholics or have some type of addiction. It all makes sense now. Wondering how at least one will step up to brake the chain or change the cycle. Oh ya forgot my husbands has. Yet, I'm sure they find him "strange" for being the only one to do so.


best  
190410.

Selfish or greedy is someone that never worked a lick in their life but depend on society's taxes and moms and pops income to live a means. Not only is it a stupid lazy mentality but if one can only keep a job longer then a year? More then likely they are or wouldn't be found or looked at as incompetent and would be able to have/ held a job. The kicker is, they keep fooling themselves believing a higher education will do the trick. Ha, so little do they know...so little do they know. There are several people out there who have an IQ of a genius, yet are still stupid. Hope that makes sense. We know several out there. For starters, thinking a higher education will do it. Wow goes to show the nuttyness of some. They should just stick to their day job, do what they do best. Pick lint balls from nut-jobs.
;)


best  
190409.

Don't be such a fool use your brain. If you only were homeless and were given  two options which one would you choose? 1) $100 bill 2) A person offer you a job that pays enough to support and your family with benefits.  Which one you will think will benefit you on the long run ? People like you and stupid mentality it's what keeps some people on the poverty cycle, it takes money to build business and job opportunities, it takes money to fund education it's not about being selfish or greedy it's just how the world works .


best  
190408.

FUCK IT. It's a selfish world. A selfish society. No one cares about anything other than pics of themselves! I'll play along.


best  
190407.

im really sad that libs and dems dont get along better than they potentially could. :/


best  
190406.

It's hilarious to me that someone would argue that one sex is "made" to be more intelligent. As if that's science.
But it is positioned as a "scientific" fact.
You can't find common ground with those people.


best  
190405.

There's this guy that always post the same thing on everything, if someone on Facebook post about let's say an overprice (house, car, clothes, jewelry etc..) it will be followed by him " oh the money could go to some homeless or picture how many people could be fed "  I get it the world can be a depressing place and there's people who are suffering but does it means people should stop living their lives and enjoying them selves . I don't know what he thinks he is achieving by always posting the same thing , maybe he is the one who should donate all his money , clothes and materials possessions to the poor instead of trying to make everyone think like him .  By the way the best way ito make a difference on someone else life and get them out poverty is through education and creating opportunities so they can fend for themselves.  My husband helps his former school raise money for scholarships given to kids who cannot afford it otherwise he has even pick  someone's kids tuition  through the four years before .


best  
190404.

Colin Kapernick was in the process of being signed by Baltimore at the beginning of the season.  Then his girlfriend sent out a tweet that implied the owner was a racist and Ray Lewis, his biggest supporter in the program, a loyal house-slave.

A good woman will walk with you as you attain the highest heights.

A crazy woman will drag you down.

M 46 married 17 years to a prety good one.


best  
190403.

Hey slut married women, stop! Got hit on by 3 married women this weekend. No, I don't want to fuck you. Many men do. Go get them.


best  
190402.

Dear upstairs neighbor, you suck at playing the piano.  Stop.  Please.


best  
190401.

As a woman, I've imagined getting it on with every guy I know, as well. But it doesn't mean I can't be friends with the guys. Sometimes a little sexual tension in a friendship isn't a bad thing.


best  
190400.

I wouldn't say wearing a wedding ring makes a marriage. Or it possibly can. I remember on my wedding day I had to barrow my daughter's flower girl dress to wear. Because I did gain to much weight and got huge I got so fat that I couldn't fit into that darn wedding dress. Secret is, nobody told me how pathetic I looked in a little girls dress as a woman. Because more than likely I would have took it as though people were just being jealous. Life sucks I know. Because nobody will ever tell me the truth. Truth is not sometging I take well. Maybe they were being fake with me as they do on facebook by creating fake profiles with several personalities. I don't know fml.


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190399.

As a man, I can honestly say I've imagined every woman I've ever known.
naked
blowing me

Not all the time, but at least once.  Not dating and relationship.  Just primal.  Goes for friends, relatives, etc.  No one is immune.  Maybe I am the outlier but...

And the 'platonic' female friends?  I fantasize about them the MOST.


best  
190398.

Oh please, I'm a straight women who prefers male friends over women , maybe it was the way my father raised me IDK but I feel more comfortable around men and as a kid I didn't have any girl friends until I was about 10 or 11 , my few male friends that I have now are truly just friends nothing sexual going on.  By the way intelligence has nothing to do with gender the same as having a high IQ doesn't necessary means you will be more wealthy or successful.

PS I'm going out with my best friend (a male) to the movies this afternoon.


best  
190397.

I've pretty much come to terms with the fact that my mind is always gonna bring me to the same flashbacks, good or bad, over and over again. Sometimes it's annoying, because I'm not really focused on what's in front of me. Anxiety is such a gnat in my ear


best  
190396.

Why don't women understand we don't want to be their "friend". We don't like your kind. If you didn't have pussy we wouldn't talk to you. God made men bigger, stronger, faster and more intelligent. He needed an equalizer so mankind wouldn't die out because women could not compete with men in survival of the fittest. He gave women pussy. When employed properly it is the most powerful force on earth. A woman that understands how to unleash this power and use it properly to inspire her man, never has to worry about how her man treats her.


best  
190395.

Guys who see more action after being committed are just recognized for their ticket. Much like a college degree can get you a job, not necessarily for what you learned, but that you stuck with it and achieved something.

The same goes for a wedding ring. That ring symbolizes, "Hey, this guy has got to be good, a women married him." It's just shorthand.

Though it does suck because all these extra women and nothing to do with them. If you have a great marriage, you can hold your wife in high esteem because she was with you before the ring.

If you don't, well, maybe it is time divorce and go after the extra women.


best  
190394.

As I go through life, I have become fascinated with how "likes attract likes."  For better or worse, people who are alike attract each other.  Nice people want to be around nice people.  And it explains a lot about how dramatic, backstabbing people hang out with each other as well.  

I see this on Facebook all the time.  It's always the same people bitching and complaining about other people doing mean things to them.  Like attracts like.

I read Howard Storm's near death experience book.  In it he says that after he died, he was greeted by human souls who tricked him into walking into a vast darkness.  There he was surrounded by these evil souls and torn apart as he was mocked and humiliated.  Afterwards, he said he realized something - all these people were the same type of person he was.  He learned that after you die, if you don't have the humility to seek God, souls who are similar to you get attracted to you.  They do to you what you'd do to other people.  Then, presumably, you just become who you truly are - sick and twisted, with no pretense of civility or compassion.  This is how these souls are the most personally content, being mean.

I see this same dynamic among the living.  These people who are always having drama and always attacking each other and stabbing them in the back... it's how they're most content.  If Howard Storm's correct, then it's how they'll be happy forever.


best  
190393.

I stopped wearing my wedding ring a few years ago.  I had gained some weight and it didn't fit.  I want to be able to wear it again.  After reading these secrets about women coming onto men who're married, I reallllly want to lose the weight now and get that thing back on!


best  
190392.

It's true. i'm only fucking him because he's married. Joke's on his wife.


best  
190391.

My entire life I've been treated worse than everybody else and blamed for everybody else's mistakes.  I just want to die.


best  
190390.

I hate my job so much. I used to like going to work but we got a new manager and she is a nightmare to work for. Fuck it! I'm going to call in sick today, get roaring drunk, eat lots of junk food and watch movies all day. I deserve this.  Then starting tomorrow I'm going to look for a new job.


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190389.

@386 I always knew it was you Steff, talking all kinds of shit behind peoples back while you smile in their faces. Snake is what defines you. I'm the stupid one for not realizing that darkness and light would ever mix. I don't care if you ever talk shit about me or your bro. But ever talk shit about how I am as a mother or my decisions about my son. A Christian Liberal is what you will not see. That pathetic house story(real estate) of yours. Goes to show who's God is a bit more powerful Ah? If my God gave me insight about the truth!
Do you think I'm stupid or something. Acting like I'm hurting for a babysitter on Friday? Ha, when you're the one that OFFERED. So let's make that clear! Did you make it seem as though I needed you as a babysitter and couldn't "pay you" because I'm so damn cheap? Ha...not everyone survives off mommy's and daddy's income like some people do. Has nothing to do with kindness as you would assume or presumed why you were being charged with your babysitting. How about learn a thing or two. Some people find ways of making their "own" money unlike you. So if you wanted to get paid for that suppose ""sale of a house"(bwahah) good one! All you had to do is keep it real with me and you would have got paid for that sale(aka babysitting in my case just a visit).haha so lets clarify and reiterate that, Sooo no hun, You don't get to talk shit about me and then fake it until you make it.
And yes....this is who you think it is!
Figure it out. Now you see why my son is not trusted under your care?


best  
190388.

I don't want him because he's taken. I want him because I love him.  I didn't ask to. I didn't plan it this way. It just...is.


best  
190387.

As a parent, I'm not sure what to do when we, meaning me and the kids, are watching a movie and a character says something like, "Hey why don't you get down on your knees and give me a blow job."

I have a 12 year old and 15 year old. What am I supposed to say to them? I get paralyzed and do nothing, but it's so uncomfortable for me. Gawd why do they put that stuff in kids shows!


best  
190386.

My very good friend bought a run-down house last May. Since then, I have pretty much spent every weekend helping her remodel, and it is no small job because (a) she knows diddley squat about home reno and, (b) she is a tightwad who will spend 3 weeks rummaging thrift shops for a light fixture instead of buying one, thus pushing the reno timeline further back with every delay.
Yesterday, a mutual friend of ours jokingly asked if she was going to cut me a check when she sells the house for a profit down the road (she bought the house so cheap, she'll probably made a $30 to 45k profit). I could not stop laughing. As if. Now I am helping her because I like doing this kind of work and also bc my dad taught me well  . I don't expect to be compensated for my work beyond a meal when I spend the day working away on her house, but to think that she would actually give me money??? Ha ha ha. Now that would be the day!!!

Some people probably think I am nuts giving away all my knowledge and time for so little. But really, I am just nice. Not stupid-nice, just nice-nice.

I'll let you guess who is the Christian/Republican and who is the Atheist/Liberal between the two of us....


best  
190385.

I don't believe in heaven or hell.

If you fuck up here on earth, you'll be coming back eternally to make it right.  

That will seem like hell.

If you're lucky, you might fulfill your purpose and make it right, then they will welcome your spirit into eternal love and they won't keep sending your sorry ass back here.


best  
190384.

I'm not a gun owner and honestly don't care for them however there's not much to do unless they ban them all completely, putting more laws , background checks won't stop a person for obtaining them illegally, not just gun but any person can make a bomb , used a car as weapon , if a person it's determined to do such horrendous act , he / she will find a way .  This guy apparently had a vest and had military experience, I'm sure he plan this for a while . The only thing we can do its report and keep an eye on people that show signs on harming other people and even then police enforcement can't do that much or arrest a person unless there's enough proof .


best  
190383.

In light of the TX shooting up a church, I'm just wondering if we should change something with the gun laws... I mean, there must be a solution somewhere between changing the constitution and these massacres.


best  
190382.

12 hour work shifts are kicking my ass.  I want to go back to 8 hour work shifts.


best  
190381.

I wish I was someone's favorite. Everyone I know seems to like everyone else better. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong.


best  
190380.

You are not as smart as you think you are. I know who she is. You don't know what you are getting into. You don't know a good woman when you see one! Guess you will never learn!


best  
190379.

I think some people want what they can't have . I hear stories from women who say the same thing , as soon they get engaged and start wearing a ring a lot of men started hitting on them.   I once have a dude trying to hit on me while pregnant, I was about 7 months and showing a lot at first I taught the guy was joking but he wasn't he was very serious about it .  Idk what was wrong with the guy , maybe he had a fetish for pregnant women but I was disbelief and gross out at the same time.


best  
190378.

A good man knows how to say no.  Boys don't know how to say no.

A good man that happens to be in an unhappy marriage is capable and willing to use good judgement.

That being said, the wedding ring is a magnet. Sometimes I feel like putting it on just to reap the social benefits.


best  
190377.

When I was single, I tried my hardest to attract women. I sucked at it. Once I got married to my high school sweetheart, I went back to the same clubs/bars just for a drink.

The only thing different about me was my ring. I sat on the same lonely bar stool, sipped the same boring draft, and did the same boring chat with the bartender. But I was different - I was married. The ring said so.

Holy shit, I wish any of my married friends had given me the hint they must have known. That ring got me so much female attention. I simply by wearing that ring, I was waving away several women a night. Total babes at a 8-10 scale were wanting me when the month before I was being literally laughed away by 4's.

Fuck yeah women want to compete. It wasn't until I was "taken" that women wanted me. Fuck those bitches. I lost so much respect for women in the first few months of my marriage, I can't even believe it.

After being married for about a year, I lost the rest of my respect for the female gender. "Oh lookie, I've hooked a guy with a stable paycheck and brain, so now I can stop giving up the pussy."

Nasty conniving cunts, the lot of them. I'd love to say that my situation was unique, but after how many of my friends are in the same boat, and reading CC, i think this is apparently normal. Too bad I'm addicted to pussy and boobs. My life would be so much easier and cheaper otherwise.


best  
190376.

Some men have claimed that when they were single, women ignored them, but once they visibly got a girlfriend, other women magically found them (the men) more interesting.  You can put that down to competitive behaviour among women, or a perception that, if you're good enough to be some other woman's boyfriend, you might be good enough to be theirs as well.  Asking how your girlfriend is doing is just an indirect way of eliciting if you and your girlfriend are still together.  There's no particular reason otherwise why a woman should be curious about the wellbeing of someone else's girlfriend.


best  
190375.

372, because they are testing the waters to see if you are susceptible to their advances.   Doing it this way allows them to save face when you ignore it or to protest that they were not doing anything bad, just asking how your GF is doing.


best  
190374.

I've been watching Stranger Things and watching Jonathan, an uncool kid without a dad, start dating a really nice girl gives me hope. I'm a girl, but I'm definitely in a similar situation to him (except I definitely have friends). If he can find someone, so can I.


best  
190373.

Another coward just shot bunch of people on a church, why? I mean if you want to kill people just volunteer to be st front on military combat, why it's always the innocent, that don't even have a chance on defending themselves because they didn't saw coming. I'm tired of this aholes ruining people's lives .


best  
190372.

363....I am a guy and i have the same problem with some of my female friends. I just wanna be friends and nothing more.
I get along better with women as friends for whatever reason. They know i have a girlfriend yet they cant stop hinting at the possibility of a relationship...
Strange thing is they are always asking me how my girlfriend is doing..I dont understand the logic, i never ask how their boyfriends are doing its non of my business.


best  
190371.

The feeling of happiness is a new bottle of 80-proof, a fresh pack of smokes, and a gig of unwatched porn on my laptop.

I made a pot of coffee and went onto the back porch to have some fun. I get up hours before the rest of my family, so I chain-smoked while masturbating and getting drunk, with a random coffee sip to keep me warm.

This was the highlight of my day. Nobody else knows but you, CC. It kind of makes me sad that this is how I make myself happy, but it is what it is. It's the little things, and personal time, that get us through life with a smile on our faces.

Cheers, I'm off for another cup of java then vodka. I'll have a smoke while watching another beautiful couple pretend to enjoy having sex, but orgasming for the paycheck. The kids are up now, so no fucking myself, but my brain is happy while the rugrats scream and fight.


best  
190370.

355- it is not racist to not like the culture of a group of people who share the same culture, values, etc.


best  
190369.

I feel bad for people who feel as if they need to spend more money than what they earn in order to keep up appearances to their neighbors and friends and family.


best  
190368.

-360, I spent most of my years between 15 and 25 dodging death.  I am content doing nothing exciting now.  I've had enough excitement.  My friends think I'm crazy for wanting to move somewhere out into the Midwest farmland, among the endless fields and cows everywhere, and live the last 40 years of my life.  Nice and quiet.  No excitement.  Plenty of view to see if anything dangerous is coming towards me.  I guess people are different.


best  
190367.

Life would be twice as good if I could just sleep in until 9 a.m. every day.


best  
190366.

We may be in our mid fifties, but the three date rule still applies. This afternoon will be our 3rd date. Just saying....


best  
190365.

I am an educator who teaches adults how to get and keep a job, a task that is getting harder and harder.

I always tell my students to treat each job interview as practice for the next one.  This way helps them to realize that, no matter how badly you need a job, you will not leave the interview with less than you had upon arrival.  It also helps one to be more cognizant of mistakes or things that could be done better as they occur; it helps facilitate more self-awareness and add an element of self-confidence.  

So, I say, if you don't get this job for which you are interviewing, you will at least be better prepared for the next one.  Practice interviewing with friends or family.  View Youtube tutorials to know what to do and what not do.  Dress the part to show the interviewer that you care and that this interview matters.  First impressions are indelible!  

I tell my students, you not only want to get the job, but you want to get the job WELL!  Often the way you present yourself will have a strong determining factor of how much you will be paid and your strength in negotiating your benefits package.  The more perfectly you present, the more power you will wield in the end!

At the end, I tell them, "Good luck, and God Bless You!


best  
190364.

I just ate 10 Vicodin ES pills and chased them down with a 25oz can of malt liquor. I'm going to get so fucked up. Life's good!


best  
190363.

Why is it that men cannot be friends with a single woman? Why do they always have to ask you out, or let you know that they would like to.
I just want to be friends. Nothing less, nothing more.
UGH.


best  
190362.

I have a job interview next week. I'm scared. What if I blow it?


best  
190361.

One time, after making love to me, this woman standing over my shoulder.   She said to me to "I've seen your girlfriend and she has ugly breasts"

As any guy, I was thinking to myself, how on earth?  I was so outraged, I saw red in my eyeballs.   I got up, I started yelling.  

I looked down then I stopping yelling, I looked up again.  The woman standing over my shoulder was my wife.  

I feel so humiliated that wife is telling me that my girlfriend is ugly.   I say it again out of disbelief that my wife tells me to my face that my girlfriend is ugly.

I 've known deep in my heart that I've become mean.   I've moved away from my source.  

I'm sorry to you both.


best  
190360.

My dad is like poor mans James Bond , he speaks more than one language, he skydives for fun, he has travel all over the world and gets paid for it  , he knows how to fix and fly an aircraft, he have live in different countries and has survived some close calls on his  crazy "adventures" all over the world.


best  
190359.

In 32 hours i will be flying for the first time in my life to go to disney world.ive never been this terrified at anything else in my life. Its a terrible and debilitating feeling but im going to see it through. Im not scared to die but my regret is that it would also kill 2 of my siblings. I hope im not bad luck for this flight.but it does feel good being able to afford a vacation without that fat cunt siphoning my money. Yeah you pill riddled nasty pig, you cant even pay your bills but im gonna get over my fear of life and do things ive never dreamed of.you two should get jobs and grow up


best  
190358.

I love being home and spending time on the internet. I think I have an addiction. I spend all my days on the weekends surfing the web. from morning til night, and I love LOVE LOVE IT. For example, today I woke up at 12pm, opened my laptop, surfed the web until 2ish for lunch, back to the computer, made more food around 4/5pm, more computer, until now (11pm).


I can see how this is unhealthy


best  
190357.

I'd rather spend my days pursuing things that interest me - but basically not getting paid for it - than do any old boring job for a big paycheck. This is a choice in life. Most people take the boring route and get paid. I take the amusing route and scrap by. Yep, once a year they can afford to go on a nice vacation. But the other 51 weeks they are wasting their lives.  Me, I can't afford to go on vacation, but I find my life has been fulfilling.


best  
190356.

I know a guy who has a dentist come to his home. What a great idea. I hate the dentist. But if I could lay down on my own bed, hugging my own pillow, while the dentist does his thing, god that would be great. I might actually enjoy getting dental work done.


best  
190355.

I am anti-racism and pro-human rights.

My secret is that I hate Somalians.


best  
190354.

I've reached a new low in my life. I didn't think it was possible. I'm so sad.


best  
190353.

This summer, my family is staying with the in-laws while I work a thousand miles away.  I hope I don't get scurvy and can find a good spot cleaner for semen stains.


best  
190352.

Let me start by saying that even though I don't like Mr. Trump (I don't like Hillary either) , I like a lot of the clothes his wife wears ,it's nice to see women over 40 not letting themselves go and wearing dresses, skirts and not cutting their hair . Some women think once you turn certain age you should have short hair, quit wearing certain clothes and just give up.


best  
190351.

Some days I feel like dying and have nothing to live for. And then I remember I want to adopt and have a beautiful child. I turn to learning Mandarin because its the only thing that feels worthwhile and keeps me from thinking about dying or being so depressed. The thought of using another language to be able to communicate with my child makes me so happy.

I hope I am able to adopt and bring so much happiness into someone else's life.


best  
190350.

I wish you would just fuck me and let's get it over with!! Why the hell not?


best  
190349.

I sexually harassed a girl in HS.  Grabbed her boobs at a party when I was 16 and hammered.  She punched me in the balls.

I think we're even.


best  
190348.

You can also use those flushable wipes from the store , they have different brands from charming to genetic brands , while not as good as a bidet they are pretty decent.


best  
190347.

Maybe not a secret, but not too well known:  Buy a bidet toilet seat attachment.  It's a small apparatus that attaches to your toilet bowl and allows you to quickly and very efficiently make yourself hygienically clean after toilet functions.  There are some models with heat, but the ones I have just use plain cold water. You would think that would be uncomfortable, but it really is not. The stream is adjustable and quite soothing and comfortable.  Afterward, you have that fresh, clean just washed feeling and freshness!  Skid marks (I have never been one to have them) will be gone forever! They sell for around fifty bucks, and are worth every penny! I don't know why everyone doesn't use them.  When I have to go away from home, which is not often, I rush straight to the bidet upon my return.  Once you get used to that clean, clean feeling, you just can't let it go!


best  
190346.

Just imagine the putrescence of jars of old cum!  Imagine the horror!  Open the jar ... clear the city!!!


best  
190345.

A few years ago I was lonely and alone so I went onto a cam sight. I found THEE most BEAUTIFUL redhead I had ever found. Perfect hourglass figure, and she had a sharp personality! Body and mind, so great. But I assumed she had been coached in the art of seduction. And I played it that way, even when she told me I was different. I knew she had been told to say such things.

    I logged on a few more times. I had to see her! She was on, and when she wasn't we messaged back an forth through the app. She would wear what I wanted all day way waiting for me to log on.

    Just when I started to think wow, I don't care where she is, I'm going there. She disappeared, never to be heard from again, or seen again on cam.

    I miss her. The idea that you can find someone in the weirdest places. It clings to my heart like a bad idea. Maybe someday it will happen, maybe some day it won't.

M/38


best  
190344.

I work in entertainment (I'm a female “crew” member not an actress) and have been harassed numerous times by famous actors/singers/sports people (I'm married with kids & not interested at all) and when I complained to the “higher ups” I was basically told- we will take care of it, oh he's just kidding around, can't you take a joke and so on. My bosses did NOTHING and the BS continued. EFF you! Now Karma has come to collect her dues and I'm laughing my ass off! These disgusting creeps beloved by everyone are getting their comeuppance- I so wish I could name names but I can't for legal reasons. Reap what you sow bitches!  Now it's my time to laugh.


best  
190343.

fingertips on my collar bones, I look up at the stars and know I will burn out clear.


best  
190342.

My life is completely broken right now. I don't have a job, I have no friends except for one internet friend and no family. I live off Section 8, food stamps and cash aid while I await my military pension to go through.

I have bipolar disorder and paralyzing anxiety. I only leave my apartment when I need food and then I go to liquor store down the street to buy over priced food there. I don't have a car so with my anxiety I have very few choices as to where I can buy food. The supermarket is just too far away to walk.

I haven't taken a shower since the beginning of September and I haven't shaved either.

It doesn't matter because I just don't care.

53/m


best  
190341.

I work in entertainment (I'm a female “crew” member not an actress) and have been harassed numerous times by famous actors/singers/sports people (I'm married with kids & not interested at all) and when I complained to the “higher ups” I was basically told- we will take care of it, oh he's just kidding around, can't you take a joke and so on. My bosses did NOTHING and the BS continued. EFF you! Now Karma has come to collect her dues and I'm laughing my ass off! These disgusting creeps beloved by everyone are getting their comeuppance- I so wish I could name names but I can't for legal reasons. Reap what you sow bitches!  Now it's my time to laugh.


best  
190340.

I loved someone evil, once. Thank god that's over.


best  
190339.

I exposed a raw and vulnerable side of myself to you and I'm afraid that I'll never hear from you again.  If that's going to be the case, please just let me know.


best  
190338.

I dream all day. And, I miss her.


best  
190337.

I said I'd have a new job within three months, and you'd still be a fat, ugly troll.

Well, it hasn't even been two months, and I start a new job that's actually something of a step up for me on Monday. So, the first part of my prediction was, if anything, a bit of an underestimation of myself.

As for the second part of my statement, I have no real way of knowing that you're still a fat, ugly, repulsive troll, but unless you magically shed 100 pounds over the last 60 days, I'd say that signs point to yes.

PS- I will surpass you in every way.


best  
190336.

I recently moved out of my boyfriend's house because his addiction and family was taking over my life...but now I feel so alone and unsupported. I gave all my attention and effort to him that now I'm so so sad. It's hard to keep from crying throughout the day, and I find myself overthinking...or just realizing shit. Like I'm going to lose my mom very soon and my sister and I don't even fucking talk to my sister. I'm going to have kids one day that don't have any extended family. I don't know what to do. There's this secret part of me that keeps insisting on getting pregnant RIGHT NOW so I can let my future kids experience a grandma, cousins, fucking anything family like because it's broken enough as it is. And maybe he'd leave his house to be with me and our future child.......
But when I asked his mom if I could bring a kitten to take care of and raised it, he showed no affection to it whatsoever. Which makes me scared even more.

...I'm losing my fucking mind, and I am all alone...


best  
190335.

So, you want me to take your opinions seriously, yet FOX NEWS,
your preferred news source, has been exposed as the home to racist, sexist, white scumbags.

What do you think that says about you?


best  
190334.

Boo hoo! You're depressed, so you pout and mope around like anyone gives a fuck! Pull it together or get out of here. No one wants to see that shit. No one's going to save you. Take your health into your own hands. Or don't. No one fucking cares. Turns out my husband's a whiny little bitch.


best  
190333.

I swiped left the first time but your profile came back around so I swiped right. It was a great choice and then you get weirded out when I told you I've curbed everyone since we met. Yes I'm falling for. Can't help it. Being with you feels like I've found a piece of myself I've lost.


best  
190332.

I HATE my boyfriend and I'm going to leave him one of these days. I've tried to stay with him, to make things work for the sake of our babies but I just can't do it anymore. He canr be bothered to even pretend so what's the point? I have turned into a very angry, resentful and very fat (i stress eat BAD) person. Why am I not good enough? What is so wrong with me?


best  
190331.

I'm living my life on autopilot.    But that's not really living.  I miss me.


best  
190330.

When I was finally fired from my first full time job, I also was not missed.  After all, I thought, it was a job.  I actually wasn't expecting to be missed, when I left.  I was basically "asked" to leave, but in reality I was fired.  The company gave me basically one month from the time they fired me until I left.  So, co-workers basically knew I was leaving, BUT, nobody said anything.  I am not sure if it was because they didn't know, or didn't care.  Anyways, I left without saying good bye to anybody.  I wrote a good bye email to one of the departments, where I worked for about one year, but not the rest of the company.  Before I had sent the email, one female co-worker from that department seemed concerned, but when I sort of explained my situation, she seemed a little bit incredulous, so, that kind of threw me off.  One Friday I was there, the following Monday, I was not there anymore.  I had emailed my replacement, who had been with the company for a couple of months, with the instructions about taking over some of my duties.  When I called back the company to return the parking pass, the replacement happened to answer the phone.  He sounded like he did not know what was going on.  For the couple of months he was there before I left, I kept asking him to come with me to the library to do one of the tasks, in order to show him how to do it.  He did not want to come with me, basically.  He kept postponing it.  I wasn't going to tell him I had been fired, and I needed to show him how to do the job.  So, when I called back, I laughed on the inside.  Maybe, there would not be a next time, OK.  I told him I was going to be back the next day to show him how to do the task.  I did not come back.  Sorry, but I had already started another job.  When I told a family member I was planning to come back to the previous job, I was asked WHY?  I realized why should I come back to a place I had just been fired and work for free basically, and jeopardize my new job?


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190329.

Here's a secret, anyway: I had surgery awhile back, and my insurance would pay for cutting me open, but not for putting me back together, because it was "cosmetic." Yeah ok, I guess not having a huge gaping wound is an aesthetic choice.  Anyhow, I'm afraid my doctor went the bargain basement route because he couldn't get insurance to pay for it. He put me back together with superglue, I shit you not.  Now I'm healed over, but every so often little plasticky wads of superglue burrow their way to the surface.  I haven't told my wife because she'll want me to go back to the doctor, and we don't have the money.


best  
190328.

I LOVE to masturbate! I do it All the time - can't get enough! But I hate to just throw my sperm away - every load is like a tiny trophy to me, so a few years ago, I started saving it - now I've got about a dozen pickle jars FULL of cum!  Every now and then, when I'm REALLY horny, I'll pour myself a glass of cum & drink it while I beat myself mercilessly!  Then, about 6 months ago, I had a brainstorm; I went to the pharmacy, got myself an enema/douche kit & about 3 weeks later, I had a full gallon of fresh sperm & I gave myself a douche with my own cum!  What am AMAZING feeling - I just can't describe it!!!.


best  
190327.

If there's food in the fridge that's past its peak, like leftovers from a meal I can't even remember making, I won't eat it. Why take the risk of getting sick?  But instead of throwing it out, I'll give it to my husband for lunch. Hahaha.


best  
190326.

Sometimes when I'm stressed out or hurt by someone, I lean into dissociation as a coping mechanism. I listen to the song Crystal Ball by Keane, because it's about a man who isn't really sure about anything in his life anymore. What his opinions are, what he believes in, what inspires him is lost.

When it happens it feels like my mind and my body become more loosely connected, as if I were tethered to my body rather than living inside it. I recede into myself, and I think about the bigger picture of my life. I think about my place in the journey of my life, where I want it to go and where I'm actually going, and it can help me make more objectively better decisions. I don't talk to people or emote as much, and my demeanor is much more subdued.

I know it's not healthy, but I can live with it. Plus I like my more apathetic self. She can get things done way better than I can, even though she gets no enjoyment out of it at all


best  
190325.

I interviewed for a computer programming job a few years ago. My potential department manager grilled me endlessly. More than that, I felt he was outright antagonistic. I'd give an answer to a programming challenge question and he'd say it was dumb, and shouldn't I do it a different way. At first I politely agreed with him. But he kept challenging everything I said. Finally I said, no, I disagreed with him. My solution is a good one. It's not "dumb". It gets the task done efficiently and correctly with no shortcuts that might cause a problem later on. I was slightly harsh.

He then smiled and said great. He said my algorithm was good. He just kept saying it wasn't to see if I'd stand up for myself.

Next day he called to offer me the job. I said no thanks. Secret: Employers sometimes forget that as much as they are interviewing me, I am also interviewing them. Why on earth would I want to work with a guy who plays mind games and has already shown himself to be difficult? No way. Good riddance.


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190324.

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190323.

What else could I do?
I'm so inspired by you.
That hasn't happened for the longest time.

:)


best  
190322.

In a race I can run a 7:00 mile for three miles. When I'm feeling angry and emotional I can run a 6:30 mile for three miles. My mind focuses on being pissed off and I don't feel the pain in my muscles. I don't even notice I'm running faster. Anger works for me.


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190321.

My monthly prescription for Vicodin arrived in my mail yesterday. I called in sick at work today and I'm going to get loaded and watch movies all day. It's the little things that are the most fun!


best  
190320.

Just stare into space
Picture my face in your hands
I'm really sad when I hear this. Sums up why my resentment is misplaced.  I could sing those words for you from my heart. So sad.


best  
190319.

I have lived in the USA for 33 years Every year we were told was the warmest in history and every year is getting warmer.It thirty years I still wear the same clothes for summer and the same clothes for winter. It is not much warmer or much cooler.  Al Gore said by the year 2000 New York City will be under water. During the thirty three years New York had one storm -Sandy -and the street flooded.The earth's climate has changed for millions of years -with or without humans. I am very sensitive to the earth and littering is a bigger problem .When one travels on a ocean liner and see islands of plastic bottles drifting miles from land in the sea- that saddens me. That is something humans can do something about! Say human do affect the climate what would you like us to do to rectify this situation? Stop flying? Stop driving cars? Stop using electricity? What??????


best  
190318.

I wish I had the option to just be a cat. Humans suck so bad, & my cat is freedom in living form. Freedom is the biggest lie we have told ourselves. You're not free. Think you are? Try doing something for one day without money.


best  
190317.

No, man-made global warming hasn't been proven.  There's no proof of it. Think for yourself.  Just because your political party wants to tax everybody doesn't mean it's actually happening.


best  
190316.

313 - It's definitley significant for me. First place I go when I start up in the morning is here. It's comforting to know I'm not the only one who's head is spinning over life in general.


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190315.

I see myself as open minded. Equality for all!

Except I do find it unnerving to see two guys kiss. Ew. That ain't right.


best  
190314.

If my husband ever leaves me, I think I might just shave my head. Not completely bald, but like a quarter inch long. It would save so much time and hassle not having to dry and style my hair and so much money on haircuts and conditioner. It would be so much cooler in the hot summer months.


best  
190313.

I often wonder if my friend still takes the time to look at this site, too. I told so many people about this website, because it gave me something that human interaction couldn't. It was very stress relieving  for me, and entertaining. I feel bad, because I feel like it wasn't as significant in other peoples lives...


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190312.

I feel like you throw 10 different parties a year. The weird thing is you don't even live here anymore. You live in a completely new city, in a different state thousands of miles away. But, somehow you manage to make every holiday about you. Throwing a party for yourself, and then inviting a ton of people by making it sound like some world-class party...yeah, it sounds conceited as hell to me. Somehow you're always in town ready to throw this gigantic shindig, because you think you're that important. People have other things to do. Stop inviting me! Isn't it obvious that I don't want to go?


best  
190311.

I'm falling into that funk i get into where I'm hurting but i don't trust anyone, so I isolate myself as my brain replays horrible images, over and over until i get drunk


best  
190310.

I met this woman thru a dating site, we are both separated.  We hit if off thru texting, emails etc.  We meet for coffee, lunch and then dinner.  Its going really well.  Then she starts talking about her sexual past....turns out she had 5 affairs, the last one started two weeks after the previous one ended, the last one a dom/sub one.  Then she starts talking about her past abortions as she wasn't good with BC and loved to act on impulse (the 5 affairs told me that).  I'm sitting there texting her back thinking, damn I'm so glad I didn't get intimate with this woman. A few days later I called her and did the whole its me, not you thing and ended it.

Funny part was she seemed normal and with it, an IT professional, 3 kids, college degree, witty, smart, attractive, active tennis player...can't judge a book by its cover


best  
190309.

You are a cheating, fat, vile nasty skank and i hope you die amiserable death soon


best  
190308.

I believe that the World Series was rigged for the Astros to win. This was done because of the devastation Houston suffered from hurricane Harvey. Houston residents needed something to lift their spirits and the Astros winning the World Series was it.


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190307.

So I found another job and last Friday, at the end of the day, I let my manager know that I was leaving.  Since I'm an independent contractor, I didn't have to give the standard two weeks' notice - just went in, signed some papers and that's it.  Then I said goodbye to the about 10 people who were milling about, and sent out a "farewell" email to the entire office.

Within half an hour, two officemates called me - one who is a very good friend (and already knew I was leaving), and one of the newer girls.  A few days later, I received a beautiful card in the mail from the office secretary, wishing me good luck in my new position.

That's it.  Out of 150 people in my office, that's it.  I posted the job change on Facebook, and even though I have about half of the office on there, not one person commented, liked, reacted, or sent me a message - not even the people I felt close to, ones who I helped with things and met up with outside of the office.

I guess I wasn't as well-liked as I thought.


best  
190306.

I can't decide whether to have a trip roaring drunk one night stand or commit suicide after Which should I do? I am unhappy, unfulfilled, bored and horny as fuck. I am simply broke and don't have the funks to do what I need to do to improve my life. It's a no win. Something after Christnas will have to be done.


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190305.

I been with my husband on and off for 15 , 16 years and not once been unfaithful, just go away loser , keep dreaming even if I was to divorce my husband tomorrow you wouldn't have a chance with me.  Please quit spreading rumors and lies , I can sue you for slander.


best  
190304.

And in the scariest way, that's exactly why I'm leaving


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190303.

Our relationship is still too co-dependent if I'm feeling left out because you don't want me to go with you to get your abortion. That's between you and your boyfriend. Why do I feel sad and hurt about that?

Maybe it's because I was willing to drop all my plans, skip work, skip my hair appointment, skip recording a weekly show I do on Fridays, all to be there for her and support her, and she decides last minute that she doesn't need me. And I have to hear it from her boyfriend.

Maybe it's because that's a pattern in my life, when I put others way before myself and it turns out they didn't care that much to begin with. It hurts that I wanted so badly to be supportive like I should with my best friend, and once again, because he's there, I'm not needed at all.


best  
190302.

I got you sick. I thouht I was over it I swear but I tend to incubate my sickness when I do get sick and I'm also a carrier for strep. It's cute that you're worried that you'll have gotten me sick but its the other way around. I know I got you sick. I told you I was sick all weekend but clearly you werem't listening. Yes I gave you a virus, it's strep I promise and I am so sorry. I feel terrible for getting you so sick. Damn it. And we were suppose to go out tonight.


best  
190301.

Wish I had a bidet in my house. I would use it 10 times a day - whenever I tinkle or do more. So gross not being perfectly clean down there. Very uncivilized.


best  
190300.

I'm teleworking today.

It's 3 p.m.

Time to get started.


best  
190299.

When I don't hear back from my husband, I tend to think the worst. Oh my god he was hit by a car and is in the ER right now dying!

No, he was stuck in traffic and got home 15 minutes late.

I kind of overact.


best  
190298.

Something weird has started happening to me. You know that sensation where you wake up and feel like your falling? I have started to get that feeling in my left arm. It usually happens when I'm overtired. But it feels like my left arm is falling or going to fall. It's very bizarre. To compensate, I tend to unconsciously  bend my arm and hold it tight against my body so it doesn't fall off. It's such a strange feeling. I have tried to google it and found nothing.


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190297.

I believe about 1/2 the harassment claims, or less.  It is to the point now your a nobody in Hollywood unless someone higher up the food chain there hit on you. Since no actress will want to admit they are a nobody in Hollywood, they all are claiming harassment in the past.


best  
190296.

294 Very well written! Congratulations!


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190295.

I need to stop cursing so much... For the most part, it happens when I'm dealing with people at work. They're fucking stupid!


best  
190294.

After an unsavory interaction with my co-worker yesterday, I've decided, abruptly, to stop avoiding so many situations and conversations and TRUTHS because I was avoiding conflict. Having that kind of personality keeps you in a cage, because you're so focused on keeping everyone on good terms with you that you don't ever say how you really feel about things. Do it for too long and you can forget what your real opinion is, and lose yourself in others' desires

I thought about it yesterday and remembered that extreme conflict avoidance is a common trait of adults that grew up in abusive households. Put plainly, since your parents were so prone to fly off the handle and beat you for reasons you didn't understand, you learned to avoid any disturbances to their mood as a defense mechanism, and as a coping mechanism to avoid future beatings. So this translates into adulthood as being a doormat.

I think it's important to remember where your traits come from, especially when it comes to trauma. That way, in a situation where you might blame yourself and hate yourself for being so pusillanimous (the word people are actually referring to when they call you a pussy), you can realize that this was a very likely outcome of circumstances outside your control. Then you can focus more on fixing these behaviors instead of beating yourself up about it.

It's pretty helpful, especially considering most children of abuse almost ALWAYS develop anxiety problems and tend to blame themselves for everything bad that happens around them


best  
190293.

Sometimes, good things happen when you act without thinking. Not in the conventional sense where you just do what impulsively comes to you, but in the sense that when you know you need to do something, it's good to just initiate the first action before you start thinking about everything you're afraid of. I got a lot done today just by doing that


best  
190292.

I want a guy to fuck me in the ass while my wife watches.


best  
190291.

I have 20 days to lose 10 pounds.


best  
190290.

Highs , flying, turbulence, roller coasters, don't scare me or make me sick however I'm terrified of doctors in general especially the gynecologist, just the thought of someone sticking stuff down there makes me nauseous and anxious.


best  
190289.

I'd kill myself if it wouldn't hurt so many people I love. I have enough Xanax to die three times. Depression and anxiety FUCKING SUCK. Fuck my stupid life.


best  
190288.

I often wonder if my friend still takes the time to read this site.


best  
190287.

I wake up scared and anxious. There is a sinking feeling in my stomach. I hate this. What's wrong with me. I need help.


best  
190286.

Before going out to see people, I take a shower. Other than that, if I'm not going out, I only shower once every two days.


best  
190285.

Something a little weird.  I used to curse all the time.  Lots of fucks and shit everywhere in my language.  It was a habit I had for 25 years.  Then one day I met an evangelical minister who asked if he could do a prayer over me to bind and break the powers of satan and demons over me and cast them out blah blah blah.  I figured what the heck, this silly thing can't do me any harm.  So he did this prayer over me.  A few days later I noticed that I didn't feel compelled to curse anymore.  It just seemed excessive.  My cursing was down by 90%.  I still do from time to time, but I just didn't feel like I needed to do it.  It's been 5 years and I hardly say this crap anymore.  One of the stranger things to happen in my life...


best  
190284.

I apologize to spiders when I kill them. But I still kill them.


best  
190283.

I give up. You don't care about me. I'm a joke to you.


best  
190282.

I don't even remember the last time I had sex. Years, Decades? Oh well.


best  
190281.

I had sex today. Yay me.


best  
190280.

If every man who sexually harassed a woman is forced to leave his job, there will only be women left in the workplace.


best  
190279.

Community College is depressing.


best  
190278.

I really don't like it when people curse. It grates on my nerves. I don't think it should bother me as much as it does, but it does.


best  
190277.

I haven't said a curse word in many years. It makes me feel like a better person. It's something I do for myself. No one realizes. People notice when you say something, not when you don't say something. But whatever, I don't curse.


best  
190276.

We have gone for long stretches in this marriage without sex. I'm talking a year at a time. I thought why should I sleep with him if he's mean to me. In turn, this made him even more mean. Which in turn justified my not sleeping with him. There, it all balanced out. My attitude was to make him suffer. Fuck him!

But then I noticed something. On that rare occasion I did sleep with him, he was nice to me afterwards. The upbeat mood would last for a few days. It felt good to have no tension between us. What a relief.

So I flipped my philosophy around. I starting sleeping with him once a week. I made a point of it. We'd have sex in some form. Then he was happy. Then he was nice most of the time. And you know what, the marriage became bearable.

Seems obvious now, if I sleep with my husband he is nicer to me. I didn't see how backwards I was doing it for about 10 years.

I'm no expert, but something for married people to consider, have sex with each other. Don't deny the sex because someone is mean. Maybe denying the sex is what causes the person to be mean.


best  
190275.

0274, your post made me smile.  Especially #9,10,11.  You go girl!


best  
190274.

He doesn't know this, but I'm swearing off him permanently. I made a list of all the ways he annoys me, and if I feel the urge to contact him, I re-read the list and find things to add to it:

1) Yet another pushily masculine type terrified of the idea that I'm probably smarter than he is.
2) Seems utterly convinced that all women are jealous shrews who are going to fight over him.
3) He seems to cultivate situations in which women will get competitive for his attention, which strikes me as trashy and drama-queeny beyond belief.
4) Cannot seem to remember that I've never displayed any jealousy, instead choosing to spend his every second in my presence bracing for some gigantic jealous shitstorm that is never going to happen.
5) Actually seems a little disappointed that it's impossible to make me jealous.
6) All this while he indulges in childish fits of jealousy his own bad self.
7) Lies like a rug over easily provable facts. (“What are you talking about?” DERP.)
8) Attention span of a goldfish yet expects my rapt attention at all times.
9) He forgets to call or answer texts, but found the time to get to umpteenth level on Pokemon Go somehow.
10) Actually — just “Got to umpteenth level on Pokemon Go” is enough on its own.
11) Actually, just “Plays Pokemon Go” is more than enough, really.
12) If I got more involved with him I'd probably be called upon to read and give impressions of his blank verse “poems” — or rather poem, singular -- and that thing was a masturbatory howlingly bad me-and-my-penis mess.
13) He put the… poem up on social media. You know, where someone might see it and find out who's responsible for it.
14) Also seems an indifferent reader who never picks up a book without expecting to be patted on the back for his grand intellectual achievement in doing so.
15) I have longer and more committed relationships with my dentist, gynecologist, and hairdresser than he seems to have ever had with anyone.
16) One-night stands with That One Chick and and This Other Chick. Just NO.
17) Propositioned That Third Insufferable Gossipy Chick over text message, which she then showed to everybody.
18) Indifferently picks his teeth with his fingernails in public.
19) He's 35 and dresses like an 18-year-old.
20) Jerk totally ignored my birthday.

Coming up on a whole month of ignoring him. Where's my 30-day Formerly Into a Jerk Anonymous chip, dammit.


best  
190273.

I read about deaths in the news, car crashes, body dumps and I immediatly hope it's my ex. Does that make me an awful person? NO! Because he's an abusive, manipulative, narcassistic sociopath who deserves every horrible thing that's coming to him! FUCK YOU CT!


best  
190272.

A guy I used to work with asked me to write a reference for him. Shesh, I hate him. I was so glad he quit. Now he wants me to help him get a new job? What a chance to screw him over. But knowing me, I'll avoid the conflict and write something fairly pleasant. I hate always being nice.


best  
190271.

I think we are going to break up with a "friend couple" in our town.  

We both have an older son and younger daughter the same age as each other.  Years ago the wife of the other couple asked if we could bring our very outgoing and popular daughter around because their daughter had a hard time making friends.  We did and they are now buddies.  

My older son, however has a hard time making friends and still does.  Their older son had been getting taunted at school and was also having issues making friends.  Their son has now turned it around and is in with the 'popular crowd'.  My son, however still has issues making friends.  All of a sudden, when we go out for joint family dinners, their son is "out with his friends" and can't come to dinner leaving my son with no one to talk to.  I mentioned to the dad that not having their son there was a deal breaker for our family dinners as I would not allow my son to keep being the only one with no one to talk to at dinners.  He agreed, but still could not (or would not) make his (under 14 year old) son come out to what had been regular family dinners.   Clearly it's more important to them that their son maintain his status with the 'in crowd' than it is to be real friends to us and our kids.  

So I say, Fuck You.  My son is just as important as your daughter and for that matter your son.  When your girl needed a friend we were there.  Also my son NEVER taunted your boy the way his new 'cool' friends used to.  So, FUCK YOU, you selfish self centered assholes.  No wonder most of the other people in town have pulled away from you and find you grating and annoying.  Selfish self centered jerks... just like your kids!


best  
190270.

Lol,  I have the same problem I can't roll my r's , and have difficulty with a lot of words that don't exist on the English language, I spend many years on speech therapy and it never got better .  I'm just glad those sounds and words don't exist on the English vocabulary, having an accent sucks as it is.


best  
190269.

My wife's 40-year old friend dressed up for Halloween as a scantily clad cartoon character.  I spent the entire night reminding myself not to ogle her because her husband and my wife were there.


best  
190268.

Whenever I see an obituary for a young person, I always look for the cause of death.  If none is listed, I know it's suicide or a drug overdose.  That's the problem with being young, you don't have enough experience to know things will get better if you just try to make them better.  Suicide and drugs aren't the answer.


best  
190267.

I just noticed that I have a pretty persistent stutter when I speak Spanish. Nothing when I speak English though


best  
190266.

After working on this guy's computer I am sure I will never install Windows 8.  Too complicated and disorganized.  I hate it!


best  
190265.

Never underestimate your body's ability to heal itself.


best  
190264.

I truly believe that most marriages are happy more often than not. People just share their misery more than their happiness because it makes them feel better. Marriage is long. EVERY marriage has its ups and downs. Mine is no exception. I remember we went through a particularly rough patch in 2010 and I was seriously considering leaving because I was miserable. I came across a study that surveyed a bunch of people on how happy they were in their marriage and almost all of the respondents that said they were unhappy but stayed with their spouse claimed to be happy a few years later. Now I can honestly say I'm very happy. There are still ups and downs but whenever we go through a low, I know it will pass... and it does! Of course, this doesn't mean that all marriages are salvageable, especially if there is abuse involved. But I think if we had more realistic expectations and realized that it's okay if things aren't wonderful all the time, we would be a whole lot happier overall.


best  
190263.

I love that women wear skirts. It's a tease. It says hey guys, I know you want to gain access to my pussy, so I'm wearing something that gives you a slight chance to see it. If the wind blows just right, or if I cross my legs, you might get a glimpse.

It makes guys look. We invest energy with the hope of seeing something. It gets us involved and keeps us interested.

Skirts are sexy. It's an opening women create. It says they are possibly interested. I love it. Ladies, thank you for wearing skirts.


best  
190262.

I've wasted far too much of my life trying to get laid.

Advice to young people: Don't let your sex drive be in control of you. Getting laid is nice. But don't throw everything else away for 10 seconds of pleasure.


best  
190261.

I think a guy was flirting with me last night? It was cute. He's dorky but I like him.


best  
190260.

I don't have your email address.


best  
190259.

0245, you lost me at “chronically unemployable alcoholic”...  you may adore and love her, but this is going to be nothing but disaster.    Your analysis of most marriages is spot on, I think.   Every friend I have that is married says they would not do it again....  even my mother confided to me that she would not marry my father again.  I think that is a secret to only him...

Alone does not mean lonely..


best  
190258.

Send me an email.  That's where I have to leave it.


best  
190257.

I cry when I read about children being hurt. It reminds me too much of my own childhood.

52m


best  
190256.

I'm trying to rebuild the bridges I burned. I'm so sorry everyone for my past behavior.


best  
190255.

No one can figure out where my boss pees. He NEVER goes into the bathroom. Does he use a Snapple bottle under his desk when no one is looking????? It's a mystery.


best  
190254.

As some morbid fulfillment, I read the local obits. For some reason I want and need to know how people die, especially the non-elderly people. I guess I want to feel confident the same fate won't befall me because I don't drink and drive, and I don't rock climb. Every now and then I see a "coded" obit. 45 year old man dies but no reason is listed. I've learned to piece it together though when it says he is survived by his parents and a sister. No wife? Ah, he died of AIDS. In a sick way, somehow it makes me feel better knowing it won't happen to me. Pretty self centered on my part, I'm pleased the man died of AIDS??


best  
190253.

Why talk that way? Where is this nastiness coming from?


best  
190252.

I can't remember the last time I was genuinely consistently happy.


best  
190251.

I am so close to giving up.... I just want to give up and not have to try anymore or do anything.


best  
190250.

It's eight o'clock in the morning and I'm drinking a couple of big cans of malt liquor while eating a turkey pot pie. Life's good! 🍻


best  
190249.

So he came over yesterday, and eventually he starts talking to me about his ex girlfriend. He's very candid about it, which doesn't bother me because he's not that important to me yet.

He said that when he dates someone, he can be the only man in their life. They have to delete all other guys from all their social medias, and he'll do the same with women. I have to say, I started laughing at that. How insecure can you be? Also there's no way in hell a man is gonna run my life like that. There's no trust, and too much jealousy. But in his mind that's how it's supposed to work.

He hasn't mentioned his exes or other women a lot, but I think subconsciously he's trying to make me jealous of them so I'll agree to his little deletion scheme. So on it's face, it looks like I'll be going nowhere fast with this guy.

But, there's a part of him that sees the flaws in his own logic, so I think he can be taught. I'll give it a shot, because he's still very innocent in a way that's hard to explain. If he insists on being so manipulative I'm gonna have to go


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190248.

I'd rather not.  Poison people no longer serve my best interests.


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190247.

Fact of life. We are born alone-and die alone. Don't marry for the wrong reason. She might die before you and then you are still alone!


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190246.

Coming back once again.  If you want to see me, find me.


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190245.

I was married when I was 20, had 2 kids, and my then wife left us when I was 29. I've since raised my sons by myself, and I'm pretty proud of the results. I'm now 41, and have been in an on again off again relationship with the same woman for nearly 10 years. She's amazing, and I love her to death. I've been completely faithful to her the entire time. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. But here's what's fucked up.

I never want to get married again. Not ever. And she wants to. Ending a marriage is hell, and it's something I've never gotten past. Every marriage I witness seems to come apart eventually. Combine that with the most awesome, brilliant, amazing, beautiful woman I've ever known, who just happens to be a chronically unemployable alcoholic, and an endless list of unhappy friends who are married, or are happily married only because they fuck outside their marriage, and I feel like I made the right decision every day.

I see posts all over here that just confirm it's a lot more likely to be that way than not statistically, and I'm so confused as to why people live this way. I might be resentful of my position and my unwillingness to do anything about it, but I'd rather blow my brains out than be trapped in a loveless, sexless marriage with some raving bitch I can't stand just to share all of the things I enjoy so much by myself with somebody I hate.

That being said, I miss it. I'm meant for monogamy. It's where I'm happy. I'm fit, I'm decent looking enough, I make great money, I own a home (I mean no mortgage own), I'm almost an empty nester, I fuck like a bull, I have everything going to have a pretty eventful single life. But I'm miserable because I'm not married, and I'm terrified at the thought of being so again, (simply from the exposure perspective), and have no desire to date casually. I'll probably die alone and I've come to terms with it. But man, how fucked are we as a species where 90% of relationships are either temporary or miserable.

The main reason I surf cavecanum is for that rare story of a happy husband telling us some disgusting, slutty thing his wife does and how much he loves it, or some wife telling how crazy she is about her husband and loves his cock and fucks him like a pornstar and surprises him with random blowjobs. It's the thrill of my life these days, and I have to enjoy it vicariously through somebody else. Fuck. And how few and far between those stories are here just speak to real life for me. They're the ones living the dream. Fuck my life.


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190244.

I recently moved and miss naked yoga the most.  Once a week I got to connect with myself and others in an awesome way.


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190243.

Naked yoga is a thing. I want to try. How fun it would be.


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190242.

I once walked 17 miles to get home.


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190241.

I work at a coffee shop. There's one customer who comes in every morning and asks for 10 pumps of vanilla. How can anyone take 10 pumps? It would be liking drinking pure syrup. My secret is I make his coffee with my back turned so I can only give him 5 pumps, then I tell him yep, I gave you all 10. I lie. But it's for his own good. :)


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190240.

I still miss you, strange as that is...


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190239.

I need to wear reading glasses. I usually keep them on. Except when someone else is around. Then I hide them in my pocket until needed. They make me look old and I don't want to be seen that way. Vanity rules my life.


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190238.

More terrorism. Now we will spend $20 million to prosecute the guy and keep him in an isolated prison cell for the next 50 years.


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190237.

Whenever I'm in my garden and I have to pee, I do. Why bother going back inside? I lift my skirt or drop my pants and do what needs to be done. If anyone was peering over the fence, they'd get quite a show!


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190236.

So funny that your Husband was taunting me with his "I married her, and you didn't" at the restaurant.  I guess he's not aware that I've been fucking you!


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190235.

Had a bizarre day yesterday. I'm a 33/f, if it matters. Went to goodwill to buy clothes, and ended up with a huge number of things for trying on, enough to full an entire z rack in fact. Employee lent me an empty rack and i set about trying my things on. Try item on. If I wanted it it went folded in the cart outside the door, if not it was rehung and placed on the opposite end of the rack to reshelf. It's my system, and it works-- minimizing work for the person putting the item back and helping me take up less space while in try on 100+ items.

But, yesterday was not to be as uneventful as I planned.  There was this woman who for some reason, had a huge problem with my presence and made it her mission to upset me and make me feel like I was unwelcome. I opened the door to switch out some things, and saw her looking right at Me kinda smirking and whispering to her friend. 30 secs later, I hear someone messing with my cart,  and I open the door to her looking through the selections in my basket and trying to take a certain one. I said excuse me, those are my items I'm buying...and get a eye roll and a "oh sorry, I thought you were not here anymore by bad lol." So I throw my entire peacock over the top of the cart and as I'm continuing I heard her loudly telling every single person who passed by "now don't come over here these are HER things, don't touch them! They're hers! By now I'm down to the last 15 items on the z rack and get a knock on the door. It's a store employee that just got in for her shift. She loudly scolds me for taking a zrack to hold the items neatly, and says, "look we don't let yall do that here. You are not the only person in this whole store!" Telling her that I had been authorized to use it did nothing to lessen her tone, she just ordered me to remove the things ings left off the rack and quit being so self centered.  It was awful and embrassing. The whole time I'm being singled out and treated like I did it with no permission. The woman I've been getting picked on is watching intently, and whispering to a group of people and sharing a laugh at my expense. I hurriedly finished up and the final time I opened the door, this woman is standing right at my cart, and fishing in my own fucking coat pockets. I was pissed and I was not in a position to fight back, as I'm on probation and was one smart assed remark away from beating the shit outta her. Then another woman appeared, and wamked right up to this awful woman, and says to her "hey, your eyebrow is fucked up." The woman looks over at her and says that no it isn't,  to which the mystery woman says "well it's about to be if you don't gtfo of this store!" And the bully LEFT! I was so grateful and made myself a new friend. She ended up hanging out with me at my house last night for a while, and seems like a super decent gal who just hated seeing someone getting bullied. Thanks, lady! You are a cool chick!


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190234.

I'm overwhelmed with sadness because of my financial situation. Please God, I need someone to hire me.


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190233.

Go tell the actual person these things so you don't give all of us overly-sensitive, high-strung people in here a complex over nothing.


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190232.

You, my friend, have significantly underestimated me. I showed you humility out of respect. You passed.

I believe in myself, my energy, any my purpose. My life is going to keep getting better. Know that.

Lessons come hard sometimes, don't let the anger get you.


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190231.

I didn't realize how much my bad marriage was dragging me down. It crept up on me over the years. I used to be upbeat, productive, fun, engaging. But more and more I'd hide in the basement playing on the computer - as a way to avoid my wife. I let work go (lived off savings). I let friends go. There would be times when a week would go by and I wouldn't even leave the house.

You know what finally snapped me out of it? An old friend sent me an email out of the blue. I was suddenly reminded how I used to have a life. I dusted myself off and poked my head back upstairs. I contacted former workmates about a job and started down the road of rejoining society.

So when I read on here about how someone sent an email to a friend from 30 years ago, and he wondered if it was a good idea, I say great idea. Maybe you just saved another person from living in a funk hole.


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190230.

My hubber is so funny. He makes to-do lists all the time. I find them lying around the house. Every now and then I'll read one and this is typical of what I find:

* Trim back front lilac bush
* Call bro about camping trip
* Put lamp on ebay
* Take shed trash to dump
* Fuck K

LOL. Glad to know I made his list! Right after a run to the dump. How romantic! :)

PS - I assume K is me. What if it's a different K? Hmmm.


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190229.

I think your new gf is the best thing that's ever happened to you. You deserve peace and happiness. You've been through a lot. I'm thrilled for both of you. 💕


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190228.

It's rather aggravating that when I become friends with someone and I listen to their problems and give them advice, they will often develop feelings for me. It's not about being attractive, but rather the fact that I would bother to listen intently and care about their issues that makes them want to be with me. I'm also pretty good at connecting with people and being understanding of their plight, which definitely steers people in that direction.  

It's really opened my eyes to how broken and lonely so many people are. You have no clue how many people are with someone or want to be with someone purely just to have "someone that will always be there for them," regardless of whether it's a healthy relationship or not. People will put up with everything they shouldn't, just to have that person to call, text, cry on, fuck, or just run to when the tiniest thing goes wrong.

And yet, we're all so afraid of our own fragility that we play games about it and disconnect ourselves from others. I wish people knew how similar they are in this way. I feel like it would make it easier for us to connect if we were aware of how common it is to feel this way.


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190227.

I whack off in the morning to get it over with. My head is then clear all day so I can focus on other things.


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190226.

I'd rather be wrong and know it rather than believing I'm right about everything. I have a strong intuition. It drives me nuts when evidence contradicts my gut feeling. I had you figured out all along and now I get to close the book.


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190225.

I have been secretly betting for the past few weeks.  A cpl of the many little bets had nice payoffs but it's the InPlay bets that have done the best.  While you are watching Game 3 of the World Series, I am making $$$.  I'm up quite a bit but I don't think I'll tell the wife.  Either I'm going to get a few massages or pay for an upcoming vacation.  If I do well this weekend, I might be able to do both!


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190224.

I hope she breaks up with you. You don't deserve her.


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190223.

Most people live beyond their means and off their credit cards. There's a reason I pay cash for everything and keep very a little on my account ( I only use it for online shopping)  My husband manages the rest , our house is paid off , our cars are paid off(no leases or car payments) , we live on a very desirable neightborhood and we drive nice cars.  We just budget everything , sure we treat our selves to nice things once in a while ,like a fancy dinner at an upscale restaurant and take a very nice vacation every few years but we don't spend money we don't have .


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190222.

The thing I've found about sex with a married woman, it's more about her and the things going on in her head, than it is about the sex with me. Married women cheat to get at their husbands. Even if they don't tell the husband. A married woman cheats because she's angry with her husband. It's what she is thinking about during the affair. Me, I am just a tool she uses. The sex has always been good and fun, but I find it's emotionally tough to be sleeping with a married woman where I don't really count.


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190221.

She has no money. But at the same time she has a million reasons why she can't look for a job. Some people live in a fantasy world.


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190220.

All these married women love me.  They look at their husbands like big losers, and flirt right in front of them.  I think I'd rather be in my position than the husbands.
They think and fantasize about me, while they have to have boring sex with them.


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190219.

I deleted my facebook over a year ago and I couldn't be happier about it.


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190218.

Politics and religion has no business in the work place the best thing to do  it's to avoid talking about it . If someone ask you for your opinion or try's starting a conversation just change the subject or politely decline to answer by saying you rather don't discuss those issues at work .


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190217.

I used to be a huge flirt to single women.  

Married women, however, have always been off-limits to me.


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190216.

Performance evaluations are a joke.  You can be a rotten employee and get a great evaluation is you're liked.  You can be a great employee and get a terrible evaluation if you're not liked.  They're just a tool to justify getting rid of a person.


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190215.

I lost a job in 2000, right before the election.  I lost a job in 2016, again right before the election.

Both times I had made a comment to my boss that suggested I did not support the Democratic nominee for president.  I never suggested that I supported the Republican nominee, either, I just suggested that the Democratic nominee wasn't a good candidate.  Both were offhanded, non-offensive and pretty innocent comments.

Coincidence?  I think not, given how liberal my bosses were in both jobs.

I wish liberals would just leave their politics out of the workplace.


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190214.

A guy once sent my wife an email like that where he was from her past and wanted to make contact with her again. I deleted it. I happened to see it before my wife, so she never ever knew he wrote to her. No good will come of notes from the past. He was probably breaking up with his wife and was on the prowl.


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190213.

Ugh I swear administrative work was created with the idea in mind that a woman would be doing all the little mundane shit men don't feel like doing! I have daily reports that are actually very necessary to get done every day, and this guy wants to bother me to print out 4 pieces of paper and put them in envelopes for him? This is when half the printers aren't working and the only scanner is broken, making the rest of my job twice as tedious! But no, you have to bother me for 4 little pieces of paper...

And it's not even that I don't have time to print the damn things, or like changing the labels on them is too hard. It's just such a SIMPLE FUCKING TASK that the only reason I am involved in the process is because my boss likes to feel in charge by giving people useless orders. He could have printed them before I even got in for the day, but that's no fun is it? Nope, we want to go bother the admin because that's what she's there for, right? A nice ego stroke.

God, I can't wait to get a new job once the holidays are over.


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190212.

I can't stand people who speaks like a wannabe gangster rapper, you can have a degree from an Ivy School it doesn't matter you speak like a thug expect to be treated like one.

P.S. Rap and Hip pop makes my ear bleed


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190211.

Professional evaluations.  Yeah, I knew my days were numbered when it became known I was voting Republican last election.  All of a sudden my ratings fell through the floor.  Nothing I could do about it and my department and customers were furious I was let go.

My new company seems a lot less like that and I couldn't be happier.  I kind of think they did me a favor.

- M 46


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190210.

194- I would write back to say "hi" and "thank you" and ask how you're doing. Unfortunately, since I'm married it wouldn't be able to go any further than that.

But it's very likely your e-mail went into her junk mail folder and she didn't even see it. You'd probably have more luck on Facebook.


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190209.

I've come to the conclusion that I'm invisble.  As a typical guy it's obvious that women don't see guys as having any sexual value so I can finally quit pretending. What a joke and a giant waste of time it's been with all this meaningless "confidence" thats supposed to be attractive. That's just a ruse to make guys feel empowered but it ends up making no difference since the male sexual value is always seen by women as zero or more likely negative.


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190208.

And my mom who threw me to become injected in neck by a doctor i know her name but u know. Thank u for helping me die. This is the last part of this just thank you for providing a lawyer on a list of no faces to judge. At many times. One of them was a cousin of my dad who said I will not say his words of good that could be used by another site of how to get a woman to fuck you. "She never said "do not talk to me" she only posted "lesbian dumbass and such" she never said "I can call you if you're not mad" I AM MAD CUZ YOU LIAR. A call and a hello no answer a lot from the beginning where I told her if you don't delete these u do whatever the fuck and they do whatever the fuck SHE DON'T GET WE ARE ALL WATCHED she is dumb. That's ok. But ....me fuckin too cuz at this point I need a lawyer for assisted suicide cuz I can document vans vans that are white where they were and the fact that I DIE FOR THE RAPIST CUZ HE DID NOT RAPE ANYONE. Pre rape and post rape equals suicide. Because men say they'd die for you or something no one said that to me I don't think maybe I doubt it but thank you imaginairy friend. So now I am giving up on trying to cry for imaginary meme cuz now I can think in my head. Be happy I'm not talking. And just know I cried cuz I missed can't say a name here you know who you are and do not contact me it isn't anyone name M. He gets to play drums with other people who may or may not have said a lot of threats veiled by an innocent nervous voice. My dad would post things about his own self pity here and don't believe shit no one will ever know about or see. Cuz.. whatever. If you could just not delete emails at .. ok no email for anyone on any computer where Twitter confirms it can block likes and follows and it's ok Twitter they'll kill you if you dont. I actually already funded my assisted suicide I am talking to a doctor and they don't do shit. One made sure I would not have my disability check where I am paid to be a guinea pig instead of paid to paint. That's ok. He claimed I was lying by leaving a shit credit card I knew I would never use on my bed. He thought it was post-i won't get a payday loan when I already do not have that credit card kept it for a joke meme maybe. U know? Thank you doctor. You helped me die. Because this is what I need. I guess any painting file of mine means do not post my painting cuz it's infected with that no one can post or share a good fucking shit I made in prayer for mankind and earth to coexist. I hope  other than a doctor can give me a month with my voice recorder. Privacy policies only protect the doctors who think they invented a mind numbing pill when Tibetans should be hired and would probably work for free and should get more just for 5minute nonsmokebrainjerks convo with a person who is now homeless cuz their family likes to make sure there is none.


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190207.

Ah, work "performance evaluations."  Here's a secret about them: your final score is nothing more than an expression of how much your boss likes you personally.  Performance evaluations are great tools for the boss giving you positive feedback.  But if the boss doesn't like you, you get a bad eval.  If the boss likes you, you get a good eval.  Find another job if you get a bad performance evaluation.


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190206.

She never said do not talk to me but a lot of hiding behind bullshit and lesbian dumbass so know that girl lies and likes her little shit like a lot of things could be seen like "she compares me to everyone she fucks" sorry but u know she perpetuated it purposely for drama when the things I WOULD SAY are thank God for those who talked to me helped me and I know what I need a lawyer for.


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190205.

I'm being evaluated at work. I'm scared. My last one was perfect. They couldn't find anything I needed to improve on. . Last year, my first year on the job, was not good. I was ecstatic about the perfect eval.

But now this eval has to live up to the last one, and I feel so much pressure. What if it falls apart? What if they observe me during a class who has behavior issues instead of one of my well-behaved classes? I swear to god if they observe me during the monster class I have and some kid ruins it, I will end them. End. Them.

Calling any deity out there, lord baby Jesus, God, Allah, Buddha, Krishna, Flying Spaghetti Monster, whoever...please help me rock this eval too. Pleeeeeeease 😭


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190204.

I miss having real friends were we can simply talk and say anything and no one's feelings got hurt. That's what being friends means. These days everyone gets so easily offended by everything. It makes my head hurt. These new types of "friends" are really a burden, not an asset.


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190203.

I'll bet my doctor gets a little turned on seeing me naked. Of course he can never admit it, he has to be professional. But I know he must like seeing my beautiful pussy and tatas.


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190202.

I hate flying. Oddly the worst part isn't being in the air. It's the week before the flight when I brood about the possibility the pane will crash. Once I'm up in the sky, it's not so bad because I know the anxiety will be over in a few hours.Funny how the human mind torments itself.


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190201.

I'm a little more at ease when dealing with people who are a little chubby like me. Super fit people make me nervous. I feel like they are silently judging me.


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190200.

Pimples are gross but I enjoy popping blackheads.


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190199.

Bills, taxes, any and all of my financial dealings make me feel sick to my stomach. It's another unmentioned burden on the poor.


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190198.

This is silly. A product I created all by my lonesome can be seen in the TV shows The X Files and Stranger Things. It is also in the movies War Games, Pixels, and a few others.

LOL.

This, I suppose, is my legacy, my gift to the world. I made something and people find it iconic and amusing - enough so that it still makes its way into the media.

I never tell anyone about it. I don't want to brag. But having the product being featured in so many places makes me proudly smile!


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190197.

0194: Absolutely! The curiosity, if nothing else, would be killing me. And if I choose not to continue contact with the person on the other end, then I would end it in a lady-like way and move on but always be grateful that someone remembered me in such a nice way. Kinda sounds like Disney, right? But it has happened to me.


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190196.

1)Maybe the person doesn't have access or used the email address anymore. I know I had like 4 accounts and two of them quit using many years ago without closing the account since I couldn't remember the password.

2) She is married or in a serious relationship.

3) She doesn't remember you or simple didn't know you well enough.  I once bumped into this one at the store and came out starting talking to me , she even mentioned I once gave her a ride home and I still don't know who she is , maybe she confused me with some else .


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190195.

I'm so sad these days. There is nothing good in my life.


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190194.

When I was 20 I had a mad crush on this one particular woman. We were in college together. I never acted on it. After college we went our separate ways.

30 years later I looked her up on google. I found her email address and sent her the following note:

"Hi. Remember me. I always had a thing for you. It is one of my biggest regrets that I never pursued you. I know this is an odd message to get so many years later. But can I take you to lunch?"

She never wrote back. I don't know what I was expecting but I was hoping the idea of romance and good stories was still alive. Guess not.

If you received an email like the one I sent, would you have written back?


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190193.

I think in the future not as many people will get married. For hundreds of years it has been the norm to marry. It is almost a requirement. But now because of the internet, people have bared their souls and revealed just how messed up marriage is. We read about the disappointments, the resentments, the anger, the frustration, and the cheating. I think people are beginning to understand that marriage is generally a downer for everyone. Yes, I think in the future, not as may will people will be willing to get married. As secondary result, not as many children will be born. Big houses will no longer be in demand. More people will live in cities. The school population will decrease. Schools will close. It will be easier to get into college. And so on.

The world is on the brink of a major change.


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190192.

Whenever I ejaculate in my wife's ass, and then pull out, a little blob of my cum leaks out of her asshole. I have scooped this up on my finger and fed it to her. She willingly tastes and swallows. It was up her ass. She still swallowed. You can't beat that for sexy.


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190191.

Turn me down for ot cuz of score when the engineers are incompetent with time studies? I hope the yard and docks get out of control and it costs them their jobs


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190190.

I hate sunday evenings.


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190189.

My internet was ridiculous. I was getting downloads speeds of 1 mps and it wasn't constant. I couldn't steam music without the sound turning on and off.

I bit the bullet and paid about $50 more per month to get faster internet. They said the new speed would be 200 mps.  Whoa! 200 times faster!

Liars. My download speed is now 2 mps. I still can't listen to music. What a joke these internet providers are.


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190188.

I know it's wrong but there's something so hot about a married man's hand with a ring on it gripping my cock as he's going down on me


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190187.

I get regular compliments at work on my wardrobe. I work in sales and have a strict professional dress code. I'm required, for example, to wear heels. That's how strict my dress code is.

Management would shit a brick if they knew the truth. Almost every item in my well complimented closet comes straight from my local thrift shops. That Calvin Klein dress you “adored?” $16 with the tags still on. It retails for around $100. The Michael Kors purse I wear every day? $30. I saw an identical one at Macy's for over $150.

Enjoy paying for mark ups if that's your jam. But your bad buying habits are my thrift shop wins.


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190186.

I'm still wondering why you thought that post was me?  Did you want it to be?  You can email.  Julianna


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190185.

I hope they prove the Democrats got this information about Russia. I dont blame any party if they are going to get honest information, but bullshit info should not be part of it. Yup I hope this Russia investigation proves the dems got the real info.


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190184.

I write secrets and then delete them. I'm slightly paranoid.


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190183.

I lived in New York all my life and I feel like California is calling my name.


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190182.

-164, we were going broke, too.  The credit card balance was up to almost $50k and getting worse every month, and we almost had to declare bankruptcy.  My husband and I sat down and thought about everything we could cut out.  The house phone went - $55 a month for something we didn't use because we had cell phones, and was just used for telemarketers to leave messages on.  Comcast went, except for the internet.  We got a Google Chromecast instead - saved $125 a month.  Other little odds and ends went and were cancelled, and all the credit card balances were transferred to no interest cards.  We saved $600 a month on things we weren't using.  We refinanced our house and saved another $250 a month - short term gain for a long term loss, but we needed to do it to get the bills under control.

Some was hard to get rid of.  I thought I needed the house phone because so many of my doctors had that number.  But it's been 2 years and I actually didn't miss it.  It was a "safety" thing in my mind that I didn't need.  It was a habit.  Same thing with your daughter's clothes - it sounds like a habit that you need to break.  Stop buying the expensive stuff.  You'll find after a week or two of not doing it that you never cared for it in the first place.

But the biggest thing we did?  We stopped eating out.  It saved us $100 a week.  It was too easy to do, especially when we were out on weekends.  It was another habit to get out of.  Now we save $400 a month and we feel a little better, too.

We also started a spreadsheet that shows exactly how much we owe on each credit card.  We have a whiteboard on which we write down every transaction on our credit card and what it was for, and we keep a master list in our e-mail.  It has given us a great sense of control over what we spend and enabled us to discuss why we're spending money on what we do.  We find that on average we spend about $550 a week on things.

We saved $1200 a month simply on stuff that was around us.  We expect to pay off the rest of our credit cards next year, and then we can start paying down the house to make up for the refinance.  It can be done!


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190181.

When I was younger I used to skip on undies too, they always felt weird to me . I started wearing them again once I got married, I mean I cannot just walk around without panies , especially on the summer when all I wear is dresses and skirts.


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190180.

Thank You, God.

This time last month I could barely get out of bed.  I wore the same clothes for as many days as I could get away with, same with showering.   I only did things around the house and for my family that I had to do, to keep the household running and decently clean and to keep everyone fed.  I cried myself to sleep at night, though.  I couldn't see a way out.

And then, as I always do when I get to the bottom, I told You that it was in Your hands.  I asked You to change my life.  And - as You always do - You did.

My kids commented on how happy I was again.  My husband commented on how spectacularly clean the house was.  My depression has lifted and I have a new lease on life, because You gave me exactly what I wished for.

Thank You, God, for the opportunity you sent my way, and please help me to succeed at it.


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190179.

I have an aversion to alcohol. Especially hard liquor such as vodka and tequila etc. I can sometimes stomach red wine or occasionally beer with a meal, maybe 3-4 times per year. It's always been like this, but it's gotten worse as I grew older...  I'm not against alcohol or anything, I don't think that there is anything wrong with drinking a couple drinks during the week or on the weekend. I just can't. Sometimes I wish I could...


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190178.

I have 10 apples.  I give 10 apples to my good friend. There are 9 other people and they get no apples.

I can honestly say that as an average all 10 people as an average got an apple.

This is our next tax legislation.


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190177.

Once, and only once, I went to work in a skirt and no underoos. I had no clean pairs. It was summer. It was hot outside. I thought hey, why not. No one will know.

I must say I got a little thrill out of the day. I was walking down the hallways thinking hey world, I'm not wearing any underwear and I'm feeling like the sexiest woman alive!

Alas, I was only brave enough to do it for the one day. I remember it fondly though.


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190176.

I wonder what you have to say about me, considering the amount of hogwash you talk about some of these other women. I think you're lining them up in case your shit relationship hits the fan early.


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190175.

Google '50 Shades Of Goofy'
Your Welcome!


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190174.

Wish I had somewhere to go tonight. Also wish the guy I was “dating” would have invited me to the party he is going to tonight. This is my favorite weekend of the whole year. Halloween weekend and I'm on my period sick and have no money or car. Sometimes starting over fucking sucks.


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190173.

0171, your kids are suffering too.  This sort of existence is not worth it, and you will make it without a big house or that neighborhood.  Ask yourself what are the long term costs for your children?  And YOU?  
Bless you, good luck..


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190172.

Walking on eggshells. The violent outbursts aren't acceptable. Drop everything and leave. There is a better world out there. One where you aren't fighting the urge to fight back. There is no need for this. Think of it as a deadly car accident that you barely survived.  You can do this.


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190171.

I'm afraid of my wife. I try not to confront her. In hindsight, this seems to be her plan. She acts menacing. She sets that baseline. Then she takes advantage of me and the marriage. But I don't dare stop her because she has shown how menacing she can be.

An example. She hits me. She throws things. She intentionally breaks things, like she drove her car into mine. There's the menacing baseline.

Then she wants to go away with a female friend of hers to a spa in Arizona for a week. I say we can't afford. She then starts throwing things. I'm reminded of how bad she can get. I give in. Okay she can go to the spa.

She's a violent bully and she gets her way.

You might wonder why I don't divorce her.

Because we have children. Because we have a beautiful house. We are part of a community. The kids and I would have to give it all up thanks to the way divorce settlements work. I couldn't afford to live here anymore if she gets half of everything.

In the end, the situation is such that it works out well for her. And terribly for me. And I don't feel like there is anything I can do about it until the kids are out of the house.


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190170.

I want to him to fuck me in my costume


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190169.

I once had this dude that I used to chat online out of boredom, it's funny that he spread rumors based on assumptions, I have never met him but he would tell people all this outrageous lies about me , he doesn't even know my real name , been faithful  to my husband and have never cheated on him . I think it's just sour grapes , that I stop chatting online with him, even if I knew him on real life I would never date someone like him , he is not my type heck I wouldn't even like him as a friend.


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190168.

I dated this women who would always act the part of not wanting sex to happen. She would constantly say no. It's in the news all the time these days. If a woman says no, that means no. But I eventually realized she meant yes. It was very confusing.

Like I'd kiss her and she'd say "Ow ow that hurts." First time it happened I stopped and sincerely apologized asking what I did wrong. She didn't answer. She leaned in and kissed me more and then said it again, "Ow ow that hurts." That's when I realized it was some sort of game.

I'd unbutton her shirt. She'd say "No no stop." But if I stopped, she'd start squirming around all antsy. And when I finally put my hand back on her shirt she'd let out a sensual moan, showing she liked it. So then I'd start with the unbuttoning again and she'd say, "No no stop."

I'd unzip her pants. "You can't do that. Stop stop."

I'd tug down her underwear. "I'm begging you to stop."

She was like acting out a rape fantasy. Or she had some deep psychology where her mother told her to never let a man touch her, so she felt she had to object to my advances, but the whole time she subtly encouraged me to do more.

In the end, it didn't work for me. It might have been a turn on for her, but not for me. I got no thrill pretending to rape a woman. It wasn't my thing. I hate the idea in fact.

We eventually broke up. But a very confusing game some women play. What a message to send to men---> Rape is terrible, but please act like you are raping me.


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190167.

There are still plenty of racially motivated lynchings going on right now. Google 'knockout game deaths'...


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190166.

0165, NOBODY should live like that.  Your post made me so sad...  Please take steps for your well being and happiness and that may mean ending this “marriage”.  Hugs to you.


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190165.

My marriage is so bad I often want to cry. I'm male. Men don't cry. So I can't. I refuse. But I feel it welling up inside me. There have been a few times when I was talking to someone about something else entirely, and out of nowhere my voice cracked. I pretended it was something caught in my throat. But weird, the sad emotions are boiling over inside me desperately trying to burst out.


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190164.

I'm happy in my marriage, have two great kids, the house, the cars, the pets, everything anyone could ever need in an average life. My trouble is, I cannot manage money for shit. With each paycheck I think this time it'll be different, but wind up overdrawn before the next payday. Part of my problem is incessantly dressing my daughter in expensive boutique clothes so that she'll be trendy in school. She even uses shampoo and conditioner that I have to special order online. She doesn't insist on this, I just do it. She gets new clothes weekly. Add in regular bills, gas for the car, groceries, etc and the end result is, I'm 43 and broke all the time. Right now I have $39 in my checking account and don't get paid until the second week in November. Thank goodness for a husband who can fill the void.


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190163.

At nighttime, my wife takes the extra pillows on the bed and makes a wall between us. The pillows are large and fluffy so the wall is high enough where I can't even really see her, let alone touch her. She also then sleeps with her back to me.

The message is clear, she doesn't want to have any type of physicality between us.


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190162.

To be honest not everyone is marriage material or parent material . I know I'm not , I try my best part of me wishes I wouldn't never quit my job at least I was very good at it and made a lot of money but having a kid with special needs and having a husband  that wanted a more traditional wife I decided it was  for the best interest of my kid to stay home even though I suck at being a homemaker, can't cook , hate cleaning , I'm not a very affectionate person , I'm those kind of person who feels uncomfortable displaying public affection (holding hands , hugging) .  When I was kid I never dream of getting married or having children like most girls do , I wanted to become a pilot , travel the world maybe a bush pilot on a area that not a lot of people are interested due to high risk ( Africa, Alaska , Indonesia which happens to have the worst safety record on aviation) yep , that was my dream .  Instead I married a very successful executive, when my husband dies my kid and step children can keep it all , I'm not interested in any of his money , my kid can keep my part , that will be my gift for having such a lousy mother.


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190161.

I used to rail my secretary hard quite frequently, sometimes in the office with her bending over my desk. She was much younger than I was and she seemed  willing, even to take it in the ass. I would probably go to jail for that sort of thing today but in the 1990s it was just good clean fun and it was almost expected that cute secretaries would blow their boss.


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190160.

I hate life.  I wish I was dead.  When I'm awake, I'm apathetic and want to go back to sleep all day.  When I'm asleep, I constantly wake up anxious.


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190159.

I hate sleeping. There's something about being in a quiet house at night or in the early morning that makes me feel good and safe. I've been this way my whole life. Its why I avoid being a houseguest anytime I can. I LIKE MY HOUSE.


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190158.

I don't know what's gotten into me. I jerked off twice today.


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190157.

It scares the bejezuz out of me to know that when I die there is nothing. I will never live again. I don't know if I can deal with this.


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190156.

With all this talk of sexual harassment, I'm starting to feel like I'm one of a very small percentage of women that genuinely wants to sleep with her boss. I want him to graze my ass when he walks by. I want him to hug me. I want the inappropriate physical closeness. I want the closed door "meetings". I want him to take me to dinner. Of course, my boss is both attractive and age appropriate which doesn't seem to be the case in other's stories, so there is that difference.


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190155.

Why can't aging country stars just go away?  (shania)

Same with these old fart touring bands.  WTF?  

We've already paid for your music when it was "listenable"

Just go the FUCK away and retire already.


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190154.

I'm a married guy. I want to touch another guy's cock. I've of course seen a cock a number of times at a gym. But it's not like I can stare or see it up close. I really want to though. I want to touch a guy's cock and feel his balls. I don't want to admit it, but I'd like to put his cock in my mouth and see if I can make him cum.


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190153.

Today I masturbated in the bathroom at work.


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190152.

My ex wife could be sweet. Sometimes all the typical things list about an ex wife. Sometimes she seemed incredibly superficial by my standards. You get to know a person, but there will always be those parts about your partner that will remain a mystery, which is good; it keeps things interesting.
We were good friends, had stuff in common. On some levels, we had a very deep connection. I feel bad when I happen to see a picture of her (as I did earlier) because I think of it as a waste. So unnecessary. The ending or the whole thing, either.
Having been through all this has made me much less attached to anything. It's made me much more mindful in my daily activities. But something changed, and I can never go back to the way I was or the way things were, which is fine. It's just the way it is. It's okay, just a waste. "Wishing I didn't know now what I didn't know then" is good stuff, Seegs.


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190151.

I lost it once in my marriage where I shoved everything off a table top. It felt good. It displayed my level of anger.

Of course my wife brings it up as much as possible. She makes it out like I am some vicious beast not in control of my emotions.

In reality, that's her. She's done countless things out of anger.

But to hear her tell it, I'm the one with the problem because I once shoved some books off a table. There's no winning with people like her. Sh lives in her own reality.


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190150.

I'm in a non emotional, non sexual marriage...and I wish we could choose partners based on Sex....when you 52yo....You realize you aint got much lead left in Your pencil....


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190149.

Marriage: Giving power to the woman. The power to be:
resentful
withholding
bitchy
degrading


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190148.

I have a close friend who shared a secret with me. She said a dozen years ago when she was in high school, she was touching herself in her room and was getting really into it. She lit a candle and was playing some sexy soulful music. She closed her eyes and fantasized about someone. After she orgasmed, she opened her eyes and there was her mother standing in the room. Like worst nightmare ever to be caught in such a position by her mother. Her story has stuck with me. I have an irrationally strong fear of being caught. Which is why I will only do it at night with the lights out, in total silence, and with the door locked.


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190147.

Im learning more and more that my cock is more beautiful than most.


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190146.

Somebody posted a meme asking what you'd choose if you were given the choice to be 45 years old and be given $50 million in the bank, or to go back to age 10 knowing everything you know now- basically knowing the future.

Everybody said they'd just want the $50 million at 45.  I think I'd rather go back to being 10.  I'd make far more money and be a lot healthier.  Things I'd do-

- Stop drinking alcohol, unless it involved getting laid.  Stop eating sugary foods, too.  Now I know the damage it causes.
- Stop being such a pussy in high school and get laid all the time.  Now I know who the girls are and what they were up to.  I'd be a totally different person.
- Go to the same college on the same scholarship, but ditch all my engineering classes.  I never finished anyway.  I'd be a business major.  I'd save a lot of money and graduate on time.
- While at college, ditch my dork friends and be more social... and get laid all the time.
- Go to Seattle in 1997 and join a startup called Google. I'd work at the front desk and take only stock options instead of raises.
- Invest heavily in Apple in 1997, when they were at their shittiest and everyone thought they were about to go out of business.
- When 1998 rolled around, I'd invest heavily in some of the dotcom companies that I know would do well... and toward the end of 1999 I'd dump the stock.  
- Get laid some more
- Invest a few hundred in Bitcoin in 2009.

I'd be worth hundreds of millions, work only when I want to, be in great shape, and my dick would be tired by 45.


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190145.

I haven't made love to my husband in 2 1/2 months. This is the norm, sadly. He won't make the effort. He blames it on something else if I bring it up. I can't say it sucks to not ever be having sex because he gets angry. I'm young and fit and sexy. I had a long, delicious dream last night about his friend. I knew he was attracted to me a few years ago. He was into me, but you can't go there. I'm untouchable. I've wished I could be with this man, for years. He moved away. He now has a live-in girlfriend. Some lady got really lucky. Some lady is made love to. And it's not me.


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190144.

I don't really care about people dying, even children. They're just gonna grow into shitty adults anyway.


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190143.

The more I learn about the world, the more I hate people. We are a cancer that should be cleansed from this planet. We are killing it like a parasite to its host.


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190142.

Do you have any idea how long the legal process takes to get someone into the U.S.? YEARS. So these people seeking asylum, they're just supposed to wait around for the legal process to enter, knowing every day they could be killed? Get real.

And as far as taxes go, I think you should be more concerned about people like our President using that money for vacations than worried about poor people trying to make a better life for themselves.

And the whole "Legal ones are fine"' argument is bullshit anyway. Do you ever see anyone ask about someone's legal status before they get harassed on the street? No, they just see a turban or someone who doesn't speak English and assume.


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190141.

I wrote 0132 and should have clarified my thoughts on immigration.  LEGAL immigrants welcome.  Come the right way, pay your taxes, etc and claim a life that will be good to you and your family.
ILLEGAL?  Nah....  
Everyone else who gripes about America?   Feel free to leave.  Meanwhile, I am a flag waving, tax paying, USA loving citizen.  That is all.


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190140.

My wife always has an excuse as to why she can't help.  I was cleaning the house and I asked her to pitch in and vacuum the living room. Here is the conversation as best I can remember:

"Could you please help out and vacuum the living room."

"No, the vacuum doesn't work."

"What do you mean it doesn't work? I just vacuumed three other rooms."

"But now the vacuum bag must be full. I can't vacuum the living room with a full bag."

"I'm sure it will be fine."

"No, it needs a new bag."

"Okay, go up to the hardware store and buy a new bag."

"I can't. The car needs an oil change."

"What? I'm sure the car is fine. The oil was changed a few months ago."

"No, it would be unsafe for me to drive the car unless the oil is changed. You'll have to do it before I can help."

"So you can't vacuum the living room now because I need to first change the oil on the car?"

"Yes. Tell me when you have it done. Then I'll take care of the vacuuming."

"Never mind on the vacuuming. How about you sweep out the garage."

"Uhh, no. We need a new broom..."

She's impossible. I don't need this crap. I want to have a wife who is fair and caring and helpful. Is that too much for me to ask?


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190139.

Not every sexual experience needs to scar you for life-please!All this drama ! As a young boy of 8  I walked into a public swimming pool dressing room and saw a man look at me in a very different way .I got out of there very fast as I knew this guy was after something else.Kids are not stupid. They know a predator.Women should also be aware of putting themselves in a position where they can be harmed. It is up to a woman to set the boundaries. If a guy steps over the line -make sure he knows you are not comfortable with what is happened. Today Ahsley Judd said she told Weinstien she would have sex with him when he puts her in a movie and she wins the Oscar? She did not win an Oscar so now she comes out with this sexual harassment story? I am not excusing Weinstein but she should not cry foul when this dangerous game she she was playing comes back to bite her in the ass. When you use your sexual favors as a bargaining tool-you better be prepared to get what comes to you!These woman are not wilting wall flowers!


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190138.

You leave your home  country when you are not happy with it.We are all free to move where we like.By all means immigrate to America but follow the rules.Then you will be welcomed.Legal immigrants have always been welcome here-
ILLEGAL aliens are the problem. I followed the rules and laws of the USA  and very thankful for what America gave me.


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190137.

I've been trying to help my friend get a job. I thought no problem. I can do this. I'll help her create a resume. I'll review job openings with her. I can make this work. There is a job for everyone.

I didn't count on one thing. She's a lazy, annoying cunt. It's difficult to get her to sit still to work on her resume or apply for jobs. One place asked her to create a video answering a few questions. She filmed herself acting really put out that she had to do this, saying on camera, "I don't know what to say. This is dumb. I don't want to make a video." Sure, they will hire you with that response because they are specifically looking for lazy people who put in no effort. Duh.

I was wrong. This woman isn't going to get a job. No one will hire her.


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190136.

When I was a young girl I used to sneak into my parents bedroom when they weren't looking. My mom kept half a dozen bottles of perfumes and lotions on her bedside table. I'd try out a new one every day, putting some on my hands. It was a girl thing. In looking back, I have to laugh. The names on the bottles were things like Channel, Dior, Dolce and.... KY. Eeik! My mother was leaving out her sex lubricant and I was rubbing it on my hands!


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190135.

The most excited I've been sexually is when my live-in girlfriend came back from a dinner. She was acting oddly. I pushed. She started crying. She said one thing led to another and she ended up having sex with a co-worker in his car. She blamed it on alcohol. I pushed for details. Less than an hour earlier he ejaculated in her. I asked her to show me. She reluctantly pulled down her panties and showed me the wet spot. I touched it with my finger. I moved in closer to smell his semen on her pussy. I then fucked her and came inside. Biggest orgasm of my life. We broke up soon after. I couldn't get over her cheating. Yet part of me loved that she cheated and I was able to experience the aftermath.  Yes, I'm conflicted.


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190134.

My friend told me this morning that she can't keep up with the revolving door of guys in my life. It's not a bad thing, because I'm looking for somebody to give my heart to, and that involves connecting with people and seeing who they really are before taking the plunge. When she and another friend of ours were talking about it he remarked, "Yeah, she is really good at connecting with people. It's a skill I wish I had." That made me feel really good about myself.


best  
190133.

It's funny how Americans say "just leave the country if you don't like it" and then scream and moan about immigrants from other places who do exactly that...typical hypocritical attitude


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190132.

0129, we don't all feel that way.  I'm white and proud..would be proud regardless of my race.  Stop listening to those who want to paint all whites and men with the same brush...  the rest of us don't follow that thinking..you know...the rest of us - the silent majority - the deplorables in the basket - the folks who are taking it to the NFL - those of us who love our country, warts and all.  AMERICA!    And for those who may not like my message, feel free to leave the States anytime.


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190131.

I embrace my unchecked white male "privilege".  Whatever I say, it's not going to influence others' low prejudgement of my ilk, so I might as well drop to meet their expectations.


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190130.

25 years ago I was walking up the steps in my college when suddenly, for no reason at all, the theme to "Emergency" started going through my head.  I had never been able to remember it since I watched the show as a kid 20 years before.  Then all at once I was able to remember it.  Now it won't get out of my head.


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190129.

Yeah, I get it.
I'm white ergo everything bad in the world is personally my fault.

I have a penis ergo I am a sexual predator.

I have some money ergo I am personally responsible for all of the poverty and failed lives around me.

Fuck you.


best  
190128.

Men are awful, cold hearted and dishonest.  That will never get better.


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190127.

190093, because those 70,000 fans believe they can't be a Star.


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190126.

I so desperately want a job. I have no self esteem when I have no job. Working makes me feel so much better about myself.


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190125.

I loved the trucks on Emergency.


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190124.

105 sounds like hsv to me. I unfortunately was born with it, and when I have a breakout it's always like whiteheads. I had strep A LOT when I was young and am a carrier as well. But I never had any white spots. I had my tonsils out when I was young but I remember eating lots of ice cream! Thrush tends to cover an entire area in a blanket of white stuff


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190123.

My dentist is like super nice and polite, he seems like those kind of guys who always genuinely wants to help people .


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190122.

Back in the day, when "Emergency" was a hit show, all the girls had crushes on Randolph Mantooth. But I always thought Bobby Troup was way hotter.


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190121.

One time I let a guy convince me to snort some crushed up antidepressant. It hurt like fucking hell. I don't even know if we were genuinely feeling anything other than sleep deprivation because, duh, that shit was stupid. He wasnt into me really but I was desperate for attention and didn't feel great about myself back then.


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190120.

I think my dentist is hot


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190119.

Somebody stole my puddy!!!My puddy was minding its own business when some mean old man stole it and had his way with it.


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190118.

The world has changed in the last few years, though it seems like overnight. I don't like it anymore.  I don't trust politicians, police, news or just about anything I don't see with my own eyes. I am tired of this new place.  If I didn't have a child I would really like to wait for the deep, deadly part of winter and just walk out into the woods at night in the beautiful dark silence until the blood started moving slower in my body and no longer felt the cold or the pain of this world. After I knew there was no way I could walk back I would sit and wait for the other side.  Till I felt nothing more then the tree I was leaning against.  Death with dignity and silence.  
I love my son too much though to be selfish and blemish his future.


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190117.

i think my coworkers are two faced. they act kind to me most of the time but there is always some underlining joke im not part of. they would probably just laugh and shrug if i lost my job tomorrow.


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190116.

What makes someone marriage material?


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190115.

You can't win seriously, if you eat fruit and veggies most likely are contaminated with pesticides, if you buy organic one it can get pricey, two who knows if it's all 100% organic and pesticides free .  No wonder a lot of people don't even bother to buy fruit or vegetables.


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190114.

my dick sliding in and out of a woman's vagina or ass is God's gift to you.


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190113.

On the plus side, I haven't heard voices in quite a long time. I'm sorry to say I don't want to be medicated for the manic depression, although I probably should. It must be easy to pop a pill. I'm scared I'll fail at all of this.


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190112.

So after 5 years of being out of school, I decided to go back. I'm older than the usual community college crowd and glad that I am, or else I'd be steamrolled by naivety. It's not really fair to them. And the people who usually do it are incredibly selfish.

I went up to the advising area to get some help and the first chick was entirely unprofessional and rude. Who knows what kind of young kids she could be turning off or turning around or making think that maybe college isn't a good idea. Now that I'm almost 30, I could see right through her bullshit. When I was done and walking out, I overheard this grown ass fucking adult shit talking what another female was wearing to college-age kids. All she was doing was playing a try hard wanna-be kid loser when in reality she was 45 and wearing a suit jacket. I can't believe people like her even have a job when I struggle so much to find one when I truly want to help people. How are people like that in life even allowed to be functional in society and have such an important first impression sort of position like that?

Grow the fuck up.


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190111.

My boss's keyboard is filthy. There is coffee and food spilled on the keys. There is either dust or mold growing between the keys. It is also covered with random stray hairs. I wouldn't be surprised if his keyboard is the real source of the Ebola Virus.


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190110.

I'm split on anal sex. I enjoy it. It's dirty fun. But it throws off my digestive systems for a few days, which is unpleasant. I'll do it, but only if there is nothing critical going on in my life for the next 24 hours. Sex can be complicated!


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190109.

I suppose I was abused when I was a young teanager by a sexual predator.  

This was back in the early 80's when VCR's just came out.  A group of friends and I went to this guys apartment in my frineds buliding.  The guy started showing us porn movies on his VCR and he managed to somehow separate me to the other room.  When he did he started asking me questions about my cock and said he wanted to see how big my dick was.  He talked me into taking it out and measuring it for me. Then he talked me into letting him suck my dick.  I was about 14-15 as best I recall at the time, and super horny and wanted to know what a blow job felt like.  He was probably in his 30's at the time as best I can guess.  I knew he was older but cant really remember (if I ever knew) how old he was.  I do recall he was a fat ugly dude.  Anyway, he got me to cum in his mouth and then he asked me if I wanted to do him.  I politely declined and would not touch his dick at all.  He did not press (probably because my frineds were in the other room) and we went back to the other room and continued to watch the porn movies.  As far as I know my friends never knew or found out.

A few years later I wound up working at the summer camp where he was working as a director.  He never tired anything else with me though he was polite to me. I never said anything to my friends or anyone at the camp, though I was pretty sure that he was doing it to other kids at the camp and probably even tried to do it to my friends.  I suppose that I was affraid that people would think I was gay because I let a guy suck my cock.

The funny thing is that it never really affected me at all.  Im not fucked up.  Im straight, in my 50's, married with children and have a generally good marriage.  I have a good career and friends and a genereally normal happy life and a reasonably healty sex life.  (At least as healthy as a guy my age who has been married as long as I have can have).  Thought I do not repress the memory at all, I rarely if ever really think about it.  When I do I don't get ill or upset, I just chalk it up to some deviant asshole that clearly liked to prey on young horny kids.  I was just a horny young kid that wanted to know what a blowjob felt like, so I let him do it.  

I feel bad for other people that this happens to  and it scars them.  I guess Im just lucky.


best  
190108.

105- If you don't culture for strep, are you sure it's not thrush?


best  
190107.

Now I might pour some coffee into my penis


best  
190106.

I tried to kill myself and then I was raped. All the people in my life who know these things about me think I was raped, and then after that I tried to kill myself. Nope, I was depressed and tried to kill myself. Then a few months later I was raped at a party. Two events are completely unrelated. It was easier to justify the attempted suicide with the rape than to admit that I have some deep depression I need to deal with in my life.


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190105.

When I get sick I ALWAYS have a type of strep, because I am a carrier for it and when I go to the doctors it never culters which super sucks because my tonsils are swollen and covered in white spots and it hurts to swallow and talk. So I (having no gag reflex) girgle warm salt water and then take a q-tip and dig out the white spots girgling warm salt water each time I remove more spots.
Salt is really some of the best antibiotics I could ask for since, oh wait, the doctors wont give me any since I dont culter for strep.
I shoul just have my tonsils removed but I have seen the pain that goes with it and there is just no way I can hanle that, nooooooope.


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190104.

Your car was hit and it has red paint scratches caused obviously by a collision with a *red* vehicle. You see someone on the street who says a guy in a red truck hit your car while you were away. Numerous credible sources also come forth with the same information. The authorities are conducting a thorough investigation which points towards a red truck.  But then, Shifty the Clown comes along and confirms that you're car was hit by a red truck and suddenly all of the other accounts are wrong. Lol? Wtf?
I don't believe in my heart of hearts that people are this easily misled, or are that immuned from the truth or reality.  It may be that people aren't really thinking too deeply about this. That wouldn't surprise me.
American exceptionalism is the real hoax...


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190103.

In the last 24 hours we learned that Hillary Clinton's campaign paid for the "Trump Dossier" to be made up, and that the Russians gave her foundation $145 million right after she approved the Uranium One deal.

So much for "Russian collusion."  See how politics works?  You do something, and then blame the other person for doing it.

Trump is a bit of an idiot, but I am now more thankful than ever that Clinton lost.


best  
190102.

I had a buried memory come back to me at the worst possible time once. My friends and I were running to the store to grab some beer about a year ago. They randomly started talking about when they gave their first blow job. Holy shit. I wasn't emotionally prepared for what happened next. This memory came back and punched me in the face.

My first boyfriend was less sexually inhibited than I was when I started dating him when I was 17 and he was 18. I had been sexually abused by an older man a couple of years earlier, and sexual activity was something I needed to ease into. My boyfriend did not comprehend this. He wanted a blow job, I'd never given one, and I knew I wasn't ready to do that yet, much less have sex.

He impatient one night when we were making out when I told him no when he asked for one. He took my head in his hands and shoved my head down and forced himself into my mouth. I was terrified, and it got even worse when he was pushing up and down on my head. I didn't realize how afraid of him I was. I didn't fight back. I prayed for it to be overwith quickly. I didn't want to do it. Before he came he told me he wouldn't shoot it down my throat and let me go. How thoughtful.

Later that night we went to a friend's house; and I remember feeling so incredibly sick to my stomach the entire night. This almost retching, nauseating pit that churned inside me the rest of the night, and I had to act like nothing was wrong and like the cute couple everyone thought us to be.

I stopped dead in my tracks in the middle of the store and wanted to fall to my knees and cry. Being in th middle of the store, I obviously didn't want to make a scene, but my friends noticed me walking in a daze. I chalked it up to the shots we took before we went to the store starting to hit me.

It hurts so much to think of it and to remember being a scared, violated 17 year old girl who didn't have the nerve to leave him or the ability to tell anyone out of fear that he'd hurt me or slander and discredit me. His mother worked as a guidance counselor for the high school we went to. She hated me because I was an average student and not a straight A valedictorian super athlete type. Certainly not good enough for her son. I would have brought more trouble on myself if I told anyone.

It stayed secret for 12 years from everyone, including myself. Even now, it chokes me up and upsets me...


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190101.

I've heard about people with repressed memories. Seriously I thought it was bullshit. How could a person not remember something that happened. But then I came across something with me.

Weird story. The summer when I was 17, just before heading off to college, I worked for a catering company. It was run by two gay guys. I scrubbed the pots and helped out at some events.

Separately, I was experiencing some biological distress. My butt hole would bleed on some days. It wasn't life threatening. It was only a little blood. But it hurt. I thought myself very clever for figuring out the cause. It was the mac and cheese. The caterer would make this really good mac and cheese for the events. I'd take the leftovers home. Next day, my butt hole would bleed. That was it. The mac and cheese. Whatever combination of ingredients they used would react with my butt. By the time I figured it out, summer was over and I was off to college. After that, no more bleeding. So I was right. It was the mac and cheese.

Thirty years went by. In that time I got married. Had kids. They went off to college. Just me and the wife at home again. We enjoyed having time to ourselves. We started experimenting a little sexually. All good.

One thing we did, I bought my wife a strap on dildo. I leaned on the bed with my feet on the floor. She penetrated me from behind. She asked if I liked it. I said yes. Then POW.

Like knock me over POW.

I suddenly had a vision of being in this situation before. There was a blond hair man. He was dressed in all white. We were in a car. Then we were out of the car. I was leaning on the hood. He was behind me. I remembered a flash of pain. It was his cock. It was up my butt. He moaned. He came inside me. It was a hot night. No it was a windy night. No it was a misty night. Oh it was several different nights.

Who was the man? It didn't come to me all it once. A few days later I pieced it together. The catering job so many years earlier. When the gay couple catered an event. They hired a gay friend to help with the cooking. He had blond hair. He wore the white chef's clothes. After the events it was late. Too late to walk home. He gave me a ride in his car. But we didn't go right home. We drove to the waterfront. He pulled a few beers out of his bag. We drank. Then I ended up leaning on the car hood with him fucking me.

The next day my butt was bleeding a little. It wasn't the mac and cheese from the event. That's ridiculous. How could mac and cheese make my butt bleed. It was him butt fucking me.

It wasn't a bad memory. It wasn't horrific. There were flashbacks of him sucking me off. It was mutual consensual sex.

It took me 30 years to remember. I had a girlfriend back then. We were sexually active. I had very straight-laced Christian parents. I was straight. I had to be straight. There was no other choice. I must have hidden away what I did out of guilt.

Before my wife did me with the strap on, if you asked if I believed in repressed memories, I would have laughed. But they are real. The human mind is amazing - the way it tries to protect us from ourselves.


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190100.

I could care less about you now.  I've found my happiness and I'm grateful you're forever gone from me.


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190099.

We will never bump into each other casually in the street, because you live in a different country than me, and that makes me feel so incredibly small. :{


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190098.

When you were mine, I loved you, but I was naive, and didn't love you as much as you deserved. After I cheated on you, my life flipped upside down. Nothing felt right anymore, I hated myself, I was at my lowest point ever to imagine and allow something like that to happen. I will never stop being sorry for it, and I will never forgive myself. I lost the only confidence I had, and killed the relationship that I wanted for the rest of my life.
It breaks my hurt. I keep breaking my heart by loving you when I know you deserve better.


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190097.

I fucked her in the ass at lunchtime. Then she went back to work. No shower. I loved thinking how my sperm was swimming around in her for the afternoon.


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190096.

Romantic movies make me want to cry because I know I'll never have a love like what you see on screen


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190095.

I tried to sit through a couple typical movies with her to make her happy, yet again I could barely understand the content.The psychosis makes so much that is so simple, simply incomprehensible. And impossible to enjoy.

She is so old. After she dies I will struggle but most likely lose the little she leaves to me because my body and my mind are controlled by the others, the otherness, the other worlds, the alternate timelines. I wander. Sometimes I can't leave my bed. Self care is not possible. I will probably die alone in the woods or the streets. Or worse.

I take my pills.


best  
190094.

Can't wait to fuck her husband tomorrow. She's so so stupid.


best  
190093.

I'll never understand why people are content being one of the 70,000 fans in a Stadium, rather than the Star onstage.


best  
190092.

I love the feeling of my balls making sperm.


best  
190091.

I absolutely love shopping for office supplies. It's probably my favourite kind of shopping.


best  
190090.

No matter how many times I get my heart broken I will alwasy believe in love because I love, love. It makes me happy to see others in love, I just hope one day I can have that too.


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190089.

I like it when I find someone like him, who looks dominant but is really submissive. It adds to the feeling of accomplishment when we're fucking and I feel the dynamic, that *I* am the one fucking *him*, not the other way around.

It gives me so much pleasure to see his eyes roll back into his head in ecstasy during sex. And how he's not shy about moaning to me about how good my pussy feels. He lets me have his body, and I'm very loving and sweet to him. When we fuck it's like he's losing his mind, and I'm in complete control.

His sex style is very intimate, for someone I haven't known for very long. That turns me on even more about him, that he immerses himself in sex, instead of being so concerned with the orgasm that he rushes through it, like SO many other guys. I think I'll keep this one around for a while...


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190088.

I like my job, but I'm getting really frustrated with the atmosphere there. Management keeps making horrible decisions that have decreased our overall efficiency by about 30%, and then they bitch because we "can't get the work done". Nobody ever fixes a problem, they just put a Band-Aid on it and keep on trying to limp to the finish line. We have more Band-Aids on stuff than the freaking Red Cross!

And the other two shifts, never put coolant or oil in the machines, leave the area a wreck, everything they do they get something wrong and I have to fix it before I can even start doing my own stuff. I've told the shift lead about this about ten thousand times and no one ever does anything about it.

I'm really tired of being the only one who does things. I feel like I'm everybody else's patsy and servant. And I'm sick of stressing out about shit they do. Last night I was just so pissed, I didn't do any housekeeping stuff either. Fuck it. Let the machines go dry. Let stuff sit there undone because I didn't feel like doing it. Let the area stay a mess. Let them figure out how to change a tool when some idiot has stripped out a screw (yet again). Let them set up for the next job. I'm sick of it.

Several people have already left because of these issues, and they can't hire or keep any new employees because it's gotten so bad. Well, I've gotten two calls from skilled trades placement agencies in the past week. If I find something, I'm out of there. Let them keep rearranging the deck chairs. I'm jumping ship.


best  
190087.

What kind of idiot name their network FBI surveillance van, seriously most likely wannabe hacker , loser who has no life and nothing better to do than just park on the library to use their free wifi and harass people.  Wannabes like you are not intelligent enough to get recruited by the FBI, keep dreaming.


best  
190086.

You cannot drink through your butthole. Not coffee, not alcohol. These substances need to be processed by your liver, which will filter out a whole lot of it. The unfiltered substance will most likely kill you. Hope everybody's having a nice day


best  
190085.

I want to befriend a large group of people. Just have everyone standing in a huge circle (about 100 people). Standing, and staring at all the people around them, gathered randomly.

Then I want us all to stay together for an eight week period. During this time, we would start to understand the kind of people that surround us (especially strangers).
I want to see if it will bring some humanity back. There is no sense of community, security, or friendly faces anymore. It saddens me.


best  
190084.

My boyfriend of seven years just broke up with me. He wants marriage and kids, I do not. We talked about it a lot. He finally said he couldn't wait for me. I understand. I wish him well.

My secret is that I'm sort of glad this happened. I love him. I always will, but I know he loved me more than I loved him. I felt so bad. I wanted to love him more, but deep down I know we were never going to be forever. I'm glad he pulled the trigger because I never would have.
I'll miss him. We were good together. But really I need someone who will accept me for me.

Plus, I need someone who is more aggressive in bed. He was too polite. I need someone to spank me, pull my hair, tell me what to do. I wanted to be more adventurous. Blow you in the car. Fuck in a bathroom stall. Push me against the wall and kiss me hard. Bend me over the kitchen table and give it to me. He would never do any of those things. I asked. Repeatedly.

I know I'll be ok. I'll get through this. I hope he finds someone to give him what he wants. I'll be just fine. I'm excited and nervous about the next part of my life. I'm in the hands of the universe. I can't wait to see what's going to happen.


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190083.

You want to know why I stopped talking to you, even looking at you at work? Here is the reason: I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU. I've been in love with you for years. I've been struggling SO HARD with my feelings for you all this time, and never told you, for a very simple reason: I know you DON'T care for me. And telling you my feelings would accomplish nothing but humiliate me, at work, and I don't trust that you would keep it to yourself. No, you'd tell your friends, and they would tell the whole building, and I'd be a laughingstock. I'm trying to hold on to what little dignity I have left here.

So I'm not talking to you and I'm not looking at you and I'm trying to avoid you as much as possible because I'm trying to GET OVER YOU.

You have no fucking idea how hard it is, knowing you are so miserable in your marriage, so miserable with your life, wanting to love you and give you everything you want, and knowing you don't want me. You want to be cared for, needed, desired... you just don't want that from me. You need someone better looking, more interesting, more witty... I know. That's not me. That will never be me.

It drives me insane working with you every day... wanting to reach out for you, to talk to to you, to laugh with you like we used to all the time. I hate this silence between us. I hate being so distant from you. But it's the only way I know of to keep from falling apart. I want to tell you so much. But I never will, because I already know... there's no point. It will only make things worse.


best  
190082.

High. Ahhh, better than pills.


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190081.

189946 - I'm MGTOW because i refuse to accept punishment for the behavior of the small percentage of men that are currently assholes to women or the larger percentage of men in the past who were assholes because they didn't know any better.  Women may have equal rights, but they sure as hell don't have equal responsibilities.  I'm taking a page from the female playbook and looking out for number one.


best  
190080.

I would take a sicklingy nice and sweet over an asshat . Who cares if those people might seem "incensire" or " fake better than being rude and a jerk.


best  
190079.

I have the opposite problem, but with the same end result. I try too hard to be nice to people. I want them to like me. In the end I come across as sickeningly sweet and insincere. People aren't too fond of me either.


best  
190078.

If you only knew the extent to which I wanna screw you


best  
190077.

I have a problem where I can't control what I say. I blurt things out in momentary anger.  Someone will mess something up and without thinking I'll say "You're a moron." I say it with a mean tone.

These are people I work with. I shouldn't say things like that. But I speak and two seconds later I realize I shouldn't have said it.

It's like a milder form of tourettes sydrome.

Needless to say, the people I work with aren't too fond of me.


best  
190076.

The soundtrack of my secret dreams includes some of the most amazing musicians and bands that ever made music:
Genesis, Yes, Crimson, Rush, Floyd, Zappa, Moodies, Proco, Tull.

Lamb Lies Down.... a monster masterwork.

With some noteable exceptions, IMO, the entire catalogue of popular music from 1978 onwards could be disposed into the garbage dump.


best  
190075.

Ugggggggghhhhhhh I got married
I am soooo stupid


best  
190074.

When I was a kid, my dad would lock my mother and I in the house if he had to go anywhere alone.  We were banned from going anywhere without him.


best  
190073.

My music tastes are still stuck in like 2011. Face it, the music was way frigging better. Great for parties. I turn on the radio today and don't recognize a god damn single song.


best  
190072.

I use to think turtle necks were so sexy... lmao


best  
190071.

My wife insists that I wear earphones when I listen to videos on the computer


best  
190070.

deleted


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190069.

I fucking hate pumpkin spice!


best  
190068.

My boyfriend likes those countdown videos on YouTube where they count down interesting things about a topic or facts or whatever. I don't tell him this but I hate those videos with a god damned passion. It's nonstop talking the entire video. Just yap yap yap. The speaker never slows down enough to take a breath. The constant barrage of words totally overwhelms me. (I have moderate/severe adhd and get overwhelmed easily.) It drives me nuts hearing this speaker drone on for 10 minutes NONSTOP. It's like god, shut up, just shut the fuck up.

This probably is really random but I had to suffer through 3 of those damn things before I made an excuse that I needed to go shower. How does anyone stand those stupid things??


best  
190067.

I want to move from New York to California. Perhaps SF because my company has an office there. But really, I want to move to Southern California... San Diego, Santa Monica, etc. So very, very chill.

I've never left New York though - so we'll see.


best  
190066.

I suddenly am finding myself deeply saddened by the 15 years I spent chasing what I thought would make me happy.  Drugs, women, booze, and especially all those extramarital trysts and the flirting I did.  None of that made me happy.  I'm sad because I now know how much happier my life would have been had I focused on the things that actually makes a person happy, like family and my relationships.  I wasted 15 years of my life substituting substances for happiness.  But I guess lessons are forever, and I'm glad I found this out only at the halfway point of my life.  I wasted 15 years instead of 50 years.  I should make the most of things from here on out.


best  
190065.

I'm getting my cat's ass shaved with my first paycheck. I'm sick and tired of seeing dingle berries hanging off her butt.


best  
190064.

I'm going to try to pour a little coffee in my butthole


best  
190063.

When I first started my career, I tolerated asshole bosses.  Being that I didn't know any better, I thought asshole bosses were the norm.  Bosses are supposed to lose their temper at you, question your intelligence, and blame their leadership problems on you, right?

25 years later, I'm out the door as soon as that first insult crosses the boss's lips.  Fuck those guys.


best  
190062.

I just want to work with nice people. I'd take a pay cut to work with nice people. I'm tired of dealing with these assholes where I work.


best  
190061.

I don't care anymore about catching AIDS. I'm old. If I become infected, old age will probably kill me first.


best  
190060.

My wife is a cannibal. She ate my soul. Some men marry their muse. Their wife inspires and encourages. Not my wife. She zaps my energy with her bullshit. I was so much more successful before I met her.


best  
190059.

190032, do it. it will be really hard and really scary but you should do it. you can always come back. I moved from Utah to New York, been here three months and i had only planned on moving since january. you can do it and you should. do it. it will change you for the better and if you're ambitious and put yourself out there to find a job you will get one. you can do it!


best  
190058.

In 2000, I had been trying unsuccessfully to quit chewing tobacco for years.  A buddy kicked the habit and told me his wife offered to give him a blowjob whenever he had an urge to dip.

I told my wife about it who informed me that I should want to quit for my family.

- M 46, writing this with a dip in my lip

P.S. Poopoo-ing... anal... I get it :)


best  
190057.

53 I'm the same way , worst part I'm a women . There's a reason I don't mind being on a sexless marriage and sleeping on separate bedrooms best part I don't miss sex , I think I'm become asexual.


best  
190056.

Silly, people thinking politicians have other than their own interests at heart. Don't be that person please.


best  
190055.

I cheated.

Sex disgusts me now.

I absolutely deserve it.


best  
190054.

I want to invite my mom, sis and bro and their families to Thanksgiving at my home. My husband was poopoo-ing the idea. He had a suggestion. He said if I did anal with him once a week until Thanksgiving, then he'd be in favor of inviting everyone.

Alrighty then. Thanksgiving will be at my home this year. My fam has no idea of the sacrifices I make for them. :)


best  
190053.

I lose interest in sex very quickly after sleeping with someone new.


best  
190052.

976, Ha, I know a guy by that name. He isn't the one who stabbed you--he's too old to be the one--but I could totally see him doing it.


best  
190051.

Health costs are destroying everyone. Soon I'm going to be paying more for health insurance than for rent. That's crazy. Where is the money going? Big pharma profits for sure. But I also see endless TV commercials for oddly named drugs. This is new. These expensive ads did not exist 10 years ago. Is it wise to even advertise drugs? Shouldn't the doctor decide what drugs you need. You shouldn't go into your doctor and tell him what drug to give you based on a TV commercial. That's silly. Stop the pharma ads and insurance costs will come down.


best  
190050.

I organized a coin drive for my child's classroom. Everyone was asked to bring in a handful of pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters from home. I figured every family has a bowl somewhere in the house filled with coins which will never be used, so why not give a handful to the school. It worked out pretty well. We ended up with about $80 which will be used for holiday parties. One thing though, some child, and I don't know which one, unwittingly brought in a handful of somewhat rare coins. There were buffalo nickels, mercury dimes, and silver quarters. I'm thinking a dad had a coin collection and this child helped himself. I'm waiting to see if any parent brings it up. Nothing so far. I don't think they realize what their child took. I'm feeling guilty as I write this. I should make an announcement to the parents.


best  
190049.

I'm so unhappy.


best  
190048.

I just want to go home to my kids & husband. I'm tired of traveling for work. I miss them so hard tonight.


best  
190047.

You often blame your family for the reason we are not together or ended, but really....it was your desire for men that you could never admit to...

I never understood that.  It is what it is.  You need a man. No big deal.  I understand.


best  
190046.

Take the chance. 15 years later I'm still in Boston and he's still out in L.A. Mine slipped through my fingers.  The what ifs kill me.


best  
190045.

I feel more like "myself" recently after making a concerted effort to distance myself from the news, social media, and just current events in general. Seems in this day and age, I can be informed and anxious or oblivious and mentally healthy. I'll choose the latter.


best  
190044.

190033 - Its not just "Obamacare". Keep watching.... the mandate will be gone and the insurance companies are already pushing prices through the roof.33% ever higher in other areas. Since there will no long be govt subsidies for the insurance companies, everyone but the uber uber rich and congress will suffer.


best  
190043.

I am about to do something illegal. If I get caught, my defense will be ignorance. I will tell them I didn't know it was illegal.


best  
190042.

My wife cheated on me. WHY AM I STILL IN THIS MARRIAGE? I have no valid answer. I should get the hell away from her. But here I still am, waking up next to her every morning. I hate her. I hate me.


best  
190041.

The pieces of my life are falling away like leaves. One small piece at a time. I think maybe it's a mercy.

I can't hear well anymore. On the rare occasions when people try to talk to me I usually can't quite catch all the words that they are saying. I try to interpolate from context but I always feel like I am not successful at it.

When I go out into the world I seem to be sliding along somehow, invisible and silent. I have trouble even believing that most of what I am seeing is real. I don't think I have any connection to it at all, as though I am not actually a human being, but only a mechanism wearing a human skin.

I can hardly taste my food anymore. I drank some milk the other day, and I was on my third glass before I finally realized that it was long past being soured. I only noticed because there were lumps in the bottom of the glass.

I don't think I am better than the world, I think I am just deficient. All the people around me seem to be authentically part of the stream of it, but I am not able to do that at all. I haven't dated in years, and I don't even miss it now. I couldn't imagine spending time with someone like that. I don't have the slightest idea what I could offer them. I don't even masturbate anymore.

It all makes me think of a pencil being sharpened. When I am done being whittled away, maybe that will be the end? I don't know. I lie in bed at night trying to imagine nonexistence, to dredge up some fear of it, but it doesn't bother me at all. I think I am ready to go.

I don't know why I turned out so badly. The thing I regret is how badly I will let everyone down who knew me. They all deserved better.

I thought typing this might be cathartic, but now it just sounds to me like bullshit whining, first world problems. Waaa waaa poor me. If I could get my shit together somehow everything could be fine. Oh well.


best  
190040.

One of the main figures who caused the 2007 world-wide economic meltdown, lives in a beautiful house in my town. I see him sometimes driving his fancy cars. He caused so much pain and damage to everyone else. I personally lost most of my 401k to his market manipulations. Yet he's still living the high life. Think about that next time you struggle to pay your mortgage. The bad guys really do win.


best  
190039.

Is there a Relationship status on Facebook for "In a relationship with: 2 cheating whore wives who sneak around on their husbands"  ?


best  
190038.

When I really needed her, she wasn't there. I'll never forget.


best  
190037.

I don't know why I'm mega obsessed with rubbing my dick to completion inside a pussy. It's like a mental illness on my part. It's all I think about. It's all I want to do.


best  
190036.

I can't wait to get married and come home to someone nice every day. Here's how married Friday nights would go in my world: we each get home from work, eat dinner, and watch some TV. After the first TV session, we smoke some weed or do some xanax or pain killers (not too high a dose. Just some pleasant impairment). Then we fuck and then we watch more TV and go to sleep.
-F19


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190035.

40 years old and he was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer.  He'll leave a young wife and two kids in elementary school.  I just don't know what to say except I am thankful it was not me.


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190034.

031 - Call the hospital billing office and work out a plan.  Tell them you can't afford to pay it.  They may try signing you up for Medicaid.  They'll likely write off a portion as uncompensated care.  There are options.  They don't like telling people this because they're trying to get as much of the cost recouped as possible.


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190033.

031- You have it backwards. The hospital must charge someone $4900 because of all the insurance companies paying far less than it's worth to perform certain procedures and the fact that most people without health insurance pay nothing at all. They never pay the bill. It doesn't bother them because their credit sucks anyway. Responsible people with good credit have health insurance. The guy who gets to foot the bill is the guy with insurance and a high deductible. Like mine, thanks to Obamacare I had to up my deductible to $7500 to be able to have reasonable premiums. I would have to pay the full $4900 and I would because I'm responsible. Guess what I'm the upper middle class American...the guy that ALWAYS foots the bill for the rich (see uber corporations like the insurance company) and the poor (see people with no insurance or people that got all their pre-existing issues covered by Obamacare because they would rather have a cell phone than health insurance) We are that guy that always gets the burden of financing this world we live in. We are the reason Trump is in office. We woulda voted for Mickey Mouse if he would stopped all the PC crap and tried to help us. We are tired of paying our own way and everyone elses!


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190032.

I'm considering moving to California with my old college roommate this March. Part of me thinks it's a stupid move, because she has $10K saved (she's been planning this for at least 3 years) and I have nothing saved, and no plan, and no idea what I would do when I got there. At most I could have $3K saved by that time, and I don't know how long that would give me to find another job.

On the other hand, this is the kind of opportunity that could change my life. I could finally focus on my art, and I wouldn't be so bogged down by the mundanity of Boston. I'd at least have someone with me, and she could help me out if I paid her back.

It's just one of those things where life is daring me to take a chance, and I don't know if I should do it or not with so little planning.


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190031.

I spent three hours at our local hospital Emergency Department.  Now I have the "bill" in hand.  Not a real bill, not something I must pay.  The total charges came to $4934.  I paid a $75 co-pay, Aetna paid $301, and the hospital "ate" the rest.  These numbers illustrate the injustice of our kaleidoscope medical billing system. The unfortunate person who has no health insurance pays $4934, often going into debt, sometimes going into bankruptcy.  If the hospital can make a normal profit for $376 why can't they charge everyone that same amount?  Why must they push some poor bastard into bankruptcy?!?

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190030.

I will never escape or break the cycle. All I know is jumping from the frying pan to the fire while telling myself that this time I'm finally escaping the abuse. I'm too old to learn new tricks. This is my fate in life: being controlled and ordered about and, and alienating anyone who could care with my inaction until they tell me to stop complaining. At my core I am a coward and I have had the will to stand up for myself in any way beaten out of me repeatedly over the years. All that's left is to continue suffering for the rest of my life. Or to just die.


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190029.

Please don't fall in love with her. It will kill me.


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190028.

I am so tired of being broke.  I feel like I have completely lost my ability to make money.  I work all the time.  I scour the house and sell unused things on Craigslist.  It still isn't nearly enough.  My wife and I make a combined 100k and I am white-knuckled every month. We're not spendy, don't eat out and barely buy enough food to make it through the week for us and 2 kids.  I keep asking myself how I got here.  
People always say follow your dream, but you know what? That altruistic phrase is total bullshit.  I was always creative growing up, love to build so I studied to become an architect. Everyone tried to talk me out of it.    I don't care about making money!  Do what you love!  Sounds great, right?  And now I watch as sport obsessed mooks I went to high school with make money hand over fist.  

I feel like a total failure.


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190027.

Im high.


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190026.

After completing rehab 8 years ago, I am starting to just now realize that I truly am an alcoholic. After a few months sober I relapsed and never looked back. I made excuses because I don't drink how I used to. I can't do this anymore. It's going to be a long, shitty road but it sure as hell beats this life I'm living now.


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190025.

I have never understood the obsession with facebook.
I have a page & visit it maybe 3 times a year around holidays to respond to holidays greetings thats all..


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190024.

For the last several days I have been brushing my teeth with bubble gum flavoured Star Wars toothpaste because I ran out of my regular toothpaste and I keep forgetting to buy more.

Good thing I have kids because they come with backup toothpaste.


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190023.

I have deleted my FB account. Oh, the freedom!


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190022.

My dogs hate my neighbor who lives in front of me, every time I take them out to go potty they look at his place( well his grandparents that let him live in their basement) and they start barking and growling . They don't act this way with other neighbors or people on general , if my dogs don't like you there's must be a reason behind , so I just I avoid him.


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190021.

Tonight is one of those nights when I m